Why Your Baby Mama/Baby Daddy Is Still Bitter & Toxic

[@stephenespinoza3422]

Do not entertain them. If they moved on and they’re not happy, especially if they’re in a relationship. Then that’s on them. Keep grinding king and queens

[@toshmon12345]

Block them problem solved mine been blocked for years now. She did it all and tried it all she gets no attention from me

[@Renae-w4e]

You blocked her,what about the baby Mr muscle

[@MarshallMathers-s8c]

Can't save everybody

[@blkghostxx]

Yeah I didn’t want too, but I’m going the court route so I don’t have to deal with my child’s mother. Bitter BM can’t a have civil conversation without it becoming a argument

[@JRWisdom]

Facts. Best of wishes to you.

[@raeo7963]

How did it go

[@jsalais55]

Same here bro...I put myself on child support jus so I can have possession of my daughter with no bs. I'm glad I did there's been a few times I called 311 on her an almost the police cuz she was refusing my possession thats court ordered. Can't imagine what it'll be like without courts involved. Becareful what you say to her. Jus like the cops she'll use every word against you

[@JessR08]

I can agree with this, as a bitter baby mama myself it takes all my energy and completely drains me of energy even talking to him because I have so much resentment It is extremely hard to have a civil conversation with him. In my case my BD has betrayed and abandoned me and our kids so many times since they were born that now he wants to "fix" things I have zero faith, patience or grace for him! I immediately get ANGRY when I even hear his voice! It's heart shattering but I am bitter AF because it truly feels like he took all the fun and joy out of being a parent. The only way I can have slight peace is if I go zero contact with him and do therapy on a daily.

[@burnrobe69]

Hope all went well for you and your child brother 🙏

[@zamasokutu2391]

Its been almost a month since we broke up and I did avoid talking to him for weeks and right now I was texting him telling him about our child's health but he shifted the blame on me and started making everything about himself and not about our son now I decided to keep quiet for good and be silent

[@kinglarnett9617]

Crazy how it’s going on 9 yrs and she will not leave me and my daughters alone. Like it is killing her that me & my kids don’t need her

[@CuteCats1014]

Wow! You said it, very very TRUE! It really is "Pitiful and Pathetic ", and truly toxic...they exist...and like you said, DONT ALLOW IT! It is a control thing, and VERY common. I feel bad for all those dealing with 'these people'....thank you for this video. I happen to know A LOT(TOO MUCH) about the NARCISSIST ex, it's very disturbing to say the least...

[@JRWisdom]

No worries! Thank you for tuning in!

[@precioussmith1222]

Thank you so much for making a video that I can relate to, my child’s father is exactly how you explained but it’s crazy because we never been in a relationship and when I did want a relationship he wasn’t interested or would say “you never know what may happen in the future with us”.. so when I found out I was pregnant I cut ties emotionally and relationship wise and wanted to co parent successfully and effectively but he has been making simple things super difficult, he always has and attitude and idgaf type attitude and it’s stressful I just want to be able to be in the same room and not argue and be able to have a decent conversation... he is a wonderful father to a extent that I feel I was used for a baby.. but as you said he “picks” at little things pertaining to our child and makes everything difficult 😒

[@JRWisdom]

Thanks for tuning in and I wish you nothing but ease and success in your situation!

[@kyosdaddocumentary7790]

Shorty did the child support shuffle

[@private_eye_]

Omg this is my babys father. He abandoned our daughter for 8 years. Went on to have 4 more kids in 4 years while living in the same state, town, and nearby areas as our child and still neglected her in every way possible. When he returned 8 years later I was stupid and I became apart of his circus. I tried to be with him and it was a huge mistake. When I realized I couldn't get comfortable with the relationship he became extremely spiteful while using our daughter to get under my skin. I would allow her to spend time with him and his 4 kids and he would block me from calling her, hover over her when I was able to call, and refuse to communicate with me on when she was coming back or anything. I tried and it didnt work but the spiteful jerk hates me and wants to hurt me far more than he cares about our daughter. She has to suffer for it and that's not fair. This situation has been so stressful. So much so that he was my first "baby daddy" but he taught me not to have another man like him in my nor my daughter's life. Shout out to the mature and reasonable fathers. The bitterness isn't reserved for the mother's because I have a 100% bitter baby daddy. Please make more videos pertaining to this because while there are bitter baby mamas there are equally as many bitter deadbeat baby fathers.

[@JRWisdom]

This is very unfortunate. I wish you nothing but blessings.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

What is about you that would lead a man to act that way. After all he takes care of and sees his other kids.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Ps , it is a good idea to stop calling your kids when they are with their other parent especially a parent they don’t see often. You have the child everyday. Let the child be with their visiting parent in peace without you interrupting and interjecting in their limited time together. You complain hat the father hovers over your child when you call but are too simpleminded to realise that you are hovering over their limited time together like a helicopter by calling and interrupting their time/ bonding / building.

[@chrisanderson3875]

100% true Man U need more views bro and thumbs up it’s dead on.

[@JRWisdom]

Thank you for the support!

[@sarahhardy8323]

I appreciate you I wish I would have watched this video a year and a half ago I was gaslighted intimidated assaulted and just straight disrespected and my baby father use my son as a weapon against me until I put a stop to it now we finally smooth but because he knows where I live he pops up from time to time and he got a girl too that he brings over to my house to fight me hopefully I'll be able to move soon thank you again for your words and encouragement

[@AE-cz9nh]

I needed to hear this today. My BD called me asking about how many weeks pregnant I am and a lot of other questions I was so happy that it seemed like he wanted to get involved until he called me the next day asking me to sleep with him. then he disappeared after I told him no. He is Bitter and he has no life just sad. I will be blocking him or just ignoring him until the baby arrives.

[@hany259]

You’re ridiculous lol

[@dylangullett3836]

Me and my baby mama cannot get along whatsoever it's always fighting and arguing it's always her way it's no way it's always something man need some kind of bodies advice on this one been dealing with this for 2 years now my son will be too December 30th please hit me back

[@JRWisdom]

Sorry to hear you're going through that. Feel free to email me @ [e-mail]

[@diving.deep.]

His baby momma makes arguments out of nothing and brings my kids into it too . This Halloween, he bought his 12 year old son a costume 2 weeks before Halloween , the night of Halloween she txted him all crazy that the costume ripped , blaming him for it and telling him that he didnt care for their son because he already had 2 (mine) , Idk what to do in times like this . He said I'm acting on emotions and starts yelling at me from her complaining. I feel like if it's not an emergency then he shouldn't pay attention and just call their son right away since he does have a phone.

[@byrongarcia8968]

Would yo agree, that in some form (sick), the are bitter because they want you bakc, of curse they wont say it, but this is a way to push you to kinda come back?. Thats what I think. My bbm, is in another relasionship, she still mess with my visitation, after 1 year apart, she kepps meesing all about it. All I can come UP with is that. Im single living good. Working on my self. She keeps doing all this.

[@LifeWithDiamondXOXO]

At this point I just don’t know what to do. My sons father makes thing difficult for absolutely no reason. He refuses to communicate about things like childcare, where my son is, and insurance. For instance, it was his weekend to get my son & he was supposed to drop my son off to my mom. He refused to answer my call/text when I asked what time he would drop him off. I literally had to call his mom yo find out that she had my son. He keeps me in the dark about everything and just does what he wants. I’m exhausted. When I mention it to him, he gets verbally aggressive. Every single time we exchange our son there’s an issue & he won’t answer his phone.

[@Thesaucyone619]

Thank you so much for this 🙏 I really needed it.

[@JRWisdom]

Thanks for tuning in Peter!

[@Smoothflowshow]

Appreciate the wisdom brotha 🙏 💯

[@1deep7]

My daughter won’t even talk to me or answer my calls… BM got my daughter ignoring me…

[@foreverbeauty8915]

Thank you for this video❤Gratitude

[@JRWisdom]

Thank you for tuning in!

[@shomarimonroe150]

Fantastic video and facts

[@JRWisdom]

Thanks for tuning in!

[@brianchoi1851]

Your video was very informative and relatable in alot of ways unfortunately. I would love to speak with you and seek advice.

[@JRWisdom]

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[@josephresto8692]

Yes I agree!

[@samuelramirez1256]

Thank you brother

[@piscesgoddess4314]

Chille my dude bby mama wanna stay connected so bad lol.. my dude have told her that his kid and me is his priority… she dripping in envy.. my dude have excluded her big time… no small talk.. nothing

[@jessicaharris8504]

My son father call his own child bastard an mistake an say he not during shit now he mad 9 years later on child support

[@JRWisdom]

Wow

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Maybe you were banging multiples dudes at the time including him and made a child he didn’t want. He is not obligated to love a child he never wanted especially with a woman he was never in a relationship with.

[@supakingofny485]

86 is the way

[@DaveonWilliams-b1n]

Thank you

[@kevinb2592]

U didn't link it, weak @4:40

[@coolingred6382]

I’m going through it right now and she kicking me out

[@JRWisdom]

Every man should have his own place! Let this be a lesson!

[@Slay_it_Renee]

I don’t agree with that because coparenting is the best way for Child talking problems out is better to the child .. All the use to fight all the time and I don’t like talking to neither... i don’t think cutting out Conversation is not the best. Somethings to one parent another parent step in

[@JRWisdom]

I can understand that but you can't reason with someone unreasonable.

[@JanelleReneeWells]

@@JRWisdom Yesss!!! Thank-you for being spot on!! 🙌😂 Cause SO many times I will see or hear that, like "Why doesn't everyone just put the kids first & then there will be no problems or arguments? 💁" 🙄🙄 MEANWHILEEE....I've been with my husband for 15 years now & their daughter is almost 17, & even though the BM already had a kid with some other actual deadbeat, & SHE keeps couch surfing & getting her kids taken by DCF numerous times even though we already got approved to get his daughter, & my man pays all his child support & is a great dad, etc. & we're living great, & yet only when the BM is in a bad or petty mood then my husband is supposedly a deadbeat again, & also she's going to cut my husband's D off the day she finds out that he gets me pregnant. 😳🤦🤣😭 SMH. Like yeah bro, you just can't reason with crazy. 💁💁💁😂 Pray for us yall. 🙏😂

[@kyosdaddocumentary7790]

Your thinking is soft dog not gonna lie

[@supakingofny485]

86 is the way

[@BlackDemon-ud9oj]

Thank you