Why you keep relapsing on NoFap

This video I go through the reasons why I kept relapsing on NoFap and Retention
and it was more a psychological aspect
very interesting and life changing and helpful to myself once I got this

[@reddeadrene7552]

You did it, admit it, try to forget it.

[@Joelygill]

is this your general advice or are you talking to me. Cause I'm a little confused

[@reddeadrene7552]

In general. Just a saying 🙌

[@yt-user03561]

I'll just say this, a lot of guys may not even see it as a problem yet, or maybe just a small one in a whole sea of problems. They might need to be educated on how it affects them and their lives or get a fresh perspective on it, like how you also dove into semen retention in your other videos. I think guys may need to be introduced to all the positives of nofap in order to find the motivation to stop it once and for all. To taste success so to leave failure behind. Because if failure is all they know, they wont know better and they will stay comfortable, as you said. It just comes down to education.

[@Joelygill]

Was more about me - when I recognised I wanted to stop but was still relapsing a lot But yeah good point I always forget that ppl are still ignorant about the positives

[@bekabeka71]

I’m 29 and single guy, I relapsed just now as I had difficult urination, maybe to do with prostate, I’m quite good looking but extremely socially awkward as I’ve no close friend of social circle, the pressure is high as my parents want me to get married but I am not choosing average looking girls because I am too busy looking for outside beauty

[@Joelygill]

Looks are so unimportant Life is about character

[@bekabeka71]

@@Joelygill but the thing is I am too caught up chasing only the looks

[@Joelygill]

@@bekabeka71 I meant describing yourself as good looking Dnt listen to what any of these teenagers say - looks are so unimportant AS A MAN

[@drhybrid9791]

we are all self. You are you, I am I, but we are the greater I

[@shal6401]

i recommend the book “the easy way to quit porn”

[@Joelygill]

Yeah good suggestion 👍

[@borsho9889]

Never understood this trend. Fap is natural and mandatory in any men, we need it basically and is good to do it. Ofc, is not good to do it watching porn, etc, but thats another subject.

[@Joelygill]

Appeal to nature fallacy. Murder is natural. Arsenic is natural.

[@bekabeka71]

Is it because it keeps the prostate healthy? To prevent enlargement?

[@thepunisherxxx6804]

You keep relapsing because we're biologically hard-wired to want sex, its NORMAL. Feeling shame about it or cutting it out of your life is going against what we were naturally built to do. Jerking off too much to porn isn't unique, its just pursuing pleasure. Like all things, you have to find a balance of things we HAVE to do and things we WANT to do. That's it.

[@Joelygill]

Cope

[@BumbleBeeCasper]

lol, guy is saying cope to libido. This whole no fap culture, comes from this judeo-Christian mindset that masturbation is intrinsically bad. It has no backing in science. If anything, masturbation leads to less SA. Moderation for some is key.

[@BumbleBeeCasper]

@@Joelygill You don’t have a justified reason to dismiss someone without a good reason to defend your argument. Saying, “Cope” sounds like a cope. Because you have yet to explain any reasoning why you believe what you believe. (As per my comment) You say, “I’m not trying to convince anyone”. But you dismiss them when they disagree with you. You don’t sound open for discussion. Cognitive Dissonance.

[@Joelygill]

@@BumbleBeeCasper attempting (and failing) to sound smart in KZbin comments is not worth the energy Comment above uses the appeal to nature fallacy, which if you’ve ever been in a setting beyond yt comments is encouraged to be dismissed out of hand because it is such a poor argument - murder is natural… cocaine is natural…etc Even though it would be easy to point out how absurd that argument is It isn’t worth the time I am not open for discussion Do what you want All the best!

[@BumbleBeeCasper]

@@Joelygill nice ad hom. I run outside everyday, thank you.

[@dawidlugowski]

Value of the vid is good but it sounds fair boring to watch

[@Joelygill]

I don’t understand

[@mescobar1118]

iPad kid brain can’t handle a video longer than a TikTok clip

[@Joelygill]

I assumed that was what he meant - I really ain’t making vids for school kids 🤷

[@dawidlugowski]

@@mescobar1118 Man youre so brainwashed the autismm is crazy 💀💀🔥🔥

[@LauceHarry]

So go watch a guru with a bunch of cuts and “inspirational” music in the background