WHY WE DON’T SHARE PARK UPS. Your juicy questions answered - Van Life Q and A.

[@campervibe]

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[@LifeinLancashire]

I totally agree that you shouldn't share your park ups. Your safety is paramount and other van lifers ought to do their own research into where they can or can't park up. I've previously looked at the clothing company as I'd like to purchase some of their clothing. Unfortunately, they limit the range of sizes that they offer for females.......would be great if you relayed that fact back to them, thanks. Have a great Christmas 🎄

[@campervibe]

Yeah we will 👍

[@PB_657]

Currently in Spain and it's almost comical when I navigate to a spot on Park4Night and it's rammed full of campers. Yet half a mile down the road there'll be a equally or better place with nobody there!

[@weekend_wanderers]

Love the video! Seems a shame that some of us women still have to explain why we dont want children 😔

[@orla99913]

And it's nobody else's business anyway. I don't think it's selfish to want your own time. I think it's more selfish to breed child after child.

[@joycebryson3972]

Guys you are a breath of fresh air for me ,I'm disabled can not do what you do ,but you sharing your vlogs and places that you go is like me travelling through your eyes ,.I really hope you enjoyed Scotland

[@davedave6404]

Never wanted it to end girls, a smile on my face all the way through. Integrity and Honesty and Love shining through. For us chaps who don't know about monthly cycles, can you explain which snacks go with which emotion please. I am just miserable all the time except when watching you two.

[@diannedogwalker8935]

That might be sometimes more sweet treats required and sometimes more salty 🙂

[@campervibe]

😂😂 chocolate is definitely for near the time for me

[@ianunwin]

my response to the wife when she bit my head of was always would you like some chocolate dear

[@BusyElf]

Dave, Oh Dave. go get a bar of Galaxy, and some Cappochinos.

[@contactsuzi7096]

Louise - Yes, you are a fast talker, woodpecker fast, and you never stumble (maybe I just have slow ears), but I found a way to not miss a word...I turn on subtitles!!! .....and I'm a native English speaker...It works great. There's nothing wrong with devoting your lives to exploration rather than hearth and home....men have been doing it forever. It's not selfish at all to want to meet and understand people from everywhere and explore the environments where they live, with open minds and enthusiasm....it's why your channel is the best on KZbin. Keep it up ladies. xo Suzi

[@campervibe]

We love exploring Lou the most of course 😂

[@debh4190]

Loved this one! Especially the look of SHEER PANIC on Emily's face over the "one snack for the rest of your life" question! And the banter. And the hugs. And the expertise. Thanks!

[@campervibe]

One snack forever is scary 😂

[@fearldanner5842]

Don't know if you'll see this, but I just watched again WHY WE DON’T SHARE PARK UPS from a year ago. It would be interesting to see how you feel about the hopes and dreams have changed from what you thought they'd be especially with buying a house and AJ's health.

[@obisescapades]

Totally agree 100% with not sharing park ups as safety comes first.

[@MotorhomeMums]

I giggled throughout this video. You are so right about being comfortable in your own skin. I think I was 50 before I felt it was ok to be me. Vanlife rocks! Even if we only found it after retirement.

[@campervibe]

Oh yeah so got to be comfortable

[@ksk6101]

Thank you for everything that you share. Your vids are so interesting and refreshing. You 2 are one of my favorites bc you aren't doing unnecessary skin shots, you really and truly love your dog and can and not just to use them for vids, you to are an amazing loving couple yet individuals. And you're not continuously begging or promoting stuff. You should both should be so very proud of all that you have created.

[@campervibe]

Thank you that’s really lovely of you to say

[@Wallie-ragnwall]

I just like you two alot and I'm going to be there when you go live😄❄️⛄️👍.

[@karlospappy8908]

Don't blame you for not sharing park ups, we never plan and just have a rough idea which country we are going too. Lou is definitely a Lion Bar. Enjoy the break. Cheers K.

[@Ride3ToLive]

Well said. Travelled a bit myself in and out of the RAF and don’t believe a word of what appears in the U.K. media (don’t let the truth get in the way of a good story). Interesting video again.

[@tammymoodie684]

Your definitely not selfish to not want children! You do what you want for you! There are so many people having children for money, or more for family or other people. Good on you xxxx

[@richarddoonrod6491]

Somebody once said " stick's and stones can break my bones but words don't bother me" love you both. 🥰

[@dianemorris6904]

Hi Girls, loved this video. Have a message from the truck driving man of the house. What is he supposed to do if you have a break? He goes through withdrawal if he has to wait more than a couple of days for new content. To stop this, he watches old videos. From me, thank you for your videos and sharing your lives with us. We have adopted you into our family and are very pleased that David from Cruising the Cut introduced us to your channel. You are very correct in your stand on not having children. I worked for nearly 40 years in the Australian public service dealing with welfare and health and the number of children and young adults who have suffered by being born for all the wrong reasons and none of the right reasons. Just because your are women does not mean that you want to or have to breed. Very proud of you. Lastly for 2022, God bless you both, AJ and Summer and your families in 2023. May you have health and happiness and ongoing content for us to watch. Regards, Diane and Denis

[@mickcrisp2854]

Me and my wife decided we never wanted children before we got married. Once we were given a right rollicking from a couple who we worked with asking why on earth did we get married if we didn’t want children. Some people eh?! Loving your vlogs. Keep going please. Out of all of the KZbinr I follow, yours is the one I look forward to the most. PS, I found you from Cruising the Cut

[@campervibe]

Yeah that’s crazy

[@AnneRogersPhoto]

I was once told that because I didn't want kids I shouldn't date either! And one ex-boyfriend's mum told me she didn't understand any woman who didn't want children.

[@Mygardencraftcabin]

I have two, now adult children that I love so much. It’s rewarding, but very hard and restricting. I completely understand why some chose not to have them.

[@dawnsmith4275]

Once again, going back a couple of months to video I haven't seen, and laughing most of the way through it!! As a parent of two young adults, I get the attraction of not having children😂😂😂 If I had it to do over again, I'd have them again (and maybe do a better job of raising them!!). Still, there are certainly benefits to just living life as a couple - especially when it comes to travel. Thank you for being honest about your actual van. I've watched tons of vanlife videos and everyone talks about the build but no one really talks about the vehicle. As someone who doesn't own one yet, the vehicle is my biggest concern. What good is a beautiful build on a crappy vehicle? I 100% respect your choice not to share park-ups - it only makes sense for your safety and the preservation of the spaces; I don't know why people wouldn't understand that - find your own spot people😆 Thanks for your brilliant answers to questions which may or may not be anyone's business! 🤩🤩🤩❤❤❤ Stay safe and adventurous🚐🌍🚐

[@marivist9771]

And Norway love you as well. Welcome back.

[@campervibe]

😀😀

[@TeeMac68]

Omg, I know its a second comment but you guys are such a wonderful example of how a healthy, loving relationship should be. So glad you share your lives on KZbin. OK, nuff soppy shizzle! 😇

[@campervibe]

Aw thank you

[@4potslite169]

I noticed Emily’s pants about a month ago (I’m a fairly recent subscriber) and am now the proud owner of my own! Loving them to bits…now I want another and another and another…. One of the questions that I get all the time and that raises my hackles, is the one that goes “Why don’t you have kids? You’d be a great mom. I can’t believe that you never wanted children. Don’t you regret it?” No. I don’t. Never wanted kids, not a chance in hell, and never ever regretted that choice. It’s not selfish. It’s knowing who you are and what’s important to you. I think it’s quite rude and arrogant to imply that if someone doesn’t want a kid, then they’re not normal or somehow lacking as a human being. And now that I’ve vented thanks to you both for putting out such wonderful content and for spreading humor, joy, and love! You’re my heroes and my inspiration. Love to you both!

[@BusyElf]

Re the last question and it's answer, I can honestly say that, after 41 years of marriage, compromise and heated/reasoned discussions are paramount to a happy life. My wife rules the house, I rule the car, caravan and the garage. Sorted ! That took us a long time to work out, but we are all different, so go at your own pace with that one, you'll get there. That goes out to everyone, of course. Yeah so all your answers are sound and good judgement. Being such well travelled folks as yourselves, all your reasonings are based on your expeiences, and you have loads of that to share. Keep it up girls! I'm inspired by your enthusiasm and sense of adventure. I too was a backpacker in my youth but only in the UK. However, Derbyshire in Autumn and North Yorkshire in Winter can be as harsh as any other place. I avoided Summer camping as like you say, the place just gets full of tourists. Being female shouldn't be any different to being male as far as vanlife is concerned, Lou looks a pretty strong gal, and Emmy looks a strongly pretty gal. what more can I say ? lol I say, Sod the ones who don't agree.!

[@campervibe]

Thank you and yeah sometimes it does take a bit of time to work out but you get there in the end 😀

[@CampMore99]

I'm 61 and never had kids. It was my decision and it has served me well. I've lived my life on my terms and have many adventures. Thanks for showing that life can be totally awesome as adults who have decided this way.

[@anthonymauger9388]

Total agree park up s are yours , otherwise you have convoy ! Too many are coping each other ! Kids one of you is a big kid ! 😄

[@annwagner5779]

You are very sweet to take on a bunch of the questions that aren’t really anybody else’s business. After a while, I guess people start to feel like they really know you. All I can say is I enjoy virtually spending time with you and Summer and AJ. Have a great break!

[@BelsGels]

when you come to Australia be sure to check out the Yorke Peninsula in South Australia. Some of the most beautful beaches down the southern end, known as The Bottom End, also Innes National Park..... truly breathtaking.

[@Rennie6666]

I am Shocked you have to answer any of theses questions. Your Grown Adults its your life do as you please, as long as you don't Hurt or Murder anyone, its no bodies business what you do or how you do it. Its great you share what you do and its funny and makes me laugh. Happy life Ladies.

[@sunseeker8457]

Nice comments about Sweden!!! Has a Brit. I moved here in 96. And yes it's very laid back here. It's rare to hear a car using its horn. And people in general obey the road laws. And we even don't see that many police on the roads for weeks and weeks. I just got my first van a couple of weeks ago and are converting it now.

[@susankershaw6141]

Love the cavin

[@beninchina]

Do what is best for you guys and stay safe!

[@debrandw246]

I can't believe people actually get upset that you don't share parkups. Traveling is fun and a journey. Why would someone want to copy you? That takes the fun away. Plus it's your life and business. You are allowed privacy. Love you both to bits. You are both so real. Amazing channel. You are the best. Enjoy. ❤️

[@dennisharvey4499]

Great to hear you saying you don't want children. The slogan 'child free by choice' comes to mind.

[@pictureTHIS1973]

Thank you, for this very genuine, humorous and sympathic video! 🙏🏻

[@Talbot_travels]

Great video. Never apologise for not wanting kids! Lots of woman and men are choosing not to. Live the life you want, not the one people expect of you X PS I just knew crisps would be the last snack on earth. Mine too! X

[@patbaker9581]

A great Q&A session. Made me laugh quite a few times! Really looking forward to the live on the 28th and your next trips.. have a great rest together (you both deserve it) and a fantastic Christmas. Love to you both and sending cuddles to AJ and Summer xx 🐾❤️🐾 🎄 🎁 🎅 🎄

[@Joe-lb8qn]

There was a TV fishing program years ago that never revealed the location of the fishing spots for the second reason you mentioned (and this was well before the internet), even a miniscule proportion of viewers going there would swamp the place and destroy the peace and solitude that it was often chosen for.If you said exactly where you were / had been you'd in effect be (inadvertently) leaving carnage behind you as hundreds of vand and cars and sightseers turned up (and than no doubt criticised you for picking such busy places)

[@gdreading9088]

Good vlogs girls. No do not share park ups. Good Q & A .

[@susankershaw6141]

Merry Christmas to my two favorite KZbin. Have a great time off . Enjoy your Christmas. Looking forward to your next video xxx

[@MA-ky2ur]

Love your channel and your interaction. When you said you were selfish, that you don't want to have children. You are not selfish. Children are a choice that you make if you want. Live your life the way you both want to. We all only have one life to live. Have a great year. Saying HI from Northern California

[@junebeveridge2840]

You will love Ireland , very similar to Scotland, equal amounts of rain 😂😂 Cork , Ring of Kerry , Galway , Connemara and Cliffs of Mohar are very beautiful x

[@susanhertel2578]

Glad David (Cruising the Cut) suggested your vlogs. I enjoy every one of them and the quality, artistry and music is as he described. Merry Christmas from Michigan!

[@wtlloyd6039]

Yep, Cruising the Cut mention is how I found this channel and I just think you are two lovely people, so glad I followed his recommendation! Just a bit gobsmacked about the Cadbury's Fruit and Nut/Lay's BBQ bit, those are mine!

[@campervibe]

😂😂 thanks both of you. I just wish we could get bbq lays over here in the UK, they are so expensive to order them online

[@olavsantiago]

@@campervibe bbq lays = bbq walkers, both are the same company, owned by Pepsi.

[@michaelspurling4376]

I'm one of those viewers who was referred by David Johns and I am thankful to him for the great advice.

[@campervibe]

😀😀

[@amydickerson4348]

Like your comment on ignoring what others think of you. I had a situation today where someone else was rude towards me. As far as I am concerned I now know not to have anything to do with him. I have lived on my Narrowboat for 15 years. Absolutely love it. I also have a van & caravan so can travel away from the canals as & when I want. My cat & dog travel with me. Cat has adapted to all three homes and wanders freely wherever we go. Love your vlogs. You should hire a boat and see how you get on with it.

[@campervibe]

Oh yeah no time for rudeness

[@deborahgood9197]

Very glad we watched Liam and Janine first because you cheered us up and made us smile 😊

[@campervibe]

Glad we could 😀😀

[@carolloewen5822]

Absolutely love you two! Love the banter back and forth. My wife and I are 71 and live in San Diego CA with our 2 Chihuahuas. I binge KZbin on Sundays. Thanks for the great videos

[@campervibe]

😀😀😀

[@only-vans]

never share parks ups, more importantly ( in UK ) , never share them on park4night. Local authorities use park4night to close those park ups with either head height barriers or no over night parking signs. . ALL motorway services have showers because .....Truckers. . Snacks : BUENOS . Suspension: you need a Mercedes van ( titter, runs off thataway ------------> ) . this vid made me smile a lot. looking forward to the next one. Merry Krimbo girls.

[@bitzclipsmatt214]

You Guys are amazing. Its as simple as that. Your Vlogs are just a pleasure to watch😉

[@clarerobbins37]

You two compliment each other beautifully. Love your channel 🥰

[@princess1king2]

I personally don't find it odd that two loving ladies together as a couple don't want children, what I find beyond odd is people whom have children & don't care for them, have them taken off of them & put into care & far worse. Well done you for being honest with yourselves & not just having kids to please others cos society says women should have them. Xx

[@campervibe]

Yeah that’s very true

[@charlottepockett960]

This! Plus odd that anyone else has an opinion on whether someone else has children or not 🤷‍♀️ Also, it's not selfish to not have children- don't put yourself down just for not wanting kids :)

[@rayne7340]

Get a dehumidifier to help dry your clothes when hooked to shore power. Works for me. Takes up room though.

[@44buddhist]

Ladies....you are pros, and I mean that in the nicest possible way!!! Brilliant Q&A, and I don't agree when you say your content is entry-level, as everything you do is so much fun, and informative, with loads of quality filming and editing. I'm a full-time single woman and I don't share park ups for the same reasons, especially those that are local to family and friends. Enjoy your break and have a cracking Christmas 🎉🎄🍫🍫🍫🍫

[@campervibe]

Thank you Julie that’s super kind of you to say

[@mpjkea2000]

Hi to you both, will try to watch you live on the 28th December, that's the day I'll be 70 years old, I started life in 1952, not sure where the middle 50 years went .? We have sold up and fulltime now. Been motorhoming for many years, and love the life. Keep up your lovely fresh ways.

[@philmowbray3716]

Yes to a canal boat & yes it was David from Cruising the Cut that suggested your Vlogs which we enjoy very much

[@christinemarchant4678]

I totally agree don’t share park ups stay safe x

[@isobelchapman9548]

My face is aching from smiling so much….you two are just great…thank you so much. xx

[@quakkapoowa453]

Buy clothes as you need them, just have a basic kit then visit markets or 2ndhand/marketplace for extras you need

[@bigtrev998]

Totally agree. Safety first.

[@mikeboone4425]

Priority ONE stay safe young ladies. Happy Trails

[@thebuffmeister89]

I am totally the same about mint chocolate. But I like each without the other a LOT. I agree that you shouldn’t share your parkups if you don’t want to. Your reasoning makes sense.

[@lorrainemadden869]

You two can do whatever you want to and others can bugger off if they don't like it. It would be a dream though, if you would come to the US, namely Ohio! Love your humor so much!

[@heleenvanderrande2260]

Love your vibe, you're funny and 'real' which is very nice to look at. Also, not having children is not selfish. ❤

[@vampitwine]

great Q&A 👍 and bloody good advice that "dont give a shit what ppl think of you"!! i do live by it, have for many years now.

[@wingnut1690]

Please don’t ever change who you are your personalities are brilliant and roll on January can’t wait to see your adventures.have you been to the Black Forest it’s supposed to be really stunning and campervan friendly

[@campervibe]

We won’t and no we have not

[@LapsangTe]

The next time you go to Sweden you should visit the west coast. The nature and landscape is quite different from that of the east coast and I can recommend a boat trip in the Gothenburg archipelago.

[@sallydingle321]

Definitely a Galaxy for Louise...or a Dime bar 😉😁. You guys are fab and your subscriber number proves it...along with the amount of views...you are simply great to watch....quality 👌✊🙏. Merry Christmas to you both, Summer and AJ and all the very best for 2023 😁👍💝💝💝🎄🎅🐾🎉😘

[@ptpt354]

Lou your a Crunchy bar lol we started watching you both during lockdown, you kept us sain & now the major highlight of our week, please keep up your great work xxx

[@campervibe]

😂 yeah she is

[@spacemonkey200]

I agree! Crunchy Bar! Quite long and very sweet in the middle! ❤️

[@jgeschwindt1]

“I’m a terrible passenger” I feel seen! I always have to drive as well. Love you both!

[@NestOvVipers]

Sports wear merchandise and hats 🧢 merch I think should be a must 😊 And when it comes to changing Van you should raffle off the van you have that will make you enough to have an amazing brand new van, with all mod cons :)

[@jacquelinebell9186]

Much like everyone else’s comments, you two are the business! Really funny and entertaining but more importantly, true and honest. ❤️ your vlogs are of the highest calibre. I also found myself either smiling or chuckling throughout the vid 😂

[@campervibe]

Thanks 😀

[@chrisbmindful9890]

Resond debates...classic. Thanks for the brilliant videos, the scenery has been gorgeous

[@emmamorgan7171]

Sat here with huge grin on my face listening to you both! Love your honesty and the genuine love you have for each other. Thanks and Merry Christmas to you both. 😀

[@campervibe]

😀😀😀

[@captaindave47]

You are a great couple and this was a fun video.

[@steverammerrhodes978]

I really enjoy watching your vids even though there not 24-7 but they still embrace all that is van life 🤗 keep up the fantastic work xx

[@nicholathomas4168]

Always love how natural and honest your videos are.

[@PixiesChannel12345]

Canal boat hey, That should be fun lol I got the Air2s that drone is just out of this world and Lou would love it.

[@anniecrowbar9358]

So enjoyed this video! Lou you put so much work into making these videos fun and Emily you always make me laugh!

[@k9nick]

Good to see you. Upbeat and positive.

[@efortunywhitton]

You ladies are the best; you really had me LOL'ing at the end with the musings on who's the boss and who's laid-back 😂 You're an amazing team! xx

[@susanmusgrave7885]

Loved this video, so many basics about vanlife all true & told with such a lot of humour. Emily looks so well after her holiday! Enjoy your break, looking forward to seeing you both in 2023! Sue & 🐶 🐶

[@craigorford9932]

Ayy up you too,yes your safety comes first Emily glad to see you back. You could tell Lou was pining for you to come back lol.😂😂hope you 2 and pets have a great Christmas and a great new year

[@garynoble4320]

If ever you get down to the Rhone Loire..... There's a free parkup with water and grey water disposal post code "69610" The village is "St Genis L'Argentière".... Oh and the walks and scenery is just lovely

[@AmandaJayne46]

Epic as always ladies. We’re still having our Vegan Sunday Roasts. We just love it, it’s awesome. Just please 🙏 stay safe & healthy 💋 💋

[@MFSArchive]

Being a youtube creator isn't easy. Especially the part of finding new ideas and not getting burned out. The community side is amazing and learning about how youtube works is a lot of fun. Thank you for these amazing videos, everyone can tell how much effort goes in to them. 😄

[@jaminavan4061]

A shower cubicle would help dry your wet gear, especially with a heater vent blowing into the space. Next van maybe? Refreshing honesty in your vlogs, keep it up. I’ve never wanted children either, I don’t think its being selfish Emily. Can you actually get lays crisps in the UK?

[@campervibe]

No you can’t, I managed to buy a couple of packs over in Mexico 🥳🥳

[@fionadavis23]

Enjoy a fabulous Christmas break and New Year❤🎁😘

[@umbumplorry]

You girls always leave me smiling, ta, Louise, definitely a 'Yorkie Bar'. X.

[@tonytrumble]

You can never ever be too safe! Super good idea to keep your moves to yourself. Your safety is #1 priority and there are unfortunately unsavory people in this world and you have to be as safe as possible. As for having children, ladies your animals are your children. God Bless and be safe.

[@lindzhoward7752]

Excellent video, from the best 'vanpers' on KZbin ! Love the fact that you don't disclose your park ups, it's ruining it for everyone these days. Best wishes for all your adventures.💖

[@campervibe]

😀😀

[@Lanipax]

You guys should not have to explain your life choices! Also there is sooooo much more to life than just having kids 😂 Keep being you much love to both ❤

[@maryoregan6948]

Hi Emily & Lou, great Q&A, great to hear Ireland on the cards for you, we are on the Wild Atlantic Way down here in the south in West Cork you will love it... That Lou sure is a like Malt -TEESER 🤣🤣🤗

[@leetaylor5348]

Hey girl's , your both smooth !! , lou for what you do ...... & em , well for just being em ... nothing more to say ..

[@stephenbland7461]

Totally agree re park ups. I never share either. As the eagles put it, call some place paradise, kiss it goodbye. It’s a bit like your favourite beaches or dog walks as well…..never share.

[@222dyan]

Thank you so much gals. You two are so sweet and so down to earth. Thanks for the update and answering all the questions. Nice to see two women in the world living their dreams. I'm another woman that's never been interested in children of my own, so you are not alone. I love flying solo in the world. Tried those chocolate mint matchsticks, I think you mentioned them in one of your videos, I was curious and ordered a pack from the UK. It took a while to get here, but I really enjoyed them. One positive of KZbin and social media is getting to connect with kindred souls from around the world. Merry Christmas to you both from the mountains of North Carolina in the USA! Enjoy the holiday season. Happy trails. 😊❄️☮️💜🎶🏳️‍🌈🌎

[@campervibe]

Thank you and oh no not the mint ones, you need the choc orange ones, they are nice or they do caramel ones as well 😀

[@222dyan]

@@campervibe the caramel one sound good I'll order them next!😀👍

[@ColinOBear]

Oh that was fun! Like others commenting below I was grinning all the way through. Such fun getting to share a bit of your lives and I can't wait to see where 2023 brings you. One downside to 'Canal Life' would be that you don't get to just go somewhere else if the mood takes you and there is only so many canals and rivers you can move along. I suspect boredom would set in. Have a great Xmas and see you next year! 😍

[@hansdijkstra5814]

For what it's worth: This was the FIRST Q&A of this length I ever finished. 👍 The odds are totally against it, but I would sooo like to cook a meal for you in my van if we would run in to each other next year. Planning to do a paragliding orientated trip trough UK in 2023 😁 O, and have a few drinks 😉

[@bradkirbey1560]

Great video Definitely understand your safety concerns on the road. You two are so fun and enjoy your adventures. One thing I haven't asked is why don't you put some of your stills up on the channel Louise? Would love to see the wildlife pics!

[@campervibe]

Sometimes she does 😀

[@FreeBirdUKVanLife]

Good point on the park ups, safety first. X

[@olepammy5830]

Totally agree that your safety is paramount. You must take care of yourselves. Love your vlogs, I am stuck in my life as a teacher, my choice as I am fufilling my life vocation, but thank you for allowing me to live the adventure through your travels. Merry Christmas ladies 🎄

[@Callummacleod-bm3ps]

As for merch van stickers for the community would be a great start 🤞

[@campervibe]

We have stickers available, £5 for two ordered via PayPal [e-mail] 😀