Why Walking Away From A Man Works - Esp Over Age 40 + Walk Away From a Man Without Leaving

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) 👉🏼diamondgirl.me/walk Get my Answer Deck: diamondgirl.me/cards

[@sahelmoon]

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[@patriciarose2342]

The guy who told you to leave, NEVER give him another chance. If he can kick you out after a fight he will do it again. Don't trust him again.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Unfortunately I had no choice, and his words were in the heat of the moment, I was behaving badly, and he later cried and asked me to stay. I think that "trapped animal" part makes us say and do things we do not mean at times. But overall, you make a good point. Thank you.

[@callmebailey]

EXACTLY!!! It becomes a habit and shows you have no self respect if you decide stay. Always have a plan B and NEVER tell the man!

[@saltandpepperandmint]

@@AdrienneEverheart I think we only say things we mean, it’s on your mind first and then it’s on your tongue.

[@mgacofficialyt]

Truest 😭 just like my situation now 😞😞 anyways im out of his house and now he saying just this a 2-3months break only and then what?! im no longer young anymore im 35 cant afford to waste time again

[@evyz1413]

I know women who went back and they worked out. Every situation is very different so it’s hard to make blanket statements. No one is perfect and people can learn. Some do. Some don’t. 🙏

[@lindat1317]

“I am not here to convince you of my value.” Pure Gold. ❤

[@jafrasar1]

SOLID GOLD!

[@dimples5933]

Amen!

[@twigmasta]

So many women are repeating eachother saying " I know my worth" these days, they are all the same brain. ........yawn

[@Brookerennyy]

Been long distance with my man for a year. I have no interest in moving. I’m a single mom with a great career and life. He is single and works for a huge company that has locations all over. I love him so much. He will be a great husband, I know this. I sat him down and used your line, “I’m looking for a husband. I don’t want a boyfriend I see once a month. I want more kids. If you don’t see yourself moving to Maryland, let’s go our separate ways.” 18 days later hes signed a job offer in Maryland. Feels like a dream. I can’t believe this advice is free! Love you Adrienne been following you for years and it’s changed me to my core! ❤

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m so happy you made your voice clear. So many women are fearful of letting a man know they want to be a wife. But men really get it, and take action. Or they run away for good and find some other woman’s years to take and use. Happy for you all. ❤️

[@Bronte866]

I love MD, especially TCB. Have a great life! ♥️

[@claracruz9066]

@@Brookerennyy this is such a beautiful story. Thank you so much for sharing. You give me hope. May God continue to bless you 🙌

[@lorawhite1017]

Walking away from a relationship show's that you don't accept any form of abuse and shows self respect and love. I highly recommend doing so

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yesssss! Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk

[@ssmith8758]

I walked away seven months ago. Once I stepped away I realized how toxic the relationship had been and I rediscovered my self worth. I didn’t get the satisfaction of him coming back around but Ive leveled up past him. Lost weight and reduced my alcohol consumption. Got my mind and body right. Taking the time to heal all by myself. Im alone, but I am at peace. ✌️

[@tarawiselove]

Love this! Keep going!

[@RoseMarieMullins]

🤍

[@Terra_inthe406]

The best revenge imo is to look our best and they can't have us!

[@SeanSean77111]

Sounds like he was ready for you to leave

[@bryanah9452]

Good for you! I’m doing the same.

[@emilym5clark]

I walked away from my man last week. Packed up all of my stuff and took space. Best thing that ever happened in our relationship. He took 4 days in nature, turned inward, is seeking support outside the relationship and is evolving and growing. We are now having hard conversations without anger and frustration, from a place of love and compassion. I never thought I’d see that man in tears, but he was and is now making actual changes. He thanked me for walking away, helping him wake up, and said it’s been the best thing that’s happened to him and the changes he’s making is for him and for us.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

GOOD JOB! 👏 Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk

[@mgacofficialyt]

Oh dear we are in the same situation,I wish my man will do the same 😢 now were away from each other for like weeks now. no idea about hes plan i still love him 😢😢😢😢😢

[@Dividend_Investing2024]

Wait until he realizes the negative way he felt before the split up and the unpleasant way he felt after is ALL 100% DUE TO YOU! 🎂 Have fun with the cats. Women part 30 who are single 😂

[@Bronte866]

He needs to make a stop at the jewelry store. Then he can really start crying. Wives are not free.

[@Bronte866]

Sounds like you’re going to be the the lonely guy in your mother’s basement with the cats. Look who’s here needing advice. Lol.

[@allisoninterviews]

My mother always told me to keep going on other dates if there’s no ring.

[@daynasmum529]

Theres often very good reason why a male wont put a ring on a womans finger

[@DruStevens]

😂😂that the exact reason your single😂

[@allisoninterviews]

@@DruStevens I’m not single 😂

[@dellassociates8431]

ND WHAT SHE SAY TO DO AFTER YOU GET THE RING?

[@Sweetdreamz313]

Agreed

[@bryanah9452]

I’m in my late 30’s and my ex is almost in his mid-40’s. He broke up with me in 2021 then six months later wanted to get back with me. Stupidly, I took him back hoping that he would change and even went to couple’s therapy. Had weight loss surgery this year FINALLY realized my value and worth, dumped him, moved out of his house and got my own apartment then blocked him for good. I’m at so much peace right now and truly believe that I can get what I deserve from another man.

[@Truebeauty_98]

Amen, congrats to you ❤

[@DruStevens]

😂yet you still single

[@bryanah9452]

@@DruStevens Happily single and at peace.

[@ceyciemateo9411]

@@bryanah9452 u are too beautiful

[@aileenmac1]

Ladies stop giving so much to men who give so little.

[@jimmybobby91584]

men objectively give more than women.

[@sonofhibbs4425]

@@jimmybobby91584 you mean in semen?

[@geoeconomics5629]

Women get 1000 times more from men then they ever give back to men

[@angelawhite1016]

OMG I walked away last night. After nine years of boyfriend/girlfriend I am stuck. THANK YOU FOR THIS MESSAGE! I needed the strength 💖

[@lmiller1413]

Good for you! I had to walk away for a man I was with for a long time. I pray the man who is better for you will come soon. I regret ever, ever staying as long as I did. I kept wondering how I could be different to get back to the really good times. Years later, I look back, and I regret ever hanging on. The humiliation I felt over the time wasted and his treatment of me, is still something that makes me feel sad that I didn't value myself more to dump him. I'm glad you left. Move away and go back to college, maybe you'll meet a man that can value you.

[@mgacofficialyt]

Oh boi same here 😢 a week later broke up with him 😢

[@ardormorte]

yes it's always better to walk away if you're not satisfied, even if it's been like that for 9 years, you will thank yourself that you didn't make it 9 years and 1 day.. congratulations ❤

[@kimberlymay9497]

Walk away love yourself. Don’t let anyone waste your time…it’s hard but worth it.

[@JS-lx9fi]

The annoying part is that when I get to the point that I’m over it and actually decide to walk away it’s truly over for me. I’m done with the crap and don’t have interest in going back. It does work though. I’ve gotten a proposal that way but by then I was truly over it.

[@JayJackson007]

THIS!!

[@robinthompson8480]

I walked away a year ago, and he never came back to me... unfortunately, I still love him. I'm 57, and he is 63... I still work on myself and realize he never loved me! We were together 3.5 years.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m sure he loved you, yet unable to maintain. You are beautiful and worthy of great love. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@jilllisa5724]

@robinthompson8480 it's only been a year, dont think he won't be back ive had men come back after 10 years , 3 years and 5 years .

[@robinthompson8480]

Update, I would like to extend my heartfelt application for Adrienne for her invaluable guidance through her videos and website, I acquired a deeper understanding of myself and developed higher standards for my relationships. Although I endured a painful experience, it ultimately led to significant personal growth, revealing valuable insights about my character and resilience. With Adriennes assistance, I was able to overcome my emotional pain and move forward, recognizing that I deserve a more meaningful connection. I am now married to a loving, kind-hearted man who proposed to me in a romantic gesture. We got married last july, and I am currently experiencing unparalleled happiness. By abandoning my pursuit of unfulfilling relationships and creating space for positive connections, I was able to attract someone who genuinely wants to be with me.

[@annvirgo8542]

I’ve been with a guy for 3 years now and haven’t met any of his friends or family. I’ve paid for vacations, groceries, dates and buying him expensive items. I’m tired of feeling stuck and taken advantage off. I’m ending my relationship today!

[@anna-mariagriego8585]

How's it going? I'm going through the same. About to walk away today.

[@spacecake8_781]

You deserve better! You are giving so much. It is hard but Adriene is right, just walk away, for you ❤

[@Bronte866]

Walk away from that s.

[@arnzgel]

Any updates?

[@Swiss_Girl]

👏👏

[@natashadickson4819]

Another KZbinr says the same thing. "Girlfriend is not a legal status."

[@AdrienneEverheart]

It's very important for women to know! Be sure to get my free scripting guide. diamondgirl.me/gift

[@patriciarose2342]

If he's separated, just run. He doesn't know what he's doing but he's dragging it out.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Agreed! Sep. men are good for just casual dating and practice. everheartcoaching.com/femm/

[@patriciarose2342]

@@AdrienneEverheart 🙂

[@natashadickson4819]

Separated means married. He's not available to marry you.

[@patriciarose2342]

@@natashadickson4819 True. But a lot of separated guys can talk a good game. Maybe you just met him or you're just friends but you seem compatible. He talks about how terrible his wife is, and as a mother. He talks about divorcing all the time, he even has a date picked out - its less than a year. He talks about the future (yours). He wants to spend every waking minute with you and tells you how much he enjoys you. He tries everything to involve you in his kids lives until you catch yourself imagining what life would be like together as a family. Now you're screwed. And as the date gets closer to his "divorce" he's getting nervous. And then fear and insecurity set in. The dialog changes and when you have a disagreement, YOURE the one in the wrong. He projects those fears and insecurities onto you and you will never do or be right. It can get so bad that you can't even be friends with him anymore. As Adrienne said about a man being comfortable, if he doesn't have to make a decision he will live in the state he's in and even find a way to be comfortable there. If the wife doesn't want a divorce then he has to do everything himself. Some men can live separated for years. They will do whatever they want anyway and live in their dream world.

[@unaivanovska9820]

@@patriciarose2342 true. It's a trap that you can easily fall into and then it's a difficult way out.

[@dlove9400]

Some guys are led by their egos and never admit to what they lost.. I've walk away and changed my number. The message is I'm never an option I'm the priority. Separation leads to elevation.

[@KJ-md2wj]

Change "guys" to "girls" and you get the bigger picture of what is happening today.

[@lornaelizabeth6290]

Hi, after just over a year of dating a man, he then tells me I was just a distraction. The rug had been well and truly pulled. I walked away… it’s been three weeks and my heart feels in tatters.. we would spend every weekend together… he had drifted from his purpose…. Focusing back on myself. Thank you ❤️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Oh honey this is just terrible. Im so sorry! I have a program that gives you protocols to follow so things like this never happen to you again. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@MultiMichaelcarter]

Me too. After dating a guy for 8 months, he suddenly told me we have nothing in common, he was making excuses that I never enjoyed our time together and he needed space. I said ok. We spent every weekend together, I enjoyed his whole family. It’s been 2 months, I went a head and blocked him for my own good. It’s been heartbreaking, but I’m working on myself to know my value.

[@lornaelizabeth6290]

@@MultiMichaelcarter sending love ❤️ just remember it’s a reflection of them not us 💋

[@patiencebaya7015]

@MultiMichaelcarter it happened to me too. We've been dating for 8 months and he said we are not compatible. I saw it coming but held on to hope. It''s heartbreaking but life gets better anyway😊

[@armiebarr725]

Thank you for saying walk away from to know both ways of solution for your own happy life! Being tied for someone is forever! Nothing is forever! We died alone on our own destiny!

[@Aurora-Rose01]

There is always the block button on your phone ladies. If a guy doesn’t want you get a younger one 🤩😆🌸🦋

[@wisem84]

😂😂

[@brownbunny04]

I recently walked away from my boyfriend of almost 7 years. He said we're not getting married. I backed away from the relationship and started talking to other men. He still calls me and even called me drunk a few weeks ago and wanted to work things out. But he's back on the same thing so I'm keeping him at bay. I don't have time for this.

[@Terra_inthe406]

Tell him what you want and if he won't give it to you, I would be done with him.

[@funnygirlever]

Than mean it. You have to let go and no contract. Make new vibes and energy for someone better. You're only hurting yourself longer.

[@KVG822]

You should block him. You are his security blanket.

[@xScarlingx]

I walked for the first time ever&blocked him everywhere. Usually he’s the one saying we should break up but never follows through. I left without a word or warning whilst he was at work. Its been almost 3 months & nothing but a sobbing phone call to my mum about how he wasnt 3 years on me . But I’m okay with it&I have felt so empowered yet miss him sometimes. He didn’t respect me . He threw me out once& I had to go back& even then its like it was about power for him. No change no humility just throwing any word at me that comes to mind in anger. I had enough. I never knew what you meant about a woman knowing when to walk until now. I thought I’d fall to pieces but I have barely cried. He wasnt the man I met..I regret nothing. In fact, I needed to do this for the both of us. I will be okay. I’m curious&my heart is still his but I need my heart more than he does right now. I know you say leave the crack in the door but honestly - let him move mountains. My boundaries were so loose cos of my living situation. I needed him&he exploited that. Let’s see if he would die&kill for me as he says he would when the scales are balanced. I’m not his toy anymore.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

There is much healing for you to do. Please work on boundaries and communication. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

[@kristinaldridge1712]

Adrienne my man and I are both 41. I already decided today is the day I need to walk away. We have been dated for 4 months but its just once per week. Today is our once per week and I will tell him your script. I want more than once per week.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Be sure to use feminine energy phrasing. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@kristinaldridge1712]

@PrincessLovelyAngel I know. He has 2 young kids and they are with him many days of the week. I have a 12 year old daughter who is independent. Unless he wants to incorporate me more into his family dynamic there is no point to continue.

[@kristinaldridge1712]

@PrincessLovelyAngel my daughter and I live on the other side of the planet from her dad and any of our family. There is literally no one I can give my daughter to on this continent. He shares his kids with his ex. My daughter is old enough I can go out for dinner or whatever. Thats basically how its been going when he doesn't have his kids

[@kristinaldridge1712]

@PrincessLovelyAngel the guy I'm dating only lives a few minutes away. My daughters dad lives in The States where we are from. My daughter and I live in Sydney Australia. I am dual Aussie/American because I chose to immigrate to Sydney when I was in my 20s. My daughters dad had to return to the US because he wasn't able to fully immigrate to Australia. I much prefer living in Australia and raising my daughter here. Even if it means doing it alone.

[@kristinaldridge1712]

@PrincessLovelyAngel who cares?? My ex an I had a daughter. He can't live in Australia. What else do you need to know.

[@lesliearmstrong3246]

In Florida, if you don't pay rent you can be removed from the home in less than 30 days. The homeowner doesnt have to give you notice. If a man wants you to live rent-free with him, that sounds like a good deal until things go wrong and he wants you to leave. instead I recommend offering to pay a small amount of rent and pay by check. You have more roghts this way and he wont be able to get rid of you quickly if something goes awry.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you for sharing - get a rental agreement if you MUST live with a man before marriage. Follow the law when possible because the man is counting on you NOT caring enough about yourself to do so.

[@BD-bo5cl]

Sprinkle sprinkle

[@Hellstarmissy]

Crying! I can’t express my gratitude for finding you and the valuable content you put out. Single single for 2 years working on myself and met someone who seemingly was amazing-gave him a chance. Fast forward, I’ve been on a 9 month roller coaster of a relationship with things I’ve never had to deal with. I’m 40 and some of the things I’ve been through are all new. We are in no contact and I was scouring KZbin and the internet for help. I can’t get through your content fast enough. Thank you for all you do!

[@jb-ze1yh]

I walked away from my Coparent who is also a very connected soul bond after he put me and another girl into a 3rd party situation. He had been lying to me after I gave him a second chance. I told him nope, 3rd party nonsense is a non negotiable and I want a husband and father to our son who has high integrity. I gave up my job, my home for 11 years and move crossed country with our then 8 month old. Best decision of my LIFE!!!!! My life has grown 100x times, I’ve stepped into my Queen energy and our child is well adjusted. Is my ex still there? Yup. Am I being a wife and mom to him without the real commitment? Heck no!!!! Best decision I’ve made for my life and I recommend it for anyone stuck with a man who won’t give you what you desire. Don’t settle. Never settle! ❤🙏

[@rosedar6741]

You walk away , if he comes after you then he’s your man if he doesn’t then he won’t be your man forever.

[@omobolanleshiwoku8944]

You shouldn't have to walk away before he knows he is you man,you chose him the first time,didn't you?

[@labelle5834]

Exactly my sentiment

[@funnygirlever]

I walked away from a few man. Yes they have come back and treating me the same. So i have enough. Don't walk away just to have him back and have him come back to half ass. Some people doesn't change. Stop making excuses for him. He knows he's hurting you. Let go and make room for someone better. Repeat until you receive someone who is the same energy and level with you. Wasted time is worst than Wasted money. Love yourself and have peace. Best of luck. It will past but you need to let it pass and one day you will be happier and that you made the best choice for you. If he comes back and really work harder for you. Okay until than. Walk away. Know your worth and power.

[@sylvieb5498]

I would never take a man back that I had to convince of marrying me … he needs to know and be convinced on his own. Otherwise I would never be at peace.

[@KVG822]

That is why you walk away. So he can decide for himself.

[@wellbeingwithwendysmith6651]

I was in a situation where the guy lives at a distance and I was led to believe we were going to see if long distance could work. He quickly became distant and not making effort or communicating when he couldn’t keep calls. I stepped back and he called when he wanted to meet when he worked in my area but it was already clear that he only made the effort when he was doing something here anyway. He talked of having females in every city and that’s now clear. I didn’t go to meet him and told him it’s done. He hasn’t even replied. Lucky escape 😅

[@elharrop]

That's so sad that people are having to jump through all of these hoops just to get a commitment these days, it doesn't sound natural at all. I honestly don't know what to make of this. If i wasn't good enough for you the first time round i don't think it would ever be the same even if i did lock you down.

[@SeanSean77111]

Coming from a man here. Reason it’s hard to lock us down is because marriage in today society for a “man” is like having a hun to your head. Especially if kids are involved. If things were great like in the old days everyone would have their husbands and wife by the time their 20 and kids out of the house by the time they are 40. Men are stepping out. Just ain’t worth it.

[@notallabouttarot5194]

This is what I said. Men aren’t worth marrying at this point. They’re not the same as when I married my deceased husband 20 years ago. You should not have to leave a man to make him wise up to you. I didn’t back then. And he was 11years older than me

[@musicas8549]

Just know that in Florida they don't have Common law for non wed couples. I didn't do this diligence and 13 years later i HAD TO WALK WAY... it feels like was banned from my town living friends and jobs, daughter, and half heart. Never again!!! Lesson learned. Adrienne you do an awesome job and thanks for your Chanel.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

So happy to help. Ladies everywhere, know your state laws!

[@Mzldy1shari]

So good to know as I too live in Florida

[@angelaroche4779]

No states have common law marriage anymore

[@Elitechips0Elitechips0]

Dear Adrienne, I went silence on my men. He is talking to his ex and I told him I am not comfortable. He said I am insecure. We have been fighting for 3 months and I thought I go silent. I feel pain but I think this is the best thing.

[@jannadepue6037]

This is the realest post I’ve seen. Thank God!! I’m stuck in this right now and I’m so glad you were real

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are so welcome. I am happy to help. Be sure to get my free scripting guide. diamondgirl.me/gift

[@jen4yahwehsal176]

I met him on TikTok. He has a huge following. He loved bomb. Me came to visit me. He lives 4 hours away. And then all of a sudden, the games began only hitting me up when he felt like it playing games. I said Goodbye a week ago. Don't know if I'll hear from again but honestly right now. The way he treated me through me bread crumbs, I don't care

[@AC-Empress]

I’m 65 and have so much love to give 🤞🏼Bless you Adrienne 🌻

[@dimples5933]

“ … make sure you want to be HIS wife” 🙌 We can all fall into the chase and not stop to think about that very question

[@victoriathompson2246]

I left 1yr ago & he continues to use the silent treatment since. He sent pics of his topless new thing while writing how he hates me. This guy refuses to wake up. I’m gone.

[@ioannakalogera9566]

I thought I was feminine enough until I came across your channel and the work you put out there. Thank you for all your content and the guidance .

[@lisabuckner243]

Honestly, I wouldn't have asked him, "where do you see this going?" I would've said what I want & say, if you're not looking for the same thing, then bye!

[@sharonrice8255]

By the time I feel it’s time to leave, I’m not coming back.

[@LaReineDiana2024]

No friendship! No communication! They leave, accept the breakup and move on. They come back and they’re not desperate don’t give in! Keep moving!

[@bailey1493]

I’m 3 mins into the video and yes… she is absolutely right. The love of my life, I’ve messaged on these videos in the past about him- we reconnected Jan after 3 years post breakup. Long story short, this past Friday, I messaged him to let him know I was going out and ask if he wanted to meet me… I heard zero back from him. I get to said place and guess what… my ex (that I’ve been talking to here and there since Jan) was there!! He was out with the guys. Another man approached me and danced with me. I think it made my ex realize he could lose me. He sent me multiple texts that night saying he thought I was just all his. Saturday morning I show up at his house, unannounced lol… and now we are officially a couple again 🥰

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Keep making good choices! Get FEMM for Dating and also Be sure to get my free scripting guide. diamondgirl.me/gift

[@lorrainea.285]

@bailey1493 That is actually THE DEFINITION of DESPERATE & not knowing your value!🤦‍♀️ Come back & let us know how long it lasts after he basically ignored you & ONLY after seeing you dance with another man he proclaims you’re only for him & to make matters worse you show up at his house the next day UNANNOUNCED! So you literally don’t see how you are TEACHING this man how to treat you! Also how did you happen to end up at the same place where he was hanging out with his guys??? STOP CHASING men, let them chase you!!!!

[@learninginlove3785]

Do you have any advice for us who are willing to walk away maybe too easily? When I get deeply triggered that's the coping mechanism I default to.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes, that's your Inner Saboteur! I have some videos about that and in my VIP Library, I have a Wounded Child doc that would hep. I suggest you get FEMM for Dating and learn about connecting your Feminine Energy with a man... diamondgirl.me/femm

[@learninginlove3785]

@@AdrienneEverheart I have all of your programs ❤️

[@crayonofdarkness215]

I am that person who normally walks away really easily. What I do now is focus on my triggers when they come up, deep breathe, cry, whatever I need to do. I’ve decided I will only walk away again when it is a conscious decision made from a calm place, which de facto is not when I’m in a triggered state. So I remove myself from the situation if I’m that triggered and decide what I need to do moving forward.

[@Anja92ful]

Adrienne honestly I love your videos so much. I've been listening to them for years and I learn something new every time

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are welcome!

[@nataliemores]

I walked away and he found a girl that looks so similar to me but she's 10 years younger. 😅 I feel bad for her because he will probably also waste her years. I will find someone who is ready to commit.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m so sorry that happened yet you want a man that will commit not waste your life. Love to you. I suggest New Man Manifesto to learn more. bit.ly/newmanmanifesto

[@mgacofficialyt]

Thanks alot dear ❤it opened up my mind literally 😢, im struggling ryt now broke up with him i left his house 😢

[@gunsrulecommiesdrool]

It works real good ,keep doing it ! You could do a WGTO! Women going their own way !

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes! Thank you!

[@lisabuckner243]

Sorry, you just lost me. A mans job is to PROVIDE (that means money) & PEOTECT! PERIOD. Women, stop going 50/50! Or being Barbara the builder. He will take your $, buy a sports car & leave you for someone younger!

[@Kayprofessor]

What did she say to the contrary?

[@AdairCty]

Excellent advice as always, Adrienne! ❤

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thanks so much! Be sure to get my free scripting guide. diamondgirl.me/gift

[@patriciarose2342]

My ex taught me everything too. He made me a perfectionist by the time I divorced him.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you honey.

[@patriciarose2342]

@@AdrienneEverheart thank you!! 🤗

[@Johnyrocket70]

Everyone walking away from each other will keep everyone single.

[@misscleo_]

I learned this at 29 and I am glad I learned this it at young age.

[@BeastlyChowder]

I think it all works better on men over 40 because young men nowadays have completely lost touch with their masculinity, due to the decline in male role models in their lives (absentee fathers). Thoughts?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

This is a story as old as time itself. Men abandoning or not doing what it takes to create a healthy happy family. I don’t believe this leads to men who aren’t in their masculine so much as it does insecurity and a lack of faith in relationships. Stay TRUE to your values and you will attract a like minded man. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@mpch6298]

If a man (7 months of dating, LDR, we were coming to each other and I planned to move to his country for the job) breaks up with you because I asked for honest talk after last 6 weeks of flaking and taking space, he cannot commit because of family obligations, and I ACCCEPT his breaking up with me and NOT asking him to stay, is it still counting as "walking away" or just being dumped? Honestly. I went no contact. I broke up once after first 4 months due to imbalances.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

If this was long distance do not trust any of it. Women lose every time!!! I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@tansz8092]

I walked away over a year ago....for the SECOND TIME--in 6 months!!! After the first time--he came back and promised me the relationship I wanted--and then he flipped the script a week later and said he wasn't ready. I walked again--and I hear he's still looking for my energy in others. I am not waiting for him. I'm living my beautiful life!! Balls in his court--I'm not looking for friendship w him.

[@mpch6298]

The same with me, first I broke, then let him back, then he broke up with me "cannot commit", offered friendship, J want no friendship.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m so glad you both posted. If you walk away and HE TRIES to rebuild - get the ABCs program. I walk you through the process of tying his heart up for good. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

[@belletinernsarchez9392]

this is soooooo great! im not on my 40s yet but on my early 30s but this is such a great advise!!! Words of wisdom at its finest. Thank you for awakening my sleeping girl power because of a coward man.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You’re so welcome! I suggest Femm Tools for Dating too bit.ly/femmtools

[@Betterboundariesnowteensupport]

If you stay and accept poor treatment due to the bonds formed thats where your story ends, sleepless nights constant anxiety wondering if this will ever go anywhere.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

So true, you must love yourself more than the man.

[@Betterboundariesnowteensupport]

Thank you for responding your videos over the years have helped so much

[@lisabuckner243]

Thank you for this realistic advice!! There's alot of foo foo "advice" out there! 💞

[@syudahbiggs5680]

I walked away after 4 1/2 years. His excuse was that we need to decide where we're going to live first. I told him all that takes is a sit down, we live in neighboring states. He called twice the next day and I didn't answer. i never returned his call. Its been 3 months no contact. I know my worth.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Oh honey. Good for you! His problems are not yours. They are excuses. Love to you. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@rosecoon1791]

I’ve been with my guy for 7 years, got fed up and bought a house. I move in 2 days. But now he’s finally scheduled a therapy appt and said she’ll work with both of us if I want. I’m not sure he’ll do all the work he needs to, but would be seeing him at therapy. Hmmm… maybe I’ll give it an expiration date in case I don’t see enough progress.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Just keep in mind what I've said in this video: nothing positive is gained through force, and also a house is not a marriage. Love to you. Be sure to get my free scripting guide. diamondgirl.me/gift

[@rosecoon1791]

@@AdrienneEverheart clarification: I bought my own house and am moving out of his. It’s 90 minutes away. I don’t care if he comes around or not. I’m just tired.

[@starridiamond]

Thank you, Adrienne! ❤ great video!

[@fifi_mkenya]

This came to me when i just set boundaries

[@JEEPBABYB]

😢I’m learning my self love❤

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

I have a question: Why is marriage considered "The ultimate goal" in relationships? Also, I'm thinking that if he doesn't want to get married and you do... that means you're basically not on the sane page. In that case, you should walk away for yourself. Yes! Edit: "same" page not "sane" Lol

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Marriage is for me about legal reasons as well as romantic. Public announcement is important for masculine men. And yes, as my story goes if you wish for Marriage and he’s not into it, you may need to walk away. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk

[@lmart16]

Why NOT marriage? So you can walk away?

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

@@lmart16 I've been married and divorced twice. I'm not doing that again!

[@notallabouttarot5194]

Marriage is not peaches and cream at this point. I’ve seen too much foolishness. It’s not like it was when I just met my partner 20 years ago. Men aren’t the same and not worth marrying now. Women…be careful what you ask for. I’m seeing men change drastically after marriage now.

[@frederikaz5085]

No these men won't wake up. They let you go and they will find themselves another woman and marry the new one. These kinds of men want revenge only.

[@HoundGrin]

This is especially true for men in their 40s because of them having more options. A 20 yr old would chase a woman about his age, while a 40 yr old may choose from like 25 to 45. Ofc 40+ women must be almost perfect to compensate for the age.

[@kimmichaud7741]

I left him 2 weeks ago for these reasons and im miserable he didnt even care when i told him im done he didnt say a word and havent heard from him since this was after 4 and a half years

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m so thankful you walked away, and stayed away.

[@wendydowling]

This only means you made the best choice ever.

[@omobolanleshiwoku8944]

I know it is hard right now,but please do not look back.If you do,you have given the power for life and you will suffer dearly for it.Focus on yourself,love up on yourself. You can do it. ❤

[@kimmichaud7741]

@@omobolanleshiwoku8944 that's kind thank you

[@khrisi9410]

Once you heal your heart you won't want him anymore.

[@wordsofbodhi777]

Beautiful Adrienne, are you the Adrienne from Greensboro that I met over 10 years ago? You just popped up on my youtube and looked so familiar! AMAZING, hope you have been blessed and well. Sending infinite gratitude, and can't wait to listen to your youtube insipiration!

[@jeanetteedwards3129]

I live in Greensboro rn! However I had to walk away for good! Everyday I feel more empowered but sad I wasted so much time on the wrong guy!

[@AC-Empress]

I literally wondered where’d been just the other day. I’m so happy to see you. 😊

[@Kat-zl8pz]

5 years and nowhere but it was toxic and he was a narcissist. I walked away, no contact. I wonder if ill even find someone.. scared now.. not really meeting anyone.. wish i can tell My Future

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you. Take some time to emotionally thaw out. You need to feel peace from within. Get my courses esp Femm for dating and ABCs so this never happens to you again! Https://everheartcoaching.com/programs

[@shanteligents]

What to do if he's seeing someone else? And he cheated on you with that person, and he says he's not happy. ALL of this while just having his baby....talk about heartbreak 😢😢 💔

[@weezeink1983]

You leave and go no contact. It's hard at first but it's not that bad being a single mom. Forget about him and focus on yourself.

[@Mila-uw5sz]

leave dear

[@jingrong7623]

I had a 3 years relationship with my ex, we were both loved each other, we talked about marriage but there was no action, and before the family meet up he panicked said he couldn’t see himself in a marriage even though he loves me said he will always love me, so I broke up with him set my boundaries no friendship. Now it’s been 30 days no contact, I’m wondering if he will ever come back to me.

[@claire0626]

Thank you so much for this video .. 9 year relationship no ring no talk of marriage he doesn’t want to live with me says he’s happy in his own place . I feel more and more upset an rejected and just don’t know what to do ?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You have nothing more to do but walk away. Get the ABCs program to help you... diamondgirl.me/abc

[@rolliecrafts255]

Leave my friend!!!!

[@Hollywoodmama21]

I let myself get into a situation I should not have. I don’t think this walking away will benefit me because you have to choose me and not her. But I know walking away will benefit me because I have to put myself first but it still really hurts. 16:55

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes! Walk away for YOU. Not him. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@duncanpatel472]

Sadly I think the red pill guys might be right after seeing this video. When women go towards the legal system immediately it doesn’t really sit well when the vast majority of marriages fail. Honest question here. Why would you want to set yourself up for a future like that? Now I’m not going to discredit everything you said. There are many valid points. Just feel like you’re attached to an outcome. Playing the walking away game should be done one way and one way only. That means you walk away and never reach out to the person you need to heal and so do they at that point.

[@sanelafilurija7371]

Not true. Walked away a few times and nobody ever came back

[@Terra_inthe406]

Walking away is for you to move on with your life.

[@faithing88]

Atleast you saved yourself wasted years

[@kathleenburke8183]

I walked away and he found another younger woman and married her 2 years later

[@shesnottheeere7132]

@@kathleenburke8183 how are you now dear?

[@googleuser-one]

If you have to put a demand or a gun to a man’s head to get married let him be that old lonely bachelor… and don’t take him back once he leaves to date others….so many other options out there…thank you for your advice!!!

[@hededcdn]

You sure about that?

[@tialynn1111]

Thank you Adrienne You are a God send ❤

[@savitriraghunanan7623]

You are so sweet and sincere 💕. Thanks for the expert advice 😊

[@lulu-ox5yr]

I know what you're talking about married 26 years and he wants me to leave house

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Join my group for support. Join Adrienne’s private ⭐️ Coaching Community⭐️ iHeartLoveAcademy 👉🏼diamondgirl.me/group

[@kathysutton8348]

Thks for doing a live YT. Love to hear you speak. Thank you!!!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are so welcome

[@sandrasegura4145]

I LOVE your content, tku! ❤

[@MeandGod14]

Wow god put this video for a reason ❤❤❤

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you. ❤️

[@KVG822]

He told me to find someone to marry and have kids and then when I said I can’t continue he started to get upset. I told him I need space. This is first time we had no contact for a few days. He is content and scared at the same time but it’s not progressing.

[@sadafsadaf1368]

Bravo 👏 👏 👏 you gave words to my emotions. Thanks

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thanks for listening. Love to you. Be sure to get my free scripting guide. diamondgirl.me/gift

[@leahpope8672]

I left my ex husband years ago and he tried to come back 7 years later...so yeah, this stuff works! I didn't want him back.😂

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you SO much for sharing! The GET HIM BACK WORKS but most often we do not want the man back: everheartcoaching.com/get-him-back/

[@isabelclapham8667]

You’re so wonderful! I love your energy 🌸❤️

[@VforVanity10]

17:50 is a Golden advise ❤

[@JohnSmith-ps7hf]

It doesn't matter how OLD you are. You are a strong & independent woman. You can wh0re around just like you are 20. You are on Fire until you die!

[@DebbiePare]

Ohhh My God! Your a Heart and Life saver!❤

[@Supsup7777]

Also... I feel like the guy I was dating was keeping me in his back pocket. He really wanted to hang onto me as a friend... he was having a difficult time with the conversation and trying to say but I want to still spend time with you... kayak.. mountain bike... I stopped him and wished him well. I unfriended him on Facebook. I cannot have a guy in my life who does not want me. I am 45 and he is 43. He should have it together by now. This guy did lose me for good.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Best to walk away if that feels right. Learn more about why walking away works 🚶🏻‍♀️diamondgirl.me/walk2

[@Supsup7777]

@@AdrienneEverheart yep I walked. He also had an avoidant attachment. I’m a therapist. I texted him it would be great to be in your arms and his response was “idk. I’m picking up my brother’s truck.” He didn’t want to let me go as a friend who he liked as more as a friend. I just won’t do that to myself. Ty for your videos!

[@paigeoverland7279]

used your deck today...and it answered my question right on time!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

So glad! Https://diamondgirl.me/cards

[@MsEbony-pl7bi]

Thank you❤ I just subscribed 😊

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Is it because I am of a different race??! My ex was a white Irish man (my last ex that is). *HE* was the one to leave me and he hasn't been back since. I was NEVER abusive to him and I made sure to try my best because that is what he also promised to do. He was such a liar.

[@dbedazzling1]

I walked away from my ex. It ended after 3.5 years because he lived in his ego only pleasing himself with his many options. A man will waste 20 years of your life if you don't wise up. I was not happy with how n needed so much more plus I loved myself more than him or anyone else. I'm happy but single, dated a few who wasn't right. Just vibe high n you'll find another high vibe person. 14:49

[@kenike007]

Why be married to a man who doesnt want yo really be yhat connected to you?... No matter how much you love him..if hes not taking the initive ...walk. A certificate only binds you on a materual level,not a heart level.

[@orealdenney]

Facts 💯

[@notallabouttarot5194]

This is what women can’t seem to understand now. They’re blinded by a man made marriage that will make a man stale if there’s no emotion there or passion for you.

[@miabailey2798]

This was a great video .. thanks

[@Supsup7777]

I just walked away. And here is the thing... even if he does come back why would I even trust that? He had his shot to make it official and didn't. It should not take me walking away to figure out what he had with me.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You know what is best - but ultimately he’d need to put a ring on it as they say. 🎁 www.everheartcoaching.com/freegift/

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

In the part where you said, leave the door cracked... well he's blocked me and has told me to move on when he broke up with me. ...This was a guy like I said I tried my best to please and be a good partner with, gave him a lot of hjs and we never slept with one another because he still lived with his parents and so did I, but still... there, I thought, was a lot of good/fun times... so I really don't get it..