Why Narcissists HATE It When You Take Their Phones

[@takemakers]

The key is, once you snoop and find/confirm what you believed all along, its your job to accept it and move on.

[@Annie-ol3jx]

Their phones enable them to cheat, go on dating apps and spy on their supplies. And also because they need to stay in the know,it makes them feel special! I know if you are here and a strong survivor, you are so happy that those days are completely over. Please stay safe this new years eve, control your environment and don't be afraid to stand your ground!! 2025 HERE WE COME,LOVE YOU ALL!! AND THANKS MRS. LEE FOR YOUR DEDICATION AND HARD WORK❤

[@cathyjennings5580]

Thanks Lee!!! Thanks for SHARING YOUR KNOWLEDGE INSIGHTFUL information ❤👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@deha5084]

The more I hear, the luckier I feel. The ex narc did not want a "partnership" of any kind. He lived his own life and wanted me to come to his house to cook dinner and clap cheeks. He very, very rarely asked me to do anything else with him. It was pathetic. He wanted a door mat to replace his deceased wife, who allowed him to abuse her in so many ways. I feel lucky because I lost nothing when I dumped the loser. And, he is an old fool, so I have NO idea why I stayed with him as long as I did. Thank god I left!

[@KKP20111]

That's true, if you have nothing to hide, you don't have to have problem your partner to have an access to your phone.

[@LolaAileenVanslette]

When he was in the bathroom, while we were getting ready for bed, one of his next victims texted him when I was putting my water bottle on the nightstand. I told him "Beebe texted you" He grabbed his phone like it was on fire. My son picked me up and never went back. He still has the same code (the year we met) as his code, so I checked it. You don't want to see what's in his archived messages or the photos he's saved, including his own. It's sick.

[@chopduke6452]

HA‼️🤣🤣🤣 & they'll still lie even if u find out how SOUR they are🤞🏾🤦🏾

[@mnmakinres]

They will make you controlling without knowing it

[@colibri7-m1h]

YeS! Well said. They try to avoid shame at all !!!! cost.

[@ikyParson11]

Once I figured her out, I shamed her as much as possible to get her to leave

[@moniqueboatfield]

They lose their minds because hit dogs holler, lol. I wouldn’t care if my spouse looked at my phone but also my spouse would trust me and not need to.

[@rmiller6356]

I'm not a narcissist but I do look up stuff about dealing with narcissists so I'd rather he didn't see it.

[@cathyjennings5580]

Happiness is a CHOICE of acceptable conditions & behaviors & environments we surround ourselves to live in daily. If, it's UPLIFTING CHEERFUL, RESPECTFUL, STRENGTHENING, Growing feeling freely ALIVE, LIVELY, FEELING LIKE WE ARE SOARING HIGH in the sky!!! Feeling brand NEW!!! EMPOWERED 😂😅😂😂 SUPER POWERED!!! HAPPINESS & SUPPORTED with cheerleaders!!! Lifting one's Spirits !!! We feel SO FREE!!! THAT IS Moments of HAPPINESS!!!! ALIVE, LIVELY LIFE!!! 😅😅😅😅😊

[@valettawillis5348]

Hey Lee, I have learned so much about the narcissist and their personality. I would like to ask have you thought about having your wife come on and give her view of living with you before therapy. I saw the one video she was in but it didn’t really give who you really were. Just a thought to consider. Transparency is vital and sharing what you did as an untreated narcissist will really be impactful.

[@claireh.7605]

My younger cousin would steal my phone and go through my messages and history and even send insults to my friends from my phone; but he would get offended and threatened and threaten me physically if I tried to take his phone. He also tried to undermine my job and get me fired multiple times. I would do the same stuff to him and he would make a bigger deal out of it and literally say it’s me who is the bad one because I did it so it can’t be true what I say about him doing it in the first place.

[@yuktiarora7105]

My narc bf shook up when I went through his ‘recently deleted’ - photo section of his phone .. lol😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Icontrolmylifenotyou]

I’m not a narcissist and I hate when people take my phone. I don’t like when anyone tries to dominate my electronics in general.

[@chellotrevino7323]

I’m not a narcissist man stfu I’ll snatch yo shit if I want to 😂

[@cathyjennings5580]

Can U describe the word hate from your perspective??

[@ModelValeriaa]

Covert narcissist I was dealing with changed his IG name by mixing his username with a lot of dots while no contact, probably for the new supply he married. He removed his name, only put his first letter and a very vague picture of himself. It's frustrating to think that the wife won't even find out, maybe 10 years later like most people or be naieve about it

[@ModelValeriaa]

Lee, can you maybe take in consideration to make videos on if the narcissist compares himself to others, has body dismorphia? When a narcissists has good looks if he also feels ''handsome''? And maybe also about narcissists and how they behave when they actually have lots of supply consisently due do their charms and looks? I was also wondering how the narcissist views a supply who was extremely obsessive and took the obsession about the narcissist to a next level and stops obsessing after devaluation, will the narcissist has that supply still in mind or just throws the supply away as pathethic?

[@cathyjennings5580]

Shame avoidance disorder ?? Or GUILT of not behaving as someone else's Expectations ???

[@emilyhurst4829]

Mine took me to an out of county police department because I had his phone & he would not give me his pin#!!

[@NoName-jx4oo]

One time he was on a date app and said it was for a 3 some but never told me about it lmao 🤣

[@KKP20111]

Maybe because he didn't want you to be included to the '3 some'. 🙃

[@NoName-jx4oo]

Yea I definitely wasn’t included

[@kinggandyel9339]

Hahahahahaha

[@carbonthoughtproject6037]

Your a self aware narcissist.. man please be normal one day I know there is some good in you man 😢… you actually seem like a nice person It’s hard to see you with such a horrible label like “narcissist” … I wish you the best because your actually helping so many people