Will MY EX Forget About Me After a Breakup

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Coach Blac - Blacademic

Coach Blac - Blacademic

Күн бұрын

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@ericawhite9430
@ericawhite9430 2 жыл бұрын
Please move on,a break up is a blessing from god,he is protecting you
@roothelegend182
@roothelegend182 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Erica 🙏
@AsphyxiaXan
@AsphyxiaXan Жыл бұрын
This is a channel about getting your ex back why comment shit like that ?
@ericawhite9430
@ericawhite9430 Жыл бұрын
@@AsphyxiaXan because I can,and why take someone back who hurt you,thats on you when they hurt you worse,smh,it's on you,
@myriamhinton3159
@myriamhinton3159 2 жыл бұрын
I think you are by far one of the best coaches I’ve heard. I’ve listened to a lot. You are answering “why?” and explain behaviours of EX’s. You give common sense and grounded answers for actions of both parties. In March it will be seven years of no contact. With this I have evolved into a whole person with my senses back. Im happy but it’s been a process thru time, pain and anguish. I watch your videos bc everything you say is true. How do you know all this stuff? You give complete answers and it clears the brain fog!!!! I’m glad that I found you. It’s making a big difference in my life. Keep up the miraculous job you do by helping others find themselves again and giving them the tools we thought we didn’t want or know about. It’s complicated isn’t it? Thank you so much. 💜
@AntwhaleNearfar
@AntwhaleNearfar 2 жыл бұрын
7 years in no contact? That’s no longer no contact...that’s over.
@victorianorris1916
@victorianorris1916 2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this, you make everything so clear and understandable, Thank you for all you do!!
@chipashachilao2077
@chipashachilao2077 2 жыл бұрын
I mark u as the best coach I have ever listened u...there's a way u explain things...
@godsson2681
@godsson2681 6 ай бұрын
Bruh, so I watched yo vids soon we broke up & I went into NC. It’s been 2 1/2months of NC & she just reached out today sending me a picture of my dog & her puppies from 1yr ago. I sent her this 🤙🏿 & she replied that she hopes I’m doing well…… This is the start of her walking back towards me I believe. Not fully sure but I’m definitely in my healing process so I’m not sure what my nxt move should be….
@theintimidator16
@theintimidator16 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Coach I had a 6 1/2 year relationship come to end 5 months ago due to her wanting to walk away for numerous reasons. I wish I could book a 1:1 with you but since the holidays are here I can’t unfortunately. Hopefully someday soon. Gotta a lot of love for your vids thanks.
@DeadMysticx
@DeadMysticx 2 жыл бұрын
Almost 7 months after the breakup. Our relationship was great, love was still there, he broke up with me because of his mental health... 2,5 months after the breakup, my birthday came...no message from him, now at christmas the same...no message. So I really think, he kinds of forget me.. He got curious 1,5 months after the breakup because he stalked my whatsapp stories daily, but a few months ago he deactivated his read receipt so I dont know now, if he still watches it.
@babyluvjr
@babyluvjr Жыл бұрын
He/she will forget about u, indeed, especially if its an ongoing "off/on" type of relationship..in those type of situations, u are NEVER truly loved, liked, cared about. Sex can be in the pic , gifts exchange, sleeping over his/her house, dates etc etc, All of that can be going on," i miss u, missing you ", type texts...all of these things ive mentioned, only go on when its YOUR turn and they need an emotional, ego RECHARGE, so they can get back to the one(s) they REALLY want. U r something 2 do, when there's nothing 2 do
@beepgg6450
@beepgg6450 Жыл бұрын
I just want to cry my ex is happy with the girl he Cheated on me with for a long time. I have blocked him and I can't even think about another guy holding my hands. I miss him so much I end up randomly having mental breakdowns anywhere I cried inside a bus the other day.. I cry myself to sleep... I wish he would at least remember how down I was for him how loyal I was to him. I hope someday the hurt will stop.
@Memsywealth
@Memsywealth Жыл бұрын
Honey move on you’ll be completely fine soon enough... cry all you want and don’t hold onto the emotions just let it out ❤
@CatwalkPurz
@CatwalkPurz 11 ай бұрын
It’s so hard. How are you doing now?
@GlowriteBeautyworldSkincare
@GlowriteBeautyworldSkincare 2 жыл бұрын
Please make a video on how to manage in an environment like going to same gym with an ex who’s giving mixed feelings . I’m really trying to heal and move on. But everyday we see each other at the gym. I love him but he walked out on the relationship with no reason. I was in no contact, he reached out with some chats , when we bumped into each other he asked neutral questions, he views all my chats.. but he doesn’t call and I don’t call too. It’s hard for me most times. I need to understand this whole situation. Thanks for your videos it helped me to be strong doing no contact phase ❤
@RJ_HTx
@RJ_HTx 2 жыл бұрын
You have to change Gym for your own mental, emotional and physical health.
@GlowriteBeautyworldSkincare
@GlowriteBeautyworldSkincare 2 жыл бұрын
@@RJ_HTx thanks alot 🙏 I will do that
@AngelicSwing
@AngelicSwing 2 жыл бұрын
Currently in 106 days of NC. I broke up with her initially due to her toxic behavior of: Lies, gaslighting, lack of effort, breaking promises, never wrong, emotional immaturity. We dated long distance for 6 years. I loved her dearly but she became extremely toxic and rude to me and I felt unwanted, unloved, unvalued and everything. I offered her an option of reconcile only if she decided to put in effort since she wasn't putting in any at that point. No compliments, no flirts, no sex, emotionally unavailable, avoiding, ignoring, etc. She never responded to it, she invalidated my feelings for the breakup and called them all "excuses" (my reasons), proceeded to make fun of my gender for being a male and having sexual needs, laughed at me and told me to go find another woman to have sex with instead. Her words hurt me and made me cry. I still kept the offer of reconcile on the table, and gave her a week to think. She argued with me for not offering to pay her rent since I spent 5 dollars on myself and not on her, who was unemployed for 3 years and has her parents pay her rent. Whereas I have 2 dead parents and support my older brother and work 7~17 hours daily. I wanted to close in the distance, but I couldn't do it alone, she complained about debt in her bank but never bothered to work. After I didn't offer her money I apologized because I didn't want to fight and understood her pain. I always treated her kindly and never insulted her, despite her harsh words to me. She went and posted online how her dad is the only man who supports her, completely disregarding me for I have done more than her father has ever done.. They don't even live in the same country and barely talk a month. She took me for granted and never saw my value. She said she wanted to be left alone and to "focus on herself". I told her I wish she didn't sever our communication intentionally, but she didn't care and left. (I at least wanted an answer to my offer and to understand if she didn't want to be in the relationship) I told her regardless I would leave her alone and I was sorry to bother. I never forced myself into her, nor her into mine. I do not chase or beg. She was talking to a brand new guy a week later and had sex with him a month later. I found out about it (unsure if she knew) and I was hurt, especially because on the same day that she did it and I found out my grandfather died. I had no words to say and I didn't want to bother her anymore. I gave her the space she asked for and she went to someone new. I unfriended her to save my sanity of what I witnessed, it was hard but I couldn't stare it anymore, so much for "focusing on herself". She vented about me to the new guy and she still never bothered to reach out to contact me. She never told me how she felt about the breakup, never offered to repair the relationship, never apologized for how she treated me or how she made me feel. She never gave me closure, she never had a conversation saying she didn't want the relationship. She only showed hot and cold behavior and I already felt unappreciated and she never respected me enough to talk to me. I think she would take the unfriending personally and I doubt she would reach out. I doubt she would even realize her own actions led to the downfall of the relationship. It's been 3 months and I think she decided to move on, I felt hurt since I loved her, but I can't change people nor can I make them realize my value. Some people just get too comfortable and only like the company and lose interest, or they just take you for granted or take advantage of your kind heart. Ex is 25 and I was 23 at the time, now I am 24 as of last month and no she didn't reach out on my birthday either. (Unsurprisingly) I won't reach out to her because when I asked her to sit and talk, she disrespected me and left. When I gave her a chance, she didn't take it. When I was kind, she was cruel. Knowing her she will probably blame me for everything as always and never be wrong or held accountable and perhaps use that I unfriended her as a reason to blame me. :/
@jacobwright238
@jacobwright238 2 жыл бұрын
I hope your doing good... it hurt i know this pain very well. I just want to say i hope your doing good brother.
@kennethwood6439
@kennethwood6439 2 жыл бұрын
Fluff, man there's a lot you don't know about the nature of women. If you knew, you have incorrectly cultivated your relationship with her. Men and women are the OPPOSITE, get it??? You show care, you chase and do things for her, she's not interested. But if you do less and less, she loves you more. The opposite, get it??? C'mon try to make sense of why this works. If you show that you care, you're FEMININE lol. Ask yourself, what is the likelihood of women being attracted to FEMININE men??? Very low. If you care less and behave in MASCULINE wats without being obviously intentional, she's BONKERS for you. She'd even buy things for you. Happened to me, it can happen to you too. Why do you think women will do anything for bad boys. You don't have to be an a$$hole, just don't be a nice guys like don't do things or simp for her. Also don't be emotional. Think hard and look at how women behave, simply do the OPPOSITE of them and you gave nailed them
@_Diaryofwealth
@_Diaryofwealth 2 жыл бұрын
Want to say so sorry for what you went through it sounds painful
@Cluedup2399
@Cluedup2399 Жыл бұрын
This is typical narcissistic behaviour mate you should be glad that it's over and never ever go back.
@kiddytube3915
@kiddytube3915 Жыл бұрын
Dude.. love yourself and let go! Jeez. Work and improve on yourself. Please
@amandlaawethu1538
@amandlaawethu1538 Жыл бұрын
In many cases these feelings are external. Meaning they are coming from an outside source. Sometimes its what you did but most of the time its from echo chamber (sisterhood) for women & (the bro code) for men. Both sectors give bad advice.
@CatwalkPurz
@CatwalkPurz 11 ай бұрын
Great content! Makes so much sense!
@alexardon91
@alexardon91 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your videos, im in NC , im having a hard time but im doing my best, one of the Things is that I had a great relationship his her son and daugther, but now I dont even call them,its hard, we were togethet 10 Years, she dumped me 7 month ago, some time she calls me but dont say nothing just cry, or she calls and she is all mad at me, just giving her time, I hope she comes back but if she doesnt I know I Will be ok, I have been working on my self improvement, i Will be thankfull if you give me some advice.
@love7loyalty-MHA
@love7loyalty-MHA 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! I'm just coming across your videos. Can you do a video about not communicating with an ex during the holidays ?
@kateroth7154
@kateroth7154 Жыл бұрын
This is a great video.
@wubsondeck
@wubsondeck Жыл бұрын
I guess my thing is this. How is ones ex suppose to feel the emotions of the breakup, wonder about the person they broke up with, and not to mention rediscover their feelings for the person they broke up with. When they have completly surrounded themselves with the opposite sex for hours on end in a daily basis during the no contact phase. At some point, a month, 2 months, or even 3 months, if a person wants to see if there is a chance still for them and their ex to rekindle things do you think they should make a attempt to reach out at some point to break the ice? This has been my biggest question about no contact and my experience as of right now.
@neressakotas4396
@neressakotas4396 Жыл бұрын
what difference will it make what he is doing. he walked away. it really doesn't matter to me. I want to move on with my life.
@magdadrague
@magdadrague Жыл бұрын
What if he deleted all of his social media because of me, no mutual friends? How is he going to be updated of me?
@wessica7645
@wessica7645 2 жыл бұрын
How do u remove your self or do no contact if you have baby and have to see them every week
@marimac182
@marimac182 2 жыл бұрын
That part
@MeandGod14
@MeandGod14 2 жыл бұрын
Grey method nothing else but dealing with the child talks. Don’t know if you heard of coach Warren he’s so good best of luck
@CatwalkPurz
@CatwalkPurz 11 ай бұрын
The third video on this channel speaks about practicing no contact when you have children together. ❤
@mariaharo1268
@mariaharo1268 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sir what if my ex ask about me through my friends! Like how is she doing or does she wonder how I'm doing ? What should my friends answer? My ex broke up with me this morning. As you well know how feel by now. He has a 19 year old daughter who is the real cause of this break up. See her dad and Mon are separated for 18 years now. Her mom has a new family now . She's dad little girl now. And she is jealous that her dad is falling in love with me. Please Sir advice me what should I do. Do I use the NO CONTACT TRICK? I DO LOVE MY EX very,very much. And he knows this very well . He shows no emotions. Yet he has stick to me this past year. Please I need help. Thank you Sir and God bless and more power in also helping others to .
@mrsmaealtema5562
@mrsmaealtema5562 Жыл бұрын
I have a question how can I contact you please
@Olafemi96
@Olafemi96 Жыл бұрын
Why does it matter?
@babyluvjr
@babyluvjr Жыл бұрын
I disagree, they're going to walk towards another....they cant "notice" your absence if they're attention is being "occupied " say word
@mjgray0820
@mjgray0820 2 жыл бұрын
What if u are married but separated ppl I need help I been having no contact for 3 days she text me on my birthday we have been married for 2 years I went back into no contact after I said thank u on her message when she text me I haven’t been on no social media in like 3 days so do I have a chance she said she needs space because she is hitting Mentelpause I just don’t understand what’s going on
@a-aronjohnson878
@a-aronjohnson878 2 жыл бұрын
Hey man, i am in a unique kinda situation. And i would like your opinion on some things.
@florind93
@florind93 2 жыл бұрын
And what if we only were dating for 4 months, we went on 5 dates, we kissed and all that,had decent chemistry, no sex. Does it mean that i have no chance?
@ApostleThe344
@ApostleThe344 2 жыл бұрын
Wait in 4 months you went on 5 dates only? I would say no. Unless you are flatout asking the person the answer is no
@alisawhite5126
@alisawhite5126 2 жыл бұрын
Is it ever safe to ask for your personal belongings after a no contact???
@azazel3944
@azazel3944 Жыл бұрын
If it's about your stuff, you have the right to ask
@marimac182
@marimac182 2 жыл бұрын
My x broke up with me after 12 yrs
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