WHY THE INFJ "LOVES" BEING BREADCRUMBED | ANXIOUS & AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT

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@Wenzes 7 ай бұрын

What is your experience with people trying to "breadcrumb" you as an INFJ?

@PenelopePitstop0078 7 ай бұрын

#1 It’s nice to be understood. # 2 It’s good to remind ourselves that we do this (urge to help whomever have an epic life, at the expense of our own epic life). Appreciate ya Wenzes❣️

@MBAinternetmktg 7 ай бұрын

You are so correct that people will not know how much energy and thought I put into them, but I will know. A common breadcrumb tactic that I see is when someone knows you like them, but they aren't interested. They like the attention, so the person calls every two weeks or a month or two months. They usually call in the evening or late at night, because they are bored, and you will always talk to them for as long as they want.

@MegaCyberleader 7 ай бұрын

I dont put up with that shit, hence I have no friends. But I do like your whole loafs of bread.

@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 7 ай бұрын

They can’t eventually I see trough it ‼️❤️

@jessmason2112 6 ай бұрын

Duh Gee Tennessee what we gonna do now? 😂

@Bohobabe17 7 ай бұрын

I stopped filling in the blanks and concentrated on “the actions of the other person instead of words. This was true liberation.

@MonikaD________l 7 ай бұрын

ahhh. so true. glad i also reached the consciousness of seeing the "externally observable facts", as Wenzes often mentions. Saved so much of the tiring mental gymnastics.

@rigamarole1117 6 ай бұрын

A long time ago someone told me to look at what ppl are doing not what they're saying=liberaation

@bamgold4677 4 ай бұрын

@@MonikaD________lI agree very smart;.

@cap01950 2 ай бұрын

Always, No matter how much BS they sling your way it's their behavior and those patterns!

@corporaterobotslave400 7 ай бұрын

I stopped this self-disrespecting behavior long ago. I only deal with ppl who are giving it back in full measures. This also exposes your enemies because they're the ones trying to ignore you, or fool you, or give you breadcrumbs. They don't give a damn about you, so why expend any thought or energy for them? I also stopped volunteering to try to solve others' problems; unless I'm getting paid for it, or my bestie is in a total crisis, I don't bother.

@MonikaD________l 7 ай бұрын

good for you, fella. how has it panned out for you? i am at the start of implementing it in my life. the mental gymnastics have definitely been saved.

@MENTALHEALTHWITHLUKE 7 ай бұрын

Stand for yourself, and you're accused of being selfish. Put others before yourself, and you're accused of being weak with no backbone. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. So, you do you and I'll do me.

@sunshinesunflowerz1647 7 ай бұрын

That's what Rocko said, Umma do me.

@bamgold4677 4 ай бұрын

You just do you imma do me. @@sunshinesunflowerz1647

@Stumpybear7640 4 ай бұрын

I pay no attention to what others say. 😊

@JulieClark-yb5ip 7 ай бұрын

I love how she words things so clearly and uniquely, it's so clear she's a free and independent thinker and makes me proud to be an INFJ 😊

@lindateuling7862 7 ай бұрын

It's proof positive that we can do it, too.

@HaleyMary 7 ай бұрын

I've had a guy breadcrumb me in the past. He always said we would go see a movie or go out, but never made a concrete plan. I didn't bother waiting around for him though and decided to go out with friends and just spend time on my hobbies. Now I feel like the opposite. A guy would have to really know how to plan a date before I'd even be interested.

@martine3884 6 ай бұрын

been called stupid and naive because I was letting myself be used. I can see the potential, "living" with that potential rather than reality and forever being disappointed (and angry!) at being taken advantage. Took more than 50 years, but now I come from Me, not how can I cut myself to feed others. It has felt selfish for a while, but I catch myself quickly now, and can come to a "no" without overwhelming guilt

@jeremy454 7 ай бұрын

INTJ’s do this also. It allows you to keep people at a distance, and allows us to stay in our heads instead of going all in on a relationship. So, it’s really not a healthy practice and does keep you avoidant. You are keeping yourself from exploring in the real world and staying in your head

@NosheenZaidi-g5t 7 ай бұрын

Being an INFJnis a curse really. We are slow and everything with us is slow even our fate 🙏. I am so fed up with INFJ think my all relationships are so bad and we are always alone not receiving the love we deserve. 😢

@ryank6322 7 ай бұрын

I'm an INTP and one of the things that I complain about the most is how SLOW the progress in my life seems to go. There have been countless steps that I needed to take just to get to where I am right now. I honestly thought the whole process would take like a year from start to finish... but I'm still at it 20 years later. I used to believe that other people could and would change, but that was an assumption that has been proven wrong over and over. The rate of progess in my own life moves like molasses. But the rate of progress in most other people's life is glacial... even slower than molasses. 😕

@Verdeoxid 7 ай бұрын

I know. I wonder if INFJ is just the wounded traumatic personality type due to an neglectic childhood. This would explains a lot of things. Same with people who is tagged as highly sensitive person, It is not a gift, is a consecuence.

@trinitymarieM 6 ай бұрын

❤

@suprememaz 7 ай бұрын

That line about choosing yourself is so uncomfortably true. I’ve always felt like standing for myself makes me feel selfish, and it’s taken me way too long to see it’s not. It’s me standing for what takes care of me. I can’t wait for a video about our shadow function.

@sunshinesunflowerz1647 2 ай бұрын

I've never thought this but people have said this to me, thus making my life slow.

@URTonemanclan 7 ай бұрын

I have the distinct sense of watching them playing their game... I stick around to see what happens

@Ukie_Dukie 7 ай бұрын

Me too but this time didn’t end well for me as I developed feelings and couldn’t shut them off.

@thatpersonalityguy 7 ай бұрын

INFJs are so mysterious wow

@sonofhibbs4425 7 ай бұрын

Yes. The sticking around to see.. The temptation of the chance to observe and learn and build intellect of such a situation is real.

@MaryDunford 7 ай бұрын

@@Ukie_Dukie That happened to me once. Lesson learned in the most brutal way possible. Totally cured my curiosity after that.

@AM-rl6mq 7 ай бұрын

INFJ here. I think one of the reasons I am okay with breadcrumbing especially in romantic relationships is this...I feel like a cat where if you come on too strong to me it freaks me out and I want to run away. If you are chill I will be more likely to come to you and want to curl up on your lap. Since I like my space I feel more in control. I don't know if that makes sense. I have to learn how not to be a doormat though because eventually I hit a wall and I do a full stop completely instead of just having things equally from the get go.

@SECRETPURPOSE 7 ай бұрын

Like a cat, always remember how to scratch and hiss and run really fast in the other direction if needs be

@KellySmithDavis 7 ай бұрын

I completely relate to this & have found myself so much more comfortable with a breadcrumb relationship than a suffocating one. I need my personal space, both physical and emotional.

@Stumpybear7640 4 ай бұрын

I totally understand and find that a man who is self sufficient and comfortable in his own space is way more attractive than one who adores/suffocates me. But then I long for adoration 😂. Whereupon, I go out and weed my garden (literally) ❤

@newyorkmyndd9801 2 ай бұрын

ouch, stumbled into channel from my Community College class and just, ouch, so much hits home but I went 😮 at the part of- owning the ‘controlling’ aspect when you fake yourself into believing it’s an abundance of kindness and problem solving you are dishing out in massive amounts, way out of balance, but then still hurt by not getting the result or change u need in a person….ouch, I never really saw that as control, but I think I knew it deep down, like a secret, just ouch….great post,

@trevorvaz7109 7 ай бұрын

This is impressively comprehensive

@ankowaitingfordo4067 7 ай бұрын

It's really hard to get away from thinking 'I am able to take more negative things than someone else', and not to feel responsible for someone's wellbeing. I often feel we need to get to an extreme point just for us to realize we are very much human ourself though that does leave permanent consequences.

@thatpersonalityguy 7 ай бұрын

Yeah INFJs are so motivated and determined to help other people that they often forget to help themselves and physically burn out.

@katieandi1296 2 ай бұрын

2 marriages to 2 different narcissists that were the opposite, but the same. It’s taken so much pain to get help and now discover myself. I’m grateful for the Myers Briggs personality everything and the guidance here. Im excited.

@thatpersonalityguy 7 ай бұрын

INFJs having to actively have self-discipline to put others above themselves is such a great way of phrasing the struggle.

@HydnLife 7 ай бұрын

It so true. I just nuked a relationship by doing to much and this person never realized what I was doing for em.

@annatetiad.4991 7 ай бұрын

glad you realized it

@natureglimses 7 ай бұрын

Today most people do not have good character therefore be smart and go against the flow, be true, be fearless, be confident, and let's start the epic battle

@Lmb211 7 ай бұрын

💯

@gloriaadu5485 7 ай бұрын

Thank you, i have been walking a one way street all my life. and people take and take. so i decided. to stop.and love me . for the great person i am, I'm not going to walk that street again. life is short.

@m2pozad 7 ай бұрын

That title is fight'n words.

@RedandBlackS10 7 ай бұрын

I love having a goal to work towards, but it has to exist and I have to be allowed to progress. 💯 For me, I don't care what people think about me. Except at work I'd tip toe around people's insecurities so we could all get along and work together. And I do nice things and help people out because it's the right thing to do, not to get them to like me. I could dislike you and still help you out if you really need it. 💯

@ambraiezzi5037 5 ай бұрын

We love to solve problems. 😄😄😄 Because we have to find the order of the universe. 🌟 “You think too much”. But about door slamming. Really i’m happy doing it. Even if you behaved differently the destiny in our life of a door slammed person was not going to change. We keep them in our life as long as they serve us. And i don’t mean it in a selfish utilitarian way. What remains after the exchange should be pure friendship. If there isn’t they can leave. I have no regrets. I’m not a perfect friend but i aim to be, which makes me a perfect one. 😄

@bamgold4677 4 ай бұрын

You seem like a great person to me.

@Stumpybear7640 4 ай бұрын

I doorslamed my sister because she had no respect for me. She was bereaved and took it out on her family. Probable Narcissistic, but I loved her. Her disrespect showed me that tolerating her misplaced grief was not helpful to her, so the door slammed. I knew I was ding the right thing. 5 years later she is behaving better, but blames her behaviour on medical issues. I still love her, but I can't help her. I can't change her pov😢

@bamgold4677 4 ай бұрын

@@Stumpybear7640 She can Grow Up. If she's has the same problems for decades it's not medical issues she's horrible that's that. Woops I said it.

@bamgold4677 4 ай бұрын

@@ambraiezzi5037 stay yourself your personality is good and bright it's good. They don't think enough whoever said that.

@vickygolle8000 7 ай бұрын

As a fearful avoidant INFJ, I think I might have been in dynamics where I was seemingly giving more but also I am aware that not everybody gives / receives love in the same way and if a friend or my partner gives it in a different way I might overlook it (and think therefore I am giving more). I am big with words of affirmation or physical touch but I am not offering a lot of practical help or giving exceptional gifts except for my family. Anyway, I think it is good for INFJs to focus on selfcare and learn that nothing bad will happen when we take care of ourselves first and say no from time to time. ;)

@Stumpybear7640 4 ай бұрын

Owch! You hit the target with this video. I learned this lesson the hard way😂 Much love ❤

@TrainsPlanesandAutomobiles 7 ай бұрын

Yes, I was breadcrumbed by a very nice but needy Senior citizen. Thanks for this timely video. This is another learning experience I need to handle in the very best way.

@wendyhoward472 17 күн бұрын

This was made 6 mths ago but it came in my feed today. Very timely I came to the realization that I was being breadcrumbed by people in my life. Never heard of the term prior to today in my journey then spirit brought this podcast to confirm what insights I had been given. ❤

@robertafagan33 6 ай бұрын

Oof: powerful message 💥 Thank you for making this video!!

@davidbertsch7544 7 ай бұрын

This happened to me today, am a Therapist (respiratory) and a fellow nurse called me out in front of other teammates that I treated a patient well and she acknowledged it. I approach every patient the same, but it felt uncomfortable having the appreciation in front of coworkers. Just a snippet in my professional life. Love my career and sometimes teammates bring unwanted accolades that I am uncomfortable with in a semi public setting. Sounds strange but you, Wenzes make sense of these interactions. Love my career but there are odd interludes that are inexplicable. ❤ Learning more with your coaching daily. 🤙

@santinamarie4699 Ай бұрын

A lot of the time we're trying to emulate a past relationship within our family members. And in trying to heal that we search for people that are emotionally distant. Which is easy to find . Cultivating an expanding our inner World gives us a balance and a place to sit and be safe. Our introverted intuition is so strong. Remember that when you go in you actually come out.

@sunshinesunflowerz1647 2 ай бұрын

Ive been on this journey since I was 16, and its taken me until age 41. I hate for other people to breadcrumb me because I don't do for myself.

@kimtopology4257 7 ай бұрын

Your Ni is going to help you to discern as whether this person has your best interest at heart or not so you know not to get attached to this toxic person. If your a healthy INFJ with strong Ni you will recognize unhealthy behaviors from the toxic person you will see the patterns .

@Blake-ru3cl 3 ай бұрын

I was thinking about this just a few days ago. I think the reason I like this is because when a person breadcrumbs me, they're giving me half-truths. I absorb the positive information from that. But in giving me a half-truth, they're also manipulating me (or trying to, anyway) by leading me into a future situation that may hurt me. So, I like playing their little games. Within a few moves, I know their endgame. But I play along with the charades, like I said, to benefit from the positive information they give me. And I avoid their so-called coup-de-grace that I had already figured out many, many moves prior. It's fun and it's beneficial. And more importantly, I think, it helps strengthen my intuition and prevents me from reacting to obvious attempts to get under my skin.

@aaronbolte6391 7 ай бұрын

👏💪 strongest episode so far. Didn’t expect that push on the high level that all our content is on already 🎉

@mattolmstead2671 7 ай бұрын

I'm experiencing this now, and I really needed the information in this video. Thank you!

@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 7 ай бұрын

WIN / WIN SITUATION ‼️ 4:36 HEATH CARE ‼️ 7:52

@NilSatis1983 7 ай бұрын

ENTP here I’m such an INFJ - looking for those data points looking to prove those patterns

@worldupsidedown1 7 ай бұрын

Very good analysis. I've burned out in two marriages to narcissists and in my work as a self-employed person. I gave over and above because I had it in my mind that that's what good ppl do, even if the other party treats you badly or doesn't give as much as you do. And when the other party treated me badly I tended to overlook it, even fooled myself that that wasn't what they were doing simply because of fear. Fear that if I noticed how badly I was being treated it would be a direct reflection on me and my deficiencies and faults--that they saw something that was wrong with me, never considering the possibility that they may just be selfish or not as invested. I so badly wanted to be well thought of and liked. Much, much to learn, but as painful as it's been, not to mention lonely, because that is often the result when you have to connect with who you really are without the false, unhealthy attachments to others, it's a worthy endeavor and with God's help growth is inevitable.

@jaidaadiaj Ай бұрын

Dang Wenzes, chiiiilllll....... 😭😭😭 Why you gotta put me on blast like that?

@ozipozzie7373 7 ай бұрын

Gosh you are brilliant!

@jjjjk1241 7 ай бұрын

One thing I’m learning is that KZbin is not the place for me. We are not allowed to speak any kind of truth on most channels. If you say the truth and it doesn’t agree with what the content creator thinks, it will be blocked, or you will be bullied by other viewers. I don’t quite understand why the thumbs down icon is there if we’re not allowed to use it! It has taken me lots and lots of years of recovery from abuse for me to actually have opinions and have the guts to express them, and now KZbin has completely squelched that. Besides a few channels, I am done with it, and I am going to find another form of entertainment.

@Meenaia 7 ай бұрын

Suppression of differing opinions and especially critical thinking is becoming a standard across almost all platforms. I haven't tried yet but platforms such as rumble are pretty much the last bastion of free thinking.

@jjjjk1241 7 ай бұрын

@@Meenaia yes. Thank you for the validation! Glad I am not the only one who has noticed this. Thank you for that tip, I’ll check it out. Or maybe I’ll just go back to reading books.😊

@mahvash911 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. You are such a blessing.

@marcwatkins3996 2 ай бұрын

INFJ male here, we gotta chase ourselves, embrace our own weirdness in full... Chasing another person will make an INFJ anxiously attached, and will make the person they chase avoidantly attached. Separate their potential from what they are doing. Attract, never chase, or lose yourself completely.

@MBAinternetmktg 7 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@radhey_87 7 ай бұрын

I found that I am codependent and it was all I happening to me.i have been people pleaser all my life and this habit of putting first before my well being ,it has been discovery to me.myfather was extreme narc so mother was slave to him to get his validation so it is a learned behaviour from mother.

@bamgold4677 4 ай бұрын

How is India.

@tiffanyanderson9437 7 ай бұрын

I can do this with the men I date for the most part. But I need to do it in my friendships. A couple of years ago, I learned I have a disorganized attachment & it explained so much. I’m still working on healing that in terms of my relationship with my mother. But my goodness, this lesson needs to be taught as soon as a little person becomes an INFJ!

@riaanbreedt5490 2 ай бұрын

those who breadcrumb people have no real good honest intentions and in time even they will learn their own lessons in life, not by me or anyone else but by our Lord Jesus our God almighty see and know everything that everyone does and think and never think you are hidden from our God almighty in the name of Jesus Christ amen. i have also a verse in the bible that says,( be content with what you have)

@kevinyarusso326 7 ай бұрын

Some good general principles and scenarios. I have done some of this in the past. Once it became too much, I did door slam. This door slam didn’t come with insults and arguments, just done with it. No one is a bad person, for not helping others. Sometimes people won’t leave when you ask them to. Been years where I’ve told them we were done. Sometimes things don’t develop as planned or get worse and your expected to be content with something you didn’t sign up for. People can judge and call a bad guy all day, I will choose peace and self respect over being viewed as nice every time. Learned a lot over the years, a bunch of stuff I would rather not have. Only takers expect you to be more giving than they are. Believe me, I can do without anyone that is on some weird trickery and lies type stuff.

@drvpscott 3 ай бұрын

I frequently enjoy hearing Wenzes' perspective on our personality type and how we can better get by in a world of people who are so dissimilar to us. She advocates a lot of healthy ideas and works them into a framework of personality in a way that I can consider when creating my own perspective. I agree that as a group we INFJ are other-focused often to our own detriment and if we want to lead more contented lives we need to shift that focus for better balance. One idea I have heard before and is echoed here by Wenzes that I continue to struggle with is this thought that when we are helping others that we are somehow attempting to control or manipulate them to like and accept us. I just don't see helping others to help themselves as manipulative so long as we are truly not trying to dictate how or if they implement our suggestions. It is important that we be scrupulous about how forceful we are when making our suggestions. I think we can be perceived as confident and opinionated which some others might experience as being pushy or forceful. That could certainly lead others to think we are behaving in a controlling manner. What I see happening in myself that I attribute to INFJ traits, is that I take on this criticism and tend to think it means I should not expect or want for anything in return, That is how I was raised and it comes in part from religious teachings. I strive to meet this ideal and so I sometimes (or often) judge myself as unworthy. That contributes to my willingness to accept breadcrumbs. Again, I think it originates in other focus. When I create my own self-worth and rely less on validation from others I find that my boundaries are easier to maintain and that is essential for self care ... particularly for INFJs.

@xyphor317 7 ай бұрын

I’m so clueless when this is going on.

@Natalie-lf7hb 3 ай бұрын

I hear you, adapting to local circumstances and then some...

@kelsey9253 7 ай бұрын

This is pure GOLD! 🙌💛 Thank you, Wenzes! I've always looked at it from an attachment/trauma-related perspective, not an MBTI perspective. This connected a lot of dots for me on something I've been experiencing, and I wasn't sure how to fully break out of it because it's so inherent to how I'm wired naturally. I don't even know when I'm being breadcrumbed. Obviously, I wouldn't be okay with being treated less than I deserve, but I'm so forgiving/understanding that everything is fine.... until it's suddenly not, and I feel like an idiot... again. 😅🤦‍♀️

@lilredheaded1 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for creating and sharing.

@Natalie-lf7hb 3 ай бұрын

Ok i choose myself.

@pixieshine77 7 ай бұрын

preach 👏

@phoenixroseastrology769 7 ай бұрын

Ye gods. I needed this video. Thank you so much.

@spiralweaver7740 7 ай бұрын

I was just experiencing this and thinking about this today, thank you

@reste9283 6 ай бұрын

Learnt this the hard way. Thank you so much Wenzes ❤

@mridulaism 7 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@kayspitzner3229 7 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@maxnewton686 7 ай бұрын

Please make more videos on INFJ's and codependency/anxious attachment! Thank you so much!!!

@troyhofmann 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this message. I appreciate your insights as a fellow INFJ.

@Flowering19 2 ай бұрын

You are truly a brilliant & beautiful human Wenzes, I am getting so much clarity through listening to your content-thank you✩☆

@stephanieruddock1386 7 ай бұрын

This is SO spot on. Thank you for sharing, I needed to hear all of this.

@raymondclapsadle9310 6 ай бұрын

My covert narcissitic ex-wife, who is also the mother of three of my sons, has been engaged in a campaign of parental alienation and gathering her flying monkeys for some time now.. Last week, at the HS gaduation of our middle son, I showed up withour announcement ( As if there wa another place I would rater be???). After lisening to your channel to this channel, and trusting the veracigty of my logical mind, her tactics seemed almost ludicrus! The DARVO methos was her fall-back posiition.

@MFMc2 4 ай бұрын

Excellent video ❤

@vincentkretzschmar4988 7 ай бұрын

That free loving nature works out more for the better because some people are just generous and the fustrated manipulative people can just piss off and be replaced. I've got cheap rent, a monthly contract where some months I haven't done any work and still get paid a full month while working on online passive from 3D models. I've golden friends which I've loved freely that have given thousands of ZAR and don't hear passive aggression or frustration from them.

@antananariva1481 7 ай бұрын

I relate to every word you say, thank you for those insights, really helpful. Especially this part about Fi and not being a good person. Changing perspective here is the key.

@ssyxji659 7 ай бұрын

This advice is gold. Comes right on time for what I needed

@stuie56 7 ай бұрын

i can really relate to this one, wish I had seen it last year ❤

@JoannaKonefał 7 ай бұрын

very helpful, thank you Wenzes

@SweetandSassyRedhead 7 ай бұрын

Well now I understand....thank you. Love your channel.

@MartinLannion 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Wenzes! Spot on as always. Your wisdom is oracular. Thank you so much !

@eminak4351 7 ай бұрын

Self talk

@marplec1 7 ай бұрын

Wish I could find a way to explain why I have to drop some people to other friends as it comes over quite hard to certain friends...

@tara7550 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your experience and new approach to the bread crumbing situations. Insightful and really useful as on reflection I have participated in this process for the worse. Going to approach it from the angle you suggested. Thank you for your insights.

@ItsmeeTiTi Ай бұрын

I feel like I’m gaslighting myself

@bradprince8933 7 ай бұрын

Dam thats so me Holy 💩

@Luuve 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 ommmmggg...I literally laughed during this entire video because I love this lol but it can be weird sometimes.

@xenarafique8871 7 ай бұрын

Cute short hair 😘🪽

@MegaCyberleader 7 ай бұрын

i want the whole danged cream pie.

@SamsonPavlov 7 ай бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@northernshocksouthcoasteng7473 7 ай бұрын

What is breadcrumbing?

@Wenzes 7 ай бұрын

When people are giving the bare minimum to keep you invested

@BartholomewHenryAllen 6 ай бұрын

I want to know how to get an INFJ to not like you without upsetting them? I don't care about all the theoretical life improvements of a relationship I don't want. I just want to know how to keep me and my actual relationships safe.

@Zoeygrl768 7 ай бұрын

Its difficult as a Christian INFJ, where to draw the line. We are supposed to put others before ourselves...

@DMkz111 7 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@jsnldn 7 ай бұрын

uhhhh why are the videos of infj craziness always relevant to me >_

@ellarataj6590 3 ай бұрын

💚

@kari2099 7 ай бұрын

"...love to be breadcrumbed" isn't quite realistic...we don't love it even if we can thrive in it.

@MaryDunford 7 ай бұрын

I'm not sure I'd have phrased it that way, either. But I do prefer bite-sized amounts of information to process and limited social interaction. At first, anyway. People are like little universes. Too much to comprehend at once. Lol

@rbb6892 4 ай бұрын

Breadcrumbs only go so far. After a while, they can keep their bread crumbs. Talk is talk bullshit walks. Intention and action is what matters. If they cannot follow through, don’t even start. My feelings matter to me. I can build a world on crumbs, it’s up to you to see it and believe it. I get tired of building worlds for those incapable of appreciating the effort.

@Natalie-lf7hb 3 ай бұрын

Heb jij zin om mee te doen aan een Rechtschapen leven?