Why women support patriarchy

[@Ojhfdxhhgg]

When mother's and father's hate us...we have no choice but to end up hating ourselves and others similar to us...

[@catherinea.5372]

Competition is a choice. Trying to compete with your mother in law only weakens your position. . As a wife, you are not your husband's mother and should not try to take her place. You are a person in your own right and see your in-laws as an opportunity for friendship, not a threat.

[@sk-ss1nu]

And vice-versa. Mother-in-law should not compete with daughter-in-law either. They should understand the difference between son and husband.

[@jpwski9425]

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[@TheLyricalCleric]

The master’s tools do not dismantle the master’s house! Tools of inequality don’t suddenly become tools of equality when wielded by others, they remain tools to divide, constrain, and disenfranchise. Women under patriarchy lose their autonomy as a matter of definition, then have to play the game of patriarchy to win it back like an actor has to suck up to the sleazy producer to get the good parts in a movie. It’s the producer’s movie, the actor only plays a role.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@@TheLyricalCleric I disagree wholeheartedly also why in the seven hells did men Create stuff like patriarchy?? sexism or misoggony nobody can tell me the answer, other Then "power & control" acting Like men are bad & hate women for absolutely no reason.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@TheLyricalCleric I think Women created it.

[@benbennett5301]

@@elongatedmanforever1252 "the masters tools do not dismantle the masters house" is a Marxist argument. Do not assume its being used in good faith

[@sjjdhwhjw1257]

​@@elongatedmanforever1252 if we look into history we'll see that basic survival of humans depended heavily on physical or manual labour. Men, with more muscle mass, energy and better hormonal balance automatically filled in those roles. Women on the other hand birthed children throughout her fertile years which kept her occupied and left her inside the house. Men's roles were held to greater importance because of threat from other societies trying to dominate each other. Physical strength was the currency of that age. Slowly we shifted towards an economy that leaned towards money as an exchange of goods and labour. Women with fewer children were able to give their time outside and earn few pennies. Slowly the need for physical labour decreased with the emergence of machines and industrial revolution. And thus the rise of feminism. Women who raised themselves against the gender norms were starting to get hate because they took away jobs from less qualified men and hence the misogyny. Women doing men's work meant their positions being snatched away and a need to contribute to household chores which obviously is not something they liked.

[@TheWorkPhoneTheWorkPhone]

Beautiful video.

[@lindastormonth4764]

Brilliant video and explanation.❤️ I particularly like how you don’t rush through the argument but deliver it at a speed where we are easily following and soaking up the ideas. Clear and beautifully presented, thank you. I have subscribed to your channel.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@lindastormonth4764 Still the lady left out all the positives Of "Patriarchy".

[@LikeToWatch77]

I had to play it at 1.5 speed to make it tolerable.

[@jenniferx1793]

Thank you!

[@brenkelly8163]

There’s war constantly everywhere. Maybe women don’t want to be killed by men’s unnecessary aggression and inability to discuss solutions instead of fighting to the death.

[@VACCINE-l4s]

*If MEN go on strike for 1 week* , we'll have : Tens of *thousands of unburied dead* bodies per day. Thousands of wounded people under the rubble. No oil products. *No high risk rescue ops* . No garbage collection* No defense against the enemies. Millions of *unrepaired breakdowns* [plumbing/electricity/engines/software/..] You name it...

[@supermario69kraftgami23]

Mostly men die in wars.

[@AbhishekKumar-ry9ls]

Wow 😮💯 the satellite analogy seems so cruel and degrading but sadly its the truth

[@apoorvatiwari5613]

Very beautifully explained 👏

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

Fear and conditioning

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

How so?? I think it's just the Natural order.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

It's fear & conditioning to accept Gender roles keep us alive??

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

@elongatedmanforever1252 no we females do what we want from now on no more submission to men

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@cheetavontiebolt9971 yeah now you only listen To men that are telling you you're a girl boss how Is that better??

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@cheetavontiebolt9971 yeah cause you ignore that men do also are required To do that in regards to their wives, you don't see a issue with that.

[@ThatGirlAyo]

Thank you for this ❤❤

[@noble_sword64]

The satellite analogy was very apt. Makes even more sense now when I hear it's important for women to de-center men in their lives.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@noble_sword64 Is that really going to do them any favors though?? no not really.

[@noble_sword64]

@@elongatedmanforever1252 I don’t think you watched the video properly. That’s the entire point.

[@Ogugua-k1w]

@@elongatedmanforever1252 It actually does favors just to women, but also to men. Men are no longer obliged to do anything for women, so anyone can finally be liberated from gender roles.

[@shane3004]

This was explained so beautifully and succinctly. This made it so much easier to digest the articles I've been reading. Thank you❤

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@shane3004 it was explained terribly.

[@shane3004]

@elongatedmanforever1252 wouldn't rely on an internet troll such as urself for an educated answer lmao. 🙄

[@shane3004]

​@elongatedmanforever1252 such an educated opinion u have lmao.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@shane3004 it's not explained in any way but Bias, excluding any & all responsibility from women in regards to this so called Patriarchy, saying it's "a stage men built" so were women the directors or actors?? cause I'm calling bs my friend.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@shane3004 I mean nothing was explained then Bias towards men & never discussing That women had power in the past & Influence, people constantly deny this.

[@azuredystopia3751]

But life ISN'T a play?? We don't act out our existence on a stage and men are demonstrably incapable of scripting said performance in fairness to both (esp if this would require sacrifice on their part). Please note: I do not refer to all men. Feminism allows you to choose for yourself- you don't get to choose for anyone else though. Pointless competition (ie SAHM vs career-driven) is not a tenet of feminism but a deliberate campaign of misinformation used to distract us from questioning authority as it relates to accumulation of wealth and power. Women need each other to be safe, I pray for the day we are able to set privilege aside and apply our collective intelligence to greater things. This is obviously an oversimplification and I mean no criticism towards the makers of this video (information is a powerful weapon after all). I've been a student, housewife, sahm, part-time/full-time employee, married and expecting at 21 to a man 17yrs older and still married to him 22yrs later. I have an adult daughter and I want the world to be safe for her physically and emotionally. I want her to love and be loved- but not at the expense of her intelligence and ambitions. Life is hard enough without sabotage from your own kind. Sorry for the long rant... Edit: words and terrible punctuation.

[@d.moldo_]

“Ah you think darkness is your ally? You merely adopted the dark. I was born in it, molded by it. I didn't see the light until I was already a m̶a̶n̶ woman, by then it was nothing to me but blinding!”

[@ultimobile]

'Behind every great man is a great woman' ? Top paid CEOs tend to have stay-at-home women who get to go shopping to spend the money. In strict Muslim countries like Saudi Arabia I read that women like to be able to stay at home with their women friends, not have to go to work, and feel protected by their men who go out to work instead. In Japan the most beautiful women tended to marry the top salaried men, and I would see them enjoying picnics in the park with babies - not having to go to work. A female friend told me it was great scam - enjoying going to cafes to relax with her women friends while her husband went to work - I told her she was talking to a man ... !

[@playinglifeoneasy9226]

Lady, you might have bought into that story that women cannot shine on their own or that women have to be in competition with each other. But I rejected that role my whole life I took their script and I put it through a shredder and then I mixed it with compost, and I threw it in a hole dumped worms on it and backfilled. How dare you tell anybody in 2024 ACE that their light doesn’t shine! take you and your antiquated philosophy and get off my feed

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@TheGrievingLawyer That's never going to happen cause women want men to Do stuff for them.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@playinglifeoneasy9226 The thing is, people ignore the good Things men do, the more women stray from their roles the unhappier They are getting, back in the past Women and men understood each Other and loved each other both endured hardships, oppression Prejudice but they worked together To have a better life.

[@Cokoflakes1]

@@elongatedmanforever1252 a jobless man in the comments. Get a life!

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

Men and women are equal

[@Cherrylipgloss2025]

Yes they are and Jesus is Egalitarian ❤

[@huizhechen3779]

They should be, but it's only sometimes, & it's case by case, even within the same society.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

I disagree, morally they are, but in Regards to differences both have attributes that outshine the other.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@TheGrievingLawyer There is none.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@@Cherrylipgloss2025 So men can give birth and women should work In dangerous jobs??

[@arinzz7]

Not all people become wise as they age, Some people become dumb

[@sjjdhwhjw1257]

Like you?

[@arinzz7]

@sjjdhwhjw1257 maybe your dumb feminist mother

[@interestingtimes6242]

Great presentation! Patriarchy is all about sex, and women participate in it as ardently as men do. Men compete with each other because women crave to be adored by the victor. The powerful men put themselves in charge to gain access to women. Women follow the system and compete with each other to gain access to the most powerful men. Women are angry at men, not seeing their own power. Men are angry at women, not able to nurture and love themselves, not finding purpose beyond the conquest of women. It’s a crazy game where only 10% of the men win. Women are trying desperately to dismantle this system, but it’s exacerbating the issues men face, making those 10% of men even bigger winners and the rest of men bigger losers. Men are walking away from the system, but not to success but rather to complete hopelessness. I hope men and women, working together, can co-create something that creates more winners and more hope for the future.

[@Cherrylipgloss2025]

Patriarchy is sin and it's extremely toxic to children

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@@Cherrylipgloss2025 No it's beloved you Guys created why are You so against it??

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

People have no clue what Patriarchy is & only see it as bad or black & white Like they do men & women.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

The real issue is women act as if They had no control or power in The past, regarding the so called Patriarchy, that is indeed false so they are fighting something that they made themselves While blaming men, it's erratic & Shows me that women don't really want equality I truly believe It's not about being equal or Dismantling the so called patriarchy They just want to become God that's what it's really always been about women ruled in the past, ruled as Mothers they don't want to acknowledge the patriarchy is the best for them, they rather work hard fighting a ghost & give up Everything about themselves as women To feel superior, it's a real Tragedy, I wish I could save many women but I'm only human.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@@Cherrylipgloss2025 women are the true authors Of patriarchy.

[@MrHanderson91]

How many non-patriarchal civilizations of any repute have there been?

[@optimisticdevi21.s]

What is so great in pattricahal civilization only killing cutting dominating wars etc..😂

[@robertroth3930]

Attempting to reason with spoiled, entitled, whiny, nincompoop women who only care about what they feel and want minute-to-minute is a waste of time. Give them whatever they want and they'll deem you weak and compile new lists of things to wish for and complain about.

[@mama-nono3652]

We have all been born into cultural systems and beliefs which we unconsciously accept as right and true, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Included in those systems are history, religion, law, gender roles, and societal value. We can understand how patriarchy could have become the default culturally because in our earliest systems naked survival in itself was of prime concern. In such a system it was brute force that was critical, not only against the predations of nature, but, in an unenlightened, unascended stage of human development, against each other. So, it may be that since brute force was so critical in our beginnings and remained so for so long, it became ingrained in our concepts around "value" in the culture.

[@lamaking3002]

Humans are evolutionarily patriarchal species, read steven goldberg

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@@lamaking3002 I agree completely and it's a good thing not a bad thing.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

I mean if patriarchy is untrue how come women never just took Over and made it better I keep Hearing that myth but its never Happened and never will.

[@gonnacry4513]

​@@elongatedmanforever1252 True

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@gonnacry4513 What do you think of the patriarchy?? narrative, I'm just asking.

[@melissachartres3219]

Based on this woman's diatribe: I SERIOUSLY think that she does not know the real definition of the word patriarchy. Seriously.

[@Abhishek-ti5er]

Wonderful ❤❤❤.

[@vickygraham2444]

Women are not brood mares

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

Nobody said you are, but it is part of women and it is Beautiful.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

They aren't, they are caregivers the kitchen is not bad it's a place where families love each other and memories are made.

[@optimisticdevi21.s]

​@@elongatedmanforever1252oh shut up then go yourself to kitchen and try...to spread love

[@robertroth3930]

Unless you value a sustainable civilization and the future welfare of women and girls.

[@benbennett5301]

why was this recommended to me?

[@marcietownsend3635]

Privilege and pass male violence both personal and institutional to lesser females.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

False and untrue, religions and patriarchy built women up and gave them value.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

I disagree most men love women.

[@marcietownsend3635]

@@elongatedmanforever1252 Think about it: why would any woman want to be in a cult that views her as inferior? Be honest with yourself.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@@marcietownsend3635 How does it view them as inferior give me a example I can disprove all of that.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

​@@marcietownsend3635 Oh you mean religions that paint women as noble, pure morally upright heroes?? Oh The horror.

[@j96700]

Unfortunately, too often true! Break the Patriarchy! ✊🏽

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

No create one better then ever.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

You cant destroy something that Keeps our species alive.

[@optimisticdevi21.s]

Yes.....

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@optimisticdevi21.s There's no breaking the Natural order.

[@optimisticdevi21.s]

@elongatedmanforever1252 🤣🤣natural order...my foot...my heritage belongs to matrichay.... that' s nature...for me..

[@jyotivyas9286]

For More Good Powers,,Women,,must understand..in Our Sanatan Shastra its said already,,Women have innate dark emotion of ~~ Jealousy~~👍So they have to Work on this Emotion first. Women actually are more Dangerous and Toxic than A Man. Just Be Careful...atleast In Bharat Its very bad days seeing by man nowadays. We need Balanced and Sane Masculine Feminine both...जय उमामहेश्वर।।🎉🎉💐💐😊 आभारम माताजी। ॐ श्री। ❤

[@GabrielaRomanik]

Your rural woman's analogy is crap. If you had said that there are two celestial bodies that depend on each other's existence, that would have made sense. If the sun is a star that can exist on its own, the same thing cannot be said for the male sex.

[@abuDojanaTahmid]

Your explanation is the textbook example of logical and emotional fallacy. It would be fun to debunk this logic. I should probably make a video debunking your logic in your videos.

[@sjjdhwhjw1257]

All words no sense

[@Domenico-uc7xy]

Bs

[@critterkarma]

I have to disagree with your supposition that women’s “roles” are seen as devalued. I would ask, what makes a role a woman’s, or for that matter a man’s. This is where patriarchy is so ingrained, that the belief that a woman’s role in society is automatically the caregiver/child raiser, and the man is provider/protector…. Etc. who said? Because of technological advancement, are we still slaves to subconscious definitions of roles in society? Aren’t we in a time where either (all) genders are capable of fulfilling any role? Even biology is up for grabs. With IVF, and the other medical advances, even our ideas of childbirth and what is possible no longer fits.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

I mean that's how society survived so long, are we different no?? women's ability to birth has been a thing valued in many religions why is it seen as bad to appreciate that of women??

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

I mean most men are not caregivers In the house, men are expected by both genders to be the one to take charge and be responsible.

[@critterkarma]

@@elongatedmanforever1252 your comment proved my point. Because of technology, we are no longer strapped strictly to “biology”. One small example: with power tools, a woman can build things. It doesn’t rely on brute strength. Like wise, with formula and a bottle, a man can nurture and feed an infant. It’s scary for many men to realize, women in my countries, if they choose, have the opportunity to live independently, with their own financial independence.

[@elongatedmanforever1252]

@@critterkarma How exactly did it prove you're "Point" exactly?? men are still Expected to do traditional Patriarchal things.

[@critterkarma]

@ by whom? Whose perspective? By mostly men’s?

[@beverlywelo]

This is some shit.😮