Why Men Should NOT Be Vulnerable With Women

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@lestwins8114 4 ай бұрын

I notice everytime women talk about this topic it's ALWAYS " I'm not that type of woman " or " Well I'm different " i want my man to be emotional " .

@CrisisHipHop 4 ай бұрын

That's a fact lol

@Yafeelme510 3 ай бұрын

There all the same lol

@MrJmarzx 4 ай бұрын

10:04 deeep game ! On the “if God came to you ; and was being weak you would see God differently” same for us as men with women !! Aye MR L you preaching without preaching

@abracadabra2337 4 ай бұрын

they want you to be emotional with them so that they can feel that you trust them. simple as that. it's a power play. once you do that it's over.

@Tido_sav 4 ай бұрын

Great point I would also add that they’d want u to be INVESTED emotional likewise with trust them to gain that leverage which gives them power/validation to feel safe…but what they’d want shouldn’t matter as much if at all compared to your goals and purpose

@Jhundo614 4 ай бұрын

I guarantee if her dude start wildin out getting emotional crying an bitchin all over the place she definitely gonna look at him different 😂

@RNDMCLO 4 ай бұрын

That chick want a boyfriend-girlfriend.. she want the best of both worlds.

@AlfonsoFerdin 4 ай бұрын

Women have a lot of pride, they refuse to be wrong even to their detriment.

@jama3335 4 ай бұрын

I met this woman at a coffee shop recently and she was complaining to me about her man always complaining and opening up to her about his emotions.

@universallink791 4 ай бұрын

Keep educating them Locario ✊

@BeyondCapoStatus 4 ай бұрын

They’re going to say everything that sounds great on the surface but when they get these emotions from a guy and they say it’s ok with them for the relationship, subconsciously they will feel differently about the man and the funny thing is they won’t try to feel that way or even realize that it’s happening.

@marvindiaz8523 4 ай бұрын

This women called Beauty contradicted her self several times during the segment. Mentioned on several occasions, it's not about a man being emotional to her but about being "himself". Yet when Locario said to her if him being himself is not being emotional with his women she totally did not agree with it. Additionally, she said out of her mouth that she likes a "submissive man" and when questioned about that immediately proceededs to alter what being a submissive man is. Come on let's keep it a 100, this girl wants a man to follow her lead but then disguises it under the vale of 50/50, or men and women are equal which is upsurd! Last but not least, her go to line, all those thing may apply to those women but I am different! (and this is me paraphrasing) I see this with many women. A man will be making perfect sense in a segment like this and because she can't refute or have a decent comeback she will disassociate her self from the 4billion or so women in the world and sites that she is different! Bottom line men, listen to men like Mr.Locario they know women better then they know themselves, have been with hundreds of women, experience always wins.

@thetexassaint6571 4 ай бұрын

Just started the video, and she strikes me as a woman who wants to”sensitive” guys because they are easier to control and influence and she wants the upper hand in any way possible I may be wrong about her but many women think like this whether it’s admitted or not

@Paul-yh3fl 4 ай бұрын

You not wrong. You bang on.

@TheFreeMannn 4 ай бұрын

This is why most people struggle in the dating game. Gotta know your role & accept your nature. It’s ok to be a MAN & it’s ok to be a WOMAN. There is no partnership, only leaders & followers.

@connyslayer4661 4 ай бұрын

Correct, in fact leadership and following is not even a bad thing. If both are doing their roles properly , then there is no issue. People have this obsession of leveling with people when they can be happy doing their roles well and appreciating their own importance.

@bastiat6865 4 ай бұрын

Both women answer a practical question with abstract answers and justifications. The bottom line is that a man being "vulnerable" in a sexual/romantic relationship grants her power over that man that she does not need and should not have, unless he is no longer willing to lead. And that's a different story. That is not leaving her out of the loop. It's handling business. If I need her to assist, I tell her what needs to be done. I don't get all emotional about my challenges. Shit hast to get done. Being emotional about it is useless. Just get it done. Women lose respect when you're vulnerable. Loss of respect means loss of leadership. I wouldn't give either of these chicks my time.

@thetruthis4750 4 ай бұрын

At 23:45 You can tell in their face they knew that Locario gave them the perfect analogy

@connyslayer4661 4 ай бұрын

Very interesting debate and great work as always, Mr.Locario. This is a well debated topic especially in terms of dating and this concept has been misunderstood by many. Men are supposed to be expressive with their emotions and logic but they need to be in control of them so they maintain structure and leadership in a relationship. It's perfectly fine to express your emotions but you need to be smart and mature about them. Overflow of emotions with no self control leads to many deadly consequences including vulnerable to manipulation. This is true for not only men but also women. Men are the leaders and women follow and there is nothing wrong with that. When we say men and women are not equal, they aren't equal in terms of positions but they are equal in terms of importance. This is what people need to keep in mind.

@Personwithquestions 4 ай бұрын

14:04 She know damn well she’d think “bitch” and leave 😂

@damonsmith7661 4 ай бұрын

Lol....when they kept saying "partnership" that shit was irking the hell outta me!!...such a cringy word!

@craigdaniels616 4 ай бұрын

These are the women raising our kids and got men thinking this way. Crazy

@DelTaForCe243 4 ай бұрын

All their talking points are from social media ! Crazy

@demetriuspowell29 4 ай бұрын

Yup

@dereklearnslow 4 ай бұрын

Everything out of her mouth was HEAVY cap.

@Spartanbutler 4 ай бұрын

When women discuss their problems they don’t want a solution they just want a listener. If a man shares his problems he doesn’t want just a listener he wants a solution. These women are masculine, the panel is not balanced.

@TechHobbying-t5f 4 ай бұрын

I can’t say that the girl with the hoodie on is disingenuous with her answers she does seem masculine. But it was funny how they both laughed and smiled (almost as an admission) when bro said that that article was written by a woman.

@da835t 4 ай бұрын

She says one thing but in reality, she wants the rock. The sight of seeing a Man cry changes a woman subconsciously.

@garyhines9880 4 ай бұрын

Bro the way women think is insane 😂

@nobodysperfect06 4 ай бұрын

One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. It's stupid and mind-boggling that women would have to learn any skills to attract men or how to meet men when they don't have to do any thing in the courtship phase the man is doing everything. So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating. I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s. Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described. It won't surprise me if you are the type of guy or the type of person who has the mindset that it's better to be a man than it is to be a woman at the end of the day. Overall, I will forever be angry and bitter, resentful, that I didn't have a girlfriend until later than normal. I remember when one person told me that I should just be glad that I was able to get a girlfriend or have a girlfriend now and enjoy the fruits of my labor and that just made me more angry and pissed me off even more it sounds like that person has the mindset or mentality that a guy or a man should still be happy that even if he finally managed to get a girlfriend even in his 50s or 60s or as a senior citizen. Yeah I have the mindset that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship but men are not. It naturally feels like women are owed a relationship but men are not, because when you're on the receiving end of sexual attention it means that you always have options and choices or it just means that you are in abundance by default for simply just existing.

@omarnieves2030 4 ай бұрын

Kiki getting moist listening to Locario

@philmccollough4437 4 ай бұрын

They always say what they want but always respond to the opposite like I want a real careing nice guy always there when a guy acts like that they are turned off think he's depersprate.

@jama3335 4 ай бұрын

Her and her homegirls would be clowning her man behind his back for acting like a bitch lol

@sheldonsmith1739 4 ай бұрын

also how does that one chick know that men don' let it out by talking to other men? Most women aren't around real men and cant handle real men conversation

@sheldonsmith1739 4 ай бұрын

all you have to do to shorten the conversation is ask them "Do you really want a dude complaining to you all the time?" and then show them a video of dude from the red pill community

@lionmindset334 4 ай бұрын

Whats the hosts channel want to see the talk with Steve also

@cayvzcult 4 ай бұрын

These chicks saying things they don’t mean lol. It sounds nice yes. But they would feel hella distrusting and unsafe w their man if he was to come to them w all his emotional issues. I know because I’ve experienced this. Women NEED you to ground them.. no matter what they say. They will not be feminine if they don’t feel that from you. Great job on standing your ground on this, gents.

@bastiat6865 4 ай бұрын

These women can't hear through their ego position. They can't even receive the information and truly engage it.

@roakie97 4 ай бұрын

It’s like a brand new car the more you drive the more miles you put on it or even maybe reck it it will depreciate. The emotional maybe fine now until it’s not down the line.

@Dose561 4 ай бұрын

Why beauty sound so….masculine ?

@terrencel323 4 ай бұрын

Every woman says "I'm that type of woman."

@lestwins8114 4 ай бұрын

Yeah in reality they are EXACTLY that type of women

@bastiat6865 4 ай бұрын

All the example-making takes away from making a clear definition. This chick REFUSED to listen. Bottom line, MEN should not be vulnerable with women in a sexual relationship.

@demaniyoung4922 4 ай бұрын

Fire game locario

@bastiat6865 4 ай бұрын

The communication is broken on the topic of what "emotional" and "vulnerable" means to men versus what it means to women. Clear that up and the conversation will be more valuable.