why you chase men.

[@fareenashofficial]

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[@kishongriffin9470]

I know,it’s never to late to learn and start over again. But the more I listen the more it’s hurting to hear I didn’t love myself enough not to accept breadcrumbs from a man... I’m really not that person who just wanna take but give. My problem is I give to soon which leaves me heart broken 💔 again.😢 I took a stand and told the guy I can’t see him anymore but I’m constantly thinking of him everyday and I just want my thoughts of him to go away on top of that I must play it cool because we work together. I wanna become a better person and not continue to put myself in theses situations. It’s not always the man fault.Although,he said a lot of what I long for knowing he wasn’t ready to deliver. I failed for the words with no actions. 🤦🏾‍♀️💔😞

[@fareenashofficial]

I’m so proud of you! I know it hurts, but acknowledging and having awareness is everything bc without this piece we can’t shift. I really recommend the inner work course and secrets of the feminine woman. They both will help you dive deeper into your healing journey. Again, I am so so proud of you!

[@kishongriffin9470]

@@fareenashofficial Thank you so much!💐I believe the inner work course will definitely be a Great investment in myself.. Your constant is appreciated!!!

[@fareenashofficial]

@kishongriffin9470 🙏🙏

[@TreasureForeverOfficial]

Girl I’ve been there! I’m happy you stood up for yourself! Things will work out for you just keep loving yourself ❤ follow your heart

[@basicinfo2022]

I learned why this year for me. I have anxious attachment issues and it gets triggered in casual relationships especially. I jump into the masculine role out of fear of rejection and abandonment. It does push the man away because youre not giving them space to pursue or miss you. I know they don't deserve me for such low effort but self sabotaging happens if you dont control your emotions from abandonment issues.

[@fareenashofficial]

Your awareness is beautiful and you’re on the right path 🤍🙏

[@basicinfo2022]

@@fareenashofficial thank you 💛 I noticed what I was beginning to do was wrong but kept doing it anyway... now im facing the consequences of making myself look insecure, masculine, more into him than he is and low quality to him. I'm on day 1 of no contact and moving on. Lesson learned to stay in my feminine and logical even when feeling insecure.

[@carolynwebb8726]

​@fareenashofficial can you discuss self sabotage in women. What it looks like, why, how to stop? Binge eating is an example of self sabotage and why many can't lose weight until they get their mind right.

[@secilperkins]

You are 💯 right. I’m proud i’ve never directly chased a man and betrayed/humiliated myself like a lot of women out there these days but I’m so sick and tired of thinking and energetically chasing the boys who one way or another got out of my life. I’m so done with this circle

[@Earthangel11179]

Good. Its the worst feeling. To want to give your all to someone and they were just manipulating you. Ultimate humiliation .

[@secilperkins]

@@Earthangel11179 I know it sucks seeing them switch up. But it definitely has nothing to do with you some people in the dating pool are just playing around and some already have someone else in their mind or even in their life somehow even if it’s hard to believe in the current situation. Shit happens. But you’re responsible of your own actions. We should be more observant less emotional and firm around our boundaries. We set the standard. Never be afraid to lose the wrong ones.

[@zsszikszai5180]

This is so well-put! I love love love this!! Your course is one of a kind!

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you! I’m happy you love it 😍

[@mariav5930]

OMG how good is this message?!! So very little women, not to mention coaches know about this and are ready to be honest on this topic. I truly believe in Fareen’s work and its uniqueness. She is a truly special woman and professional ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

I appreciate you so much!! 😍😍

[@universe.trippin]

How can a woman be a taker when feminine energy is to receive? Receiving is our job.

[@anita.5964]

So much truth! Thank you for being so honest and compassionate ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

🙏🙏

[@annyvu2808]

I agree with everything you say. Buying your 2 books and inner work course was one of the best decisions I've made to invest in myself. They're so heavy but I've healed so much. Thank you for your the work you're doing ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Oh I love hearing this 😍 Heavy? You mean densely packed with information or ? …. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me and everyone 🙏🙏

[@annyvu2808]

@@fareenashofficial thank you for response 😊 Heavy as in the content triggers a lot of unresolved wounds and emotions within me. I feel heavy and I cry a lot so I take a break often ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

@annyvu2808 thank you for clarifying! Yes, this is how you know it’s real and not fluffy happy happy go lucky ego stuff :) I’m happy it’s activating you! And yes take breaks to let it process ok! Email me what you’ve learned when you’re finished 🤍

[@annyvu2808]

@@fareenashofficial will do, thank you ❤

[@Ashley-yi6fi]

I've been watching tarot readers for the last 4 years when I stumbled across your videos. I like your videos because I'm always down in the dumps over my love life. Thanks for the work that you do.

[@fareenashofficial]

I’m sorry you’re feeling down in the dumps :( you seem to have a beautiful heart. I’m happy that I am able to uplift, or I hope that is what I doing for you 🤍

[@ReginaMcNeish]

Would you consider online dating putting women in the chase mode subconsciously? Especially sites like Bumble? I absolutely abhor OLD and feel like it’s forcing women into chasing and desperate energy. So much so that the plethora of men on there ( on any site) has put the men in a very lazy energy and in a very feminine receiving energy.

[@fareenashofficial]

Oh yes! But, on dating sites, we can still remain in our femininity. I actually get into this in “what men want.” I met my partner on a dating site. I go into how to respond and how to be on there. I actually think dating sites are a great way to see a man’s energy! I’ll do a video on this!

[@shieldoffaith7099]

I hear what you're saying. I don't know how it works on other sites, but on Bumble, it shows who is interested in you. So if you only choose from them, it's not really chasing, is it?

[@fareenashofficial]

@shieldoffaith7099 well you don’t want to choose based on who selected you, you want to choose based on their investment of you.. does this make sense?

[@AM-ut7dg]

@@fareenashofficialplease make a video on how to make feminine energy dating profile. I think my profile is very feminine in the sense that I’m able to attract a lot of likes but I still haven’t matched with someone who has all of the following: masculine energy, healthy mindset, & compatible with me. I’ve spoken with my male friends about what women are like on the apps and I know I’m doing better than most of them based on their profiles but I still haven’t succeeded…

[@Hestia134]

Now this is a great topic, very on point ! Now here’s another question I’ve been studying what if some women are more masculine than their partners which means that they will only attract men who have more feminine qualities within them making the woman be the ones to pursue in their relationship, can this advice still apply for the masculine women not talking about those that are lgbt 🏳️‍🌈 but just regular women who carry those masculine traits they’re just more dominant and they tend to attract men who are just more feminine. A relationship has to have a masculine or feminine in order for things to have balance.

[@fareenashofficial]

If they are happy it is ok 🤍. If they want to change the dynamic they have to do the inner work to shift

[@Hestia134]

@@fareenashofficial thanks I agree as well, I just see that dynamic a lot in my culture. Some of our women are more dominant than their partners and they can come off as bossy and aggressive but it’s just that they’re more masculine and our men usually are conflicted about their roles. It’s completely different, I wish people would understand themselves more so that they know how to properly date.

[@genteelcowgirl0119]

addicted to your videos :)

[@fareenashofficial]

😀😀😀😀

[@Abby-ll5yw]

Thank you, Fareen! ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Your welcome Abby 🙏

[@abk4161]

Thank you ❤your videos are so helpful, I can relate but hearing your advice removes any doubt or weak moments about having to chase a man

[@natasharichard3900]

This is good.

[@firebird3639]

Are we waiting around for who we want to approach us? Those who approach us are not what we want if we get approached at all.

[@kittymeow1113]

Thank you for this light and wisdom dear Fareen, with your help I feel that I am moving more and more into my feminine everyday. I am far from perfect, and I still pine for a guy, however I feel that little by litte I am gaining inner balance, and I am grateful for this process.

[@fareenashofficial]

Oh I loveeee this share and comment thank you so much for sharing your love with me and others! We will never be perfect because we are always growing so I want you to be happy at your growth and proud of yourself and the journey 🤍

[@thaisadutra98]

Fareen, i live in a different country but watch your videos every day. I’m really interested in your books but due to the currency differences it will come out to be about R$250 which is a lot for me right now. Is there any chance you could give me a discount code?

[@evolutionbe7150]

I just want to say that I don't know Fareen, I've never met her, nor talked with her, and she's never asked anything of me. But I randomly came across her videos a month or two ago (on my journey in the search for more answers about femininity) and I randomly saw her descriptions of her books on her website. The descriptions alone on her website are a wealth of information. So i decided to buy the inner work course (and after the 3rd or 4th video in the course i bought the books.) Let me just say that I've uncovered more shadow work in the first 5 videos of her course than I had in a year of therapy lmao. I just wanted to put this out there in case anyone was on the fence about buying her products. I was really apprehensive about buying them, and I was a little discouraged and regretting whether it would help me, if im being completely honest, but after the 3rd week of the course, it's very clear to me that it's worth it! Good luck out there ladies ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Omg this is sooooooo 😍😍😍😍

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you for helping me help others 🙏

[@evolutionbe7150]

@@fareenashofficial of course! Your work speaks for itself, I thought the course was going to be a lot like other courses I've taken, but it's not at all lol. I'm actually really enjoying the inner work now. Once you get past a bit of the beginning and discomfort it gets better and you start seeing real changes!

[@fareenashofficial]

@@evolutionbe7150yess! Without discomfort it’s not true shadow work :)

[@craftswithjeni]

Can you make a video about looks and confidence

[@fareenashofficial]

Sure… what about it exactly ?

[@craftswithjeni]

@@fareenashofficial how to feel secure in your own skin and the likes

[@annastone5624]

Can you do a video on how to reciprocate? And not have the reciprocating turn to chasing. Long story short.. A man I’d had lovely conversations with surprised me on my last day of my trip by turning up to say goodbye, early in the morning! So just before I left I asked should we exchange numbers.. is that chasing? After a week I sent two messages, is that chasing? For me I felt I should show interest, because my fear is that due to my shyness, they will think I’m not interested.. that has happened many times. But also, I always feel I need to be fair and be 50-50 but maybe it shouldn’t be that in the early stages because it’s not about fairness, it’s about figuring out how we feel and desire.. Maybe it’s more on him at that stage.

[@ryanbailey8588]

Same thing for men actually. Low value men tend to chase women. I think a wise man should pick from the women who want him; as, women, being the more picky and less persevering sex in relationships, are likely to leave far sooner than a man should. The reality is this. In relationships there is the Lover and the Lovee. All the feelings are had by the Lover, not the Lovee. Women need to be the Lover. Men can stay in a relationship that their feelings aren’t in - women cannot.

[@shivamiltiwari9541]

Men don't chase either they offer and wait it's the woman who need to provide clues that she likes the offer and the man. Women choose...Men Work .. !

[@fareenashofficial]

Yes

[@PetraHeylen]

Is an emotionally unstable man a femminine man? Is that the same? Cause those man always fall in love with me so there must be something of that in me too, i think i need to buy your book to learn things about myself

[@fareenashofficial]

Well it depends…. They can be.. well you’ll have the opposing energy in you, so the masculine energy, the unhealthy kind. We always want to come more and more into balance. Yes, the books are a great first step! And then for deeper awareness when you’re ready book a call if you need. I love that you’re asking these questions !

[@PetraHeylen]

@@fareenashofficial never thought of it that way, i always thought i was very femminine. I'm never interested in those man, but when i fall for a man i have to say i always do the chasing so maybe that's the masculine in me that you are talking about and then those man pull away from me, it's always the story of the man i want don't want me and the man that want me i don't want 😏 and yes its so frustrating

[@kristinepeacock3125]

If you let a man know you are interested, is that chasing him?

[@fareenashofficial]

It depends on when etc … lots to consider… have you read “what men want?”. If you have a specific situation you need my help with you can purchase an email question or book a call 🤍

[@asiandude8361]

Men are masculine and women are feminine. It is what it is.

[@MargaretBuj_InterviewCoach]

100%

[@fareenashofficial]

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[@MargaretBuj_InterviewCoach]

@@fareenashofficial let's see if this title appears on Sami's channel in 2-3 weeks lol

[@fareenashofficial]

@MargaretBuj lol

[@XOAliciaMarie]

What’s up with the editing on this video? It’s sounding robotics because there’s so many jump cuts.

[@Li.na_2603]

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[@fareenashofficial]

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[@swordsnorchids1997]

It's because of the loneliness epidemic and decline of a good and healthy society.

[@juliai9960]

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[@fareenashofficial]

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[@Mitalisoni369]

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[@zsszikszai5180]

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[@fareenashofficial]

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[@geoeconomics5629]

Chase men ? Change the title chase millionaires

[@devin3607]

Women will pursue and desire men who they really want. Men are the prize and women are the admirers. Ask my girlfriend who pursued me how madly she is in love

[@lindabusan4415]

And Are you MADLY in Love with Her?

[@User_sam0101]

Right question ​@@lindabusan4415

[@marisolgarcia6634]

Love your content! I’ve learned so much . TY ! 🫶🏻

[@fareenashofficial]

Aw! I love that! Thank you for sharing 🙏🙏

[@gingerjoy5836]

Absofreakinlutely🙌🏼🩷

[@fareenashofficial]

Love this 😍😍😍

[@gingerjoy5836]

@@fareenashofficial Thank you! Your content is spot on!🙌🏼🩷