SHOCKING AITA REDDIT STORIES EP. 27

[@polydactylblackcat2218]

I cannot understand people who WANT the cheater to choose them. Like, babes!!! He's CHEATING!!!! What makes you think he'll treat you any differently once he's "yours"???????

[@boogiebear3095]

Right? They’re next in line to get cheated on. That’s not a keeper.

[@lilmorsecody]

FR! cheaters belong to no one!

[@Jilyjiljil]

Financial abuse is real!! It happened in my marriage. It made it very hard to leave, but I had to for mine and my kids safety

[@lilmorsecody]

I hope you're ok now! I had an abusive partner who would also use money to embarass me. He would bring up in arguments things he had spent for me and demand I transfer the money now. These were gifts and days out that at the time he said were treats for me, and then weeks later he'd get angry and demand I transfer hundreds on the spot. I reacted similarly to the lady in the story by refusing to accept gifts or go out with him anymore.

[@Jilyjiljil]

@@lilmorsecody We owned a salon and I worked full time retail management. He spent his money on drugs then transfer money from my account to his. I’m doing great, but he’s lost everything due to drug abuse. He lost the salon and can’t hold down a job. I hope your life is much better too.

[@Ooglybiogly8272]

I feel like when guys start getting stingy with their money..they’re giving it to someone else (sw, of, the strip club ect)

[@chvrrvism3833]

"tell him he looks like someone that doesnt know which kinda wrench to hand to his dad" DAMN

[@SquishySeaBird]

If I were the woman selling off baby items I would just talk to the person who gave them as hand me downs first. A group of women in my age group have all passed around our baby items to each other and usually it’s an understanding that if the person who gave them to you gets pregnant, you start giving the things you got back as you start not using them. None of us really ‘own’ the items and we are all happy that a whole group of women are benefiting from this kind of trading back and forth.

[@nannynatalie]

@@SquishySeaBird Exactly! Community is everything.

[@KarlMalowned32]

I have been cheated on before, there is no redemption in my eyes. Dont stay with someone who doesnt respect you. A cheater doesnt deserve to be with you.

[@boogiebear3095]

Sorry that happened, never dated but seen people cheat and get cheated on. It’s a horrible thing to do to your partner

[@paigeb5390]

I'm pretty sure Story 2 has an update ... If you can find it I'd love to hear your thoughts :) Maybe you could do an "All Update" video where you cover updates to stories you've read before? It would be really good to hear what happened next to some of the stories you've already covered and hear your opinions on them :) Thanks for another great video x

[@nannynatalie]

11:30 Babe, ESH. He shouldn’t have stayed with his wife 15 years after the cheating if he knew he would do this at some point. His children are now going to know that their whole childhood was a lie.

[@BrigitteDiessl]

For the man whose wife cheated 15 years ago, find someone who loves you for you. My Dad cheated on my Mum when I was 16 for six weeks but it only takes once to make a baby. We were told when the child was 6. Mum stayed with my father and was an amazing wife and mother and later Grandma. My Mum developed Alzheimer's in her later life and one of the last things she remembered was my Dad cheating on her. He doesn't know that but I do and I resent that he did that to her.

[@abvhrulz]

If he doesn’t want you to work he should be giving you a wage. That is not OK that he thinks she get groceries and ish out of thin air. If he is not ok with proper treatment then OP needs to gtfo. And he’s hurt? Oh man. Poor guy 🙄

[@lilmorsecody]

Exactly that man is such a loser. He has all the power, and likes to exercise it cleary. No sane man asks his partner to stop working unless she wants to.

[@Tink00]

And the friends being like "you went too far, you should just listen" - immediately out of my life

[@SapphiSapphi]

Hi, stay at home wife here.... my husband goes to work, and he still pitches in on chores and jobs around the house when he is home. Cooking, cleaning, ect. Sure I do the majority, but when he is home he respects the work I do by pitching in. Also if I want something inexpensive, I buy it. If I want something expensive, I asks if he minds, and then he finds a way to buy it. The first story is either full blown financial abuse or the start of it. That's absolutely crazy. Honestly any stay at home spouse is a luxury now, and should be treated as such!

[@amandab6566]

With the hand-me-downs: I would never donate/sell someone else’s things without asking them if they wanted it back first! I always check first.. Once the kids have grown out of it then obviously you need to do something with it.. but taking something, you know you don’t need, from someone with the intention to IMMEDIATELY sell it is shady & shitty IMO.. what if they knew more people with children? I donate to multiple children in the family. Once one kid has grown out of the size, I get the stuff back & give it to the next child that’ll be that size.. I’d be so sad if my stuff was sold 😒

[@nannynatalie]

@@amandab6566 Exactly! It seemed like she was gathering the items for that express purpose. So weird.

[@EmL-kg5gn]

Yeah I agree! It’s not like anyone can stop her, but if someone helped you and you have the chance to pass that help on to someone else it’s just what you do! I wouldn’t judge someone who was actually struggling for selling the stuff but in my experience those people are usually more generous because they know how hard it is

[@lisa.user-xm7kz2tb6x]

Hi to Everyone! I'm a new sub, finally, right?! We get to places when we do, and I love being at Isabella's joint & such nice folks here. Safe-fun wknd to all✌🏼♥️

[@upcycledunicorn]

Isabella, you are an absolutely bright and brilliant young person. I am so blessed to have found you and your amazing advice. I found my throat chakra a few years back(I'm 41 yrs old now). Late bloomer lol... I am a stay at home Momma to my son. He has Autism and I had to make the decision to stay home to make sure my baby is raised with patience, love and compassion. That being said, I am not in a healthy relationship and stay because I had no time to protect myself(unplanned pregnancy). My son will start full time school next year and your strength and words are giving me the confidence to 'get the fuck outta here' as soon as I possibly can. I am starting a small business currently. Please send me positive high vibrations and I will send some to you too! Thank you for putting yourself and your strong reasoning online, it is a scary place 💕🪬🪷✨🪩 Oh and I want to add, not only extremely intelligent but a stunner. Positively gorgeous!

[@KayJoyy]

YES! Ive been LIVING for Fridays so I can pour myself a glass of wine and watch/listen to you.

[@hailyjohnson407]

Hand-me-downs story: it definitely depends on the context of the gifts. For example, all the furniture in my apartment were Hand-me-downs from my mom when she got all new furniture in her house, but it was clearly stipulated to me that sje was giving it to me because I need it, and if I stop needing it, she expects me to give it to someone else in need or to donate it to a charity organization. This is because my mom was previously in an abusive relationship and when she fled, it was others' generosity that allowed her to have anything at all to get off her feet. She made it clear that it was to be used until I didnt need it and then given away, and that she would never give me anything again if I ever sold something given to me to meet my needs that I couldnt do on my own. And I agree with that 100%. So if SIL was askimg for the stuff, or OP said "hey do you need this? If so, Ill give it to you, if not, I will donate it" then I think SIL is in the wrong because its clear that OP wanted to give it to someone in need, and if they dont need it, they shouldnt have accepted it. However, if OP said "heres all my old baby stuff, I want it out of my house so take all of it even if you dont need it" then I think its reasonable for SIL to sell the excess they dont need. Context definitely matters.

[@ErinBrookes]

Wooo I have been loving these videos from you 😊

[@leslieburleson1550]

I love it when people are mean because omg , my turn 😂😂😂 I’m actually a golden retriever , but if you’re not acting right I can unleash my talent of verbal dog walking 😂

[@mostleeded]

Also, if he wants you to not spend that "shared money", tell him it will be therapy time with an actual therapist to discuss this. He dropped the ball by not mentioning anything until now.

[@autumn557]

But what was she supposed to listen to? She literally followed a list he gave her, and then got mad that she did it? Also what good is $900 a month!?!? I assume wine was on that list

[@chvrrvism3833]

thank you for these. i know you release them on friday, but i save them for monday to listen to on the way to work lol best way to start the week

[@jordanwebster7337]

EEEKS been listening to your AITA videos since I woke up today so this made me happpyyyy

[@shanwow1172]

Love your channel and your whole vibe!

[@happytunna6661]

Omggg i love you , you're so real

[@jarodmacpherson]

Yay favourite part of my Friday 👌🏼

[@zeroo7471]

Yayyyy im always excited for these!! AITA fridays B)

[@kimberlyearp1009]

I’ve learned if someone is willing to cheat they will do it again but also do you really want them. There is always someone out there that will also be loyal and for the people who date married men why not be with someone who is available and honest.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

14:33 _LOVE_ your laugh at these moments! 😂😂

[@boogiebear3095]

For the dude trash talking random women, don’t dish it out if you can’t take it. He had it coming. 🤭

[@mmmmmmmmaria]

3 minutes ago goes hard

[@squash6497]

At 15:05 i was like "hmmm, she has to be an Aries". Looked up your birthday, and no doubt at all 😅 ♈ 🤝 ♊ "Stop arguing with funny bitches"

[@bizzle4266]

I know its gonna be good when you say "I need y'all to...." 😂

[@LifewithIsabellaLanter]

Lmfaooo the second I say that you know I’m fed up 😂

[@dominiquenicole6266]

She wouldn’t last an hour in my job (engineering scrum master) 😂😂😂

[@kimberlyearp1009]

Yep my ex husband hooked up with a married woman who had cheated on her husband six previous times and surprise surprise she cheated on him with her husband who by the way she never divorced in the first place. Now he has her six kids and she’s in jail for other things she did. What comes around goes around and honestly you’re right if they leave someone for you or cheat with you they will do the same to you.

[@nightwiing_]

15:50 best line ever 😂😂

[@boogiebear3095]

Why are you asking a heavily pregnant woman to do all of that? Cook, shop and host? Nope!

[@Jessicaandini-qc8bk]

Wife is Husband's responsibility (period) you are freaking married and made a vow not just being a roommate

[@anym7849]

Yea I wouldn’t love my sibling after that either wth is their issue

[@betsysuzanne897]

first 🎉

[@1015SaturdayNight]

I need to know what that lip color is

[@Imkktso]

Don't know if i did my hair early or you posted late but literally saw this 9 hours after I've done my hair.(it was a ritual of mine to watch this while doing my hair). I literally waited an hour for you to post before starting,no video came.