Why Meeting Simon Cowell Was Weird

[@Oberatous-Udurabas]

It’s interesting because whenever I watched the X factor he would never be specific with his criticism he would only say you’ve got the worst voice or you have talent to win. He never would comment on dynamics, breath control, emotiveness

[@JamesFluker]

Well he's not a vocalist or a vocal teacher. He's someone who's very good at developing an artist and developing a brand for them.

[@Oberatous-Udurabas]

@@JamesFluker true but I feel like as a judge he should know more about vocals so he can give them feedback rather than insulting them but then again he’s kind of there for entertainment/ the drama he brings

[@ladycarmillasanguina]

@@Oberatous-Udurabas sometimes he does if you look all the way back to idol as well. But, as you know, the industry has evolved beyond just good vocals.

[@cupidok2768]

i wish i get winks and extra things. it's work

[@selenaram333]

I've heard of this type of behavior in the music industry, it's really bad. Like you said, especially for women, what they require them to do in order to so that may continue to stay at the top. That's why if I ever make it in the music industry, I have to be very careful, like Jewel did. She made it without all of that. I did not know if Simon Cowell was like this, but he's definitely been in the music industry for a long time, so I knew it was a possibility. Whether he meant it to be really obvious or just a compliment, I guess only you know. And I see some comments on here saying oh you did this or whatever. What are you supposed to do? There's cameras everywhere, you're on stage, and the other judges are there, so on and so forth. I think you handled it in the way it should be handled. And sometimes it is the way it is. Can't change it.

[@havmercy2349]

Simon is covertly flirting and being "ew" and she didn't want to offend him by showing her disgust smh The industry is CRAZY and the pure spirits need to be protected at all costs!

[@lisaalderman8567]

Thanks for the honesty, and you have a beautiful voice 💓

[@Tarasimonstudios]

Thank u love

[@melissamayhaps8990]

I saw him on a red carpet once, the kind were you have to walk past a ton of photographers. I went I tell you, that man winked at every single one of them, male or female, every interviewer and everything. I remember being winks weird me out in general, so I am sympathetic you had to endure so many of them. 😖

[@dustinathearn8808]

Wait what’s your point? That him winking is just him being normal and nice? Or that he’s a creep that winks at everyone? The former seems to be more likely..

[@cbrend22]

as a woman in the music industry?? That happens to women everywhere

[@evamathebula4448]

She was talking about her experience in the industry. She didn't mean that women not in the industry don't experience such. Chill... Comprehension

[@mynotificationsareoff..goc358]

​@@evamathebula4448 woosh. Right over your head. Op was saying that it happens to women all the time so it's not that unexpected. 🤦‍♀️

[@anasebe3754]

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[@dustinathearn8808]

Ngl this lady seems to be milking this and making some of this stuff up about X factor to get attention idk

[@_fadingcolors]

What about Britney spears though?

[@Ivaorz]

Yeah

[@MsVitaD]

She answered this one already

[@_fadingcolors]

@@MsVitaD Someone's late to the party lol

[@chrisenteri1578]

I wouldnt consider auditioning for his reality tv show as working with him. Unless u were in the live shows

[@mamajen365]

I've always thought he was a bit creepy... and grumpy... he's like the Gordon Ramsey of music... 😅

[@sethelturk7375]

Please please please do Christina Grimmie next

[@BH-iq3ic]

Why do you think, that Simon is the kind of person that he is?

[@olgademar1742]

🤍

[@LostinFrance626]

Simon is a creep, he takes the young girls and destroys them.

[@JohnnyJitsu11]

Oh yeah, love your proof.

[@LostinFrance626]

@@JohnnyJitsu11 Grace VanderWaal. They molested her, it destroyed her. That’s why she was the winner, they go after people they can take advantage of.

[@krob2327]

Sadly that’s showbusiness. It’s sadistic

[@strxzx]

Interesting

[@Elon54321]

You wingy winger

[@drmorcoch9338]

he likes pretty women like me.

[@andreachavez3603]

You’re a very beautiful woman I think it only happens to those kinds of women lol

[@ilovehorses5714]

He doesn't impress me.

[@williamjeffreys9228]

What?😂

[@lukejoseph1867]

U loved it an was greatful for it stop crying poor tale... cringe trying to start something , won't happen... you took it in your stride alright ... u wanted to win...

[@RM-ks8hz]

I just can’t get over the makeup

[@nainagujral]

This man disgusts me so much. I'm sorry that happened to you.

[@mrsmack5808]

Legs and chest hanging out and then annoyed by attention. Two way street. Just sayin. Both sides need to take responsibility for themselves.

[@evamathebula4448]

Are you saying she deserved it because of that? It's not even showing like that foh. Would u rather she wear a hijab and a burqa

[@lifeofaseven]

I've literally been on my worst day PMS feeling horrible baggy oversized wrinkled clothes messy hair didn't care And still got an attention... While minding my own business pumping gas not asking for it I mean I get it there are times and places for very low cut shirts for women I don't think women should necessarily go around like that all the time there are appropriate places for it and then there are less appropriate places but What are they going to do with their legs? What would someone suggest that they do with their legs? I mean should we remove our legs? Women can't have legs anymore? I mean if it's hot summer time, do we need to suffer and sweat... Wear long pants or very long skirts where we're burning up? Should they not be allowed to wear shorts and skirts and things like that? I'm just a little confused as to what they would do with their legs? You said legs hanging out LOL I don't know it's just like wow these days women really need to fold up, just curl up in a little ball and hide themselves and be really afraid and that's just crazy to me no what I think is human beings should probably be pretty much desensitized to the fact that we all have body parts we have legs we have butts and some of them are very big butts and we have chests and we have other things I think people should probably just go on about their business like so what and keep it moving It's only the people that make fools of themselves drooling all over people like that and making attention to it they should be responsible for that!!! It's almost like... Okay so what somebody has a stomach, they had a head of hair, All women have chests and legs and teeth and faces and hands and arms and all kinds of things so what And some women have it all covered up and some women don't but still yet by now in society people should be over it I mean historically people actually walked around like that at all times completely nude And In some cultures they still do or barely covered up They don't even notice each other's body parts But I get it in our society we're not like that and we're used to being all covered up and some people really freak out when they see somebody who's not all covered up But here's what I think I think if those people would stop freaking out and calling attention and giving it extra attention Then it wouldn't be as big of a deal anymore, and you never know some women may get bored with dressing scantily and just quit doing it all together!?? I don't really care either way Sometimes I like to just dress for me, with a certain personality certain things I find fashionable or cute make me feel good Sometimes I don't feel like dressing up at all and sometimes I like to dress more sensual and show my body a little bit no big deal I don't think we're ever going to stop people in the world from doing certain things... As far as their own body and their own clothing and things like that but what we can change is our reactions to it... And men and women both can practice self-control, as far as basically just minding their own business when someone looks a certain way To me it's kind of the same thing if I see someone in public who looks different than me in any way Anything they may have purple hair or they may be handicapped, or they may be missing a foot Or they may just have something different about them I'm not going to fall all over myself staring at them or drooling at them or making weird commentary to them about it No I'm just going to go on about my business finish the conversation or walk on past them I don't know I don't see why people have to make such a big deal over things LOL I'm sure Simon sees hundreds and hundreds of women's chests every day... I don't think it should be that big of a deal he's probably desensitized to that.. But the legs I don't know I've never heard that one before

[@mrsmack5808]

@@lifeofaseven literally all I'm saying is there is one purpose for crawling around in a skirt and low cut top. When a woman is dressed modestly and a man is a creep it is ALL on him. BUT when a woman is advertising something she shouldn't be so quick to blame only the men who are looking or the men who respect her enough to tell her to cover it. She is putting on a show in more ways than one.

[@mrsmack5808]

@@evamathebula4448 I actually just said both parties need to take responsibility for their own actions. She's not wearing a crew shirt and jeans. She's advertising herself and then getting mad when someone shows interest. She literally crawled around on stage in a low cut top and mini skirt. Just what kind of attention does a woman hope to attract dressing like that? It used to be that an ungodly man would roll down his window with some cash for a woman in that attire. He knew what she was selling and she knew what he was after.

[@_fadingcolors]

@@lifeofaseven tldr

[@Bimby-b]

It sounds like you're enabling his behaviour, "what that was" was inappropriate and what happens when we don't call it out is everyone turning a blind eye to it and worse. Its how Harvey Weinstein was allowed to be so disgusting "it's all part of the game".

[@JohnnyJitsu11]

Bruh cmon lol are you kidding me right now. “You’re enabling, it’s not him” lmfao. You sure your name isn’t misspelled? She is sharing her experience, like who are you to even contradict something she experienced and yet you never even witnessed.

[@tapdancingrabbits124]

Things predators say when they wanna lay the blame of their actions at somebody else feet.

[@Bimby-b]

@@JohnnyJitsu11 I said she's enabling him, he's disgusting in his own way but enablers shouldn't be ignored.

[@JohnnyJitsu11]

@@Bimby-b Straight assumption, you weren’t even there to even speak it. So shhhh hush it.

[@Bimby-b]

@@JohnnyJitsu11 omg yeah that's totally fine, we should just shush and let him get away with it.

[@mikecook4298]

and he's white so ..... not your type

[@Grandmamacita]

I could care less if you worked with Simon Cowell. You've turned me off with the name dropping.

[@warehousejo007]

​@@Grandmamacita wonder why the 411 was necessary.

[@bethtravis7142]

I think you didn't needed him he seems to flirt with all the beautiful woman he needs you now to help many others your better than that you look beautiful today and that song in the gym was awful

[@johnbethell1952]

​@CJ Evans good riddance

[@GenX-Rising]

I'm guessing she lost the competition. She says she worked with him but when she talks about him, she compliments him, then strokes her own ego thinking she's the only person he's ever winked at. He does it to everybody. He never laid a finger on you and you're crying victim like he harassed you cause you think he's an opportunist winks and smirks.

[@tofuwiener]

what the... she isn't crying victim, this was a very tame video