Happiness comes from within. Be the person that gives happiness to all sentient beings. Thats true happiness. Everything else just emptiness

In my case im educated but i can’t watch more then 10min even though I know all of what this shit does im really not motivated to do anything i don’t have any passion to chase my dreams it sucks and i never had a real relationship I remember when i was 17 i had a relationship but i fuck things up

I got fired from a job of 10 years in 2017. I did nothing for 7 years after. I had other companies calling and they were perplexed that working wasnt on my agenda.

The thought of having missed out on things that one could have been living is in my opinion an illusion or a mistake. What you did in your twenties made you what you are today. If you had started to be a salesman at the age of 21, you probably would just have stayed an average salesman. You developed the drive to achieve more than others only from the feeling not to have achieved anything before. So it is not wisdom to think, you would or could have lived the "happy" that you know now 10 years earlier. It is now for a reason...

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What a great video and how insightful. You've gave me something to think about. As a lifetime goal setter and after having retired early 18 months ago I've be asking myself the question, is that it? Your thoughts give me a whole new perspective to consider. I came across this at the right time. Thank you!

Maybe we need to help each other

Its never too late its law of attraction you create your life

Yo, church helps

It only takes "one bad day" to loose it all...

Pornography content should be illegal

I needed this video. Thank you!

I regret that I stuck in comfort zone when I was 20, instead of thinking about future... Now I'm 35 and I had nothing. My whole belongings fits in 2 big luggages, I working for someone and living in my grandparents house only because my parents let me, cause they are heirs of this house...I wish to be wealthy, but don't know what to do... I think that I'm in this 80% society, who will never succeed and it's sad when I think, that it's gonna look like this until my death :(

Migrates dude..usa weather problem so you want pornk..everyday..migrates sunny nation ..u can be a human

mirror of my life, rhank you for sharing

i actually think that your growing up years you were missing points, ofcourse you have to have a goal for future of you but lets say day to day of achievement you have to upgrade those goals. for an example if the goal is buying transportation, when you achieve that next goal automatically has to be sport cars, if you achieve that too the goal has to be ferrari or something. Life is not oh i rich my goal thats it!!! NOOO. Girl friend , next step is wife , next step is kids , next step is grandkids!! If anyone doesnt do things in this order. i highly recomended to get some professional help. Still it was good advice for like minded people to start to life in some point

Is watching porn same as masturbation?

I've started from nothing. Went to college, studied etc. and then graduated. Got an office job and now making well above average money. But along the way, I always felt I had "to provide more as a man". Being able to give a family a good quality of life. And no matter what I achieved, this feeling was never satisfied. I didn't feel like a man, I didn't feel enough, I couldn't enjoy any of my successes. I became withdrawn, the shame was always there. Does growing up poor do this to you?

I am addicted to porn, i like onlyfans. I gives me pressure in this hard world. I have anxiety and emptiness and i can't fill it, I don't have girlfriend, friends or anyone to talk with. Atleast it keeps me happy and motivated. Hope one day God will help me and give me a reason and a new life. No porn, no emptiness, no anxiety.

This is the dumbest video I’ve ever seen on KZbin. You only need one thing to enjoy life: money. Lots of money. And after all this, you’re still trying to argue that porn is bad and takes away motivation, ruins your life, ruins you, etc.? Content creators these days have really run out of ideas...

Porn is sabotaging my dreams, im trying so hard to get rid off this nasty addiction but falling into it again and again.

It didn't ruined my life 🤷

Dopamine On dopamine We have been overrun By our animal desire Addicts of the immediate Keep us obedient and unaware Feeding this mutation This Pavlovian despair We've become Disillusioned So we run Towards anything glimmering Time to put the silicon obsession down Take a look around Find a way in the silence Lie supine away with your back to the ground Dis- and re-connect to the resonance now You were never an island ...

Dang what a journey 🍻🥂🍷🗿

sounds like me when I felt the changes from pituitary gland. from medications, diet, and other hormonal changes.

thanks for the video

It took me almost 11 minutes to realize that what the dude wanted to say could have been done in a 10 seconds short clip. What a waste of precious lifetime for the viewers.

I'm 31 and I'm getting my own life fixed. My late teens and 20s sucked because I couldn't talk to people. That was a dark phase in my life. The most important thing is to be happy and have a stable life with a job, your own car, your apartment etc.

I love your advice❤❤

Trying to do my best and achieve is what kept me poor. Things didn’t improve until I gave up. 🤷‍♂️

This was the first video that really made it to actually talk to me and reach my soul. Everything was completely relatable, and the way you explained things made so much sense. Thank you for this, I'm not kidding when I say this was an eye-opener to me. <3

Porn helps me save money. You can listen to people tell you this is bad that is bad or you can take someone's bad make it your strength. Women are expensive and most can't be trusted and I get bored with the same thing any how.

Not hating, but it feels like this vid could be 3 minutes long.

bro im 34 and i just got to this point last year .. still im here at home i try to go outside and i cant connect with anyone on anything .. no girl from 9 years .. no job .. no friends .. nothing .. i lost my intyerest and i started to think that friendship and love are lies.. that we tell ourself .. the only thing that matters is money .. and that's it .. am i wrong? or i cant find good ppl arround me ? or are my standards too high? i try to change to adapt to others but that doesnt work eaither .. its like .. ive gone too far and there is no way back.. idk man i feel empty at this point .. the funny thing is that i was used to be a kind person .. now after a solitude of a lifetime after my 20 25 .. at 34 .. i feel like i need to act a part to be accepted .. and if i fail once more everything will fall apart again .. i cant start over casue there is no one out there that wants to help ppl like me .. i dont want to take medicines .. i just want to be able to feel happy again .. happy of somethign that i have in common with others ..but i cant find the link .. i cant find ppl that have some good ieals .. so im trappend into having to become mt worst version to not get overwelmed by others .. always happened .. i need to become the piece of sht that i am and face it .. and be proud of it like everyone else .. the fact is that i failed too many times and things in life .. i dont have the will to go on .. the only thing that is saving me from wanting to leave this world .. is the hope of findign a girl and make her heppy .. withc i think is the sense of life .. but this also hurts me thinking of how much time i spent alone by choiche and lack of confidence .. im smart but i feel like no one cares about it .. or they are even jealous of that .. other males .. girls want big guys wqith big cars and small brains .. and im not that kind .. i feel like finding ppl that resonate with me will be to hard so i started to think that i have to change in order to do somethign good with my life .. but i think i will fail.. but if i dont try .. well .. its on me .

I've heard a successful man call it his "stare at a wall" trick to get motivated to do something normally hated.

not a goal, just a way

sad backgrund music kinda annoying

couldnt stop laughing after the guy blank staring at his wow character

Yeah bro, feeling bad is because it was just to much of the same! Then dopamine is not working anymore, I have this 2 times in a month and each time i do 2 at 4 days nothing... After those days of much sleep and do nothing I work further on my projects...

Or maybe you were nervous and anxious from it being your first time, which oddly sounds like it was planned in advance. Now you're a zealot.

doing the sht u ike to do spikes the dopamine but it comes crashing down and moves the baseline also little lower, faster higher spikes= faster lower baseline

6:20 actually not how it works, you had brought ur baseline way down, not up there, things you would feel like doing are the things that would of brought u up, but the "tasks" would of brought u up only little bit from the bottom, still being very low and thus still feeling like shit tasks.

We all think at the beginning of our life that actualizing ourselves is the ultimatum, but we discover with age that life is not about ourselves, it is about how we impact and help people around us. We are brought to earth as a test and the ultimatum is to help people and impact their lives in a positive way, be it a smile, a good word, a financial aid, a prayer, a psychological lift,….

It is never too late, f this dogshit attitude to life

Does any else have immediate fluctuating thoughts of confidence and shite self-worth?

Well said 👏👏 Creative Advice 👏👏

The only only only way to stop watching porn is to not watch sexy videos in any social media believe me it’s the easy way to stop watching porn

4 years in and it’s eroding to the point of fading into a faint but dark memory yet despite that it’s always there, but I know eventually I will overcome it.

Same man, I watch it every day, the old stuff doesn't help me to have a boner anymore so I started to search for the specific content, I'm afraid that I won't get it from the real girl. I should stop long ago...

bullshit talk. your thinking is negative. there is no "catch up" in life. its all about perspective.