WHY MEN ARE INTIMIDATED BY YOU!! (REAL $HIT)

[@BreenyLee]

HELLO MY LOVES!!!! THIS WAS A HARD ONE TO MAKE BECAUSE IT REQUIRES PERSONAL ACCOUNTABILITY FIRST!! LETS CONTINUE TO BE STRONG, POWERFUL AND INFLUENTIAL WOMEN ❤️ ps. What should my next topic be? Watch till the end to decide xxx

[@purplepinkbabe]

Breeny Lee My biggest question is that I completely understand and agree 100% with your perspective, but how do you continue to have faith you’ll find the right guy? For me I’m 24 so I have time and have hope and patience it’ll happen and I’m completely over settling, but what about the women who want families and a man and are 40+. What is your advice for what seems like time is ticking?

[@Kierradaniellee]

Breeny Lee self sabotage/procrastination! Great video, thank you 😊 really made me look within myself

[@veramartins6590]

you should do a video about "Why are you intimidated by men" and how to change that mindset idk ofc low self esteem topic again but useful still

[@Ofentse_Rapoo]

Self love🍹❤

[@danai3630]

Affection please ❤️

[@renatapereira4652]

Your value does NOT decrease due to someone else’s incapability to see you worth ....

[@hao_9388]

If nobody else sees your value maybe you're over evaluating yourself?

[@p.r.9982]

Amen! Just like race doesn't determine your value, neither does gender 😊

[@wiktoriawabnyc]

Agreed

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Amen

[@mulekahkabongo2799]

yes!!!!

[@clarissastevens4915]

"I have accepted that I'm too much for some people"

[@amasion2882]

Clarissa Stevens : And this is applicable to all relationships, not just romantic ones.

[@kahlilsykies9139]

What makes you too many for some people?

[@pressurebusspipesmakesdiam1366]

So your for sale?

[@annika9348]

@@pressurebusspipesmakesdiam1366 true that's what it sounds like

[@Crystal4Clear]

Same sis.

[@TaeTae-cv9xz]

"The reason why men and women are different is so that their strengths compliment each other, not compete." yessss!!!

[@yasminali2034]

💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽😩

[@galaxy_rae]

i see you tae 🤔

[@markfromtinder9616]

last i checked nagging and fatness doesnt compliment me

[@ghettosage7338]

@Rolston Mayers y'all men always talk about money

[@dayinibatrisyia5424]

wise word tho

[@lacitafleming]

“You cannot put yourself on the sales rack because a man refuses to pay full price for you.” So impactful! Thank you for your true wisdom and sharing your experiences so that we gain even more self love 🙏🏾❤️💫

[@raregrimebeats1352]

Well she should, what man is going to pay full price for something that was used for free by dozens of men and is now 2nd hand ?

[@tyestancil2783]

@@raregrimebeats1352 Savage lol!

[@TheHonestTruth]

@Flaccid Clitoris Quean not Queen Bru That comment was way outta line homie. She may not be your cup of tea but thats about as bad as a comment and insult that you can give a black person. I am a MGtow as well and I disagree with all of what this woman says. But for you to call her an orangutan is on another level bru. With a name like yours I cant expect you to honestly give 2 fucks but as a black man I couldnt let this comment go without a response.

[@thereisnopandemic]

Lacita Fleming you’ll be self loving yourself to an old spinster if you buy into the video blogger bullshit.

[@chingching579]

Then go trick. I am sure there are alot of Johns waiting.

[@littlelight4986]

„When he says you’re too good for him, RUN” sooo true

[@sochidala8093]

Why?

[@foreverblessed6443]

My ex fiance always tell me that. I stupidly tried to reassure him 😩

[@Slaymayas]

Ex

[@JeBaSIINGH23]

Guilty of dating down!! He just brought my whole aura down.

[@cruisecontrol4922]

Ofcourse now you will keep on trading up

[@xmangel6052]

what do you mean you "Dating down"? Was it his career, status, height, income, physical Fitness ? Was it his confidence or self-esteem? Or was it his personality? Was he a Nice guy, was he an Asshole? There is so many things that could mean...

[@legume2316]

Angel Mata he was probably an asshole

[@ha4b635]

Aura...?? The fuck is yall talking about?? Yall swear yall be glowing.

[@j.inkstv]

Now you know how most men feel regularly. If you don't date down that means you're automatically admitting that you will always be below your partner. Just think about that.

[@eugeniyah8078]

I believe that the man that the Most High has in store for you will never be intimidated by you. In fact, he will either meet your requirements/match your standards or he will exceed them 💁🏾‍♀️

[@butterflymage5623]

Yahuah Is My Everything it’s not about your standards/requirements that will turn a good or high quality man off though. Of course if you guys don’t match each other it’s a no go. But it’s the mentality that can come with it. No man wants to compete against the world all day and then come home and compete with you. Just like you shouldn’t want to compete with him. You’re supposed to be each other peace, safe space. a place that, while not always perfect, you can let your guard down and chill and be you as much as possible.

[@eugeniyah8078]

DeWayne Phoenix Of course. It’s not about competition between the two sexes. I meant that if you know your value as a woman and you respect and know the value of a good man and then you will complement each other well to the point where nobody’s intimidated. If y’all know what y’all bring to the table and there’s no egotistical behavior involved then y’all will be great together.

[@jamesparker722]

Lol “ meet your requirements”?? That doesn’t sound narcissistic and arrogant to you?? Geeze lol

[@eugeniyah8078]

James Parker No, it doesn’t. If colleges and jobs can have standards and requirements that they want us to meet, then so can someone who takes marriage seriously 💁🏾‍♀️

[@jamesparker722]

Yahuah Is My Everything a real man doesn’t worry what a job or college thinks though sis, that’s a programmed person

[@catsareawesome791]

My ex actually said I intimidated him at the beginning of the relationship, and then when he broke up with me said 'you deserve better than me'. Too many red flags I just didn't see them.

[@majakrcelic1078]

Same.

[@philipclyde7472]

Lie,he left you coz you were horrible

[@bnatrl88]

The same thing literally happened to me!

[@nicolesaunders081]

Going through this right now

[@Masterdeber]

Why is that a bad thing though? Like he telling you your worth so he don’t waste anymore of your time. That’s better than if he jus cheated

[@Divine_dialogues2]

“I’m not too expensive, you just can’t afford me” Me: screams “period”🤣‼️💯& *likes the video*

[@j.inkstv]

So women are supposed to be a transaction?

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

so women are suppose to be walking bills ?

[@Divine_dialogues2]

@@TopFlightSecurity415 no lol. When you have a certain lifestyle, why be with someone who doesn’t match that ? When you’re successful and reached where you want to be in your life. Be with someone who’s on the same level , so if you’re someone who prefers to go to fancy restaurants (which are expensive) you wouldn’t want a guy to offer you let’s say McDonald’s as a date (didn’t say it’s bad thing but I think you get where I’m going with this)❤️

[@Divine_dialogues2]

@@j.inkstv No, however if a lady walks in the building and you can tell you’re just not on her level , you simply wouldn’t approach her. It doesn’t have to be about the money. It can even be based on how she carries herself, you get what I mean ? I noticed guys sometimes feel comfortable with girls who don’t have higher standards.

[@arturlisboa8156]

If you cannot pay for it yourself then it isn't YOUR lifestyle, i would get the point if the guy you're with NEVER takes you to good/expensive places, but if you get mad cause your man is responsable with HIS money and doesn't wanna blow HIS savings giving YOU gifts/expensive food that you wouldn't aford by yourself then you're just delusional about your own finacial situation

[@tia3521]

Narc men say you're too good for me hoping that you'll lower your standards....when I hear that I agree then block... standing in my power and loving myself first. Great video!

[@bhuvhggcuj8294]

Tia As a men all I can say is that these men arent motivated to accomplish sth in life

[@arnelabih1845]

Tia hahha this happend to me one time one told me I had a picky high standards hehe.

[@africanman1152]

Because they want to dump your ass

[@madmax209]

"Narc men say you're too good for me hoping that you'll lower your standards....when I hear that I agree then block... standing in my power and loving myself first. Great video!" Nar·cis·sist : a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves. "narcissists who think the world revolves around them"

[@dimetriwatt7334]

@@madmax209 I think she is mental or just don't understand who exactly a narcissist is.

[@Nasrumii]

I just BLOCKED and DELETED a man that told me he felt like I was too good for him. this isn’t high school go somewhere else with the bull.

[@MelaninMagdalene]

Omorose Outkast Idk what he was seeing. Your comment reads like you stress niggas out🤣

[@MelaninMagdalene]

Shit, you can go ahead and block and delete me too if you want🤣

[@tainanicolas3490]

Would that be the same as when a guy tell you “ I’m not good enough for you “ ?

[@magzlomeli6110]

A scary man's way of saying you not the one...plenty of fish in the sea tho. 🙏

[@ClowneryAtItsFinest]

An ex told me THAT I DIDN'T NEED HIM FOR ANYTHING.He turned out to be a pain in my ass! I know better now!

[@t.6071]

Remember girls, there’s a difference between strong independent feminine women and strong independent masculine women.

[@BLohr707]

Princess Tee Thank you! That’s what I think was missing in this.

[@tinamakoni1105]

What’s the difference please tell me

[@malhunt7]

@@tinamakoni1105 look up her video how to be feminine. Also look up how to increase your feminine energy/power. It's about operating in your feminine, we all possess masculine/feminine but as a woman you want to lead with your fem so it will allow room for the man to operate in his masculine.

[@AnikkaForbes]

Think I fall under the masculine women. Either or Remain Strong Females 💯

[@fizahaque]

@@AnikkaForbes yh i think im too masculine as well, but oh wellsies, it is what it isssss

[@ach0i]

I swear to God, these videos make me feel so confident and realize that it's okay to be patient and wait for the right person for you instead of jumping from one relationship to another just for the sake of being in one. Being single used to frustrate me when everyone around me were in relationships but now I feel like I owe it to me to find someone I deserve and who deserves me. Thank you❤️

[@ach0i]

@jimmydean lol ahahahahahahahahah, a pandemic came… funny

[@ach0i]

@jimmydean i would love if you would avoid me as well bye

[@maryanali8393]

@@ach0i pop of, queen

[@jessm5058]

Men love nurturing women.... Not show off women... Or being so full of themselves.... Wrong energy indeed....

[@treking544]

Very powerful comment Queen I feel bad for you though so many women have opposing attitudes against real ideal authentic women like you....being nurturing is a woman's TRUE nature....

[@dacymark1688]

@Sa Ra I agree but unfortunately most women don't want security they want luxury

[@tenacious-e3o]

Jess M 💯

[@jessm5058]

@@treking544 thanks dear

[@jessm5058]

@@dacymark1688 you're right

[@najahdhawre3670]

"Your value does not decrease based on some else's inability to see your worth" i really really enjoyed your video it came about time. Thank you, new follower from horn of africa

[@misskwilson2999]

Even when you are successful and you downplay it. Once they find out who you are they get insecure. You can be soft gentle and feminine and humble but when the man finds out your success when you downplay it, he gets twisted. Trust me girl I've experienced that.

[@vishnukarthikeyan6080]

You met shitty men who couldn’t look ur worth Real man is happy complementing each other success without bringing them down I will b proud of my lady if she succeed - thats my lady If u keep the same dynamic happy Jus lik before success Without changing in attitude or behaviour then thats ❤❤

[@bremac3892]

I dated my ex for 4 years and he brought down SO low that I used to be so full of life and fire but now I’m slow and it’s hard to leave my house. I’m not depressed or sad but going outside was so draining to him that’s his energy still feeding me

[@issimma]

A true high value woman right here !! And for those in the back row I’ll say it again...A true high value woman who knows her worth. A lady who isn’t prepared to be second best to anyone and who also wisely knows that all love stems from SELF-LOVE !! Love ya Breeny, you are beautiful and just simply amazing queen 💓

[@ClassicMan33]

Rebekah Campbell What exactly makes you a high value woman particularly?

[@jamesparker722]

Classic Man I think every woman thinks this which is a problem , not saying she isn’t but she came off narcissistic and self centered and very arrogant!

[@shenniee8863]

James Parker why are y’all intimidated by a confident woman? Having a high self esteem doesn’t mean your are arrogant. You’re just insecure lol

[@ClassicMan33]

Shenniee Why do you all keep repeating these same tropes that you got out of the 82 gossip magazines and 31 TV shows you watch a week? Oh, and the 764 Instagram posts. And 942 FaceBook posts. 🤣🤣🤣

[@ClassicMan33]

James Parker The chik in the video wouldn’t even get noticed by me. I would personally rather date a woman with a bald head, than a woman with fake hair. That goes for Black, White, and Latina. I would throw Asians in there, but I don’t really fuck with them. Hilarious.

[@JeePapeterie]

"Am I a human doing, or am I a human being?" - Breeny Lee You need to release a book of all your quotes! I would totally buy it!!!

[@j.inkstv]

That's a question men ask themselves all the time. Most women only love men for what they do for them.

[@RedRag684]

Just make sure you give back equally to your “ high maintenance “ personality. Some people expect and want so much but give so little and end up being single.

[@christophersmith9683]

That part 💯

[@malhunt7]

@@christophersmith9683 or we give and give and give to selfish men who take and give nothing in return. Men who expect to be treated like kings but act like jokers. THAT part.

[@christophersmith9683]

@@malhunt7 NEVER make the same mistake twice 💯💯💯 go with the genuine man (the good man) he'll give his heart freely right back as long as he knows you'll do the same 4 him 💯

[@Nwadiogo]

I think you should get a qualification as a therapist and be a therapist part time or something. Whatever your journey I enjoy watching you. Thanks!

[@mingmangmung3051]

Maybe a pastor too. I could listen to you all day 😂

[@dacymark1688]

I'll make this really short. This woman is telling what you want to hear and not the truth follow her advice and you either end up single or end up with a low quality men

[@gailetrue6357]

@@dacymark1688 I will rather be single than in a bad relationship which will destroy my life . It advice means settling and it won't take u anywhere . No one has time for unnecessary things

[@Nwadiogo]

@@dacymark1688 would you like to be more specific about your concern? This isn't very constructive feedback. Regardless, I believe all advice should be taken with a pinch of salt because all humans are not the same, nor do they think the same, nor are all their triggers the same, etc etc. I'm sure many of us, like me, are not here looking for a blueprint to enact without applying wisdom to application. As far as I'm concerned, her views are about setting standards, and we should all maintain that across all areas of our lives.

[@rosiecallender2679]

"You are intimidating" can also be a way of saying "I am done here". Some guys from the very beginning only wanted a play. So pay close attention to the before and after. Lol

[@SpiritOfOrange]

Have you not heard the saying “it’s not you, it’s me”? It’s BS. It’s used to dump you in the nicest way. “You are intimidating” rolls on similar lines, much like “thank you and goodnight”.

[@styliciabowden8682]

Yes would love for you to do a video on how to be feminine & masculine balance in us.

[@kaylissim]

I’m 💯 agree with you. Sometimes as successful women, we forget our feminine side. It’s so important nowadays that we teach women empowerment to also highlight to the fact of not losing our femininity even if we are strong ❤️

[@kwameopoku3576]

Kaylissim The Angry Black Woman its disgusting if im honest moving like man

[@porfavornofumas9421]

"I'm not too expensive, you just can't afford me"

[@Lolobekeh]

Food for thought of the day -"Do you have the ability and the capacity to put somebody else's needs above your own or are you just plain selfish".....Thank you💕

[@FourthRaikage87]

This is the most important thing attribute to keep in mind ladies. The fellas will definitely appreciate you to the highest degree.

[@Lovelyminidonuts]

I’m very selfish but I’m working on it. I don’t like giving anything materialistic and my time because I have done those things and wasted my time and did things for people and got back stabbed.

[@Lolobekeh]

@@Lovelyminidonuts I honestly know how that feels! but don't change for nobody, keep doing good, it will definitely pay at a point

[@Lolobekeh]

@@FourthRaikage87Exactly! people will definitely appreciate you.

[@NYCBJP]

I am not selfish BUT I don’t believe in this whole 50/50 relationships. I want a traditional household where the man pays the bills and I take care of the home.

[@niceeejoy5047]

Feminity is so beautiful! The art of being strong yet gentle is amazing.

[@ninani3952]

666

[@NatashaKnowsBeauty]

RIGHT! I love this!!

[@gabrielvicol607]

femininity*

[@tonywasikhongo7510]

And I bet all u who are feminist r single

[@dacymark1688]

Don't mean to be hateful but women these days are neither feminine nor strong

[@marthajanet2924]

I like your skin color ☺️ so glowy!

[@MelaninMagdalene]

Martha Janet The blonde just makes it pop

[@NatashaKnowsBeauty]

RIGHT!! She's so beautiful!!!

[@DoReMi123acb]

i wonder what would happen if a man, especially a non-POC one, made this same comment?

[@bossshit9477]

Egie Asemota that's wuzup

[@idid1866]

Not me...she looks like a turd w/blonde wig!

[@DeeperThanMyThoughts]

I'll be honest, I read the title and I was ready to eye roll the video when I heard that black women are too masculine and I thought it would follow on with that "we need to submit" etc, etc, like a lot of video's I've seen. But Breeny you brought a lot of perspective on why being seen as intimidating can affect women pursuing healthy and fulfilling relationships. I'm married btw, so I'm not looking, but this message extended beyond being a single woman looking for a relationship. You made some salient points about understanding your worth, and knowing that you might not be necessarily intimidating, but people, especially men feel intimidated because they know they lack the resources in what it takes to value a woman who already understands what she's worth. I will say this, I do think a lot of men are unable to value women who have healthy self-esteem because a lot of men come from a place of inequality, ownership, possession and belief that a woman is there to absorb their insecurities. Quite frankly, men need to do a lot of work on themselves, because a woman with self-worth will no longer settle for the aforementioned. Great video!

[@darinaangelova2882]

When you are single for so long - doing things for yourself is a habit - it's not fun, it's not a hobby, it's not enjoyable, it's not a nuisance - it's how it is is. If a guy wants IN, he has to do MORE than what I can do by myself, FOR myself. Done. If I can do as well on my own - what do I need him for?! If you need to play yourself down or dumb yourself down or do whatever "down" this BOY is not for you. Move on. I do not have the ability to put anyone else's needs before my own. Thank God.

[@andzamagagula1233]

"I'm not too high maintenance, i can maintain myself." Yassss!!! Babe pleeease can we have a Makeup tutorial!!! I swear i just be focused on your flawless makeup 💕💕💕 Keep the slayage coming!

[@christy4]

'No I'm not too expensive you just can't afford me' I luurrvvveeee it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 that comment made me gasp but by golly I FELT that 😂

[@bhuvhggcuj8294]

Christy A so stupid

[@christy4]

@@bhuvhggcuj8294 wow I really care

[@christy4]

@emmanuel de la cruz wrong

[@mightygod8295]

Bhuv Hggcuj 🤣💯

[@takcleberry]

Thank you Christy, very cool!

[@tani2915]

Even if u put loads of ads in I would watch them so u can make them coins girl♡

[@MisterKelisi]

I’m not religious but I enjoy how you relate Bible verses to life and it makes sense .

[@ShiaGirl18]

"I am the KING'S kid!" Amen sister!

[@preston5545]

Never lower you're standards to be with a man if that man can't respect you he doesn't deserve you . Love you breeny .

[@vj2ofakind]

Jazmin from Aladdin says "I am not a prize to be won!" lol boy did she have it wrong and fell for a street rat liar. lmao

[@100Abi]

Definitely, "Do not cast your pearls before swines, they will trample to pearls and turn and attack you ". Thank you for sharing Breeny.

[@amikahs]

I have dated guys who told me that, I do not really like them, I'm just telling myself that. I never understood this until I found myself and came face to face with my flaws and all. Dating is vital and I don't understand why so many people over-sexualise it. Also, when I visited a specific part of France last year, this guy approached me. We danced. At the end of the night, he asked me the same thing. I was like I appreciate your courage but that's not my style and walked away.

[@amasion2882]

@Amikah Stewart : It’s a terrible turn-off when a man offers or expects sex immediately (or very early in a relationship.). It indicates that: A). He has nothing substantial to offer (or does not want to offer it) and/or B). He doesn’t think the woman he propositions has anything substantial to offer HIM (or does not want it). His reason/s don’t matter. It’s just a straight up admission of defeat.

[@amikahs]

A Masion most definitely. It was a weird encounter that he was so straightforward. But I realise it is apart of the culture in that side of France. It’s crazy how so many men objectify women’s body. We have a mind you know.

[@9xxxxxxxxx]

Amikah Stewart Women objectify mean as well, duh!

[@agape_luv4658]

Why does anyone put any energy into disliking anything...the energy of it is.....empty to negative. There is no lying going on. Equality of men and women is inherent in the facts: It’s how we all got here. It’s not complicated. Love the good in everything. You have be you ti ful yin and yang. Thanks for being you. Haters always do their jobs too. Beautiful video! You’re beautiful to look at visually and mindful too! WOW

[@BlerdCami]

Pleas do a video on father issues/ father abandonment and how women who have these issues should grow from it!! That will really help me on your point of view!

[@babyjewel226]

Please watch SheraSeven1's videos !!! She speaks about so much of this in her videos. How to be feminine and not intimidate a man by acting like a man yourself!!!

[@honeybee2041]

CierraTreats yes her videos help me so much

[@cutestuff59FR]

Didn’t even watch till the end yet but I looove today’s topic ☕️

[@a.okoronkwo311]

Like my father explained to me "all that glitters is not gold." ✊🏾

[@lynell3566]

Hello from America. This comment will be longish. I saw your video in my feed and at first glance at the title I thought to myself "Oh, here we go". But...I stayed and watched the entire video. I have to say that I agree with most of what you have to say. As a Black Man (BM) that is into coding & technology, I really do not care if a Black Woman (BW) has 2 master degree's, a minor, and working on her PhD thesis. If that doesn't translate into you genuinely being feminine and us being interdependent on each other and building a life together then your degrees can kick rocks. A BW degrees and accomplishments while yes are something to be proud of are not a substitute for not having to do this or that. Yes I did say I am into coding & technology in the beginning, I'm not going to use that as something to beat a BW down with. It's a tool used to build our relationship between me and that BW. I'll be looking at your upcoming videos to listen to your points.

[@AprilCarterVPRILCVRTER]

Lynell I appreciate this comment. Nicely articulated in a way that isn’t defensive or putting women down. I think sometimes some men don’t realize the reasons why women are proud of what they’ve made of themselves - going from nothing to something in a somewhat male dominated world is huge. It goes against expectation and also against what a lot of women are taught growing up. But I also realize we leverage who we’ve become and weaponize it, which isn’t right either. It’s a balancing act.

[@sailormoon1006]

What does feminine female mean to you?

[@tubeyou101x]

How about a female with no degrees or nothing and still not feminine? Is it the degrees that is the issue or the nature of the woman? What my grandmother told me like it is said in the video, if you start off with a man with low self esteem, or who is below your level, it will be problematic. For example, a woman like Michelle Obama to some guys will come across as not worth a shot. But to a strong man she comes off as best. So as much as it depends on the woman's nature, it also definitely on the man's nature. First thing I look for in a man is where are they in terms of their maturity and ability to be with strong woman. As in would this person feel intimidated by my qualifications? Folks like this will want to tie every marital problems to your qualifications. And always accuse of disrespect. Similarly to guys. If you feel more qualifications compared to woman is a problem, best thing is don't be with her. Find one who doesn't have any. However, be mindful somebody's nature can be great or not whether they have qualifications or not 😊.

[@missharris1880]

Love your wisdom and inspiring words. . . I sincerely pray that a good man finds you and treats you like the Queen that you are! please don't ever settle, its beautiful seeing a young Christian woman living holy..... God bless you xx

[@EllePlowPlow]

How to Date Up How to Beat Perfectionism Looking forward to theeeeeeeeeese!!! (I especially have been trying to work on the last one lately.)

[@loloqueenbee6052]

I agree with your competition comment- some men will say you are intimidating if your being soft, gentle and feminine. These are men who although you have agreed to date them, (in their own minds), although they may want to be with you... THEY TRULY INSIDE THEMSELVES don’t believe they “deserve “ a women like you and are just insecure. I have dated down... just recently ended a relationship with a narcissist who stated at the beginning of the relationship that he was “intimidated “ by me because I was so feminine, soft, gentle...blah blah. He ended up using those traits to bring me down. HE WAS A NARCISSIST.

[@kara7868]

You have made me getting over my last relationship so much easier, because I am learning to love myself and view my value.

[@makeupbyikra.x3717]

This video was CALLING me. Breeny you are a legend ❤️

[@aliciadiatto2654]

🔥💯🔥Wisdom on deck, pay attention folks!

[@christellen3077]

I pray you find the One man God has for you, and mainstream parties and music are things too far from what God has for his children :) Be blessed Godly Royalty!!

[@Candaicelovesjesus]

Christelle N Well said, very classy. 😏

[@christellen3077]

@@Candaicelovesjesus ok lol that is from a place of love and of solidarity with another sister in Christ! Be blessed

[@Sav.Age.]

@@christellen3077 exactly!!! People don't like truth these days.. And to think you said that the nice way possible... Psalm 1:1.

[@kmolley8054]

Wow .... That "masculine energy attracts feminine energy" statement blew me away..... Yup that was me.

[@deepbrowneyes230]

This was the most nuanced discussion of the "they're intimidated by you" concept. Eye-opening

[@pinkywinky7207]

I have been told im intimidating by women and men and i get happy when i hear that, whenever i am In the friendly or flirty mood i will turn off that but im normally more on the feeling superior side and its not good for me

[@Ammychi_]

YES BREENY WITH THE FACTS!!! Literally, love you, Please make fem video! - A Nigerian KZbinr ( Your biggest fan)

[@laylajamaworld]

Damn I just realized that I’m dating down........ 😱😱😱... thanks breeny

[@lusarshameli7057]

Ladies never talk about equal responsibility in the whole equality talk.

[@jiasenghe008]

and never will

[@saraxortega]

Girl I love this advice you’re giving to people. Self worth and self love is everything and should always come first 💯👌

[@kingsdaughter83]

I just want you to know, I am so glad you popped up in my KZbin recommendations. You are literally helping me get through a rough period regarding this guy I really care about but refuses to match my efforts with time dedicated to us building. I am currently trying to work to get back to building myself up after the damage has been done. So thank you for being you and reassuring me see the value I bring to the table. 😊😊

[@michellelujano3928]

Daddy issues video please!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I have a lot of daddy issues 😭🙄

[@jadedarmawangsa]

YOU ARE MY SPIRIT ANIMAL

[@BreenyLee]

Just randomly scrolling through the comments, as if YOU watch my channel?! I LOVEEE yours girl, so informative!

[@souljourney592]

Good points but I like to add- also be very careful of men who prey and play on your insecurities because you are too afraid to be proud of your accomplishments and abundance. Happened to me. I don't see men as competition, but I also refuse to downplay the life I've built for myself. If he can't take it - next!!!

[@handsomeclark]

There’s a lot of truth in everything stated in this video from both sides. Love the perspective.

[@leaht6126]

My ex literally broke up with me bc he said I’m too good for him. Thank you for the video Breeny, your content never fails to speak to me ❤️

[@amasion2882]

Leah T: I think statements like that can “sting” because we read into it and take it a closeted insult, ie “He means I’m snobby.” In general, good (or even decent) men tend to be very honest about their FEELINGS about women. If a man is saying, “You’re too good for me,” or “You don’t (or can’t) really love me,” etc., he really means it. That’s his perceived reality. This becomes an exercise in frustration because women are CONSTANTLY chided in most societies for NOT lowering their standards and considering men “in a lower league” to themselves. So women give these men their time and attention and are rejected or mistreated for being “too good.”

[@amasion2882]

emmanuel de la cruz : exactly. Nobody dumps someone they DO feel good enough to date.

[@m.i.5381]

He said that as a parting sentiment. His real reason is you were not feminine, I.e you were too masculine for him to stick around. Men do not like butch masculine women. Men are naturally attracted to feminine women.

[@amasion2882]

rugssean : That’s his problem, isn’t it? It’s not a woman’s job to “sell” herself to a man. He either sees and appreciates her worth or he doesn’t. Just because he fails to recognize her worth doesn’t make her less worthy.

[@KJ-pu8dw]

Laydees.... when a guy says ‘your too expensive ‘ it means he thinks you lack feminine qualities that he values. That he knows you are a gold digger and not worth his time or effort. That the juice is not worth the squeeze.

[@PLAKINA]

false, it means hes broke so isnt a man... and is looking for a man to be with lol

[@rickmcl2756]

Intimidation:, frighten or overawe (someone), especially in order to make them do what one wants. "he tries to intimidate his rivals" synonyms: frighten, menace, terrify, scare, alarm, terrorize, overawe, awe, cow, subdue, discourage, daunt, unnerve; Ladies, you do not intimidate men. When men use the word intimidating about you it is a polite wsy of telling you that we find you kind of unpleasant to be around. You just may be judgmental and intolerant of others. This does not lend well to a developing relationship of any kind. Very rarely is a man attracted to your job or education level, this is what you have done to make a living. Wow look at her she is a CEO....this is said among maybe 1% of men. Rather, a man is attracted to your looks (very subjective and hard wired into our biology) and general pleasantness of nature. After all who wants every discussion to end up in a argument, debate or competition. Companionship based on mutual interests, respect of personal boundaries, and attraction is the way to go.

[@jordanwilliams2701]

Thank you I have said this for awhile. Women made feminism actually drill in their heads like we value women based on career or sum. Like if you're a CEO your still no better than the lady who's working 9-5 for a wife wise. And more often than not if you are a CEO idk how most of them will make much time to not be always working. I'm sure there's mem for them but personally I dont need some workaholic for a woman. I just want a simple wife. Her attraction comes somewhat from looks and as you said a very big one. Her attitude and how she carries her emotions. Again another problem of imma be big and rich but that mean I come with a fuck ton of bad energy😜😜😜like woman nooo😭😭.I'm not some lil 18 year old female looking for the handsome,rich,movie star of my dream😭I'm a man looking for let's be honest. Half way to traditional wife. My gf rn is a perfect example and I'm glad she likes the dynamic we have now. Sadly alot of women still have this traditional dynamic so men dont need to deal with all these women trying to be on the top so bad.

[@karlplummer9386]

Let them know Rick.

[@theenglishdenden]

Exellent Video Mademoiselle. If I understand you correctly, Guy says, “You are to high maintenance for me” Your comeback, “Nah mate, you are just not in a position to maintain me, I worked very😓😓 hard to get where I am. It was not an overnight 1 day process. So look, Deal With It.

[@cadmarbusinesssuite9155]

I have been in more situations of "dating up" not down. It takes great confidence in taking ownership of one's identity to feel worthy to "date up". I haven't always internalized that but I realize the men were responding to my capacity, not my present circumstances or the things that happened to me. Therefore, don't date on your level, date on capacity. It takes insight, foresight, and God-given discernment to date based upon the capacity and grace that you are designed with. Be a person of purpose and vision and only allow those in your life who align with this.

[@Divine-Sage]

Loved this!

[@cadmarbusinesssuite9155]

@@Divine-Sage Thank you!

[@Zenauraz]

Wow, I wish I would have seen this video earlier. I was just dealing with a guy that told me he wouldn't be able to treat me the way I deserved. Low and behold, I ended up getting hurt a few months later. The sad thing about it was we always had so much fun together and I felt so comfortable being myself around him, but he lacked confidence. He was insecure and didn't understand why I wanted to be with him regardless of how many attempts I made to show him I only wanted him. Now I know to never do that again lol. Don't waste your time with these types of guys.

[@hanavaughan6956]

jasmine!!!! this just happened to me today!!!! like what in the freakkk.... like what is that, insanity

[@jada3956]

I been there a few times with some guys I met, and date two guys who were super insecure about themselves that I had to ended it because it pushed me to where I couldn't help them anymore. and I couldn't understand it either myself, but I guess majority of the guys these days are honestly just straight cowards in disguise. But there still some good men's out there, we just have to be patient for the right one!🤷🏽‍♀

[@ALEN1ful]

when she said the woman comes to the table with all of her degrees (debt) her career (not in the stem fields or anything that pays well) her material items (No money cos she spent it) her own house (debt) her own car ( debt) and her beauty ( make up costs a lot of money). This delusional mentality needs to stop. Kids end up suffering in the end having to live with these single mothers. JUST stop already.

[@dacymark1688]

Well said that's all they have to offer debt and used up cookie

[@lanaerutland2292]

Alen Mustlovski you’re exactly the type of man she is referring to.

[@ALEN1ful]

@UCIWQTZH_r-ohmuOf-QWN51Q I never said women cant be "great" whatever that means. Im saying the majority of women put on the illusion of being successful. The problem with being "great" is that it goes to thier head. Women make terrible leaders because they dont know how to be humble. Youve made my point by bragging about yourself for a paragraph. In the end children lose. Look outside of yourself for one minute. Its not about me or you.

[@ALEN1ful]

@The Age of Z Exactly

[@lanaerutland2292]

Alen Mustlovski Again you are misunderstanding, how am I bragging about myself? I’m simply disproving your previous statements about women bringing debts to relationships. You’re just upset because as we keep saying, YOU CANNOT AFFORD HIGH CALIBER WOMEN SO YOU’RE GETTING UPSET. Have a nice day, I’m done now ;*

[@pixiebug8677]

This one was so good I went to like it 3 times after liking it once 💯 Lmao looking at all the butthurt men in the comments who wanted to know why they are struggling with quality women, but weren’t ready for the truth 😂😂💯💯

[@tweetwalker2165]

They came run game and you accept whatever they're giving. You hold them accountable. Good job girl.

[@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy]

Omg yesss best advice! Many occasions guys have said you need to be with someone better smh. I should’ve listened. Do not put yourself on the sale for a man 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy]

Jim Richmond hi Jim I promise you that you couldn’t be more wrong 🙏🏾god bless you

[@abutler5972]

In order for God to connect you to your husband You have to be spiritually equal! First!

[@RocknRolla_texthatgirl_com]

i assume you never read the bible darling

[@NatashaKnowsBeauty]

LOVE THIS!!

[@srky4346]

I’m feminine but I’ve been doing stuff for myself for so long!

[@MelaninMagdalene]

SR K Feminine can do things on their own. Masculine can do things on their own AND then some.

[@DScott-be7pg]

Yay. You're an adult. Here's a cookie. And a cat.

[@enyskept]

I wonder how many Women on here have hit the Wall🤔

[@raregrimebeats1352]

All “Strong independent intimidating women” have hit the wall

[@mrcolemore5831]

Jajajajajajajajajajajajajajajaja

[@joshuaoloyede8600]

The wall stays undefeated

[@Tazmanian_mma]

enyskept facts😂

[@Tazmanian_mma]

enyskept and shorty here wildin if she thinks any real man gun drop a bag on her. Way too much make up😂

[@jmjohnson2306]

Almost in tears from gratitude. I love and appreciate what your videos have done for me. Ive lost myself ....for almost a year now. You are helping me "re-find" me.

[@isvbelxox1733]

it’s 5 am and i’m binge watching rn but it’s okay bc Breeny is introducing a whole new mindset, how else would i wanna start my morning?

[@tdsheadcoach]

A single man making 40k a year is equal to 150k in disposable income... FOR...YOU! keep this in mind... So, single dudes... CHOOSE WISELY! IF YOU REALLY NEED A STEADY WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE... PUMP AND DUMP... AND KEEP YOUR MONEY!

[@starzzzz527]

Factd

[@nutso3574]

PUMP AND DUMP SKEET AND SKITDADDLE

[@Machelle3200]

I hope you get pumped and dumped with Aids..I hope most of you evil suckers do..

[@sailormoon1006]

Pump and dump, no wonder black males have the highest dead beat dads and hiv/aid rates. Because of stupid logic like this. Not everyone women is for you. So find someone who is like you because they exist. There is no need to bash someone for something they like and work hard to get. Stop generalizing all women. Assholes

[@JW-wz7bf]

Wow pleasantly surprised by the video! I saw the title and deffo thought I was not gonna enjoy but this deffo deserves a thumbs up!

[@dennisecornejo4874]

This is beautiful and extremely informative. I said we need more videos like these bc unfortunately this “worth” word is misunderstood. Or never known of.. love you lots Breeny Cannot wait to have lunch/dinner date with you in the future.

[@princessgigiking]

You are definitely my KZbin therapy Breeny Lee 💎💎💎

[@crose4709]

This is like food for my self worth, i am 18 years and i am glad that i find this. It’s better that you learn it early than too late!❤️

[@jeffreystern5886]

Women date the hottest guy they can attract. Men date the hottest woman they can afford. Water seeks it's own level. But.... women waste their ealy years on bad boys... and after having been had by a hundred jerks..they hear the biological clock ticking...and go for the good guys they passed up when they were young. If they wait too long.... the wall comes a callin.

[@dasani6055]

Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks a phrase to describe a woman's mating behavior where she freely engages in sexual activities with the physically attractive, charismatic, charming, suave and confident males - in other words, the Alpha males - with no strings attached, shit-tests, favors, catches and any rules, hence Alpha Fucks. At the same time the woman denies sex to the physically unattractive and undesirable men - in other words, the Beta males - instead giving ambiguous promises that sex will be offered in return if the males treat her well, take her out to dates, buy her dinner, bring her gifts, etc, hence Beta Bucks. For the Betas, sex is held behind many barriers such as the "three dates" rule, all-expenses paid dinners, shopping trips, favors, funny jokes, rapport building, lengthy text convos, shit tests and more... all the while as the Alphas get to have sex right away without having to do all that in advance. Hence, the term Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks. This phrase can also alternatively be used to describe how a woman spends her young and fertile years hooking up and getting knocked up by the Alphas with absolutely no strings attached, and later as she seeks to settle down, seeks out a Beta to provide for her and her Alpha spawn.

[@starzzzz527]

Faxxx

[@thee_morpheus]

And the wall....always wins

[@kahlilsykies9139]

Not all women waste their younger days with bad boys or jerks. Plenty don't.

[@Catherine-vd7fc]

Let me guess you are the good guy

[@haffysilvia7838]

Girl you deserve everything, honestly not just this video, I can't express how helpful you're videos have been when going through my first breakup 5year relationship. Sending lots of love & hit that like button ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Please keep making videos! Also makeup game is BOMMMBB aff🔥🔥🔥

[@NatoshRenee]

This is such a good breakdown you’re giving me cancer vibes that’s my sign too and I really do see girls doing this. You’re spot on

[@isabellalora6533]

Why? Cancers are good at dating and flirting I thought 😂

[@NatoshRenee]

@@isabellalora6533 cancer vibes due to her personality. “Girls doing this” was a general statement not directed at cancers babe. ❤️

[@isabellalora6533]

@@NatoshRenee aaa okay 😍 I’m a Taurus by the way :)

[@Meme6]

Sis you were really speaking to me. I'd never understood why men would say that I was high maintenance or intimidating but it all makes sense now. Thank you!

[@princessgigiking]

Breeny Lee this facts, some women do intimidate men with their wallet and/or family status. This is so DTM (Doing The Most) or Boasting! 💎💎💎

[@jroyal2229]

Every time I meet a guy he asks me what I do for a living (I use to make it known my position I have in the government). Now, I say “it doesn’t matter what I do, just know that I have a job).” I had the same thing said to me all the time that “I’m too good for them” 🤦🏾‍♀️ “LIES”!!! I know that I’m enough & it’s mind boggling that I feel I have to downplay myself to make him feel comfortable. No, no more of that...I’m valuable & worthy. Thanks for sharing this vid 💫✨

[@tinasiacoleman]

Crowned Virgo SheRaSeven1 said to just say you’re a receptionist don’t ever tell your real job in the beginning! You should watch her videos

[@kwameopoku3576]

Lol so ur ego was high then?

[@Gwenny89]

Omg this is so helpful!! This can really give you a total new way of thinking about yourself! This was needed to feel the worth we really are

[@reneeu4548]

Breeny.... you cracked the code! It’s them!!!!

[@yawakowuah]

Thought I wasn't gonna like this vid after the first 5 secs but this woman spoke so much sense. I see nothing wrong with having high standards however I personally feel that alot of woman (of different colours from different backgrounds) have a checklist of requirements for men that they themselves haven't achieved i.e own house, great job, great body, good looking etc but when it comes down to it all us men are looking for is a kind humble girl that we can work with. Like Breeny says, this isn't an opposition sport, were both supposed to be working as one but alot of the times women and men be like "look at all I have, if you don't have this your not good enough for me" when truth be told you could be missing out on a great partner

[@bobbyblessed]

It’s amazing how you maintain balance in your reasoning. Men and women can learn a lot from that alone.

[@thunderslayer7132]

Women can never be a prize for a man .

[@almodovarj2]

Real talk. Glad someone caught that.

[@mlungisiskhosana9463]

i thought i was the only one who caught that

[@purplepinkbabe]

My biggest question is that I completely understand and agree 100% with your perspective, but how do you continue to have faith you’ll find the right guy? For me I’m 24 so I have time and have hope and patience it’ll happen and I’m completely over settling, but what about the women who want families and a man and are 40+. What is your advice in being consistent and waiting for that man, even though time seems to be ticking @BreenyLee

[@geminilove7830]

Hang in there girl...I am 43...my last serious relationship was 10 years ago...the last guy I dated was 3 years ago. I had given up...I was like whatever...but I wasnt going to settle. I would rather be single then be with a broke man, liar, or cheater. I met a man recently and he has been the best so far. I think he may be the one! Hang in there!

[@purplepinkbabe]

Y’all have great responses but I was talking more along the lines of what affirmations she uses in general for staying focused. Plus just because you wait for the right guy doesn’t mean you not happy. I’m completely content I’m just bored and wanna have sex lmao plus there’s so much I’ve achieved I wouldn’t mind sharing with someone but hey guess I’ll just keep waiting in vain lol but thanks

[@patoloco1000]

“I’m not too expensive, you just can’t afford me”. If my date said that to me, I would think she used to be a prostitute.

[@amasion2882]

My goodness, what an eye-opener! I’ve had several similar interactions with men like you described. Even in very casual, non-romantic (at least on my part) situations. Even gentlemen I genuinely liked and respected and wanted to know better. Wanted to add that men can become “competitive” with “non-competing” women to “overcompensate” for their feelings of being “out of league”.

[@ceekay3]

You just stepped on A LOT of throats with this one lol.🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾 But if you think the statement: “I’m not expensive, you just can’t afford me” is only speaking from a financial aspect, then clearly you didn’t get the message. Several people that commented only watched to be defensive instead of for comprehension. Try watching with an open mind and from all perspectives, and maybe you’d get it.🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️