Why Virgo Men Never Reach Out (First)

[@freshclean7036]

Jonathan that facial expression when that car make that sound was priceless. You don't deal with interruptions well.

[@BigsmokeLee]

Your haircut finna be fire once barbershops open lol

[@tianathompson2725]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@novakafele4031]

Looks good on him.

[@claudettecartwright8671]

Real talk that about virgo. They dont reach out to people they r too busy

[@AugustMoonOro]

This was very helpful. I understand a lot more! I’m a Leo.

[@fortheloveofmillie3982]

Me to and a Virgo man has my hart!!! I’m trying not to Leo things up, just trying to be cool!!!

[@Handle18880]

Nah, bc Virgos overthink, they often do have issues, frustrations, and insecurities. They DECIDE what they will and won’t do, they are very strategic and many times, even though they do not vocalize it, their anxiety and ego guides their decision making when it comes to interpersonal matters. Do not fall for the, “I was busy” “I didn’t realize” it’s a conscious choice, they do call, when they want to on their terms. They want to feel needed and important to other people and this feeds into it.

[@tiana2906]

Very true

[@thisloop]

true that

[@tiffsavage66]

Very true! Cat and mouse games they play.

[@pynklady11]

​@tiffsavage66 they really do you either have to have the patience of a saint or play the game with them. Either way I wouldn't suggest involving your emotions too deep or too fast.

[@arielplays5629]

Hmm so draining and frustrating

[@shantalstone519]

Virgo man has always reached out first. I have shut down our dating, blocked him twice, and he still reaches out! I have been trying to distance myself from him but even though he is grinding and working on himself he ain't having it lol I'm an Aquarius. His communication sucks and it is hurtful I gave him chances but he gives me the same excuse "not intentionally" I don't understand I would honestly rather walk away and let THEM deal with him, but his persistence is keeping me drawn in.

[@catherinem.6290]

Same! I'm also an Aquarius.

[@arnzgel]

Any updates now ?

[@playithowitgo2054]

I just DNT like talking all the time...I avoided paying my phone bill for 2months😂

[@jhaszmyn.]

Lmaoooooo if that ain’t me lol. I purposely don’t pay my bill so ppl would stop calling me. #virgo

[@thewhatupdoegirl3584]

That mustache is taking over 🌳🤺

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

facts

[@tianathompson2725]

😂🤣

[@la-shays4030]

I’m a Sagittarius, my now fiancé that is a Virgo proposed to me last month after about a year of dating. I thought I still had some convincing to lol. Honestly, I feel me being myself/listening to understand him/being honest from day one won him over. Lol I started watching your videos since being engaged and they’re helpful.

[@ravanjanae]

hey are y'all still together?

[@Chuckfinlee432]

Please God don't get cocky and cheat.

[@anitavanpatten8645]

You have helped me with my Virgo love, I am Cancer

[@chasity3878]

Put batteries in the damn smoke detector damn 😒

[@michellelucius7973]

Both Virgo Men I deal with Always Reach out 1st !!! 😼😼

[@sallyscott7555]

Same.always first.

[@savannahbrown7107]

Yes. I’m cancer. I always let him come to me

[@KellyLovee__]

It’s been weeks I haven’t talked to him I really been discombobulated I never felt like this before with anybody that’s what’s throwin me off

[@hunnyb1308]

Kionna Foster, Did he ghost you? Mine ghosted me last Sunday. I haven't heard from him since. His last text he sent was Sunday, and it was definitely not his usual way of texting. There were no hey Love at the beginning of the text, and no I love you at the end. That's when I realized, he was upset with me. I got a little annoyed with him because he wasn't giving me some attention. We were suppose to finish a conversation we were having via text, the night before, and I got a little annoyed about it. I wasn't being disrespectful, or negative at all. However, I did apologize. I sent him so many text, and left several Voicemails. He's not answering my calls, or texts. What really hurts the most, is that we've been friends since 1991. And we reconnected in 2020. We were trying to start a romantic relationship. However, I think I messed it up. I love him so much.....I stopped calling and texting him as of yesterday. I'm missing him so much🥲😍🥰

[@MIMIDSH]

Oh he never reaches out first, probably never has in the year we've been dating. He said his family knows he never talks on the phone, too. It can make me question whether or not I should get in touch because it's easy to believe he's not into me, but when we see each other, it's clear he's into me- his face and eyes are lit up and he can't hide it. He admitted the fact that I reach out with no recriminations is why we're still seeing each other. Funny thing is-- it think it gives us both a sense of control: I reach out when I want to, and he knows he's not required/expected to.

[@viveenwilliams2218]

Hi I am a regular viewer of your video but I do find like u take so long to get too the points omg!! We be like dying to here what u have to say 😂😂😅

[@janelleehutchinson-iq6nc]

Omg yes I have to skip this video so many times and I’m actually interested in what he has to say.

[@richgirlro]

My 2 ex's reached out first & after that no they don't the woman too. So I finally stop because that is selfish the only time they call is when they want something. Virgo live in their heads, I think that is something that all Virgo's need to work on. I'm a Capricorn so I will dish it back at you so you will know how it feel. I gave up after 25 yrs of dealing with them. I'm aware of all Virgo's so I let them be and explain it too others who experiencing that side of them.

[@anifatus_saidah]

Virgo is mutable sign capri cardinal

[@brickjames7631]

We stay busy I’m in a relationship / and I spend about 16 hours a day building this internet TV broadcasting…. She understands building a million dollar bag takes time … we are hard workers…. Yes people get very angry with us sometimes your absolutely correct 👍

[@CatGee]

Met virgo man a month ago, things moving nicely....Taurus woman. He made every effort to contact me and I'm not a phone person but I made time for him and developed a connection. Mom Just passed from Covid and the virgo man went ghost. I'm a woman of God so I'm strong and was more grateful for the time then I was grieved but dont understand why virgo man just went away when a hru text would have been enough.

[@SheriCheri94]

I’m sorry for your loss. I hope your healing.

[@CatGee]

@@SheriCheri94 thank you I am, and I trust God to block any counterfeits...so I'll count it all Joy!

[@CatGee]

Of course he text weeks later referring to himself as a douche and apologizing then casually asking how I've been. To which I agree with his assessment of himself and am now completely turned off and have no intention of replying.

[@tiana2906]

@@CatGee good girl! That virgo man didn't deserve you. Your a queen that needs a king

[@Sowley8]

My Virgo guy is like this. I always reach out first. But he confuses me because when I give him space for a while he calls me out on it like I can’t be coming in and out of his life lmao he turns it around. I’m an Aquarius btw. I know this about him but it we go thru this often. But he is responsive and replies fast when we communicate. Most is text. He says he does not like to talk on the phone either.

[@theamandashow4561]

I’m thinking something, you’re talking about it the next week. How do you know...How do you know???🤣🤣🤣

[@jenniferabana9075]

My Virgo man is a workaholic! He works 8-12 hours everyday and during weekends he works more than that.. Sometimes 72-86 hours straight! He's a nurse by the way. Being in a LDR with a workaholic boyfriend is not that easy. You really need to be more understanding and have more patience.. But I love the fact that he's aware of what he's doing, he always tells me: "sorry baby If I'm neglecting you, I'm just so busy at work but I love you.. Please be more patient to me" sometimes he's calling me in a sneaky way when he's at work just to talk and check on me..

[@Kitathegang]

Ain’t that much work in the world , Virgos are missing out on what really matters !!!

[@lynethsd7003]

Virgo shutting down, because he is angry? That is not a fair solution. First of all: Virgo thinks he is always right, without giving the other person the opportunity to explain. Second : Thinking you are always right is the worst way to communicate. This way he is showing his weakness because he doesn't repect other persons opinion. It would make him a great guy a true hero if he was open to others.

[@thisloop]

sooooo trueeee esp point number one

[@christophersmith9683]

I would say this for us Virgo men, if ya wanna be with us ya gotta understand us 🍃 Also, don't leave anything up in the air if there's an issue or a concern & with that concern, HOW ya address it to us is also important

[@zenniah]

lol @ the bad nerves of a virgo ♍️ !! I get it!! 😂😂

[@rosagatica6349]

Man virgooo! Change the battery in the fire alarm fam.

[@kingwealth3683]

u got that virgo stare...please do a virgo man and pisces woman...sorry im about to spam so u see ths

[@musiquetube7]

Have you made a video about male virgo coworkers and how to tell if they are just being nice to you vs if they like you romantically?

[@Kimtran0102]

They are very confusing. At first I thought he flirts with me and likes me so much but after a while I realised he treats all female coworkers the same 🙄

[@Kitathegang]

It’s hard trying to figure y’all out I throw in the towel man you couldn’t possibly believe this Virgo isn’t interested when he’s nvm but yea I’m good !!!

[@kingwealth3683]

virgo man and pisces woman yea

[@Marvalously_Thick]

Virgo men that I know reach out first

[@terrenceharris7163]

You dealing with a thinker an intellectual

[@lynethsd7003]

His detailed analization brings him in a tunnelvision thinking process. Just one detail that was wrong doesn;t make a life bad. That means that a human being is not perfect. So is Mr. Virgo not perfect too.

[@terrenceharris7163]

9 times out of 10 they got the problem

[@nahla7899]

But find the best way to flip the script on you 😅

[@tiana2906]

@@nahla7899 yep, very disgusting creatures

[@freshclean7036]

I tell people all the time, it not what you say it's how you say it. That's my biggest focus it how one talk to me.

[@lynethsd7003]

why does Virgo get so easily addicted? Is it their focus on contemporary life and imagination so bad?

[@sherylkoiner7318]

Yes if he want you to help him financially

[@richgirlro]

I'm magnetic Virgo's are drawn to me it's this unexplain energy. I reconnected with an old friend but he wanted turn into a love relationship. This was the for Virgo that moved so fast & since I wasn't moving fast enough for him(in a month) he was the first person who ever blocked me on social media and cell phone. He was a con tell you all this stuff of what type of person he is ...liar. My radar detector was on high I knew something was off. I was just waiting for truth to reveal it's self. I love talking to Virgo's because we do have things in common especially on the intellectual level. All them tell me the same thing that they don't talk on the phone but I have them talking for hours. I'm just like them I don't like to talk on the phone that much it has to meaningful some type of purpose. 🌝

[@Carmie_B]

I’m a Capricorn woman and This is funny considering the fact that Virgo men are drawn to me heavyyyy but we always end up great friends because I can’t date them I see thru their deception too well lol.... I know 3 Virgo men who all hate talking on the phone but we be on the phone for hours at a time 😂😂😂

[@richgirlro]

@@Carmie_B yesssss I feel you so true with me. I say the same thing we make better friend's to me but I'm better for them but they are not for me...lol

[@Carmie_B]

richgirlro omggg yes! That’s exactly the perfect way to describe it!! We’re better for them but they’re not better for us ! 😂😂👏🏾👏🏾

[@intelibeauty]

Wow this was so helpful thank you

[@sherylkoiner7318]

I’m originally from New York but resides in Conyers Ga

[@newjustice1]

I never reach out to any one even my own mom lol she gets on my case.

[@sherylkoiner7318]

Great and yourself

[@terrenceharris7163]

Its cold out here

[@italianprincess8107]

U cant get so caught up that you dont have few min to holla at yur mother that is where i wont nudge mothers are not around always.

[@terrenceharris7163]

The whole flow bar for mathafuckin bar

[@fionazane973]

I know a Virgo man who's so interesting, we share the same interests, he'll call me and each call lasts for more than an hour, but urgh....sometimes he'd stop calling for a week....I hope it's just this pandemic and Movement Control Order that's keeping him from making serious move :(

[@fionazane973]

I love how he's into details, and he's analytical....cuz I'm Scorpio and I'm messy.....!! He's enough for me.

[@netta569]

Tell more about the stare... sometimes mine says he is not looking at something or someone, he’s just looking into space and thinking. Is that true?

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

made a vid about, check the channel.

[@richgirlro]

Yes, to me that's true because I notice all them being staring into space have that space look...lol. I always ask them about that spacey look & they are not even aware of it.

[@newjustice1]

Yes I do that all the time

[@fordlouis6680]

I thought I was the only sometimes I be snapping myself out of it then I ask myself “ are u high “.

[@belindaking1362]

Actually my virgo man always reaches out first to me. X

[@jb8191]

I don't get virgo man at all we went on a date at first he wanted then no contact until I text him and we went out it was great he then would not let me far from him hug me tight hold my hand he would say how pretty I am how he liked me years ago when we were friends we stayed till late talking and then communication was dry he had some exams so I said to him take your time his exams are over I asked him to go out. yesterday he said his aunt has birthday I am not sure if it is true I am the dominant one and I am tired from it could it be because he is stressed because of waiting for his exam results also he is an introvert so I don't even bother him I let him do what he has to do.What is confusing me is that he said once he is over with this we will go out as we should and he knows I am going an vacation in some days for more than 2 weeks I don't get him should I wait or not I would wait if I know that he is just stressed right now but he leaves me in the dark confused....

[@Christifit406]

We both ended up not texting for half a day and then i realized i did not respond and then we both said we missed eachother at the same time😅

[@krystlesounique6935]

🤣🤣🤣 Im laughing how you telling us about the accident

[@iyebalolohalabi7787]

You aer perfectly rigjt about vigro men they dont reach out i quickly unstand him about that if he want to travel he will tell me to reach hime

[@sherylkoiner7318]

Yes I can hear you

[@vuittondiosa5884]

I’d like to know why virgo men take so so long to text back

[@dontelljones4713]

Vuitton Diosa LMAO its no rush

[@dondadaf488]

He did a video on this already, it's on his channel x

[@pisceslove9]

It depends on what you're texting about and if he's not too busy. If you text him something serious, he'll think long and hard before he texts you back.

[@ajatalks]

Cuz they ain't shit😂

[@ahhwe-any7434]

Just start taking naps in between. Its what i do 😀👍. Good luck 👊

[@kingwealth3683]

virgo man and pisces woman

[@thandarnewin919]

are you dating a pisces?

[@roxie71]

Yess we are truth dectivte !!

[@amandaporter4760]

This is very confusing from all the information I am getting out there right now about men. I am dealing with a Virgo man right now. Seems to be very feminine energy. The men are supposed to be masculine and pursue. Can you please help confirming this with me, the confusion?

[@robinburns1178]

I will Neva reach out first imma Virgo

[@ahhwe-any7434]

Thats not a good thing. Thats very cowardly and one sided actually.

[@sherylkoiner7318]

Do Virgo men ever tell his woman that he love her

[@iyebalolohalabi7787]

Yes

[@lesliecantelo6799]

👋, PEI Canada.

[@Kitathegang]

So Virgos never like nobody??? If you like someone you show it … pick up the phone baby !!!!! “If you wanna talk to me

[@terrenceharris7163]

My mind don't stop

[@sherylkoiner7318]

How do you turn on the notification

[@sarahh3713]

South East, UK

[@chasity3878]

You a lie I dumped him and he was at the door for 4 hours begging me talm.bout I miss you boo boo I said go home to your baby mama he said I am now open the door I moved changed my number now he got all the time and space in the world to find me 😆 🤣 😂

[@tiana2906]

Yes! You go girl 👏 😂

[@chasity3878]

Virhos need to listen to tho they not always right and can be judgemental boo

[@italianprincess8107]

I am the same way my mind stay working i am very analytical i am a deep thinker is funny because my ex hubby was a virgo and he used to tell me i was always think

[@ZLSdrums]

He reached out to me first, he lives in America and I live in London, what are the chances that this will be worth the effort? One day he wants to jump on the next plane to see me texting none stop and the day after his texts are dry and a few hrs apart, does he like me or not? I'm a scorpio

[@sherylkoiner7318]

That’s okay get to the subject

[@ashleyobrien5791]

So if they reach out first a majority Of the time …. That means they like you.. why do they prioritize work so much

[@terrenceharris7163]

If something not right I'm real fucked up

[@ashleydrx5135]

These ads lol

[@terrenceharris7163]

Heaven anit hard to find

[@edatirado4378]

New York

[@theoneschroeder8552]

Can you just start the topic 🙄 From an impatient Aries woman😠🙋‍♀️

[@italianprincess8107]

And you aint lie when u say they dont reach to no one my son is virgo SEPTEMBER one and he gets me on my last nerve but i luv him to death as he got older i realize the reason we clash we are too much alike im some ways he dont reach out but he has my back right away if some happen to me .. But this is why sum sign no matter what sign is hard to deal with virgo ..but in long run i cant deal with cancer and my dad is one scorpio so is not always about the sign is deeper then that..

[@anitavanpatten8645]

1

[@terrenceharris7163]

It's hard out here for a pimp virgos

[@kingwealth3683]

virgo man and pisces woman pls

[@terrenceharris7163]

Bar for bar nigga

[@arielplays5629]

Virgo men need Jesus smh

[@kingwealth3683]

virgo man and pisces woman lol...