Why Men Feel So Invisible

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[@MrBBaron]

I like being invisible. Less drama less stress and fewer distractions so you can focus on things that matter to you.

[@andrewnewick8910]

Yes, I completely agree with you.

[@scottthepumpdude8933]

Glass half full: if you're invisible, people leave you alone and don't ask you for anything.

[@tnix80]

Yes! 🙌

[@nathanforrest3483]

Glass half empty: loneliness eats at your soul.

[@AncientXCivilizations]

Tbh people u are invisible to. Were never considered assets, only a liability. So what have you lost.

[@scottthepumpdude8933]

@@nathanforrest3483 never confuse alone with lonely.

[@scottthepumpdude8933]

@@AncientXCivilizations as my social circle shrank over time, my contentment actually improved. I know where I stand and on whom I can count.

[@delwarhussain3301]

Your not invisible anymore bro, you have 45.9k followers now 👊

[@Bullet-Tooth-Tony-]

You definitely notice how much nicer and open people are if you go abroad to places in eastern europe, latin america and asia compared to western society.

[@Daire-x6r]

What do these places have in common? Less money and worse lifestyle.

[@giovannij1368]

Not just that but being from South east London, I lived in Wiltshire for a yr and the people down there actually speak and say hello. I was shocked. My mum and step dad moved up there nearly 3 yrs ago now. My mum's retired and my step dad soon will be. Glad they're enjoying their life tbh

[@Bullet-Tooth-Tony-]

@@giovannij1368 Reminds me of that scene in Titanic when Rose goes with Jack to the third class bar area with all the Irish music where its lively and then it shows how miserable it is in the first class one with Cal.

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

LatAm not that nice anymore. Depends on the sppecific location I guess.

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

Only if you are white. My indian friends have been to those places & have been hated on & abused (mostly racially) when they were there. So what you are saying is biased & also racist

[@PrinceJohn84]

I get this a lot at work. The women in our office absolutely refuse point blank to interact. I had a situation the other day where I held a door open not once but twice for the same person and not only did they refuse to say thank you, they also refused to acknowledge I even existed by vaguely staring straight through me.

[@ryansweeney1661]

Don't let that person hinder your experience with others That woman was clearly an idiot with no manners

[@ryansweeney1661]

KZbin won't even let you write a woman is a bad name without getting deleted, I only said idiot Anyway, try not to let this person ruin your experience with others It will only get you down Something good will come when you least expect it But don't let the person change you Still hold the door open but with no acknowledgement One day, you'll meet someone who appreciates you

[@Alkebuland]

Mgtow

[@DiegoB0525]

I think that person has to do more with lack of manners than anything else.

[@JeremyPezzeca]

Ɓe grateful they don't acknowledge you. For if they did it would only be because they want something from you

[@JennyfaninSweden]

I’m a man that many I some circles would say is “uneducated”, I just have my high school education, started working and learnt along the way. I don’t make the most money, but I make enough to that I’ve been able to buy my own apartment, I can afford a restaurant visit each month if I want to ( even thou it’s expensive here in Sweden) and there’s money over för my hobby. I don’t dress fancy or drive a car, no jewellery and most importantly, no student dept! Now that I’m 35 I love and am thankful för what I’ve accomplished whilst many of my “educated” friends don’t like their jobs or careers. I’m content and happy.

[@conradsealy9603]

This invisibility can actually work to your advantage if you know how exploited.

[@javascriptkiddie2718]

It does and people like this just always thing grass is greener on the other side. If he were famous he'd be crying about how he can't walk down the street unbothered.

[@andrewnewick8910]

As a debt free 51 year old male I feel very blessed woman have ignored me my entire life. I have traveled extensively around the globe and met some incredible people. None of which I would have experienced with a wife and kids.

[@ralphricart3177]

There's nothing worse than being in the limelight.

[@blademaster7879]

This is exactly what Ive figured out recently. Learning to be happy on my own. I carry myself differently and I see others notice as is narcissists avoid me lile the plague now. I have a small group of close friends for support. All of them told me long before I realized it. If I sort myself my aura changes, it will attract the right person eventually if its destined to happen. If not, I'm happy on my own.

[@Barney5400]

I think your videos are brilliant so relatable to myself and total reality now unfortunately I feel invisible to the world no one cares anymore not like 50 years ago

[@brandonperkins176]

I am hated and single to a T. It's like society sees me as a threat and is looking for ways to get me out of the way. What have now I am grateful and intend to thrive for more. I am not afraid to stay single, and the day I get into a real, healthy relationship with a woman, it's a win-win for me. If society doesn't like or celebrate me, then it's not my problem.

[@SCGSHOW]

Their loss!!

[@brandonperkins176]

@SCGSHOW exactly. Another thing I want to point out is social media has become a cesspool for trouble, especially TikTok. I will be deleting it forever on 1-1-2025.

[@JonathanLewis-gf1lu]

Thanks brother I needed that today. I’m that way as well. I do get a nice dinner and nice things for myself. It’s actually better to be invisible because you don’t have any of the crazy stuff in your life my friends. We are in this together brothers

[@prschuster]

It's worse when a man has so much to offer, and our society reduces him to a menial, low paying job which prevents him from actually contributing more than his status permits him to do. It's a society run by selfish billionaires that contributes to this. Women also contribute to this by overlooking low status men, which contributes to the way high status men act to other men.

[@geoffn1530]

Very well said. Been the story of my life. I wanted to be a gym bro and be the healthiest guy in our family but due to homeschool education was stuck in janitorial occupations that are hard on health

[@prschuster]

@@geoffn1530 I was the smartest boy in my class, and I went to college to get a degree in biology. I couldn't find a job in my field, so I was a dish washer, janitor and temp worker for years. Being called a failure, after all that effort, is demeaning. Being judged solely by your status, with no regard for one's true worth, is a common issue for men. Did your homeschooling prevent you from being ready for college?

[@geoffn1530]

@ yes it did. I homeschooled in the early 2000s. Back then you didn’t have zoom and online learning tools. I had physical books and a phone number I called to get a tutor. My math tutor was Venezuelan and barely spoke English and U flunked pre algebra. I had zero career prep or shop class. It was a terrible experience

[@prschuster]

@@geoffn1530 Sorry to hear that

[@ericd1798]

I like the increase in production values! They add weight to the important messages you share.

[@SCGSHOW]

Glad you like them!

[@SJBW196]

God Bless You SCG and Merry Christmas 🙏🎄💖

[@SCGSHOW]

Happy holidays!

[@sergueivergounov1961]

I am in my sixties. Recently I visited Bangkok, Thailand. After long absence. I strolled down the streets I explored in early 1990-ies. Everything changed. Visibility? I was visible to Thai taxi drivers about my age, and I was on the same frequency with them. And visible to the girls of most ancient profession. I don't need their services, though. It all makes me smile.😀

[@ryansweeney1661]

I think the problem with us men is that we sometimes expect attention for doing things And life is just not like that You need to understand that most people dont give a 💩 about you So why would they give you attention Even look at you when they can look at social media Stop expecting stuff for doing stuff Get on with you life be nice to people and expect nothing in return, not even a smile This might sound harsh but its reality Stop chasing women and find a hobby And one day, you'll find someone who appreciates you for who you are Not what you can offer them If you on Internet be yourself because you'll only attract bad people otherwise Good luck to anyone reading this message Merry Christmas 🎉🎉

[@cullen6015]

Listen, I'm a 61-year-old guy. I've been invisible to most people most of my life regardless of gender! But I don't see the world as most of you see it! I know what's what. And it's time men as a whole know what's what! Ever heard the saying: As above So below? That also applies to: How you think you are is how you are! Now read that line again! Understand, what you think, do, and say is broadcasting to the universe! What you put out is what you get back! It's time to start loving yourself and loving the Creator of you! And stop listening to those who push any narrative! Spiritual enlightenment comes not from the masses, but going inside. There is no separation from God, only what you perceive as separation! Life is beautiful! Start learning spiritual truths! Real spiritual truths, noy ehst someone says is spiritual truth. Nothing is as it seems! The psyop against humanity has been going for a very long time! There is a spiritual sickness in mankind! And until this spiritual sickness is healed, this will continue! Men should start meditating on a regular basis! God isn't what or who we think he is! One thing evrry person posses is the same! Consciousness!

[@quantumpotential7639]

Invisibility is a super power. I always loved the science fiction movie The Invisible Man. Not sure what the issue is. Invisibility, peace and solitude go hand in hand. You can't have one with out the other.

[@giovannij1368]

I understand. Im from South East Ldn myself. I lived in the south west of England for about a yr and the difference is crazy. Ppl actually say hello. I remember this elderly man started speaking to me when i was at the bus stop, i was in shock 🤣 my mum and step dad currently live in the south west of England, they moved out of Ldn coming up 3 yrs next yr. My mum has made friends and is doing so much during the week, things that she likely wouldn't of been motivated to do in ldn because its just such a "all about self" atmosphere. My step dad is also coming out of his shell abit from what ive heard. It is sad tho how society is so empty

[@debtanudas3897]

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[@SCGSHOW]

🙏🏻

[@thesword-sapdog322]

God bless you man. Thanks for knowing and putting into words.

[@SCGSHOW]

I appreciate that

[@wmhhealth2018]

I ignore them right back. When I'm at the gym I avert my gaze away from them. I actually had a very funny thing happen. I asked one woman a question about gym rules because I was unclear. Once she answered me I immediately walked off to continue my workout. She was so incensed that she followed me to where I walked off to and stared at me with the most hateful look. They all assume that whenever we talk to them it's a ploy to hit on them and when it's not they get infuriated. "How dare you NOT hit on me and therefore validate my ego"! We can never win guys and they are never happy! LOL

[@Mr.Honest247]

I’m a regular viewer of your videos recently and I enjoy them and they help my life. So by that I will be contributing my viewership despite it being small. I’ve also made my own channel recently and am taking pointers based on how you do your videos so I can have my own thing as well.

[@StevenSantaCruz-ix9is]

My mom worked a job I worked at, I hardly got interaction but she gets alot of interactions I don't mind in glad she's gets help but yea

[@bencrosbie]

I literally experienced that even since 2019 everything has turned. felt horrible and lonely now I'm used to it now I feel peaceful. its crazy how things have turned out and I don't like where things are going. Its great to know I'm not the only one.

[@hongolloyd8728]

Anonimity is true freedom.

[@bradjtrains]

I learned a new British insult today. Pillock. I had to pause and look it up! It is always a good day when you learn new insults and swear words. Another spot on video with a powerful message (and a cool insult). I can certainly relate to losing 2 of the 3 things you mentioned. I lost my father also a few years ago, and just recently went through a serious medical event that has left me with PTSD. I've felt invisible ever since I came home from a 2 week stay in the hospital. You certainly find out who your real and true friends are when you're hospitalized.

[@TwistedFuchsia]

At the end of the day, other’s opinions of you really dont mean nun. I seek my strength through God.

[@jeremy1350]

Hello. Men fear being alone. They ask me, you can only do so much alone, No? What do I do with myself? How do I get on with life ? I had to learn how to be alone, and be ok with that. I never fit in with any male crowd, in recovery or not. I could not stand being in the company of douchebags. I had to learn how to take myself out to dinner, go to a coffee shop, find myself, the one deep inside that holds such fear of being alone. It has taken a life time to know how to do this. I got very ill, and was terminally ill. Do you think anyone cared?? Nope. So over thirty years, I've learned how to hold my head high and just Go On !! I did live, but it came with a cost. I shut down all my social media because I hated myself. I lost my father in 2018, he did not want to know me, so there was that. UGH !!! My dad never contributed to my life. I have a spiritual life now, things to do every day, chores, and such. I go to food shop, and I do my daily good deed. I collect carts for the shop. I smile and am affable. We need to begin to learn how to be with ourselves, and know ourselves, what we like, what we like to do. Start feeding out personal lights. Find it, it is there !!

[@hongolloyd8728]

Embrace the despair.

[@jeremy1350]

@@hongolloyd8728 Yes, Exactly. If you feel like you are in the dark, you are your own light. Recognize it, and seize it. You don't have to be alone, when you are alone. But most men do not know how to look inwards and find themselves, because of their "shadows." But if you don't do the work, then why bother living at all, if you are going to sit there moping around in the dark !!! Get off your ass, and find what "Moves" you and do that ... I cannot do it for you, You have to do it for You !!

[@anastasiosdimtsis1]

Love this!!

[@DamienZachariah]

I can relate to much if this: I lost both my parents in less than two years. As for any help or support -crickets. You will get through this. Who gives a rat's ass what you wear in the consumption lifestyle? If that's all they judge you by they probably aren't worth much themselves. Good work and analysis.

[@nogroup5861]

I get positive attention for different reasons and let me tell you, it doesn't matter much, one way or another. It doesn't serve any purpose for men because we are still men, the sub-human class in this world. I just avoid getting out if I can. I feel stupid being alone while eating, drinking... outside.

[@blondequijote]

Positive attention only serves as a temporary relief from the tension. Peace can only be found within. And if peace gets boring, that's what videogames are for

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

I eat alone in my car.

[@keithhawkins7907]

​@Rambo-lv9hu I believe Rambo could eat anywhere, he's the lone wolf you don't mess with.

[@True38]

@@blondequijote 100% True.

[@thomaslund6013]

Society wants women to spend all our money

[@tetleyteabagger-bi4ny]

Get your passports fellas ✈️

[@andrewgage6942]

Invisibility is a blessing, I love being invisible, I go to work, I go home, I go to bed, I get up, go to work, go home, go to bed etc, no one telling me what to do, who I can see, who I can talk to, I own my own cars, motorbikes, properties, I live debt free, this wouldn't be the case if I were in a relationship. Many years ago, when I was attempting to be in a relationship, I was told that I'm ugly and seen as desperate because of my ugliness, realising that, I stopped looking, that was back in 1991, I drive a 13 year old car that is seen as an embarrassment, I don't have credit cards, my house is just enough for me, I don't have a flash TV, my motorbikes are old, I don't follow fashion, I buy my clothes from charity shops, I don't have a technical phone, I use an old Nokia phone, and I like my life the way it is, I've got good friends, that's all I need, I don't want commitment, I don't want to live with anyone, I like to be invisible

[@jdenha21]

As a gangstalk and hit attempt survivor, the sense of invisibility helps cptsd recovery. Why bemoan invisibility to those who ignore you while posting their amazingly vacuous vacation pics on fb or a random passerby who knows nothing about you or owes you the same?

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

Even good looking men being ignored out and about. Back in my time you would get cat callled sometimes.

[@zachdonaldson4848]

I like it if I'm invisible. People leave me alone and that is what I want.

[@societywtf6797]

I'm massively invisible, everyone I've known has had a relationship, my brother even has a gf and I question why I can't have that.

[@Armored_Saint]

Well, I'm a photograph that's been torn in half. We're all eighteen and we're in between. We need a helping hand to the holy land to be.... Invisible! ~ Dio (1983)

[@DoctorGhostFang]

It is interesting that men are desperate to have a girlfriends, while w omen are not desperate to have boyfriends. Apparently, there is an epidemic of loneliness among men while it does not apply to w omen. Someone from another planet would think that there are many more men than w omen.

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

vvomen are just good at pretending like they're doing great no matter what.

[@thechosenone93]

I don't think wo.mmen ever wanted boyfriends or even husbands. Someone once wrote that if wom..en didn't start to lose their looks by 30 they would keep as single as possible until their looks completely went and I think this theory is true

[@DoctorGhostFang]

@@thechosenone93 If loneliness means not being in relationship, then how come women aren't lonely and men are.

[@craigdavenport21]

​@@DoctorGhostFangwomen have closer relationships with their female friends and their needs are taken care of

[@smokingcrab2290]

Because women get worshiped for merely existing

[@phantom_not_chopper]

Watch Fight Club, read the Dokkado & eff Society - reject it.

[@WilliamFoley-t4c]

One reason i wear black so much,i feel invisible!

[@TestTheSpiritsIfTheyAreOfYAH]

Keep the world give me Jesus

[@thomaslund6013]

You are a Great Man pal. Your Father should be Proud

[@thechosenone93]

Look at the ironiy that you used a picture of a good looking guy for the thumbnail of a video about being invisible in spciety Whats worse is people didnt even notice this and watched the video anyway

[@KayleYan2231]

We may be invisible to society, but not in God's eyes ✝️🙏🏻 LIVE FOR GOD, BROS 💪🏻

[@TestTheSpiritsIfTheyAreOfYAH]

Amen 🙌🏼

[@RB-jq6gh]

Bio- poverty is real!

[@thomaslund6013]

Weakness

[@Angelique-m8l]

I've always been curious if my sexual experiences either meant i was considered attractive....or "easy" or a mix? I'm in my mid 30's & since i was 13 - 15.....i was somewhat popular with some girls in my old HS....id get approached by 2.... one wanted to talk to me for over a year after seeing me .... obsessed basically.... another trued to ve my friend But things got wild when i was 16 - 24..... I had 3 female therapists....my first actual sexual experiences They were married/mid 30's.... I had 2 sexual encounters after that....in just a little over a year....ive gotten offiers for a few casual hook ups....3 to be exact

[@JohnnyBravo-se5gz]

Truer words have never been shared.