why women love a pushover(the truth about redflags)

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@LocPham-kw5ut 5 ай бұрын

You always know exactly who she is, you just choose to love her anyways. Guy, always be responsible for who you're allowed into your life. In the end, you can only blame yourself.

@goooc 5 ай бұрын

Everyone lies and that includes lying about not lying.

@abdopopnasser3283 5 ай бұрын

Although I cannot deny that some men ignore the red flags thinking it is a cost of being in a relationship, Khan is wrong about over looking at the small thing like that I rememder my father once said ( over looking at small things will lead to paranoia) add to that sugarcoating things not different from lying

@emyywolf 3 ай бұрын

This is so true, my sister married a complete pushover

@MadisonChloeLoves 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@rupeshram3334 4 ай бұрын

too many red flags simply mean that the woman is unhealed. Man should run away from them if she is not showing interest in healing. Happens when the woman has a big ego.

@cyrilu2146 5 ай бұрын

I have never watched a presentation concerning women's psychology that is as accurate as this. Ample examples of life experiences is consistent and true to this presentation !!!

@MadisonChloeLoves 5 ай бұрын

Thank you very much. The way you perceive this information shows your maturity 👌. Thanks

@T3meee 5 ай бұрын

Good information.

@Ridneymaxwell95 5 ай бұрын

yeah right I believe everyone lie knowing we're all human it happens though

@DibbzTV 5 ай бұрын

"Women never ever ever lie. They might not say the truth, but they will show you the truth." - That's just flat out wrong 😆 Not gonna lie, you're losing me on this one

@MadisonChloeLoves 5 ай бұрын

😆 😂 Makes sense if you think about it. It is also directed at men's naivety rather than women's honesty. Thanks for sharing 👍

@synergyrevolution2332 5 ай бұрын

Its like you're deliberately misinterpreting what she's saying to make it look like she's wrong. Or.....you're simply the kind of person who is very blinded by desperation to see the red flags women display all the time.

@DibbzTV 5 ай бұрын

@@synergyrevolution2332 nah, I just think it’s an oversimplification in bias toward the woman. “The man should’ve known” only goes too far. Women lie all the time along with men, that’s just a fact. But that’s just my thoughts imo. You’re free to have your own

@synergyrevolution2332 5 ай бұрын

@@DibbzTV Like I said, you're likely misinterpreting. She didn't mean the part about lying literally. Her point is that the red flags are usually obvious, men just get blinded because of desperation.

@Kelvin_smith28 5 ай бұрын

SHE'S CORRECT 💯%

@Light_Yaeger 5 ай бұрын

Uhm...men also show their red flags right away This goes both ways lol

@samurai.k 5 ай бұрын

The only thing they lie about is there body count.😂😂

@dustyk103 5 ай бұрын

Wow, she nailed me and all the problems I’ve had in my life. I’ve always on women who will have sex with me. That often led to some women who abused me and thought they could control me. The fact I wouldn’t let them always led to break ups.

@calltyshon 5 ай бұрын

What's the purpose of the narrator? He literally just heard Khan say it in her own words

@matasmate 5 ай бұрын

Okay, so on this logic, man should be paranoid when choosing woman. I had a girlfriend who said she is insecure and need alot of love(only after a bit of time she said these), but this was so so far away from what i thought. It was just the tip of the iceberg that sink the Titanic... She had so many red flags i lost count.. So from this perspective, i wanted that relationship to work, according to her, she loved me. She had so many childhood traumas and problems that were way over my head, i was phisicly and mentally not able to solve them. We were 4 years together, and she ruined my life. I am still recovering after 7 years without her. Just because i wanted it to work, and did things to make it work, it wasnt. She was a borderline disorder person, later i found out with a pscichologist. This video is so wrong on many levels. You have to define what is the "truth". Man talk to themselfs like, "bro your hair looks shit" and we all know what it means, it means our hair looks shit.. It is flat out, not sugarcoated, we mean it. Same with woman, will not work(most woman, not all of course). Yes in your head, you are saying the truth, but that does not mean the same to anyone. You(both partner in a realtionship) need to tell the truth but you know that then nobody will choose you. You need to be self aware of your bullshits and try repair them when your partner is complimenting about it(and not get angry), if that relationship is worth for you. Healthy self talk is very must needed. If you are friends with yourself, only then you can lift up your partner(if they let you lift them). You both have to work hard for that relationship. What i saw as a man, is that society forgives woman, but not for man. You can make very big, orbital mistakes, because society is overlooking it. As a man, you do not have this priviledge. What i wanted to say is the video's perspective is only one viewpoint. Which i do not need to agree and will not. Time will show if she was right or not. But at the point i do not agree with it. So basically from the video's perspective, i was angry and i am still angry because i choose the "wrong" partner, overlooked all the red flags, and she is not responsible for the horrible relationship that we had(even if she told me the red flags in the begining, which she not did fully). This is flat out bullshit. Both partners needed for a relationship to work. Not only the man. I agree with most of the topic of Khan and enjoy watching it, but not this one. If she loved me from the first place, this shouldnt happened the way it did. I wish you all have a very nice life, do not waste your precious time on people who do not worth it. They will later find out, but then it will be their loss, not yours.

@LightGivingSubstituteGatekeepr 5 ай бұрын

I think its time to stop with the generalised assumptions about either sex, I'm not like any other man I've ever met and I'd like a woman different to all the one's I've met❤❤❤