pre-selection - he can only demonstrate "alternatives" if he exudes qualities that multiple women find attractive

In other words, never care about a women and you will be great man.

Is this chick like a psychologist or something?

This is the irony. In order to have confidence in dating, people need to experience success first. Nobody feels confident in their first try. Those that succeed, become confident. Those that don't, become more fearful.

Then why she came back after she meet an a-hole if being nice and kind was so bad? Because woman and everyone chooses you on how they think and on how they perceive relationships.

Why women want to lie? Thats the question.

It’s not just one thing. Life is a combination of experiences that make us who we are. The current narrative is that women don’t “need” men. That short term happiness is more important than the long term joys built in a relationship. What happens when you put men who come from narcissistic or abusive childhood’s in that arena? Splash that with how superficial people have become and the lack of principle value. What did you think was going to happen??

just be yourself guys

That's because you don't respect yourself.

Sad but true

From biological perspective your statement makes sense and it’s understandable and to be consistent if men would say we want a woman who lets us cheat because we are biologically meant to spread our semen. Would you be OK with that? Probably not, so why don’t we leave the biology away for a moment and become all grown up and start with being honest . If woman would learn to be honest instead of narcissistic liars, Smart men may consider dating women again .

chasing is for simps

Y them so judgemental with us y they can't just be honest with us

This is fantastic insight

The intention doesn't matter. Maybe the person was a type of person who would say yes to anybody if had opportunity but couldn't and that person is with you now. Maybe that person is willing to be with anybody when not in a relationship but will be loyal to you. That is all that matters. Plus even if had no opportunity men can still go prostitutes to access sex but if he denied because he wanted it to be special, it is a plus. But if a woman has a high body count it destroys her bonding ability and if a man has a high body count it makes them to feel less satisfied from sex.

I'd love to hear your opinion on Twinby. Have you tried it yet?

The trouble is when she starts acting like this, the man feels disrespected, then he gets resentful. She gets resentful and then comes the stalemate. Her walls are up, it's over.

1 Corinthians 7:27-28 Amplified Bible (AMP) Do not seek a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned [in doing so]; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned [in doing so]. Yet those [who marry] will have troubles (special challenges) in this life, and I am trying to spare you that.

It's true

I can relate very well to this 🥰🥰

Why have two beautiful people boxing it out within the ring? A baby comes out, and both are arguing whose best features the baby has. She pulls outwards because she knows she’s it. And he frustratingly pulls inwards because he wants her but also outwards to keep her in check, he also has pulling power in the dating market still. And beautiful people are in love with themselves already, so you really don’t need anymore outwardly beauty to admire. You only need inwardly beauty to complete the picture, which, beautiful women can be insecure with a hole inside

And then they say he cheats ! 😂

@Sadia Khan is on another wavelength❤🎉 #preach

This tends to be true. But there are other factors, like men just deciding women are not worth the effort to date them, nor the money they are expected to spend paying for everything, and in divorce/other lawsuits and accusations afterwards. It's just something unnecessary. So they instead decide to travel and/or focus on their own projects and passions.

Pornoaddicts

As a handsome guy, 6' tall, light n handsome, she's correct in every single point she mentioned, I've been glared at by Miss World Aishwarya Rai and one more female celebrity n I acted blind😅, tbh I always liked Aishwarya Rai..

It goes both ways 😭

Saying my thoughts out loud

No offense but the price for what me an mines just endured… I gives two flying fucks on what he areit might think of itself.. today an as far as tips… Nah I’m good… taken. Thanks do keep that toxic bullshit to urself unless u wish to approach an say it to my face!!! Like normal grown adults… I’m kinda over the childish put downs an lashes from some unforeseen distance… u dig me!!

I don't know man. The vast majority of complinents and pursuits I've gotten is from men (straight and gay) and from women I would never go for. When my best friend was still alive, I asked him about it. He insisted that all of the girls were talking to him about me when we went out, and that they feel I was out of their league. Mind you, he had double my body count, and it's cringy to even mention that. (I don't do that anymore.) Maybe it's true? I don't know. I don't see myself that way. I just wish someone would value me for me, and not what they can get out of me. (Still working on me.)

The truth about women in make up is...............

Hypergamy

Same for man

Nah, thats total bs

Never take advice from a woman on how to be a man that is why these chicks fail at life

This is so wrong. there's a lot of western american woman raised well by their fathers and yet they chat. The thing is, every american modern woman are 304's now.

Men don't over explain to them selves like women do our response you cool or you a terrible human that's it and yes dumb men will stay with dumb chicks we don't over think like you do with men friend or foe smart men catch on quick

The mental gymnastics to try and legitimize a womans high body count.....

Another words you're attracted to men that put you in your place a guy who has a life is not afraid to tell you no i am busy doing other stuff even if you want to spend time with him.

Let's go back to 2015 or earlier before anyone was making such a huge thing of baody count. It's stupid if a man or woman date date and have s*x with 5 or 6 people before they find the right person it shouldn't be such a big deal. People need to quit making a big deal out of dumb sh*t

the results of being a weak men is you get cheating... have boundaries guys don't let any girl surpass your boundaries

I ain’t investing long term in a sexual partner when chances are she not only going to-be with me, it seems safer to pay up front so she can leave when that act is done

If I wanted to play stupid games, I would buy a PlayStation. If I wanted to get tested, I’d go to college. Women just love to overcomplicate things. what a waste of time.

Body count demages women mentaly and emotionaly the more the crazier 😊

I use sex to escape reality and cope with life's stresses. That is what makes me so fun. The same reason why you do podcasts and relate it to strangers.

All that glitters isn’t gold men need to wise up

I THINK THIS IS MY WIFE 💗 SHE JUST GETS ME IT FEEL LIKE

I also blame our upbringing by our parents. Ethics, duty etc must NEVER be inculcated into boys. They need to be brought up with the idea of 'not getting caught' ... that's it. Parents, do NOT teach good values to your sons ... you will render your own genes extinct by doing that.

Wow this is spot on.

A. All men value good loyal women who treat them with respect, not just “handsome” men. B. The reason a woman is more loyal to a “handsome” man is NOT bc of his looks, but bc she knows she can be easily replaced for a more attractive, better woman.