WILD AITA REDDIT STORIES EPISODE 32

[@PresleyRoxy]

I don’t understand how you ask your friends, family, and neighbors and they all give you the same answer. Yet you still have to ask Reddit.

[@pykogirl]

The elevator lady was totally the AH bro i would feel awful for making him so upset

[@LifewithIsabellaLanter]

I KNOW!!! Like come on idk how she couldn’t just be understanding

[@boogiebear3095]

Same, he was genuinely scared and wasn’t unkind about asking. Poor dude. (I love your icon, westies are so freaking cute!)

[@alizaras]

Completely agree. And it's not like the elevator only comes by every half an hour, it wouldn't have been that big of a deal to wait for the next one.

[@KarlMalowned32]

The wedding guy with the 15 year old son…RUN AWAY!!!!!! I can already smell the divorce papers!

[@XmienekeX]

Yeah why would you wan't to marry someone who doesn't want your son on your special day. No matter how old they are honestly

[@katriinozornina4652]

I have a very bad cynophobia and it’s even worse with small dogs, because I have alot of bad experiences with small dogs. I think it’s the dogs owners fault, because they always think that ”well my dog is so small it’s not going to do anything”, but they don’t train their dogs at all to not bark and come up to random people. Even if the dog is cute and shy, I wouldn’t want to be in a small elevator with them, because I’m always over panicking of how they would suddenly react.

[@mirablossom2672]

The mom rewriting history, that’s soooo easy for parents to do. I recently told my mom to not tell my son “don’t cry”. He’s just a toddler, and she didn’t mean it maliciously. But I had to tell her “I don’t tell him not to cry. He can cry if he wants or needs to. I was told not to cry all the time as a child because I was sensitive. I remember getting in trouble by my step-dad (her ex-husband) for crying, and he would just give me a wash cloth and tell me to stop instead of comforting me. That made me feel like I wasn’t allowed to express how I was feeling, and it wasn’t valid. So no, don’t tell him not to cry.” She was taken aback and apologized that she did that and allowed him to do that. I told her it was okay, but I think it’s just easy to forget those moments as an adult, but they stick with a kid. I know she felt bad, but I had to mention it! No rewriting history here!

[@petrastedman669]

The perfume story is just insane. Saying "she's just a kid" is not right when she's 17 and doing multiple wrong things. She could be charged as an adult for theft among other things, so giving her a break by just asking to be paid back and cutting off her access is already nicer than deserved and a concession to her age, giving her a chance to do better.

[@AndyyWithAY]

1. Major YTA. I don't understand how some people are afraid of cute dogs, but I have certain phobias myself. It would've been so easy to be kind. 2. Actions have consequences. She stole it and sold it. She needs to pay it back. 3. Whatever is nonrefundable is cheaper than a divorce. Some people do 16, some 18, some younger for CF. But, not having the groom's child is crazy! And, some people are on good terms with exes. I don't see the mother of your child at your wedding as an inherent red flag, especially if the kids are younger.

[@ClevverUsername]

22:00 I can guess with almost certainty the mom that made her daughter dress up like a hot dog lied to friends/family when it happened. She told the same story she told the BF and has been telling it so long she probably blocked out her being nasty. I hate when people choose what history looks like.

[@jordanwebster7337]

The way I wait for this every week

[@LifewithIsabellaLanter]

Omg that makes my heart so happy 🥹

[@jenniferdurbin572]

Same

[@jordanwebster7337]

@@LifewithIsabellaLanter you’re so funny and just the brightest light! I would love to be friends with you. 😂🩵 I binge watched all your AITA videos when waiting to go back for foot surgery last month. 😂🥹 Your humor kept me nice while waiting forever with no food or water 😂

[@zoellaadilkhan4929]

The way i was on edge the entire video waiting for the spider to show up 😭

[@LifewithIsabellaLanter]

Me too 😂😂😂😂 went through the damn room after filming and couldn’t find it

[@rachelcurtis608]

The speed you talk at is super satisfying to listen to 😄

[@petrastedman669]

The MIL cake story could've been worse. One of my cousins had this happen, and her MIL actually called the bakery and *changed the order* before 'offering' to pick it up and bring it to the party. When everyone saw the cake was wrong, the witch had the audacity to say she just got what everyone really wanted. 🤬 If I'd been there, she would've ended up wearing the cake.

[@middledog466]

the child free wedding thing is ridiculous. it's his SON. her stepson. she sounds like a freaking headache

[@gracesblythe]

Why is it that parents who say "they're just a kid" seem to believe that also exempts kids from consequences? Like, okay, MAYBE little Timmy didn't fully know something was wrong, but he and his parents STILL have to deal with the consequences. SOMEONE always has to deal with consequences. Little Timmy's the one who did it, so........

[@awkwardlyamy3765]

17 years old is not a kid it's a whole teenager about to be a whole adult.. 😂😂 those parents have issues it would have been one thing if a six year old, did that but a whole 17 year old... I mean the 6 year old still should be punished.. are consequences to actions

[@petrastedman669]

Also, the thieving niece wouldn't *have* money for a car if she hadn't been *stealing* for so long. She could've asked for one of the bottles to start a decanting business and use the money to buy more and expand. She doesn't get to keep her ill-gotten gains.

[@boogiebear3095]

I hadn’t thought about that, omg.

[@jenniferdurbin572]

That makes so much sense

[@BeeBod]

I work at a crisis center and today was really hard i needed this video 😭❤

[@LifewithIsabellaLanter]

Omg thank you for all the work you do!!

[@boogiebear3095]

Not the disappearing spider, that’s the worst. I had a few jump scares when I found one in my bed. And yes it happened more than once 😅

[@LifewithIsabellaLanter]

Oh my god me too 😂 damn things disappear so fast

[@alexp712]

For that 1st one, getting in the elevator isn't an issue. But once he said he was afraid I don't understand why she couldn't have shielded him from the dog. Also fuck the aunt for that comment, sooooo out of touch.

[@eviemarie007]

Hey girl hey I just wanted to say I’m a huge fan of you and I find you very admirable and look up to you. I spend nearly every day after school binging your videos. ❤

[@yeganehsetayeshnia7262]

obsessed with this series!!!!

[@Zullala]

I'm the type of person to accommodate others so if I was the guy with the dog phobia I would have asked them to step aside so I could get off the elevator. Then they could get on and I wouldn't have to deal with the dog. If I was the lady with the dog I would have waited for the next elevator. I see her point of not having to accommodate other people's triggers but I also think it would have been very easy to just wait for the next elevator. It's not that big of an inconvenience

[@AndyyWithAY]

I don't eat chocolate cake or ice cream. But, if it's not my bday. Especially if it IS a child's birthday I'm just going to celebrate them. I'd be reevaluating my marriage to this mumma's boy. Driving OP is NTA to me. Driving is really stressful cuz there are a lot of AH morons who shouldn't be on the road. If you're my spouse and I find out you're one of them, you just need to cool it that day

[@Spookiiphoria]

I am hoping the spider doesn't show back up o-o

[@samanthaconk6574]

my daughter always picks the goofiest costumes and i always do whatever i can to make them for her, and i asked my mom if i ever wanted to wear silly costumes and this btch literally told me “i wouldnt let you. if it wasnt cute, i would talk you out of it”💀that woman gives the exact same vibes as my mother🤦🏽‍♀️

[@mewlover2482]

Chiwennies are the best. Had one from 2008 to 2022. He was the best dog I could ever ask for.

[@jenniferdurbin572]

I had a chiweenie and she had to be removed from the general public because she was a little sh*t and didn't like anyone or anything.

[@tempestaspax]

On story three- I am the child from a relationship like that. My father got married twice after he divorced my mother. My second step mother, and the woman that he was married to when he passed, he married in secret, at the court house, on a Friday that rolled into a long weekend and then flew to Florida for their honeymoon. No one, not even me, knew until they got back from Disney, that they were even *dating*. That woman hated me then, and hates me now. I refer to her as my step-evil.

[@VesperTime]

My best friend just died a week ago in a horrific traffic accident on the freeway. Was he the ah for not acknowledging his wife? Sure, but he's NOT the ah for thinking it wasn't cute or funny of her to drive dangerously on a morning commute. From the way he describes it, she was recklessly driving and someone could have been hurt.

[@SoulShiner1115]

I have kids 14 years apart. I NEVER asked my daughter to babysit for her baby brother. Not a single time. I chose to have him, not her. Even if her parents weren’t bad parents, which it sounds like they were, you still shouldn’t expect older kids to take responsibility for little ones.

[@BeautifullyResilient23]

Story 1. If that guy came into the elevator with a giant spider 🕷️ on his hand you'd take issue, just like I would. Why did you double down and act like you didn't care about anyone else? Because of your arachnophobia, you know what that panic feeling feels like. That was unkind. C'mon. Smh

[@Rando911]

I actually refused to go to a family member’s wedding bc she wanted it to be child free, even the children that were becoming her step children. Morally, as a step kid AND step mom to 2, I can not approve of that in any way.

[@jenniferhoisington66]

YTA He has a fear of dogs Reailistic or not it's real to him and you could have taken the next elevator and you sure as heck didn't need to call him a baby that's just plain rude NTA You sister is right kids make mistakes And they can be a great way to learn not to do it again If she loses her car money then that's the lesson she learns NTA So the teenager in question is your son and your wife to be doesn't want him there because he's part of your old family? Nope this won't change Dump her NTA If MIL doesn't like chocolate cake MIL doesn't have to eat the cake Your son is right it's not her birthday And if she wants to throw a tantrum over that then she can keep her petty whiney arse home for every party from now on NTA for being annoyed at the time YTA for nor talking it over afterward NTA They only pay attention to you when they want something from you Lots of young parents are good parents Lots of parents have a second kid and still pay attention to the first kid Your parents suck NTA You got into trouble for making a mes while trying to cook dinner the only "discipline " should have been cleaning it up and your mother set out to humiliate her Those were crocckidial tears because you called her out for being the sh*tty parent she is

[@emilypenner6287]

I can be a little more forgiving if you were in a rush to use the elevator but the guy even asked if you could put the dog behind you? It would literally inconvenience nobody. YTA for not even trying to make a SHARED SPACE feel safe. It isn’t about respecting others triggers, it’s about basic human decency

[@ValthatBish]

🕷🕷🕷 oh noooooo

[@sharihazlett3774]

I would wait for a different elevator . If someone is scared of dogs, don't get on the elevator

[@kimberlymartin7498]

The boy should have started off with that first, he only made an issue of it.After the fact had, she not berated him and belittled him, she would not have been the a******

[@somethinggenericidk]

idk about the dog one I do agree op of the story was unnecessarily rude about the whole thing, but if the guy was so uncomfortable HE could have just as easily taken the stairs or waited for another elevator. to some extent you have to learn to manage your own phobias to the best of your ability because the world won't always accommodate

[@tiffmitch702]

First story YES YES YES you are the biggest a whole i am afraid of dogs my self its terrifying and you dont no what that person has with through or why there afraid what a jerk

[@jj.golden]

My friend had chiweeny who hates me and I’m genuinely kinda scared of him

[@awkwardlyamy3765]

So the age is not a f****** excuse! I was 19 years old when I had my daughter and oh my God I love her with every fiber of my being was I young yes did I do some shity s***? Yes but did I ever put her down or act like I wasn't her mom? Hell no, I always try to be the best mom that I could for her she is 22 years old and when my son was born he didn't get all of my attention they got both of my attention equally, matter of fact my daughter has maybe watched over my son two times ever.. because I how to raise my brother's at the age of 9 and I was never going to do that to my children..

[@C-U-Never-Troll]

People are aholes in elevators sometimes and that women is definitely one of them and I’m sorry but stealing isn’t just a stupid kid thing lol. And the MIL is a nightmare imagine being told you can’t have the cake you want cuz grandma doesn’t like it Lol

[@ValthatBish]

[@LoveMonster]

The only thing I always wonder is why, if you have a phobia of dogs, would you live in a dog friendly building, especially when dog friendly buildings are rarer than non pet friendly buildings. Also, dog friendly tend to be more expensive. I mean I know places are limited but whenever I'm looking there are way more no pet apartments available than pet friendly. Is that just my city or?

[@Souls-at-zer0]

There are dogs everywhere you cannot escape them and in this housing crisis there is no way you can be picky when choosing a place! Be so for real… I have been bit by little yapper dogs RIGHT AFTER their owner says “ don’t worry they are friendly they don’t bite! Then they BIT ME …

[@LoveMonster]

@Souls-at-zer0 I am not saying people should have dogs forced on them or that all dogs are perfect. I'm pointing out that from what I have seen in apartment hunting, there are far more non pet friendly places and that those that are pet friendly tend to be more expensive. If they are stuck in the building that sucks and the OP was the AH I was just wondering because I lived in a building that was very big on being dog friendly and it took me forever to find one that was, but I passed over a ton of great options that weren't pet friendly (almost all of which were cheaper than the dog friendly buildings).

[@Souls-at-zer0]

@ and what I’m saying is there is a housing SHORTAGE. People don’t get to PICK where they live they go wherever is for rent !

[@Elizabethgitana12]

That’s probably just your city, I live in Vegas and I toured 15+ apartment complexes and all of them were dog friendly

[@heatherpachal9762]

The guy who was afraid could have waited for another elevator or take the stairs. My daughter has an anaphylactic allergy and it's up to her to manage this for herself. The fear of dogs is his to manage for himself. Yes he could have been kinder about it, but ultimately stewarding your fears, anxieties and allergies is the responsibility of the person with the ailment/issue unless they are too young or developmentally delayed to manage it for themselves and then it's the caregivers responsibility.

[@Tink00]

He did manage it. He politely asked someone to wait for the next elevator, and when they went in anyways, he asked them to move the dog behind them. Those are really small asks. He was in the elevator first - he shouldn't have to get out. We don't even know for a fact that he *could* use the stairs.

[@BeeBod]

He was already in the elevator. Why would he get out to let her in at a floor he isn't getting out at?

[@weezylone]

I don't have cynophobia, but the people I know that are pathologically afraid of dogs, don't live in a rare expensive dog-friendly apartment building.