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[@not-so-frustrated-musician6410]

I wish you could make a video for casual clothes paired with casual shoes, as in sneakers and flats. We cannot wear heels while we are running after toddlers or running around doing a ton of errands, it’s just not comfortable or practical.

[@lexa_power]

💯💯💯

[@missNCW]

That’s fine, but it’s not her fault if that’s something that’s almost impossible to do. It’s our height, hers too, that is the issue

[@helenr9135]

The videos are very entertaining and informative however I agree with the previous comments. It is no far to add heels. Please make some smart casual clothes with shoes you could walk 20,000 steps in, for example you are travelling and don’t want to look frumpy.

[@stephaniebrun9473]

Yes exactly! I need casual outfits and shoes that are actually casual but don't make me look frumpy. Casual Shoes are a hard one. Especially in the summer..I can't wear heels everyday

[@geoc1005]

I can't wear heels at all anymore. And I never liked wearing them. It's much more challenging to dress well as a petite without heels.

[@gen_o]

Suggestion: There are sneaker options that look more polished and less casual. I go for solid black or solid white, preferably slip-ons and hardly no logos visible if possible.

[@mercedeskerr720]

Once I add heels and jackets it’s not longer casual, will never run errands with heels

[@edennis8578]

That what I use wedges for. In the summer, espadrilles with a wedge sole are my go-to. Just an extra inch or so makes a big difference, and they aren't as clunky as athletic shoes.

[@Nonotme888]

I’ve been watching a lot of these petite stylist giving advised. I noticed they seem to pair the outfits with heels 90% of the time. Which makes it seem like a work/meeting attire. I just want to dress casual while shopping, but also look cute and chic. And I want my feet to be comfortable and pain free.

[@yvettebennett6170]

This is for business casual but what about casual clothes for running errands, going to bbqs, hanging out? Can you please do a video for this? 😁

[@valeriebradshaw4066]

Agreed! I’m not going to wear heels to take my kids to the park, but I still want to look nice!

[@yvettebennett6170]

@valeriebradshaw4066 I agree. High heels of any kind is not casual. I want to look nice but be casual and comfortable. Not business casual.

[@stephaniebrun9473]

Yes! Please make this video!!

[@usernameisunavailable8270]

Im guessing sneakers that are a crisp classic white. Or maybe some pretty sandals would work.

[@edennis8578]

That what I use wedges for. An espadrille with an inch or so wedge sole has a similar effect, and they aren't as clunky as athletic shoes.

[@Teresa1963-xz8mb]

Thank you for explaining this. I’m 61 yrs old, five foot even tall with apple shape and I’m learning things from you! It’s amazing what difference 1 simple change can make.

[@bethmccall9254]

Could you please do a whole video or even a series of videos for ladies who only wear flat shoes? It’s tricky!!!

[@rossdee998]

It is not realistic wear heels all the time, even if they are kitten heels

[@stephaniebrun9473]

Agreed!!

[@barbaraaniballi9307]

Non sono d'accordo, io li indosso la maggior parte delle volte.

[@missNCW]

Fair, but she can’t help if flat shoes look less flattering on us

[@Dandelion_flight]

Yeah I agree. Most of the heels that I have bought, even the kitten heels are hardly used. They definitely look good with clothes but not practical especially when most times some walking is expected. Imagine slapping my feet in heels on concrete ground, it's suffering. The only times I try to wear heels are when I know the destination is close to the parking 🤣 and the appointment is just a short one. Sometimes I would switch into comfortable walking shoes/flats instead. 😂

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

I am 68 years old and I am the same size you are. Thank you so much for your channel because it really helps me. I put things on and take them off and say I don’t like how that looks. You have shown me what to put with certain items that make a big difference.😊🇺🇸

[@emilym8943]

The shoes are changing the entire outfit to no longer be casual. I'm thinking casual as going to a kids' baseball game. I wouldn't wear heels in the grass.

[@pintsize1780]

Exactly… I’m not running errands or going to some local event on high heels.

[@piad2428]

Agree

[@SoNick25]

my thoughts too!

[@edennis8578]

That's why I love wedges. Just an extra inch or so and you get the same effect.

[@misty4483]

I think she said casual office…

[@Off_the_clock_astrophysicist]

I think a better title for this video would have been "how to elevate a casual item with minimal effort". If you take a pair of jeans, pair it up with a linen shirt, a belt, a necklace, and heels, it's no longer a casual outfit. Cute, easy, comfortable, but not casual.

[@RR-kp5ps]

Can you make a tutorial on how to dress for rainy summer weather? I can't wear kitten heels in the rain. How do I keep myself dry, but cool?

[@caligal]

I travel to London a lot and it rains a lot there, like a lot. They all have light weight trench coats to put on or take off. also, wear mostly close shoes but mostly flat as they need to walk a ton. In the last few years, white sneakers are a thing. Everyone, young and old wear them everyday.

[@RR-kp5ps]

@@caligal Yeah, I'm from London. Most trench coats don't come with a hood and I don't like using an umbrella. The only trench coat I know that has a hood is Burberry and I can't afford Burberry. I have white sneakers and I'm thinking about buying brown loafers, but this video says it looks bad? Also, the only loafers that suit me are low rise loafers (the ones that cover just the toes) and they're not suitable for wet weather.

[@reneeh.1249]

I have a couple pair of Oxfords 👞 at different price points. And Aquatalia makes stylish water-proof or -resistant shoes (I have their black Chelsea boots). Good quality but $300-500 USD so second-hand or sites like Nordstrom Rack may help

[@rhiannongomer5867]

Seasalt have a hooded trench coat this season. ​@@RR-kp5ps

[@Off_the_clock_astrophysicist]

I lived in the southern US for 10 years. Places where rains are torrential but it's otherwise extremely hot in the summer. Everybody down there wears flip flops. The idea is that you can't avoid getting drenched, but that's OK because when the sun comes out 10 or 20 minutes later, your feet and the rest of your body dry quickly. I never liked flip flops. Not stylish, and uncomfortable, with the thing that rubs between the toes when walking. I wore plastic or rubber slides in nude colors. Crocs makes some shoes that look normal and a little less casual. My favorite pair is from them. Of course that got boring and I own a number of pairs of cute sandal heels, so I would often carry the slides in my purse (they're light) and put them on whenever I got caught in an apocalyptic downpour.

[@misosoup8030]

Of course, wearing heels makes you look better, but they’re not comfortable. If we wear casual clothes, we need to be able to walk and be comfortable. I will not compromise the health of my body (& my back). Usually when I’m needing to wear casual clothes, I also need to be walking a lot, so I need my sneakers. Please show us short women how we can look decent in sneakers. We must be realistic.

[@lucyjane9772]

I agree. I would love to run about in heels but that's a fantasy rather than reality. I can't stand feeling uncomfortable especially my feet 😅

[@LluviadeOrugas]

Unless she was going to the office, I don’t think the heels make her look better at all, quite the opposite in fact, especially with jeans. From the few videos I’ve watched of this woman, I can say I don’t like her style at all. She reminds me of how small town’s women used to dress thirty years ago where I’m from.

[@lexa_power]

I wore wedges to the bar the other night and fell down - twice! Bruises all over - need to wear sneakers for the next month or so while i heal up. Would love some suggestions for how to make sneakers look better. I find sling backs uncomfortable and tough to walk in.

[@moiraberniegatt9491]

In response to ‘from the few videos…’ I think the 1.8k in 4 days suggests you are not the majority. I think the lass is outstanding.

[@LluviadeOrugas]

@@moiraberniegatt9491 , sure, I never said otherwise, just giving my opinion.

[@exhibitjean]

Is there a way to look nice with flat sneakers? I can't wear heels or sandals. Or is there another type of shoe?

[@hazelmeldrum5860]

I think you try and put the emphasis on your top half ,the earrings showing your waist etc and make your shoes disappear

[@RR-kp5ps]

Maybe roll your jeans up to expose some ankle?

[@claireminator]

Loafers can be a good solution if you want flat shoes that are a bit more chic! There are different styles so you can get chunky loafers for a more casual look, flatter loafers with gold buckles for more chic options, etc. I can’t wear heals either and I found they are a good replacement 😊

[@americafirst9144]

What about a closed toe shoe with a bit of a wedge or platform built in?

[@susanking9733]

you are the best !!! you have taught me so much about dressing a 5 ft hour glass shape with short waist and longer legs !

[@originalgabbo]

you change the casual outfit... so it isn't casual anymore. that doesn't really me help at all

[@edennis8578]

Try low-wedge espadrilles instead of heels. Still casual, but they elongate your legs a bit and aren't as clunky as athletic shoes.

[@BluePatriotWinner]

​@@edennis8578excellent idea!

[@Maggie2809]

This advice is perfect for casual Fridays in the office! Otherwise I’ll definitely do super casual when I’m chasing my kids around the playground 😁

[@satnodidi]

Watched a bunch of your videos. There are some very helpful nuggets I've enjoyed--rule of thirds, elongating the legs, nude colors. I don't always agree with what looks good for before and after, but it's not a fair comparison either when you change 3-4 other things in the after-photo, like changing to heels, nude colors, tucking in shirt, cinching the waist. Basically a wardrobe change would make the initial point sort of disappear, don't you agree?

[@lorineely6921]

There are so many cute casual sneakers out there that can replace athletic sneakers!

[@Off_the_clock_astrophysicist]

And low block heeled options as well.

[@salayir1144]

You are so humble. Every time you say 'if you are short like myself', changes everything. You are a saviour! ❤

[@G..G..]

I totally agree. Thx sooo much for this video

[@ter17nicfab99]

Beautiful kitten heels but I can't wear heels anymore 😢 or pointed shoes

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

I would try square toe ballet flats. Vivia makes some really comfortable flats. They have some great shoes if you go online and look, you might find some thing you like.

[@GraceNotePianoStudio]

Genius Chi!!

[@ballerinablush5436]

another perfectly explained video thanks

[@Linda-ht1ys]

Great video and explanation. Thank you. I have now learnt to add a dressier piece to my sporty outfits. Was the missing link.

[@debbralehrman5957]

Thank you this is very helpful.👍🏼🌷

[@annan.3283]

Once you put heels on, it’s no longer a causal outfit.

[@vihangam2]

True

[@carmagurl317]

For the people talking about heels, I suggest wearing a comfy sandal in summer and a boot in winter ! It is casual and easy to walk in and solves the clunky sneaker problem. Overall great tips, thanks for the video. ❤

[@sandram8232]

Agree, I am almost always in short boots and if they have a slender profile, they can work with skirts and dress pants. I also like wearing oxfords, again with a slender profile. For example, in summer, I wear a neutral/light colored bronze pair of oxfords that work with a lot of skirts and shorter dresses. I do not wear heels as casual wear and seldom with my professional clothing, yet I still manage to look professional. It's just my personal preference not to wear heels and have learned to make it work through a lot of trial and error. Although there are definitely situations where a heel would look best and I am still looking for a a perfectly comfortable nude pair that's not too casual :)

[@yayakanda1968]

As always you've got the best advice when it comes to fashion. I follow them all even though I am 5 feet 10❤🎉

[@misosoup8030]

Also, wearing jewelry and fancy accessories is not realistic. For instance, if I’m going to a ballgame, I need to be casual and comfortable (in my sneakers) and wearing too many accessories does not go with the theme. There is no way I’d be wearing any kind of heels, even low heels, to a ball game. Running around, doing errands in casual clothes, I must have comfortable shoes, which is better for my posture.

[@tmm6884]

Omg! I didn't even realize that I always wear dressy clothes! Genius!

[@gwenzumbameyer4113]

Thank you for helping me understand why it seems impossible to dress casual beyond going to the gym 😂. I worked for 20 years in structured clothes and suits, haven't made the transition well after 6 years of retirement!

[@marlenekoch3653]

Love your videos.. can you maybe do a "soccer mom" outfit?

[@anjalivashisht3559]

Hi Chi, I try to follow your almost every suggestion except plunging neckline, sleeveless & cropped top. Can you please make a video, how to look classy, comfortable as well as presentable at home any time. Whether we need to rush to the grocery store or have to welcome unexpected guest. Specially for a home maker woman, who wanna look stylish when her husband come back in the evening & can’t stop to admire her beloved. Please.

[@Off_the_clock_astrophysicist]

Am I the only one who can't wear pointy toe? I cry in pain every time I see them on other people's feet. Even the kitten heels. I have one pair of kitten heels slingbacks that is very elegant and that I wear because I love them so much, but it's the type of shoe that's OK for an occasion where I don't have to stand or walk for too long.

[@stephaniebrun9473]

You're not the only one. Honestly, I don't like the look of pointy shoes either. I think they look so ugly.

[@Off_the_clock_astrophysicist]

@@stephaniebrun9473 I also find pointy toe shoes unpleasant to look at and so it may be strange that I like my pointy toe slingbacks (who, on top of everything else, hurt my feet). I can be OK with the short pointy toes, 1980's style. In the 2000's is when whitches' shoes became the rage. I went an entire decade without buying a single pair of heels because that's all that was available. I want them to go away, but that's not going to happen.

[@RoxanneGuzman-kc3jj]

I love your videos I’m 5 ft plus size

[@veronicacarmody115]

I’m the big bust short gal, and everything you said is true. I like to wear fitted shirts with looser bottoms. When I wear a button down shirt, I usually wear it knotted at the waist or tucked in, I’ve found this is much more flattering. The elastic waistband never works on me.

[@SunandSweettea]

Wearing a pointed toe ballet flat is an alternative to kitten heels. The pointed toe keeps the silhouette elongated. Try to get a flexible ballet flat so that your feet don’t feel tight. Real leather and cloth or recycled plastic flats are great. Rothy’s, birdies and Tieks are all great choices if a bit pricey, but they are an investment that will last. I know there are more affordable versions out there too.

[@ChrissieSM]

Are your clothes available in the UK?

[@Silverlake818]

Can you link the chunky necklace worn at the 5:27 mark?

[@pkloveash]

I would love if you could use the same outfit on the left which are no no and show them how to wear the same outfit in different ways. Those are the pieces I mostly have would love to know how can uplift them by making some changes.

[@KevinBaker-xn4mo]

When u put on heels even kitten heels, I don’t think the outfit is casual anymore. Not to mention, it’s definitely not as comfortable as wearing sneakers. I’m just not going to run errands in kitten heels, it’s not realistic. I would love to see a video on how to dress causally with sneakers. Great video though!

[@GraceNotePianoStudio]

For all the commenters lamenting that she wore heels... she already made a GREAT video that addresses sneakers! Enjoy!

[@jangreig6206]

There is a range of casual looks and Chi's styling is really smart casual. The heels suit that look.

[@ankpeach4]

How to find perfect jeans rise for petite ??

[@fakenamefakesurname5005]

I get your point of view but i can only wear snickers because of cronic feet pain, so it's always kinda difficult to find a video talking about fashion for petite girls that aren't super slim and who only likes to wear sneakers and pants like me 😢

[@stinew358]

I look weird in casual clothes unless they're tailored. The issue is also petites don't fit most casual (baggy) clothes. The neckline, the waist, and length are a lot more important if you need structure. Many merino wool or travel brands will have clothes that are casual but look a little more put together. There are hiking pants that look like slacks. In the casual look, well fitted joggers can give you shape. An elegant-looking ballet flat will dress up any look, but a white tennis shoe helps too. If you have a particular style need with a casual lifestyle, I suggest creating a capsule wardrobe so you can just grab and go

[@sarahmc8309]

What about outfits without heels ? My job won’t allow this at all as I’m a social care worker and we always on the go swimming walks all day and all sorts of active activities.i easily walk 20-25k steps everyday as no car plus work . I’m 5ft and love know what to pair with jeans and sneakers

[@raya1741]

My look is fantastic-)

[@ghihbgyu]

1:05 I wish the jacket was the only difference between these two pictures. Because so many aspects of the outfits are different, it's difficutl to see the effect of the jacket itself. Maybe have a progression throughout the video, where slowly all the 'wrong' items are exchanged, ending up with the final outfit at the end of the video.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

❤

[@taralouise2194]

I work with with kids and am sitting on the floor, walking up stairs and getting in and out of the car. I need to be in very casual clothing and no heels.Jeans or dress pants and casual t shirts are my go to. But inwant to look professional. Help

[@susanking9733]

🥰

[@dianecyment1715]

What type of necklines should petite women avoid?

[@traceyesste2271]

Bad back no heels 5’3

[@edennis8578]

For everyone complaining about wearing heels with a casual outfit, what about wedges? I wear low-wedge espadrilles in the summer. They give the extra length to my legs, and they're cooler than sneakers and less clunky that big athletic shoes.

[@lorineely6921]

I kind of agree there are so many casual shoes that aren’t athletic sneakers. I can’t wear a lot of heels anymore due to foot issues but I also know casual shoes don’t look great with those barrel taper jeans either. I do love wedges!

[@alphafe1621]

😍❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏

[@lynndupree1205]

My secret weapon for upgraded casual, jeans and T shirt looks. 1. Add jewelry. A pretty necklace goes a long way to change a T shirt into a smart looking top. 2. Wear nice flat shoes. Comfortable sling backs with a pointed toe look so much better than sneakers. 3. Carry a good quality handbag. It doesn't need to be a designer bag, but it does need to be in good condition.

[@lynncrf]

That model is not a 32D. She looks more like a 30F.

[@evebenoit6368]

Pointy-toe heels ? Just no. Impossible to do anything casual in them without destroying them or hurting: running errands, attending sports events, walking the dogs. Also nearly impossible to find comfortable pointy-toe heels. This is not a realistic video. Besides, heels worn with casual clothes send a mixed message: dressy + casual equals neither. I enjoyed the other tips however.

[@PH-tv2sw]

I am 5 feet and wear 98% casual clothes

[@lexa_power]

None of these outfits are casual at all lol i would say more business professional. Here in Los Angeles we wear a lot of athleisure.

[@birgitwurm803]

Why is everything about looks?

[@julietteyork6293]

All your pants are too short, which defeats the goal of trying to look longer & sleeker. If you lengthen the hems so they barely graze the top of the shoe you’ll see a world of difference. Right now your pants are shortening you by at least 2”.

[@lauras4472]

Why we need to move the feet constantly. It’s distracting

[@katrines9281]

Love your videos, but not this one. The constant suggestion of high heels for petite women turns me off fashion advice for petites. It seems there is no way round this bit of advice. It is not a casual look once you add high heels, the whole point is lost. Of course high heels make us all look elegant, but it's just not practical to never be comfortable. Most of us walk a lot, go to an events on a fields, stand on our feet all day. It seems if you aren't long legged to look good you must be in uncomfortable foot wear. Who the wears heels all the time, look around the high street during the day almost everyone is in trainers, boots or flat sandals.