Will A Man Wait?

[@CarrieRemedy]

"You don't get what you're worth, you get what you negotiate" 😮‍💨😤

[@IntegrityMeansAll]

💯a doormat will never get respect nor anything else that’s worthwhile

[@saltycat662]

@@IntegrityMeansAll Yup. Have a cousin who's like this. She's a doormat and fully codependent on her druggie, cheating husband. Now she's old, broke, miserable and her kids hate her because she enables dad. It's terrible but those are the repurcussions of the bad choices she's made and continues to make.

[@itsbeeva]

I’ve waited 28 years so if he can’t wait until marriage, I can’t possibly respect him. The one God has for me will wait.

[@Emptytopfloor]

Girl, try to find someone on your level. Why should you accept another woman’s (might be multiple) reject?

[@j-tenn226]

32 years old here.

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

35. :/

[@monixhill8267]

40😅😅

[@theupgraded6558]

Definitely not :'DD

[@meagon177]

Yes, he will wait! Especially if he is God fearing and loves you.

[@AllThingsBeautywithMishkaPK]

This was so timely. Thanks for the reminder that the right man will wait for you

[@sofiamafumba]

Yes a man will wait especially if his God fearing and truly loves you. I'm speaking from experience. I'm a God fearing women being courted by a God fearing man. We both agreed to not fornicate and wait until marriage. He loves me for me and wants to honor me by doing things the right and godly way. To my my brothers and sisters in Christ there is still God fearing people out there. Don't lose hope, have faith in God and pray without ceasing. God sacrificed his one and only beloved son for you, don't you think he'll give you a spouse?

[@AishaWhitlockEmpoweredsuccess]

Unfortunately a lot of these men don’t think like that. But from now on im not letting nobody make me feel guilty that im not getting on my back.

[@autmnra2705]

As a retired adult dancer...yes. the answer is yes. However long you make him wait....IF IT'S HIM....yes he will. Whatever you say Queen ❤

[@antrianewsome2463]

Not “hot & ready like Little Caesar’s!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@marvaleetameyers4905]

"Meant to be (her)husband" is key. Will wait. ❤

[@rhondalipkin985]

A man will wait,my man background was similar to Tony but more, at first he thought it was a game, he clowned and showed out, he broke up with me twice. But he always came back and he did exactly what Tony said he would do, he started disciplining himself on his own, we dated for three years and we got married in August of last year. So yes a man can wait ladies.

[@c.l.9344]

Honor God and wait. It's God way. ❤

[@mswilliams7646]

If your the one he wants and depending where he is in his mental state he will if he’s serious about who he wants and respects your wishes.

[@sweetsoul8974]

Tony your teachings on abstinence has really helped me. I'm 4 years abstinent and the material and spiritual blessings that have come from it are amazing. Thank you for your teachings, some of us are listening. 😄

[@theodosafripp6958]

This abstinence journey has been worthwhile! Thanks Tony for keeping it 💯‼️

[@spicy_tellthestory]

“You look like the bottom of a 57 Chevy”😂😂😂😂😂 This man here 😂😂😂

[@CDeniseRichardson]

I’m dragged when I suggest keeping the legs CLOSED! Sharing this. Great dialogue; actually refreshing.

[@nzingahoney]

Im 42, and I finally get one thing. It is not fair that some people get to meet their soulmate at 21 when i wanted that since i was 11. It is not fair that men don't care about why i might have "busted it wide open" for them , more quickly than for others, and didn't care about past trauma or other contributing factors. Life isn't fair, and I know I would have been a great wife and mother, had any man had the faith in ME that I had in them. They were not fair to me. But I CAN BE FAIR TO MYSELF. And whether or not the world is fair to me, that's exactly what I am going to be to myself going forward

[@Thegoodlife4me]

Thissss ❤🌸

[@akilahbatyah6505]

I feel the same way. A lot of times there are some blood line and generational issues that lead to these outcomes. Anywho, life is better once you find your identity on God.

[@SportyDivaAE]

Sis, you speaking truth! You were not the only one out here desiring to marry early… and being WAY TOO GOOD to everybody else but me. At 38, Im choosing me! 🖤❤️

[@Joejoyoyoyo]

We, as women have to start taking men-but really anybody-as they are. Have faith in Jesus ONLY as He has proven Himself already. Trust a man only as far as you see him, because this is what he is doing to you anyways

[@theworldoftaj]

“Hold yo head high wit dem warts” 😂😂😂 thank you for this video

[@Dr.Elaine1]

Whether the person requires it or not, you can require it for yourself.

[@shamecca.f]

Had to come back to these videos after mutually ending things for this very reason. He had a spirit of backwardness -- he told me a woman is smarter to give it up on the first date than to wait. 🤨🏃🏾‍♀ I did get increased communication skills out of it so, a win is a win LOL. s/o to ya Unc for these videos. Been listening since 2020!

[@LDolar]

My brother with the Truth💯💯🗣️❤️

[@rac2135]

'Hold your head high with them worts' 😂😂

[@patrciakavini]

Great reminder, thank you for the reassurance!

[@millicentstollenwerck5239]

We were taught growing up about having pre martial sex and biblical scriptures, but really didn't get an understanding. We had knowledge; understanding keeps you anchored but knowledge puffs up.

[@donnag183]

Three years ago I ended a toxic marriage which was a total blessing in disguise because it has given me a whole new perspective on exactly what I will and will not tolerate In relationships. Waiting until marriage is now a requirement, Dot, Dot, Peri-Oddd 💍♥️

[@ashley_audacious]

thank you so much for posting this. it’s a great reminder to wait.

[@purpleprincess8998]

Tony, you are SUCH A BLESSING. THANK YOU FOR THE ENCOURAGEMENT AND FOR THE TRUTH!!!🙌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@patricialantigua]

Yes!! That’s right!!! The husband for you will wait!!! Thanks for sharing wisdom with us all Brother!!! I’m grateful to GOD for men like you who are not only walking the way and married but also faithful. I HAVE SO MUCH RESPECT FOR YOU!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@luyandanxumalo9472]

Thank you so much Uncle Tony. God bless you, this is such a timely message for me.

[@nareacecox5538]

Hey Tony, thank you for continuing to touch on this subject. It’s much needed for women to hear as well as men!!!

[@s.johnson1772]

“See, that’s the Key 🔑 right there…”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😩😩🤣🤣🤣

[@love2crochet786]

I trust everything you say - I never thought this was true! Thank you!

[@Armiejuliet]

It explain who you really are and makes him know that you know exactly what you want . I just want the foundation of my marriage to be structured ,so am facing it now with my man and ever since we started dating even though he keeps trying me in all ways . Thanks Tony

[@rebeccabowers-my2xv]

🤣 you are definitely 🗣️and dropping those 💎. This will be the video I will show to my 13 yr old granddaughter who will be turning 14 this summer starting high school. Always been in a private setting now going into a public setting . I will keep the 🙏🏽up. Thanks for sharing these topic from a man perspective may God continue to bless you and your family. 😍

[@dantoinettetaylor1663]

Waiting is good. Recently ended a relationship where I insisted on waiting. He wanted to get down by the 3rd date and I said absolutely not. Then it turned out that he knew he had prostate issues about a month before we met but wanted to “hit it” just to see if he still got it. He confessed this to me 2 months later!

[@haryel5058]

I’m sorry but lmaooo WTF ? 🤭🤣🤣🤣

[@Kori2228]

This is a very great video and I like honesty. I’m young and striving to be a better Christian everyday, of course I fall short of sin everyday but I’m really trying to come out of being lukewarm right now and videos like this really help. I’m in college at Texas Southern and the culture in itself is drinking, smoking, sex, etc. We need to do better but I am trying to spread the gospel and also work on myself. I appreciate this video, reminds me of things my dad tries everyday to instill in me. I’m not perfect, I too have committed sexual sin before but seeing videos like this make me want to strive to do better. Everyone have a blessed day. If you do fall short of sin, pray and ask for forgiveness then get right back on up and try again!

[@sheriboop]

My brother, I appreciate you to the utmost, thanks for just speaking truth. I am about to turn 65 yrs old, living in Alabama, so I grew up with what you're speaking, and if that wasn't bad enough, I experienced racism even more in the military. Just because Manny are in denial doesn't mean it'll go away. Again, God bless you, and I pray many more get on board and accept it for what it is. Only then can we live in peace we respect for one another. Love you all!!!🙏❤️🙏

[@NokuphiwaJoann]

Get up and hold your head high just the same way you went down and laid on your back 🤣🤣👏🏿👏🏿🥺. It's not a laughing matter but uncle Tony is funny. 🤣🤣🥺. It's true though.

[@joyceharvey410]

Thank you Tony! This video REALLY resonated with me. I agree with everything you said. I believe the man God sends as my husband will wait for me until we're married.

[@ladyofspa]

Thanks for this Tony, very inspiring and informative. Thanks for what you do really making a difference.young ladies lives will be transformed, I wish I had any of this as a young lady. Toast to you.⚘️

[@Aisha_babii]

Join me on the journey guys! 5 months into this new relationship and I’m not on my back 😅 he can wait till marriage

[@PrincessLondon-v1w]

It’s been 1 year you got this !!!💖

[@Scaryaries]

“Hot and ready like little Caesars” 😂😂

[@Anamak_23]

Aww 🥰 The man will wait if your the one! Thanku Tony Anà ❤

[@bettyhenderson2090]

Toni you are absolutely right my friend daughter has herpes. She is pregnant by a man and I am pretty sure that man does not know she have herpes and what you always tell us you laid down you never know what you will get the thing is to stay absent it is not worth your life a one minute thrill thank you for your great teaching God bless you

[@nadianoor713]

That hiv 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony pleaseeeee

[@DD-mg2se]

Those who say no are the ones most times with open legs...a man will wait if we close our legs and if it's the one he wants.

[@itsbeeva]

It really is. And idk why they even speak on it when they’re obviously not trying… They keep giving it up out of fear of being left. (Not judging ‘cause I know it’s hard, but it’s the truth.) If you’re not speaking from a place of abstinence or virginity, why are you in the conversation?!

[@Chimonique]

A year in and I’m proud the man for me will wait period‼️‼️

[@Happinessis_12]

So true about the end. We can’t compare ourselves to Sheri. Sheri went through what she went through because of lack of counsel. We have the counsel , so we should make better decisions 💀. Also, if Sheri had half the knowledge we do , she would be a force to be reckoned with.

[@vanisacampbell5261]

😂😂😂😂😂😂you be doing the most

[@theupgraded6558]

I had couple guys who waited to get into a relationship with me for 6-10years. They were in situationships with their backups or stayed completely by themselves bc in their eyes I was "the one", but they knew that they were not at the right place in their life (financially, job wise etc) & neither was I, but now times have changed & we all in a good place to make it work. Hence, for sure if a thinks you're the one, he will wait, but he will most likely go for a backup that he won't marry though bc he wants you! Men definitely won't wait for sex after marriage hahah are y'all Amish or what? That's how dating works, welcome to 2024!!

[@akilahbatyah6505]

He’ll wait if he want to. Just know what you will do. If it doesn’t fit you must quit.

[@LdAmaro71]

I’d wait because I believe God showed me who it is. Can’t and won’t type the date I’ll ask her for marriage.

[@aspiringtoinspire_with_KW]

So worth the wait. Cleanse your temple you can hear God better.

[@queenkeesh8660]

Staying off the back was the best decision I made in dating

[@Lovegod4821]

Amen

[@motlagaboramongane2248]

People say if he says he will wait it means he is getting it somewhere else. So I don't know, is this true Mr Gaskins?

[@j-tenn226]

I need answers as well

[@TAIRAmonee]

If he is it'll reveal itself. Gotta be willing to let him go if this turns out to be the case.

[@maryanngray4519]

If they could wait why are they doing each other in male prisons

[@barbararichardson2747]

Can't stereotype all . Wouldn't be fair to say all females don't have morals.Some do and some don't!

[@RedeemFit777]

He tells it like it is, most people are offended but ayy

[@simplyameeraj]

💯

[@4gma59]

Haha! I was 32 when I married. My husband asked me to marry him after 6 months. We married a year and a half after we got engaged. Married Nov. 1991 and still going strong. (You do the math.) Don't let anyone tell you a man won't wait -- no man ever dumped me because I wouldn't have sex with him. He's not going to die, ladies.🤣 Set your standards and stick to them. My dad told me that if you've already made it clear where you stand, and he keeps on and on to get you to sleep with him...walk. And you all know why.

[@CiaraWest219]

8! 9?!! Lord please post more parenting content! I have a 8 9 & 5 year old

[@shadaehodge2858]

She need to wait that’s the problem 😢

[@Emptytopfloor]

You see, the only way I can respect a man is if he’s been a monk his whole life practicing asceticism somewhere in Shaolin temple … Needless to say I plan to stay single 😂

[@itsbeeva]

Fr😭 I can respect quite a few short-comings, but addictions?? I can’t follow a man who’s slave to his desires. He needs deliverance not a new brand of crack called ‘woman’.

[@sherrynelson365]

Preach

[@LDolar]

❤❤❤❤

[@Misserica2u]

Tony I have a question, will God send a woman to a man that is under developed in Many areas ,But still a good Guy ?

[@Misserica2u]

@@Darling_Youcancallme I wanna say underdeveloped spiritual, he believes God but don’t read his word , Hi early questions his word from time to time , Very Very Shy very Stagnant,comfortable where he is don’t wanna move up in different things

[@Misserica2u]

@@Darling_Youcancallme his mother is in the church sister ,(Father unknown ) but he dose work one solid job ,and dose alot of door dashing ! ,Sometimes I feel like I’m doing to much trying to share the word of God with he ,he hears me ,but everything I say he questions, we aren’t married nor talking about marriage ,I don’t wanna feel like I’m wasting time ,but sometimes I do ,A lot of men Have made up there mind attitude,and I don’t wanna waste time convincing anyone to Chase Gods heart like me

[@la6136]

@@Misserica2u No this sounds like a waste of your time. He is most likely putting on a show pretending to be interested in religion just to see what he can get out of you. The fact that he is questioning you shows he is not into religion like you are.

[@Misserica2u]

@@la6136 you are right I was listening to a woman of God today and I’m sure he just manipulating me

[@s.a.7756]

Not Little Caesars 😂😂

[@pinnakal1]

It’s the loose booty for me 😅

[@MonicaGama-k2b]

😂😂

[@Thriftingwitdiva]

I’m holding on

[@NichelleLee]

A lot of men are going no fap it’s like a movement. when I started abstaining from getting on my back and self pleasure I could only find like 2 female no fap videos on KZbin that’s kinda sad

[@jalisazari9387]

Alot more women will say they are abstinence. So no need for no fap.

[@ashley_audacious]

@@jalisazari9387yes I agree. she will find a lot more videos about a woman’s abstinence journey on here

[@monicathompson9751]

Stay off your Back !!!

[@Bella_M26]

‼️

[@katlynn7216]

Been talking to this cool cat who claims to be intentionally dating for marriage. I have been abstinent almost 14 months- i am waiting until marriage point blank period. He keeps on trying, i am gonna keep on saying N O

[@CEOMSHiLL]

But, what if we been best friends for 15 yrs & we’re trying to TRANSITION?😫😭🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@MonicaGama-k2b]

😂 😂

[@shannenluevelle7331]

You are beautiful!! 😍

[@queenkeesh8660]

I want a man to say he’s waiting because he’s practicing self sex dicipline and focusing on god and finding a wife 😊 but I get it

[@joybeybeeluv4234]

He will wait

[@Whynormald]

6:58 I mean that’s cool however I wish he wasn’t doing it for me and doing it for God especially if he’s a Christian

[@kristalliiite6408]

How soon should a woman tell a man she is waiting?

[@jalisazari9387]

Never. If he asks tell the truth. Until the move accordingly and pray if he is the one.

[@Aisha_babii]

Never because then it becomes a game to him

[@annwideman8760]

Good evening, YT Son and everyone. Yes , a man will wait for marriage if he values you. If you have talked about it, and he agrees, he will wait.

[@tebzlindiwe3069]

This is not really relevant to this specific video. I’ve watched a video by a gentleman by the name of Tyleik Shakur…Mr Tony always spoke about what happens to a little boy/girl who got touched. This thing is a spirit…let’s protect our kids. Love from South Africa

[@lyricsoftheart]

What if you’ve already have been intimate and now want to be abstinent until he proposes? Does it make sense to wait?

[@kristalliiite6408]

Yes, I have a friend who is dating a woman who he had sex with once. She put her foot down, and he said he’s waiting. She truly has changed his life and it’s beautiful to see.

[@queenkeesh8660]

Make him wait to the honey moon not the proposal that’s not the actual wedding

[@claudiastennett9674]

He will wait for u and go elsewhere. He will wait until you are ready.

[@Lovegod4821]

I'm waiting

[@BossAnjeil]

But what if you already started & wanna stop 🫠

[@GoldenGraham25]

Breakup for a while if you can’t stick to your commitment. Once boundaries have been established- no late nights (day meetings only, calls, no alcohol) and all the other disciplines, he may or may not be willing to move forward without the sex.

[@MonicaGama-k2b]

Its hurt if is a lot attraction 😅 😭

[@ericbush6124]

If both want a Godly Marriage Waite might mean never being alone together only chaperoned if that means second virginity. The Man who strives for God desires High Hanging Fruit he has to reach up to get to High Quality. High Moral fiber Spiritually healthy Happy Joyous as he will be

[@Herbeauti]

Tony it’s a man going viral he went and got that knee surgery u was taking about !!😭🤦🏽‍♀️

[@simplyameeraj]

🤣

[@Bella_M26]

😂😂😂😂

[@goldensunray2150]

How long will a good man wait on a good women to get her act together?

[@j-tenn226]

I’m waiting

[@marcelinaun3304]

So strange I've been alone most my life have not had sex almost 9 years met thisan I really like and we've been talking about 6 months he's still around coming by all we do is flirt lol but I have more self control because I've been alone so long seem to take time❤

[@Officiallyblessedjess]

Yes

[@brittneyharrison9297]

Tony, if you could I pray you see my message could you please do a video on how you can turn things around with a guy who you truly do like but y’all have had sex already? You can tell he sees that you are the one but you now have your life with Christ and you want to do things right. How do you kind of reverse things lol I hope that makes sense? Thank you in advance.

[@queenkeesh8660]

There are incel men 😐

[@aandreahodge]

Know better do better

[@MonicaGama-k2b]

I dont have sex if there no blood work test for STDs

[@andreabrown631]

Let's keep it one hundred. Most men that will so-called weight are either gay.Or you think they are waiting?But they have a whole other side piece that you will never know about

[@barbararichardson2747]

That mindset is the problem ! Men that don't try to get laid right away are labeled gay.Its possible he's taking it slow to see if she's worth committing to. Seem like a no win situation .

[@la6136]

Maybe the men you dated treated you like that because they didn’t like you enough to wait.

[@ToniCobbins]

No lies detected 💪💪🫡🫡.. if he’s God fearing he’s going to wait patiently.

[@aandreahodge]

Amen