Why you should never "Binge Relapse" | Nofap

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Rob Mulder

Rob Mulder

2 жыл бұрын

In this video I explain why it is so bad to binge relapse on nofap

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@SurajSingh-yr3ob
@SurajSingh-yr3ob 2 жыл бұрын
honestly , small progress is progress, used to do it 3 -5 times a day and slowly managed make it once a day and recently its once every 2-3 days. I am aiming for a week, then two..small steps brothers. we can do this
@paramsingh4761
@paramsingh4761 2 жыл бұрын
ehe my brother
@mehdiahmed7836
@mehdiahmed7836 2 жыл бұрын
6 months later ,how is your progress been?
@SurajSingh-yr3ob
@SurajSingh-yr3ob 2 жыл бұрын
@@mehdiahmed7836 went from 2-3 days relapsing to 2 weeks ish.. not a big improvement but a lot better than where i was. Makes me feel like I can actual do it now. Cut out most social media and only on youtube to either watch some nofap vids or guitar tutorials.
@mehdiahmed7836
@mehdiahmed7836 2 жыл бұрын
@@SurajSingh-yr3ob that's a huge progress for your particular case, keep going bro! you may want to block it though (filter ,dns, software ,router setting) even if you're geeky like myself and can find a way around it , it still helps to create friction and make it as hard as possible to do. E.g. I used to google random shit until i come across NSFW images which lead to more pictures which lead to porn which leads to more porn ,then I'd be left wondering how did I end up here you would not believe this but by just setting safesSearch on google ,i never relapsed that way again I managed to last long (3 months 4,9) using this strategy of destroying patterns never repeat the same pattern or at least try and yea fuck social media that thing is just light porn and time sucking machine, i limited my access to it using my router setting ,I can still check it but only in set days/hours hope this helps good luck on your journey
@SurajSingh-yr3ob
@SurajSingh-yr3ob 2 жыл бұрын
@@mehdiahmed7836 thanks my man this means a lot. I just started to tackle the root cause of it and switch it with my vision for the future. Started working out more, BMI went from 37 to 34.7 , gaining some muscles now especially on my legs since i like jogging and deadlifting. Life is looking more colorful.
@artoriuscastus5404
@artoriuscastus5404 Жыл бұрын
i relapsed after a 33 days streak and I binged for the next two days even after reading on several threads that binging consequences are so horrible , i was so careless and those evil filthy things that i was watching blinded me , i literally felt worse than i was feeling before starting nofap , and i think i lost every benefit i gained in these 33 days , but i learned my lesson , and today instead of feeling guilty i took a shower and cleaned every corner of my room and i prayed to god and i did 40 push ups and read my favourite book , and i took a walk outside and it was a very sunny and hot but i needed that because i dont go outside alot , because I have no friends except college friends , but i will try changing that by starting the gym when i'm done with college next month , and for those reading this if somehow things go wrong and you relapse please dont binge its so bad
@prof.catastrophe6977
@prof.catastrophe6977 2 жыл бұрын
This is realistic view on NoFap for people who were addicted for decades. I am making progress every streak that is 10+ days. Just don't binge and you'll get better eventually.
@XYZ88723
@XYZ88723 2 жыл бұрын
Today morning I was having strong urges. I brushed my teeth in the morning and I am seeing your video now. You saved me bro.
@TheUnknown-qz5pu
@TheUnknown-qz5pu 2 жыл бұрын
I cannot imagine my self going through this addiction without your daily videos. Thanks for everything. Keep improving yourself guys!
@Roy66802
@Roy66802 2 жыл бұрын
I binged for 9 whole days after a 2 week streak and I'm feeling so down and ashamed rn
@khaledosama1836
@khaledosama1836 Жыл бұрын
Dude I binged for a whole month without even knowing that I'm stuck in a relapse cycle.. don't feel down man you're better that alot of other Nofappers, just keep going.
@stanoz1120
@stanoz1120 Жыл бұрын
I’m going thru it rn.
@Fakestockguru
@Fakestockguru Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@djmystery7235
@djmystery7235 2 жыл бұрын
Every time I get the urge late at night I either watch a clean anime with a good story to get my mind off of it or run around outside to exercise. Then I feel too tired to do it.
@ilcondottierocartografo6770
@ilcondottierocartografo6770 2 жыл бұрын
You are a legend bro God bless you
@850Tech
@850Tech 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Rob I am 42 and I always relapse after 14 days. I won't to break this cycle. It's like my brain says " your 2 weeks are ready go have some fun "
@00ShaFi00
@00ShaFi00 2 жыл бұрын
And how do we combat this?
@tyrantula767
@tyrantula767 2 жыл бұрын
@@00ShaFi00 Associate it with pain. When you realized how in control you are of your emotions and how much more disciplined you are on retention, you’ll see how much more sad and/or angry you will be days after you relapse.
@Prashanthgurudu
@Prashanthgurudu 2 жыл бұрын
Me too 14 days
@850Tech
@850Tech 2 жыл бұрын
@@Prashanthgurudu oh ! That means we gotta reprogram 🙂
@850Tech
@850Tech 2 жыл бұрын
@@tyrantula767 very good insight. Never thought of it that way.
@blu9371
@blu9371 Жыл бұрын
Now after i relapsed for 4 hours straight after 4 months of full retention , I am feeling so sad and guilty knowing that now it s basically impossible for me to recover from this rabbit hole from tomorrow...
@hi-zn9bb
@hi-zn9bb 2 жыл бұрын
hey guys, if you slipped, don't worry, you all can recover from that, plus is not a relapse, only a "slip" so don't worry, but don't do it again.
@sinazamani7077
@sinazamani7077 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely one of the best videos Rob ever made
@therichbuddha3277
@therichbuddha3277 2 жыл бұрын
perfect timing and observations thanks Rob!
@mertertu
@mertertu 2 жыл бұрын
One of your best Videos thank you Rob.
@Josh-wp5tm
@Josh-wp5tm 2 жыл бұрын
I binge relapsed starting a few weeks ago and lasted 3 weeks. This happened when final exams started. It has been a week since exams have ended and ive stopped doing *it* and I have been able to combat my urges thus far. :)
@abetechead16
@abetechead16 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your videos man!
@6AM96
@6AM96 2 жыл бұрын
Great video brother keep it up! 💯
@itsmjeezy2596
@itsmjeezy2596 Жыл бұрын
hey brother Im really glad i looked up your video i was about to relapse im on day 1 after having a good month streak and watching this makes me realize its not worth it no matter how bad i think i feel thats will just make it worse. Appreciate your vids keep up the good work
@RealDaniyo
@RealDaniyo 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video...I'm 13 days streak. ...let me be strong and go over the third week...
@paramsingh4761
@paramsingh4761 2 жыл бұрын
this man knows everything.
@ibrahimkonte481
@ibrahimkonte481 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video your videos are so helpful 🙂
@albert337
@albert337 2 жыл бұрын
Hi guys, I had been stuck within 2 weeks too. However, I've found that if you simply stop counting you will pass this limit. I'm in my 42nd day thanks to this.
@DormainJB
@DormainJB 2 ай бұрын
Fellas if you fall get back up and become stronger
@nfforever1364
@nfforever1364 2 жыл бұрын
I think just found the answer i was looking for. Tysm.,
@nzxt6666
@nzxt6666 2 жыл бұрын
very informative video! thank you
@ikram1081
@ikram1081 2 жыл бұрын
Man if you binge relapse , only hitting rock bottom again will get u back again on Nofap
@MustangDesudiroz
@MustangDesudiroz 2 жыл бұрын
yes you will witht he right mindset. my binge episodes are usually 1-3 weeks but no loger a month. right now i am binging. it sucks but its my 3rd say so right now i am back on my shit again
@adfohukafoju5759
@adfohukafoju5759 2 жыл бұрын
Very correct said. And it may take months oe maybe years. Soon you will be amazed that in 2022 i cant keep streak of 10 days but in 2015 i made 73 days streak
@hi-zn9bb
@hi-zn9bb 2 жыл бұрын
I almost spit my water with the end 😂😂
@kay4537
@kay4537 3 ай бұрын
LMAO same
@Sebichad
@Sebichad 10 ай бұрын
I do this weird thing when I relapse once, I have to follow up with another relapse right after I “charge up” for a few mins and then I go back to getting on the horse. This stops today…. Feeling stronger and I know I can beat this problem
@cedriccope178
@cedriccope178 2 жыл бұрын
This is spot on, I relapsed after 37 days
@godlymonstersz8042
@godlymonstersz8042 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@lucasdancs
@lucasdancs 2 жыл бұрын
The end lmfao
@StefanBourne
@StefanBourne 2 жыл бұрын
Nice ending ha ha, i resisted the dopamine hit and didn't click any of the links.
@gulegulebap
@gulegulebap Жыл бұрын
very good viedeo ! u grasped it
@theunusualdispenser9474
@theunusualdispenser9474 2 жыл бұрын
91 days strong but I recently got depressed and I'm afraid i'm going to fail
@simonfiers4559
@simonfiers4559 2 жыл бұрын
Just remember that after a relapse your depression will get 100x worse, and you'll probably fall into the 'binge' he's talking about. I know you'll feel better soon, we all have our lows sometimes, so remember, food is the most abused anxiety drug, try eating healthy and not to much (intermediate fasting feels great! ;) ), and exercising is the best anti-depressend there is! Love you bro, I know you got this, take care!
@theunusualdispenser9474
@theunusualdispenser9474 2 жыл бұрын
@@simonfiers4559 thank you
@morsaw10000
@morsaw10000 Жыл бұрын
Buy a Fleshlight bro, then have a fapathon with the fleshlight but no porn, you’ll feel chill lol
@mufmager
@mufmager Жыл бұрын
Big progress, a year ago used to relapse 3-4 times a week. This year it went to 3 times a month. Now for this summer is gonna have to be to 1 or 2 times each 2 months, and if possible 0 each month. By 2024 I want this to be mastered. And live the life I was meant to be, because I know I myself am a confident person, that unfortunately done things that hides it.
@FarFromGeek
@FarFromGeek 11 ай бұрын
I just want to say I love this community so much.
@MustangDesudiroz
@MustangDesudiroz 2 жыл бұрын
i quit nofap after beating NNN. I end up getting back to nofap at 14 due to my dick scarring. Now dec 16 i kept binging. Binge is the worse. its the real reset. I am 4 hrs in. I am taking it seriously now.
@wilddada7805
@wilddada7805 Жыл бұрын
40day streak destroed😭
@Catakuri9
@Catakuri9 Жыл бұрын
2weeks destroyes
@wilddada7805
@wilddada7805 Жыл бұрын
@@Catakuri9 no problem bro we have whole fucking many many years so just dont give up try to get 4weeks next
@djswirley
@djswirley Жыл бұрын
I also fucked a 28 day streak yesterday and I relapsed a lot yesterday now I am on day 1 :(
@Jedi_Black
@Jedi_Black 2 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@pjt1983
@pjt1983 Жыл бұрын
Have you made a video specifically for people actively in a long deep binge, like the 'want to be no fappers'?
@dissinlol
@dissinlol 2 жыл бұрын
great advice I was that loser!!!!!
@Samir-kz8gb
@Samir-kz8gb Жыл бұрын
Last 30secs were the most motivating 😂
@salinger1106
@salinger1106 Жыл бұрын
Rob, do se-xy videos that are not pron affect the brain on the same level? Videos like twerking videos or images of women that are not completely in the nude?
@mostafaal-tumah4927
@mostafaal-tumah4927 2 жыл бұрын
I binge but if i stop for 2 months will i recover mr Rob? because you said its impossible to recover so if it is why would i do semen retention if my brain 🧠 not recovering
@ikram1081
@ikram1081 2 жыл бұрын
Take it easy . Bismillah and start ! And get a strong reason why u shouldn’t fap . Emotional stability , more energy , no negativity etc
@mdj9209
@mdj9209 Жыл бұрын
You Can still recover my brother stay strong and keep grinding.
@uchihakai2626
@uchihakai2626 7 күн бұрын
i was doing this then i quickly stopped it
@sanketvaria9734
@sanketvaria9734 Жыл бұрын
but I don't think like that, then why do I binge relapse?
@Axrosable
@Axrosable 2 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on how to stop wet dreams?
@ruzzlickjrmma2192
@ruzzlickjrmma2192 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t.
@Axrosable
@Axrosable 2 жыл бұрын
@@ruzzlickjrmma2192 Why
@LB.250
@LB.250 11 ай бұрын
@@Axrosable wet dreams are your body excreting out the old semen
@ghazalizul9126
@ghazalizul9126 2 жыл бұрын
Yup, I used to relapse 2/3 time per week, and slowly make it to once a month, and now it's been 2 months since no fap and i pray that I keep consistent for another day to come Wish me luck
@LB.250
@LB.250 11 ай бұрын
I have relapsed 3 days consecutively
@Jedi_Black
@Jedi_Black 2 жыл бұрын
✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽
@Shubhankar1999
@Shubhankar1999 Жыл бұрын
I no fap 51 days and then suddenly I relapsed and then binge relapsed 3 days about 7-8 times. Now I am trying to commit to the streak again. Bless me guys😢
@hacksbuddy4227
@hacksbuddy4227 2 жыл бұрын
How could you practically say these things ??
@hi-zn9bb
@hi-zn9bb 2 жыл бұрын
It's only the truth
@inderpreetsingh4417
@inderpreetsingh4417 9 ай бұрын
Just busted a fat big load and feeling so calm and focused!!
@BathgateToushiru
@BathgateToushiru 7 ай бұрын
ur breards mouth area sounds succes
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