Why Men Should Never Be Vulnerable In Front Of Women

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[@fatihht319]

I met a girl who always told me to show emotions etc, until she realized that I’m not a f***boy who has multiple options, when I finally released my feelings towards her, she immediately turn off and left me for dead. Never ever be vulnerable with women 🤝✌️

[@nathanielpercy2396]

Will smith is a great example of why you should NEVER be too vulearable

[@jt_rooster3228]

Exactly. Opening up is such a scam. It toxifies masculinity and makes you poor.

[@suprovo5117]

You should never be vulnerable at all at the first place.

[@punodelgato9001]

Will Smith is a confident, strong, and talented man. He has the same feelings and emotions as all of us, but once he showed that side, the world did that to him. Even his woman invalidated him.

[@justintidwell2717]

Exactly

[@chrystianlee5876]

Yoooo I’m dead

[@danielprada6153]

This two guys are absolutely correct! Women say one thing and want another!

[@UltimateD755]

They’re strange they give you their number then change their mind or block after when they agreed to meet

[@DanStratocaster1]

Most women will eventually use your vulnerability against you.

[@cheapspeed]

Facts

[@TheAustrianPainter87]

Faaaaacts

[@meriahs783]

Most men use women’s vulnerability against them. Another fact is: people use vulnerability against you sometimes so be careful who you’re vulnerable with. I don’t get this podcast because there’s no way in hell I’d be vulnerable to some of my boys the way I am with my wife.

[@krikri222]

You’re hurt

[@meriahs783]

@Cheese Doodle nyggah lol that brother was emotional incoherent chatter. What do you mean I don’t understand the question

[@mysterio1570]

Today my female Coworker went to Facebook to vent about her life. If I did that. I would not look good. I have never cried in front of a woman and never will. The Last time I had a major cry in front of anyone was at my friend's Mothers Funeral as she was like a Second mother and Ex Boss. Loved to the core. I had a female friend state to me that I am a Mystery to her, because I don't open up to her. It made me happy to hear that from her.

[@alejmc]

I would get so fired probably if I were to vent the way women vent online on Facebook: blatant men hate, “why men ain’t shit”, “they are killing us everyday” (even though THEY KNOW men die in droves by comparison) and everything is our fault. I was watching a series, very good actually, “Shining Girls”, but the premise is based around some crimes against women… that’s definitely on purpose because if they were some crimes against men the series wouldn’t gain any traction at all. Men are so disposable that it would be “bah, dudes died… what else is there to see”

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

Good ! Keep being a mystery ...as soon as they have you figured out they will get bored

[@chechanrevolution992]

@@TopFlightSecurity415Lol 😂

[@rds8807]

I was having a tough conversation about life with my soon to be ex wife, I told her my fears for the future and how I really felt at that moment. She would later use all of this against me during an argument. Never cry or be vulnerable with your woman. Ever.

[@Samaelparadise]

Negative, you should always be vulnerable with your lover but there should always be mutual respect in the play too. She disrespected you, she needs to relearn your trust which is okay. But there’s nothing wrong with being vulnerable to your lover.

[@streetsofireland892]

I have been there,cried in front of here and later I found out that she told her brother about it and he called me "Pussy" behind my back...we are divorced now !

[@0fficialselena__90]

There's nothing wrong with being vulnerable with your lover you are not responsible for her actions and that saids a lot about her and she's not the person for you. You putting all woman on something one woman did isn't okay and is just toxic and unhealthy so I hope you heal and do better for yourself.

[@alejmc]

Good god, don’t follow any of these “no man, it was only one, continue to be vulnerable” non sense… go talk it out with friends if any over some beers better. Why are you all advising this? If it was a good thing the internet would be mute on this subject.

[@0fficialselena__90]

@@alejmc That the whole point of a relationship and if there's no emotional connection then better off not being together same with friends as well. Be vulnerable if there's a safe space when you are comfortable. If you don't want to be vulnerable then journal about it, talk to yourself, record yourself and do self journal or men should start creating safe spaces instead of continue this toxic "man up" "showing emotions is weak" nonsense when showing emotions is a part of being human.

[@tubo1639]

These 2 guys are 100% correct. The only time you cry is when it's appropriate. The passing of loved ones, tragic events, or tears of joy.

[@joannamonique707]

Had a girlfriend look at me like I was weak for crying when my Dad died. And I'm a whole ass woman 🤷🏾‍♀️ you can be vunerable with a real woman but real women are very very rare these days.

[@0fficialselena__90]

@@joannamonique707 They aren't rare they are everywhere but since there are guys like this acting as if they know what woman want and think when they really don't nor can listen to woman, so the ''real woman'' you are talking about just quit and are now focusing on themselves being picky about who they want to give themselves to.

[@ko6171]

@@0fficialselena__90 yeah there's dudes you see never complain about getting women. That's cause they know what they want and what they can get.

[@0fficialselena__90]

@@ko6171 Yeah they do same with those "real woman" men also tend to speak of. Everyone has to do better man and woman because there are men who know who they wnat and their type but their type doesn't even want them and woman who choose those who choose them but don't choose those they actually want so everyone works the same waym

[@ko6171]

@@joannamonique707 I think the person you were with was just a horrible human being tbh. What she did was not normal.

[@Lwellj45]

Any vulnerability shared with your woman will ultimately be used against you later in the relationship.

[@user-nu3qp5oz1l]

you're saying your woman right? you don't mean with strange woman or maybe you do. or you really did share with strangers rather than your women - that's what you mean!!! but every successful man has a strong and supportive woman behind. That means on all angle. You're 45 years old and still blaming women.Why don't you put your cap in front of you and get serious about your life? Do you know you're reflecting your experience that you have put here. You just told everyone that your woman used your vulnerability against you. No offense, this is not personal but you're reflecting what happened to you. Don't stick to victim mentality. Learn from stoics

[@Lwellj45]

@@user-nu3qp5oz1l yes, sharing from experience so others can learn and/or adapt. 🤷🏽‍♂️ Def not a victim mentality over here 😉

[@dustywilson5461]

Then choose your women more wisely.

[@pack9270]

That could be with anyone…

[@puyelini]

Absolutely

[@SkitSkat8008]

Personally i don't give a damn what anyone thinks, ill be vulnerable when i think its appropriate and if the people i thought i could trust use that against me then I'll cut them out of my life. Theres big difference between showing vulnerability and being a crybaby, No one will stop me from being myself

[@Ynnojs1128]

💯

[@MSotelo503]

Vulnerability and Weaknesses is bad, Never do it. People will use it against you.

[@abugasem6606]

100% maybe not at that moment but will use it agaist you in the future.

[@bobcat24]

Even homies and family.

[@smartwater598]

Then you people are weak

[@jt_rooster3228]

@@moonAwake247 no. it's human nature

[@chainchaw1943]

"I get more attracted when a guy is vulnerable" back pedaling so hard. Stop lying to save face and be honest. Every single relationship I've been in I cried ONE time while explaining a past trauma and their personality did a complete 180. Women hate emotion in men and they'll treat you like a child after you show it.

[@youdontneedto8795]

As a man i know that showing our emotions can be a double edged sword. No woman will never be able to understand completely what it is for a man to be vulnerable. When a woman is vulnerable to a man we are honest and know we cant relate, but i know that i never held it agains them... women have always held it against us

[@chrystianlee5876]

@Patrick 😂😂😂 Good one

[@FreQuincyAndTheSoulTribe]

@@kareemmendoza5004 fuk this.. I dont..and I'm never emotionally down around a woman.. if she tries to bring me down.. cut off

[@timtresch4848]

It's not a double-edged sword, it's a malfunctioning pistol that shoots you in the f****** dick

[@victorsheldon7961]

"Sounds great on paper but thats not reality work" exactlyyyy

[@drewraff4436]

Being vulnerable with your woman is like a football coach panicking on the sideline asking his players what they think he should do when he's supposed to be the one giving them proper guidance. If that happens too much those players will hit the transfer portal just like a woman will leave that man for a guy that actually has his $h!t together

[@ricklegendary2990]

I lost my mom due to covid and was about to cry in front of my girlfriend, she looked at me and asked " are you going to cry, I held it in, she kept calling me sensitive and tried to bully me untill I cut her off. Never ever ever again will I shed tears in front of a woman

[@Maki-qw8he]

Damn man that sucks.. I wish you the best in life and I'm sorry that your mum passed

[@ricklegendary2990]

@@Maki-qw8he much appreciated 🙏

[@rocklee8865]

@Rick Legendary dude, i know that what the guys said is 1000 per true. But you have every right to cry for your loss. Much respect ✊

[@ricklegendary2990]

@@rocklee8865 thank you

[@Ash_tommo]

Ur mom is smiling down to u Love u bro, stay awesome! ❤️

[@Dwbulldog04]

They are right. I have seen women who decided to date other women instead of men often come back to men because they couldn’t handle dealing with the emotions of another woman. They craved that calming stoic demeanor to offset their emotions.

[@madelenCarlson3834]

U mean they've been programmed all their life to cater for men in a patriarchy...and u haven't seen a lot of bisexual go back to men bc they couldn't handle women's emotions....as it's unlikely u would know anyone and even more so that they'd share this piece of private info...keep pulling bullshit out of ur arse till ur gutted...

[@0fficialselena__90]

That's false!

[@ameilioracryptos5298]

Yeah imagine being lesbian ugh that's awful

[@jtwillersonetti3522]

It isn’t false. I have unfortunately witnessed this. It seems societally reinforced to keep emotions in which why some struggle with being open. Edit below: stop gaslighting others over their experiences. Exceptions prove the rule, they do not change said rule.

[@0fficialselena__90]

@@jtwillersonetti3522 saying men have calm stoic demeanor it's the most intruest thing to say even and if we are speaking reality Many many many woman are happier with other woman and the woman this person is speaking for aremost likely straight and were just exploring their options and sexuality to see what they really want and they found out it was men they wanted because many queen woman do NOT go back to men they are having the beta of both worlds.

[@Mr_Fairdale]

A girl I was talking to years back straight up told me “my bf got all emotional and I can’t really look at him the same. He’s all ‘Baby I love you don’t fight with me so much’ and he cried. Like a little kid.” She broke up with him. I felt bad for smashing. I used to be the guy in that situation. She got back with him, married him and has two kids with the dude. His name is Chad btw. He ain’t a “Chad” though. Lol just thought that was funny. Bottom line: Don’t believe anything a women says. Behaviors > words

[@Rondondemarco]

*PRECISELY* I TALK ABOUT THIS NIGHTLY ON MY POD.

[@SumboodyNao]

Awalt.

[@UltimateD755]

She’s not a good person

[@interstellarreaper8]

Myron face deciphering this womanize is hilarious

[@thefacelessquestion3333]

The lady in blue didn't speak again after that first 2 minutes.

[@nathanbrown6922]

I remembered crying about being almost homeless , life was in shambles to my ex and she just gave me a cold blank stare and didn’t console me at all … never again 3 years later own my own dump truck company and house now and pay therapist to only be vulnerable too I got to let it out somehow that’s who I am , just not to the future love of my life unfortunately.

[@tishataray]

Glad you're healing in a healthy way. 🙏🏾 Crazy I had a guy do d exact same thing to me when I was vulnerable...but I get it men go through it more which I agree with

[@puyelini]

Nearly all the men agree that the women will use your vulnerability against you later means that it's true. We're all speaking from experience. Men don't be stupid please. If you need a moment please take a drive, go sit somewhere by yourself or with a friend, release the pain and then go back home.

[@sarwall_]

That my friend is shoving it all under the rug and not dealing with it, which will one day cause you to become incapable of emotional intimacy. Women who want life partners and fathers to their children, don’t want that. Speaking from experience as a wife and a mother….

[@puyelini]

@@sarwall_ it's funny how you said all of that without touching on the fact that women actually do use your vulnerability against you as man. Please address that and how you expect women to stop that toxic behaviour rather than how you think we should protect ourselves as men from such toxic behaviour. Till then I encourage all men to desist from showing weakness in any shape or form to their women. We've got fellow men for that.

[@jelayachyanne3509]

@@sarwall_ Subconsciously no, we don’t and you know that.

[@justinbrooks7286]

@@jelayachyanne3509 exactly

[@FreQuincyAndTheSoulTribe]

Facts.. never let her know how much you hurt..get you a side chic

[@kylejoyner5955]

My girl literally just yelled at me after being emotional saying I can't handle the stress of the world... im now at the gym solving my own problems these dudes speak facts whether you like it or not

[@UltimateD755]

Ditch her

[@KevsCollectibles]

Happened to me recently. Vulnerability is Kryptonite to a Woman's attraction for you. They are ruthless!

[@mrcat926]

The guy is right . It's not socially acceptable for a man to be vulnerable. Men can only be vulnerable when they know nobody is watching them or when they're alone to themselves but with everyone else they cannot lower their guard.

[@alwayslatebychoice]

You never think it will be you until it is. I never thought me being vulnerable would be used as a bullet to hurt me but it was. I trusted this person more than anything and in what was a really low year for me it showed me how quick people can change. I supported her though everything and at the time I was stretched so thin and trying my best to support not only us but a family member of hers living with us due to mental issues…… everything was thrown back at me. I couldn’t be vulnerable it wasn’t what she wanted. I can honestly say that I will never be vulnerable with a woman I’m seeing ever again. I will be open about the relationship as a whole but my personal shit will be mine and mine alone to deal with.

[@jarlbalgruuf7701]

1:17 All the women are like “NO No no, being vulnerable is so powerful, you’re human.” They’ll say one thing then do another guaranteed they’d leave the guy.

[@PrimeSuperboy]

"Do you not crave the support of a woman?" With all my fucking heart. But I can't take that chance.

[@Junkyard-Wolf-Frost]

I broke down in front of my mom once and cried. She made a joke about it a few years ago. Which made me so furious that I literally turn off all emotions near her. Because I'd rather be a heartless, emotionless piece of shit than to be made fun of for showing that I have issues I can't deal with. I let all my anger, frustration, and pain build up, then I beat the shit out of a punching bag until my knuckles bleed. Or, I turn to the bottle. But that rarely happens.

[@iancavon7125]

Wow, that's sad. I used to think the only woman a man may reveal his vulnerable side to is his mom, but it seems like even that is not always true.

[@diegoadriandlc5273]

Thats pretty bad, you are doing the opposite of been Strong. You can't take people making fun of you and for that reason you are gonna hurt yourself.

[@Jl-lq5en]

That is not cool. Your mom and grandma should be the only ones you do that with if ever. Never your woman though

[@Junkyard-Wolf-Frost]

@@diegoadriandlc5273 I know. I'm slowly losing every single emotion I have. Which has made it easier to deal with stuff. But, destructive coping mechanisms have gotten more normal as a side effect.

[@jelayachyanne3509]

@@iancavon7125 no woman, and I mean no woman wants that, yes even your own mother will be repulsed.

[@havemaskwilltravel]

There's a big difference between vulnerability and weakness. Being vulnerable can be good, being weak is always bad.

[@emmanuelmoreno7642]

We find some truth 🙏🏽

[@orangefield2308]

interesting, whats the difference? can you explain?

[@Rondondemarco]

Unfortunately they can't distinguish the difference because they lack logic realistically. They even struggle discerning between an alpha male and an immature asshole. The logical comprehensive part of their brain 🧠 is literally 11.7% smaller than the males.

[@XVSting]

@@Rondondemarco dude you got some major troubles. I’ve been seeing you replying to everyone in this comment section. Not too late to turn around bud.

[@MSotelo503]

Both are bad unless you are Rich and have options. You show Vulnerability or Weakness they will use it against you.

[@jim7953]

That what they all say. Not every woman but most of them tell me that about other men. They loose faith in their men.

[@MrBenji1059]

🤷🏽‍♂️ I’ve always followed their actions more. Women, generally speaking, tend to be convert talkers

[@sagedorantes2766]

Anything and everything you say will be used against you. The past is the past. Never speak on it

[@sagedorantes2766]

@J S I meant it coming from being "vulnerable ". Example: don't tell your girl anything you've done via mistake or when you were young cause she'll always bring it up and or use it against you. Don't speak on past relationships, unless asked, don't tell her of your previous one night stands if you've had any cause 9 times put of 10 shell bring it up in an argument or use it against you.

[@pack9270]

You can’t change what happened in the past 🤷🏿‍♂️ just cut em off that means that person ain’t loyal stop trying to push that on everybody not everyone moves that way…

[@pragyanr.c9477]

These guys are absolutely correct! I don't understand why the mainstream media doesn't want to admit this but women and men are just different.

[@lethalhitd2493]

When dad is weak and vulnerable! The whole family is fucked.

[@jt_rooster3228]

Of course

[@mukeshsarkar8033]

Personally I cry alone.

[@someone7773]

It’s not even the word “most” it’s literally every woman I’ve Eva met

[@munashedlodlo4336]

100000% facts I lost a girl I was about to get into a relationship with , I wondered why for a bit but then I came to the Realization that it was because I opened up. I'm scarred for life now .Protect yourselves gents

[@jimmymagic7686]

Same here! I'm still traumatized from being vulnerable with them and it's been 5 years.

[@fuqwhatyouthink4465]

One day you'll find a woman who will love you enough to never judge you. 🙏🏼

[@fuqwhatyouthink4465]

@@jimmymagic7686 Move on my brother. A real woman is difficult to find but not impossible. Good luck

[@silentvoicespodcast]

@@fuqwhatyouthink4465 That woman is called a mom.

[@naturalaquatreasures]

@@silentvoicespodcast If you're lucky.

[@ptyleranodon3081]

I am the oldest child, raised by a very emotional single mother. My wife learned quickly that I was no stoic, yet still married me. She is a very strong and independent person. Despite all that I broke my right foot a couple of years back and was in a cast for 6+ weeks. I couldn't drive, but was still able to work from home the whole time and walk around with a boot. The main inconvenience was that I couldn't help cart our kids around to their activities. For that whole time my wife's reaction consisted of maybe 2% sympathy and 98% annoyance and frustration at my unhelpfulness.

[@anse1774]

pain

[@Jhudomat1]

“That sounds great on paper” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that got me.

[@ericlandry7890]

Bro I agree I had a ex girlfriend who was dating a mutual friend and he cried in front of her and she flat out said this dude is a pussy crying on my shoulder what happens when I need to cry LoL so basically what he said is true.

[@smartwater598]

Why were you crying tho? She probably was right lol did your dog die or sum? Or she right

[@josiahbutler2254]

@@smartwater598right, what was he crying about?😂

[@alejmc]

They act surprised… heck, Joe Rogan, who has no skin in any of this, was interviewing this MMA woman who happened to see her -also MMA badass- husband getting beat on a match… the way when she talks about it with such disgust in the face, because he was covering his face in a “girly way” in her eyes when he was receiving punches and all went down the drain for him in that fight. She said right then and there, that this is not a man and definitely NOT HER man… and that’s for covering your face, imaging crying on the shoulder of a woman.

[@Dattebayo04]

OK, then why do we want these women? If we gotta be a man, they can be in the kitchen if that's all it's worth

[@eligreg99]

It’s true. Gf of 1 year broke up with me because she no longer loved me romantically only platonically. Broke my heart completely but of course as a man I’m not suppose to cry.

[@Bigmoney333]

Don’t even cry to tell your mom or sister your problems. I’ve had my own mother and sister throw my problems in my face after a debate. Not even a argument! A simple debate! Never tell a woman nothing !

[@tommyt7441]

Saw this a while back n said "naaa". Cuz my chick never did that. I would cry over my daughter that I haven't seen in idk how long at this point. And recently 10 months ago lost my mom cuz a heart attack. And I would ball n ball over my daughter and then my mom. Now both. And she just recently called me a "little bitch" and that shit hurt worse than anything. I'll never tell her anything anymore

[@thisguywritehere]

If she's the type that NEEDS to see her mans weakness, vulnerability, crying... She's the type that's looking for an opening to take her place as the leader in the relationship.

[@patrickyeboah570]

These men are 💯 correct

[@calebcooper5922]

The only time is acceptable for a man to cry is: - The death of a loved one (family, pets, close friends, etc.) - Tears of happiness ( wedding, your kids going to college, the birth of your daughter) Anything else you girl will look at you as weak and effeminate.

[@chunkwobbler2544]

Myron is definitely NOT stoic. Watch him scream and yell when things get heated in his podcast. A true stoic is stone cold calm and steady as a rock. ZERO emotional volatility of any kind.

[@chunkwobbler2544]

@neal cassady Thank you. The emotionality of simping for another man can hamper a dude's reading skills.

[@truthseeker6377]

@@chunkwobbler2544 hmmmm, so simping as opposed to you what, hating and backstabbing?

[@OurFoundingLiars]

@Big Al Myron is famous for freaking out and kicking out the guests. doesn't mean the advice on this particular clip is bad though

[@chunkwobbler2544]

@@truthseeker6377 You call yourself "Truth Seeker" yet you don't know the true meaning of words. Backstabbing is when you betray a friend; I'm not Myron's friend. Even if I was his friend, I'm stating a FACT about the meaning of a word which is not betrayal of any kind. Stoic is someone who controls their emotions at all times; Myron does tend to get animated, agitated and loud on his show which I've watched many times; that's the complete opposite of stoicism.

[@Kevin-kj5th]

Griey

[@vonb2792]

There's a limit to be vulnerable... The guy is too axiomatic ''its this or that'' but HE'S RIGHT. A man can only be vulnerable in deep situations where it's ''appropriate'' like Death or Failure than they have to pick themselves up. ... The vulnerable men cry at everything and they stay there cause they soft = losing attraction aura

[@abugasem6606]

never show a women or anyone your weak spots because they might use that agaist you in the future (look at johnny depp), cuz you have no idea when people are gonna turn agaist you they just flip in a second no matter how close they are to you even if they were your best friends or family even.

[@alexmoon4149]

True, but Amber Heard is a sociopath.

[@sharonbalbina825]

If you don't want to end up like Johnny, avoid girls likes Amber

[@tishataray]

True

[@silentvoicespodcast]

@@sharonbalbina825 So avoid most modern women? Got it!

[@joeam4977]

2:24, when the blonde is describing the best sex she ever “had” is after a man cries. When a man breaks down in front of a woman, at that exact moment, the woman feels above that man because he is more weak than her, she’s conquered him. So, much like a man who wants to have sex after winning a fist fight, women want the same. The difference is, after a guy cries, she can never respect him again. Boys/Men should listen to guys like Rollo and Myron.

[@smartwater598]

Nah you’re clueless sex qas best because it was passionate crying is form of passion you’re hust insecure ncel

[@joeam4977]

@@smartwater598 Your comment is not even a formed sentence, so I’m not really sure how to respond. On a separate note, I did get laid twice today.

[@IvanoSimac]

they should show this to young guys in elementary school as basic education for men.

[@LikwidSnake]

Even if your wife/girlfriend "loves you" ... be vulnerable and cry about your problem enough and they'll be wanting you to call a therapist instead. He's 100% right, women aren't equipped to handle real man problems/issues and say they want men to cry but don't actually want it.

[@iantung5317]

i actually feel like opening up and showing yourself to her makes it more real. if youre in a long term relationship, she should know that youre also human, it doesnt mean youre not masculine, but everyone has a vulnerable side, and true love is accepting that and being the safe space of each other. i know im masculine but i dont hide the fact that i also have a weak vulnerable side, i work my hardest to be strong but we all have weak sides, its more about knowing who to open up to rather than not showing emotions at all. but thats just my opinion.

[@genrobsan]

I’ll be the man and as a father will guide my children to be strong and independent. I’ll let my wife be the soft one and comfort my children. Being a parent is a perfect balance when the father and mother both do their part.

[@sarwall_]

You can teach them to be strong and independent while also not teaching them to bury their feelings and shove everything under the rug, and grow up to be completely incapable of emotional intimacy. Just speaking from experience from my spouse that grew up with two parents just like this. Parents need to be on the same page and parent together, not separately. That’s the whole point

[@abugasem6606]

couldn't have said it better myself 👍

[@danielnwogu5135]

@@sarwall_ Men have different ways of showing emotions for example boxing, MMA, Running Meditation or even crying by yourself crying in front of your Women and kids shows weakness which isn’t good

[@TheLionKing999]

One time I was drunk and broke down cause I felt bad for mistreating her on FaceTime with my ex and cried and she had a weird look on her face. The next time she said “you’re always crying,” I was shocked. It was literally that one time over the years. She became colder as well and stand-offish. Almost anytime I was vulnerable around a girl it backfired for me very quickly no matter how they appeared or where they’re from. This seems one of the things that are super innate in biology sadly

[@johnmileso21]

Total bad faith from the ladies. He asked if they would rather their man lose his job or go on a vacation, and they argued that him losing his job wasn’t a big deal.

[@bfe954]

Yeah those women are lying and we’re stumped at the end and didn’t admit it. When I toughened up and figured out how to deal with my own shit I became way more attractive to women

[@brianwick]

Listening to this woman talk about women being feminine and masculine is like watching a guy pitch a slow ball to Myron to hit it out of the park

[@goddessglow6996]

The only time men can cry in front of a woman is when she really loves him.

[@rhyde]

These dudes are fake alphas lmao

[@Blackjesus3]

Exactly

[@mtithewoodentank4817]

"These dudes are fake alphas lmao" -Neckbeard

[@Hamza-tj2ff]

“Fake alphas”🦧

[@rhyde]

@@mtithewoodentank4817 lmfao neck beard??? You clearly don’t know the difference between a neck beard and an actual beard my friend

[@burreda]

You make me feel better :)

[@slipperysteve2513]

The fellas here are missing the big picture of crying around women. They’re thinking crying over trauma or personal issues. That is weak, I agree. However they’re missing the crying over death, sad stories or truly horrible events. Anyone who cries because they had a hard day is fragile. As a man, you should be your woman’s rock. But you should let yourself be vulnerable when the time is right.

[@alwayslatebychoice]

Why we need more spaces for just men. Women don’t understand our problems and taking shit out with men that have gone through the same shit helps more than any woman telling you to be more vulnerable….

[@SJ-qs2gj]

As rough and harsh as it sounds. He's right. Men gotta be strong.

[@kiro6188]

No they don’t

[@ahacks7692]

@@kiro6188 yes they have to be strong. It is nature

[@kiro6188]

@@ahacks7692 literally it’s a human nature not a gender nature silly

[@Aribbonofsoundmen]

@@kiro6188 nope its male nature.

[@josiahbutler2254]

yes you do but dont be afraid to show vulnerability, thats why the suicide rate in men is so high

[@MonaMarMag]

In my opinion a woman just want to have by her side a man who is responsible , treat her with respect ,whom she trust , who loves her and with who gives her stability and security , whose help she can count on . Man has the right to cry if he feels like , after all , a man is a man not a machine .

[@drlove994]

😂😂 yeah sure

[@dodji582]

😄

[@unknownname3189]

@@drlove994 They saying all that but know they capping.

[@pack9270]

@@drlove994 y’all stupid 😂😂

[@mtithewoodentank4817]

😂

[@FloridaAirGunReviews]

You hit the nail right on the head. If you can’t be vulnerable around your woman, then she’s not for you a real woman who is deeply in love with you wants you to be vulnerable with her and she wouldn’t see you any other way it would increase the bond between you two and if you can’t be portable in front of your woman, and she definitely not for you point-blank that means onto the next and find that woman that’s truly for you

[@instasnaptv]

Bs, women become revolted when you cry. Women will tell you that by making fun of their boyfriends who did in the past.

[@_.whoischandler]

I wanna be open but I don’t wanna lose the people I love . I don’t want them to lose feelings for me because I cried . I rather cry in silence .

[@sarwall_]

You just haven’t met the right one yet my guy, trust me

[@ThatsShowbizBabyy]

The people you love are trash if you feel the need to bottle your emotions up around them. Find people who appreciate you and validate your emotions.

[@josiahbutler2254]

@@ThatsShowbizBabyyexactly 😂😂😂😂

[@carlosizz89]

As a general rule yes men have to be strong leaders, it's why we're logical so we can provide solutions and apply tactical steps to keep going. You have to get to know your woman well so you know when to show some emotion so she can see you are not heartless and capable of cruelty/sociopathy but always with restraint bc you have to control and contain your emotions on demand to make decisions and perform when it comes to protection and provision.

[@Quonchon]

I was in a bad place after losing my grann, and all my other problems in life kinda resurfaced from that (work, general unhapiness about lots of things that were botteled up, etc...). I opened up to my gf of 4 years to find a bit of comfort, got dumped 3 weeks later

[@warrenkuhn925]

Women don't know what they want but they can get anything they want without doing anything for it . This is the problem now days , women can do whatever without consequences.

[@Doshanko]

If I ever show vulnerability to a woman, it will be towards a woman I'm not attracted to nor in a relationship with. There are decent female friends out there. But DO NOT show that in front of a girl you're interested in romantically, it tends to be a bust.

[@uncanaldeentretenimiento9918]

This is not a matter of biology nor masculinity of feminity. This way worse and way more unfair. For the same situation, a women will be more attended and helped than a man. For the same crime, a man will be punished more severely than a women (and even more, taken differently). In a world that everyone has the freedom to dedicate to whatever you would like, there is no reason to asigna role for women nor men. The only issue is, that while a woman has no longer the pressure to become a wife, a man still has the pressure to know all the game and be a provider (when they are not genuinely interested in you). Combine those 2 factors and we have this. An empathy gap and the lies and incongruence of the roles for both sexes. We need to learn the rules not to perpetuate them but rather, change them.

[@daisukegori2112]

The strong stoic man is a good father. When he teaches his kids he is showing love by making them strong. You need that strength to protect that beautiful world you speak of.

[@alisonmcgregor2002]

i disagree with these guys. i agree with the 2 girls. as a woman, i find it powerful when a man opens up his emotions to you. i would want to comfort and hug a man while he is crying. i would not leave the relationship with him just for crying, that’s such a stupid fucking reason to break up with someone. that’s not being weak. men crying is actually strong. because men are kind of taught to bottle up their emotions and be strong because “boys don’t cry”. well guess what. men are still human. it is 100% okay for men to cry. i know some men might be scared to open up to their loved one, but if that person ends the relationship because of it, then they weren’t the right one for you. date somebody who actually cares about you having emotions and doesn’t shame you for it

[@djcelabretee]

whew! I can stop holding my breath! best comment I have seen. A shred of humanity at last.

[@thedeanogaming]

Just stop lying

[@alisonmcgregor2002]

@@thedeanogaming i’m not lying, this is genuinely how i feel.

[@ArcadiaPorter]

If you can't realistically be vulnerable with your woman, then she's not worth it.

[@slumlord86]

no one is wrong or right, in the end, most women do want a man who is strong, masculine and that can provide, it's no secret.

[@SumboodyNao]

I’d argue all women. That’s literally hardwired.

[@everydayfun9531]

Most women Just Want a Prince Charming Rather than Peasants like us...

[@Reivehn]

@@SumboodyNao I argue no, Some woman are more man than woman and act more the part too, Same with some men. The inverted households where your stoic breadwinner wife while the man plays the emotional household caretaker actually do exist, and are perfectly valid, they just dont get considered with the general trend of the population.

[@Victor_386]

@@Reivehn who paid you to type this blue pilled nonsense.. Disney?

[@samtrimble1612]

Don't play up to women. Cry in front of them, who cares. You don't need a women to be valid. If she loses interest who cares. You don't need a woman to survive life.

[@ashtonmae9705]

If you are afraid to cry before a woman because of how you fear they will view you then you're weak

[@johnsongregory5897]

@@ashtonmae9705 what?! You have to have an iron mind as a man

[@oeckstei]

First and foremost men need strong diverse male friendships and even a few female friendships to have vulnerable conversations with and to learn how to be emotionally intelligent and to process emotions in a healthy way. Having a girlfriend or wife be the only source you go to to talk about problems can be putting too much pressure on her and make the relationship less appealing and stressful. Men should still be able to open up to women but there are limits and levels to this.

[@imitatorofJesusChrist]

Wrong.

[@jt_rooster3228]

@@imitatorofJesusChrist exactly. The more people you’re able to harass, the more you’re able to win.

[@user-eg7rx7yl3p]

100% facts. You are able to show your emotions to your women but shouldn't show that it's your weakness

[@zabumbaman1828]

Another problem with this conversation is that women's declaration does not matter, because our gynocentric society does not force women to be coherent in both words and actions. They can declare all day long how supportive they are for male vulnerability, but at the end, when relationship fails, no one will accuse them that this was due to their lack of support.

[@LongLiveG]

"You're telling men not to be emotional ever" wrong. He's telling men not to be emotional in front of their girl. If you have male problems go to your male friends

[@shivani815]

if you can’t even be emotionally vulnerable in front of her, why is she your girl to begin with? go date your male friends.

[@aaronpv1973]

@@shivani815 they are saying woman dont like vulnerbale men which is true s

[@josiahbutler2254]

@@shivani815exactly, just wasting womens time, these guys have built up trauma and it shows

[@MrThepopopopo]

Fathers are not there to console past the brief moment it takes to acknowledge an issue at hand. Fathers are there to toughen and promote resilient thinking and behavior. Mothers console and nurture. This is why children need both. A soft father is effectively a mother. Both are necessary. Feminist thinkers accuse masculinity of prescribing a suppression of emotion, and this is not the case. A real man doesn't suppress his emotions, he controls them. A real man keeps a clean mind and acts in a manner that would easy to justify truthfully. A real man understands that enveloping their psyche around the idea of the hero is not only beneficial to them, but is immediately beneficial to those around him. Strong men make good times, for everyone.

[@lovepeacebliss]

It also depends on the masculine/feminine ratio of the women. If shes 100% feminine, then yes you need to be 100% masculine to bring that balance.

[@evelynhernandez274]

Hello everyone, I want to take a moment to talk about this clip. While Myron may be focused on high-value individuals who have achieved financial success and built legacies, it's important to remember that every person has value, regardless of their financial status. We must recognize that every individual, including those who may not be as financially successful, can contribute to society in meaningful ways. It's important to value people for who they are as individuals and not just for their financial achievements. Men and women both have the potential to build and contribute to society in different ways, and it's essential to recognize and value each other's strengths and differences. Vulnerability about our feelings and what we bring to the table is essential for growth and progress, regardless of our financial status. In conclusion, let us value and appreciate each other for our unique strengths and contributions, regardless of financial status.

[@rickybell2149]

Showing emotion to your girl is like exposing your Achilles heel… once you’ve opened up and shown your weaknesses they won’t forget…we have enough evidence that no matter how pretty or nice a female is or comes off they can be deceitful and vengeful…protect yourself stay stoic and stay safe.

[@czargraham8790]

Get some therapy bro.

[@rickybell2149]

@@czargraham8790 u sound like a broad lmao

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

@@czargraham8790 no hes right...to say otherwise tells me you havent dated enough women

[@czargraham8790]

@@TopFlightSecurity415 nice try. I am a married woman, so I have some experience on the topic. Many men wont even open up with many of their close friends, there needs to be some kind of emotional outlet for men. The suicide rate is an absolute travesty.

[@josiahbutler2254]

@@TopFlightSecurity415u both need therapy, this type of advice explains why the suicide rate in men is so high

[@MJ-wi1tc]

Adam is destroying PBD’s empire one podcast at a time

[@hunterking6123]

He’s adding to Pats Empire. Not destroying anything 🤣

[@redcomic619]

Deadass WTF is this?

[@Quinten13]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@mr.mister3592]

As men, feel your shit, acknowledged your shit, deal with your shit... just don't lose your shit, especially in front of a woman. Only a real woman will admit to the fact that they'll use a man's vulnerability against him if they're aware of the fact that the man they are with shows vulnerability. Always control how you react to your emotions.

[@unkillableblunt]

I think the best example to pay attention to is when he gave the scenario about coming to your wife with a problem or coming to her with a vacation and asked what more sexy and her reply was “We’re talking about sexy” when a little while before they stated they had the hottest sex with a man who cried. All of a sudden sexy and attraction goes out the window and it’s brought back to what they said they’d do if the man was to become vulnerable considering I don’t know them or have anything to to prove they’d do what they’d say leads me to believe they don’t fully believe in their own words.

[@eugenefontenot7898]

Those women are argumentative and masculine. They are too talkative.

[@ewan80]

She only thinks that it's alright and that has no effect on her and most other women, but deep down in her subconscious mind that guy is instantly viewed as weaker and less attractive and she is not aware that it's to do with her man being a crybaby, you cannot control your subconsciousness, dummy whamen.

[@paddleman3131]

These kinds of videos don't make me bitter, they raise my bar for woman and I can't help but feel like most women don't reach it.

[@daryusi9347]

i am usually a cold, emotionless person and my ex gf would get MAD at me for not being vulnerable with her. first off, doing that is uncomfortable and out of my character. secondly, if i was to do that, she'll just think i was weak. NEVER be vulnerable with a woman, guys, no matter what.

[@ramzyy5362]

Smart guy

[@DDuMas]

The point the women on the show is missing, is that, how many times do you think men want to be stabbed in the back? We learn our lesson once with women, we're not going to keep sharing with different women until we find the right one.

[@manaiahall4305]

If I saw a woman crying I would be right there beside her. If I saw a man crying I would be right there beside him. I don't give a fuvk about your gender, if a person's crying then my natural women instincts don't matter. MEN listen up and chose your women wisely, everyone is not the same. You kings don't need to give a shit if you're woman don't like you being vulnerable. Like the man said you'd have a choice to solve the problem or be emotional about the problem. Well I say both, let your problems out by expressing it, gives your brain space to think about the situation clearly. When I cry till 1.am in the morning next day I feel like my head's free. Remember crying isn't the only way to show your vulnerability, anger, actions, even your ugly laugh. Most of the time men resort to anger to let their emotions out. What's worst, seeing your man get frustrated and confused, or seeing your man crying? Up to you. I don't speak for all women, I speak out for my confusion on what men believe, on how a woman seeks a mans protection. A mans been hurt by a women, a women's been hurt by a man. One says 'Im never gonna trust a man again, the other says 'im never gonna trust a women again', they say that cause they have met a shit person, and because of that they think the rest is probably shit too. Its hypocritical for me to say all men are the same but their not. ALL IM SAYING IS YOU PEOPLE GOT SHIT TASTE IN WOMEN IF THAT'S WHAT YOU THINK.

[@ernestorecinos5768]

She’s capping. We signed up for this together. She would bounce.

[@bigd1223]

If you tell your guy friends your problems they most likely won't care either.

[@garybrown5769]

These two women are dangerous C knowing how to switch personality to gain a situation . Avoid A man knows how to exit a relationship, cry , six month later she’s gone … no drama , the man gets to say “it’s okay, be free” and be the bigger man , letting her go 💀

[@i-10haula88]

If you want Chad and Tyrone to clap your girls cheeks then take the advice from the women in this clip.

[@mrcat926]

It made them vulnerable to even talk about vulnerability, them meaning the guys

[@birdworldist]

This guy is out of his mind

[@earldeuna6932]

The woman admitted it herself. When her man admits weakness, they will "work" Itself out, which means the woman will take over the masculine role. And once she becomes more masculine, the man becomes less and is left for someone who has more

[@joeysausage3437]

Put some socks on. Ladies and Gentlemen adam is the new Dr. Ruth.

[@luckypyjamastv1473]

When a man cannot be vulnerable and emotional sometimes in front of his girlfriend/wife, he has the wrong partner in his life. My ex-girlfriend was the type of person that was disgusted with me when I was just a little bit emotional. She wanted me to be this strong, masculine guy when we were together 100 % of all time. Needless to say, we broke up because that wasn't truly me. My current girlfriend has the same mindset as this woman right here in the video and I agree with her. And I can tell you it's pretty amazing to have someone who will support you when there is just too much pressure on you. I have made so much progress (both mentally and physically) in the past year so far that it is almost unbelievable.

[@SteadilyGrinding]

God loves you.

[@dcrump]

Waiting for Rollo and TK Kirkland response now … ☺️