Why Older Men Stopped Dating? The Ugly Truth Women Don't Want to Hear!

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

That’s me. I’m done. I’m sick of being ghosted, ignored, rejected. That’s all I encountered. Let 99% of women chase the top 5% of men. I will just sit back and watch things implode

[@everymanhasastory]

I'm sorry to hear that 😔

[@makenocommento-kj4gq]

@brianwaller, I'm sorry to hear that Brother and I mean " Brother" , I was going to give up totally early this, I was Lucky to find a Lady who I have been with 6 months ( I'm in a Western Anglo Saxon country), I have been deliberately taking the relationship slow and have walked baby steps I have put her through various Tests and will continue to, She has said she Loves me, I then asked 4 or 5 times and she was sure of Loving me, I have not fallen in love yet.

[@stevewinnie9834]

Relationships are too demanding no space no freedom no peace of mind

[@stevewinnie9834]

No mutual respect

[@stevensantana8049]

Same right here brother

[@Chuck_Jordan_Philippines_Exp]

I've been with my Filipina wife for 2.5 years. Was married to my ex wife for 16 years. There's no comparison. I now wake up every morning thankful and feeling blessed to have my wife. With my ex I woke up every morning with a sense of dread of what kind of drama and misery awaited me.

[@everymanhasastory]

Congratulations on your new life. Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your experience 😊

[@TopGMindsetCoach]

Blessings to you Brother 😇 Be grateful 🙏 Happy for you!

[@Panzer4F2]

Pornography does not get you hauled into Human Resources or Divorce Court. These days, if you are a man, you are one argument away from losing everything.

[@everymanhasastory]

Unfortunately I have to agree with you

[@MikeS-7]

Women watch porn and fund a multi billion dollar sex toy industry. Notice how that's never mentioned.

[@BoxingFishingGuy]

There is no way I would ever date anyone I work with. It’s dangerous to even be friends with women in the workplace these days.

[@NAWPS]

@BoxingFishingGuy that is really a mans weight..as you know. 120.is a woman's true weight

[@tomyum6163]

Social media is a big culprit in the dating scene disaster.

[@rollingtinfist]

This is the number one reason.

[@JurassicJerkyAmazon]

The average weight of the American woman is 175 pounds!

[@bretmoleta1860]

lol as I say “ Linebackers”

[@everymanhasastory]

Interesting.

[@L4P-Monk]

@@JurassicJerkyAmazon There are some pretty big girls here too. Shockingly so.

[@TimothyTimikoHanley]

😳😬👋

[@BrianDodgen]

The filipina girls are catching up if you spend anytime in the Philippines you will see that 90% of them are chubby and getting fatter

[@azspeedster5465]

As a widower for several years, I recently traveled to Thailand for vacation. Although I met and spoke to a few friendly and beautiful Thai women, I had no interest or desire to pursue a relationship again. I have become accustomed to the peace and quiet of being on my own and the level of freedom to live life on my terms. We all have to choose the life we want and go from there.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@steveburke7675]

Relationships in the English speaking west are just too risky, too much drama and just...too unpleasant for men. The ladies are just insufferable...too much work. First dates now are little more than a job interview....that you pay for. I was married for 30+ yrs, the last 10 yrs was an absolute nightmare. I would work all day (had a well paying professional career) and dread going home. Anecdotally...amongst my family/friends/former workmates, 60% are divorced and 35% are stuck in miserable marriages...I know 2 cpls that appear to be happy. Divorced in 2017 and moved out of the US...lost 60% of my net worth to a cheating wife. Nah yeh nah...never again.

[@everymanhasastory]

Unfortunately your story is way to common. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your experience 😊 Best of luck!

[@michaelsix9684]

heard your story so many times, really sad

[@kamalsud3379]

Exactly the story of my marital life...

[@Eventual-Visitor]

For some reason once you sign the contract it's the beginning of the end, but you better not drag it to the point that you dread going home, that sounds horrifying.

[@michaelsix9684]

omg, heard this story so many times, Am. Women just don't know how to be a wife, their mothers failed to teach them this skill

[@josephbranch2342]

Most women nowadays are looking for a sponsor. Someone to pay their bills and help them with their life. They're not looking to be a wife.

[@michaelsix9684]

I quit at 46, now 68, can't imagine why I ever bothered, it was always frustrating even annoying -- no payoff and never any thanks

[@variouscrazypeople254]

Same, I am 55, stopped dating in my early 40s... juice not worth the squeeze.

[@variouscrazypeople254]

Same, I am 55, stopped dating in my early 40s... juice not worth the squeeze.

[@loosegoose2466]

Same. Stopped at 50. Life is peaceful

[@michaelsix9684]

@@loosegoose2466 after 30 I saw the dating pool drop in quality greatly, after HS and college most great prospects are gone, from 30 on you get career women, single moms, losers, misfits, women no one wants and so on, it's so depressing, Gresham's law says - the bad drives out the good

[@wingwalker27]

I've been married and divorced twice. Never again. I actually like being alone now. I'll get a dog. Unconditional love.

[@nineseven420empire3]

No wife, happy life. Retired @ 60 and doing what I want. No stress or honey do BS.

[@alikabok-es4sx]

As a recently divorced person, married for 8 years. First marriage, and most probably my last. It is the burn out that gets you You commit and love someone then it degenerates to very stressful drama and betrayal. Perhaps when you are young you still have a very wide berth, but when you are in your late 50's or early 60's, and you have health issues and mortality has become a reality, you just don't want to deal with the stress and drama anymore. It is just not worth it. You just don't want to stress yourself with all that BS just to get laid. Not worth it. As Reekay of Life Beyond the Sea so insightfully said in one of his uploads. "Sometimes, it is better to be alone, than being with someone and you wish you are alone." Anyone who experienced a dying relationship knows what that means.

[@solarguy1702]

Yes Mark, I was awarded the house in the divorce BUT the spousal support was so high, I could no longer afford the mortgage.

[@everymanhasastory]

I was paying $7000 a month.

[@solarguy1702]

@@everymanhasastory I can only say,,, Holy shit!!!

[@lakecityransom]

​​@@solarguy1702no kidding in what world does a woman deserve $7,000 a month for doing nothing

[@anneofgreengables1619]

The problem with America is the excessive materialism. A lot of these "modern" women are spoiled & selfish. I'm sure there are some traditional Christian women but they're probably taken. I'm a woman in my Low 60s, and I am very traditional. After a messy divorce In the U.S I left for Finland 12 years ago. It's a whole different ball game over here. Nobody cares about the size of your house or portfolio. Most people here judge you on your character. It's refreshing.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊 Nice to have a woman comment 😊

[@makenocommento-kj4gq]

@anneofgreengable, you are 100% Correct

[@jimb3093]

I stopped dating in the U.S. I am 51 years old, never married, no kids. I am willing to date overseas and have a long term relationship. Here in the U.S.? No way. I am done!

[@zindukakids]

Hi Jim Thrilled to hear from you I'm from Kenya Africa Is it well with you if you date from Kenya? Will greatly appreciate your feedback Thank you

[@zindukakids]

I'm ready for a long distance relationship if that's well with you Thank you

[@kamalsud3379]

Toxic feminism...no guy wants to deal with that mindset and behaviour

[@0nof-i1l]

What is bad about equal rights?

[@ma3stro681]

@@0nof-i1l Equal rights would be fine, but it all goes one way in woemyns favour 100%. Men built the world, and we are done … 😎

[@notsparctacus]

@@0nof-i1l *Special Rights

[@makenocommento-kj4gq]

Kamal, your point has merit

[@paulereeves]

I am an American, and an American woman is my last choice. She is all about material things and not love. That's why I am in the philippines.

[@ParkerBG]

Sure it is 😂

[@JurandySanchez]

Quite true...

[@googleeyes4182]

Been there done that, you jumped from the frying pan into the fire.

[@zindukakids]

All the best you can also try Kenya Africa

[@Kimonha]

My ex wife was 140 lbs beauty when we met. She’s probably 250 now.

[@GQ1921]

That's why I never got married in the USA because they all turn out to be misrable overweight cows 😂😂😂😂

[@blackwoodrichmore4531]

Hi Mark, society has changed!. Western women see marriage as a career path, & divorce as a retirement plan. In fact, 60% of all weddings in the west are just a pre-divorce ceremony. You'll also notice that in recent times, there has been a gradual upgrade in the Philippines, in that there's a growing middle class... Filipinas are gradually becoming more westernised. & absolute divorce is not so far off for the Philippines. 😬

[@bobbyjames4300]

Filipinas have become so westernized that it will make your head spin . Especially the under 30 generation.

[@FreedomTravels720]

Womens nature is the same stay single pay the market rate...you cant get divorce raped if you dont get married 😊

[@ma3stro681]

Smart men don’t get married, anywhere … 😎

[@blackwoodrichmore4531]

@@ma3stro681 "Why don't you love me Jenny?". " I may not be a smart man, but I know what love is!" 🤪. With apologies to Mr Gump. 😁

[@donwutzlakesideadventures]

Sad to say you're spot on Mark! I went through a few of the situations you talked about!

[@robertcarel7704]

Women (and the American culture) have changed more than men over the last couple decades. Men watching porn is more of a reaction/symptom than a cause. This is why lots of American men are are attracted to Filipino women with traditional values.

[@EvelinHolmes]

What tractional value? Filipinas are much more willing to sleep with a guy on the first date. The proof most single Filipinas have a child . Why always but women down ? If man would treat their wife’s as the do there Filipinas Maybe there would be better longer lasting marriages . I married for 56 years to the same man. Of course I never hounded my husband for things we could not afford. But I also know man that not put a lots of thought in to there marriages . The wanted a big truck ,a boat motor home ,big holidays while the wife’s could not buy cloth for themselves or the children All these expats complain about there wife’s but there are man out there that are narcissist to.

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

@@EvelinHolmes Filipinas will step on the scale in front of a man (when asked). How much do you weigh is a question you would NEVER provide an HONEST answer for. That's 1 difference of many many many.

[@robertcarel7704]

@@EvelinHolmes Of course, there are two sides to everything, but by and large Filipino women have more traditional values.

[@shasta8523]

Excellent comments, Mark. You are right on, all points.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@davidcollins2993]

I have a good friend that owns a business and every time he finds a woman she wants him to pay her bills.

[@billyakin3301]

I am one of those guys. I haven't dated in 13 years.

[@everymanhasastory]

Don't give up. The perfect woman is out there waiting for you Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@billyakin3301]

@@everymanhasastory Too late. I might leave the country.

[@zindukakids]

​@@billyakin3301 You're welcome to Kenya Africa if that's well with you Thank you

[@Fortran66-d7n]

Great content Mark! As a Canadian in my 50s I don't date CDN women anymore. Once divorced...it's the old saying "once burnt... twice shy" And a few guys get burnt again when they goto collect CPP (aka our version of USA social security) at age 65 and half there CPP credits have been transferred to the Ex and they collect less than they were expecting. A real final kick in the B###s

[@michaelsix9684]

you grew up in a time when women were raised better, families were intact, and people did NOT have unrealistic expectations in relationships or life

[@everymanhasastory]

And you are exactly correct. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@notsparctacus]

@@everymanhasastory All of this happening today is by design.

[@billwilliams9527]

Mark, be happy you are not in the US anymore, it's a real political mess. Actually disgusting....

[@everymanhasastory]

I'm so sorry to hear that 😔

[@billwilliams9527]

@@everymanhasastory Oh Yes, me too, I live here. All we have is hope and that's not much to hang your hat on.

[@steveburke7675]

...US...Canada...UK...Aus..................all the same.

[@FreedomTravels720]

​@@billwilliams9527Hopium a powerful drug till it wears off 😊

[@garyt7232]

Everything that you said was spot on. Appreciate your thoughts on the topic. Enjoy the variety of topics you have on your channel. All the best to you, Jen, and Rogan.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you so much for your kind words of support

[@LastQuarterArcade]

Everything you said is 100% correct. Also the internet is the worst and best invention to happen. I was alive before the internet and I'd prefer pre internet.

[@paulmiller9997]

I'm a 40-year old Canadian. I have no interest in western women generally. For me, it is more of the materialistic, entitled, attitude that many western women have. Of course, I have met some amazing, humble, SEA women in my travels, and that reinforces my feelings. I see so many married men in North America who are unhappy. Even just walking down the street here, listening to some conversations...I thank god that I am not attached to women like that. Not to mention the fact that I have my free time to myself and I'm saving a LOT of money. I travel 2 or 3 times per year, mainly to Thailand for now, and that keeps me more than happy until such time as I can afford to move to SEA and find a woman who is genuinely loving, attractive, humble and family oriented.

[@zindukakids]

Hello 👋👋 Wishing you all the best if you won't mind you can try Kenya Africa if that's well with you All the best

[@dannyboy8644]

Great video 😊I agree with everything you said so articulated. I am blessed I married a traditional woman together 35 plus years here in America. I doubt I could ever meet another American women like her . God forbid she passes before me it would really change my life. Thanks for the video and congratulations on the birth of your child.

[@everymanhasastory]

Congratulations on your happy marriage. 😊 Yed there are still wonderful women in America. My mother and sister. They are just getting harder to find

[@JurassicJerkyAmazon]

Mark, wherever you are in the world it’s all about status money and Looks. The average guy has no status in the United States, but if he travels to Latin America parts of Europe and Southeast Asia, he walks off the plane with #Status!

[@variouscrazypeople254]

I stopped dating 13-14 years ago before it was in vogue.

[@stevef5812]

American women said they want bears let them have bears

[@L4P-Monk]

Hey Mark. Wow. What a topic indeed. So. As a disclaimer I will say that I was in a 30 year relationship. I was married 28.5 years of that and then she died of cancer. That was 8 years ago. I fully understood that things changed in America. The ladies seemed entitled and wanted an upgrade from where they are to even date you. Then I came to SE Asia. Add language barrier. They too want an upgrade. I tried a relationship with a Filipina not quite 20 years younger but for the sake of argument she was 43 and I was 63. She had 2 Twenty something sons. Talk about hey who is this foreigner? I tried to make it work for over a year. It was a losing battle. No one bothered to talk in English much less to me. It is worse to be with people and feel alone than it is to be alone. It was ok for her sons to steal from me. It was ok to ask me for money to give to her family and friends. This Filipina had all kinds of utang and she was OFW and I had to pay for it all. She worked hard for a long time but when I came, she laid on the couch and took naps. So did her sons. Everyone sleeps nicely except me! All of the horror stories I heard of... they were embodied in this one Filipina. My goodness. I am NOT dating anymore. You bet. It is no different here than anywhere else. If you guys find a good one ... congratulations. Count me out. They all figured I was Bill Gates rich. They all thought I would just pay everything and give them the life they always wanted. Even though I told her I was Pobre before I met her. They do not believe you! They think that is a joke. Well, they thought wrong. I saw how it was in the States and I see how it is in SE Asia. I. Am. Done. Permanently. Trust and believe... this is no utopia for dating.

[@L4P-Monk]

@sortbylowhigh9574 How indeed. Well… I hopped on the bus Gus, i didn’t need to discuss much, I just dropped off the key Lee and set myself free. Ya gotta love Paul Simon at times like that. Couldn’t resist using that one.

[@henryreinders3031]

Yup, there is a reason vasectomies are on the rise in the west, and not just older men. Almost every guy I know who is over 50 has been snipped... and before I go overseas, I will be part of that group too. Don't need any more kids (aka dependants and 18 years min of child support).

[@FreedomTravels720]

Getting married is like a Tornado...at first theres blowing & sucking...then suddely you lose your house 😊

[@Eventual-Visitor]

Buahahahahaha... 😎-😭

[@hammertyme8392]

I'm 63 married to a 33-year-old beautiful Colombian woman, and couldn't possibly be happier. Women were put on earth to server their husbands.

[@TopGMindsetCoach]

AMEN 🙌 Brother Happy For You. Nomad Capitalist Expat Lifestyle & traditional feminine submissive non-toxic women for the win 🏆

[@anandvora4481]

Yes. As long as the husband treats her with kindness and respect. Its a two way street.

[@0nof-i1l]

Poor slaves!

[@will_274]

There’s a problem finding good traditional feminine woman in the west. Why keep dating when you are constantly looked down upon?

[@everymanhasastory]

I agree with you 💯

[@ragjamrock]

You made a lot of great points here, Mark. I would just like to add that many Filipinas by age 20 have a 10 year headstart in lifeskills on their western counterparts. This is not a knock on our women, but it strengthens the case for age gap relationships like yours.👍🏽🏝🇵🇭

[@everymanhasastory]

That is a valid point. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

[@jong8876]

100% facts great analysis my dad and grandmother never understand it as they have always been in a couple

[@Man-In-The-Home-Stretch-60]

On 6 different dating sites, each one like having a singles bar in your pocket. My left-swipe wrist motion is getting one hell of a workout. Even when you DO find someone worth swiping right on, they either don't respond, or maybe they'll trickle out 2-3 word responses every 3 days, and god forbid anyone actually agree to MEET in person! Can't wait to get over there!

[@jtraveler888]

In the USA and west in general the juice ain't worth the squeeze. All the fruit is rotten.

[@AlphaMale_1]

Perfect summary! Thank you for compiling all of the reasons for the dating demise.

[@NAWPS]

I was just about to say a similar story.. Passport is the way to go.. I, too, got a fillipina best decision I've made..happy now.

[@everymanhasastory]

Congratulations. Best decision I've ever made was moving to the Philippines

[@evilchaperone]

The risk vs reward ratio is no longer worth it.

[@JurassicJerkyAmazon]

The problem is if men over 50 day women over 50 they match their feminine menopausal energy and their testosterone drops and it’s game over in the bedroom! Cheers from Medellin Colombia! 💃🏽💃🏽🕺🏽 🇨🇴

[@everymanhasastory]

Interesting. Thanks for watching

[@maidonthemoon8946]

I have given up in UK as a female. So terrifying in many ways especially online fakes x

[@everymanhasastory]

That's too bad. I hope you meet someone

[@chalabiste8300]

Good old days is fiction. I remember in the early seventies I was a young man and all the married men I worked with all said do yourself a favor never get married. They were unhappy then also.

[@Mike-z1l]

I walk thru a grocery store and 80 percent of the women of all ages are at least 20-200 pounds overweight.Pass!

[@AnthonyCataldo-ez5ej]

Widower after 18.5 years with my wife, so not porn, but it took me 3 years to find her and just watched a lot of KZbins and wanted a Filipina with traditional values. Economics was important. A western female would want too much stuff. My Filipina is a widow only 8 years younger than me, and so far so good. I am pretty darned happy.

[@steveky7829]

In the states now, in corporate culture, if you compliment that is harassment. I was in management, we were told by HR that the courts always support the woman, even if not true they are considered the passive party. The man is automatically the aggressor.

[@freeradical1567]

Love your Leo tapestry! Great info.

[@Gigi30107]

Stumbled in the room listening to retirement info. Spot on about all of it. Im 60 5'5 147 decent health. No debt Dont need or want sex ( been ther done that) Looking for a guy who likes to eat at home! Companion ship but not clingy. With ability to do some general maintenance around the place. All i find are guys in shitty shape and addictions looking for blowjobs from a nurse with a purse. 😢looks like we re all looking for people who do not exist any more. Good luck to everyone

[@DavidWilliams-qr5yj]

"Don't need or want sex " there's your problem. You're gonna be single... Most of these guys have given up the USA and are enjoying SEA. There are plenty of conservative loving women in the world. Before you accuse us of seeking a passive weak woman ,that's a typical Western woman's idea of asia. That's wrong. These women are strong self-confident and definitely the boss in the home. But they take care of their men 😊At 62, I found a fabulous Thai woman 39. The sex is amazing. We've been married 8 years together ❤️ 9 years. Enjoy your solo retirement. The men outside the west don't want to play your games either.

[@Snoopy-t5f]

Men are waking up to the reality of the marriage institution. It's more of a business and the guys usually end up at getting screwed. There's no point and no benefit to men to get married. This is only in America 🇺🇸 but other countries are still traditional marriage and success rate higher due to culture.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

[@michaelsix9684]

it's a govt. contract that rewards women who break it

[@ed5308]

Most men realize the effort is just not worth it. Its time to live for yourself.

[@philaman1972]

The "need" for marriage and relationships for that matter is continually eroding in our time. Here is the situation as it stands today: women will not settle even if it means remaining single in their 20s, 30s and beyond. And on the other side, more and more men have become reluctant to play the game due to the high divorce rate in addition to dealing with the "female relationship playbook" *all* women follow. In simple terms, many men have come to the consensus that it's easier to be single and I am one of them. 52 male, never married and no kids. What does it all mean? It means that their will be more and more single people!

[@IaintTheHerb]

Dating sucks and porn is a problem, but it's primarily ludicrous standards women adopted from social media. 4s think they deserve 9s. As far as viagra goes, anything advertised on television isn't meant for young guys, that's targeted at the only ones still watching TV - old people. 🤷‍♂️

[@thanewulfgar]

I am one of them. Sadly I just don't make the time. Friends think I should get out more.

[@markminister2599]

Me too

[@phmiii]

What I learned when I was young: "Never get your meat where you get your bread!"

[@BiffJohnsonIII]

Preach, brother.

[@rodgerdodgerlowe1838]

American men i believe are not setting a high 'standard' for american women, american women young or older whether they have chidlren or not may not have had a good relationship with men, are setting a higher standard for men. Men are saying no thanks. Filapinas overall seem to be very accepting of american men.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

[@AlphaMale_1]

"accepting" American men for the $$$!

[@ElmwoodParkHulk]

The laws especially in NJ . You could take a girl out drop her off tipsy home . Then a day later she could imagine that she was raped . A guy is immediately arrested on a false charge and possibly imprisoned for years . Woman have multiple partners and could accuse you of being the father when your not yet your paying child support. Getting married lots of men get divorce raped and I had a friend that was falsely accused by his wife of child abuse and being a batterd wife . He was almost arrested but his child visitation was taken away . He had to go to court and take classes for things he didn’t do . Women tend to use children to get revenge or money from the father . Thankfully he got a phone recording of her admitting she fabricated the whole thing . I’ve been single for 19 years , no dating no stress , peace and happiness. Maybe if I retire overseas the culture would be more conducive to my liking . Ironically when I was younger I told my cousins not to date American women but Asian or from the far East . My one cousin married a Filipino and she is wonderful and they are living the dream and his brother married and Japanese Columbian and they are on a second child living the dream so they did well . I’m so happy for them .

[@garysmith7840]

For me the internet has made me understand how the majority of women think about men. Most don't love their man at all, they will leave for someone they deem as better without batting an eye, doesn't matter how many years they may be in a relationship with you. Why do I want to chase after someone who really doesn't give a damn about me. Are there some good women out there, sure, but the older I get the less I need a woman.

[@PeterCunningham-rk5qk]

I've never liked dates and there's a good reason for that ,they go through you like a dose of the salts

[@warehouse1429]

When I moved from The northeast to Florida in 2018 I thought all The beaches like siesta key, lido beach, Venice beach etc would have hot girls in bikinis- wow I was disappointed. All fat people. Entire beach hundreds of people. Maybe 3 or 4 fit attractive girls

[@wallylove]

sign of the times, we are living in prophetic times

[@roberthale8441]

Well said 👍

[@jestubbs69]

First date = coffee/tea or tacos & cold drink we chat. So far the most dateable women who show some level of genuine interest are twenty something’s 30. I’m 54. US/ western women are undateable, not marriageable. My dating experience in Latin America is far more like that of the 80’s USA. Far more traditionally feminine women. Plus where in Baja are good number of Russian, Ukrainian, Polish, Czech, Asian ladies immigrated to Mexico for a better life.

[@nood5712]

It is hard to hug a 60 yr old woman when you constantly see gorgeous 20 yr olds in commercials and movies and social media and porn. I am 65 yr old and a few months ago i slept between two 18 yr olds. O ne had won the beauty contest in her high school. The other girl even prettier. I have deep pockets and have a hard time spending my monthly income of $6000.

[@tenjuna]

Ex cheated on me with sooo many men, the last of which was a 17 year old kid. Judge didn't care about that, somehow she deserved half of everything plus all the cash and prizes. Took me 12 years to recover and even now I can't bring myself to care too much about wahmen. I am planning to escape to the Philippines just to give me a chance at some peace before I die.

[@zindukakids]

Wishing you all the best

[@davidcollins2993]

In the u.s you are a wallet with legs.

[@Yette]

I was with you until you wrapped up, claiming men are happier in a relationship. It's likely true in a good relationship, but I think most men are happier to be solo than in a mediocre or poor relationship. I think we all know, happiness comes from within, not from somebody else.

[@everymanhasastory]

Okay. Fair enough. I meant a good realonship

[@ma3stro681]

He’s married. Speaks plenty of facts but still Blue Pilled to the core. Red Pilled men don’t get married … 😎

[@john9675]

Pascal, the 17th century French philosopher wrote that " .. all of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone ..". Married with kids is one thing but the idea of an older single man wanting female company 24/7 is sad. if you want someone to cook, clean, take care of you etc, and are willing to forfeit your privacy, space then fire away. I guess if you have no hobbies, tend to be lonely, depressed, drink a lot etc, then maybe having a woman riding shotgun will be of use but I could never imagine compromising my hard fought for Independence, space to having Any woman in the house 24/7. If i want a fling, it is easily found. Treasure your Independence. Other people are invariably Trouble in the long run

[@joeldchenoweth]

And then there’s chronic emasculation… everywhere you go

[@everymanhasastory]

Yes there is. And it gets worse every year

[@babblingalong7689]

For me it's mostly the m2-movement.

[@alannemeth3293]

Great assessment , sadly.

[@florencioisidro7133]

THATS What l want FREEDOM no hunky funky and No Honey DO this , Honey DO that😊

[@michaelsix9684]

avg. Am. woman weighs 170 pounds!

[@Max-oi9es]

The hell with what people think, it's all about if speaking against you will score them points in the public's eye. Donald Trump is 24 years older than Melania Floyd Mayweather is 20 years older than Gallienne Nabila. No one is age gap shaming them or others of their kind. Before I left the states my daughter had a conversation with me about one of her friends who's dad left the country and found love in a much younger lady, yet more mature comparable to their U.S. counterpart. And most men simply envy you if he feels like he deserves what you have and he has no real way of achieving your results; no matter how much money he has. Manage and live your life and watch how fast you'll outgrow those around you✌🏾

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@ronfesta771]

Me thinketh so many., selfish stepsisters looking for their Prince Charming and so many frogs looking for their........Cinderella!@!?😉

[@sv-yh3mq]

@ronfesta771- teehee, and Lol! Great "insight"- and lightens the "intractability" aspects of this

[@peterpoulter1420]

I think it stems back to giving them the right to vote

[@jemezfun9767]

Throughout history societies that allow women to vote spiral in an endless decline until failure and total collapse occurs.

[@jarrad347]

bullseye

[@craigcampbell6933]

Thank You for thw video. Your insite on this topic it truely remarkable. I have seen many similar videos on this topic. But most missed the mark. I only wish thwre was a solution to this topic as we need stable marriages in the world., to raise decent productive people people.

[@stevekenney2804]

Women almost look dangerous. You are sooo right!

[@tonybest2296]

U make sense glad I found u

[@leshardley4248]

Thank you for the video! I'll be 58 in a few months, relatively successful, very muscular and considered handsome by most. I can assure you PORN is not the problem, men have always wanted to have sex with women. Unfortunately the requirements to have sex with even a below average women is too high, not to mention the risk of getting accused of rape etc. I have no problem attracting women more than half my age in the USA but I prefer to travel outside the USA to date. I live in Florida and fly to Medellín Colombia 6 to 7 times a year to "date"😉 I don't date in the USA it's not worth it for too many reasons to list but thank you for covering most of them 😉🥰😍🥰✈️✈️

[@wayneandvickijackson4853]

I was very lucky as I married an incredible Lady who always put our Family first, even before her own needs. We literally started with nothing, so any assets acquired over our 45 years of marriage has never been an issue if something were to happen. Looking at the world of relationships now, it almost seems like everything has become transactional and more emphasis is put on monetary factors rather than establishing a solid relationship that encompasses those qualities that is needed to make a relationship flourish. At 72 yrs. Of age there is not a hope in hell that I am going to become somebody else’s Retirement Plan at this point. It is just not worth the risk!

[@blewbal]

In the area I live in single women are very rare and if you do happen to find one she is the bad apple in the bottom of the barrel best conclusion to only getting what no one else wants is to shun it with extreme prejudice.

[@sheldo8083]

It's the summer of 69, and I dont want to expend the energy required to have a relationship.

[@andrewevans7992]

It’s the summer of 69 for chads/tyrones

[@ogbutch]

Unfortunately, the upside of marrying or cohabitation with a woman as you get older has very little to no upside. When we are younger it may be slightly attractive if we want kids or a family, but even then, it is incredibly risky because of the court systems in the United States and that the statistics are very high you will divorce and that those divorces are initiated by women. No one wants to put in the time to make those relationships work and last. I read that many women initiate divorce because they are bored or think they can do better. As we get older and have more assets to lose and quite honestly have less patience for the B.S., being alone with yourself and having a good dog and friends is all we really need. Some say they are scared to die alone, but we all die alone and no guarantee that she will stay with you and that you won't lose everything taking that chance. It's just not worth the risks vs. the slight chance of any possible gains.

[@billliston2335]

Thanks to fast food and cumputor games your right when I'm at the mall just take a gander its astonishing

[@stevesilver7437]

The Philippines also has a pornography problem 😮 I have met a few Filipina that have talked about watching porn with ex spouse. The spouse becomes abusive Filipino😮 These women then also think sex is like a porno😮😢

[@everymanhasastory]

You're right. Porn is a universal problem. Exploting men and women

[@zindukakids]

That's too bad

[@jamulandkim3957]

nowadays, it's pretty much a bait and switch, the person you knew out there while dating acting so kind and understanding, will soon transform once you start living together in the same house (talk about shape shifting), once you see her in her true colors💵💴💶💷💳💰💸, the game will be pretty much over, from thence henceforth,

[@KennethWhitman-o1p]

I'm soon to be 74 Nov 2. I have given up dating women long long long ago. It's not worth the bullshit.

[@goldgeologist5320]

Dinner and movie with drinks and snacks, easily $200 plus!

[@DavidWilliams-qr5yj]

Depends where you go. You live in Manhattan??? You can do this in us for $100 but here in Chiangmai a movie and dinner at a nice restaurant is about $35 total. You can spend more in us and Thailand.

[@robb8773]

I'm a 59 y.o. man who has given up on women. Today most women demand so much but provide so little. Just not worth the hassle!

[@markminister2599]

Yep.

[@JoeBotello-v2u]

Yep

[@TimothyOlson-yz3pm]

You are right .in Thailand they treat me like a rock steer here I cannot even get a date

[@DavidWilliams-qr5yj]

That's sad .😢 try some meditation and self- Examination... Lots of good Thailand women. 🇹🇭

[@cocobean7519]

Very good & accurate analysis of this topic. I agree with all your points absolutely! However I look at this from a different perspective... from a spiritual angle. And I’d suggest that all the reasons you’ve put forward for the problematic dating scene (for both men & women) were engineered along time ago. With the aim of disintegrating the central, stable unit of society.....& that is marriage & the family. Marriage provides a stable unit in which children are reared & that’s under serious attack through the very reasons you outline.... Porn (seriously bad), emasculation of men, feminism, women no longer at home, demonise the ‘housewife’ role, blurring of the male/female roles in the home & society, women earning more, children being reared in day care & crèches etc etc.... all these ‘evils’ have been planned precisely to have the very effect you’re speaking of.... disintegration of normal relationships & marriage. The devils final battle will be over Marriage & the Family, & he’s practically won the battle!

[@everymanhasastory]

Interesting theory. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊