Wife of the Party Podcast # 146 - Bert Kreischer

[@lindsaychristian4151]

Everyone here from 2 bears 1 cave lost it when she asked "whos lyall?"

[@cheesybread1995]

YES

[@jasonrumfelt2990]

DEAD! LOL!!!

[@celvsmachine]

Lmao I loved it !!! Imagine going he’s my virtual hype man with a straight face !

[@mimigiggles4199]

Bert will be downloading Lyle on his phone.

[@JakeBroJake]

As she was saying "oh so hes not real?" I was thinking "Hol on 'ear em out!"

[@LishLuvsDub]

Aesthetically, it’s calming to listen to LeAnn speak. But more importantly, it’s really refreshing to hear her perspective and intelligence about things. I love the balance between her and Bert.

[@LetsBeClear87]

I get what you’re saying but that not how that word works pal

[@LishLuvsDub]

I politely disagree :) “The term aesthetically pleasing can be used to refer to anything in the world around us that we sense as being beautiful or enjoyable; including what we see, hear, touch, taste, and smell. We experience aesthetics using all our senses.”

[@treetrain]

What I love about this is ...... Not only the transparency and vulnerability this offered, but how their therapy gave me like a half dozen things to bring up to my therapist this week. I started not long ago and I am havin' trouble navigating where to go with it, but this opened some light and thinking that I can explore. Thanks Bert and LeeAnn

[@poeticengineer]

I love watching Bert and LeeAnn together and seeing how in love they are. This was a great episode. Real talk about real issues. Lots of vulnerability. I love how much honest conversation there is about mental illness and the value of therapy. I push therapy to everyone I can. It's helped me a lot. Watched The Cabin when it first came out and enjoyed it!

[@joeryan7024]

i was going to say the same thing but you said it better

[@poeticengineer]

@@joeryan7024 haha, thanks!

[@MckailaShiloh]

"Trauma is in the nervous system." Is something I was trained day 1 as a social worker. It varies for each person and their capacity for and handling of stress recovery. Two people can share the same experience and have totally different stress outcomes; give yourself grace and don't try to justify your trauma over someone else's. I would love for Bert or Leanne to read The Body Keeps the Score.

[@courtneytalbert51]

LeeAnn having a conversation with her oldest teenage daughter.

[@michaelcomer1645]

LOL

[@lionsmanexx]

😂

[@EdBattes]

Oh shit. When Bret brings up Lyle and has to explain it. HILARIOUS!

[@laurafloss-wilson6885]

Thank you!! Love your view on therapy. Makes me feel like I'm doing something right. Keep that hustle!

[@msantos38]

30:08 I literally yelled out loud, WHERE IS LYLE and then Bert called for him. I'm dying!

[@oliviaboyd7]

LeeAnn's joke about the Bat in a recliner with a cigar waiting to bite Bert is gold LOL 49:40

[@jyegavin1661]

This should be a monthly podcast. Love it

[@stevenconnon930]

This is by far the best episode of Bert. Not just him but he’s open about a lot and just chumming with ya. I loved this episode leeann. Also congrats on “the cabin” both of you. I absolutely loved it and laughed so damn hard. Great job guys.

[@michaelcomer1645]

This is like an OG Bertcast. So good

[@Josh-ie4hb]

LYLE! IS HE IMAGINARY?! I'M DYING LMAO! 2 Bears, 1 Cave voice back ups are essential for Bert!

[@allisenspring9250]

You and husband are SUCH inspiring people to look up to and I am so grateful I have been able to this past year! My boyfriend and I have been huge fans of your family since Bert's first special and his podcasts. I got him tickets for his show on February 12th in WV for Christmas!!!!!!!! Love you guys so much!!!

[@infiniteempath]

“Maybe I should pay you.” 🤣 The best husband and wife comedy duo. So funny. Them reenacting their life on stage would be soooooooooo good. OMG. ✨🥰✨

[@janiebrossmann1178]

All I can say is…omg you guys are so funny, real, and great” therapists”for me ❤

[@KeyEpic]

berts on the podcast, here goes 1.30HOURS of my life !!

[@Benderthegr865]

Think you meant 1.5 hours

[@alexanderjeromewhite2380]

1.5 ;p

[@danniellee9811]

As much as I enjoy Bert's comedy I really like this version of HIM when you two are chatting.

[@A212K]

I love seeing the 2 of you interacting together, I legit wish I had friends like y'all in my every day life, y'all are so much fun!! I feel like my personality resembles Bert's; and as much as I strive to be like LeeAnn, it just never happens. I spiral too quickly with my thoughts and feelings (good and bad) and the anxiety attacks just heighten everything that I never feel grounded or really focused or even in control of any aspect really in my life. Thanks for sharing yourselves and your lives with us! I feel like this episode was a mini therapy session, and it definitely is giving me more perspective on myself, and hopefully some coping skills when I throw myself into my next spiral. Stay safe and God bless you guys! Sending good vibes and many thanks from PA ❤

[@coleslawYSJ]

Bert saying he doesn't like the parts of his daughters, that remind him, of himself, speaks so much to me. It was what happened with me, and my Dad. He and I were exactly alike. The things he hated most about himself (impulsiveness, arrogance, chaos, loud, bad with time, bad with finances etc etc) are the things I also hate most about myself. We had a TERRIBLE relationship, because all we did, was shine big ugly mirrors back and forth at one another. I didn't figure all of this out, until he passed, and I went to therapy to work out how I felt about the loss. It's my biggest regret in life, to have not made peace with that sooner, so I could have perhaps had a better relationship with my Dad, while he was still here. In the journey to self awareness, I've learned the biggest aspects of my personality (loud, and obnoxious) are also my biggest insecurities about myself. Anytime I encounter people, with that same matching energy, I'm usually prickled, until I take a min to reflect back in the ugly mirror. I find if I believe they too are self aware of their space in a room, and I can see them pivot, to allow room for others, I will soften, but if they appear oblivious, and want to continue to dominate, I'm out.

[@jedininja4432]

Im the same, Im sorry for your loss but know that even if he hated the things you reflected back to him, he probably had such a deep love you and didnt know how to express it. My Dad and I have developed a better relationship over time and Im starting to learn he never hated me, he felt afraid of those qualities and over corrected or was overly critical but he says he always loved me just didnt know how to deal with those aspects or communicate. Hope this helps

[@coleslawYSJ]

@@jedininja4432 thank you for your insight. This helps more than you know 💜

[@coleslawYSJ]

@Derrick Perez thank you for the critique. Happy Monday!

[@wardwyatt9364]

Wishing y’all a happy holiday season! Thanks for being real!

[@AshleyBlowtorch]

I want LeeAnn to be my life coach lol

[@MrDinksinct]

LeeAnn you get better and better every week. Excellent job!

[@dalbrightwell8625]

Bert - I'm loving the hat, hoodie & shorts look! Totally rockin it! You guys are great! Love the pod, LeeAnn!

[@chadberman3268]

LeeAnn: "It was a low hovering bat 😂😂😂😂."

[@WesleyThibodeau]

How can she not know Lyle, when he said hear me out...I was already imagining a sound bite of Lyle saying it !

[@kasiaoneal9843]

LeeAnn thank you for being so wise :)

[@clowheeler]

My last relationship ended because when we fought and I wanted to be alone (like, actually). He kept following me. I kept leaving and he kept following. I got more and more enraged because he wouldn't leave me alone to decompress. I forced him to move out the next day. Its people like bert, who make people think when I want to be alone its an invitation to be harassed when you most want to be alone.

[@emfrappier]

Love Bert’s hat - 💚 VT!

[@emmajayne682]

Love Leanne, you're my Hero as an example of being a good wife and mum ❤ 😍

[@MatthewScottRivera]

Very good episode 😄

[@murr626]

You guys Rock! Thanks!

[@nicnicvis]

Not sure if you read these comments LeeAnne, but you need to look up vampire bats. I'm not saying that Bert actually got bit by one, but based upon their behavior, if he did get bit by a bat on the ankle in Costa Rica, then it was definitely a vampire bat. They prefer to bite sleeping prey, preferably cows and such, and they lick the blood rather than suck it. The prey doesn't notice because their saliva has a blood thinner in it, and their teeth are like razor blades, so it's usually a very clean cut rather than a fleshy bite. Vampire bats also tend not to fly too much and actually prefer to crawl or hop on the ground and tend to hang out in low lying bushes.

[@iCourtneyyy]

And they love calves.

[@christinegrim1003]

Hi LeeAnn, Love your podcast, I never miss it! Bert, don't listen to all these "friends" that call you fat and other not nice things. The world can be cruel, but you are a spark of light and fun. I know your a dad that can't be around all the time, but from the parts I see you seem to be a great dad. Biggest thing.. don't fret about the kids growing up and moving out, they come back on and off, and when they do, you'll get the BEST HUGS in the world!! ❤. Yes it will be sad for a little while, but not long.. the best is actually coming in the future! This is coming from a horrible alcoholic (not always a fun one at all, one where I never thought my kids would ever forgive me) but they accept me again and I now get more hugs from my adult sons and their 4 kids (yes I'm a grandma, a young 52 grandma!) Than I ever thought I get and it's so wonderful!! You'll never lose your girls, thrust me! Enjoy all stages, even the hard ones, they TURN OUT GREAT! ❤ Chris [e-mail]

[@charlibryant5543]

Bert is so lucky.

[@seanhyde8013]

I like the hat like that too, life wasnt the same when you wore it normally.

[@ianlhamon2966]

Love their relationship

[@galacticempire1068]

As someone from VT, I have never heard of the river monsters. That hat looks like a newer Lake Monsters hat. Minor League Basesball

[@kevinmcgarry230]

Leanne you are awesome, so funny. your a great couple its lovely to see xx

[@kalilaelias7820]

I love it when she roast's him :D

[@je__.]

i love how helpless he is 😂😂

[@earlymorningpodcast]

Glad Berts’s finally back from tour to make the household hell again, look forward to the nonsense lol!

[@nazurath8833]

Its funny that i completely forgot about these but come to this episode. I have PTSD from 14 years as a firefighter. It is truly irrational bc at the point i suffered from it i had already been a firefighter for 12 years and was too scared to go into a burning building. Eventually too scared to even show up bc my pager going off would shoot my blood pressure up to borderline stroke. Unfortunately for ppl like me mental health is a joke and theres not rly any help. You cant truly speak about anything without fear of being locked up

[@backslash75]

Bert explaining Lyle made me wheeze. "is he imaginary?"

[@aceipse]

Imagine crowedfunding Bert to do stuff, just to prove he would definitely do it if the number gets high enough 😂

[@BeeJProsper]

Enjoyed the show

[@chuckriley3711]

The Cabin watched 5 times.... Good job...

[@tedium37]

I think Brent has PTSD and STD mixed up. LeAnn is the balancer that keeps him from shaking himself apart. Its sweet

[@michaelfleming8994]

Secret time that isn’t secret is that leeann is funnier!

[@audreylayton8161]

All of us with issues from our past, who has terrible parents, feel like we are bad parents!

[@justinhaley1863]

reping my home town! awesome!

[@Ambers_Team]

Have you guys ever been to a chiropractor? I think I could help both of you a lot!! Love the podcast

[@Ambers_Team]

It* not I

[@npettengill2000]

if you want to know why men don't talk about their mental health please listen to 46:20 for a couple minutes. belittling what we go through because "well soldiers have it worse" he shouldn't even have to place that caveat because in the discussion but mouth breathers in the comment section make it necessary.

[@howequalspeace]

Nice hoodie Bert!

[@Spawn303]

The difference is, Leann could survive and thrive without Bert, but Bert would be lost without LeAnn. She is a gangster

[@je__.]

i always think of it like some kind of butterfly effects.. i know it sounds somewhat terrible but if leeann has never gone through all the horrible things she experienced in the past that made her the person she is today, she might wont be able to put up with bert or maybe would never even met him and then all of the great things about bert would never see the light of day..

[@mimigiggles4199]

Thank you for calling out that hat LeeAnn.

[@TeddyTwoHands]

ahahhahahahaha “do u want me to tell the machine story?”

[@julietterodriguez7264]

I live to listening to these

[@amandaestrada25]

😂😂 “who’s Lyle?!”

[@jayjason2517]

I thought Bert was going to play a recording of Lyle from his cell phone from 2 Bears 1 Cave. lol.

[@petero1917]

Dad in Sherman Oaks. 2 girls at private catholic school. Great episode! My wife and I listen and relate!

[@sheagoldstein7309]

these Give me Hope! For Life>! Normalcy Comes in Doses like this .

[@jordanzimmerman6812]

It's not that i didn't know that there was this side of Bert because he does show it...just with more of ... drama on top....the pizazz if you will i guess.... and they def. most of the time joke around about the darker sides or whatever you want to call it about there relationship. Because they play on what is funny and they are good at it...but i loved this podcast especially because it was nice to see this side ....i don't know how to explain it i guess...... it was more real....there was still humor don't get me wrong you are both hilarious .... for real i love you both.... but this was just different ..and nice and honestly it was what i didn't know i needed .... it didn't just make me laugh and it wasn't just interesting conversation runs....because i clicked on the video knowing that is what i was going to see but there was also a realness and made me feel connected .... you both ...i think... really just filled a hole of loneliness that i have deeply had for a bit...if that makes sense... thank you! i love you both so much!

[@rdually]

The Cabin rocks Bert

[@leslierosenstrauch5182]

Was it on a recliner and smoking a cigar...LMAO

[@je__.]

you guys are the bestt 😂😂❤❤

[@AlphabyteMusic]

LMAOOOOO IM DYING WITH LYUHL or however it’s spelt lmaooo

[@adamthesportsfan2346]

Liall

[@adamthesportsfan2346]

@Derrick Perez both ways are correct. Depends on the preference of the parents with the spelling.

[@tomsensale2104]

Anyone know what kinda watch Bert is wearing here? See him wearing it all the time

[@t.c.v.t.]

Bret a Vermonter here its the Vermont Lake Monsters. As in Lake Champlain .

[@thedangerroom7747]

@30:27 Burt is so hurt when she calls Lionel imaginary.

[@Vandica710]

Hi Beautiful lady!!!! You are so awesome ;_; you inspire me SO MUCH. i wish you were my bff LMAO

[@puddspudds5102]

Same but I live in the UK 🇬🇧 😭 I love this beautiful kind gracious lady

[@DurosKlav]

What exactly went on with LeeAnn and her mother has she ever gone into depth on it?

[@AshleyBlowtorch]

She's said before her mom has narcissistic personality disorder, i believe

[@lascanio]

I’m with her regarding not following or getting followed after leaving the room, if I leave is because I don’t want to see you or talk to you...

[@canyonrnrr7143]

Love it 😍

[@wearehappilyndpendant7593]

Yes we need Lyle

[@EXRICHEX]

"I need lyle" lmao

[@danichesney1876]

What's up with that cough, Bert? Hope your doing alright!

[@janeoneill3933]

Love that accent

[@mandylewis3526]

I want to pay her to be my mom, my preacher, and maybe my therapist

[@huskymuddz1304]

Hey I already Know this is going to be a good episode

[@matthewechevarria7635]

I’m at min 12 and my heart broke. Your a wonderful person Bert and you bring so much joy into pplz life!!!! PS. I’m sorry your wife didnt see you are opening up rn.

[@sethpurdom]

ONE HUNDRED PERCENT!!! BEEOTCH!

[@caseyman97]

You know the word for self focused Burt or does it sting on the way out of your mouth if you say it? You want people to follow you out of the room because you want to feel like you're in a position of power, it's all connected!

[@clothesclothes777]

HAHAHHAHA LYLE WONT HELP YOU HERE BORT love all of your work kreischers kisses from australia ya dogs

[@noahfalk233]

I hate that Leanne stopped bert in the middle of talking about not giving a f*** like I seriously needed to hear the end of that thought

[@abe3567]

Bert can't bait a hook ahahha only joking, your doing great bert!!

[@suhaibahmed7705]

I haven't been in an relationship (19 yo man), but if i leave the room i would like to be alone to cool off my head🤷🏽‍♂️

[@derekcullin357]

36:00 - Left alone! 100%! Lol I don't need to be followed or want to play any games or be involved in any drama. Do not follow me if I walk away from an argument

[@Henchman1977]

That's not a hat, it's a tuque.

[@DuttyDuppy]

Toque* and originally a toque was in reference to a ladies cap. In the USA it's a knit cap.... 😉

[@daveh4925]

Leanne is looking younger and healthier!

[@adamreid9078]

Leeann is so pretty and so sweet :)

[@wtfpwnz0red]

Hold on mate, hear him out

[@lifeofrazor]

WOOOOW

[@gabrielsanford7914]

Did anyone else look up that sit tight chair and realize fuck that it’s 600$? Also I think ol Boy that sent it should get a bigger shoutout

[@rogerbarkley9264]

Hold up let him talk alright, give him a pint n let him finish, you'll see he has a point, I'm not saying it's good or bad but it's a point chap lol

[@mimigiggles4199]

Lyle's in the building!

[@Em91s]

I love this podcast, but I found it a little sad that most of your child discussions are about Ila. I bet Georgia feels left out. :(

[@hawkssoccer03]

It's probably best if she doesn't listen to either of their podcasts lol

[@Em91s]

I guess the idea of having one sensitive, "quirky" child, who requires most attention, makes me uncomfortable.

[@iCourtneyyy]

She talks about both of them constantly..

[@MelissaCox]

Poor Bert LMAO

[@GrantCline]

Sorry Bert, I love ya man, but if I leave the room in an argument and my wife follows me I get so pissed!

[@whereverigothereiam3078]

Kindly do not group Leanne in with Whit-ME in any way. Do not disrespect Leanne in this way. Thank you.

[@mrsir1872]

32:00 hearing leanne berate bert and laugh like that is gross. makes me wonder if a divorce is in their near future once the kids leave the house. bert and leanne seems to not be even close to on the same page anymore, its sad, theyre just trying to hang on for the kids.