Why The Hell Do Men Come Back When You Finally Move On?

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[@BernMendez]

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[@deborahwalker1208]

"Fear's last dying breath," according to a dear and wise friend of mine. This happens to me. My ex- wanted to "connect" again but not willing to make any legitimate effort to show investment. I watched his actions versus what was coming out of his mouth. No thanks.

[@mimi-vh3qq]

This needs more audience.

[@BernMendez]

Thank YOU, please help me share it with your friends who might need it : )

[@chelsea2378]

This was a good video! I always get guys coming back lol I get your ideas on what to consider. But I simply don’t consider it if they ever come back. It didn’t work out for a reason and giving them a chance to come back will have them revisit things even with a potential explanation or plan of action. The boundaries being firm is your best bet, letting them back in is a lack of boundaries and potential to screw up again, just don’t!

[@BernMendez]

Chelsea, glad this was helpful : )

[@HelaineChersonsky]

I had a guy come back again at least 7 times Self-respect (mine) says I'm done. It's over. Bye.

[@chlochlo8207]

i dont i feel bad that ive moved on we werent even dating no friend with ben. but it still hurts. now that i have no emotion towards him its been 4 years since he talked to me and he still has a gf so idk why he reached out to me.

[@AsexualiseMyAsexualLife]

OMG! I literally just had to block a guy again, who came back into my life on another social media channel and I'm just about to watch this video. This was the first video I saw after I blocked him. He said sorry, but then denied and blurred my reality again.

[@coachpatty2889]

Excellent advice. Love your content!!

[@BernMendez]

So glad you're enjoying the content : )

[@tb22k]

Thank you ❤

[@BernMendez]

You're welcome 😊

[@user-msjazzy]

❤

[@BernMendez]

Thank you! : )

[@afongma]

you forgot "lazy and desperate for sex"

[@BernMendez]

:)

[@pamelakapke62]

Sometimes they come back after two or three weeks because they miss your "southern comfort" 😉

[@upsidedowntrees]

I think this is your best video so far! It contains very useful information that many of us can use. Thank you for sharing it with us.😊

[@BernMendez]

Wow, thank you, I'm so glad this was useful to you : )

[@mina-yu4hn]

gracias very interesting thanks

[@AsexualiseMyAsexualLife]

I've watched this video now, even though I've already blocked him, which was difficult for me to do, but I did it. I can't trust him, and he said sorry, but only when being prompted by me, after he said he wanted only friendship this time and called me a friend, without earning the right to do that