Men, Stop Telling Women Your Problems.

[@bkbroiler8069]

So true. Its why men need to be part of a group of other men so they have someone to talk to when they have real problems.

[@dawonfields7360]

It’s not that easy some guys are so insecure and misleading some do even like kissing on the cheek! A lot are so homophonic

[@BUnspoken]

My most personal struggles are kept between myself and God

[@rockkstah2550]

Keep it that way and that what it’s supposed to be.

[@babushkaboi4640]

Love this

[@magacop5180]

Never ever ever EVER but NEVER ever EVER tell a woman about your problems.

[@alex754411]

A woman will always use what you tell them against you when times are tough and tell whoever wants to hear also.

[@iamkinginmycastle2018]

One lesson I learned from trying to be open about my problem with my ex wife with my girlfriend. That what I learned: everything you say going to be used against you every time you have a argument she will use things you tell her to shame you to destroy you. Then don't be open honestly with them.

[@pamelabratton2501]

Hahaa! How about you respect your vows to your wife

[@kembowhite1903]

@@pamelabratton2501 what?

[@blacklyfe5543]

Facts

[@everythingbeautyboutique5002]

That’s with anybody not just men

[@johnnybrown307]

This is true, people love remembering all the bad stuff that happens to you but forget all the good stuff.

[@accessfashion]

This man is correct in everything he is saying. Never post personal issues on your social media pages or talk about such things in chat rooms. It is nobody's business, not even extended family or family. You can talk to a parent but if you are an adult, you need to learn how to handle your own problems in positive and productive manner.

[@eastly2009]

I think we all needed this

[@rockkstah2550]

It’s because I’m divorced cause I refuse to be vulnerable with my ex, definitely never cried in front of her. I’m a man and I face my crap head on and don’t need a woman’s emotionalism to help me.

[@cassandrab8452]

I really appreciated hearing this

[@Hilary945]

I blocked two different men's numbers this week because they dumped inappropriate problems on me with no intention of getting help or taking accountability. I don't fix men, they can go to therapy.

[@meateorman4191]

i wish i had listened to this video 20 minutes ago.... miserable

[@Crawleyman]

Learn from that mistake and live in the now

[@meateorman4191]

@@Crawleyman best advice thanks. i have lived in the now most of my life as i always say "The past doesn't exist, the future will never happen, and Now lasts forever. " i have been living by this for a long time. i just got into Jesse Lee Peterson about 1 year ago, Love the guy!

[@blacklyfe5543]

U mean 20 years ago

[@meateorman4191]

@@blacklyfe5543 😎👍

[@dawonfields7360]

@@Crawleyman I never cheated with other males I was never taught from uncles or fathers and it’s really not easy some guys are so insecure and very misguided especially in general some blks men are so homophonic and crazy especially in barbershops hell u can’t even hug or kiss a man on the cheek with out a insult ! U get beat up or threaten for that! They think this is part out their manhood or something I don’t know but some u have to becarful some men are not for u it’s sad any advice on that

[@fredmontana1]

Women entered the workforce in 1972, Before the feminist movement 1972, when a man had problems with marriage they talk to other men. After 1972 men stop talking to men and started talking to women. Women were given men wrong answers and this created problems in the marriage.

[@blacklyfe5543]

Never knew

[@scaringclaring5240]

Where did you get that from? Women were in the workforce way before that. IK plenty of women who were working in the 1960s and many even in the 50s and before. I had an old lady doctor as a kid in the 70s. She was really old.

[@kingzway7]

Amen great message simple but powerful !!

[@ZenyaMKW]

for people that do not believe this. I can tell you from experience that girls do not like it when you tell her your problems.

[@rockkstah2550]

They will also loose their respect for you.

[@demonicsalem]

I second this.

[@skatertrash4205]

I was told it was the right thing to do

[@raftai665]

You was lied to.

[@DemarLewis-p5y]

Amen 🙏🏽 brother underrated video

[@kaddirichman3262]

ThAts real tho. They don’t care no way!!!!

[@topgun213]

i don't agree, i think they care a lot, but who cares about being cared for as a man, as a man you want to fix and solve the problem, and women are just not going to do that for you

[@pixi3d3ath47]

I think the issue here is that some men don’t know how to communicate in their friendships with men, so then they don’t know how to do it properly with women they are dating. Women are not free therapists! Some men wait and wait until the last minute to communicate, and then as the woman you’re expected to take it all in and hear them complain about themselves with zero resolve for their issues. That resolve can be practiced with other men so you aren’t dumping all your baggage onto your partner without asking, as if there’s any pleasing way to respond to that. With women we have even less of an excuse, because we’re generally socialized to communicate our issues and be in tune with our emotions so we can properly handle them and don’t make others responsible for them.

[@davidgee2688]

thanks for the advice 🙏

[@travelwithoutmoving8842]

This applies to your Beta Male Friends too. Remember a Beta Male is a Women inside. Just not all the way Gay yet but they act just like Women.

[@lefthookouchmcarm4520]

This has been 100% true for me as well. Whenever I’ve opened up to women about my problems, they’ve ended up using it against me when they’re upset. For example, I used to have bad anxiety, but after starting meditation and the silent prayer, It's basically gone. I can see when I'm about to gondown the slide and decide not to. What duh! Yet, every time I shared this anxiety issue with women, it would come back as ammunition during arguments. I’m 42, married twice, with three kids so plenty of experience with evil spirits. I've found that sharing your issues often leads them to put that stuff in a mental bucket labeled "reasons he doesnt deserve respect", but if you focus on silent prayer and letting go of ego and negative influences, it’s easier to see it for what it is. You can just laugh it off because it’s not really about you-it’s an evil spirit at work inside that woman. As a Buddhist, I’m not fully convinced that Satan is involved, but I think using concepts like Satan to represent thoughts or negative influences is a skillful way to dispel ignorance (a major goal in Buddhism). In Buddhism, forgiveness is key, though it’s approached differently than in Christianity. Jesse’s advice about forgiving your parents is a gem. I’ve found that forgiveness can be a shortcut to breaking down identities in my own experience. You'd achieve the same reaults, probably via loss of attachment, ill-will, and resentment, specifically and strategically aimed at your parents but good luck thinking to do that on your own, and it can take a long time to apply it to everyrhing... regardless, forgiveness seems to do this in a well wrapped package. Thank you Jesus! Thank you JLP! For me, once I forgave my parents, it felt like that unloved kid inside me finally returned, and now he’s safe. I went to play a song on the piano afterward, and it was like a timestream was converging on my body and bringing my childhood self back to me. What duh! Amazin! I highly recommended mindfulness, meditation, silent prayer, and forgiveness. Its no joke.

[@anthonycroaker732]

I been fucking up

[@raftai665]

Me too. But we learn and overcome.

[@paulcooper5748]

It come from feminism.

[@mabowde8904]

😂 vice versa & correction it’s Nubian

[@kaddirichman3262]

First

[@forever-flat.5608]

What No Second Prizes? Lol.

[@Godisreal.]

Men dont like to hear about womens problems either.