Dad was the head of the bullies. He destroyed his son life for some s*x
@willambonneyАй бұрын
I've seen people destroy everything for a hell of a lot less...
@greekd00d69Ай бұрын
@@willambonney for a klondike bar 😔
@TimTheEnchanter028 күн бұрын
Most parents are trash like that
@roxasparks10 күн бұрын
Yup
@roxasparks9 күн бұрын
@@willambonneysame
@tatsuyas.drakensang4826Ай бұрын
Dude's should have taken legal action for moral and psychological damage, and for diffamation
@egorapter16 күн бұрын
Waste of time and money, nearly impossible to prove.
@plague180Ай бұрын
The father did not suffer enough as the family claimed. His kids entire childhood was ruined and 7 years of adulthood
@GustavoOliverXDАй бұрын
Bro the son going to bed without food and the dad not knowing or doing anything, he's dad is a coward too
@miceltusav88Ай бұрын
"Your father has suffered enough" oh, he has, has he? What about the decades of abuse I put up with in silence? The insults, the harassment, the jeers and the silent contempt? He's suffered what...seven...eight years? He hasn't suffered nearly enough, if I'm to be honest
@stevenadamsapple12 күн бұрын
This made me so angry I had to pause and pace and around the room for a bit. Holy shit I would've started swinging for the fences if I heard someone say that shit about someone I cared about being peer pressured into forgiving them for their own peace of mind
@sjmcc1310 күн бұрын
They no longer have a bond with him, but do with the dad. Likely never had a strong bond with him in the first place. No bond means no concern fornhis feelings, and showing concern would require admitting their part in how he suffered.
@shawnlindley58403 күн бұрын
And you have been given the chance to save another human being from suffering like you did and you are choosing not to. It isn't about your father, his family, or even Gina. It's about your soul and what this decision will be doing to it.
@shawnlindley58403 күн бұрын
@@stevenadamsappleif the author does not forgive then he will remain trapped by his bitterness. He isn't free from his abuser yet. She still can say she destroyed their relationship. In her mind that will be a win.
@stevenadamsapple2 күн бұрын
@@shawnlindley5840 you can still hold Ill will towards someone and be indifferent towards them in every day life. Forgiveness isn't about absolving of their transgressions it's allowing yourself to not be shackled with the burden of caring. I'm petty enough to be able to do both personally
@rome79735Ай бұрын
Do not invite nor allow your father to attend your wedding. He can find comfort with his side of the family. This is the price one pays for not being there for his own flesh and blood.
@realWWdude546Ай бұрын
Stepmom was right; the dad really was a pathetic man
@aleksandarvil571828 күн бұрын
DITTO !!!
@TangoIndiaMikeJuliet11 күн бұрын
Pathetic coward who failed his own son.
@sjmcc1310 күн бұрын
From the start. He chose to blindly believe his wife from the first sign of trouble, and that just lead to problems down the road.
@captaincold54815 күн бұрын
@@sjmcc13now the dad is alone and miserable
@icalotdonthide2646Ай бұрын
Teach children that adults sometimes lie, don't be afraid to expose them.
@jernmpАй бұрын
mr fart, how will u do
@TheSpongebob1919Ай бұрын
@@jernmp By teaching them to never hésitante to
@zero11888 күн бұрын
Father is an idiot. Choosing some random lady over his kids. Just because he a push over and never stood up to her
@03.achyuthans39Ай бұрын
"Your dad has suffered enough, and I'm making it harder on him" The reply should've been "What do you expect from someone you called a pervert?"
@seand.g423Ай бұрын
Or otherwise: "'suffer' these, you void-sucking doormats!"
@G1sandG1rlsGaming27 күн бұрын
"I've suffered far longer than him and didn't get any support from you assholes. Cry about it to someone who cares."
@Joey15811Ай бұрын
How did not not say anything when she wouldn’t get you food but everyone else? He’s blind AF
@RazielTheUnborn14 күн бұрын
She would probably say he ate a lot while out shopping and wasn't hungry.
@finalstationАй бұрын
I would demand a public apology to my mother from all the people that talked badly about her before anything.
@josephhesse26347 күн бұрын
Huh?
@tyronechadington16556 күн бұрын
Same
@tyronechadington16556 күн бұрын
They would need to get on their hands and knees in a public setting and kiss our feet while we eat
@ScottBubАй бұрын
My stepmom wasn’t this bad, but she was also an extremely awful person. As far as I know my dad is still with her and I have no relationship with him. I hate them both to this day.
@gabriellemeche992Ай бұрын
Believe me. He's miserable now. Don't be surprised if he contacts you when he's older and needs someone to care for him.
@harryking4007Ай бұрын
Oh yes she certainly is that bad! If she and your so called dad are still living together and you don't have any relationship with him your story is just as bad.
@harryking4007Ай бұрын
Woman can't be an awful person and not be that bad.!!!
@harryking4007Ай бұрын
I I can type this about you even though I don't know you because I can talk about myself and how just as bad my story was before I learned better.
@RabidDispositionАй бұрын
Nothing worse than a parent that chooses a spouse over their child.
@big_man_bumbaАй бұрын
bro is so scared of being demonetized he censored the word accused💀💀💀💀
@vitofa3209Ай бұрын
Pretty sure he was just trying to get people to comment about it and boost the video
@danieltaylor3696Ай бұрын
Quit being so sexist. Using the word tHe? Use thx like the rest of us mentally unstable members of society
@fabianvilla8474Ай бұрын
@@danieltaylor3696r word
@RabidDispositionАй бұрын
KZbin auto-censors the most nonsensical things. For all we know he uploaded it the first time and it got flagged.
@LiverSundaeАй бұрын
@@danieltaylor3696TELL ME YOUR JOKING NOW
@HalorousАй бұрын
There are people commenting who think the son should be the adult. My question is what the HELL is the adult suppose to be doing? That when east sold the father snake oil. In my opinion, she should have sold him every drop she could get her hands on, if he was stupid enough and selfish enough to believe everything he was told by her. The father is looking for absolution. And if he has suffered, well, that's his burden and cross to bear. Not the sons.
@razofdeadАй бұрын
Adult… sue him??
@RusticRonnie18 күн бұрын
Honestly, he should just use the dad for money also.
@RazielTheUnborn14 күн бұрын
@@RusticRonnieFrankly, the dad likely already put all his wealth back in the sons name to try and get forgiveness from beyond the grave. It's quite common.
@funnywelshman6380Ай бұрын
Dad was part of the problem
@MultiMistercatАй бұрын
Finally a story where we do not forgive and forget what people made us go throughout in our life! The dad should feel ashamed , not to not believe both side but to always siding with the MIL. Dad will ultimately live with remorses all his life, as he should.
@Taygon45Ай бұрын
The dad betrayed and hurt OP more then Gina ever did the moment he said "My wife would never say that!" and then had the GAL to readily believe that OP said the insults said to them later. Granted, OP did in fact say those things, but it's telling that he never once blew it off and instantly punished her for it, while never once taking what was said to OP seriously. And then when he announces he has a will, she suddenly uses that moment to blurt out how OP was actually an abuser, and that wasn't suspicious AT ALL!? The dad can rot in hell for all I care.
@Frightmarelordofthenightmares28 күн бұрын
The dad suffered enough. Really? Op had to be humiliated and insulted for decades, but he can't suffer for a decade like Op?
@HannahBuckley-fe6xfАй бұрын
"Your dad has suffered enough, and I'm making it harder on him" WTF, are they just ignoring the fact that the stepmom, Accused op of a Awful crime, and op actually was the one who suffered.
@Ishtar1339Ай бұрын
Wow. OP needs to seriously sue the shit out of Gina, or something!
@BraveryWing26Ай бұрын
"I owe no explanation to those who chose to abandon me"
@NegativeAccelerateАй бұрын
Honestly the dad is just as bad. Its his responsibility to make sure whoeevr he remarries respects his kids.
@dumacele672418 күн бұрын
“The damage was done, and Gina had won” Bro is spitting baaaars foo’😤🥵🔥🎤🎶🎵
@wellsaidgoodheadfred984322 күн бұрын
Gina is a pure devil who's guaranteed hell when she dies, but the OP's dad is terribly gullible and clueless too.
@chadreingold5175Ай бұрын
Op's dad is the worst father.
@Mrcake010327 күн бұрын
Yeah, that was fucking obvious less than 3 minutes in. Tolerate someone you don’t actually like? Sure. Convincingly pretend to like someone you don’t? Maybe. Convincingly pretend _to your parent_ that you like your step-parent when in fact you hate them? Not likely. Do all of the above and _never_ slip up, for years, even though the person you hate is constantly tormenting you? No 12 year old is _that_ good an actor. I guarantee you there were red flags, many of them painfully obvious if you know what to look for. Dad just wasn’t enough of an actual father to notice. It takes a village to raise a kid. Likewise, there is no such thing as an abused child who wasn’t failed by _several_ adults. In this case no less than 3.
@captaincold54815 күн бұрын
He's on par with that dad from the story "TIFU by help ruining my son's life"
@repollorepolloymasrepollo1821Ай бұрын
Stepmonsters sure are a piece of work aren't they
@dcg59026 күн бұрын
Especially the ones with kids. They use the man to raise some other guys kids.
@dmsviola1Ай бұрын
Bro, who the fuck publicizes their will????
@GamerGrovyle27 күн бұрын
Someone who lost a friend suddenly. Least unrealistic part of the story to me.
@dmsviola127 күн бұрын
@GamerGrovyle I don't think it's unrealistic. I just think it's INCREDIBLY stupid. At most people should only know if they're in a will. Not what they're getting.
@zero11888 күн бұрын
Most people do lol
@Til_I_Collapse16 күн бұрын
Single fathers should not add anyone to their family who hasn't gone through a legitimate, full course of therapy.
@glenmassey3746Ай бұрын
Don't know what the father expected for being a boneless puddle of a person. That with the first accusation dump his son especially after money was brought up.
@maxwortel898623 күн бұрын
Pops was definitely clueless af
@milasytАй бұрын
Is this a male Cinderella? It sounds like male Cinderella.
@tss9886Ай бұрын
Sadly that story is based on some awful realities.
@GaeaRage0798Ай бұрын
Except that Cinderella's dad (at least Disney's version) was such a good dad that the stepmother had to wait until he passed away to make her move.
@janewasson4845Ай бұрын
Amazing how so-called Dads will believe anything a woman says over their own kids just because they're getting sex.
@XFizzlepop-BerrytwistАй бұрын
I mean… its a nasty thing to lie about Grape. Most would think why would anyone lie about that? But what are you supposed to do if someone you love claims they were assaulted, by another person you love?
@GustavoOliverXDАй бұрын
@@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist if he loved both he would've try and learn the truth without antagonizing one of them
@XFizzlepop-BerrytwistАй бұрын
@@GustavoOliverXD I feel like thats easier said than done. And how does one do that?
@theomaid14 күн бұрын
This story is so frustrating, I can't even continue listening to it xd
@robertocheing5616Ай бұрын
no one should believe any wmn without proof
@DefeatedElite10 күн бұрын
Agreed. Females lie about anything and everything under the sun, rape and sexual assault included
@G1sandG1rlsGaming27 күн бұрын
Parents that genuinely believe their kids are capable of something like that with no proof should never be parents
@MastermindOfLag28 күн бұрын
I know that the focus is the story, But can we just appreciate how satisfying the video in the background is?
@trentonmcadams2323Ай бұрын
I'll say this I would never talk to my dad again nor would I attend his funeral when he died
@RusticRonnie18 күн бұрын
Pop up just for the inheritance.
@DkKombo17 күн бұрын
They complain aboit sexism but use every sexist thing in the book against him
@jessedunn9835Ай бұрын
So his dads supposed suffering was only dur to his own actions and choices that he defended for years. The sons suffering was across years, worse and again his dad chose it. He should just rub that in to anyone crying about it and his family sided with step witch back then too so tell them off for that.
@JoyBoyAlter12 күн бұрын
This is so comically evil that I honestly don't believe that this is a true story. This has to be some sort of satire or something.
@user-hf3bp2gy6d29 күн бұрын
Never would have spoke to my father again
@artix548Ай бұрын
Even the first book of the Bible warned us about false accusers. Just read the account of Joseph and Potiphar's wife.
@bluekaygamingАй бұрын
... Why are we censoring accused
@TeemoTeemossonАй бұрын
KZbin.
@MrDoverfield29 күн бұрын
There’s a very place in hell for the dad
@linktothepast1008 күн бұрын
I would’ve kept it real, “leave me everything and we’ll be even when you pass away 👍🏻🖕🏻”
@pridebound11 күн бұрын
If this story is true, then op frustrated the hell out of me! Dude is weak af.
@JP-eh4ee23 күн бұрын
Hopefully you made your dad change his will first so that his ex won't get a cent
@robertortiz78537 күн бұрын
OP's father made his own bed. Now he needs to lie in it.
@Trackrace29582Ай бұрын
Sounds like a Disney step mom
@jacobc8036Ай бұрын
“Cinderelly, Cinderelly”
@scLefQ12 күн бұрын
I know this may have been some time ago but I would have bugged a few rooms or something to find out the truth. There's no way you can be this oblivious as a dad! I understand it's difficult to decipher what is true or not but there's no way you're going to not investigate at all! I knew from the beginning, only losing that woman would have brought that man to his senses. Sad reality for men...
@carmenlynn544114 күн бұрын
I would have never answered that phone call from the dad, or not stay on the line. Nope, after all that I'd have had him legally disowned. Did it to my mom when she assaulted me then lied and said I tried to kill her then used transphobia to try and make me look bad even though in court they thought SHE was a man 😂
@JS-ro2ifАй бұрын
You’d think an affluent family would be able to afford a private investigator or something to investigate these claims immediately, but like nah… you'd also think that he would've noticed something was up assuming they went to therapy sessions together or if he asked her about the events later…
@GamerGrovyle27 күн бұрын
What do you think a Private Investigator does? Are you thinking of a Psychic Seer? How would a PI be able to find any evidence of physical assault had or hadn't happened in the privacy of a home, with only the suspected victim and suspected assailant present, where one says "He did it!" and one says "I didn't do it!" ? There's a reason a lot of suspected rapists go free. It's almost impossible to make something off of a He Said/She Said accusation.
@RusticRonnie18 күн бұрын
@@GamerGrovylehe would have in covered the adultery
@dixon1375 күн бұрын
KZbin would remove my ability to speak if I said what I belive about people like that.
@macrons59327 күн бұрын
Acc*sed 😱😱😱😱😱
@Joey15811Ай бұрын
Also dad needs explaining all the manipulation of gina as a kid. And it’s going to take an awful lot to repair any relationship.
@harryking4007Ай бұрын
O ps so called father was an ultimate fool and didn't deserve anything good for his stupidity.
@brianmowday75099 сағат бұрын
Im so glad this ended on a happy note, cause that was a fucking rollercoaster of emotions right there.
@idontsigninАй бұрын
Did the dad walk about with his head up his arse every day for him not notice anything. And why didn't OP ever make recordings.
@maxwortel898623 күн бұрын
I'm guessing that's why the step mom searched his room unexpectedly
@ScottsmanthegreatАй бұрын
They would be lucky if I was alive after that
@adamrickett886529 күн бұрын
If you’re going fake a story at least make it wholesome
@Storylinesphere1208Ай бұрын
Do you think it's possible for people to mend such deeply rooted family conflicts, or is it sometimes better to walk away?
@MultiMistercatАй бұрын
always walk out, or going low contact. how can you rebuild trust when it got shattered at 12 yo, for a kid who only wanted to be loved.
@saadatkazi1536Ай бұрын
@@MultiMistercat people like you are why society is failing. You never wanna work it out. All people like you want to do is run from your problems because it’s the easy way out. Truly sad.
@miceltusav88Ай бұрын
"When you hold on the most, is when it becomes most painful"
@pipebombpete.6861Ай бұрын
It takes more effort to rebuild but it can be done.
@seand.g423Ай бұрын
Walk away... From the funeral of _everyone_ in the entire situation, after driving down to it and getting out the car. Be there for them _exactly_ as they. Were there. For him.
@funnywelshman6380Ай бұрын
Gina is abusive
@bernabegarcia78615 күн бұрын
I’m not going to tell what to do because your right when you needed your dad the most he through you out. All I ask is is think about when the times were good and if he was a good dad to you before and ask yourself if you want your kids to had their grandad In their life. If he is worthy of it. This lady put you both through and hell and back she has already taken years away from you guys. If you miss your dad and you think you can talk to him don’t hesitate life is to short. If you feel bringing back into your life will bring pain and regret then don’t. In the end out your own happiness before his because that’s what he did.
@TheHighbornАй бұрын
This tale is as old as time
@jacobc8036Ай бұрын
Wrong movie! That's Beauty and the Beast This is Cinderella
@pannathatvj183217 күн бұрын
L Dad
@wizzer88Ай бұрын
sorry i was too focused on the image of cakes on this video for me to concentrate on the story. My conclusion of this story is, I want to eat cake now.
@user-nb8tk6hh6xАй бұрын
Dad is the problem
@camtoonz66197 күн бұрын
First of all that family is terrible, second of all NEVER tell anyone what’s in your will 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
@OnizukaGTO7 күн бұрын
finally, a reddit story that doesn't sound like A.I. generated.
@LyricalIAm3 күн бұрын
The way my temper set up... fades are needed
@ScorpionNani7 күн бұрын
Proof money isn't enough, his dad and his side of the family probably all have money and not even Gina wants anything to do with them, such tragic pathetic people.
@ΘΑΝΑΣΗΣ-γ4ζ26 күн бұрын
How nice is it to be an g reek watching this video
@Subdew200824 күн бұрын
Aww what this? A father losing his son again after he left due to his new wife lie? Oh pls keep it yourself old man no one will ever cares but your family you have left and your lonely? Boi you got a whole family in your side to talk why be so sad?
@nohaxgaming628319 күн бұрын
I'm thankful my stepdad is an amazing person.
@Jackdaniels-bi4hg24 күн бұрын
I have had a very similar situation with my father ex she's did a lot of the same thing including physical abuse it really made me and my dad relationship quite poor for a long time but we starting to fix things lucky she's finally getting her karma she's lost custody over my half sister lost her job car and back to doing hard drugs she seems to be getting everything back that she deserve
@ayiza85119 күн бұрын
well when she accused you. you should have told your father everything she did to you during your childhood protect yourself
@kazitox12 сағат бұрын
while what the father did was terrible, we should all remember that he was also likely being manipulated and abused by this woman, and if everyone here shits on the father, just know you're playing directly into the hands of that treacherous Gina woman and giving her exactly what she wanted, she's the one winning. I don't blame the kid for not forgiving the father, and there is certainly a good amount of responsibility on his shoulders, but what happened to him was terrible as well and ultimately, Gina is the one who conducted all of this like a puppet master. She should be receiving a majority of the hate and blame.
@trashcanjoe49024 күн бұрын
His dad _is_ pathetic
@jaylenwilliams827120 сағат бұрын
Dangers of being a simp
@ourladyofsorrowsxxАй бұрын
Ragebait. 100%, like it’s so ridiculously obvious
@RobDaCajunАй бұрын
Was coming here to say this.
@alwaysright3943Ай бұрын
Because women never chuck around false accusations
@TheMcGuinness13Ай бұрын
Yep. 100% creative writing
@Mari_IzuАй бұрын
You should be really funny at parties.
@LectricVonThunder14 күн бұрын
Also was looking for this comment.
@KKOPPONGКүн бұрын
I don’t understand how some men…disown their children for some other women and her kids that aren’t his just perplexes me. I can accept step kids but as far as them inheriting from me that’s never going to happen😂…forget it!
@Ray-lw2rh16 сағат бұрын
What a terrible father…
@VictorGeieb16 күн бұрын
But when i needed him the most he left
@RedDaix9 күн бұрын
Dam, some women doing this kind of thing need to be taught what they did to kings in France
@DS019913 күн бұрын
"blood drained from my face"? Yeah. Okay.Nice writing.
@extremerandomgamer1238Ай бұрын
Unblock your dad and inheritage your fathers money and assests
@77wolfbladeАй бұрын
The question is can he be trusted. Like O P said the father may have never loved him.
@Joey15811Ай бұрын
Still he’s better off getting everything and selling it all. Or he can donate.
@RabidDispositionАй бұрын
Exactly. The majority of people arent even lucky enough to inherit a pair of socks. You gotta do what you have to. Pride is a sin for a reason.
@jayjonezs9019 күн бұрын
Lol u got falsely accused his side of family believed everything and turn their backs on you now they want you to forgive ur dad???.... Families like this are toxic asf
@TempestAmethyst6 күн бұрын
So his Dad is worse than Gina honestly?!?
@ChrisMr6665 күн бұрын
Honestly wouldn’t say OP is the asshole if he said to him father and his father’s side of the family to drop …., telling them that “instead of looking into the matter you automatically assume I was guilty.” And this is the reason why I’m against the whole believe all women. A spiteful woman can destroy a man’s life forever, I was almost a victim of spiteful women…if you make a claim, provide proof otherwise get out of here with those lies, because at the end of the day the only people who are truly hurt by those lies are real victims.
@albert1256 күн бұрын
I think the dad is also a victim of a narcisist woman...
@skylineXpert3 күн бұрын
Story 1: what a golddigger...
@user-nw2hf1pc5i3 күн бұрын
How sure are we that Gina is lying???
@funnywelshman6380Ай бұрын
I want cake now
@funnywelshman6380Ай бұрын
I ain’t saying they are gold doggers but….
@SaulTamalezX86 күн бұрын
7:41 where it starts
@TabyNaky17 сағат бұрын
Obviously, your father did not do enough and failed. But I don't believe he was malicious. He was in some much lesser sense a victim to her and her lies also. After you see to yourself, I believe it would be a good hearted thing to work towards some contact with your father. You didn't seem to have a bad relationship barring her and her spawn.
@nopenope367819 күн бұрын
I think I got diabetes watch all the sweets
@LectricVonThunder14 күн бұрын
Fake af. Mildly entertaining.
@yusuka4ev83022 күн бұрын
The cakes in the background are making me mad....
@cynthiakhan5239Күн бұрын
OP’s dad is a major AH.
@SSCuuKАй бұрын
Even tho i can't believe how OP would feel after all those years I can't help but feel bad for the dad. Hearing accusations like that about your son is hard specially coming from your own wife. You want to deny it because you know your own son that he wouldn't do such things but if you do the wife will explode. A real lose lose situation. After leaving your own son for you wife and learning years after from herself it was all fake and that she never loved him and was only there for the money and probably livestyle would be CRUSHING. I wont blame OP for not reconnecting with his dad. But damn what a story.
@Mgeeza7 күн бұрын
This story is way too dramatic. I can imagine this plotline in some silly midday soap.