Stepmom Falsely Acc*sed Me Of Ass*ult To Block My Inheritance At 21. Dad Believed....- Reddit Family

[@koredju]

Dad was the head of the bullies. He destroyed his son life for some s*x

[@willambonney]

I've seen people destroy everything for a hell of a lot less...

[@greekd00d69]

​@@willambonney for a klondike bar 😔

[@TimTheEnchanter0]

Most parents are trash like that

[@roxasparks]

Yup

[@roxasparks]

​@@willambonneysame

[@tatsuyas.drakensang4826]

Dude's should have taken legal action for moral and psychological damage, and for diffamation

[@egorapter]

Waste of time and money, nearly impossible to prove.

[@plague180]

The father did not suffer enough as the family claimed. His kids entire childhood was ruined and 7 years of adulthood

[@GustavoOliverXD]

Bro the son going to bed without food and the dad not knowing or doing anything, he's dad is a coward too

[@miceltusav88]

"Your father has suffered enough" oh, he has, has he? What about the decades of abuse I put up with in silence? The insults, the harassment, the jeers and the silent contempt? He's suffered what...seven...eight years? He hasn't suffered nearly enough, if I'm to be honest

[@stevenadamsapple]

This made me so angry I had to pause and pace and around the room for a bit. Holy shit I would've started swinging for the fences if I heard someone say that shit about someone I cared about being peer pressured into forgiving them for their own peace of mind

[@sjmcc13]

They no longer have a bond with him, but do with the dad. Likely never had a strong bond with him in the first place. No bond means no concern fornhis feelings, and showing concern would require admitting their part in how he suffered.

[@shawnlindley5840]

And you have been given the chance to save another human being from suffering like you did and you are choosing not to. It isn't about your father, his family, or even Gina. It's about your soul and what this decision will be doing to it.

[@shawnlindley5840]

​@@stevenadamsappleif the author does not forgive then he will remain trapped by his bitterness. He isn't free from his abuser yet. She still can say she destroyed their relationship. In her mind that will be a win.

[@stevenadamsapple]

@@shawnlindley5840 you can still hold Ill will towards someone and be indifferent towards them in every day life. Forgiveness isn't about absolving of their transgressions it's allowing yourself to not be shackled with the burden of caring. I'm petty enough to be able to do both personally

[@rome79735]

Do not invite nor allow your father to attend your wedding. He can find comfort with his side of the family. This is the price one pays for not being there for his own flesh and blood.

[@realWWdude546]

Stepmom was right; the dad really was a pathetic man

[@aleksandarvil5718]

DITTO !!!

[@TangoIndiaMikeJuliet]

Pathetic coward who failed his own son.

[@sjmcc13]

From the start. He chose to blindly believe his wife from the first sign of trouble, and that just lead to problems down the road.

[@captaincold5481]

​​@@sjmcc13now the dad is alone and miserable

[@icalotdonthide2646]

Teach children that adults sometimes lie, don't be afraid to expose them.

[@jernmp]

mr fart, how will u do

[@TheSpongebob1919]

​@@jernmp By teaching them to never hésitante to

[@zero1188]

Father is an idiot. Choosing some random lady over his kids. Just because he a push over and never stood up to her

[@03.achyuthans39]

"Your dad has suffered enough, and I'm making it harder on him" The reply should've been "What do you expect from someone you called a pervert?"

[@seand.g423]

Or otherwise: "'suffer' these, you void-sucking doormats!"

[@G1sandG1rlsGaming]

"I've suffered far longer than him and didn't get any support from you assholes. Cry about it to someone who cares."

[@Joey15811]

How did not not say anything when she wouldn’t get you food but everyone else? He’s blind AF

[@RazielTheUnborn]

She would probably say he ate a lot while out shopping and wasn't hungry.

[@finalstation]

I would demand a public apology to my mother from all the people that talked badly about her before anything.

[@josephhesse2634]

Huh?

[@tyronechadington1655]

Same

[@tyronechadington1655]

They would need to get on their hands and knees in a public setting and kiss our feet while we eat

[@ScottBub]

My stepmom wasn’t this bad, but she was also an extremely awful person. As far as I know my dad is still with her and I have no relationship with him. I hate them both to this day.

[@gabriellemeche992]

Believe me. He's miserable now. Don't be surprised if he contacts you when he's older and needs someone to care for him.

[@harryking4007]

Oh yes she certainly is that bad! If she and your so called dad are still living together and you don't have any relationship with him your story is just as bad.

[@harryking4007]

Woman can't be an awful person and not be that bad.!!!

[@harryking4007]

I I can type this about you even though I don't know you because I can talk about myself and how just as bad my story was before I learned better.

[@RabidDisposition]

Nothing worse than a parent that chooses a spouse over their child.

[@big_man_bumba]

bro is so scared of being demonetized he censored the word accused💀💀💀💀

[@vitofa3209]

Pretty sure he was just trying to get people to comment about it and boost the video

[@danieltaylor3696]

Quit being so sexist. Using the word tHe? Use thx like the rest of us mentally unstable members of society

[@fabianvilla8474]

​@@danieltaylor3696r word

[@RabidDisposition]

KZbin auto-censors the most nonsensical things. For all we know he uploaded it the first time and it got flagged.

[@LiverSundae]

​@@danieltaylor3696TELL ME YOUR JOKING NOW

[@Halorous]

There are people commenting who think the son should be the adult. My question is what the HELL is the adult suppose to be doing? That when east sold the father snake oil. In my opinion, she should have sold him every drop she could get her hands on, if he was stupid enough and selfish enough to believe everything he was told by her. The father is looking for absolution. And if he has suffered, well, that's his burden and cross to bear. Not the sons.

[@razofdead]

Adult… sue him??

[@RusticRonnie]

Honestly, he should just use the dad for money also.

[@RazielTheUnborn]

​@@RusticRonnieFrankly, the dad likely already put all his wealth back in the sons name to try and get forgiveness from beyond the grave. It's quite common.

[@funnywelshman6380]

Dad was part of the problem

[@MultiMistercat]

Finally a story where we do not forgive and forget what people made us go throughout in our life! The dad should feel ashamed , not to not believe both side but to always siding with the MIL. Dad will ultimately live with remorses all his life, as he should.

[@Taygon45]

The dad betrayed and hurt OP more then Gina ever did the moment he said "My wife would never say that!" and then had the GAL to readily believe that OP said the insults said to them later. Granted, OP did in fact say those things, but it's telling that he never once blew it off and instantly punished her for it, while never once taking what was said to OP seriously. And then when he announces he has a will, she suddenly uses that moment to blurt out how OP was actually an abuser, and that wasn't suspicious AT ALL!? The dad can rot in hell for all I care.

[@Frightmarelordofthenightmares]

The dad suffered enough. Really? Op had to be humiliated and insulted for decades, but he can't suffer for a decade like Op?

[@HannahBuckley-fe6xf]

"Your dad has suffered enough, and I'm making it harder on him" WTF, are they just ignoring the fact that the stepmom, Accused op of a Awful crime, and op actually was the one who suffered.

[@Ishtar1339]

Wow. OP needs to seriously sue the shit out of Gina, or something!

[@BraveryWing26]

"I owe no explanation to those who chose to abandon me"

[@NegativeAccelerate]

Honestly the dad is just as bad. Its his responsibility to make sure whoeevr he remarries respects his kids.

[@dumacele6724]

“The damage was done, and Gina had won” Bro is spitting baaaars foo’😤🥵🔥🎤🎶🎵

[@wellsaidgoodheadfred9843]

Gina is a pure devil who's guaranteed hell when she dies, but the OP's dad is terribly gullible and clueless too.

[@chadreingold5175]

Op's dad is the worst father.

[@Mrcake0103]

Yeah, that was fucking obvious less than 3 minutes in. Tolerate someone you don’t actually like? Sure. Convincingly pretend to like someone you don’t? Maybe. Convincingly pretend _to your parent_ that you like your step-parent when in fact you hate them? Not likely. Do all of the above and _never_ slip up, for years, even though the person you hate is constantly tormenting you? No 12 year old is _that_ good an actor. I guarantee you there were red flags, many of them painfully obvious if you know what to look for. Dad just wasn’t enough of an actual father to notice. It takes a village to raise a kid. Likewise, there is no such thing as an abused child who wasn’t failed by _several_ adults. In this case no less than 3.

[@captaincold5481]

He's on par with that dad from the story "TIFU by help ruining my son's life"

[@repollorepolloymasrepollo1821]

Stepmonsters sure are a piece of work aren't they

[@dcg590]

Especially the ones with kids. They use the man to raise some other guys kids.

[@dmsviola1]

Bro, who the fuck publicizes their will????

[@GamerGrovyle]

Someone who lost a friend suddenly. Least unrealistic part of the story to me.

[@dmsviola1]

@GamerGrovyle I don't think it's unrealistic. I just think it's INCREDIBLY stupid. At most people should only know if they're in a will. Not what they're getting.

[@zero1188]

Most people do lol

[@Til_I_Collapse]

Single fathers should not add anyone to their family who hasn't gone through a legitimate, full course of therapy.

[@glenmassey3746]

Don't know what the father expected for being a boneless puddle of a person. That with the first accusation dump his son especially after money was brought up.

[@maxwortel8986]

Pops was definitely clueless af

[@milasyt]

Is this a male Cinderella? It sounds like male Cinderella.

[@tss9886]

Sadly that story is based on some awful realities.

[@GaeaRage0798]

Except that Cinderella's dad (at least Disney's version) was such a good dad that the stepmother had to wait until he passed away to make her move.

[@janewasson4845]

Amazing how so-called Dads will believe anything a woman says over their own kids just because they're getting sex.

[@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist]

I mean… its a nasty thing to lie about Grape. Most would think why would anyone lie about that? But what are you supposed to do if someone you love claims they were assaulted, by another person you love?

[@GustavoOliverXD]

​@@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist if he loved both he would've try and learn the truth without antagonizing one of them

[@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist]

@@GustavoOliverXD I feel like thats easier said than done. And how does one do that?

[@theomaid]

This story is so frustrating, I can't even continue listening to it xd

[@robertocheing5616]

no one should believe any wmn without proof

[@DefeatedElite]

Agreed. Females lie about anything and everything under the sun, rape and sexual assault included

[@G1sandG1rlsGaming]

Parents that genuinely believe their kids are capable of something like that with no proof should never be parents

[@MastermindOfLag]

I know that the focus is the story, But can we just appreciate how satisfying the video in the background is?

[@trentonmcadams2323]

I'll say this I would never talk to my dad again nor would I attend his funeral when he died

[@RusticRonnie]

Pop up just for the inheritance.

[@DkKombo]

They complain aboit sexism but use every sexist thing in the book against him

[@jessedunn9835]

So his dads supposed suffering was only dur to his own actions and choices that he defended for years. The sons suffering was across years, worse and again his dad chose it. He should just rub that in to anyone crying about it and his family sided with step witch back then too so tell them off for that.

[@JoyBoyAlter]

This is so comically evil that I honestly don't believe that this is a true story. This has to be some sort of satire or something.

[@user-hf3bp2gy6d]

Never would have spoke to my father again

[@artix548]

Even the first book of the Bible warned us about false accusers. Just read the account of Joseph and Potiphar's wife.

[@bluekaygaming]

... Why are we censoring accused

[@TeemoTeemosson]

KZbin.

[@MrDoverfield]

There’s a very place in hell for the dad

[@linktothepast100]

I would’ve kept it real, “leave me everything and we’ll be even when you pass away 👍🏻🖕🏻”

[@pridebound]

If this story is true, then op frustrated the hell out of me! Dude is weak af.

[@JP-eh4ee]

Hopefully you made your dad change his will first so that his ex won't get a cent

[@robertortiz7853]

OP's father made his own bed. Now he needs to lie in it.

[@Trackrace29582]

Sounds like a Disney step mom

[@jacobc8036]

“Cinderelly, Cinderelly”

[@scLefQ]

I know this may have been some time ago but I would have bugged a few rooms or something to find out the truth. There's no way you can be this oblivious as a dad! I understand it's difficult to decipher what is true or not but there's no way you're going to not investigate at all! I knew from the beginning, only losing that woman would have brought that man to his senses. Sad reality for men...

[@carmenlynn5441]

I would have never answered that phone call from the dad, or not stay on the line. Nope, after all that I'd have had him legally disowned. Did it to my mom when she assaulted me then lied and said I tried to kill her then used transphobia to try and make me look bad even though in court they thought SHE was a man 😂

[@JS-ro2if]

You’d think an affluent family would be able to afford a private investigator or something to investigate these claims immediately, but like nah… you'd also think that he would've noticed something was up assuming they went to therapy sessions together or if he asked her about the events later…

[@GamerGrovyle]

What do you think a Private Investigator does? Are you thinking of a Psychic Seer? How would a PI be able to find any evidence of physical assault had or hadn't happened in the privacy of a home, with only the suspected victim and suspected assailant present, where one says "He did it!" and one says "I didn't do it!" ? There's a reason a lot of suspected rapists go free. It's almost impossible to make something off of a He Said/She Said accusation.

[@RusticRonnie]

@@GamerGrovylehe would have in covered the adultery

[@dixon137]

KZbin would remove my ability to speak if I said what I belive about people like that.

[@macrons593]

Acc*sed 😱😱😱😱😱

[@Joey15811]

Also dad needs explaining all the manipulation of gina as a kid. And it’s going to take an awful lot to repair any relationship.

[@harryking4007]

O ps so called father was an ultimate fool and didn't deserve anything good for his stupidity.

[@brianmowday7509]

Im so glad this ended on a happy note, cause that was a fucking rollercoaster of emotions right there.

[@idontsignin]

Did the dad walk about with his head up his arse every day for him not notice anything. And why didn't OP ever make recordings.

[@maxwortel8986]

I'm guessing that's why the step mom searched his room unexpectedly

[@Scottsmanthegreat]

They would be lucky if I was alive after that

[@adamrickett8865]

If you’re going fake a story at least make it wholesome

[@Storylinesphere1208]

Do you think it's possible for people to mend such deeply rooted family conflicts, or is it sometimes better to walk away?

[@MultiMistercat]

always walk out, or going low contact. how can you rebuild trust when it got shattered at 12 yo, for a kid who only wanted to be loved.

[@saadatkazi1536]

@@MultiMistercat people like you are why society is failing. You never wanna work it out. All people like you want to do is run from your problems because it’s the easy way out. Truly sad.

[@miceltusav88]

"When you hold on the most, is when it becomes most painful"

[@pipebombpete.6861]

It takes more effort to rebuild but it can be done.

[@seand.g423]

Walk away... From the funeral of _everyone_ in the entire situation, after driving down to it and getting out the car. Be there for them _exactly_ as they. Were there. For him.

[@funnywelshman6380]

Gina is abusive

[@bernabegarcia786]

I’m not going to tell what to do because your right when you needed your dad the most he through you out. All I ask is is think about when the times were good and if he was a good dad to you before and ask yourself if you want your kids to had their grandad In their life. If he is worthy of it. This lady put you both through and hell and back she has already taken years away from you guys. If you miss your dad and you think you can talk to him don’t hesitate life is to short. If you feel bringing back into your life will bring pain and regret then don’t. In the end out your own happiness before his because that’s what he did.

[@TheHighborn]

This tale is as old as time

[@jacobc8036]

Wrong movie! That's Beauty and the Beast This is Cinderella

[@pannathatvj1832]

L Dad

[@wizzer88]

sorry i was too focused on the image of cakes on this video for me to concentrate on the story. My conclusion of this story is, I want to eat cake now.

[@user-nb8tk6hh6x]

Dad is the problem

[@camtoonz6619]

First of all that family is terrible, second of all NEVER tell anyone what’s in your will 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[@OnizukaGTO]

finally, a reddit story that doesn't sound like A.I. generated.

[@LyricalIAm]

The way my temper set up... fades are needed

[@ScorpionNani]

Proof money isn't enough, his dad and his side of the family probably all have money and not even Gina wants anything to do with them, such tragic pathetic people.

[@ΘΑΝΑΣΗΣ-γ4ζ]

How nice is it to be an g reek watching this video

[@Subdew2008]

Aww what this? A father losing his son again after he left due to his new wife lie? Oh pls keep it yourself old man no one will ever cares but your family you have left and your lonely? Boi you got a whole family in your side to talk why be so sad?

[@nohaxgaming6283]

I'm thankful my stepdad is an amazing person.

[@Jackdaniels-bi4hg]

I have had a very similar situation with my father ex she's did a lot of the same thing including physical abuse it really made me and my dad relationship quite poor for a long time but we starting to fix things lucky she's finally getting her karma she's lost custody over my half sister lost her job car and back to doing hard drugs she seems to be getting everything back that she deserve

[@ayiza8511]

well when she accused you. you should have told your father everything she did to you during your childhood protect yourself

[@kazitox]

while what the father did was terrible, we should all remember that he was also likely being manipulated and abused by this woman, and if everyone here shits on the father, just know you're playing directly into the hands of that treacherous Gina woman and giving her exactly what she wanted, she's the one winning. I don't blame the kid for not forgiving the father, and there is certainly a good amount of responsibility on his shoulders, but what happened to him was terrible as well and ultimately, Gina is the one who conducted all of this like a puppet master. She should be receiving a majority of the hate and blame.

[@trashcanjoe4902]

His dad _is_ pathetic

[@jaylenwilliams8271]

Dangers of being a simp

[@ourladyofsorrowsxx]

Ragebait. 100%, like it’s so ridiculously obvious

[@RobDaCajun]

Was coming here to say this.

[@alwaysright3943]

Because women never chuck around false accusations

[@TheMcGuinness13]

Yep. 100% creative writing

[@Mari_Izu]

You should be really funny at parties.

[@LectricVonThunder]

Also was looking for this comment.

[@KKOPPONG]

I don’t understand how some men…disown their children for some other women and her kids that aren’t his just perplexes me. I can accept step kids but as far as them inheriting from me that’s never going to happen😂…forget it!

[@Ray-lw2rh]

What a terrible father…

[@VictorGeieb]

But when i needed him the most he left

[@RedDaix]

Dam, some women doing this kind of thing need to be taught what they did to kings in France

[@DS01991]

"blood drained from my face"? Yeah. Okay.Nice writing.

[@extremerandomgamer1238]

Unblock your dad and inheritage your fathers money and assests

[@77wolfblade]

The question is can he be trusted. Like O P said the father may have never loved him.

[@Joey15811]

Still he’s better off getting everything and selling it all. Or he can donate.

[@RabidDisposition]

Exactly. The majority of people arent even lucky enough to inherit a pair of socks. You gotta do what you have to. Pride is a sin for a reason.

[@jayjonezs901]

Lol u got falsely accused his side of family believed everything and turn their backs on you now they want you to forgive ur dad???.... Families like this are toxic asf

[@TempestAmethyst]

So his Dad is worse than Gina honestly?!?

[@ChrisMr666]

Honestly wouldn’t say OP is the asshole if he said to him father and his father’s side of the family to drop …., telling them that “instead of looking into the matter you automatically assume I was guilty.” And this is the reason why I’m against the whole believe all women. A spiteful woman can destroy a man’s life forever, I was almost a victim of spiteful women…if you make a claim, provide proof otherwise get out of here with those lies, because at the end of the day the only people who are truly hurt by those lies are real victims.

[@albert125]

I think the dad is also a victim of a narcisist woman...

[@skylineXpert]

Story 1: what a golddigger...

[@user-nw2hf1pc5i]

How sure are we that Gina is lying???

[@funnywelshman6380]

I want cake now

[@funnywelshman6380]

I ain’t saying they are gold doggers but….

[@SaulTamalezX8]

7:41 where it starts

[@TabyNaky]

Obviously, your father did not do enough and failed. But I don't believe he was malicious. He was in some much lesser sense a victim to her and her lies also. After you see to yourself, I believe it would be a good hearted thing to work towards some contact with your father. You didn't seem to have a bad relationship barring her and her spawn.

[@nopenope3678]

I think I got diabetes watch all the sweets

[@LectricVonThunder]

Fake af. Mildly entertaining.

[@yusuka4ev830]

The cakes in the background are making me mad....

[@cynthiakhan5239]

OP’s dad is a major AH.

[@SSCuuK]

Even tho i can't believe how OP would feel after all those years I can't help but feel bad for the dad. Hearing accusations like that about your son is hard specially coming from your own wife. You want to deny it because you know your own son that he wouldn't do such things but if you do the wife will explode. A real lose lose situation. After leaving your own son for you wife and learning years after from herself it was all fake and that she never loved him and was only there for the money and probably livestyle would be CRUSHING. I wont blame OP for not reconnecting with his dad. But damn what a story.

[@Mgeeza]

This story is way too dramatic. I can imagine this plotline in some silly midday soap.

[@charlybessette9818]

Leak their name to see who has the last laugh