Why Some Husbands Cheat on Very Good and Supportive Wives

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[@couragelyme]

Ladies must have their own financial interests at heart, build your own business and have backup plan to avoid “had I known” the world has changed & your strategy must change to suit current realities on ground. This is not time to foolishly close you eyes to depend on husband or children. Plan & include your wellbeing in case anyone misbehaves. Peace ✌️

[@blessingonodegba]

❤

[@parvinacouture]

Well said 👏👏 In addition,have a good relationships with God and good relationship with people.

[@dums6755]

Exactly!!

[@musicbyhearing]

Men should do the same then. He should also have a backup plan should there be any happenstance later in the marriage. My question then will be... What exactly do we call trust in marriage? May we not choose wrongly. My parents have been married for 57years, and they have no private backup plan. They've all worked together, and trained us all, and we all turned out well. Know your spouse, and function accordingly. Selah

[@couragelyme]

@@musicbyhearing the truth is that times have changed & by the way you as a child can never know or be willing to put up with the sacrifices your mother/parent had to make for what you enjoyed. Pls do whatever suit you, experience is the best teacher for some people. In marriage the person most likely to loose their personal vision for the family is usually the woman. To each his own.

[@sheilaadefuye6694]

Poor wives.blamed for being good mothers.blamed for not having as much libido.blamed for gaining weight after childbirth.blamed for not running the home and blamed for being tired after working in the office and home😢

[@couragelyme]

@@sheilaadefuye6694 a good husband should consider hiring helping hand to assist the wife. So she can have time for self care. Ladies make time to take care of yourself. Not all household duties are do or d!e affair. Love & pamper yourself.

[@angelaujunwa]

A UK base university lecturer watching you always!! I have learnt lots of life lessons from you. Thank you sir!! You look really good in your dress.

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

This is an excellent teaching Dr Apoki. Husband or wife should never be a martyr for each other or for the kids. Each spouse should develop themselves. I have a similar philosophy with you about becoming very valuable that other people will not want to severe relationship with you.

[@margaretmukasa2998]

Women develop your self. Marriage is a scam and a trap. Value yourself. You job is not to support your husband. Kmow your worth and have a peaceful life.

[@couragelyme]

You get it 10000000%!!!

[@susuilu]

In the West

[@couragelyme]

@@susuilu there are no exemptions

[@mibeln3134]

I tell u

[@mn7024]

​@@susuiluand now in Naija 😂

[@pykyalo9965]

Watching from MAKUENI county, lower Eastern, Kenya. I embraced sub-urban living and working last year. It was the beginning of my freedom to take big risks. I support it.

[@A.B.creativekingdom]

Our values determine our worth in life

[@andrewmualuko7045]

Kasee🙏

[@thelostnavigator2515]

After this video I have no reason to shy from the internet. Perfect timing and great content. Ready to build it big!

[@mn7024]

Wahala starts

[@bolaogunbowale696]

That's a mindset of an EVOLVED Human Being. Well done father.

[@izaben]

Dear Mentor, the small gal has no children to look after, no stress of managing a family; reason she told that married woman that she can change her husband within 2 weeks. Men should be God fearing and stop cheating on their wives, that is my take. Other wise, if this spirit of cheating continues among married men, women will start cheating and that family is finished, children will suffer in the end. Im still your friend🙏 Thanks Mentor

[@drcharlesapoki]

You are very correct ma'am.

[@user-oi3cb6yj5q]

You nailed it ma

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

The burden is not on the mistress to keep your marriage intact, the burden is on you and your husband.

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

@@izaben married women have been cheating on their husbands for thousands of years, it’s not only husbands that cheat. You just have to be sure you are In sync with your own husband so you can cheat-proof your own marriage. Period.

[@reneeezealor4811]

On point !!!!!

[@tomilayoademola5584]

this man is enjoying his old age not even looking old. Good morning sir

[@shadrachainoo]

Throughout my lifespan, I've not come across a video more sensible than this. If I was in Nigeria, I will visit you every month just to listen to you pour wisdom. I felt men with a faithful-husband mentality were extinct. May God prolong your life so you can keep on blessing us with wisdom.

[@engulfed4372]

Not many men who can say this. Empty your life into many. Flowers to you while you are alive

[@AminieliMasaoe]

Watching from Moshi Tanzania. Thank you very at times your videos are more than a wisdom school.

[@parvinacouture]

This junior part is very funny 😂😂 Thank you dr apoki 🙏🏻

[@marywilbourne200]

😮😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@nneomafrank-oriaku]

😂😂

[@prolificlife1710]

Just learnt that Lewis Hamilton’s)the F1 driver) Parents divorced very early as the wife wanted a quiet life but his father was very ambitious and coached Lewis to be the number one driver in the world. What I am trying to say is that sometimes husband and wife could end up growing apart based on the intensity of their ambitions.

[@egogeo]

This is a 'beautiful' way of putting it. Drill deep.

[@JosephineEze79]

That's a stupid reason to divorce. You can have your career and not involve your spouse in it of they aren't interested.

[@prolificlife1710]

@@JosephineEze79 “every man has got the right to decide their own destiny. In that judgement there’s no partality” - Bob Marley

[@bamijokomalik]

Ose, I love this your "na you sabbbi "principle. It is so liberating. In fact these days, I just look at people misbehaving around me and I just say "na you (una) sabbbi!". God continue to bless Dr Apoki IJN, amen.

[@onyiititus3277]

Your story about the personal assistant was so funny....you got the memo....

[@japhethodudu6445]

DEAR DR APOKI , FIRSTLY THANK YOU FOR THIS DEEPLY EDUCATIVE VIDEO . FROM THE BEGINNING OF THIS VIDEO TO THE END, YOU KEPT DROPPING WISDOM GEMS, EXTREMELY VALUABLE TO THE SOCIETY OF TODAY AND FOR THE FORSEEABLE FUTURE . YOUR WORDS ARE DEFINITELY OF INESTIMABLE WORTH , WORTH ITS WEIGHT IN GOLD. .ITS OBVIOUS HOW EVOLVED YOU ARE, WAY AHEAD OF THE TIMES. YOU ARE IMPACTING THE WORLD ONE VIDEO AT A TIME. KEEP THEM COMING.

[@drcharlesapoki]

Thanks so much.

[@FredrickOJuma]

Dr Apoki, many thanks ❤. Usually I simply watch, This is the first video, that I have not just watched but also read all comments. You are oozing with wisdom Dr Apoki. Many thanks

[@A.B.creativekingdom]

I know many men are going to take this message as favourite 😂

[@IfeomaAchodo]

First time listening and I subscribed. Very intelligent, funny and educative person. Mostly respectful of your integrity and honesty. Thank you for your message ❤

[@stellanwenyi6656]

You are phenomenally making sense sir! You have lifted my spirit sir,well done! A bigl God bless you sir! Core truths!

[@zeb-ovienoel3716]

This was so worthwhile. Thank you Sir!

[@carolynsteele1465]

What a confident and righteous man! Family is blessed, and the world can add another man's step toward advancement.

[@gibsononoriode4581]

Detoxify him 😂😂😂...Ose 1! Migwo Sir! Great wisdom from your wisdom bank...

[@zaynabraji4194]

Thanks Dr Apoki. What a gem.

[@justinibrahim1]

The way he shouted “It is food” killed me… 😄

[@SBako.]

Thank you for counselling us, Dr Apoki.

[@user-hj5uf3bm3g]

Area grandfather you have hit the nail on the head. 🎉❤

[@cosmasonyenne8599]

Wow... You touched it all for both side, this pure educational me especially. Thanks a lot Dr. Apoki

[@adeobinyan]

Dr. Apoki, you make sense. You are also humorous. How many doors did you lock, to escape? 😂

[@UWABEAUTY247]

You are my internet father. Thank you for the wisdom 🙌🏿🙏

[@chizzy4109]

I loved listening to this teaching, and I hope I learn from it and hope others too.

[@nelliehoosong6604]

GOD BLESS YOU SIR. THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORDS OF WISDOM.

[@TheBrokerTopGee]

1. Doc is telling women not to expect benefits from the marriage. Ignoring the intense desire of the feminine nature to be the victim. Victimhood is sweet.

[@onyinyechinwokike785]

Thank you sir, I got value and I just followed

[@jenniferonodjohwo3382]

Man and woman, value yourself, be disciplined, respect yourself.

[@nathankomen9903]

Am a silent follower,i watch evey video you produce because you are oozing wisdom,Bless you grandfather

[@bolasalak7360]

"Detoxify him" great word great advice.

[@andybailey5193]

I love you my Daddy words can not express GOD WILL ALWAYS BLESS YOU 🙏🙏🙏👍.

[@rudyniosho2505]

Wow! This is refreshing to watch an African man think this way! If 80% of African men thought like this, Africa would have been number one! Thanks and GOD bless!

[@peacendukwe]

Thank you so much for speaking the truth.

[@dorisenga4701]

Thanks much for sharing your knowledge with us.

[@glorysalami1792]

Dr women praising your dressing doesn't mean that they want you, no many women like men that look decent and neat

[@emebasgreg5695]

The Pride of your understanding maybe different from another woman approach, meanwhile you haven't even tell us if you have admire or praise any Man in such❤

[@blessingonodegba]

Dr Apoko. Thank you for this message. What if the husband is the over religious, timid, naive one?

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

You have to accept him just like that & concentrate on his other good qualities.

[@affiongarchibong6668]

Very instructive and balanced. Thank you sir

[@MrSop]

The best message for married couples in 2024 ❤❤❤

[@chibuzorhenryochu9967]

I usually don’t comment on videos but I just want to say thank you sir for this video. Was well taught, entertained and learnt a lot. Your funny description using a cougar which is a mountain Lion 🦁 was really funny. Thank you for all you do Sir. Megwo 😅

[@drcharlesapoki]

Vrendo oniovo

[@gborowme]

I am waiting to hear your vision , then I will tell you how I think about this issue . You looking good 👍

[@dominicebere9414]

Great message! Thank you Dr Apoki.

[@crazyarsenalfan8565]

Thanks so much for sharing all these wisdom. May your day be long sir. Much respect. Human don’t learn to live, but just live without thinking or being purposeful often. A life without a map is a life that goes to any direction.

[@joysben190]

Spot on, Doctor Apoki!!

[@Franc-scholly2519]

Something the problem comes once the the one couple don't take care of his or herself in the sense of unkept and body odor.

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

Very nasty.

[@lucindabangura5573]

I'm learning back to back from your videos Sir. Thank you.

[@onyinyechinwokike785]

I like your perspective sir an I look forward to WHY WOMEN CHEAT

[@drcharlesapoki]

That's another assignment. I will work on it.

[@glorysalami1792]

This dress is beautiful on you sir since is made since 2015 that means you are keeping fit

[@izaben]

Im listening our dear Mentor, Izaben from Kigali👏

[@drcharlesapoki]

Thanks I dedicate this video to you ma'am.

[@glorysalami1792]

Dr l find out that men have enough reasons for women while they husband leaves however despite all you have said, a wife loves respect, care for him still satisfy him sexualy, the wife remains to stay in marriage despite all the nasstitic behaviors from the man

[@MabelUduebor]

Women please have your own money ooo

[@sunnyday741]

This was too good 😂

[@blessingpereye1258]

Olorogun! Abo vwrovwro😅 You are looking good sir

[@victoryalltheway.]

Detoxification doesn't kill anointing.

[@bamijokomalik]

"It is food. It is food"😂😅

[@marywilbourne200]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@joshelvis4112]

😅😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@magdaleneafari9077]

i ask , how can a woman dress nicely & attractive to herself nd to her husband when she isnt getting job, no money & besides the man too doesnt take care of his wife! how can life be okay for the woman?

[@mentorc]

Dear mentor thanking for your daily advice

[@andyplus1352]

Dr Apoki you are always smiling even in this hard country ! What is the secrets ?

[@drcharlesapoki]

Joy is a native of my mind independent of Nigeria. I am a citizen of Nigeria but happiness is a native of my mind. I own my happiness.

[@Yehudah1210]

God bless you sir 👏👏👏

[@glorysalami1792]

Your key points, consequences the value for marriage integrity and honor till eternity, but many of them lack integrity

[@Silverenigmax]

kigali Rwanda we are watching sir

[@A.B.creativekingdom]

THIS IS INTERESTING I BEG LET ME CARRY MY PUFFCORN😂

[@veechikwem1196]

Food for thought! Well-done sir

[@A.B.creativekingdom]

Waooh this awesome, is means all that I need to succeed in life is me hmmmm this ring a bell

[@namubirubrendah391]

Thanks for the advice

[@freemanfreeborn320]

Good morning Sir, please where are you from. .. l will like to see you soon when I'm in Nigeria, thanks.

[@joyimhangbe7750]

What a powerful teaching

[@romeugo9124]

Excellently said sir. Thanks

[@joycea7509]

Thank you, Doctor.

[@cysmileystv9565]

Sir I might nor be right, some men don't forget the way you present your help to them, if you do it with insultive manner they may collect it because they need it at that moment, but may not appreciate it and will never forget how you present your help to them.

[@georginas6781]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 Dr. Aaaaapooookiiii ❤ much love from the uk

[@mariechristellecelestin7442]

Thank you Sir 🎉🎉🎉

[@imma1435]

Oloriogun Dr Apoki, megwo Papa

[@GODWINKAPIHYATV]

Great topic

[@joytotheworld7463]

I just love you, Sir. Most respect to you❤

[@SherryGbagi]

Very educative, i wish men that are not disciplined can hear this. I know of a man who told his wife that he now see his wife as his sister, and stopped going to Jerusalem with her for almost 20years and flirting with girls outside. What do you think about this?

[@egbegbemiajagbe8875]

Thank Dr. Aooki, ' wrapped like agidi & Quaka!!!! got to me!!!! Maybe because i love quaka😂!!!

[@BlessingLove-wv3ef]

I have been in marriage for 12 years now if he does not have money I am the understanding wife if he has money I am the bad wife and I have two kids for him I have been hoping that everything will be better he called me names God has blessing he with a man that make him who is today but it does not help me it does not give me money he does not love me and I am tired I have two kids for him always hope one day he will change but he did not please guys I need your advice for what to do I need help

[@elizabethkadaga2867]

Good advice.... I have learnt.

[@edahamaka8675]

God bless you sir for this teaching I am blessed

[@xxxyyy-iy4hf]

Blessings Grandpa.

[@lilliannansamba7800]

Well done 👏

[@ritchyjacob6159]

Leave your jacket and flee😂

[@MamaDee737]

One thing I will never understand is why do married women withhold relations with their husbands? It makes no sense. You are literally pushing them out into the streets and then you get mad at them.

[@EdnahChirchir]

There must be a real reason for withholding such as infidelity, diseases etc. you can only be happy when you are safe and secure

[@MamaDee737]

@@EdnahChirchir I understand what you are saying. I just don’t understand the extended time frames of with holding for years and decades.

[@jumokea2274]

When the man isn't exciting in the bedroom, wants to do the same style forever. It gets boring to be sincere.

[@susuilu]

Or he is hurting her during the deed? Or cheated before and she must protect herself from STD etc.

[@isaiahkarekezi5225]

Doc apoke, I wonder if you have read the manipulated man by Esther. Thanks, will be great idea to talk about it Thank you once again! Isaiah from Indiana USA

[@josephcoatofmanycolors]

I love this Man 🤣😂😂😂

[@chimakalu5195]

Cougar is elderly woman who enjoys young man,

[@drcharlesapoki]

Brilliant.

[@okiemutemarshal-umukoro3159]

Thank you Sir.❤

[@alleyesonme3]

On the topic of the USA please speak a little about the 2 candidates

[@winterfall309schannel7]

Can Dr. Apoki really imagine himself doing different styles with his wife at that age😂

[@karlathomas426]

God said trust no MAN and guard your heart 💗❤️

[@oriolowogideon5129]

Amazing content