Why we are not getting married in the Philippines

Ave and I explain why we are not getting married in the Philippines and also let you know where we will actually elope to.

[@yegg14]

what if ??? If your thinking of divorce before your married, why get married?

[@sandeepchavan7128]

Hey guys .. I got married in Philippines last year .. it's no prb .. we had a gud reption party with my wife family .. so guys enjoy ..

[@johnsimmons3055]

I attended the seminars,it didn't kill me bro,it wasnt that bad,most people just get worried because ,,,,,no divorce in the Philippines,and weddings can cost little or a lot,depends on how you plan it,and if I had the patience for it,its not that bad,you should never enter a marriage and worry about divorce,if that's a issue then maybe its not for you.

[@gemini5653]

Hmmm I totally disagree, no further comments....

[@scalecustomworkz7837]

Love you guys and miss ya !. To be HONEST I fell in love with Avi and then went and found my own AVI and got married on Luzon.

[@matthewhull2596]

Regardless of where you get married you still have to report the marriage back to the Philippines 🇵🇭

[@JOHNrandomlyVLOGS]

here in america you dont have to invite ppl to a traditional wedding, u can just go to a courthouse and sign some papers. doesn't take long either. no stress

[@andregodin3398]

If you want to elope and get married elsewhere that should be the only reason. I got married in the Philippines and disagree with all your reasons but that one. Didn't have to attend no seminar, cost less than getting married in my country, oh yes the stress of the preparations hmmmm. If you're already thinking of divorce before getting married. Don't worry about it. Even if you get married in the Philippines you can still get divorced. Just not in the Philippines. You need to go where divorce is legal, just the same as the marriage you're going to have. Only thing is that Ave will be allowed to remarry but you sir won't be allowed to remarry a Filipina. Well if you do, marry another one elsewhere, it still won't be recognized by the Philippines. But if you really want to save Ave any troubles, when you bale out, just don't get married. A lot simpler and better for her. Sorry for the long comment.

[@arturojsabina8234]

Lol I am 63 years old my filipina wife 58 we had to attend the seminar last november and also family planing lol, another thing you have to do is go to us consulate and get a document that you are divorce or widow and even you are new in the Philippines a document from cenomar. Good luck in your wedding. Arturo

[@ShanicornBeauty]

Even if we don't have divorce in the Philippines, you can divorce her since American law allow divorce.

[@frankdearing8393]

CORRECT! If american husband applies for divorce in the US and the divorce is granted in the US, the divorce will be recognized by Filipino Gov'T Guaranteed!!!!! Research PI divorce law, Dude! You're full of shit ! Wish I could meet and warn your filipina, because your are a VERY BAD CATCH! You need you ass whooped!

[@livethemoment5148]

I say Good for YOU!!! do things your way, the sensible way...not the way OTHER people expect or want you to do things...old customs can be very stupid and burdensome...and of course other people want to go somewhere to get free food and alcohol...they hate not getting that...lol

[@keithjetski3060]

Don't ruin love with marriage. Just enjoy love.

[@samjewellery3337]

one reason is correct and all others are lies.seems you don't have a plan to marry.learn how to live the marriage life is so important education.family planing is another great education.these are just few days of few hours usefull teachings.these 2 reasons are so important if you realy want to have a usefull family life.can't devorce is the only right reason.marry in ceshells is extremely expensive than philippines. marry pilippines in a luxury hotel is expensive.but a wedding in a home is just rice,3 pigs and vegetables.what you mean expensive ???.don't like to have stress for the night after the wedding party is also a lie.you allready sleeping together.there is no honeymoon for you again.sorry for to show you these few points.

[@romeoETmike]

So, you don't want to get married in the Philippines because you don't want to spend. I don't think getting married in the coast of Africa would be cheaper considering the fare and fancy accommodations. I suggest just don't get married and enjoy each other. That way if you are not compatible and found out that you can't live together, just go on separate ways. Easy way out.

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

Very informative. New topic huh. Re annulments, they are difficult and expensive because few really qualify. You are really just bribing your way. LOL You can always establish residency in another jurisdiction and get divorced there. But you raised a good point that the CENOMAR thing will stop another marriage.

[@88godsman]

Expensive?????? No way bro I spent like 3500 for my wedding venue and all. There is no way ya can found that in usa bro. Congrats and continue to make volgs

[@TropicShade]

I have to agree that weddings in the U.S. cost much more... unless of course you just do a simple civil wedding. But to travel to the Seychelles? $$$

[@NYJGreatness]

I knew the no divorce thing was going to be in there lol. I’m just surprised it was not the number one reason to be honest.

[@garrylafferty100]

If she coming to states on a spousal visa after marriage in Philippines it cost a lot less in long run than a 90 day fieance visa

[@hardmtnbiker]

We got married in PHL last December, it’s not an easy process I agree. You do have more paperwork and to be honest, you can pay off the seminar and never go. True it’s expensive, but it’s a wedding. No divorce, kinda the point but true the filipina is stuck but it’s not like she has a lot of choices for a second marriage. As for Clark, it’s growing fast and we like it there for a great lay over stay. If your want to start a business, I think it’s a great place to work and live. Personally I need to be closer to the ocean.

[@waynewilliams5344]

Why get married when you're already thinking about divorce? I never heard that one before.

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

Actually great that they can talk about it. It is a real consideration of staying out of the PI legal system.

[@will111466]

My wife and I went to class and it only takes a few hours and we had a big wedding in March of 2016. The process was simple and it gave my wife’s family an opportunity to attend her wedding. We didn’t need it but it was not that bad at all! This is our link on KZbin m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/aGfFpJ9oebONpNk

[@commenthero4635]

Hi, this is Dave. You arranged my tour in the Pallawan a couple years ago for my wife and I. We really had a good time. We are going back to PH next week and bringing my Dad with us, he has never been. He really wants to see old military base but I think he really just wants to see the girls. Is Clark close enough to the nightlife seen for my Dad and is there really anything worth seeing at Subic Bay? Are there any good beaches in that area to visit. Congrats on getting married.

[@expatatlarge5286]

Yes Clark is just 2 minutes to all the action and subic has some nice beaches and girls to chill out with and the old subic base has a new mall with everything you can imagine and don't forget to enjoy yourself a nice american steak at Texas Joe's!

[@lukasschneider]

Seychelles! Interesting... I hope you will give us all the practical details too! 😉

[@ForeignLifestylestory]

you guys have thought about this a lot.. most just run with there head in the air and get marred. its nice to see.. and your right. we never know.. but why mess her hole life up.. if you care. even if you were to die. its hard for her. and on the other point. whats it cost to fly to where your going and the costs of getting marred there. in south aferca.

[@garrylafferty100]

No Eric they have not though it out if they did they get married in Philippines it cheaper lol

[@garrylafferty100]

My philipina wonts to be married Philippines that were her family lives why would I say no her first marriage . As a U.s citizen I can divorce her from states she is allowed to remarry in Philippines . When I bring her to states on a spousal visa she can divorce me even if we were married in Philippines again she can remarry she has to report to PSA showing she was divorced under U.S law divorce decree . Requirements not that big of a deal it just takes time in Philippines There is a 10 day waiting period to get your license for marriage Getting married in Philippines cost less in general not more to depending on type of wedding .You can spend as much as you wont in ether country.

[@johnwest360]

Wow welcome back guys!!!

[@hdmusic7149]

Becuase divorce is not legal in Philippines that’s why.

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

OMG...don't you realize that just because you have to take a class it doesn't mean you have to do what they say. Geeish, take responsibility for what you allow into your brain. It's class, it's not personal. Not everyone is out to get you. The real question isn't where, it's why? What does marriage give you that you can't give to yourselves? Why bring a state into the relationship? I get it's just something people do and people tend to be herd animals, but marriage has become nothing but giving up control for no reason beyond maybe making some relatives happy.

[@ByronWatts]

Reason number three suggests you're not planning to succeed

[@ByronWatts]

Though I do understand what you're saying

[@NYJGreatness]

Yep lmao. Like he said, he has been married before.

[@jimdunlap2769]

Kids...Absolutely not ready for marriage..I was married in the Philippines..yes the classroom stuff was funny to me..but the guy teaching made it fun though..I could've taught the instructor...as for cost it was cheap dont know his budget..are wedding got very big..but was surprisingly cheap..compared to U.S. standards. I hope this doesn't sound like a hate thing..I hope the best for them. I like his channel. I will still follow their adventures...one last thing hope not to make them upset..but if Christ is not in the marriage it is doomed for failure..I don't care where they get married. With that being said where can I send wedding gift....lol

[@ludivicadargin1361]

Yes, you already speculate that your marraige wont work. You need to be positive guys. Now the cost, Im a filipino-american so I know how much it cost. If you want to make it simple snd only the two of you, that surely wont cost anything just few pesos to pay for the one who administers. Whether here or any country if you wznt to have lots of people to attend then it will cost you more .

[@bcssylf]

Nonsense, just being practical

[@sterlingmad7763]

Happy days...wish you both all the very best.

[@edwardaustin9046]

Reason number 3 good. Don't agree with the other 2 but it's not my life. Love you 2. Good luck and God bless

[@keithdowling54]

Great thinking on your part. I agree with your thinking (not that that matters!), Good luck to you both. And the Seychelles? That won't be too tough to take!! Looking forward to your next vide(s)

[@jdtisme9100]

As an American who recently married in the Philippines and have followed you all for a few years, all this but #3 is nonsense and wrong. It was VERY cheap and easy to marry there. HOWEVER, it is not super easy or cheap to marry there in a Catholic church if in my case being Baptist. We are similar age ( a little older I think at 43m and 39f) and situation as the 2 of you. She has a child also. We had a small wedding on the beach (with Baptist preacher and town mayor to make it legal) for very close family, friends, and sponsors. About 30 people and then a soooooooo nice reception for nearly 200 people in a great venue with amazing food and the hands down most awesome hostess on the planet for well under $3000 usd combined total for everything including unreal island honeymoon. It would have easily been $20k at least in the U.S. and no way as beautiful island as our honeymoon island was. The miscellaneous nickel and diming you to death they do there is annoying as hell though, I'll give you that... Another possibility is the difference in a crazy busy touristy place like there as apposed to smaller city/larger province where we married. I like you guys and usually love your vlogs but you'd have been better to skip this one or just say "we're not marrying here because we don't want to."...haha Huge congrats to you both on the proposal and upcoming wedding! 🍾🍻

[@seulfeat1]

It is completely personal, for some people a wedding is a celebration with families and friends which they want to do it all together. but some people like you guys just wanna enjoy the day alone which is cool too. But this video sucks coz of those silly points you guys come up with. Not worth sharing and good luck with the wedding.

[@nmos1]

Use Tindr bro

[@foolsleadtheworld578]

Congrats and best wishes from Denmark :-)

[@ForeignLifestylestory]

Need to realize..its not cheap in the ph..skin tax.. most over look it..

[@ludivicadargin1361]

I had been married in Philippines and got divorced in US . So reason no. 3 should not be in the list.

[@ForeignLifestylestory]

The US will let you divorce..if you married in the ph.. that's not a problem..but the ph will always say your marred..they will not recognize your divorce in the states.. I know this because I just been trying now for 2 years..there is no divorce in the ph..

[@MadFly10-4]

Those kind of seminar should be in every country we may see less dramas in a family in the future. You guys not even married and worrying about divorce? Thumb down for me, sorry.

[@markdavis2285]

Congrats guys. Best wishes. I haven't watched all of your videos, but I think you are a great couple. My Filipina gf and I are moving to Palawan this year so maybe we will run into you.

[@jasonowen8193]

lol do your research Seychelles is the Indian Ocean no were near Africa

[@matthewhull2596]

Your reasons for not getting married in Philippines are not practically smart as nothing wrong with the process of getting married in the Philippines for which appears marriage is not for both of you then.

[@Aileensjournal]

GOOD LUCK

[@wasatchm]

so are you saying running a venue for special events (weddings, college graduation, etc) might be a profitable business venture for an expat and his filipina partner?

[@goodguy4life889]

We eloped in USA after fiance Visa.... simple Yrs. Ago..

[@garrylafferty100]

I bet you had adjustment of status in USA with a spousal visa it all done in Philippines 2yr green card her passport is changed to her married name before she comes to U.S her social security card will be in her new married . To change her passport to her married name in states that fee 435$ I told today. It can be a problem if her passport dont have her married name to vist Philippines however I was told if you have a certified copy of marriage license your ok.

[@marshallsislandadventures798]

Really Proud for you man.

[@bobs8670]

What’s the cost to live in the Philippines ?

[@Kotiara123]

Dude, are you loaded? A destination wedding in the Seyshells?

[@TropicShade]

I can't see how that would be any cheaper than getting married in the Philippines. Nope.

[@okbilly1]

do you have any vlogs, on for someone coming to the Philippines for the 1st time, considering davao & cebu city, have you been there?

[@TropicShade]

Do a KZbin search.

[@edwardaustin9046]

Oh, and that's why I got married 1 January....free day off and fire works 😂

[@ivyclairesargado355]

like that😁😁😁

[@dougriley3270]

I met a girl in davao l City. we had trouble trusting a lawyer to get an annulment 6 years ago so things didn't work out between us how tough is it to get annulment is it 100% getting it or is it really tough to get it in Philippines

[@philippinesgoodlife]

My partner just got her annulment and also our friends, it just takes time and money. In our case 2 years and ₱200k. I don't know anyone that has gone through the legal process and not got an annulment.

[@harryinhuahin1272]

How inane can KZbin vlogs get...?

[@sheencurry8946]

*Do filipina's like black guys🤔💭🤷🏿‍♂️*

[@dezrenovations9142]

They love us! Don't let the white guys tell you different. I have been there every year for the last 5 years and DAYIUM! enough said

[@filipinablufamily9442]

good video ..God bless

[@filipinablufamily9442]

i understand but your wrong the class cost us 500php and took ten mins and it's what you make it . and you are wrong a foreigner can file from his country ...

[@filipinablufamily9442]

well thats ok then but am not going to tell the ones that had filed while in the usa and tell them that they did not when i have meet them and more then one,and said that is what they did .. but thank you

[@filipinablufamily9442]

and yes the class cost 500php but like i said if you want the class that day it's 800php

[@filipinablufamily9442]

now me personally i believe you need to do it here , but one thing about the Philippines it's not what you know it's who you know lol

[@garrylafferty100]

I been told you can go to counsel class the day yo apply for marriage license often in same building

[@filipinablufamily9442]

@@garrylafferty100 ya they call i think an emergency meeting and that was 800php was only just a few min long