Why You're Not Living Your Life

Have you ever had trouble spending way too much time for other people rather than spending time on yourself? Well, you may be suffering from people pleasing. As a recovering people pleaser, I talk about my journey of how I became one and how I'm recovering from it. Hope this helps!
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0:00 - Intro
0:48 - Origin of People Pleasing Personality
2:49 - Realization of Issue
4:04 - Road to Healing
4:49 - Message to People Pleasers
5:23 - Outro
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[@cemz7776]

I watched most of your videos, mostly from the beginning to see, if you are making progress. you got a LOT better at doing films !

[@conquerwestfilms]

Thank you for showing so much love for my videos🥰 I’m definitely trying to improve each video so I’m glad you can see the progression. More to come!

[@italkcreations]

Such great content from the heart. Needed to hear this as a recovering people pleaser. Although I don't have a hard time voicing my opinions on most occasions... the act of helping in any way at the expense of myself absolutely depletes my energy. And so I can totally relate to this video. Thanks for sharing and keep creating.

[@conquerwestfilms]

Good to hear from someone who’s been through this. Sounds like you’re on a good track! Setting boundaries was definitely something that I wasn’t aware of. Even when I set boundaries, it was tough to be aware of whether I was people pleasing or not. I think it’ll come with time and practice. Good luck with your journey. Thanks for stopping by and your kind words🥰

[@LaLunaAngel]

Amazing video bro! You really hit a nerve with this one. Thanks for sharing your experience. Keep up the good work!

[@conquerwestfilms]

Thank you for the support 🙏 Trying to give as much value to you guys hoping that’ll it help at least one of yall☺️

[@Knight-mare1]

Great video, I just subscribed I'm glad KZbin recommended your channel. Keep it up we want more videos like these

[@conquerwestfilms]

Happy you can join on this journey with me! Appreciate the support cuz it helps me want to create more😊

[@Randalf_]

I'm glad that I found your channel. It helped me a lot. Thanks!

[@conquerwestfilms]

That's awesomeee! I'm trying to help at least one person through these videos. Hope I can help more people like you :D

[@filmwithmario19]

One of the best videos i watched. I feel you. Please keep up making videos. What books to you recommend for people pleasures....

[@conquerwestfilms]

Omg, you're way too kind! It's comment like this that wants me to create more. Unfortunately, I don't have any book recommendations, but if you're trying to work on people pleasing, I would try to figure out why you're people pleasing in the first place. Like where does it originate? I think trying to create a discussion with yourself brings awareness and understanding that you have this issue. Once you're fully aware, you'll start to become more careful about doing people pleasing actions to others. I really wish the best for you!

[@gdaybygrace]

Wow, I can really relate to your video! I recently had a similar realization when I felt guilty for not being readily available to help my family with something small. I just wasn't emotionally available that day. Reflecting on this guilt, I realized it came from my tendency to prioritize others over myself. While I've always been there for my friends and family, I realized I rarely shared my own struggles, fearing it would burden them further. But after this realization, I decided to prioritize my own well-being and started opening up to my friends. I'm so glad I did, as I received so much support and appreciation for creating a safe space to share. It's taught me that taking care of yourself isn't selfish-it's necessary for maintaining healthy relationships and overall kindness. ❤

[@conquerwestfilms]

Yassss! You come first! That was something that was so difficult for me to realize. It’s so empowering to hear your story and how you overcame it. I’m excited for your journey from here on out😁

[@gdaybygrace]

@conquerwestfilms I'm excited to see your personal and filmmaking journey as well! Subscribed! :) You got this! 💪

[@conquerwestfilms]

Tysm!!!

[@ChumbiShema]

Great video and thank you for the sweet message at the end!

[@conquerwestfilms]

Glad you enjoyed it! Please stop by any time☺️

[@Moonlitchick]

Such a great relatable videooo!

[@conquerwestfilms]

Thank you😊

[@Youngzieee]

2024 goals - no more using sorry as a filler!

[@conquerwestfilms]

No more!

[@therealnuvo]

I needed to hear that 😌

[@conquerwestfilms]

Glad it helped. Good luck on your journey😁

[@Zenzo.581]

Bro I just subscribed and your videos are so good ❤

[@conquerwestfilms]

Excited for you to join me on this journey! Definitely more to come😁

[@WhirlOmar]

Great stuff!

[@conquerwestfilms]

Thank you!!!

[@johannaflowers_]

Mate you're being way too relatable. Welcome to the recovering people pleaser squad ✌

[@conquerwestfilms]

Glad to see someone like me! We got this😁

[@Lobstrique]

hello from another recovering people pleaser 👋

[@conquerwestfilms]

Glad you could relate to this. I hope the best for your journey to recovery😊 You got this!

[@user-pl1wt9hz3o]

Love how you ended it I don’t want to lose some people pleasing tendencies but it’s about getting rid of the guilt of putting yourself first. Great vid bro cinematography always on point!

[@conquerwestfilms]

Wow, it seems that you are ahead of me in the people pleasing journey. I still notice the guilt, but getting better at putting myself first!

[@user-pl1wt9hz3o]

@@conquerwestfilms naw just in different places you’ll find your own way :)

[@sensitivedivinity]

i love your videos

[@conquerwestfilms]

Thank you😊