Why Women Lie About Being a ''Perfect'' 10

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Lynn Everly

Lynn Everly

Күн бұрын

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@sudo2998
@sudo2998 25 күн бұрын
A truly '10' woman will rate herself '8' at most, because it's humility that takes you to '10'.
@todesque
@todesque 12 күн бұрын
That’s a sweet comment but it’s not entirely true. Women know exactly where they stand in the pecking order. That said, even the most beautiful woman will be self-critical. And, yes, a little humility goes a long way. When it comes to relationships, most men would prefer a down-to-earth 8 than a conceited 10.
@adid.5585
@adid.5585 4 ай бұрын
But what’s the problem? They are indeed all 10… on a scale from 0 to 100.
@Edwin--
@Edwin-- 3 ай бұрын
These women display the Miss Peggy logic: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye". Find us beautiful, we'll beat it in you. We all have eyes, and we know better.
@adid.5585
@adid.5585 3 ай бұрын
@@Edwin-- Wow, bro! That’s deep! They didn’t use to be like that 30-40 years ago and it makes us wonder: How did it get to this?
@AvroBellow
@AvroBellow Ай бұрын
I LOL'ed.
@svr5423
@svr5423 Ай бұрын
10 out of 10 in body mass
@Professor-Dating
@Professor-Dating 24 күн бұрын
😂😂 That was a nice one.
@thisisreallyverysilly
@thisisreallyverysilly Ай бұрын
I find it kinda sad and a little funny that the "6.7" was easily the prettiest woman there.
@josephdillon9698
@josephdillon9698 13 күн бұрын
It’s pretty common it’s a statement in itself it says she has the confidence to say a number.
@psychohist
@psychohist 10 күн бұрын
It was hilarious. The best looking woman rates herself a 6.7. The other attractive woman, even before Miss 6.7 rates herself, is watching her suspiciously the whole time. The remaining three all rate themselves 10s.
@michaelbigelow3255
@michaelbigelow3255 4 күн бұрын
That means she has some courage and integrity. The others are pure 💩💩💩
@mustangmikep51
@mustangmikep51 Ай бұрын
You are AMAZING Lynn....You GET IT your a logical and intelligent human being a true rarity in the todays modern "feminist" world
@mustangmikep51
@mustangmikep51 21 күн бұрын
@@mvpfocus thank you auto correct
@DeusaRem
@DeusaRem 7 күн бұрын
​@@mvpfocusnot if english is not his/her first language, chill!
@michaelsantangelo6192
@michaelsantangelo6192 3 ай бұрын
then there's how women rate each other: when everyone is watching, everybody's a queen, everybody's a goddess, everybody's a perfect 10, you go girl! but behind each other's backs, it's who has a flat chest, who has a fat ass, who's a slut, etc.
@Dimens1oner
@Dimens1oner 8 күн бұрын
its biggest idiocy to call out every woman a ten but then saying most men are 3 :D
@evantonsingfan7433
@evantonsingfan7433 Ай бұрын
You are so mature for your age. Thanks for your thoughts!
@toddhumphries1371
@toddhumphries1371 8 күн бұрын
I'm a man in my 60s, this just reaffirms what I've always known, women are from another planet. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, in my opinion only 1 in that group approaches a 10 & 1 other is an 8, the rest I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.
@DamaxThomas
@DamaxThomas 3 ай бұрын
It's nice to have down-to-earth videos. And it's never easy to have a different opinion nowadays
@redlt194
@redlt194 2 ай бұрын
Social media and simps are terrible.
@DeusaRem
@DeusaRem 7 күн бұрын
As a man I must say, yeah!
@mrbiff17
@mrbiff17 4 ай бұрын
The English are too polite to be honest. The Dutch are too honest to be polite. Right?
@B0K1T0
@B0K1T0 2 ай бұрын
No, "far right" is the new buzz word
@nigelscales2319
@nigelscales2319 2 ай бұрын
Your English is 'Perfect'. It is just that many English people feel it is normal and acceptable to be rude and vulgar.
@michaelboulware1240
@michaelboulware1240 Ай бұрын
The English I've met have always been rather blunt and direct like Russians
@cedricdellafaille1361
@cedricdellafaille1361 Ай бұрын
Not really. They are humble they say they are an 8 but a guy who would be a 6 normally is considered a 4 in their eyes. They use the same game as the american girls, just a slightly different metric
@AvroBellow
@AvroBellow Ай бұрын
@@cedricdellafaille1361 I don't consider referring to oneself as an "8" to be humble. LOL
@StrumVogel
@StrumVogel 3 ай бұрын
As someone who lived in the U.S for a very long time, I’ve seen the decline of social norms stemming from toxic feminism. Women here thinks they’re too good for the average blue collar men. Which is why I am leaving this place for Scandinavia. Where the 10’s are really 10’s, and not a self proclaimed rating.
@abrin5508
@abrin5508 4 күн бұрын
Lived in Scandinavia for a few years. Its not that their 10 is better than another countries 10. But there seems to be a huge amount of 10's and very few sub 6's.
@jeffreygonzales8071
@jeffreygonzales8071 Ай бұрын
If every woman thinks she’s a 10, that just means she is average. I suppose we have to go to 20 for a rating now.
@musicisfree91
@musicisfree91 14 күн бұрын
I rate women on a simple binary scale, 1 or 0. A 1 being datable, 0 is not.
@jeffreygonzales8071
@jeffreygonzales8071 14 күн бұрын
@@musicisfree91 Well, I do like simplicity.
@zxxDarkLightxxz
@zxxDarkLightxxz 3 ай бұрын
This channel is a 10! 😄☺ Subscribed. Hope for your sake that the channel gets big.
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! 😊
@DeusaRem
@DeusaRem 7 күн бұрын
Absolute 10!
@And-lj5gb
@And-lj5gb 4 ай бұрын
I'm from Poland and in our culture there's always been this expectation to always tell women that they're good looking, which was always annoying the hell out of me, starting from my childhood, because there was this straight on pressure to lie to make women feel better and I don't mind keeping it to myself that I don't like something about someone else's appearance but if I'm the one receiving a direct question from someone else with a very clear expectation of what I'm supposed to say, that's too much for me, I hate this kind of dishonesty. At the same time, it's perfectly common to imply that men are ugly both on individual and collective level. We even have this expression "the beautiful sex/gender" about women that's been used commonly as a synonym for word "women" in media etc. and for example my mom once told me "if a man is just slightly better looking than a pig, he can already be called handsome". There's also this commonly repeated myth that here in Poland we have the most beautiful women in the world (which doesn't align with the data of how foreigners actually rate women from different countries- I've never seen Poland on top of these rankings) but there are no equivalent myths about the inherent superiorty of Polish men over men from other nations. And I get it that culturally it's probably a bigger insult for a woman than a man to be called ugly as men have more ways or "redeeming" their physical ugliness to gain high status otherwise, but as a young boy I often felt so undervalued and worthless compared to girls and women, because, among other things, there was this cultural pressure to give them these unearned compliments that boys or men never received. This contribued to making me resentful and asocial because I felt like girls and women were unjustly preferred over boys and men in many situations, so why contribute to a society that doesn't value me? And then, when I was a bit older, I realised that if we correct for our sexual and cultural biases, there's probably nothing that makes women universally better looking than men. For example I noticed how the skin on my forearms and my legs looks so much nicer and healthier than that of the vast majority of women I see on the street and pretty much every woman out there has something about their bodies that's much uglier than the equivalent on my body and I'm not even that healthy and good looking myself as compared to other men.
@userunknown9655
@userunknown9655 3 ай бұрын
From a British man's perspective and has met and known many Polish women, they're far more deserving of praise and compliments compared to their British counterparts. Polish women are objectively more beautiful simply because their efforts are minimal. Healthy diet/active lifestyle and minimal make up, that's it! I believe British women would be far more naturally prettier if they followed this example and stop deluding themselves.
@nucle4rpenguins534
@nucle4rpenguins534 3 ай бұрын
I’m from the US, just returned from a trip to Poland, and yes the women there are much more beautiful and it’s noticeable the difference (both sexes honestly are more appealing). You see more frequently in the US abuse of makeup, poor dietary habits and health that are a turn off physically. But yes I agree culturally it’s bizarre to me to openly agree socially to give default praise in the manner you describe. I think it does more harm and can be damaging to the self esteem to both sexes even
@gottrekk5798
@gottrekk5798 18 күн бұрын
women in Poland are beautiful, not all, but 30% of young women are as beautiful as 2% in USA or UK. Not only in Poland, the whole eastern Europe has more attractive women then in other countries. The problem is, those women are very emotional and they have a very strong personalities. Many famous actresses, models etc. have polish ancestry. Polish men are the same as other men.
@tunge81
@tunge81 17 күн бұрын
Same here in the USA but 10x worse, especially considering the sheer amount of single mothers raising boys. It’s been pounded into our heads at a young age to give utmost respect and non stop complements just to make someone feel good who doesn’t deserve it and does not reciprocate.
@giacobbeperales5926
@giacobbeperales5926 15 күн бұрын
Every Polish girl I've ever seen really is a 10
@tvik123
@tvik123 Ай бұрын
at 5:00 the "6.7/10" girl is Billy Rae Brandt, also youtuber with similar content. Thanks for these videos.
@samphelps856
@samphelps856 3 ай бұрын
What a great presentation, production and editing. Star in the making! Subbed
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@AvroBellow
@AvroBellow Ай бұрын
Now I understand why people from Canada and people from the Nederlands like each other so much. In both countries, being pretentious is considered vulgar. We Canadians are far more likely than Americans to poke fun at ourselves. To us, self-effacing humour is considered a healthy way to remind ourselves that we're just flawed humans, like everyone else. It's fun and it keeps us grounded.
@bumpercoach
@bumpercoach 20 күн бұрын
Like how you tolerate a radically terrible government as a way of saying hey we're not really a civilized country
@moriscondo5511
@moriscondo5511 13 күн бұрын
American here, who has spent a little time in Canada and you are right. Canadians to me are just better people than Americans.
@raymond_sycamore
@raymond_sycamore 3 ай бұрын
When the power stops working and there's no more food, they'll change their mind.
@robertl2227
@robertl2227 27 күн бұрын
They can live for years on their fat
@raymond_sycamore
@raymond_sycamore 27 күн бұрын
@@robertl2227 hahahaha I actually laughed out loud at this. Nice
@MrAranton
@MrAranton 10 күн бұрын
That implies they have a mind - which seems unlikely when ham-planets declare themselves to be tens.
@momosch7656
@momosch7656 4 ай бұрын
Best video to date ✨. Touched on so many points that aren’t discussed enough these days.
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 4 ай бұрын
Thank you! Really appreciate it! 😊
@ErikLeed
@ErikLeed 7 күн бұрын
I love this down to earth perspective about the dating market. Its unfortunate how so much narcissism, ego and hostility have pervaded society. Unfortunately a great number of people have lost their way. I would know, I lost my way, but fortunately i found my way back to this kind of humane perspective. Thank You!
@frankethomas1248
@frankethomas1248 12 күн бұрын
At the beginning, when you asked the question, “Whom do you think of?”, only one name flashed into my mind: *_Audrey Hepburn._* Consistently lovely (and the consistence is important), superbly talented (actress, model, dancer, singer, humanitarian, etc.), and (by all reports) a pleasure to work with. In Hollywood, an area over-saturated (dripping) with the most vicious gossip imaginable, I never heard (I'm a 73 year old USNavy veteran, retired) one reputable critic utter a single bad word against her. If you want to be a 10, inner beauty is even and ever more important than outer. There are, of course, many, many other beautiful, talented, and genuinely nice women, but as I said, she was the FIRST to blaze in my brain. This is a *_good video;_* thank you for sharing this with us!
@themainc
@themainc 3 күн бұрын
The age difference between you and I is quite significant, but the person who flashed I to my mind was Dolly Parton, for many of the same reasons you said Audrey Hepburn. It's nice to randomly click with someone despite differences.
@T-NT-WC-JP
@T-NT-WC-JP 29 күн бұрын
I’m a 6’3 tall man.Only 1 percent of the whole male population grows to that height.But I personally just give myself a 5,Im not ashamed of that.I know I don’t look like a model.The delusion feed to young women through social media is very concerning.
@vidiot9000
@vidiot9000 29 күн бұрын
Each of these girls has a brain-they choose whether to use it.
@jakubsevcik1392
@jakubsevcik1392 27 күн бұрын
Wait, did you actually watch the video? She quite clearly say they all know very well they aren't a 10. It's just a social thingy they are doing.
@Professor-Dating
@Professor-Dating 24 күн бұрын
The end of mankind is coming, my friend.
@sinizzl
@sinizzl 9 күн бұрын
6'5" here and reasonably handsome on a good day. I don't get women simp over me🤷‍♂️
@Professor-Dating
@Professor-Dating 8 күн бұрын
@sinizzl I wish I was that tall.
@brucemai1429
@brucemai1429 2 ай бұрын
Social Media and dating apps have been the biggest contributor to how women gauge their value, because as you say, there will always be men willing to simp for even the least attractive woman.
@jake.online
@jake.online 6 күн бұрын
The level of self awareness & honesty it takes to make this video is almost incompatible with the current culture. 10/10 for that.
@L6FT
@L6FT 28 күн бұрын
Smart girl. Your message is solid. Thanks for opening the conversation, I would be called a male mycogenist if I did.
@fantabuloussnuffaluffagus
@fantabuloussnuffaluffagus 2 күн бұрын
2:22 "I personally don't use social media" .... she said, on the world's largest social media platform.
@andriidanylov9453
@andriidanylov9453 3 күн бұрын
Appreciate sharing. Respect to Lynn.
@BloodyHeck
@BloodyHeck 9 күн бұрын
Thank you for being honest and realistic.
@Trizzer89
@Trizzer89 Ай бұрын
Calling oneself a 10 makes them uglier. Why would they think the opposite?
@Travis-mj1iq
@Travis-mj1iq 2 ай бұрын
I grew up in a place where humility is valued and it's by far the most attractive quality in a woman for me. I think it's good to try and look as good as you can but the same way you want others to be forgiving of you one should be forgiving of them as well. In the long run you'll always fall more in love with someone who stays in shape and treats you well over someone who's naturally good-looking; people just don't realize the value of connections that build over time over instant attraction.
@jonasbauer3942
@jonasbauer3942 Ай бұрын
Your honesty will take you far, but remember honesty and truth is not liked in this world.
@MaximusOfTheMeadow
@MaximusOfTheMeadow 4 ай бұрын
I am a 6. Just straight up. Maybe 6.5. My big bros are a 8 and a 9 respectively My cons -Born with lots of chronic pain -Thanks to that lots of mental trauma and physical scars -Can't be employed -Mentally about 10 years younger then my body -Can be childish My pros -Intellectually about 10 years older then my body -Looks approachable and good natured -Have traveled across the world -Am extremely sensitive to others emotions -Addicted to leaning, both physical skills and knowledge in general Also Dutch, Hallo
@jooky87
@jooky87 16 күн бұрын
Wow, excellent video essay on this topic
@vaibhavgoyal9056
@vaibhavgoyal9056 4 ай бұрын
Those words of true wisdom at the end are pure bliss😇.. Most people don't think that way these days
@KS-yb1wq
@KS-yb1wq 4 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support! I really appreciate it 🫶
@delargealex
@delargealex 4 ай бұрын
I always look forward to your videos and insights Lynn! This fight for status in America is as bad as you think and I think a lot of it has to do with social media 100%. Women, who are the largest users, are always in a constant comparison mode. I can only imagine the insecurity this induces and I think to combat this insecurity women are told to have an irrational amount of self confidence. However, this isn't to say that social media only has a toxic affect on women. Men are also being influenced into a perpetual cycle of self improvement and told they are never good enough. Body building or as I like to call it "body destruction" is become very popular among young men here in the states. So I think the solution is promoting a digital cleanse in our societies, a big push for people to get off these social sites and out into reality. I actually watched an interesting video recently about the affect that mirrors have had on society and I think it's synonymous with the affect social media has had. They both have broke our perceptions of ourselves. Just imagine, mirrors as we know them to be have only been around since around 200 years ago, developed by the German chemist Justus von Liebig. Prior to this only the rich had access to "mirror" which were limited to finely polished metals that didn't give the replication quality that modern mirrors have. In prior centuries you'd have really only looked at yourself in reflections from glass or water which gives distorted views. It makes you wonder what society would be like without the ability to efficiently look at ourselves. Maybe a topic for a future video? Feel free to use the idea.
@deanx1
@deanx1 4 ай бұрын
I like your take. The constant comparison mode really does have a negative effect on your happiness. And for a lot of people it is hard to turn off, since it is partially subconscious. If you are constantly shown people who seem to have better lives, you will start to feel like you are not up to par. While in reality you might be doing just fine compared to most. Even if you move "up the ladder", you will start comparing yourself with people who are doing even better. You only compare up, not down. You can never win this game. But what do you mean by "body destruction"? I don't see going to the gym as a negative. Unless you are going to the extreme by taking steroids, or have some insane unhealthy routine.
@delargealex
@delargealex 4 ай бұрын
@@deanx1 I mostly mean "body building" or the obsession with overly unnatural large muscles. I think moderate exercise is fine but people who go to the gym multiple times a week, eat high amounts of calories, and obsess over being bigger are destroying their bodies. This constant stress will age you extremely fast and will essentially make you disabled when you're older.
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 4 ай бұрын
Thanks! I always really appreciate your insightful comments and support! And I agree, social media hasn't done much good for either gender. It really helped me to just delete the apps from my phone. And sounds like an interesting video! Is it on KZbin?
@delargealex
@delargealex 4 ай бұрын
@@Lynneverly Unfortunately the video is behind a paywall but I'll give you a summary. Basically, mirrors prior to 1835 only consisted of finely polished metals which were mostly owned by the wealthy class of people but even so only provided a distorted blurry image. Most people prior to 1835 would have only saw their reflection in water but even then it was distorted. The theory is that after the introduction of mirrors in 1835 people started to focus on their own looks more and more. This created insecurity but also created an opportunity for advertisers later to create self-perception identity issues. For instance, every clothing store you enter into has lots of mirrors but there are also pictures of people wearing different types of clothing, you're actively comparing yourself to these "models" and the way you look. It shifts your perception of yourself. Just imagine how many times you see yourself everyday. You probably see yourself first thing every morning in the bathroom mirror. Then think about how this makes you compare yourself to others. Imagine a world where you could see yourself or at least wouldn't be able to see yourself so clearly. Imagine this was the case for everyone and how this might change society. Sort of interesting thought, no? I think social media is an even worse mirror. You're actively comparing your social content to other people's social content. It creates an existential feeling of not being "good enough".
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 4 ай бұрын
Sounds very interesting indeed. Thanks for the summary! I never really about mirrors that way until you brought it up. You make good points. I also think social media is worse than mirrors. Mainly because it’s designed to make you addicted and keep you on the platform for as long as possible. They use your psychology against you. And using people’s insecurities of comparing themselves to others is one of their strategies. Of course it’s not all negative and there are also oppertunities that come with social media. But for most people it’s very hard to use it in a healthy way.
@ApoplecticCanadian
@ApoplecticCanadian 11 күн бұрын
Wow! Good job! I haven't come across anything so psychologically balanced when it comes to this subject! The North American view on the subject is so toxic, and your approach is refreshing, to be honest. It never dawned on me to look outside my continent for cultural relevance in the approach. If humanity doesn't figure this shit out fast, we'll be facing a devastating population collapse!
@Trifler500
@Trifler500 3 ай бұрын
The 1-10 scale has nothing to do with self-confidence. It's 100% about physical appearance. So, they're considering things that don't apply. Most importantly, only the opinions of straight men and lesbian women count. Not your own. :)
@matthewwinans3068
@matthewwinans3068 Ай бұрын
Exactly! 💯
@DeusaRem
@DeusaRem 7 күн бұрын
This gal is lit! Amazing video, fantastically articulated!
@peterbennett2167
@peterbennett2167 Ай бұрын
Dear LynnE Your honesty,puts trust back in modern women.
@Vagabond
@Vagabond 17 күн бұрын
Informative and entertaining video, thanks, I subscribed and gave you a thumbs up. BTW I thought you were holding a make-up brush at first, lol.
@MrShrimpy72
@MrShrimpy72 14 күн бұрын
Very clever. Very true. And personality also comes into force in the scale when men view women. You can “look at 10” but if you have no personality you won’t be one.
@hrobky
@hrobky 4 ай бұрын
I love how brief yet informative and not overlaping your videos are. Showing lot of research and not publishing 10 videos monthly. Do you have a Buy me a Coffee? They take 5% fee compared to KZbin's 30%...
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the compliment! 😊 I did not have one yet, but I created an account now. I put the link in my channel bio. Thanks a lot for the tip! 😊 Didn’t know that app existed.
@hrobky
@hrobky 3 ай бұрын
I'm refreshing and refreshing and there are still no coffees to give :P Do you have to verify your IBAN somehow?
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 3 ай бұрын
You're right. I hadn't verified it yet, but I have now :). I received a coffee from someone so I think it should work now.
@hrobky
@hrobky 3 ай бұрын
I hope it's you editing your YT bio, because the coffee link changed. But actually from "/softwares1" what sounds quite phishy...
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 3 ай бұрын
Yes don’t worry, it’s me. Made the account late at night yesterday and just used the link it automatically gave me. I’ve customized it now :). But thanks for the heads up!
@Edwin--
@Edwin-- 3 ай бұрын
Real confidence does not only come from facing your own insecurities, it is finding meaning in life. It is developing yourself. Study. Learn a trade. Find a profession and a hobby you like and have some talent for. Aspire to be good at something. Choose people around you that support you, and that includes telling you things may not be great. That is how you develop a degree of social standing, which has little to do with wealth. These same '10's' will tell you all the above is 'just the bare minimum' in life, 'normies' just scraping by. They have it wrong. If you tie in looks to self-confidence, you're setting yourself up for failure, as you'll never be as beautiful as between the ages from 16-25. And you have at least 50 years to go after that... There is another misconception in it too... People are drawn towards the average, not the extremes!
@3316xtendedmedia
@3316xtendedmedia 17 күн бұрын
You are a 10 in explaining things!
@joshmc5882
@joshmc5882 21 күн бұрын
Lying to yourself is not the same as loving yourself.
@robertl2227
@robertl2227 27 күн бұрын
Lying is never empowering but being honest and self aware is. I'm glad this is limited to america even though I live here.
@shanwyn
@shanwyn 4 ай бұрын
The male equivalent would be this idea that every man sees himself as a Rambo or Terminator, but this is as you said taken to the extremes
@DirtnapJack
@DirtnapJack 4 ай бұрын
By R or T, do you mean if everyone saw themselves as a killer (like the characters are) or as a buff muscukar guy (as the men portraying them are.
@shanwyn
@shanwyn 4 ай бұрын
@@DirtnapJack I am not sure which one is correct. I had chats with guys that often had a bit of both. Especially when you watch certain movies with them ;-)
@DirtnapJack
@DirtnapJack 4 ай бұрын
@@shanwyn they were a bit muscular and a bit of a killer, huh? See the latter is usually only applied to someone who has done it so ……
@91722854
@91722854 4 ай бұрын
Orewa Gundam desu, only that I don't go about trying to fly and cut people in half with my beam saber
@farmtech-vn9ew
@farmtech-vn9ew 4 ай бұрын
the difference is if you're a guy and you claim to be "a Rambo" when you can't even bench 135, other guys will just laugh at you instead of confirming your delusions.
@mjz667
@mjz667 10 күн бұрын
0:10 is not a woman
@michaelmaultsby895
@michaelmaultsby895 14 күн бұрын
You are a solid 9+. I wish you the best of luck.
@loganblackwood2922
@loganblackwood2922 Ай бұрын
"I don't have Tiktok, fortunately." Good lass.
@RC-lu7ot
@RC-lu7ot 15 күн бұрын
A lot of shortcut about confidence. Explore the concept of "imposter syndrome", it will help you understand a lot of things about the other side of the mirror. Especially when you face people overinflating their egos.
@johnfoster7823
@johnfoster7823 23 күн бұрын
The view presented here is compelling considering a perfect 10 is presenting it!
@coderhex1675
@coderhex1675 15 күн бұрын
I hope you will gain success in YT. You are saner than my sister probably %95 of my county's women.
@raff1584
@raff1584 2 күн бұрын
she spilled the code: - women rating themselves 10 = average at best - women rating themselves 6-8 = actually attractive
@grantgunz
@grantgunz 19 күн бұрын
Honesty. . . Very refreshing!!!
@KevinDavis-z8v
@KevinDavis-z8v 3 ай бұрын
As far as most women are concerned according to past experiences I've had with them, as long as they have the appropriate plumbing, that makes them an automatic 5 from the very start. Anything else like a brain or personality just adds to their status...to them.
@peteranon8455
@peteranon8455 15 күн бұрын
They started this horse manure in the 90s with self esteem projects in elementary schools. "Real confidence comes from doing the hard work and facing your insecurities" is absolutely correct.
@sourisvoleur4854
@sourisvoleur4854 8 күн бұрын
Great content. Thank you.
@JoeJ-8282
@JoeJ-8282 17 күн бұрын
For me, the "10 point scale" is a TOTAL of the maximum "5 stars" that you can potentially get for the two halves of the overall picture of what makes up any person... That is the external/physical/looks part, and the internal/mental/psychological/Spiritual/moral/overall character part... and unless you're actually totally "perfect" enough in ALL of those things, (i.e. in order to actually get the full "5 stars" in BOTH your external AND internal qualities), then it is statistically impossible to actually be a "10"... One can come close to that, IF they are an absolutely amazing, positive energy person and good Spirit on the inside, AND ALSO they are extremely attractive AND healthy and in shape physically, however, since no-one is ever really absolutely "perfect", especially not in ALL ways, no-one can actually be a full on perfect "10" in all reality, and if they ever say that they indeed are that then they're just totally delusional and definitely lying to themselves, and also essentially stating that they have absolutely nothing to improve about themselves, which ultimately just completely shuts you down for any room for personal growth!
@christophersmith3005
@christophersmith3005 25 күн бұрын
I love Hoe_Math. Hilarious takes on this topic.
@JoeJ-8282
@JoeJ-8282 17 күн бұрын
Yep, agreed!
@elkam82
@elkam82 4 күн бұрын
Yap, 10. Correct. They are telling the truth. out of 100.
@DavidYoung81
@DavidYoung81 25 күн бұрын
Nicely put together video for a young channel
@bobsacamano7653
@bobsacamano7653 3 ай бұрын
It is better to admit that you are not a 10, so that you can make improvements. If you say you are a 10, then you will continue to make bad choices.
@Cariboukid
@Cariboukid 4 ай бұрын
Comparison is the thief of joy.
@SachaPerry-r5l
@SachaPerry-r5l 3 ай бұрын
"Brevity is the soul of wit ".
@jeremybond2
@jeremybond2 7 күн бұрын
die roll was perfect 😂Subscribed
@Shorty_Lickens
@Shorty_Lickens 5 күн бұрын
Hoe_math used this same video, and he also explained it pretty well. But now I cant find that specific vid and its driving me crazy,
@Thefly142
@Thefly142 3 ай бұрын
Something you forgot to mention is that this is also about signaling to men that they do not want them. This is a major way women get ego a well, by rejecting and in general being nasty to men. This is also one of the leading factors as to why women usually breakup with men and not the other way around. It’s extremely important to them to be the desired one, so they would rather do the breaking up than be broken up with.
@nickf2170
@nickf2170 22 күн бұрын
A hallmark trait of a narcissist is to create a "false self". BINGO!
@tunge81
@tunge81 17 күн бұрын
No simp: coming from an American man, it’s a huge green flag and kind of a turn on to find a young good looking woman who is not on dating apps, social media and doesn’t engage in hook up culture. Absolutely wifey material. I’ve completely lost faith that even exists in America anymore. I sure have not come across a gem like that here in decades. The Netherlands might be my next trip abroad. Thanks for the content (and a little hope)
@TheSmark666
@TheSmark666 4 ай бұрын
Self-affirmation is a hell of a drug.
@ronaldss859
@ronaldss859 22 күн бұрын
The most attractive part of a woman is her personality. When her looks are gone, her personality is still gonna be there... everything else will fit were it needs to.
@jaredwilliamson317
@jaredwilliamson317 7 күн бұрын
when women say 10=1 in girl math for a man
@nagylevi3827
@nagylevi3827 Күн бұрын
The moment someone calls themselves a 10, it means that, in their own estimation, there is no room for improvement. In my opinion, the secret to a rational life is acknowledging the fact that there is ALWAYS room for improvement. In short, when someone calls themselves a 10, it's a massive red flag and should not be disregarded as banter or anything benign.
@Infarlock
@Infarlock 3 ай бұрын
Love how by the end of the video the guy showed a woman that smokes as 1 on the scale 1-10, for me idc how good looking or nice a woman is, as soon as she smokes anything that's ruins it all. Like imagine coming for a kiss just to have this marijuana or vape smell all over the place, yuck
@meannleanmarine
@meannleanmarine 21 күн бұрын
The Dutch girl who called herself a “7.5” is far prettier than any of the women who called themselves a “10” on the podcast and it’s not even remotely close
@TJ-do4vf
@TJ-do4vf 3 ай бұрын
This is a good video. More women should watch it.
@RoosterMontgomery
@RoosterMontgomery 9 күн бұрын
I call my ex-wife Ten. Not because she was one, but because she was my tenth relationship.
@tom23245
@tom23245 26 күн бұрын
5:16 She gets hated for being honest because she's easily the prettiest girl there. This means that all the other girls are now forced to face the reality of being *well* below a 6.7.
@TrangDB9
@TrangDB9 15 күн бұрын
Secretly she reversed that scala from 10 - 1 😂
@Trizzer89
@Trizzer89 Ай бұрын
Confidence doesnt provide value to others. It TAKES value from everyone around you
@The_Frederix
@The_Frederix 13 күн бұрын
4:05 she is on point… and found source the of today’s issues.
@ninjetti9898
@ninjetti9898 4 ай бұрын
Your content is fire, thanks for staying consistent 🙂.
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 4 ай бұрын
Thanks 😊
@williammoses6460
@williammoses6460 28 күн бұрын
I’ve always used alcohol to flatten out the bell-curve. Oh, and the threat of closing time✅
@Eikenhorst
@Eikenhorst 21 күн бұрын
Also, getting a 10 in school in the Netherlands is pretty much impossible, except for subjects like math where there is just a right or wrong answer most of the time. I even had a teacher on a marketing subject that gave a multiple choice exam, and i got 49/50 correct, but he told me he doesn't give higher than an 8, so I got an 8 :) So when woman say they are an 8 here, it pretty much means the same as a 10 in the USA.
@johnalexir7634
@johnalexir7634 Ай бұрын
I guess anyone can be a 10 in their own mind; hopefully at least they have enough self-awareness to know they're exaggerating (or lying) to themselves for the perhaps understandable purpose of augmenting their self esteem. But it does cause problems if they are truly unaware that their self-rating has no connection to actual objective reality. Edit: It gives me a bit of hope that as the video progresses it does become evident that they know they're lying to themselves. (This video makes me want to move to the Netherlands lol. In Canada where I live these delusions are way too common.)
@Professor-Dating
@Professor-Dating 24 күн бұрын
If you can identify as a woman, fox, piano, or whatsoever nowadays, you can also identify yourself as a number, like a 10. 😂
@Garybob-e9q
@Garybob-e9q 27 күн бұрын
6.75 to 8.9 is where it's at, Gentlemen. Avoid Extremes...
@fergoka
@fergoka 4 ай бұрын
This video worths a sub. Gj, Lynn.
@ing-mariekoppel1637
@ing-mariekoppel1637 8 күн бұрын
They do not lie. They really do believe they are 10s.
@peckneck2439
@peckneck2439 11 күн бұрын
A 10/10 symbolizes an absolute pinnacle and perfection. This isn't only about looks, it also means intelligence and personality. If you have a fashion magazine face and body, but at the same time a personality of a Karen then that automatically pushes you down to 7/10, and even lower to 5/10 if you're also dumb as a sack of potatoes. A true 10/10 is a woman that looks good, is smart, and has an actual good and attractive personality. A woman that's considerate, nonjudgmental, and compassionate. Meanwhile modern "10/10" women are massive, which hints at their poor health, but also complains and acts superior and/or toxic all the time. Most modern women who think of themselves as "10" are unironically sub 5s but because the society keeps telling them they're literally perfect the way they are it's no wonder why they actually believe this lie.
@arturx6965
@arturx6965 15 күн бұрын
"Most amps go to 10. Mine goes to 11."
@markjohansen6048
@markjohansen6048 3 күн бұрын
Read a joke once, A woman says to a friend, Every time I pass a mirror I stop and admire my own beauty. Is that narcissism? And her friend says, No, that s delusion.
@victorcretu7741
@victorcretu7741 16 күн бұрын
I'm not even sure why the question "How do you rate yourself?" warrants an answer. My scale is not relevant.
@delargealex
@delargealex 4 ай бұрын
For continued content
@Lynneverly
@Lynneverly 4 ай бұрын
Wow thank you so much! 😊
@user-pt1nx6tr8u
@user-pt1nx6tr8u 25 күн бұрын
scale is 10/100. I think we missed the adjustment over the years with inflation and all.
@PaulGomori
@PaulGomori 16 күн бұрын
The woman who rated herself a 6.5 is Billie Rae Brandt, a well known KZbin and Tik Tok influencer who is very based in her perceptions and critical of the societal climate. Ironically, she was also the most attractive one actually on that panel.
@Rezzatoni
@Rezzatoni 6 күн бұрын
I object the notion that all men are, think or react the same. Me for example was never attracted by youth, looks and fertility, although I'm absolutely capable of judging on women's looks and do appreciate beauty. But what makes fall for a girl is only her being smart, witty, educated and warmhearted, be it even for only a night - what I did only once in my life ...
@ModernDatingMastery
@ModernDatingMastery Ай бұрын
*The truth is, perfection doesn’t exist, and it's the imperfections that make us unique. It’s more important to focus on being authentic and confident in who you are rather than trying to fit into a mold.*
@saturnineNL
@saturnineNL 4 ай бұрын
No one get's even close to a ten, but you do a good job of getting close. You know why? Because you are not trying to be something you are not. And that is how you become perfect, by knowing and loving your (im)perfections. Keep up the good work.
@LionsHeart1983
@LionsHeart1983 9 күн бұрын
Good content 👌 it's rational, I like
@arghjayem
@arghjayem 6 күн бұрын
Lynn is a 10 without a doubt!
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