Why Rhett's Eyes Are Always So Red

[@jellycatfish]

The way Rhett said "I asked the doctor to take pictures so I could talk about it on my podcast" was just so adorable, I giggled.

[@winslow8779]

That sweater is my absolute favorite of Link's, which is saying something, because these boys have some good sweaters.

[@its_me_flee8188]

It’s not a sweater. It’s a sweatshirt from LL Bean.

[@melslatt]

I literally came to the comments to say this. I love this Link sweater.

[@mattbooth92]

Audio listeners scrubbing forward to see the eye footage

[@13hdme]

Are you looking over my shoulder???? 😆

[@Fallenangelcas98]

Yeah that's me 😂 I was morbidly curious

[@kaylaholt9677]

Don't call us out like that 🤣

[@lisabucci1373]

💯 😂

[@kellytaylor9742]

Unfortunately so. I didn't want to see...but my curiosity got the best of me. 😂

[@jacquelynstewart6965]

17:35 when any woman goes to the Dr with anxiety pcos ANY issues they blame your period or weight first. It's so hard to get them to look past being a woman and actually test for real concerns.

[@cllk115]

Absolutely it's so frustrating

[@clarav1938]

Yes and even horrific conditions like appendicitis are written off as anxiety in women until it turns gangrenous (This happened recently to one woman)

[@emmaRBC]

Ah yes, apparently my genetic illness only affects me because I'm overweight 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@brittanyjanebelligerent]

100 percent! I've gone to different doctors to try and get them to take my anxiety and depression seriously and they always tell me to basically "get over it" I feel so stuck in a hole and hopeless because of it idk what to do anymore at this point 😢

[@SuuggestionKalaxy]

This! This must be said! I had to go to the ER multiple times before anyone took me seriously. I dieted. I stopped smoking. I knew it wasn't that! Friggen male doctor telling me it's impossible, but the female doctor right away diagnosed me with Horton migraines! I couldn't stop myself from screaming one day. I punched a light bulb and got my hand hurt badly. I wasn't myself... nobody wanted to help me at first because it turned me aggressive during an episode! Now I have sumatriptan injections. I am a much better human. Screw the doctors that make us diet and stop smoking first. I HATE THEM. One of my eyeballs legit "fell downwards" and my gave was half crooked for awhile. Bastards told me I was faking it. HOW DO YOU FAKE YOUR FACE MELTING?! and why is it always related to "you need to watch what your eating!" did I say bastards? Bastards 😂😂😂😂

[@danacolosimo9760]

Rhett! I have the same eye condition! Mine is a symptom of my autoimmune disorder (Sjogrens syndrome). I saw a dry eye specialist, had similar tests and was given a diagnosis of meibomian gland dysfunction. When I was diagnosed in Dec 2023, they were completely spasmed closed and did not secrete any oil layer. But now, almost a year later of Restasis eye drops have dramatically helped. I also have rosacea, but it has not moved into my eyes. I'm sorry you're also dealing with this. It is frustrating and painful. I hope you're feeling better

[@ariseira_]

Omg I have Sjogrens, just got diagnosed. Thanks for sharing your experience!

[@roisinbyl]

Eye am so sorry about your experience, Rhett

[@youaintgettingmyhandle]

Stop that. That’s not funny. 😂

[@Jiddy12345]

@@youaintgettingmyhandle Cornea not?

[@roisinbyl]

@@Jiddy12345 LMAO

[@zobo2240]

links sweater is SO CUTE

[@punxie89]

I found info about it online and it was something like $200-300 and I cried inside because I love it lol

[@its_me_flee8188]

It’s just an LL Bean sweatshirt.

[@jessicaamaya2773]

I would like to add that hes had this sweater for years and ive seen it in a couple of gmm videos. It is the iconic autumn sweater at this point

[@NerdyBombshell]

I'm so glad you were finally able to get an accurate diagnosis and effective treatment Rhett! It's infuriating when doctors are unwilling or unable to help you and don't really seem to care or take you seriously (ask me how I know/endometriosis.) From certain angles, the duck on Link's shirt looks like an alligator with its mouth open, which makes it even more awesome.

[@Violianom]

I've been waiting for this since Monday's release. That was SO satisfying and I'm usually cringing. I'm so happy for you, Rhett. I suffer from having my eyes open while I sleep and I'm just afraid of any procedures that will fix it.. Maybe I'll look into it some more. Thanks and hope your road to recovery comes by quickly and healthily

[@thebabythesavage]

I was an optometry technician for years and saw patients just like you. For most, we recommended thicker eye drops (gel drops or ointments, Systane makes solid options for both) and using an eye mask or skin-safe tape to gently keep the eyes closed at night. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy and physicians will generally avoid invasive treatment with the eyes because there are obviously serious risks.

[@thebabythesavage]

There are prescription drops that can help with Dry Eye Disease if that’s you (and Lumify is safe for redness as well!) if those over the counter treatments don’t work for you.

[@Violianom]

@@thebabythesavage Thank you so much for the reply. I've used an eyemask when I was a teen and I would always throw it across the room in the middle of the night. I should give it a try again. Also, would the thicker eye drops be applied before sleeping? I wear daily contacts and use eye drops multiple times a day. When I wear glasses they are fine.

[@jessventures6172]

My first time actually listening to the podcast despite being a GMM watcher for yearssss. Nice to see a more chill and personal side sometimes x

[@codybrown3467]

The song that captures Rhett’s aura is definitely the booty knot song right??

[@RDSwords]

I'm so glad Rhett covered this topic because I think I may have the same exact issue. However, I've never had any of the special extra measures mentioned by any eye doctor other than using eye drops. I would not have even known anything about the eyelid glands, but this gives me something really substantial to look into now. Thanks Rhett!

[@BMarie774]

Afrin Nasal Spray also has a horrific rebound effect. People get addicted to it for DECADES. My dad was. He had to use it every few hours or he got severe congestion.. after just using it for two days for a cold.. he didn’t even use it more than directed! Never ever use Afrin or anything with its active ingredient. Instead, opt for Flonase or Nasacort (or the generic of either) and a decongestant you take orally. If you’re already addicted to Afrin, you can buy saline, nasacort (because the top comes off easier), and the Afrin. Every day you add more and more saline to it until you’re using pretty much only saline. Some also add the nasacort some use it in conjunction with the saline and Afrin mixture. If for some chance the person is stubbornly determined or medically required to go cold turkey, doing one nostril at a time can help some deal with it better. 2-4 weeks of one nostril clogged is better than 2-4 weeks of both clogged.

[@saruchuu]

I listened to the audio version and I COULDN'T WAIT to see the video of Rhett's procedure, I was so eager. I was picturing something way way more dramatic and shocking lol but it was enjoyable nonetheless. Rhett's eyes do look more relaxed, I wouldn't know how to describe it.

[@jadewa5395]

Rhett is my fiancé's Tall celebrity doppelganger. Down to the eye problems! Also finally being diagnosed with chronic conditions that have been plaguing you for years is extremely validating, and exciting because you can finally start treatments and hopefully start feeling better.

[@melmn2002]

My aunt lived with us as kids--it was actually wonderful for us. She and my mom ran a daycare together, and we had a second female role model/parental figure along with both parents.

[@allyduvall3242]

As an ophthalmologist's technician who has been a fan for over a decade, I LOVE this podcast. I assist in some of these imaging/treatments and ive been so glad to be a part of helping people with real ocular issues. Love ya'll!

[@chaosndelights]

I very much understand where Rhett is coming from when saying that getting a medical diagnosis felt like a weight being lifted. I unfortunately still haven't been able to find the right doctor for my hand problem, for one reason or another. It's been very frustrating, and at times maddening, but I hold out hope for the day when I can have that moment like Rhett 🥺

[@celeste7301]

Oh my gosh I bet it's such a relief once all of that is totally cleared out of the glands

[@AprilTheRockStar]

I nearly lost my vision a few years ago due to severely dry eyes, caused by an autoimmune condition. I went from 20/15 vision with glasses and contacts to literally 1 letter on the eye chart away from being illegal to drive. My corneas were splintering because they were so dry. My doctor told me she could fix the problem itself, but she couldn't guarantee my vision would come back. Thankfully it did, but I have to take very good care of my eyes to make sure they don't get that bad again. The issue there is that a lot of the treatments are OTC, so insurance, of course, doesn't cover them. I'm fortunate to make good money, so it's not as much of a problem as it would've been a few years ago, but it's still not cheap.

[@Legamania1]

Gross? Yes...but thanks for sharing, Rhett! I have had dry eyes for yeeeeaaaars. People who've never experienced this don't realize how incredibly difficult it is to deal with. To this point in my life there hasn't been an "eye doctor" that could offer any real suggestions or remedies. I didn't know that there were actually "dry eye" centers so I will begin researching that immediately. Hope your commitment to treatment and pain yields long term positive results!

[@rosebanegas4956]

Rhett I’m so sorry you’ve been going through this. It truly resonated with me when you spoke about finally getting the medical diagnosis and treatment for something that’s affected your life for so many years. The healthcare system has truly harmed so many people. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@87holdfast]

I love the eye talk. Facinating!! 😮

[@amandapleasance1060]

Rhett, I’m in a similar boat as you just about a year later. I have ocular + facial rosacea and my glands don’t produce enough moisture. I have had very similar treatments at my dry eye clinic in Canada. They told me it’s always a combo of drops/treatments etc. that helps and it depends on the person. Trial and error unfortunately. I’ve found IPL does help after a couple of treatments. I have an electric heated eye mask just from Amazon that I like better than the hot compress. I could go on all day lol, but it was nice to hear someone else talk about it.

[@onyxgothicc]

I'm glad you found something that helps this problem you've had Rhett but also thank you Link for saying it how it is. "You're a middle aged white man talking about a revolutionary medical procedure on a podcast" LOL

[@elinakeranen4499]

I don't understand, is it somehow wrong for middle aged white men to take care of medical issues

[@lynnebecker1628]

Link's " Dude, I am sorry" @ 25:58 is so sweet.

[@ohrats731]

Interesting to learn about Rhett’s eye issue in detail. My brother has a different issue where his eyes make too much oil. I don’t understand it very well, but this explanation of eye functions helps. Hopefully my brother won’t need to go to LA to find relief since we don’t live anywhere close 😅

[@jamie9571]

Thanks for dropping an episode on my birthday!!!

[@archangelang4772]

Happy birthday 🎊🎉

[@cloudeddawn5576]

Happy birthday 🎁🎂

[@katc2040]

Happy birthday!! 🎉

[@aal1y6h]

Heyyyy almost birthday twin !! My birthday is tmrw lol. Happy birthday!!!🎉 hope you have an amazing day

[@ginnettedejesus6055]

Happy birthday 🎉

[@Peculiar_Optics]

My mom and dad had seperate bedrooms when I was growing up because of my dads snoring and they got along great.

[@piusdoe8984]

Link gave an interesting example about shared living spaces and gave some intelligent responses. But then of course ends it with " youre gonna be smelling each others poopoo ~~" 😂

[@shakeyoulikehaiti]

All Link did was interrupt constantly lol. Multiple times he jumped in and would say what Rhett was going to say later, or like when he cut Rhett's story off to say "and you were taking allergy medicine," which apparently was completely irrelevant to the situation. @18:02 is a great example of what I'm talking about. He either took the opportunity to say what he wanted to say and tried to disguise it as a summary of what Rhett was saying, or he is so far off in his own world, that is what he took from Rhett's point 😂

[@sonny8599]

That eyelid squeezing part was cursed 😂

[@adriennet4544]

I love scary & horror movies but this conversation terrified me more than anything I have seen in years.

[@sheltiesong]

21:06. You know it’s intense when Link has to suppress profanity.

[@rosecraftstar]

I was having a dry eye issue and it turns out that I have something called a butterfly blink which basically means I blink too fast because I want to see everything. 😅🦋

[@punxie89]

I blink a lot/really fast too! I've always blinked more than other people, I don't know why 😭. I can't control it. Sometimes I become hyper aware of it, and it annoys me lol. But I do have dry irritated eyes all of the time too. Ironically they always tear up at the outer corners, and I've tried every type of "waterproof" makeup and it still comes off. I always have crusties when I wake up, and little salt stains where my tears dried there in my sleep.

[@rosecraftstar]

@punxie89 do you happen to have any form of anxiety? I figured that was why I look so much because of my paranoia. I want to see everything lol

[@kathryn_dc]

I have clogged meibomian glands due to aging. Apparently that's common. My eye doctor recommends a heated eye pad at 160 degrees for 20 minutes. I do that twice a week. It has helped.

[@emilywoods6828]

I do tear duct plugs and they've been life-changing AND are actually covered by my insurance. I tried amniotic patches/bandages with a contact to hold it in place, but my eye pushed it out ever time. The 6 month dissolving plugs are my favorite. I could feel the "permanent" ones and they drove me crazy.

[@peggarick2756]

I had permanent plugs put in maybe 15 years ago. Only felt them for a day. Has worked, but in the last 5 years I have more eye dryness so I use Systane now. Several time a year, my eyelids will become itchy & swollen. I have triamcinilone cream that clears it up in a couple days.

[@TheKelshmo]

I work in ophthalmology and Rhett took awesome notes! Good job dood.

[@ellieperez4595]

I am a Credentialing specialist for applied behavior analysis (which is relatively newly covered by insurance companies) and I can say Credentialing (enrolling providers in network with insurance companies) is such a nightmare and can take a year.

[@ivonnegonzalez-v4z]

i absolutely love that sweater link has and i say it every time i see it i want it !

[@ClebFacts]

I just noticed the bar seperating them is the same color that Rhett colored Alex Punch's nails on GMMore

[@DarleneMoitoso-bg3qi]

Well you learn something every day. I have one eye with meiobian glands that have periodically been clogged. It looks like a whiteish pimple on the eyelid. I guess I’ve just solved it by self-expressing by pulling on the eyelid. It happens rarely now, but definitely more in my 20’s and 30’s.

[@MooseGoose626]

Self expression is very important!

[@cameronstoos241]

The gland expression was the best thing I've ever seen

[@bunniemaeblue]

This is turning more and more into the "We're Here To Help" podcast.

[@mimsydreams]

I didn't want to see it either, Jenna! But I still watched it, out of morbid curiosity lol 🤣🤣

[@rileyconaway2207]

i need more info on the cheez wiz possum

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

Awesome job boys with podcast

[@vineetrkatti234]

56:20 I had to go back and check if the voice mail said Step mom or mother in law 😂

[@mjklm44]

38:01 Rhett and his love of little doors

[@vbone666]

I’ve been waiting for this since 5:am Monday

[@CarlyleVK]

Wow, I relate to Rhett's eye issues. I live in the UK and doubt I could ever afford treatment, but it is a win for the "your eyes are just red because of allergies" sufferers lol

[@cycyclimbs]

I listened to the podcast already and came back to watch Rhett's eye procedure 😂

[@medidiong]

Listen to the whole song!! It's a terribly sad song!!

[@Cheyscrochetshop]

The opossums are taking over. My uncle was just telling me he had one in his house and I saw one outside mine yesterday 😂

[@aundrealauzon]

Please do more talking about topics, and less phone calls please. Thank you!

[@Pipsqueek3]

I look forward to Ear Biscuits all week long!

[@joy-green]

love this episode so far guys! as a pole dancer I HAVE to see this cosplay happen 🤣

[@joy-green]

i am so happy for Rhett that he finally found the right treatment for his eyes. i get how frustrating can be when the actual cause is never addressed and the people who are supposed to help are always offering quick temporary fixes.

[@SuuggestionKalaxy]

Wait, so you guys are telling me, swelling and itchy red eyes could be something else than allergies? :o

[@macseth]

I wish I could afford this stuff. My doctor suggested it, exactly Rhett’s situation, but it’s not covered by my insurance so I just can’t right now. But goddd thank you for sharing all of this rhett because now I am a bit more knowledgeable and I was able to talk with a specialist today a bit more in depth. Now I’m off to submit my application for you guys to marry me & my fiancée haha. My fiancée and I??? Grammar.

[@asherxyz9014]

great sweaters guys.. especially link. gorgeous

[@CerealSalad]

Wow. My regular eye doctor diagnosed this without me saying they are dry. I honestly thought dry eyes were just eye fatigue/strain. I have to put in artificial tears and do the hot compresses thing. It’s gross to do though because all the blockages come out all at once. I also don’t look at screens without those blocking glasses.

[@TwoCreativeArtists]

I love the sweater Link!!

[@alexastafford1523]

The strippper song for them both needs to be that one that goes like “ let me tell you bout my best friend, he’s a warm hearted person who love’ll me to the end” 😂❤

[@stephaniearmour1]

I get dry eyes too but not that bad. I bet a warm compress would help me.

[@clarav1938]

As someone who loves pimple popping content, I absolutely LOVE 25:18

[@bununii814]

for the girl who is being flirted with by truman: i like to create what i call a “boyfriend shield” when i am in a space full of men whereby i mention he boyfriend once at introduction (subtly, but he is often relevant) and then bring him up in conversation like “oh my boyfriend watches that show!” “my boyfriend and i ate there once!” etc etc. make it very clear you are happy and comfortable and close with your bf and he is on your mind far more than this strange man who is trying to get close with you

[@debilarge]

Clearly, their pole dancing song would be Boot Scootin Boogie.

[@maxpower18]

"Dry Eye" Mclaughlin

[@sheltiesong]

That was his nickname in high school. 😉

[@kaleb.5246]

😂

[@GiaMarieCarangi]

This…I…I am not hungry ever anymore. (But Christy would love this!)

[@kkdeese]

Visine is the Afrin of eyes 😂 But really

[@TriggyGMT]

A 'Rhett'ina problem you are going through is not something I picked up while watching the last month's GMM videos or even this month. Maybe I was just enjoying the comedy you guys bring to every video.

[@CeceW-oo8yd]

The third wheeling in a relationship is not that uncommon in asian households, I've known a few people who get married and still have one unmarried sibling staying with them including my own, especially if they live in the family home. When my dad got a house, he allowed my aunt to live with him rent free in what was meant to be the guest bedroom for 2.5 decades. Sadly she passed away recently but yeah that didn't seem weird to me at all, and it's nice living with someone who already knows your quirks.

[@pandamanda1400]

The things they do at the eye doctor if you have problems is just omg scary I’ve experienced that myself like doctor breaking up scaring of the lens in my eye with a laser beam! But damn Rhett u take the cake just hearing links reaction I’m not sure I should even look….

[@mish5820]

Rhett understands how 85+% (probably an exaggeration but based on the sample size of all afab ppl I know with health issues) of doctors treat women and people with chronic pre-existing conditions.

[@jeannetterw]

I have some myoboblularyaddayadda. The milky stage. When my optometrist sold me some goop to clean my eyelids I did it for like 3 days. That was 7 years ago. Thanks for the nightmares. But really thank you. I should probably go back because sometimes after a cpl hours at the desk my eyes are wheezing.

[@Ana-zz7hp]

25:49 omg i love this so much

[@d25102]

omg i literally just got told i have dry eyes yesterday

[@leahhylia]

As another hypochondriac who’s gone to doctors just to get brushed off, I feel ya Rhett 😔 BUT ALSO I’M SORRY BUT THOSE TREATMENTS SOUND LIKE SOMETHING OUT OF A HORROR FILM 😭

[@gregaberor]

I had neck surgery a few years ago and developed a nerve disease after and accompanied by migraines. My eyes are always red and painful

[@minivan680]

coulda watched those worms come out alllllllll day

[@elinakeranen4499]

USA is the only country in the world where it is obligatory to have an own bathroom for each bedroom. Most families have maximum two and if you live in an apartment, one.

[@annamariaml9137]

I was just going to say the same thing. Everybody I know here in Brazil shares at least one bathroom between 2 to 4 people (usually 1 per family). I dont understand why that's such a big deal

[@ryn4044]

It’s not common in the US. I can’t think of any house I’ve been in that has one bathroom per bedroom.

[@HeyItsEmilyLove]

This is great content to help me pass the time in the shower. Y’all are the bees knees

[@emmawills4112]

I also had red eyes for years! I was really insecure about it. For me it went away randomly over a few years and it’s gone now. Maybe it has to do with me not wearing makeup anymore?

[@DaveDuncanMusic]

Why didn't you show more pics? Little 3second previews don't do the story justice. Edit: OK, that video was enough, I don't need to see anything else, ever, as long as I live!

[@emmaRBC]

Oh lord that eye video was a bad time to eat a snack

[@AlbrightNow7]

Welcome to the female experience of going to the doctor. We are dismissed CONSTANTLY. Glad someone listened to you, Rhett! 🩶

[@LiamW338]

They missed the rec this week

[@dinahhenry7320]

Rhett I also have dry eyes which sometimes they are so irritated that I want to scream so I understand you

[@cobydingman3102]

I haven't listened yet, but he's explained this countless times. I'm still excited to listen, waiting until I go to work.

[@kylemalcott]

I love good mythical weekend

[@michaelbissonette746]

My advice to the cos playing pole dancer is to dance to Ambient Massage Song By Rhett. That would be perfect.

[@TheAlaskanBullW02]

I believe in multigenerational households. I’m lucky enough to live in one with my sister. But if I moved out and my sister asked if she could just live with me indefinitely that is gonna have to be a no. My house hold will be for my children and my grandchildren to live in not hers, but that’s cause I know she’s a bum to be fair.

[@basedmarlon]

That last part lmaooooo

[@agrownupkid]

Watching the expression video made my balls ache. 😬😰🤢

[@Disasterpiece31]

Needed podcast lol I just thought Rhett was zoinked 😂

[@PD-hv3my]

ENOUGH BETTER HELP PLSSSS

[@Country_sunflower]

Fragrence in my home, laundry soap, and personal care products can be causing the red eyes! Please consider it.

[@jessicaamaya2773]

Listening to the podcast on Spotify and not being able to see the video he was showing made it seem that it was grosser then it showed. I was like oh thats pretty mild actually. I thought it was going to be like a huge back zit type of stuff the guy was going to be squeezing out

[@davidfield6223]

Good morning

[@Beafree1975]

It's getting rare to find a real doctor who is in it to help patients, they're just in it for the money. Most choose not to further educate themselves so again they won't go out of their way to figure out what is going on, which is sweet for them because they still get paid for doing nothing. I had a infection for 25 yrs that I knew wasn't normal. I went to doctors but they'd say "yeah, I don't know." They sometimes suggested an OTC med. After doing some research on my own, I went to a new doctor and told them my symptoms and what I thought I had. The doctor tested me for that and was amazed no other doctor caught it, she asked if they had examined me, I told her they had but they'd say they had no idea. She Rx'd the med that cured it. The thing is that this was a very common infection so it shouldn't have been so difficult for any doctor to pass up. Most doctors are duds ad this doesn't have to do with having the best insurance. you just have to be your own advocate.

[@camerontechstuffs]

I mean honestly rhetts doc is probably also in it for the money. Only difference is they likely also have a passion for what they do and getting paid tons of money helps them develop better techniques to help people.

[@Aceship]

Do you know how hard it is to find teachers? She could have sabotaged and they’d probably still hire her

[@WV_Smoke]

It's my fault but damn it i was eating. Eww.