What to do when he doesn’t want you anymore…

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[@jimpalmer204]

If he doesn’t want you anymore, you walk away, no drama, silently. And work on yourself and move on. 🙂 this was my lesson.

[@urScorpioLady]

Yessss!! 💯

[@Sharon-jg9ls]

100%. I’ve learned this the hard way many times. Men don’t understand words, they understand silence.

[@jimpalmer204]

@@Sharon-jg9ls this is profound right here! 💯 agreed.

[@ashleychanelle1997]

It’s not always that simple. Sometimes he doesn’t want you anymore but he still says he does, and he doesn’t leave you. And you take your commitment of till death serious and so you’re stuck in an unloving marriage not knowing what to do .

[@Sharon-jg9ls]

@@ashleychanelle1997 I’ve been there. You then have to decide who is most important and that’s you. Life is too short to be unhappy in a loveless marriage.

[@crystalox392]

“You can not live with other people controlling how you feel” I needed to hear that 💛

[@catcat9582]

I literally feel like it's someone else's loss if they don't want me now. Friends, men , jobs. I know that I have a stellar character & that its going to be impossible to easily find someone with my heart. Literally feel sorry for them

[@obengjemima6477]

You literally changed my perspective with this.Thank you so much.I’m glad you wrote this❤

[@g.s.632]

wallah my sister, sorry for their loss.🤍

[@user-jz6mu]

Thank you so much for this❤❤

[@downtown_kt]

Yesssss go girl 💪💪💪

[@lou15176]

This is theee best mindset shift that one can have. It takes away any longing or neediness by recognising yourself as “quality” and quality doesn’t “need” anything or anyone. They are the ones that are needed/missed x

[@designshop7264]

There are no benefits in friends with benefits. It often gets messy, one person gets attached

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

If it’s exes then you are both screwed. It can be beneficial but the communication needs to be extraordinary

[@danilaroche1156]

We don't do FWB & situationships at Camp Jesus.

[@judytamoongoddess]

What worked for me in the past is improving yourself and your life so you become a woman that is out of his league.

[@Lemthepoetofficial]

OMG listen up story time: I was married to a guy who actively chose other things over me and it felt like he didn't want me anymore repeatedly. We got divorced and years later same thing! "Let's get back together and I will pay more attention to you." We did and he again started acting like he doesn't want me anymore. Later I realized why ! Some men are with women for reasons other than love, sex. It could be simple because he doesn't want to be single. If you feel he doesn't want you anymore, this is the perfect opportunity for you to run off. Because he may keep sucking you back into a relationship where you feel unwanted repeatedly because he is with you for reasons other than love.

[@keylo2473]

So true 😢 and we need to accept this, it is what it is.

[@srishtishetty8578]

Thank you for sharing this, darling

[@busrakilic9075]

Yes I totally agree.. my husband started to get distant and was saying things like he married too young and very questionable stuff. But having sex with me. So i decided to separate and divorce. Life is too short. Why being married to someone who doesn’t even love you?

[@Lemthepoetofficial]

@@busrakilic9075 Cok uzuldum cidden aynisi ben yasiyorum. Amerikali Turk fark etmiyor sevgi yoksa sevgi yok. Ondan sonra tanistigim adam da tam tersi cok seviyordu beni sex cok iyidi ama kotu aliskanliklari vardi. Beni de alistirmaya calisiyordu. O da saglikli degil :/

[@H01143]

I spent two months not walking away and it hurt. I was still attached and he wasn't. Lesson learned the hard way.

[@danilaroche1156]

Same here. It was a serious relationship & I thought we'd marry. I fought to get him back but the reality was he suffered severe anxiety & OCD. Eventually I learned not to take it personally. He's a great guy struggling with mental illness (demons).

[@bumblebee_ms]

"Don't hate the player, change the game" (by: Wenzes, YT).

[@takinajowens101]

Enjoy your freedom & know that everything isn't mutual. Never allow anyone to waste your time nor simply choose you. You deserve to love and be love in a healthy relationship not something one sided. Congratulate him on his revelation and support his departure by protecting your peace. All is and will be well for all.

[@Miss_hells_bells]

"What's the benefit? His pee pee?"💀💀💀😂

[@dragonflymagictarot]

😅😂😂😂 valen verga

[@gitanjalisharma2968]

😂

[@miava1031]

And it’s often a whee whee that doenst know what to do

[@LosAngelesLaura]

“What in the chupacabra is this!?” 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@izabelazielak8963]

Shhh….maybe she recognizes the fact that ………🐣

[@malindateal14]

She’s adorable. She comes up with a coolest little sayings

[@LalaKruger79]

😂😂😂

[@snowwpea]

If he doesn’t want you anymore, you stalk him like crazy, “casually” show up wherever he is, fake a nervous breakdown and go to the hospital until he finally decides he doesn’t want to live with the guilt of making you suffer and you manipulate him into being with you unwillingly. Seriously though, I have seen women do this before and it worked. Crazy right? Desperation is insane. If he doesn’t want you, you graciously walk away and live your life. Move on and forget about him. Keep your dignity, no matter what.

[@Danken4]

Applying in both side when a woman shows any resistance walk away and never take her back same to women

[@miava1031]

Latin women do this. Watch telenovelas 😂

[@happy2bhere706]

5 hours ago wow! This channel is free therapy for me.

[@user-kl8cm8nt8x]

Timing is everythinggggg

[@TechSav18]

I can't believe I'm here this early. Divine timing is everything. God bless you and your family. 💜💜💜

[@jerrodbulgin2261]

When I saw your thumbnail I thought, "Now that's a woman there! Attractive, genuine, smart!" I'm just teasing with you though... Keep doing what you're doing! The youth need your wise teachings!

[@susanfletcher258]

I'm so proud of you, I remember when you made videos with your mom, who i love!

[@kerrymillar1267]

The first 6 minutes are absolute gold, thanks for sharing. I definitely externalise, I guess all anxiously attached people do.

[@ttejegi]

Can’t wait for your book Margarita, you’ve helped my journey so much with becoming less anxiously attached 💕💕

[@nickiefellow4787]

The timing wow 🥹🥹🥹

[@velicah9848]

Every video you make helps me so much!!!! thank you Margarita! i love how you talk and all the value you give in every video.

[@couldbehafsa]

I had extremely anxious attachment... Then he avoided me so long that I turned into a b*tch😅😅😅... Now I'm playing his games and he's obsessed with me...and most importantly..I'm calm❤but i learned that healing one own self is the only secret of Lasting relationships...

[@paulinawalpen2570]

Can u maybe mention how u behave now?

[@andreavic]

I’m curious!

[@blancarodriguez1340]

Oh how I wish to be you 😩❤ Love this for you girly!

[@Seraphina93]

@@paulinawalpen2570not her but: know all that pain and anger u felt when he pulled away? Know where it belongs? With him. Tell him, let it all out on him, be snarky, be angry, cry/ rage (u know what I mean be less Ariana Grande and more Olivia Rodrigo w him). Just kick him verbally in a non-abusive way. Examples: „I missed u“ „uh huh. Why’d you leave?“ „I’m sorry I said x“ „why’d u say it then?“ „Reason x is why I left“ „I’m only 50% of this relationship I am not working on it alone“ etc etc. Treat him like a dog in training, but angry. Let it all go.

[@monakool1708]

@@paulinawalpen2570if you really want to play someone,be indifferent towards them(don’t be rude).That’s half of the game.Be always ready to walk away if something bothers you.No emotional attachment(that’s possible only if you are circular dating).Focus on your life and goals. Be selfish as hell. Men love selfish women. I know it’s toxic but it’s better to accept that we live in toxic era

[@SheSoForeign]

Thank you - I needed to hear this

[@Xaali95]

Love your energy and personality, margarita. Thanks to youtube algorithm that brought me here🤎

[@Julie-eq8zu]

Amazing video as always! The ferrari metaphor was life changing for me and completely changed my vision and mindset about my current situation! Thank you🥰

[@Meburns311]

Mama marggg thank you so much I love watching your videos your voice is so calming

[@meetandinspire]

"Life is essentially a game, and if you don't want to play games, how can you win at life?"

[@danilaroche1156]

Jesus saves. To the devil..life is a game but to Jesus life holds great significance & purpose. Know that.

[@libramacky9335]

thanks for reminding me again as always ❤

[@palosantoxxi]

you and your advice are GOLDEN! thank you:)

[@socol76]

I’m not an auditory learner so I preordered your book on Kindle instead of audible. Can’t wait to read it

[@Illuminatelove36]

Thank you for this profound healing

[@kaylareeder4449]

I am so excited for you and your dreams coming true!!

[@BritneyMontes17]

Thank you for the digestible facts of attachment ✨I wish you were my family member I just love your advice and energy 🤍

[@NawrasMatee7]

im so proud of you ❤

[@MM-kq9ip]

Hello Margarita! Could you please do a videos with advices for women in their early 30s specifically? (Relationships, self-care, anti-aging, reaching goals...) Thank you!

[@kelly.nicole]

SHES ON FIRE!! 🔥🔥

[@ACMkirby]

30s video suggestion. Would love to hear your advice on how to prepare for your 30s

[@olumcul4970]

watch sex and the city

[@noanoa8991]

@@olumcul4970worst thing she could do. I used to watch when I was 20, rewatched a few weeks ago as a 30 year old and realized these women were full of red flags and I didn’t even notice when I was 20. Made me cringe!

[@j_constance]

Second this! 30+ here... single and dreaming about a relationship. Feeling so stressed and behind, dating apps are horrendous. Any advice is so appreciated needed 🤍

[@meetandinspire]

@@j_constance I believe it's best to meet people offline. I know women older than you who met their partners simply by putting themselves out there, meaning living their best life and doing all the things they love doing. You're most magnetic when you're happy.

[@aestheticedits7109]

You look like scarlett johansson ❤😊

[@LaNoire27]

Yeah, she does.

[@sara.e.1111]

Yes! Celeb twin

[@sukyp1950]

Definitely! Yes, she does 👌

[@starlightskiestarot]

Healing my attachment style and my cptsd ...thank you

[@dani5639]

You are gorgeous . I always enjoy your videos

[@MilenaStojilkovic]

Haha, love your view on the friends with benefits thing 😂

[@Shereelouise86]

I was “discarded” recently by someone who I believe is a narcissist or at the very least toxic as hell. The “relationship” was causal and all on his terms, of course I thought that I could “win” him at some point -ha! The last thing he said to me was how pretty his new chiropractor is and I should be jealous… Your advice has been invaluable for me. I knew nothing about anxious attachment before I watched your videos. I feel like I understand myself so much better and why I put up with such terrible treatment for 2 years. Thank you so much!! 🙏🏻

[@monicalewis-schmidt8821]

I have get your book. Real talk

[@gablillyjay]

mother has spoken ❤

[@anamaria-db7pq]

thank ya, big sis

[@grahamlangley4856]

You manifested too hard and it broke the shower screen 😂🎉❤

[@herserenehighnessm]

!!!

[@lollya5692]

Hi Margarita, Will your new book be available on Audible? ❤

[@monikaleszko5343]

Lmao. What’s the benefit!? Yup What’s a benefit his pee pee. No thanks

[@charitylove3453]

I'm mind blown 🤯

[@sagenosnibor9173]

I don't try to convince him any further, I gave all I had to give and if it wasn't enough then, it won't be now. Let them leave, they are not obligated to stay and nothing is forever. Enjoy the season and be ready to say goodbye when goodbye comes. Wish all my exes well ✌🏾

[@chilloften]

Porn is infidelity. Treatment as such.

[@YanaWanderlust.]

No it's not

[@chilloften]

@@YanaWanderlust. it is betrayal. An addiction. Intimacy disorder. If her partner is watching daily I would suggest Kristen Snowden here on KZbin to her to get an understanding.

[@somintsothresh919]

@@YanaWanderlust.how not

[@pamyang11]

Can we order your book to the US? I didn’t see that option. :(

[@royronson8872]

Pulling solvation from mystery might be key to ego Mystery requires privacy

[@gablillyjay]

as a virgo mercury grade is woooooping my a**

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Love that baby table behind you OMG! Haha❤

[@monikaleszko5343]

Margarita… the man I was casually seeing for three months and hasn’t replied to my text in over 48 hours. My secure attachment style is super repelled from this and I think the old anxious me would have reached out to him but I don’t believe that doing so is what I want to do because it feels like I’m chasing and he’s running, can I get your thoughts? 🙏

[@monikaleszko5343]

I think he’s avoidant or Just non commital and I think texting him is desperate energy lol

[@Jessievera]

Wow impressed you haven't reached out. Or reacted in your anxious attachment. I would try to self sooth and then see your options and how you would feel after acting on them whether it's not doing anything or reaching out.

[@user-qg4he8mj1r]

Hey it could be that he just forgot to answer. But i would Not Text him. Simple reason: if he likes you, then he will text you After some time on it self. And if dont, you can See that he is Not that interested in you. So you dont Need him. There Are better for you!!❤️and live your life!! Dont Wait on him

[@AutismTheaterProject]

I say if it bothers you and seems to be part of a pattern, point it out at your next opportunity. But first ask if something happened/somethings going on that didn't allow him to respond. Bc if you ignore it, and you're not okay with his behavior, you may give him the wrong impression. He might convince himself you're OK with it. And then your own resentment could build up...

[@YanaWanderlust.]

You may send him just ONE casual text message like "Hi, did not hear from you for the last 4-5 days. Hope you are fine". And just leave it there. See what he will reply. If nothing...well it's the answer. If he goes back with some rubbish like "I am fine tnx" - well it's also the answer. So just move one.

[@oceanahealer]

Darling your content has a lot of values and lots of Wisdom, pls don’t use Better Help as an sponsor … that’s a shady company and not a good company for therapy , thank you

[@sashay404]

Adore your videos! Thank you! I feel so lost

[@kelly.nicole]

I did too but I don’t anymore listening to her she’s amazing.

[@sashay404]

@@kelly.nicole Am I just self sabotaging? He's not even someone I would want to recommend to a friend. I'm an independent woman but find myself helping him and it's not a two way street.

[@user-xz6yf8ki8l]

“What in the chupacabra is this?”😂

[@wggio]

Accept it and move on?

[@OGgiirl]

What does the title have to do with the video?

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Awe baby. Well pray for your protection and your angel baby always healing and love. They tumble a lot at his age. Take him to chiro after those falls to get him adjusted. Rescue remedy under his little feet. Breastfeeding will chill you both out if you’re still doing that. Nutritious food angel. Blessings and hugs mama. Always prayers. Ooahh

[@leeche87]

How do you have such perfect skin ? Is it filter !

[@Itsamantha111]

A genetic filter 😂

[@shaniamistry]

I wanna know what to do when he wants you back and you don’t feel anything for him anymore 😂

[@victoriaissakova7109]

You’re 🎯

[@annette5455]

Is there pre-order for the audiobopk on audible? ❤

[@Ms21stCentury]

Yeah, there is. The New Rules

[@annette5455]

@@Ms21stCentury is there a link to it? In her description box I only see her Amazon hardcopy book preorder 😓

[@alinas6192]

What if he doesn't offer relationships after 3 months of dating? We didn't hug, didn't kiss as I don't accept it within realationships status and while he is still on the dating app.Should I initiate a conversation or what should be my further actions?

[@av3ngers17]

wait. you're dating and he's still using dating apps? something doesn't add up. but if that's the case or not, either way you're not his first choice/ his dream girl and you're just there as a filler while he waits for the woman he really wants

[@Itsamantha111]

Don’t waste your time! Do what you enjoy and be too busy to notice what he is doing.

[@ashleychanelle1997]

Girl if you’re only dating run and be free! Do not date an anxious attachment it hurts too much.

[@GHO5tMod3]

WALK ❤

[@girlymel2323]

The plastics in our food and water is affecting hormone levels causing a lot of issues for young men

[@RubyWahid]

The pee pee😂

[@ashleychanelle1997]

I just don’t know why it’s wrong to want reassurance or comfort or closure after an argument.

[@amandasplit]

I want to be you !

[@svlagonda7417]

Better Help are garbage.

[@CF.]

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[@mareyana1111]

😍😍😍

[@izabelazielak8963]

We love You,Pocahontas 🐣💭🦈

[@user-ds8fq8cp2f]

He took money,closed the account and I have been in er sick

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[@milarepa1234567]

If a guy is into porn, though, it's only going to get worse. Don't walk, run.

[@michellescherer7858]

omg get to the point like

[@safiahere3386]

I wish you wouldn't talk about your problems as it gives negative energy

[@reacting_to_stuff_]

I wish you didn’t bring up new age ideology into this, like energies etc

[@jessgirr1728]

Energy cannot be created or destroyed. It's real. It's everything. Literally.

[@lorifayson7588]

Omg I love your book so much I have shared it with my friends and my daughter…Thank you ❤️‍🩹I’m on the other side of the bullshit and I wake up happy because I’m happy..and happily single

[@taraleightaracumming6726]

what’s your audio book about?

[@Dr.Wolfstar]

[@jakdee4732]

Keep sharing, i like your accent British English you speak very fast., i hope someday you try another angle of your cam to see your full beautiful body😁, am your followers Marga beautiful iloveyou❤ can you please make a topic on your next vlog on Benifits on watching PORN and Masturbation😂😂😂