Why WOMEN secretly ADMIRE and LUST after men who CHEAT (she won't admit this female nature secret)

[@CaseyZander]

Learn, Understand and Master the LANGUAGE of WOMEN 😘 below ⬇ app.caseyzander.com/I-learn-language-of-women

[@jbdominate]

Man, you need like a novel peace prize or something my dawg.

[@James-re1yf]

Casey for president. Ceo. Chairman of the board 10:58 professor emeritus. Nobel prize winner. Man of the year. hall of fame. Greatest of all time in his field of knowledge Superstar. Rockstar. Wizard. Magician. Go casey

[@xr29fb32]

“The worse you act the better you are treated by women” is 100% facts. I’ve lived that over and over again lol

[@OliHandy2008]

That's because if you can get away with acting badly and STILL successfully exist in free society, it demonstrates masculinity/strength/independence/high status etc. If you can show all that and behave well, that's the real top tier man/life.

[@veebliss1266]

NO you are dealing with daddy issue girls! Not WOMEN! Grown ass women will divorce you, leave you and show you what BOY and CHUMP you are! Creating trauma bonds is for clowns! 🤡 go work on your brain and get help !!! Hurting people is plain sadistic

[@NewJerseyPhiladelphiaDelaware]

This is absolutely 100% true. My dad wasnt in my life for the first 14 years of my life (im 29) and he didnt care. He lied to us, cheated on my mom, pulled a gun on her etc and she ended up leaving my stepfather (who did everything for us and was a great man) for my father. She married him again 2 years ago after divorcing in 1995 when i was born (they are 60+ yrs old now). It absolutely blows my mind.

[@halukkilic3171]

🤣🤣🤣

[@arikristenko]

It sounds like a movie story but wow

[@Majin33]

why does it blow your mind? women are biologically programmed to search for the most alpha (dominant/masculine) man, no woman desires a man who is beta (submissive/feminine)

[@michaelveiloursecuredcredit]

Sounds like she used the stepfather for your security, then when the nest was clear, she went back to the real excitement she was looking for. 👀 👑

[@NewJerseyPhiladelphiaDelaware]

​@@michaelveiloursecuredcredit yup. I love my mother dearly but shes the first one i learned their true nature from. Its savage and ruthless.

[@MartinsDaniel]

This is actually one of your best videos I’ve ever watched. It takes years in “the game” to realize this hard truth. I’ve cheated many girls I was dating an they kept wanting me more.

[@marcelltheshell177]

💀💀 that’s not a flex you’re just a scumbag

[@anthonymichaeldurkin6244]

it works...

[@rovingenglishman]

It’s a dangerous game.. if you are married with family you could lose everything and it’s the one you cheated with you might end up missing, cos she’s gone and hates you now 😉

[@SaikatGhosh-z5k]

Exactly. And when I was serious and super into her. She left.

[@GoulaLegamer]

The more i watch those vids the more i realize i won't be in love a second time in my life , it's clearly impossible

[@rome5268]

Yup

[@SaikatGhosh-z5k]

True lol

[@abeonboard1904]

Something like that. It’s gonna be just enjoying the ride and making the world a better place in all these womens lives. Forget the paperwork.

[@Remember-Death]

Let *HER* be in love with you. You don't need to be in love with her.

[@ankithmistry]

There is no hollywood type love in real life 😂

[@SunnyDarkoShow]

You dont make the same video everyday. You dig deeper everyday.

[@fccoz8348]

Na, it’s just for views.

[@urielbaeza1]

Truly the goat. Never ceases to amaze me. It goes way beyond dating, he's accomplished quite the feat by solving what I consider to be the ultimate enigma, the psychology of the human female.

[@SunnyDarkoShow]

@@fccoz8348 let the man eat. Sharpening the same knife 🔪 is how we cook.

[@gabelossus]

@@fccoz8348Yep. Casey claims to be a man of God and I have even seen him wear a cross, but the bible explicitly forbids sexual immorality. He knows that sharing worldly dating advice will get more views, and quicker, than actual Godly/biblical advice.

[@renegadezen7841]

For majority of women, especially hot women, this is accurate. But there is definitely a % of women out there who would break up with you, block you, and youd never hear from them again if you cheated

[@REAL-rd4wy]

this is 100% true

[@REAL-rd4wy]

but maybe it can be because of they got bored. because the same girl that blocked a guy is lusting about other guy who cheated on her. xD thats crazy

[@jayy7712]

@@REAL-rd4wyDefinitely because they lost interest anyway too. Because think about it if everything is going great and shes in love and you cheat why would she wanna leave. She would start to ask herself why you cheated nd maybe it was something wrong w her. Then increases her attraction more. But if your both pretty bored of the relationship and shes ready to leave she will use that excuse to leave you anyway

[@gabelossus]

And they are the small percentage you want. True women of God

[@renegadezen7841]

@@gabelossus agree. Probably 1%

[@evogreen81]

Thanks for all the valuable information Casey. I look back at my previous relationships and I realize that I am most successful when I do not fully commit to the girl.

[@anthonymichaeldurkin6244]

which wasn't wot u were led 2 believe...Mr Zander is doing excellent work in trying to undo the damage...but of course there will still b millions that have 2 learn the hard way...

[@tjgotbands]

Yup, when I was in high school I was talking to this girl for about 4 months and when I expressed how I was catching feelings for her, it was only about a week or two after that she cut it off with me😂 so much more grown now and have learned !

[@st.helensmerseyside8242]

​@@anthonymichaeldurkin6244well i don. Lesson learned. Never trust a womens word. Fin.

[@st.helensmerseyside8242]

Never

[@zrunner240Z]

@@tjgotbands FACTS....I know soooo many men from 16 to 70 that had the SAME results when they expressed their love

[@crvg_10]

Your videos are the best! Please add automatic dubbing so that we, fans from other countries, can better understand your content.

[@mrbabyhugh]

3:44 NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ask a woman what she looking for in a man or she attracted to. You not supposed to care, you are supposed to be on your own game and be attracted to you for who you are and if she not, no big deal it should not phase you, just keep it moving. When you ask these things, it says to her, YOU DO NOT HAVE YOUR OWN IDENTITY and now you are going to try to build yourself in to whatever she says. THEN SHE TELLS YOU THE STEREOTYPE CRAP, YOU ADJUST YOURSELF TO IT AND DISQUALIFY YOURSELF!!!!!

[@gabelossus]

Yeah many women will act like that. Not some I’ve been with, so please refrain from sharing this as complete universal truth.

[@OYP-93]

This is an extremely powerful and quality video and the way you've structured it is perfect, this is peak redpill content and it's insane that this is free

[@giovannipantorno884]

Cheating draws them in but it also creates a lot of headache in real life. Unless u hide it well

[@macc1370]

Just communicate early on that you’re dating others

[@sunchild-_-8174]

Back at it again 🐐🔥 Everything Casey says is literally the brutal TRUTH. Learn & Apply. Patience is key 🔑

[@TGr-f7l]

Cheating is beta. Either be faithful or be upfront that you'll be seeing other women from the start. You'll be surprised what she'll do to be with you, if you're up front

[@Dolphlemaquereau]

Keep it P

[@pesocheco]

Rns. Raw truth and genuinely not giving af make u the Don

[@macc1370]

Agreed. Women love a guy that has enough balls to say what he wants… almost as much as they love a preselected guy

[@mbdrizzle24]

Ppl saying he’s making the same video aren’t peeping the fact that he is building upon his articulation of each topic as he continues to grow as a man. You can feel the nuance in his tone because he’s out here LIVING what he’s speaking about

[@sprycrab]

@@mbdrizzle24 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dannydore8038]

What do you mean by nuance?

[@tjgotbands]

It’s so funny the other night I was on the phone with one of my friends that is a woman. and she was telling me how this guy added her on Snapchat and was telling her things like I wanna know the real you I wanna know what makes you sad. I wanna see your real side when you’re happy. I wanna see your real side when you’re angry. telling her he doesn’t want anyone else but her. bro is literally trying to pursue a relationship with her after 3 days of knowing her. she also said he acts “too mature” and you wanna know what she was doing the whole time she was reading this to me.. she was laughing while reading it saying “should i just give a thumbs up emoji” literally playing with his emotions laughing about it. these women are devious and despise men that want commitment. not only that but dude has been talking to her for 3 days and is acting controlling saying he doesn’t like it when she doesn’t say “good morning” to him.. are you f**ing kidding me dude? never in my life would cringe so hard saying something like that to a woman lmao.

[@anthonymichaeldurkin6244]

so, so .many amateurs...geez.

[@macc1370]

Blows my mind guys are still moving like his with all the info at hand

[@AndrewAdawa]

The percentages don't change. There will always be simps (80%) among men. If you aren't a simp, you are in the 20%

[@tjgotbands]

@@macc1370bro that’s what i’m saying ! IN 2025?!!!

[@Eugenejones-e7l]

This one of Casey’s best stuff! Wow. This is mind blowing and eye opening stuff! Thank you so much for your videos.They are a real blessing,like yourself.

[@DopeTheGemini]

The way Casey nails it evrytime,, he must have some skills in Carpentry❤😁

[@anthonymichaeldurkin6244]

comm of the yr....love it.

[@StevenPacyna]

One reason they are secretive about this is because it would be perceived as not socially acceptable. When I was a kid kid the older men said to attract a woman, treat her like a dog. I used to think that this was terrible. As I grew older however I find that there is much truth here.

[@gabelossus]

That may not attract the kind of women you want however. Make sure to exercise discernment

[@mestergandhi1261]

Watching from Eastern Europe ( Hungary ) 50 yrs old married dude ... Dated some or maybe more.... Mr. Zander is so right guya ... Listen tó hím .... I enjoy watching his videos

[@tascam2974]

You made it again Casey, this is gold

[@readheadcopy]

Y'all boys, hear him out, it's not a call to cheat. It's giving you the key to what not to do 😌

[@starzgalaxy17]

When you don't cheat she leaves When you cheat you delay her exit In the end she'll leave fellas

[@qwanathomas735]

Yeah I agree you can't win either way, I've tried all approaches.

[@666aladdin]

dude . u r such a champion . god bless u

[@carlolorens3819]

I appreciate your work so much, thanks bro

[@Brent-z2s]

My dad cheated and my mom stayed with him for almost 40 years his brothers didnt cheat and their wives left them. People tell me i am just like my dad although i have never been married and ones a cop. I guess they were doing me a favor.

[@Lifeoftheparty8290]

Take it as a compliment

[@Madhavraj-l3v]

Lord Protect this gentleman at any cost . Absolutely true Now on i am not going to watch any of his videos i got it all. Thanks bro

[@vipulsaxena402]

Great video Casey Lots of truth in this

[@karasrogers3256]

I watch at least a video a day so much its at the top of my youtube everyday! I appreciate these videos and the way they are set up because he tells the truth and tells how and why and even gives examples!

[@HayleenRead]

🔥 We love brutal truths 🔥 Thank you Casey

[@BootCHick21]

I still think there should be a class in school, guys only. Of Casey just spewing the truth.

[@anthonymichaeldurkin6244]

grt idea...thats surely worth pursuing...

[@codewithluq]

Hey Casey, I think yesterday I was watching one of your videos were you warned men about the seven deadly sins (Lust, Envy, Greed, Pride, Sloth, wrath and gluttony). You said, for man to become powerful, he has to abstain from all these things. And I agree. It aligns with my faith ( No illegal sex, lower your gaze, have self control and others) But now in this video, you highlight that women secretly admire men who cheat, something that I also want to believe is true. But how can I act like I cheat yet I don't cheat and then have strength not to be lustful. Its kinda intuitive but if you can give more insight into this, it will be great. Thanks man.

[@readheadcopy]

Bro, if you want to walk in your faith you have a different race. If you you're planning on marrying a virgin she would assume you had no women before if you both are young. These are the rules of a different game. One thing I can tell you is if you think the girl you like is not like other girls, most probably she is just the rest. Unless Gabriel himself spoke with her 😇 It all comes down to the programming that's been installed into her as she's growing. And that's no longer her parents. It's everything she's ever watched. Disney shit, soap drama on tv. Just find the girl who grew up in the wood and lived in the library 🥲 good luck 🦄

[@lechero4295]

I did this and now i am single and divorced :(

[@Scotty88]

😂😂

[@jlove1331]

😂

[@tjgotbands]

😂

[@cp0303]

till

[@beautifulguitars3158]

It doesn't work for everyone 😢😢😢😢😢

[@andrewrogers3544]

Damn casey zander truly God sent the best dating coach I have ever encountered that involves God and very deep truths. It's funny how Love does not exist damn but it is said it exists for women to manipulate us very well 😂😂😂

[@jsstapia4]

Yo this to real fam , keep grinding 💪🏼

[@bhuvandhanda9074]

This is the best video. Thanks brother

[@itsAakashK]

Best man on youtube

[@Tinosoul]

Cheating is bad karma lets be real. The measure in which you use it, it gets measured back to you. Choose your life wisely. Everything comes back to you. Nobody actually wins when it comes to stupid games. Dont be so jaded you actually think you gotta use unethical leverage over women. While much of the teachings have truth to them, nothing is worth the bad karma. Just do right, get right & be a man about everything. No use in sneaking around or doing things merely out of leverage.

[@liv5790]

Well said, 100% true..

[@ACTIONJACKSON-rq3vx]

I love your content, please keep up the great content, life saving!!

[@Nalters]

It’s so easy to mimic competency of what women subconsciously value, and just do what you want; they will accept it but know your actions of what you choose to do with that leadership is being judged by everyone in your and her network

[@BdDaBOMB]

Mr Zander found a flow since The Manipulation Matrix, Manipulation Matrix been on loop on this side

[@ivanribnikov2001]

I'm low key scared Casey's videos will get more popular and he'll single-handedly make the competition more intense for everyone lmao

[@TripedalTroductions]

The game is always changing brodie you just gotta get out there and be observant and adapt. Make friends and talk to lots of different people.

[@CarlosIowa]

I agree. Maybe just a Quarter Million subscribers?

[@1mikesofocused42]

I usually ask for a woman want and do the opposite this is why my dad was so admired by my mother and I couldn't figure out why he treated her certain way now I know why

[@WendyEmmanuelHaiti]

Legend ! thanks for sharing this..very helpful bro

[@elevatedsciencesllc8089]

NUMBER ONE...absolute truth !!!!

[@eliasharding3376]

Another great advice thank you

[@halukkilic3171]

I'm not like other thieves.

[@anthonymichaeldurkin6244]

me neither...

[@TrueLoveLovesAll]

I was cheating on my favorite love all the time. We both enjoyed the adventure, even though it hurt.

[@There.Is.Only.Now.]

I didn’t cheat for 9 years.. then I started once and didn’t stop anymore.. probably cheated with 9 women in 6 months

[@InvestorKabba]

All woman wants a king not a servant a king has many options but a servant does not

[@JamesKennedyio]

You're already at 75 grand a month. Congrats g. I could see you at 200k/month by year end. Keep up the good work. Maybe donate to charity.

[@ratanrajsinghdeo]

100% true. Always happened to my friend 😂😂😂

[@StevenPacyna]

Another reason why you cannot trust her words when she says what she wants in a man is because women are very sociable and because of that she wants to fit in and not have people thinking badly about her. She will therefore say things that she perceives will make her look better to the group. In other words what she says is basically window dressing and not something to be taken seriously.

[@j-star1]

legend facts uncle C!

[@cincomiranda478]

Perfect example of 13:37 - Adam and Eve story

[@konradb8616]

Today Casey made a point in nutshell. Carry on this way.

[@TheSunBlaster]

#1 bro!🎉

[@RayShelby2]

I was hanging out with my sister and her "friend group" a few months ago, I was talking to this guy saying he was going down to Arizona because his sister lives with a youtuber and her bf in a 30k per month mansion...I asked him what youtuber it was, he goes "Casey Zander" I laughed so fucking hard................ I told him that I watched 100s of your videos in college along with Kevin Samuels, Tate, LFA, Corey Wayne etc. The guys name was Cody or Jake? I forget, but I've hung out with him numerous times here in Minnesota. You should create a book series about female psychology.. The best of the best of your info condensed into chapters... I noticed your perspective strengths with time over the years, so you should write the book NOW, not worry about releasing it for months or years, then review and update it as your perspective changes to get the utmost quality peak high intel shit

[@bryangaddis]

That's exactly what they said 😂😂😂😂 im like no you're not 😂😂😂

[@hiramiroquai]

most of you learn on internet but never apply in real life. You need to apply what you learn on the internet to real life. Stop following these OF women on your Instagram. Stop treating women as if they were angels. self-respect always!!!! never accept disrespect. I know it's hard because most of you guys are needy and looking for a girlfriend, but you got do this

[@michelehellmann2918]

One guy ever cheated on me. Well two. But the first wasn’t a serious relationship yet. The other man I loved. And we broke up. I did go back to him briefly when he had some kind of seizures thing happening and I realized I loved him when his life was in danger. But not at all because he cheated. I never forgot he betrayed me. And we didn’t make it. The other was High school and I just told him pick what he was going to do and I would decide what I was going to do. He went away and came back a week later to say he picked the other girl. I said ok. It was not serious. Telling men they can cheat so they join a boys club is prib the way to get members. But it isn’t remotely right that women secretly want the cheaters. If a man wants to go find someone else behind my back, she can have him. I don’t share.

[@somethinderpsterious]

Long story short you took the cheater back

[@michelehellmann2918]

To me, a cheater proves he is not a high value man. Without integrity, his SMV goes way down in my eyes. No discipline. No self control. And I only want those who want me. There is a standard how I will be treated. If u have eyes for someone else and we are that close that we committed, talk to me about it. And go to that other chicka with some dignity and integrity at least. This whole be a secretive liar and risk her having diseases and stuff? Making a fool out of her? Gross. I am not secretly turned on by that. And it is not ow to be a high value man imo

[@haot2041]

@@michelehellmann2918there is tons of guys who is incapable of cheating, and can be loyal to you, why not go for them then? Your action and perhaps even your own thought is incongruent with your action, you liked to believe you want a loyal man but your subconscious says otherwise

[@stephenporrill979]

Don't cheat of course, but a real man of value has options.... Also if you are not fully committed then it's not cheating... Women want men that are high SMV so they are going to have to share..

[@ZenDonn]

It's only betrayal when a woman cheats, a man can't cheat or betray retard

[@cincomiranda478]

Now out of curiosity, if a woman asks “have you ever cheated on someone before?” What’s the best response to that chat?

[@cincomiranda478]

I’ve always said no. But I wonder how it would look like saying yes moving forward

[@luisjoselopezdev]

it's so true that hurts

[@shahidrangraze2836]

i was just like you, wondering why some people effortlessly draw attention while i felt invisible. nothing i tried seemed to work. then i came across Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted my perspective. the way chapter 3 explains energy and presence? it’s like unlocking the secret to being noticed.

[@SaikatGhosh-z5k]

Fake publicity. Nobody fall for this

[@andredreyfus4148]

Everytime more based Casey

[@dblockbass]

Casey=Morpheus

[@libanyare4130]

When i see this white board I immediately pickup my notebook 😂

[@JamesSmith-kf4nn]

You’re the man!

[@jo-mang]

Mint CZ Could be a WWE character That would reach a millie pretty quick Good on ya matey Giver

[@Lily-c2z6t]

Why they secretly admire men who cheat? I don't know. I cannot figure it. But I don't think he has been actually SAYING that you should or have to cheat. I have been getting more lately that a man may cheat or he may not cheat. The point is does she think he has other women lying in wait. Is he so confident that he just does not care what the outcome of his interaction with a female is. Because he has plenty other options and does not need to stress about it. Casey letting his light shine.

[@nicknoto31]

Let's GOOO!! These bros commenting, iykyk

[@antonylyons2502]

Legend

[@TheRedM856]

Video number 3 of asking for a Uncle C and John Zherka collab

[@anthonymichaeldurkin6244]

ThanK you. Mr Zander.

[@OisndaHouse]

Thank you bro

[@Jack-h7m6u]

U made sense, 👏

[@Colt19]

Casey, you gonna need a bigger board.

[@pablomoedano7678]

Beautiful ❤

[@LungisaniMlangeni-d3s]

COWBOY HAT! THIS IS SERIOUS!

[@felixmachimbo909]

It makes someone older

[@Jared-v9x]

Hypergamy approves of polyamory, not monagomy. Polyamory is for bad boys. Monagomy is for good men. Both lifestyles are challenging. Choose your challenge wisely.

[@oap851]

Exactly that’s the truth, monogamy is also not natural for the man. Monogamous is not natural, look at your past ancestors, the kings, the animals. All of them Polygynous. Look at the male biological reproductive system, designed to reproduce every second theoretically. Women are monogamous to one man, but man is polygamous in maintaining multiple women

[@BookOfIsaiahh]

Is it bad that I watch this with my woman?

[@allenmincey7918]

It sounds like she's fantasizing about trying to control something that she knows she can't control. Once again, It's about her feelings.

[@johnqdoe]

10:45 This part is actually really funny, me too

[@KevaunChildofGod]

I have a friend been dating his girlfriend for 13 years and cheated on her many times and she doesn’t leave him thing is she could easily replace him because of her beauty but she doesn’t lol

[@Sp1n3c]

brilliant

[@jonsnow911]

2:10 saying the same thing in different ways, 3:20, 9:40, 14:00, 15:50, 16:50

[@AC-sf9yi]

All truth, but it doesn't go for cheating alone. A woman wants to change a man if he acts "badly" according to her standards. and if she can't, she'll do anything to accomplish it. Cheating is the typical that gets the attention, but a man can be cold and distant doing different things - fishing, going out, etc.

[@beefysupreme]

i just pissed myself

[@rebuildingdad3010]

It's simple, because her narrow mind believes that she can be the one who can change him.

[@marcuslong9761]

Any guy who has a gf can cheat.

[@Shavar1983]

Sorry Drake,lol😂

[@SuperQdaddy]

I've seen it many times..whats the answer...I met a girl who flipped me off for a married guy cheater..

[@metaldreams3595]

Yeah, the things on a womans list of things shes looking for in a man? Smart, funny, considerate, affectionate, etc I figured out years ago they just say that sht cos they think theyre supposed to. They dont look materialistic or shallow but its bs. Here's the deal. Those are things they do want in a man...when deep in a relationship. What about the initial stages? No. They could give a f less.

[@andreslabestia]

One question: does this apply to teenagers (say, for instance 14 to 18 girls), or just to women that have more experience in life and romance?

[@Cookedfrfrfr]

Where are the looksmaxxing videos?

[@tonylife707]

Why don't you explain the first steps before the relationship? Some men don't even enter into a relationship.

[@halukkilic3171]

1. Look good 2. Have a large, thick p*nis. 3. Provide fun 4. Relationship

[@K.R_Mony]

You have to cheat to have her staying. Damnnn

[@pavevbogovev4045]

Your videos keep getting more accurate, this vid is worth 20 of your year old uploads.

[@Gamer32515]

for the longest time, i thought being magnetic was something you either had or didn’t. i used to watch others shine while i felt stuck. then i found Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it made me realize it’s all about the vibe you give off. chapter 3 especially changed the way i carry myself-it’s such a powerful shift.

[@kotymccallister5150]

I actually tested this theory once (I've heard it before) and she was appalled. Don't listen to this garbage.

[@SD-mi2vc]

thats the point. or she wasn't that attracted to you

[@kotymccallister5150]

@SD-mi2vc I mean.. it's hard for me to look in the mirror and think she wouldn't be attracted to me. Or Maybe she doubted the story. I've also had one girlfriend who seemed to be obsessed over the idea of me cheating and eventually left when she couldn't catch me and figured out I wouldn't. So maybe it's just the really toxic ones that like that. And she was reeeeeeally toxic. I'm honestly glad that one dipped out. Some parts of me thought she just liked the drama and wanted an excuse to cheat, herself. I don't think decent women are attracted to cheaters, from a biological standpoint. If you cheat and get someone pregnant, some of the resources will be allocated differently going forward, which isn't advantageous to the woman.

[@ChandanKumar-tp5sf]

ever feel like you’re the one no one notices, no matter what you do? i’ve been there. i tried all the advice out there, but nothing stuck until i read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki. the insights in chapter 3 blew my mind-it taught me how to let my energy do the talking before i even say a word.