Why Men Fall in Love With Black Cat Energy & How to be His Black Cat

[@roxycauldwell544]

Is it me or is it fucking annoying that you have to play games with a man, you can't just love them like a normal person without them losing interest/treating you like shit. I'd rather just not if they're this broken.

[@sunkissedn71]

It's not just you. Way too many mind games for me. It's exhausting, I refuse to participate

[@hiniewinie]

It does sound like loads of stress tbh but all of this is based on this idea that " The person who cares the least wins."

[@fembot521]

It’s not true, you will just attract and marry a shitty man. All of these women just want any old man which is what this will bring to them. Why do you think divorce rate is so high and instigated by women in 80% of the cases? These stupid games! Lol. Be yourself and find a man who isn’t into games and just wants to be loved the way you give it! You will be happy and have a wonderful relationship!

[@Chrisia-Queens]

Unfortunately men lose interest when you care about them. I've experienced that countless of times without fails. The guys I had s*x with ghosted me , the ones I didn't have s*x still ghost me. At this point, I'm giving up. It's exhausting and soul- crushing to pick yourself up after a break up.

[@Becky_Cal]

Agree 💯 I’ve come to the conclusion that MEN ARE BROKEN 🤦🏻‍♀️ Seriously. They apparently cannot be whole functioning humans who relate and communicate with other humans in a mature, respectful and empathetic manner… 🤢

[@Prynne-iu1uv]

Don't be a black cat if you're not a black cat. Just be yourself.

[@Rosemary46840]

Period 💯 as long as you're not being desperate or obnoxious you're fine

[@a.r.tavares1322]

Be a golden cat 😁

[@LowSlungBadBitch]

Fr

[@MakeWay4CJ]

Yeah, because sometimes it's better to just be alone (which is what will happen if some of these things aren't done), than to stress oneself out trying to be being someone they're not.

[@tali.shukraa]

​@a.r.tavares1322 this is such a cute name 🐈💛

[@Circee11]

Because most people like to please. Black cats don't care about pleasing anyone but themselves.

[@icingcake]

I wouldn’t say anyone but themselves first, yes. Who the f else is supposed to care about that, hm?

[@harleyquinn5269]

Hmmmm. Getting really SICK of all these comparisons and analogies. It's ridiculous

[@Rosemary46840]

I disagree that most people like to please, maybe half n half at best

[@harleyquinn5269]

@Rosemary46840 I disagree with all this cat/ dog nonsense. Seriously. We're HUMANS. Lol 😄 😂

[@MakeWay4CJ]

Most WOMEN like to please unconditionally while most men please only up to when they get what they want or they find out that they can still get what they want WITHOUT having to care. She's trying to make sure that you never get taken advantage of by either one of those things.

[@LifeisaBeautifulting]

DISCLAIMER: This is for if you want an AVOIDANT man. Avoidant men love the chase but don't like to be caught, the second you love them back they will lose interest. For healthy men you don't have to play these games and minimize how you feel for them. Follow this advice if you want unhealthy men!

[@plutonian_aquarius]

THIS. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@nicole_j235]

I agree! My man wants to know when I landed, if I made it home, etc. He cares about my well being and loves the same in return

[@LowSlungBadBitch]

Exactly.

[@Bria_White]

Right these games people are playing is getting old and tired. I swear most people are teenagers stuck in human bodies. You either like someone AND express that with action or you don’t. Very simple.

[@OE2023]

Babyyyy you better tell um

[@PerfumePriestess]

This entire video broken down into one sentence: Ladies, just be selfish! 😂

[@minamarie1983]

Which is the opposite of the way most of us are evolutionarily & culturally programmed, unfortunately.

[@winning3329]

My older sister is a text book narcissist and I am the scapegoat child and guess who got wifed? Clue " not me"

[@christinnnna]

Two narcissists don't make a relationship. Eventually he will get tired and divorced. You do not want to witness the ugliness behind the scenes. You do you boo and stay away from them❤❤❤! I am telling this to you by experience. Much love to everyone❤ Greetings😊😊😊

[@Dean_Winchester__]

So you really think being married to a man is a prize? lol

[@nini65078]

People pleasers always see people with solid boundaries as narcissists. Maybe u around reflect ☺

[@authenticsophia]

LOL 😂

[@Chrisia-Queens]

Unfortunately men lose interest when you care about them. I've experienced this so many times. The guys I had s*x with ghosted me , the ones I didn't have s*x still ghosted me. At this point, I'm giving up. It's exhausting and soul- crushing to pick yourself up after a break up. I can't do this anymore.

[@nofybn7794]

Exactly! Same. Me either. I am done. Done. Done. Done. Period

[@QHuda_A]

May I recommend centring yourself? What do you want? What gives you pleasure? What would feed your soul? When you genuinely answer them and center it, it's no longer about the male gaze or what they did, but instead what you choose to do and whom you want to engage with. You can take full responsibility for your romantic choices, and that will ease your mind.

[@Chrisia-Queens]

@QHuda_A I don't give my time and all my attention to men. I have a busy life, hobbies, I know what I want. But I still wanted a partner. But I am done now

[@jozzz222]

@@QHuda_A just stop 😑

[@myturn2runit]

@@jozzz222maybe you should stop

[@melawieeinapfel8594]

Love is like a fart. If you have to force it, it‘s probably shit.

[@ukrose]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ah-Lam65]

😂😂😂 yo!!

[@Shay4YourMind81]

Love this! 😂

[@SwanTheQueen]

How classy

[@hania.1827]

Dayuuum!!!🤣🥂

[@gwendolynbradford4922]

Never be afraid to show a man you're not afraid to lose him

[@kyli1204]

The man has to like you more than you like him. 100% Never chase a man , there’s always 10 more that want you.

[@nofybn7794]

Why would I be with someone I don't like though? I just can't do that.

[@beyonceschild]

@@nofybn7794 You can like him, obviously, but he has to like you more than you like him. No need to be obtuse.

[@kyli1204]

@ You’re supposed to like them, but they should like you more.

[@spectralemanation]

@@beyonceschildI like how you say that at the end but say the dumbest thing ever.

[@Lisagriggsofficial]

Just want to stop and appreciate all your COLAB videos. Thank you! ❤

[@rapana6926]

What I don´t like about this - why should I embody something just for the sake of someone else chasing me.... Second thing - if a "black cat person brings nothing to the table" and expects the other person to do everything, how is that a balanced relationship? Third - if I like someone, I would want that person to be happy too... not to cater to me because I care less. What I do like about this though is - if used in moderation, it can boost a woman up in a very positive way - especially if she was the "nice girl" all the time. A little bit of mystery, self-reliance and selfrespect never hurts anyone and all women should treasure their own energy. It´s one of their biggest gift to the world and to their partners. So being a healthy confident woman who does not chase guys and has selfrespect is a good advice - just not overdo it and not force it.

[@ChristinaP-k2n]

You don’t understand that to them, this is what they WANT. It’s a GIFT.

[@amandanxala2580]

From a natural blackcat I say just be yourself my sister is a golden retriever and she just got married so its whatever

[@nofybn7794]

Exactly!

[@MM-lp3gc]

It's only a game if you fake being busy. It's focusing on yourself. Taking a class, growing your business, getting a massage. It's being easy to be around but hard to get. You're still being your plessent self when you're together.

[@lindsaypeek63]

I get what you are saying but it actually does make them happy when you focus on yourself and when they have to chase you. We try to love men the way we want to be loved and that just doesn’t work with most men

[@Herrera_70]

Just don't be clingy, nobody likes that. He either likes you or he doesn't.

[@Rosemary46840]

Exactly 💯

[@kp8972]

I find this really easy when I have zero interest in a guy. I have lots of guys I don’t want interested in me but that’s not exactly a good thing. I have given up altogether these days. Dating and relationships are a mugs game. No benefit to women in the long run anyway.

[@nofybn7794]

Exactly!

[@fabricehategekimana5350]

I will give my two cents from a man's perspective: the first advantage of the black cat energy is to repulse the men who don't bring a golden retriever energy. So you won't be used. But that doesn't mean you will be a black cat for any man, just for the ones who have a true golden retriever energy. So you will be at least safe if you follow those rules

[@cupcakecanopy]

Word. Games is still games and I'm sick of it

[@bluespagirl1]

These people in the video have it ALL wrong. Black Cat Energy is, literally, innate ~ it's WHO you are, not a silly fake game pretending to be something you aren't. The mind games are exhausting 😴

[@spacesandy3410]

Love the white vs black cat energy explanation at around 09:35.

[@dum9696]

This video is sh!t. If you have to play games and to act selfish etc, it means you are with the wrong person

[@Rosemary46840]

Cringe. Who cares what men want. Worry about what you want

[@queefmicester1189]

.....that'll totally get you far. ....you will end up with alot of Black Cats 🤣👌

[@kikialeaki1850]

This golden retriever man/black cat woman stuff just sounds like a glorified anxious man/avoidant woman relationship lmfao toxic

[@Rosemary46840]

Exactly 💯

[@DaughterOfGod247]

Narcissist and codependent

[@Val.Kyrie.]

I’ve noticed, in A LOT A LOT A LOT of these videos, everyone has exes, no one is in a current relationship, none are married, and a big number of men are black. With the fatherless epidemic in that community, should we be listening to unmarried baby daddies with dozens of exes what gets them going? If you aren’t in a stable marriage, what the hell do you know except how to churn through bodies?

[@wuxian1]

margarita nazarenko is the ceo of black cat energy and she has a husband and two kids!!! she's super successful

[@dianasalazar4488]

I didn't even know this existed. I'm realizing i am a golden retriever at times but a black cat at other times.

[@dianasalazar4488]

Black cat energy women have to be confident in their skin no? Golden retriever have insecurities.

[@christinnnna]

At this point I don't even care abt men. On a journey to discover and remember who I am and to heal. Shit hits the fan when relationship is toxic and there're children involved. For their sake sometimes a woman must morph from a black cat to golden retriever to red fishey back to the cat... I'm just searching a new place to stay and a lawyer😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheNiceyB]

Yup. Doing too much for a man makes him soft.. Remember the goal is for YOU to be soft.‼️

[@Malinda-zk5bq]

These things are crazy. I just got off a men's channel. They were saying this exact thing....only backwards. If a woman looks good, don't tell her, you have to knock off a little confidence. Ghost her when she calls/texts!!! Even if you like her make her guess. If everybody stops playing games maybe we'll have some genuine matches!😳😂😂😂

[@wheathusk2499]

Be whoever you are to end up with the right person for you. Playing games will make u fit into a scenario that may make you miserable later. I do this black cat thing naturally and can confirm that it always keeps men intrigued but I dont do it for them its just me living a life of decentring men.

[@prettyhatemachine8887]

Im confused on whether im white or black cat bit I know one thing, noan eould ever keep me as a placeholder. Im too difficult to keep around 😂

[@favourafinni]

Using black cat energy would surely land you an emotional unavailable man. In the long run such a relationship dynamic won’t be sustainable because the day you start liking him back, he will lose interest in you because he is avoidant and he can only be with someone who doesn’t show interest in him. This whole black cat/ golden retriever dynamic is exhausting. It’s best to just be with someone you like that also likes you in return.

[@RiseBeautiful]

I bet you would not even get a narcissist this way!

[@fluffythebluepersian4888]

What do I do if he only wants to see me once a month?

[@madge2114]

Say no.

[@cheronjones3858]

What kind of crust is that

[@justmo2023]

❤❤

[@KCruz7]

I’m a white cat ❤

[@UnknownArian]

A gay guy telling women how to be more feminine is wild 🤣🤣🤣

[@Svetlana_Chudinova]

Tired of those zoo games. Are there normal people left?

[@fortinm.6975]

If this really works, then I get why I'm single. Mind games are stupid

[@hals999]

No thanks lol

[@hals999]

Men can keep themselves. I think these online titles are cringey

[@winning3329]

I had a mail dump me and when I asked him why? He said he wanted to be with a stuck up woman who thought that she was all that and a bag of chips. Those were his words "I love stuck up women who know that they are all that". He was turned off by my kindness and he wanted a baddie to step all over him. This happens alot. Also I dated a mail who took his ex girlfriend back after she slept with another mail.

[@Morozova48]

​@@winning3329 weirdos haha

[@LifeisaBeautifulting]

@@winning3329You dodged a bullet. He is going to end up single and alone

[@Rosemary46840]

Fr no thanks is right 💯

[@icingcake]

Okay but that first one is a lil weird 😝

[@rains5]

Gee everyone thinks im black cat energy even friends but im innocent and childlike. They even ask if i have a black cat and crap like that. My Scorpio moon and Aries sun.

[@Cheyna1993]

@rains5 Heyyy, I’m Scorpio sun, Aries moon 😝😎 we do have natural black cat energy lol

[@Lisa-cg9vv]

Scorpio sun too. I love black 🐈‍⬛!

[@harleyquinn5269]

What if you're both lol😂