Why More Women Are Choosing To Be Single

[@agaa3971]

"you're telling women to pick better, and when they don't choose you, you get mad" 😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥

[@returnoftheromans6726]

Well, my man, then BE BETTER. 🤣

[@quincyquincy4764]

Lmao😂

[@coolcat3452]

Just imagine!!…you later realised the Man U thought you love has a child somewhere during your relationship or is getting down with another man!! STD is real!!!😢😢😢😢😢

[@suzyytube795]

dammmmmm

[@Noah60]

No cap, be mad at yourself you overgrown child, not at the woman who is doing things to be happy

[@Legendaryhead]

Women would rather be single than be with someone we don't want. Men are the opposite, they rather be with someone they don't want than be alone.

[@LvUhcX]

Well said 💯

[@krbyp8092]

men are usually more desperate, that's why 😂

[@iamdisgusted]

Absolutely. A+ for you.

[@celiashen5490]

The number of times some male said, "I'm less lonely with..." to me, I'm surprised that I've still got air to breathe. A lobster can fill that role just as well as dude can fill a hole.

[@missinterpretation4984]

That’s it right there!!!

[@TheAray6]

It’s the STDs part for me! You know how many STDs a woman can get from being in a monogamist relationship with a dusty cheater! Or from her own husband! Stop it!

[@dimplez8330]

I know a woman who told me her mother died of aids because her husband gave it to her. He was cheating on her found out he had it and never told her. He made sure to get himself treatment and because she trusted him an never got tested she ended up dying before him. So sad. I’d rather be alone than deal with these horrible men. It’s a lot more trifling men than there are good ones.

[@HoudaOussous]

Hepatitis B is prevalent

[@user-np6tf8zx1u]

I learned the hard way you have to say condoms always even in a long term monogamous relationship. :(

[@FreeWilliams08]

Say it one more time for the women in the back! 13 years abstinent and honestly, I'm fine with that.

[@DanielGalarza-zr2cu]

I was searching for the source but I remember reading once that 1 of the 5 profiles who will get hiv is a MARRIED STAY AT HOME woman. That’s crazy, and people say cheating should be forgiven. Cheating isn’t just your partner disrespecting you but it’s also your partner exposing you to a myriad of STDS and diseases. And it’s so sad that a lot of women are told all their lives how they shouldn’t be promiscuous and how waiting for a husband is going to save them from all the trouble. Only for these women to end up getting STDS, some which have no cure, because their husbands were unfaithful. I don’t know how these women don’t end up doing anything to these guys cuz as soon as I got the HIV positive results I would make sure to ruin his life to the point he wants to move out of the country or the planet. Never forgive cheating, ladies, don’t buy into the bullshit all these “marriage counselors” spew, if he cheats he doesn’t care about your nor the risk he’s putting you in

[@SkycometAnimeVamp]

I’m sorry that men are lonely. But that doesn’t mean it’s my responsibility to sacrifice myself to save them.

[@akinazara]

Exactly or happiness

[@ohmissbeliever2015]

I'm not even sorry, this is what a huge amount of them deserves.

[@nicolec8884]

​@@ohmissbeliever2015I agree

[@rachels6808]

Preach.

[@abcd18802]

like if they wanna talk about being homies and being closer than women are with other women... then ok buddy, be there for each other then.

[@j.celestekee658]

Instead of threatening single women with cats, maybe these podcast dudes should ask themselves why they can’t compete with an animal who poops in a box as desirable life companions?! 🤔

[@h8h215]

These women dont desire men thats why. A cat doesnt represent a man it represents a child.

[@garblegarble8065]

I like this take.

[@la6136]

Cats are cleaner than most men. They even cover up their poop and constantly groom and clean themselves. They even know how to hunt and get their own food 😂

[@bananatoffeepie]

"WhAt DoEs ThIs CaT hAvE tHaT I DoN't"

[@amandaspaintinglessons9908]

Cats are amazing little gods of the underworld who protect us from evil spirits and purr and want to be pet :) I can’t wait to grow old with one or two.

[@chynaanderson494]

As a single woman, almost every conversation goes like this: Someone: "Why are you single?" Me: "Because I've had too many bad relationships." Someone: "Well you're choosing the wrong people! You need to be more selective." Me: "Okay. I want someone who's kind, healthy, financially stable, and shares the same interests with me." Someone: "Woah, slow down. Your standards are way too high! You need to start settling." Me: "...."

[@heyhey439]

FR! It's almost like they expect women to just shut up and take it. They never challenge men to be better!

[@indigoGoddess7]

⁠@elizabeetle13”they are only interested in your interests until they get with you and then that ends” THIS IS SPOT ON! The last guy that I dated, would continuously ask me what my hobbies were and I told him I like exercising in nature. (He also had a dog, so I figured this would be no problem since dogs do require daily walking). It wasn’t even a full month until I saw him for who he truly was. He was a lazy pos who expected me to be as desperate as the women in his family. He never walked his dog and started saying how his aunt is the only one who walks the dog. He said how he hated exercising and what was the point in exercising outside when you can drive anywhere. Welp, as soon as I heard that, I told him that we weren’t compatible and he needed to find someone else. This guy started crying and begging me to be his gf. He said: “But you liked me in the beginning. I don’t get why you’re like this” He was desperate and pathetic. These guys will lie about anything and everything to get next to you and then cry when you see them for who they are. They don’t even love themselves and expect others to love them.

[@DracaliaRay]

I remember my mom telling me when I was in my late teens that my standards were too high and reality isn’t like my fantasy books. Then I cautiously brought a male friend home and she proceeded to tell me I could do better lol. I never settled and got my first bf when I turned 20. Next March will be our 6th anniversary and I cannot believe I found him. Also we did have a fairytale first kiss so SUCK IT MOM😂😂😂. Ladies, men, don’t settle. Know your worth and follow your heart. Find someone you feel emotionally safe with who you can lay your soul bare to who will support you and help you to be the best you you could ever be just by being with you❤ it’s possible, it exists and I’m so incredibly lucky to have found it.

[@mickeymoose9368]

I agree, but hear me out….I have heard those same standards come out of the mouth of really toxic females who won’t work, won’t treat people with respect, and God forbid they make any personal growth in their life. I do think that, men and women alike, need to do better as a species. I could NEVER blame men for all of my problems because that would make me a victim. A victim does not have to take accountability and continues believing that everyone else is the problem. There are GREAT men in the world that many women don’t even allow themselves to have access to because they blind themselves with the delusion that “men are the problem”. Women are NO BETTER. Women are human too. Women have more choices in this country now than ever before and it shows. SO MANY self disrespecting young would rather pay a man that she doesn’t even know money for the same services she could get for free by being and finding a decent person. They ARE out there, good men. I married one and I would NEVER go back to being single.

[@Ruhrohraggy23345]

@@DracaliaRayIm so happy for you! Also thanks for writing this❤️

[@byleemalox2265]

"More good women have been lost to marriage than to war, famine, disease and disaster....you have potential darling, don't waste it" Cruella De Vil.

[@craffte]

Brilliant.

[@harrisment7116]

Someone pointed out that Disney gave the line to a villain to make it seem like a bad thing.

[@verasmith288]

@@harrisment7116Joke’s on them, villains are oftentimes much more iconic than the protagonists and thus quotes hit harder when uttered by them.

[@IvanUnova]

​@@verasmith288dam right

[@yogib1442]

This COMMENT!!!!!!!🔥🔥🔥 Facts

[@laurahodgson6531]

These pastors SMH. The church has always been terrified of independent women.

[@cryptochrome3090]

I was shocked hearing the garbage they were spewing. Guess they’re big fans of the Old Testament and not Jesus?

[@Zara-dt4gc]

Yup even when the bible says its GOOD to be single!

[@cashwalk7253]

Which is ironic considering the Bible has women leaders like Deborah and Esther, strong women like Ruth, Mary, Ja’el, Abigail, Lydia, and that not only did women help fund Christ’s ministry but they also were the first to see and witness to Christ’s resurrection.

[@ksy4747]

Yeah, they burned at the state some hundreds years ago.

[@corneliahanimann2173]

I will for once say, that I don't think this is the bible's fault... I'm not religious, but like, if a person like Jesus existed, that guy did not treat women like that. The bible says a lot of stuff, including the support of slavery, but people stopped excusing slavery, but they still hold onto the idea of women bein less valuable than men? That's not about being a christian or believing the bible, that is a choice these people make.

[@hkkobayashi7657]

"She's going to be miserable at 50!!" Is the oldest gaslight ever. They stress that we are happy by ourselves and need to try and convince us that we will need someone. When women are single forever, they turn into the cool aunt! When men are single forever, they turn into the creepy uncle who isn't allowed around any of the teen girls.

[@okaycola2]

I mean….

[@okaycola2]

Women*

[@linroos5252]

Can't even count how many people kept telling me I'd regret having tattoos when I'm older. Almost two decades later I'm still waiting for this supposed "regret" to come. The whole "but when you're xx old" argument seems to be nothing more than the last ditch tactic to say "but I don't like what you did" when they run out of valid arguments.

[@misspriss2482]

Yep. I actually had to leave a church because the pastor wouldn't get off my back. He told me that I was setting a bad example for the young ladies. My crime? I was "going against God's will for my life." Translation: Daring to be 28, single, and happy. I wasn't actively looking for a husband and I seemed content. SMDH.

[@blasiankiki7831]

My mom’s single at 60 and is enjoying her kids and grandkids…. My dad is 63 with a girlfriend.. he’s miserable still now she’s miserable and her kids don’t come around because of him so they are both lonely and miserable….. My momma is winning…

[@Jen-Inspired]

As the daughter, niece, and granddaughter of married women, I can confirm that you don't have to be single to be sad, lonely and miserable in your 50s 😂

[@FreeWilliams08]

😂😂😂

[@MsJoyce31202]

❤

[@akinazara]

❤❤❤

[@lau77771hh]

Same here.

[@indigoGoddess7]

😂😂😂 thank you for sharing ❤❤❤ I thought I was going to be miserable since I’m single & childfree 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tajr.2650]

The MEN are the ones worried about being alone. That was him admitting it OUT LOUD. “Every projection is an admission.”

[@SunnyHeartKay]

And every accusation is a confession.

[@akinazara]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Li8aGun92]

been looking at so much content like this, feminist, redpill, blackpill, other and it really feels like men fear dying alone more than women do and they're unhappier when single rather than women.

[@babygirla5717]

Yep that’s exactly what it was 😂👏🏽

[@casy6203]

😱

[@anaaguilar3304]

When that guy said " when a woman has been single for a veery looong time, like 1 to 3 years" I laughed. I've been single for 9 now , it's really so amazing and I don't even have anything against marriage or dating. Like many women have said, if it's not gonna improve my quality of life , why would I date?

[@la6136]

For men being single for 1-3 years is a lifetime lol. They have a constant rotation of women because they are codependent and need to use women to meet their needs. Women are independent and self sufficient so 1-3 years is nothing for us.

[@comedianpottymouth]

I was single for 11 because I refuse to settle and IM NOW ENGAGED with someone I trust and love it's worth the wait

[@anaaguilar3304]

@@comedianpottymouth aww. I love that. He must be a great guy for you. You know what you want.

[@pastelmoon9118]

I have never dated.. and im 31 XD I have seen the ugly side of the men from my parent`s marriage.. then my friend`s marriage.. then my sibling.. men like you as long as you look youthful.. then they start see you gross once you give them kids and they start to browse new women specially those who didnt get kids yet. I have seen some men look at me... while his wife is next to him just have no word they have no shame! I swear if he ever approach me I will say: dare to cheat... and I will tell your wife! my thoughts " I wont assign myself for this scam " and studies show that the country where I live.. most of the violence happens INSIDE FAMILIES! most of the sexual assaults happens in relationships.. solution? stay single! this happened close to where I live... woman tried to leave man and that jellyfish came to her house and killed her with shotgun and people still wonder why women decide to stay single? XD Id rather not join in human barbeque

[@TiredSnowBerry]

You are so right!!! I've been single for around eight years now, and while I will admit there were a few years early on where I was depressed about it and thought my life was less because of it, I eventually realized it wasn't because I didn't have a partner that I was depressed, it was because I was struggling in all other areas of my life (school, family relationships, personal beliefs and identity). I guess in my young naivety spawned from reading too much fanfiction, I thought having a boyfriend would just magically fix everything. Now I know it would have just made things way worse! 😂 My life is a lot better now and while I wouldn't be opposed to dating and marriage if the right guy came along, I have too many other priorities to actively look. Besides, I'm happy without one, so why would I?

[@free9884]

I’ve been single and celibate for 9 years and in my late thirties. I don’t see an end to being single. Men are absolutely unkind and demanding. Marriage to me is exhausting

[@free9884]

@@JakeLuke716 don’t bring a knife to a gun fight. 😊

[@godpilled9077]

@@JakeLuke716 the robber will most likely be a man.

[@MelaniaRose]

@@JakeLuke716that’s what guard dogs are for

[@genevieveaniko6492]

Right... Why are they so mean and cruel.. Furthermore.. Why do they think that these are attractive qualities?

[@genevieveaniko6492]

​​@@JakeLuke716that's what the popo is for.. That aside most men these days are selfish and cowards. I never have it in my mind that a man is looking to protect me... Because the average man's priority is to look for the quickest way to nut. 🤷‍♀️

[@novasummer888]

Saying women have been lied to is so dumb. As if we didn’t see what our mothers and grandmothers went through.

[@Butterscotch550]

Sometimes you can’t trust your own feelings and eyes because you’re being gaslit by an entire community.

[@ejenglin]

Right!? Like our foremothers weren't absolutely wrecked by men. We've seen it, and we are not going to experience the same thing.

[@kissit012]

Religion, culture, parenting all have lied to women. It’s a literal conspiracy against women’s freedom

[@nimanixo]

So so true

[@queenrenagoddessoflovegood7757]

Women have went through pure hell because of men. My sister and I had to be adopted because of abuse of men in our biological family. And my sister just passed away. This is what toxicness does to bloodlines. It's best to be alone if you don't have a Righteous loyal Godly Provider spouse.

[@janjanl1812]

Single men: Single women are going to be lonely and sad without us. Single women: I’m enjoying my life! Woohoo! Notice the difference in reaction to singlehood?

[@catesj15]

Exactly! Summed it up perfectly. Projecting

[@KidRipable]

Study’s say otherwise

[@akinazara]

I'm at peace single and have been 12 years

[@DionaTune]

​@@KidRipablewhat studies? The male loneliness epidemic? The high male sui¢id€ rate? 😳

[@KidRipable]

@@DionaTune the antidepressants , vindictiveness, bitterness , unhappiest demographic , also high loneliness rate at a particular age range

[@lkeke35]

The whole point of having a relationship with someone is that they are supposed to enhance your life, not make your life worst!

[@DimaRakesah]

Not to these guys. They think women exist to provide for them. 😕

[@akinazara]

I'm good on getting married

[@akinazara]

Agreed though

[@leelee185]

@@lkeke35 BINGO

[@anniealexander9616]

Amen.

[@gabriellehanks6850]

Plot Twist: Married women get std's from their husband's all the time and not everyone celebrates Christmas.

[@fredahwiwu5219]

Omfg their is no one more single than a married man

[@RASTAGOOB]

I’ll let you have that but just know that’s so far from the truth

[@cosmiccocoa2689]

THAT PART!!

[@blossom1290]

​@@RASTAGOOB that is true tho married women get used all the time

[@RASTAGOOB]

@@blossom1290 but somehow initiates 70-80% of divorces… anot all of those are due to men cheating

[@studiosandi]

I am 53, intentionally child-free and I have no regrets whatsoever.

[@Miss_NatashaO]

That's where I want to be! I have a couple of years to go (I'm 40), but I am single and without kids. I'm learning that the sky is the limit!

[@studiosandi]

@NastassiaObazee I love that for us❤😘

[@oooreginasaid]

I'm 50 and same. I am also intentionally single as well. I have never regretted either decision.

[@ameenahgaffar7383]

@@JakeLuke716You’re not old enough to have this conversation and your sentences are proof of that. You can’t even formulate your opinions in a grammatically correct manner. You need to get yourself a job and stop jacking off to h3ntai. Arguing with women mature enough to be your older is a personal L you need to eat in silence. Bite that babbling tongue of yours and focus on being a true man rather than worried about what women do.

[@tremayneestwick2561]

CAP

[@joeshmoe0136]

Someone once said heterosexual women are proof that sexuality is not a choice and that struck me so deeply

[@restezlameme]

Ouch. That one hit hard. ☹️

[@UntetheredGrace]

Whoah

[@annemurphy9339]

I’ve no idea why; I think it’s an asinine statement.

[@cheeryberrie]

I wish i was lesbian so bad

[@andysixxstalkerangeloftrag5833]

Forreal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@AClay-ic2dc]

You know what always gets me with these warnings from blogs and podcasts telling us young women that we're making a huge mistake and that we're going to be lonely when we're old? They never, ever come from older single women. The only people whose opinion I would trust on the matter - the people who have lived out my current and future experience - are never the ones telling us that we're making a huge mistake. It's always the men telling us that, the ones that stand to lose the most because of our decision to stay single.

[@jayogee913]

Bingo!

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

Exactly! It’s the older, single ladies that are telling the truth that they’re not “crying in their wine with their pet”, and they’re demonstrating that they’re living fulfilled, rich and peaceful lives. This is why these angry podcast bros like to say that it’s “advice from bitter old women that are keeping young women single”. The “bitter old women” are telling the truth, which is forcing men to either level up and come correct or watch reruns eating Spaghetti-Os from the can and die alone.

[@ksy4747]

Ooooof facts!!!!

[@khrisi9410]

Correct! They know if younger women choose being single he will lose access to her sexually.

[@albertosei8788]

KZbin videos have proved you wrong...many women have come out to complain of being lonely

[@HattielyEverAfter1995]

All these men out here trying to tell women “You’ll be single and miserable” well, we grew up watching our mothers, grandmothers and aunts pick relationships just to be ‘miserable and married’ so we we said “yeah, we don’t want that, so we aren’t going to make the same mistakes” x

[@HybridMiranda]

Agreed... my father is a decent man, but not good enough for my mother, and she has had a lot of disappointment carrying his weight. It would be best for her to leave him, I never want to be stuck in a relationship like that. My one aunt was cheated on, my other aunt divorced... they all settled early because it was expected of them.

[@jandnoc]

When people say "you'll be lonely and miserable in the future, when you get old" Like you are, right now? At least I'm having fun and enjoying life for the time being. But you've been miserable and lonely this whole time. 💁🏾‍♀️

[@cryptochrome3090]

Being in a relationship isn’t my sole purpose in life, I still have friends, my parents, my brother, cousins, coworkers, so many people in my life to hang out with who value me and love me. I won’t be miserable and alone if I’m single. I never wanted kids anyway and I’m very satisfied with my beautiful clean home, extra money and getting to buy what I want and go where I want.

[@dont_harsh_my_mellow]

My dad was fantastic. He loved fashion, could mend/sew, cooked, was an artist (any medium), and he LOVED us and my mom. His friends would say it was time to have boys because he had two girls but he said we were worth more than any boy. I have HIGH standards. If men want my relationship, they BETTER rise to the occasion. I honestly am very let down by men thinking they can bring nothing to the table and get with any women they want.

[@bgranger_842]

Great point. Those women have seen their mothers struggle and hate their lives when they were 50 and have said "this is not happening to me"

[@overtremendouslyblah]

It is interesting how men assume single women having sex and getting stds. Just cause thats what they would do doesnt mean women are....

[@dday3322]

Exactly! That shows how they really feel about themselves!

[@akinazara]

Having sex with who?! Sure in tf ain't them.

[@Becky_Cal]

Exactly! When he said that I thought “oh, because he has caught multiple STDs…” Men are dirty, careless and disgusting when it comes to sex. They will sleep with anyone, anything at anytime and think we do the same 😅😅

[@kiraflash4596]

Right. One more good thing about being single is exactly that you don’t have to have s.x. Funny, how they don’t get that..😆

[@Denise-ob8dk]

Thank you!!!

[@sunnysunshine6271]

My sister got an STD from her husband while pregnant. He could have disabled their baby girl. Luckily she was born healthy, but my sister was embarrassed to death. Of course she stayed with him. He also had a baby with one of her girlfriends. She stayed. When I caught my ex-husband cheating once, it was a wrap. My older sister taught me how not to be.

[@cindyl760]

Oh wow, good job ! Praying for your sister to see her worth and have the strength to walk away one day ❤

[@sunnysunshine6271]

@@cindyl760 Very kind of you, thanks. She's 67 now and not going anywhere.

[@Tamara-ju3lh]

Yep. I'm the type to walk to while my sister isn't. But thankfully her husband isn't a cheater or abusive, just a bit of a man child. I think he's improving though.

[@chelscara]

​@@sunnysunshine6271I'm sorry, I hope her daughter was able to see her choices as a warning and not a life plan

[@kellharris2491]

The same with my Mom and my Father. Yes they were married. My sister almost died because of my Dad.

[@katemcmillen1977]

There are two types of women in my extended family: married and miserable; or single and free. When I was a kid, I looked at my mom, depressed, unsupported by my dad, emotionally absent, exhausted - and compared her to my aunt, vibrant, fiercely single, fitness instructor, beautiful apartment with loving pets and a swimming pool, which might as well have been magic to my child self thirty years ago - there was no competition. I have so much respect for the women in my family who struck out and decided to live life on their own terms - and I’m happy more women are now doing the same. I’m proud to have become one of them. I spent my 20s in unfulfilling relationships with partners who ignored me, cheated on me, insulted me, physically and sexually abused me… I’ve been single now for almost five years and never been happier. As this video says, of course I still want companionship - but not at the cost of my own peace or sense of self. ❤ Enough is enough.

[@stevenwolfe8419]

Now I'm starting to think single is better

[@libfuzzy4629]

I’m sorry that you ever went through any sort of abuse I want you to know that Jesus loves and cares about you if you’ve never accepted him as your lord and savior please do so he loves you I’m glad that your single and healing

[@Rosie82333]

I was working with a woman who is in her 60’s and she FINALLY got divorced last year. She said she was done trying to please everyone…. Her husband, children, parents, and society. She also mentioned that she was glad that we are now living in a time where it’s ok to leave if you don’t want to put up with a controlling husband. The men are not happy that women have had ENOUGH and we’re not just settling.

[@MiaBellaxOx]

I have rarely met a divorced or widowed woman who desires To get married again. That says a lot.

[@elizzybec]

@@MiaBellaxOx yop, right here. I'm waving over here in Texas. 50 and single and finally happy af!! It was just too much to deal with a man child. I sleep like a baby now.

[@innocentnemesis3519]

Good for her! Wishing her all the best!

[@cmcordoYT]

@@MiaBellaxOxSo true! My former spouse and I split up in 1992, and I swore to never get married again. People told me that I would change my mind, especially men, but I never did, and I'm living happily ever after with no partner.

[@tatianadaniel3569]

​@@MiaBellaxOx and studies show it!! Majority of women who have been divorced 1 time NEVER want to get married again which is in stark contrast to the only 30% of first time divorced men who express the same sentiments. Marriage is for men but we as women got tricked into believing it was a prize for us.

[@healthfactoryy267]

I rather be alone than; - be a mother to a man, - be emotionally and physically abused, - feel single in a relationship, - raise my children alone while married - Disciple a man in God, because he won’t be the head he’s supposed to be - be sick because I’m stressed and unhappiness … now if a great MAN comes, I’m down for the ride 🙃

[@h8h215]

The problem you have is you cant know in advance whether the man meets your criteria or not, even being celibate until you find a good man is a good vetting method but in time things can change so the ultimate question to you is are you not going to bother trying to find what you want or will you still try?

[@healthfactoryy267]

@@h8h215 I will try. I’m taking accountability, and learning about what to look for and be intentional.

[@YouYou-sm8tf]

​@@h8h215 It's useless to try. They are only less than 1%. And not enough for women.

[@h8h215]

@@YouYou-sm8tf how did you get to 1%? Did you use one of those programs where you put in your preferences and the results came out at that? What are your preferences? You can always share the 1% if thats the case.

[@YouYou-sm8tf]

@@h8h215 What's the point of sharing? Would you share yours if your type is rare? I know some people are into poly-open relationship...but I can't do that. Good and husband material men are definitly 1%. Standard: attractive, educated, good job to provide for a family, have ambition, hardworking, nice personality, open minded, supportive, loyal.......(within 10 years gap to the female). It's rare

[@psybelle]

I would rather have 50 cats than get married. Why do people associate living with cats with being sad? Cats are intelligent, autonomous, affectionate, loving, funny, cute, sanitary (some man aren't), easy to care for and their purr is healing. Staring at your cats eyes and blinking triggers the production of oxytocin in our brains, because their faces resemble a baby's face. Cats are healing, man are not!!!

[@attitudeproblem6462]

And cats will at _least_ wait until you *die* before they start eating your face.😒

[@5kamon]

caring for pets is also weak girly/child stuff a lot of men won't involve themselves in even if it could improve their life

[@fredahwiwu5219]

😂😂😂 most men will drain the f out of you no lie

[@bunchielove6893]

I already have my car breeds picked out. I even share pictures with these men.

[@patriciasamanthaifill1715]

In a heartbeat ❤❤❤ I love cats.... 9 out 10 they behave better than most men lol

[@Hollyberrystreats]

"You didn't get that out of the Bible, pastor, but you did get that out of a podcast" ❤ you!

[@cashwalk7253]

Yeaaaah I can’t find that in the Bible-maybe it’s in the book Second Opinions 6:66? 🤷‍♀️

[@Iyanjebu]

​@@cashwalk7253🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@HHCF713]

This is the only way that they can “scare” women to take them. I tell people all the time, you can be surrounded by 100 people and still be LONELY! Being alone, in your own peace, and having your money is Priceless.

[@Sacredmysticz]

Hotdog ❤❤❤❤

[@OM4094-b7j]

Facts

[@marleyhill34]

I try not to go into gender wars but I will tell any man and any woman to make sure that they can take care of themselves and their kids in case their partner dies, divorces or becomes disabled. Don't depend on only one person.

[@annmarieknapp]

It's true. Men and some women (the gender traitors) are gaslighting young women that they will end up alone and living with cats (which I am person they are describing and frankly my cat and I live in peace) as if that is the worst thing in life. I'm thrilled that younger women are fighting back and telling these alarmists to go punt!!! If men are lonely,them become a better person and to do your part so that you will attract a good woman. The answer should not be for women to lower their standards. Hell we just learned from that viral TikTok video that many men don't even like their girlfriends and want to be schmucks so their girlfriends will end relationship so those feckless men won't have to. No, women have learned that single, childfree women are happiest, and married women rearing their children and taking care of a grown man like he also is a child are most unhappy. Men are happier and live longer lives when married. It is the men who need women that is truth. Women have a choice now, which right-wingers are trying to do away with. Stay strong ladies. You don't want to end up divorced and rearing your child on your own like I did.

[@Ackee2711]

Amen!

[@ashtonstout7375]

The “pastor” who told that lady to lose weight and spoke about her breast in front of the entire congregation disgusted me. The other man was beyond gross, but talking about that lady’s breasts crossed several lines.

[@Sophia-cd9cj]

I know right. That shocked me to my core.

[@AngelaRPierce]

That guy is trash.

[@craffte]

I was a teen with a shaved head and the men of the church we went to called me by a man's name and snickered at me and made jokes in front of the entire congregation as well as my family every Sunday. I was their entertainment.

[@craffte]

Really sick. Who can't see that evil standing in the form of a false prophet?

[@ashtonstout7375]

@@craffteI’m sorry “Christian” men in your church mistreated you. Their behavior was far from Christ. I hope your parents stood up for you.

[@SunnyHeartKay]

We thrive without them. They need us. That’s why literal laws were put in place to keep us attached to them.

[@theteleisewilliamsexperience]

What laws? Because certain things I don't pay any attention to

[@godpilled9077]

@@theteleisewilliamsexperience Woman weren't allowed to get bank accounts and own property without her father or husband's permission until the 70's. My grandma said that it was illegal for a woman to cross state lines with a man that wasn't her husband, father or brother. Women could not vote in the state of New York if they weren't married. Divorce was illegal back in the day. Thank God we are free at last!

[@nyneegardner6235]

Also technically, a husband could force himself on his wife legally, until the laws were changed! And it was only in recent American history that all 50 states overturned the legal marital rape exemptions. Men have always coopted women's bodies for their own use and abuse.

[@AcidicSprayer]

​@@godpilled9077You have been in control for years now and what have you done with it you ruined the country that gave you it.

[@tremayneestwick2561]

Laws were put in place for the state not men, men gain nothing from modern women.

[@ameziaarchard8487]

As a 20 year old African girl who chose to be single by choice and opted out of marriage, I've had people go out of their way to try to make me change my mind, not just by family members and strangers alike it's irritating

[@h8h215]

As long as your happy with the choices you have made and accept them as your choices i support you, when women post tictoc videos of how feminism has tricked them and then now want a family but its too late they dont get my sympathy, make sure its what you want.

[@ameziaarchard8487]

@h8h215 Thanks for the valuable advice along with the support

[@LeratoM98]

I'm 25 and African and saame. Honestly see so many previous generation of African women including my mother whose lives were ruined after marriage etc. I'm good. Don't bother with the ignorant people trying to force their ideal views on you. At the end of the day, as long as we are happy and have lives of peace, then we're making the best choice for ourselves ✨.

[@abigaelmusyoka4413]

Trust me Always choose yourself We saw the older generation of women suffer in the name of being married to a man who disrespects them constantly

[@h8h215]

@@abigaelmusyoka4413 or just dont choose a guy who is disrespectful to you.

[@WWlogics]

I’ve been married twice. First cheated. The next was abusive. Being married doesn’t mean you’re going to get any special treatment.

[@Blondie77128]

Or even decent, kind, respectful loving treatment, all normal by the way. Not special.

[@darcy5761]

Unless you consider being abused and bullied to be special treatment.

[@SisterSanMiguel]

They usually switch up too After kids or marriage it’s sucks

[@Harlem-ub3tn]

Girl, you told No lie!

[@Blufftonbeatch4602]

Just got divorced after being married for 20 years. My workload has dropped by 75% and my joy has increased by 1000%. I am advising both my teen daughters to stay single!

[@Vahlee-A]

That's triple-good! I'm really happy for you all!

[@HolisticManifesting]

❤❤❤

[@oyedejishobande7389]

😂😂😂 oh lord! So because marriage didn't work for you your kids have to suffer, what if they want to have kids of their own you still want them to be single as in single baby mama's? I guess its easier than teaching them to be good wives.

[@Childfree334]

​@oyedejishobande7389 And who TF is teaching men to be good husbands?

[@bitchywoman]

@@oyedejishobande7389did you not understand that the marriage she left was what society considers “working”.. she could have stayed and had a less happy life sure, but that’s not better.. it’s not better for her kids to see mom forfeit happiness for nothing. If you are unhappy married then your marriage is failed even if you stay married. The message to the younger women is demand happiness and always put yourself first.. because men always have!!

[@mitsukislife]

"They are gonna have a couple of STDS" Men tell us every day their own shortsightedness without even realizing it. They think a life of singlehood is full of hedonism and endless sexcapades. But in actuality a woman choosing to be single has probably been offered less than what she deserves and she made the brave choice to continue being on her own in peace. That would include not putting her body at risk for chance encounters with men who don't care about her. Also if she loves cats then having 7 of them is not a threat lmaoo. The single shaming needs to stop, there's a lack in worthy partners out there.

[@darcy5761]

A few years ago I let my friends fix me up with single men. When they heard I was a nurse all of them told me they could quit their jobs and I could support them. The first man who told me that,I was so surprised I didn't say anything. After that I told them that they could quit their jobs ,but they'd starve because I wasn't going to support them. This was always on the first date!

[@kaylam8707]

Facts!

[@valeriestory7678]

Truth! I'm 41, live alone with 4 cats and a dog and couldn't be happier 💓

[@Some_guy_passing_by]

They really think they're better than cats !! The audacity!!!

[@So-vc7yg]

They're probably the dudes that know they don't pull their weight in a relationship and rather than change anything, they'll blame the partner.

[@zlatkajupe]

"You need to lose weight" Meanwhile he's fat himself. Lolol the audacity of these men I swear

[@cashwalk7253]

I always find it ironic for the men who demand a size 2 wife while they themselves look like Bob the tomato swallowed a bowling ball…

[@TheRebelGypsy]

& he thinks he’s qualified to offer advice to a woman about bra’s??? wtf! 🤣

[@versawava]

I am a female who have many male friends, they often make fun of other women that look fine by me but “ugly” by their standards. While to be honest, they are not handsome themselves. Sometimes I wish I could tell them.

[@hereforthechaos7614]

My mom met her current partner of 8 years after she had 2 children, got a divorce and turned 50. He adores her. They constantly go on trips around the world together and when they're home, he cooks, cleans and does everything that needs to be done. He doesn't need to be asked, he just does it. Men can do it. They are fully capable of being like that.

[@rosedevereux2391]

"when they're home, he cooks, cleans and does everything that needs to be done. He doesn't need to be asked, he just does it." This is what women are asking/looking for. It is not that complicated.

[@Breezy-jq6hq]

There are good men and happy marriages. But many/most women would rather be at peace and happy. If that means marriage to a great man, fantastic! But if that means being single, great! Forcing a doomed marriage is not wise.

[@DracaliaRay]

I remember my mom telling me when I was in my late teens that my standards were too high and reality isn’t like my fantasy books. Then I cautiously brought a male friend home and she proceeded to tell me I could do better lol. I never settled and got my first bf when I turned 20. Next March will be our 6th anniversary and I cannot believe I found him. Also we did have a fairytale first kiss so SUCK IT MOM😂😂😂. Ladies, men, don’t settle. Know your worth and follow your heart. Find someone you feel emotionally safe with who you can lay your soul bare to who will support you and help you to be the best you you could ever be just by being with you❤ it’s possible, it exists and I’m so incredibly lucky to have found it.

[@johndoe-wv3nu]

I'm a great cook and a fanatic house cleaner. I also excell at home improvement projects. If a woman wants to go to work, bring home decent money, and I won't even demand 100K, I'm all in. Especially if she's coming in with two extra expenses. FYI, I make close to 6 figures, own my own home outright, own my cars outright, have no debts, and have plenty of money stashed. I certainly don't want a leech. Especially a leech struggling with baggage from the past (ie: two children from a past relationship, and an ex she will never shake because they have children). I'm 56 single and happy. My future is bright as a single old man.

[@terrijamison9154]

This guy is an absolute idiot 😮

[@oceanic815survivor]

when people say you’ll end up alone with 7 cats… have you been around 7 cats? you will never feel lonely

[@Angel-od1bt]

Two is bad enough lol, I have two dogs too and the cats are so much pushier and needier than the dogs, it’s hilarious and not at all what I was expecting as a lifelong dog person! They are charming though, I’m already contemplating getting a third.

[@rosedevereux2391]

And they are funny af.

[@charnaeyoung9815]

@@Angel-od1btCat people are the definition of insanity. Coming from a cat person. 😂

[@Windfoxm]

Bruh I only have one cat and he already barely leaves me alone lol.

[@worstusernameintheworld9871]

not really, I have six cats and two dogs and I still feel lonely as sh!t but I'd still never date

[@Chels-fz5uq]

The pastor verbally abusing the women of his church is absolutely disgusting! He is NO Christian!

[@someusername4129]

Idk Christians always seem to be doing this kind of thing. So I think it is very Christian. They don't follow their written scriptures in modern times. Most of them haven't even read them.

[@cryptochrome3090]

That was insane. You could tell he just loved having that power to degrade women. I would never return to that church. What ever happened to preaching community love and respect for other human beings?

[@xxwoman]

Expecting the women to put money in the bowl he passes around after verbally degrading them. What a waste of space he is! 🚮

[@eb1042]

I STOPPED going to church!!!

[@michellehamner6024]

That pastor has a reputation of being verbally abusive towards his congregation. My ex is a Christian man who sexually assaulted and harassed women, uses women and is now getting married to a 23 year old. He is 35. I was told I have trauma to heal from, but he was complaining about bad thoughts and bad dreams about his past. The mental gymnastics was insane. Everyone thinks he is so kind and Godly. It truly makes me sick. And what grown man asks someone to hookup. 🤦

[@amandafrederickson3764]

It's disgusting that "pastors" are saying things like this and not even being called out when they should be being removed from their positions. It's horrifying that there are congregations willing to put up with this or worse, endorse it.

[@kiraflash4596]

That “You’ll die alone!” line is such BS! Married women die without their spouses as well. Most husbands die long before their wives. There are a lot more 90 year old women than men..

[@inklingduckling7087]

For real

[@blktauna]

Not counting the jerks who leave their wives who fall ill.

[@beab8738]

Statistics show most people die a lone.

[@realestatebykemi]

Either the men die before their wives or trade her in for a younger woman. Either way, she still ends up old & alone. So why bother “getting a man” like they’re some prized possession. It’s not like winning the Nobel Peace Prize. What exactly is so special about achieving being coupled with abusive cheaters?

[@kathleenwoods8416]

There's only 1way to die communally, & I'm pretty sure good people don't go there.

[@hellund2874]

Historically, women have needed men as providers and men have needed women as companions/emotional supporters. Now, a large number of women can provide for themselves and since men have never learned to bring any thing else to the table, except to emotionally drain or even abuse their companions, women opt out of relationships. It really isn't rocket science: men must adapt to provide something that women want from them, i.e. love, romance, emotional support, loyalty, etc.

[@luna-p]

I wouldn't say "needed" so much as "were forced to" but, tomayto tomahto

[@hellund2874]

@@luna-p Agreed. Would extend it to "were forced to need"

[@luna-p]

@RoRo07770 Rolls the eyes of the person who believes in fairy tales

[@luna-p]

@RoRo07770 Oh yes, the totally real human, but not human, god, but not god, who died, but not really, Jesus that loves me so much he'll burn me alive for all eternity if I don't incessantly stroke his fragile ego. Ooh I'm shaking in my boots.

[@kissit012]

Women have never needs men to provide or protect them. Men forced their way into women’s spaces and destroyed what they built to make women dependent on them so they had no choice but to “need” them.

[@joannabanks6694]

I’m a happy single 80 year old woman. Still happy for my single decision. Not likely I will ever regret being single 💜👵🏾

[@user-sd1si6qm6j]

I am a 70 year old woman. I gave up on live in relationships with men when I was 48, having had a series of unhappy relationships. My first partner used to follow me when I left his house. My next partner, my husband beat me up. My next partner fucked around. My next partner had a major drink problem. My next partner was a control freak, wanting to control who I was friends with, even what I should read. Yes clearly I chose badly, repeatedly. It seemed to me that there are a lot of damaged people out there, both male and female. It struck me that whilst living together was a lovely idea, it traps you and can allow the strongest partner (not always the man) to take advantage of that. So I haven't had a live in lover since. This has sadly meant I haven't had a long term relationship since, because the men in my life always wanted to move in. Been there done that got the T-shirt, so they have moved on. I have remained happy. Alone, but not lonely. I have many good friends. I have also had lodgers, male and female who I have chosen not to have sex with but to share my home and life with. There are other ways of living that encourage respect and I found ways that worked better for me.

[@anjafrohlich1170]

:0 a cool granny in the wild!!

[@lisanygaard2720]

I’m 58 years old, no children, never married. This was my choice and I’m absolutely sure it was the right one. I love my life.

[@hollalaland]

I hope to follow in your footsteps!! ❤

[@AminaPhilosophy]

✨✨✨✨

[@rue2599]

If single women are miserable, why do they have better health and a longer life span than any other demographic?

[@h8h215]

I dont know, why do you think? And do you support the idea that women should choose to be single as it has better health benefits? Should all men stop doing dangerous necessary jobs for the same reason?

[@chlyri]

​@@h8h215chill. they aren't saying that, they're just providing a counter point to all the misogynists.

[@kanikakumari7219]

​@@h8h215what women choose to do with their life is none of your business.

[@h8h215]

@@kanikakumari7219 i dont care what anyone do with their life, but if your going to make a claim it is open to questions.

[@amw7828]

💯🥊

[@CuratedVibes]

Marriage and parenthood is a HUGE inconvenience for women. It always has been, but we've been programmed to tolerate the misery, labor and stress. Gaslit into thinking if refuse to subject ourselves to the suffering, then somethings wrong with us. I'm so glad women are waking TF up. Let these men get their stuff together and focus on centering yourself.

[@tremayneestwick2561]

Actually the reverse is true, your not men and time aint on your side.

[@Nebulahologram]

@@tremayneestwick2561don’t worry about that

[@Enriquez2222]

@@tremayneestwick2561a lot of us don’t care to have children… so what else do you want to scare us with?

[@Kinag86]

@@tremayneestwick2561you are = you’re

[@AquaticStarchild]

I'm tired of their disrespect and sense of entitlement. Also: Will Smith is not a puppet, Jada knows too much, that's what made him panic.

[@lorenam8028]

That whole safety argument is such a mafia racket, seriously... "You gotta pay your dues for protection", "Protection from who?", "From us, of course". 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@krbyp8092]

men claiming to be protectors for women, while simultaneously being the biggest threat 🙄🤡

[@Todaysreminder918]

Thank you! I’ve been saying this. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!! Wtf?! They don’t even realize what they say. We don’t owe them shyt and if I do bc you “protected” me no thanks I’ll protect my gdamn self before I let you throw that up in my face for the rest of my life. They make my fckn teeth itch.

[@laplusbelle7982]

Males ain’t even protectors by Nature.

[@dday3322]

🎯🎯🎯🤦🏾‍♀️

[@canesugar911]

Ikr? Men are women's biggest predators and men are also men's biggest predators. 😂😂😂 not funny but it is funny

[@hippie1252]

To all my ladies that have been called a "modern woman" as if it's an insult, I'm glad you're a modern woman. I'm glad we get to be modern women together and live through this societal shift. I wish us all the best of luck, whether we end up enjoying our lives in our own company or sharing it with a man that understands us and considers us.

[@robinnandersonstudent]

Yasss queen! Same here! We are thriving together. The shift is real.

[@mrenae6798]

Thank you dear! The best to you as well ✨

[@emilyzahra]

Yes🙌

[@Sacredmysticz]

​@@robinnandersonstudentthe shift is very real I'm here with you guys ❤

[@japrogramer]

Honestly take a luck loan out.

[@BehindTheBush96]

I was also so stressed the last time I dated a man that I literally became chronically ill. I was only with him for about a year when I became sick. He didn’t show an ounce of empathy when he saw how sick I was getting (surprise, surprise!) This was a man who seemed like the sweetest, most caring man at the start. Don’t be fooled by them putting their best foot forward at the beginning. Pay attention to those behaviour changes and them slowly revealing their not so nice comments over time.

[@elise85391]

Women are statistically so much more likely to be left by their husbands when they get sick than with the roles flipped. It’s a terrible thing to even think about. And especially if we’re talking about older couples. Like you’re telling me you’ve been married to this woman for 30 years and now that she can’t “take care of you” like she used to you’re going to leave her? That is not okay. And this is probably a newer trend that we’re noticing now that people are living longer and illnesses tend to be more chronic instead of acute. Your husband can’t leave you if you cough once and you’re dead by the next week, or if he dies before you, or if you die suddenly during childbirth.

[@jessitap11]

Not just romantic partners but friendships too - we can't hold on to who someone used to be and hope they'll change back, or that things will magically be like they used to. And get out once you know its not going to be healthy again. But sometimes thats easier said than done.

[@shylapollard5165]

I sleep so peacefully knowing I don't have anyone lying in my face and cheating on me. Even wives get STDs from their husbands. So I think my chances are extreme low

[@JadeTokier]

Yep was in what I thought was a committed relationship. He still gave me an STD. I'm done

[@akinazara]

This no stds no cheating no heartbreak 💔 just PEACE

[@nkreseknowledge2241]

An elderly woman got AIDS from her husband and died..He's still alive 😢😢😢

[@akinazara]

@@nkreseknowledge2241 that's sad af

[@JadeMarie-wo9qq]

​@@nkreseknowledge2241Damn! 💔

[@GG-cr5hm]

If the stereotypical lonely/divorced women invest in cats, living beings that you can connect with and which require care and devotion and return that care with more love, and the stereotypical lonely/divorced men invest in sex dolls and p0rn subscriptions, I think that says EVERYTHING about who was actually the problem.

[@darcy5761]

Well said!

[@Koko24250]

SAY IT AGAIN!!!

[@ChristiGo]

SPOT ON 🎯💯✨🙏🏼 STRAIGHT FACTS 🤯

[@MissVindicat]

🔥🔥🔥

[@wrappedaroundmyfinger]

I remember when I used to be on social media in my teens I would see multiple posts from men and boys talking about how having partners was terrible and how marriage was a trap for men. I also saw this tacky photo where a couple got married on Friday because “Saturday is for the boys.” So why are they mad now that women are returning the same energy?

[@kitty1256x]

Yep, men just want to use women but not truly love and care what women want.

[@kmoyao50]

The issue here is trying to satisfy a misogynistic man if you are the woman in the equation. Basic algebra.

[@LM-he7eb]

This whole time marriage was "taking the plunge" now women are like "okay, let us not 'FORCE' you to take the plunge", they are mad

[@reelfly]

💯

[@GabrielleTollerson]

exactly!!

[@marjoriekaye9336]

Nothing more lonely than being in the house with a man who disrespects and diminishes you.

[@Aknayros]

You may find the right one if you have standards for yourself and you are able to spot red flags in the potential partner over time

[@wandah9468]

​@@Aknayrosyou have 30 seconds to convince me you're not a scumbag. The clock is ticking, bub.

[@lovebug1180]

@@Aknayros maybe they do have standards and also those red flags don't pop up until months or even years later. Look at the man who had a wife and kids with one on the way and murdered his family. I forgot his name but yea, we just never know what's in it for us, both women and men.

[@Aknayros]

@@lovebug1180 Most red flags should pop out within some days or even some hours or minutes if you are talking with a bad apple; moreover, I think they are the most dangerous ones, but this is just a personal hypothesis

[@ieattofu68]

Why do people always criticize cat ownership? My two cats are a blessing!

[@ana-nim]

Not people, males

[@AcidicSprayer]

@@ana-nim Says anime cartoon here how is most likely of the heavy lesbo.

[@kissit012]

Patriarchy has always demonized anything women value or prize. Cats are related to witches and are strongly autonomous, unlike dogs. Men don’t value autonomy in women or anything they can’t control

[@tornadosirenwednesday]

To them cats are feminine and weak. They also hate cats for being autonomous creatures that are selective with their affection. Sound familiar?

[@limitedtime5471]

The idea that a woman would joyfully take care of an animal. But not be their servant for nothing in return, is too insulting 😂

[@Soulutions89]

I would rather be single than criticized, verbally abused, cheated on, punched in the face, coerced into sexual acts I am not okay with, sexually abused ect. I have experienced all the above and the safest thing for me to do is be single and have low tolerance for any behavior that makes me feel unworthy of love, respect, and care. A lot of men in this world are manipulative jerks using women for sex not giving a damn about loyalty or how they treat you. There are a lot of good looking monsters beating their gf's and wives behind closed doors. Be safe out here. Monsters are real.

[@lauramapani3627]

So sorry about what you had to go through... sexual abuse, among other things, is difficult to deal with from someone who claims to love you

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

This is not a gender issue, but societal. You all hating on every single men will not change anything and just make everyone more miserable. Misandry is just as real as misogyny. I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine, you hypocrites.

[@CadetSammons]

Monsters ARE real, and overwhelmingly christian and conservative. E.G. Peu Research Poll: divorce rates 2022. Peu Research Poll: Sexual Assault Convictions 2022. Peu Research Poll: Child Sex Crimes 2022. Peu Research Poll: Domestic Violence 2022. Spoiler; the evidence all confirms my intentionally controversial statement.

[@BabyYodaBaby]

​@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 Write this under every misogynist channel where men are hating women.

[@Laroc1982]

I love watching the worldwide male tantrum. It’s hilarious and pathetic at the same time.

[@akinazara]

It is 😂

[@sithwinch]

I want to thank you for giving it a name. Tantrum. It's perfect. When children can't get their way that's exactly how they act... foolish.

[@fruitsarelife7073]

😂😂😂

[@jenbodhi1133]

I’ll share some of my popcorn with you lol

[@anitas5817]

This is perfect. I’m happily married to a great guy and I love watching this tantrum from men just like my first husband who couldn’t fathom why I left.

[@AminaPhilosophy]

When someone asks you why you’re single, say, “ because I am not married”. When they ask you why you’re not married, say, “ because I am single”. Then, smile and just skip away😊.

[@AminaPhilosophy]

@StarryWaters-gq1oj 🤣

[@BabyYodaBaby]

Good idea 😂

[@Lilzki]

Those men who try to shame and bully women into relationships are so nasty and toxic. They try to make women lose their sense of themselves and feel worthless because that is the only way women will date these type of nasty men. Our lives are our own. If we choose to be single or in a relationship then that is nobody else’s business. These type of men are not able to face their own loneliness and fear. All this trash talk about women is so off putting. I am encountering it more and more in my life with the result that I am less and less wanting to have a man in my life. I wish they would just shut up and mind their own business.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

The manipulation isn’t working anymore.

[@rairai574]

Exactly, I wish males would just respect people that don't want to deal with them and go away. men refuse to see anything,...only from their point of view. From their advantages and benefits. There is an epidemic of loneliness in men and men are developing cognitive impairments, mental instabilities at a faster rates. Connecting with Women is life affirming and life saving for men. Instead of challenging their toxic behaviors. I agree, men would rather try to shame and bully women into relationships. The more men talk, blame women, bully women, call women crazy, unstable and the more men blame feminism instead of themselves. The more I agree with divestment. Divesting from men is the best decision I ever made.

[@PrettyBones-ho4rq]

Exactly and them running their mouths still trying to tell women what to do and how to act is just making women even more turned off of them, they should just shut up and work to become better men.

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

Right, if they spent all that energy bashing single women into working on improving themselves and have actual emotional intelligence, they wouldn’t be fearing being single and alone. They refuse to see that their very mindset is what is pushing women away from them.

[@alexussk]

Exactly

[@juliebella1221]

My ex told me I had to do what he said because he's the man. We were 18 and 17 years old at the time. I laughed so hard and then played a bot all day. Oh yes darling. Anything you say darling in a monotone voice. He hated it and kept yelling stop it!!! Lol!!! Broke up with him. Within a year, he was a teenage Dad with some poor girl he knocked up. If I could go back I'd never mate. No man is worth all that stuff rotting in your body after they've used you as their dumpster. Keep your PH balanced.

[@catcoffee7958]

Your ex figured out how to enslave and anchor a woman by impregnating her,,, 😮you are lucky you got away

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

I had s similar story but the guy said that he only believed in himself in a cocky tone when i asked him if he believed in anything. At the time i was doing soul searching trying to figure out myself spiritually. And his whole vibe threw me off. And get this, he was wanting to hurry up, get married and have kids with me but had no job and still living with his ra-cist father that did not like blk people. (I’m a blk woman, he was wht). He tried to break up with me through text saying, “I don’t think this is going to work out”. And i was actually relieved, didn’t care and was unbothered replying back, “k”. I was 19yo and he was 25yo. Fast forward like 6mths later, i saw him with this why girl, both looking a bum, looking stressed, dirty, barely making it, and she was pregnant. The time i saw them was when they were trying to make an appt for his babymama to get her hair done at the salon i worked at. But when they found out how much it cost, they said it cost too much, left and never came back. Needless to say, I definitely dodged a bullet. Because at the time this guy tried to feed me that scam of marriage and having kids with him is when i was doing my apprenticeship as a cosmologist (hairdresser who does hair and nails). Had i fell for that scam, I would’ve been stuck with a failed marriage, his ugly@ss babies and possibly never ended up working as a cosmologist, broke and trapped.

[@juliebella1221]

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOh, I'm sooooooooooooooooooo proud of you!!!!!! Woo Hoo!!! 🤗 I'm not sure why we didn't programme. LOL!! It's like old swirling on the system and then the system shut down when it came for us. LOL!! It's like us against the stepford wives, cherry 2000. Barbie make men annoyed. Their doll movies no probs. LOL!! It makes no sense to me at all. It only makes them look and be weak, so why? Because they can? I don't know. Truly. And, like we all come from a woman, so why want to control that which you come from? Freud goes into it at length...still not a good enough esplaining. I just love that you went into a woman centered space. I watched Chris Rock's hair doc and was fascinated and I have a degree in marketing and I was like all making products etc. for BW to sell to BW. Oils, Oils, Oils!! I used to live on an island. LOL!! You need more of a portion of that market for real!! I have biracial in my fams through cousins etc. So, like the hair thing is REAL. I was getting the united nations of girls ready for a dance. Make up, no probs, had all colors etc. My friend's girl, gorgeous, super model perfection of 90s awesomeness, half German (Mom) and Trinidad (Dad). Her hair wouldn't curl, or take to any of the products I had and she was like so sad and I was like freaking out with so much sorrow. It wasn't like a common hair that has been catered too. I've since learned about the 4cs and studied what the grades are and why. I'm Norwegian, so I have A LOT of hair, breaks hair bands etc., that's super fine - won't curl. Like it's curly on it's own when weather just right. Otherwise super straight. Heat and hairspray it laughs at. LOL!! Anyway, like, you HAVE to get in and take your market. It's yours. LOL!!! I'm excited by hair and nail shows. LOVE the art and healthy competition. I've donated my hair and been a hair model. I'd let them do whatever at the time. LOL!! I can't say enough how proud I am of you, I know it wasn't easy - hair salons and barber shops need to make a huge come back for the people. Forgive me, I'm Gen X, from an entirely different planet it seems to now. Be the future for our girls, they need to own what is theirs. Have the power and authority to tell the truth and deal with problems head on, literally. I don't ever want another girl to not have hair products and ways to do her hair that makes her joyful and feel bouncy and free. I've seen the pain, it's no good. So pave that way girl!!!!!!!!!!!! Totally have to have like a spa/salon/barber shop one day. Think BIG!!😊@@anonnnymousthegreat

[@mystery9irl887]

The penis is a vessel for disease

[@MiamiPush2theLimit]

I literally am sooooo happy I’ve never let a man finish inside me 💯🥳🥰

[@camille5533]

Something you gotta realize is men have to try and trick women to be with them.

[@Rebecca.xoxoxo]

Yessss they’re that despicable. And then when you get with them they get off on treating you like shit!! 😡

[@rowanphillips3497]

Yup

[@kissit012]

Thing is they don’t. They could just be decent humans who act civilized and treat women with respect. They would rather lie, cheat, steal, manipulate, threaten, and abuse than just be good people

[@catesj15]

This is soooo trueeee. I was tricked into being with a guy. I broke it off after 2mo. He failed miserably. Should’ve listened to my intuition.

[@camille5533]

@@catesj15 they be acting like a whole different person.

[@valeriaswanne]

It's like I always say; you don't get to talk trash about someone and then complain that they don't like you.

[@gem9535]

I think the main reason as to why men are suffering so much being single is because they have no real friends. They have drinking buddies, yeah, but no deep emotional connection. No one they can cry without shame with-because that role is for the girlfriend /s. Gentlemen, make friends, and cut off the “friends.” You’ll suddenly ‘need’ a partner a lot less.

[@theceoofeggmansempire5214]

Tbh as a man i lost all my friends & don't really want to feel emotions anymore

[@traderLeah]

look up "manic pixie dream girl". we're apparently supposed to fix their asses lol

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

This is not a gender issue, but societal. You all hating on every single men will not change anything and just make everyone more miserable. Misandry is just as real as misogyny. I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine, you hypocrites.

[@theceoofeggmansempire5214]

@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 Tbh as a man, when i gave up looking for love, life became much better for me Glad that someone pointed out misandry being the actual issue. The whole idea of this channel basically being bunch of tt vids in yt vid is just lame Many women here seem to have beef with men Many people just need to go outside.

[@AribellaAC]

I love how people think we NEED a husband and children to not be lonely… sir, I have parents, grandparents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, and their kids. What do I need a husband and kids for when I already have a huge family? Give me a dog or two, and I’m straight. Being raised as an only child (super large age gaps between me and my siblings) prepared me for this.

[@beab8738]

But you nEEd a man to protect you and provide for you and show you the woORldd

[@AribellaAC]

@@beab8738 omg uwu no plzzzz forgive me for not seeing the error of my judgements! 🥺 so weak n smol n FEEBLE MINDED just like all women, so dumb of me 😩

[@HolisticManifesting]

​@@beab8738lol

[@stupidtookmynick]

Right, I got sisters too and they have kids. I love those kids so much and as long as they're alive, I'll never be alone. I have my best friend too.

[@princessaroyale]

​@@beab8738 that's what a father is for

[@ptlovelight2971]

I think the reason men hate single women enjoying their life is because that joy does not come from serving them (men) Women are finding more enjoyment in self improvement, enriching travel experiences, deep friendships, spirituality, loving their conpanion animals (yes, even the cold aloof cats) and being loving servers and supporters of their communities. None of these things requires a man or his phallus to be involved

[@dmb1745]

It’s simpler than that. A lot of men just hate women. They straight up despise us and love to see female misery. Despite their hatred for us, they still need our emotional validation and emotional labour. They hate the fact that they rely on us. They can’t stand the female separatist movement because it consists of women thriving without men. It’s jealousy, plain and simple.

[@happymess3219]

😶 cats aren't cold OR aloof. they can be very sweet if you get a good one. AND they won't call you 'old milk' once you hit 30.

[@SkycometAnimeVamp]

Exactly. Men are scared because they suddenly have to actually try

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine, you hypocrites. As if this all was EXCLUSIVE to womanhood. Mens suffering rly is a joke to you all, is it not?

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

[@amoraacho6181]

As someone who has been Asexual/Aromatic for the last 5 years whenever I get asked out and say that I have no interest in romantic relationships the first thing they say is, “we can fix that. I can make you love me” Like no…I am just not interested. Then they ask if I’m lonely and I said no I’m not, I love my friends and have people who have a connection with. I’m good.

[@shamioshi]

The idea that men really think women will be LONELY w/o a man and children😂😂😂😂. One of the things women do INFINITELY better than men is build relationships: friendships, colleagues, sisterhood, "auntee-hood", community eldership...the possibilities are endless!!

[@almilall]

they cant empathize. they think women are just like them

[@Lena-cz6re]

@@almilall the sad thing is, some women have bought into this and are behaving in many ways just like men. I'm glad to see more of us are waking up

[@TeaTimeThrillers]

I’m good at none of those things lol, still don’t want a man..,

[@jeannerogers7085]

Correct.

[@jewdy8915]

I’m 45 single, and Childfree. I barely work, own my house and car outright, have plenty of savings, have one dog and no cats, and get to do as I please with my time. Go ahead and ask me in five years if I’m “winning”.

[@nardip4999]

You said you barely work and have plenty of savings? If you don't mind me asking, what profession are you in??

[@Ohmygatos35]

I wanna know too! I wanna barely work and have savings! Sounds like the best life

[@yavette]

Ex husband.😮😮😮

[@vonnii1013]

Lol I don't have to ask...u and me are winning

[@tornadosirenwednesday]

The Bible literally says that some people are better off not being married so that they can focus on pleasing God instead of their spouse. God cares for the unmarried, widowed and childless. You need to read the Bible and wake up

[@Mommyknowsbestduh]

The funniest part of the video is him saying that she is going to end up with STDs. When we all know that the main reason why women get STDs is from being in a relationship with an unfaithful partner, look at of all of the women who were married, and got HIV from their husbands. The whole narrative of relationships and marriage has completely changed in my perception. I was one of those girls who used to always want a partner always wanted to man and revolved myself around finding a man I have been single for two years. This has been the most peaceful two years of my entire 35 years of life I will never ever revolve my life around MEN again, I plan on continuing to remain single, because the only thing that I’ve ever experienced with dating men is anxiety, betrayal, and havoc !!

[@akinazara]

Same stress levels are too the roof

[@MyMerryMessyGermanLife]

Right? And that’s more slut shaming. Doesn’t work anymore. Why isn’t he shaming single men and saying they’ll get STD’s? Right, because men can have sex and women can’t. 😂

[@MiaBellaxOx]

Right! My life flourished when I decentered men. I could/would never go back. I don’t even look at women who have men at the center of their being the same. I avoid them as much as I do men.

[@realestatebykemi]

Exactly. A single person can’t give oneself an STD.

[@HolisticManifesting]

Yes. Anxiety is 100 times worst when in a relationship. ❤

[@fredly5795]

Anyone who uses the "you're gonna end alone with a bunch of cats" as a negative threat just know nothing of the world. I live with cats and I can confirm that life is 100% better with them than with any misogynistic men.

[@CierraJohnson-bh4mc]

Cats are scientifically proven to be good for emotional and physical health. Especially when they purr near you.

[@magsbayou]

Red flag, insulting you or discrediting your reasons for choosing to be single. If they insult you over a choice that has no bearing on them imagine the nightmare they are to live with.

[@depressed_individual0]

my relationship with my parents:

[@mercedesharrison5550]

That’s exactly how I see it. I’m glad these men run off at the mouth like they do now bc it just tells me nope you’re not the guy. Fellas keep exposing yourselves.

[@kefilwem8284]

It's sad being very lonely while married and getting an STD from your husband. It's very sad getting insulting calls from your husband's mistress. I'd rather be alone than be married.

[@akinazara]

A lot of times these husband's don't care that they're cheating- wives get mad at mistresses they should get mad to these no good husband's

[@Mistyfaery]

​@@akinazarathey should be mad at *both*. If the mistress knowingly got involved with someone's husband, she is not guiltless. It takes two to tango. Also women know how it feels to be betrayed on that level, so for one us to still go after someone else's husband (again, if they *knew*. If they thought the guy was single, then that's a different story.) is the lowest of the low. Period. So no, we don't do that only go after the husband crap here. Willing participants get to catch these hands too. 🤗

[@GabrielleTollerson]

@@akinazarathey should be mad at BOTH!!

[@GabrielleTollerson]

@@Mistyfaeryexactly!! Sick of a lot of women trying to make the misteress completely blameless

[@akinazara]

@@Mistyfaery a lot of women domt know these men married- I have married men in my DM all the time lying until the wife calls admitting her husband is married. Dealing with men is a headache and liability- I don't deal with men as I'M LESIBAN and married / dating men stay in my INBOX despite my sexuality.. I don't deal with women who deal with men

[@ariesaraya1822]

Whenever men get hysterical you know you are doing something right. Something that serves you and not them.

[@mercedesharrison5550]

‼️👏🏾

[@embrasil]

The times were we would be their personal slaves are over

[@thegayestgoth]

It's th undesirable ones that are complaining the loudest.

[@BehindTheBush96]

Testerical*

[@craffte]

LOL!!! ❤️❤️❤️👍😂

[@Pucci_D]

The single women with no children that I see look happy, healthy and glow like no other. UNBOTHERED FREEDOM looks good on them.

[@studiosandi]

The thing you should keep in mind when these preachers start saying these types of things to women, they want women pregnant, in the church and giving them money, that is all it boils down to.

[@asiahenry7798]

So true! They need those donations to keep pouring in, and the corporations need more worker bees.

[@luna-p]

No surprise from a guy who called women "pen15 homes."

[@99nickiewickie]

💯💯💯

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

Actually you're 100% correct! Preachers know husbands WITH WIVES AND CHILDREN donate. Single men aren't in there donating to the church.

[@fredahwiwu5219]

😂😂😂 so true everyone benefits when women give birth; governments get tax payers, schools get paid, hospitals get patients What does the mother get all kinds of labour; a lifetime of stress

[@rgeorge8618]

I was surprised that he mentioned single women dying alone with STDs as though marriage alone is a foolproof way to avoid that.

[@kissit012]

And as if it’s not the exact thing that men are doing and dying from

[@sonofhibbs4425]

I’d laugh if it wasn’t so sad… you are so right! It’s not like tons of married women aren’t getting STDs from their fuckshit husband too. OR they stayed pure, married a man who is such a dusty he had the STD’s he brought into marriage. Plus, he assumes single women ARE SLEEPING AROUND!! What a pos. I bet he cheats on his wife.

[@horncow4160]

No surprise. The pro marriage factions treat marriage like a magical binding that prevents people from acting like people.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Plenty of married women who got STD while married 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@GabrielleTollerson]

they love to pretend that men aren't cheating ass holes lmao

[@natevic1867]

It’s ALWAYS a man telling women that they’re going to be ‘lonely’ being single 😂 projecting their own fears by pretending they know how we think.

[@nayouuu9284]

ladies, when you travel, take pictures and memories, print them. when old age comes, you will have memories to look back on and be proud of all you have accomplished.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

I had a guy say that shit to me. He said he wasn't going to "protect" me anymore if I didn't need him. It was so childish. I am glad I no longer even talk to that person anymore.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

why most men don't see themselves as the ones we need protection from baffles me.

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

They act like that is a threat when they are the main threats to us. This is why gun ownership amongst women, especially blk women are on the rise.

[@alexussk]

This man

[@b.valentine5283]

They love to bring up that they are naturally stronger than us and use it against us. As if women can't operate a gun.

[@Wewereneveryoung]

When most women victims are assaulted by males they know and are personally close with 🙄 yeah they don't see that at all

[@lisajohnson1627]

I'm single& child-free by choice. I refuse to be a baby mama. And I've known since age 17 that marriage doesn't benefit women, especially black women. And that romantic relationship with a man isn't guaranteed to last forever. I refuse to take the risk. I decided to listen to the people in my circle that was telling me that my standard was too high & unrealistic. So I made the horrible mistake of living with a man for the 1st time in my life at 48 years old. it was a nightmare. He refused to pay his part of the bills when I demanded he did. He started emotionally, and psychologically abusing me. I would have been better off with physical abuse than the stated abuse that I endured. The mental scars will never go away. I cooked, cleaned, washed clothes, and paid all the bills. I mean, he brought nothing but stress. The sex was mediocre. God gave me the strength to kick him out of my house. The experience only solidified my belief that being single is the best option for me. I'm happiest when I am not involved with a man, feel free and at peace. I don't have any cats either. Oh, btw, I am a nurse and 95% of my male patients have no one but us nurses to care for them. They hardly have any visitors. They are the lonely, depresed and miserable ones. Don't fall for their projections ladies

[@volkana1977]

" I cooked, cleaned, washed clothes, and paid all the bills. I mean, he brought nothing but stress." that pretty much summarizes the life of a lot of married women. I knew my ex-bfs would act exactly like that if I ever married them, then I decided to be single and chilfree and it was the best decision in my life. Now I own my house, my car and my savings and the most important: PEACE OF MIND.

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

Also: Stop it. Marriage doesn’t benefit women? You gotta be kidding lmfaoo. Well, the divorce surely does benefit you all quite a bit, doesn’t it?

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine, you hypocrites.

[@volkana1977]

@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 man, don´t you think she is a bit crazy? She stalked you for 2 years....women don´t use to do that... was she your first girlfriend? I didn´t get, she wanted sex all the time? Or she just wanted to cuddle?

[@marilyndenham7039]

"Why not tell these men to be better? Why not tell them to be more emotionally intelligent....and to be caring and thoughtful and loving?"

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

That's to much like right. They want US to except their bs and suffer thru life for them 🤡🤛🏾👹🤛🏾

[@GabrielleTollerson]

I tried before and they only get mad and butthurt then blame women

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

@@GabrielleTollerson it's a waste of time talking to them 🤦🏾‍♀️😒😑

[@darcy5761]

They refuse to work on themselves.

[@KxNOxUTA]

Actually, to add a bit of humane compassion to this as a woman: It's because they are subconsciously aware how much work it would take AND they will alienate their fellow bros from lonely-hood! Aka for men, the stakes of losing the ONLY (abysmal) "support" group they have is a super high risk investment. This, the tactic becomes to try drag women back into the mud, as not to have to let go of the one rotting branch they are grabbing on while drowning. Meanwhile, women have gone through the absolutely traumatic work of working through trauma often while even accomplishing to NOT hate all men, even though men are frequently their abusers. And we're starting to get equipped with all the tools from early on, that enable us to be actually high quality peer-to-peer supporters amongst women. So when I hear men whine, I - on one hand - am mad that they think it's fine to ask us - who keep suffering their abuse and misogyny on the daily - to help them get better. But on the other hand, it IS a reality, that men are the worst equipped to manage (not suppress) their emotions and attend to loving social connections and their peers are - at large - not equipped to help either. Even worse: Those drowning in the mud, are usually very adamant about framing their successful peers (I'm talking about loving men, often with childcare responsibilities or pet responsibility or even sickly family member care responsibilities) as weak.

[@einahsirro1488]

I'm 58. I've been married (twice), and I've been single. I choose single. I've had husbands, and I've had cats. I choose cats.

[@canopusstar5157]

Same! 77 here, and have found relationships with any but my cat and dogs to be only problematic and stressful. Even friendship! I am happier and healthier without men in my life! I divorced in ‘84 and with a few exceptions, I have found the few relationships I had with men since to be, on the whole, unsatisfying, stressful, parasitical and, in one case, criminal! Men need to be better people,.

[@ellah2303]

Why do they try to say youll be lonely with cats like thats a bad thing? Cats and dogs are the shh!

[@noonereally4798]

Bruh they’re just dissing themselves, they’re literally just admitting that an Fing cat is better Company than they are…

[@beyondallreason-du4pq]

I'd rather live with cats

[@PrettyBones-ho4rq]

Cats and dogs are very loving. A dog will die trying to protect you and they are very loyal.❤

[@Rosierose902]

They genuinely think their company is better than a cat 🤣

[@cindyl760]

I say that all the time! Best companions ❤

[@ceebee5848]

I watched my mom, my grandmother, and both my aunts deteriorate in loveless marriages to useless manbabies. I swore it would never happen to me. 37 single and child free, and couldn’t be happier. I love my life, I love my career, I love my clean peaceful house, and I can dote on my cats and dogs. I get to spend quality time with my mom and grandmother, my (divorced) friends and their kids, and I get to travel and meet new people whenever I want. But even if I were miserable, I’d rather be alone and miserable than trapped in a miserable marriage having to raise a grown a$$ useless, whining, contemptible man. I will never sacrifice my peace on the alter of marriage.

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

I watched one aunt literally die… health and looks deteriorated drastically. At the end she was in a wheelchair and was only in her 60s when she died a “strange” death… he had girlfriends and a drug addiction throughout their marriage. Needless to say, it was a toxic marriage

[@ksy4747]

​@sisterlove2733 that was my mom too. She was 53 and died from cancer. Spent her last years continuing same routine of working full time as a nurse, working around the house without help, and managing ALL thr affairs of my stepfather. When she died the man didn't know how to pay any bills or where anything was. Completely useless. All he could do was bring a paycheck, punch holes in the walls and curse everyone out when he was mad. I begged her to leave him for years.

[@mommiqueen1172]

We all die alone. Why are men so concerned with how a single woman chooses to live her life?

[@eleganteboni3297]

Because that is resources he can not access or bebefit from.

[@akinazara]

​@eleganteboni3297 yep no sex, no money, etc I don't need men

[@HolisticManifesting]

​@@eleganteboni3297 bingo

[@akinazara]

​@@eleganteboni3297yep 100

[@atlfun08]

Because they are jealous. They don’t have the balls to live life on their own terms probably cause…their whole existence is about appearance of status.

[@Chloenextdoor]

Most woman I have met that are elderly 75+. Have said they are HAPPY they’ve never married or had children. I know an 86 year old who is incredibly healthy, did ballet professionally & travels twice a year. That woman is so happy. Her life is only one some can dream of. She has a nook in a sunroom that she reads in. She doesn’t have a car or a dog. A HUGE apartment with no one but herself to share it with. No one to reap benefits for what she’s earned. Happiest most innocent adult I know. She NEVER dated & focused on her career. She couldn’t lie to me with all the shopping & traveling she does. Her beauty convinced me child free & or single is a lifestyle that enriches you. Don’t do what you don’t want to do! He sounds so envious as if he actually does any child rearing… 😂

[@elise85391]

And ballet is one of those careers that would’ve been extremely difficult if not impossible to go back to after having a baby. Especially in the time period when she would’ve been having kids, like even if she got back in shape they probably wouldn’t have looked twice at someone with a baby.

[@lindalund9621]

Also very many Windows Get a new life lol

[@NinaSimone3]

I decorated my home super cute and girly like I want. I made my place my safe haven. I love it. I love coming home to peace and quiet. My daughter is 20 living her best life. I’m about to be 38 and I have no desire or urge to share my space with a man and get traumatized by his dust. No thank you 😂

[@laughingshaman1]

My dear, there’s no reason to bring one into your space just because you want to be in relationship. Many of the older women I know 55+ have a “friend” that they have fun with on their own terms. They don’t marry them and they don’t move them in. They’ve taught me how to play with a man without having to keep him if you know what I mean.

[@alexussk]

Sounds amazing! 👏😲

[@akinazara]

@laughingshaman1 honey I wouldn't risk myself to these diseases ridden men not even with a condom on

[@fredahwiwu5219]

😂😂😂 babes, you made the right choice. A lot of women in rships and marriage are just getting used; s€☆ dolls and (domestic, emotional, psychological, and physical labor)

[@catesj15]

And get traumatized by his dust 😂😂😂

[@Joseph-br1fk]

As a lesbian I have always felt bad for straight women because it seems like it’s just so much harder to find a good man than a good woman (tho there’s good and bad people of any gender). I’m glad that some straight women have decided to prioritize themselves and fill their lives with supportive people that aren’t desperate and stuck up men. I do hope every straight woman finds a GOOD man who uplifts her and doesn’t drag her down if that’s what she wants, but being single is the next best thing.

[@theresemalmberg955]

I'm straight but I have often felt the same way as you do, that maybe my romantic life would be easier if I was lesbian. But that would be living a lie, because I'm not.

[@katrags3603]

My parents asked me why I hadn't gotten married like the rest of my siblings. UMM... They married women. I, unfortunately, am very straight and swimming in a pool of mama's boys and losers.

[@chelscara]

Yeah true, but also y3ah be careful as anyone out there. My friend group has someone gone now because she moved too quickly with a very abusive woman, she couldn't get away in a normal route, so now she's running to the army. We all hope she makes it out to start her life again someday without that bitch.

[@BeautifulDove-i7u]

But being a Lesbian is against GOD

[@ChristiGo]

​@@BeautifulDove-i7uI was just going to type the Same Thing🎯💯✨

[@martinaheadspeth4733]

1st Corinthians 7:8 “Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: it is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do.

[@mercedesharrison5550]

They neverrrrr wanna talk about this scripture. Crazy some churches will go as far to say a woman’s role is to be married and have children and if she doesn’t then she’s going against God.

[@bloochoob]

They should add some awesome cats to this verse by now 🤩❤ 🐈 Catrinthians

[@bloochoob]

@@ironeggsandhamI’m burning with desire alright…burning with desire to be single, eat ice cream in bed and get more awesome cats 😊

[@cryptochrome3090]

Betttttt

[@electron-Volt]

Remember ladies: having pets and being single + childfree have been scientifically/statistically shown to improve women's lives.

[@ericaadmin5195]

Grandmother was beaten to death by her husband. I will NEVER trust a man with my life. I'd rather live in a cardboard box in peace, with a man who I have to walk on eggshells around.

[@inklingduckling7087]

Facts. My mom got STDs from my dad and ended up getting cancer from HPV and died. Married woman.

[@arganiaspinosa9122]

There are whole channels that show cases of women being unalived by their husband or bf, usually when they try to leave them after years of cheating and or abuse. Sadly they will never run out of content. I think all of those women would have gladly chosen a life of singlehood as opposed to losing their life behind a dusty man-child that could not handle rejection. You cannot put a price on peace of mind and physical safety.

[@akinazara]

@@arganiaspinosa9122 exactly 💯

[@akinazara]

@inklingduckling7087 That's sad af I'm so sorry about your mom- I believe my Graves Disease is a contribution to trauma and abuse from men and toxic relationships

[@ithinkicanmakethat6294]

Decided to be single and ended up with a cybersecurity degree and got a cyber job. I wouldn’t change a thing.

[@nkreseknowledge2241]

​@user-pl6to8pf3rawww you mad tink tink? 😂😂😂

[@cindyl760]

Congratulations! You know when we are single we are more likely to accomplish our goals, no matter what age! Always do what’s best for you :)

[@theoreticalviews2939]

​@user-pl6to8pf3ryou sound weirdly combative and competitive. Critiquing a plate and food is simply unhinged.

[@rosedevereux2391]

@@theoreticalviews2939 Yes someone who is bitter, miserable, and jealous.

[@calisongbird]

I'm 55 and happily married, but I sure wish KZbin and videos like this had been around when I was young and single. It would have save me SO.MUCH.STRESS. This is a fantastic video. WOMEN - KNOW YOUR WORTH. Guard your peace.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Thanks for sharing!

[@tremayneestwick2561]

Your a bad partner, all these women on these videos are miserable and want company.

[@sweetpoptart9486]

Nothing is stopping from divorcing him

[@ieattofu68]

I am 55 and never got married and so relieved that I never did. I love my aloneness...

[@calisongbird]

@@sweetpoptart9486I will edit my comment. I meant I am happily married, but I dated a lot of losers and duds in my single days. 😏

[@junewilliams4752]

Over 65, unmarried no STD’s (I’m very careful), no cats, love my quiet life. I can go/stay home when I want. I enjoy my life. It’s as exciting or dull as I make it.

[@RepentImmediately]

Did he say a woman should just shut up and look cute and nod their head? He better hope he never has to rely on one of his daughters to manage his affairs in the last years of his life like my father did cuz one cannot manage an estate simply by sitting there, looking cute, and nodding one's head.

[@wolfdogg9938]

Im nearly 50, single over 10 years. I'm winning. I am absolutely WINNING. I have friends, family, pets, pay all my own bills and have a life I built that no one is trying to actively tear down. My worst day is still better than coming home to a wrecked house and finding out the savings account got drained for some dusty crap speakers some idiot hotglued into a chipboard box. No one has forbidden me from having friends, no one complains when I buy food I like, no one throws a tantrum when I read a book. I am AT PEACE in a way I never was in a relationship. Rather get 6 more cats than a man living with me ever again.

[@mercedesharrison5550]

Actively tear down. Did you go through that too? My ex would undo everything that I was trying to build. Everyone else I knew in an abusive relationship didn’t go through that. I was the only one being attacked constantly, persistently, incessantly and constantly having my things destroyed and was regularly being sabotaged. Years later, I’m still recovering.

[@lenasvensson3965]

I am so impressed with you young women these days. You are half my age but you have already figured out stuff that took me years longer to comprehend. You are independent, confident, very smart, articulate, and you don't take any shit from men. You are goddesses, and you share your awesomeness with the world which is fantastic. In my day, when I told another woman that I was happily single, she would make a pity-face and say "good for you, being brave" and pat my hand patronizingly. I sure hope that does not happen any more. You are more amazing than I can put into words. You go girls!

[@HoudaOussous]

Women are willingly single, men are unwillingly single 😂😂😂

[@miaj94]

▪️Studies show that the happiest social subgroup are single women over the age of 50 who’ve never married and have no children. I believe it. I’m one of them. ▪️I’m a heterosexual black woman. I’m single by choice and I’ve said no to marriage several times. I wouldn’t give up the freedom and peace I enjoy to serve a man with what’s going on in the world today. ▪️I consider my mental, emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual health priceless jewels, and wouldn’t sacrifice the value of any of these for the validation and acceptance of anyone. I say so unapologetically.

[@aichann20]

👑

[@NeversurrenderMM66]

Me too, but I'm white. I knew, grin a very young age, I didn't want a man like good ol dad. The moment I saw any of his behaviors in a man I was dating, I'd try to talk about it to have the behavior changed. If that didn't work, I'd run. Even though I was told that beggers can't be choosers, I was and am, still choosey. I haven't settled and won't. I may not be the happiest, but at least I'm not miserable and abused.

[@silververnallbells191]

Baggers can't be choosers, but who's to say I'm begging? Watch *Wild Flower* by *C.GEANE* :)

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites.

[@willowingwhispers2612]

You know, this is interesting. There was a thing on the news this morning where it talked about how newer generations weren't interested in having kids as much as the previous generations. The women who were told and asked their opinion were not surprised, but the men were. Speaks volumes. I personally have never been interested in dating or having a romantic relationship. I've never understood why it baffles certain people that others can be perfectly content and happy being single.

[@darcy5761]

I would much rather be hap0ily single then Ina toxic telationship.

[@monejohn9973]

Their jealous of your peace ✌

[@nothingnewunderthesun4292]

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine, you hypocrites.

[@lovelymill]

​ we ain't reading that all😂

[@BehindTheBush96]

@@nothingnewunderthesun4292​​⁠this didn’t happen so much it unhappened things that had. You’re just desperate to invade women’s spaces to scream at us about how wrong we are with all of our own experiences. Because men HATE any woman saying ANYTHING bad about any man - you guys will defend other men to the death even if one of y’all was witnessed ræping a woman. If it’s a man’s word against a woman’s, you guys always assume the woman is the liar. Men lack common sense and emotional intelligence. There’s a reason why women regularly experience random men sliding into our DMs to try and use us as a free therapist, instead of their male friends? It’s because as much shit men talk about us, even they know women are more empathetic and emotionally intelligent deep down. If men are so much more caring than women, then why did men invent ræpe, war and every form of oppression? Literally none of history supports your biased manly man claim that men are kinder than women. Read a book.

[@beatricealadebo4830]

U are right. Men HATE to hear women are a lot happier & fulfilled without them. The truth is men CANNOT be alone. But women by nature can be single & xtremely happy

[@LeilaniLight11709]

My narcissistic/psychopathic ex tried to kill me and my family several times. That was almost 22 years ago and I have chosen to be celibate since then. A lot of men have tried to pressure me relentlessly to give them some, and they had NOTHING to offer me. Some were even employees and tenants, and my gardener, who was married (and did not disclose this). They think because I'm single that I'm available and that because they need sex, that I should provide it. How entitled is THAT? It's really UGLY out there. How did men get like this? Men don't even court anymore. They just expect you to give it up because they are there. They don't want to spend money, or time, or even get to know you. It's like the whole society is based on some cheap porn movie.

[@paulawashington3175]

Absolutely! I had a tenant who was a nice enough guy, although not the brightest. After living in a basement room for several years he shyly approached me for sex, saying "You need a man. It's nature." He couldn't even hold a decent conversation. He certainly couldn't understand that I could be both single and happy.

[@mercedesharrison5550]

Yuck, I wouldn’t even feel comfortable with him living there anymore.

[@marslara]

This reminds me of the paradox men have also created where they are the really conservative type and want all these traditional aspects in a relationship with women (that she's basically a live in nanny/maid) but then also call women who expect the man to be the "breadwinner" and pay for everything gold diggers. They want a woman with no ability to separate themselves safely and care for their own wellbeing but also get upset when those women want someone who can provide the traditional manly role. I don't care for all that trad stuff but that inconsistency is always so noticeable and confusing to me when I see men complain in this way because huh?? Like what do they expect then..? Do they really not see how that makes 0 sense?

[@0Enidan0]

It's not really porn, it's because women have become a lot more loose. For every woman out there keeping her legs closed, there are 10 who don't. I am a woman saving myself for marriage and men don't want to touch me with a ten foot pole. I am at a huge disadvantage.