Being a ‘Youtuber’ Loneliest Job I’ve Ever Had

[@WillsWhereabouts]

I just wanted to take a moment to thank each and every single one of you who has left a comment on this video, I am truly blown away by the compassion, understanding and love I have been shown. From those of you who have offered advice to those of you who have also shared your own life experiences dealing with the issues I have spoken about. The response has been humbling and I’m an overwhelmed by the kindness of this wonderful community. I wanted to let you all know that I have seen and greatly appreciate you taking some time out of your busy lives to show such support and community spirit, thank you! You are all legends 🙏🏻👊🏻💙

[@edwardhudson9851]

Just meditate on this fact mate.There are lots of people who CANT do what you are doing and have done thus far and I'm sure they'd love to:0)

[@darkangellew]

This is my dream fella & you’re about to be living it! Please be in the moment & appreciate all the hard work you’ve put in, as it’s incredible work, I think so many are proud! It definitely connects people & I think that’s what people need more of, so know that even if you feel it, YOU’RE NOT ALONE! You will travel & meet soooo many beautiful people which will help not only your social needs but also great for videos, to see how meeting these people changes both lives & just a deeper insight into human connectivity 🙌🏾 we want to see you succeed but know life does what it wants so yeah just live in the moments my man!!! Congratulations again as it’s a stunning build!

[@scottcarder9543]

I'm very sorry for your loss bud and I know how it feels brother. Losing someone close you love hurts so much mate

[@graeme66]

I would love to spend my days traveling about in a van I could live in go anywhere you liked each day in a different location unfortunately my time for doing that has passed me by plus no you tube when I was younger how times have changed but I also know what you mean about having someone there to share your experiences with hoping everything works out for you in the future and as I said in my previous comments do what you want and need to do to make your life a happy one stick in bud,👍

[@leeorr9071]

Stay single will because it’s easy in life and can sleep with anyone you want no one telling what to do and believe me the best thing I ever done was be single and I had kids because women are just about money and her mates . Pluse it’s not lake years ago you got married and had kids because the world difference now and people who get married they end up splitting up its 95 percent that people spit up so stay strong you will look back and think am better single so take care lad from Liverpool

[@nickh4726]

Will I bumped into your channel at a bad point in my life, everything I ever had had changed beyond my control, 16 year relationship, lost my home, my dog, made redundant and at the age of 40 back with my parents, what you have done and are doing is a inspiration, you have made me laugh and cheered me up on grey days, stick with it mate. The chapter is waiting to be written. 👍🏻👍🏻

[@WillsWhereabouts]

It’s comments like this that make everything worth it, I hope you find your happiness friend and keep on fighting for what you want, massive respect for sharing what has happened and I wish you happiness and send thoughts of strength

[@nickh4726]

@@WillsWhereabouts I had a motorhome for 10 years, also lost that. I had some amazing adventures and see some amazing places, I’m looking into doing a self build but using my car at the moment. I love what you have done with the van. Life is on the up for me and I’m pushing myself to do things I have always been afraid to do. Keep going and don’t give up on finding your happiness. You are a top geeza, if I ever bump into you I’m gonna buy you a beer 🍺

[@misiasert1348]

Bet you miss your dog the most 😉

[@nickh4726]

@@misiasert1348 I’m lucky as I do still get to see her every few weeks but it’s not the same as coming home to the love of your little dog every night 🐶 and yes she is what I miss the most 👍🏻👍🏻

[@deanrussell2224]

Hope things work out - same thing happened to me at 50 - it does get better

[@lindalambert2677]

Thank you for being so honest Will. You’re still a human being with the same struggles as everyone else and we all love you for your honesty

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Linda, so kind!

[@fletcherbravo]

Great honest video, I hope you figure it out. I'm 52 and am currently in the same boat. Enjoy Cornwall Will, I hope you get the break you deserve.

[@jaybadder4233]

Good on you mate, it makes me proud to see guys talking so openly and freely about their mental well-being. It helps to break the stigma around it. We are all here for you, fella :)

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks Jay appreciated 👍🙏

[@joanneturner4674]

Honesty is the best way for your mental health. So sorry for your loss of your grandparents. Xx

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for your kindness and sympathies

[@baconlips123]

I went through similar in my 40's , lost 7 family members in about 18 months including my mum, ( lost my dad a few years ago ). Ended up on meds etc and not wanting to be here anymore, but getting through it slowly as I'm sure you will do. Been here since the Galaxy days, keep on doing what makes you happy, and actually puts you in " your " happy place and no one else's. Peace brother.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for sharing your own experiences it really does go to show you never know what people are going through, sending you thoughts of wellness 💙

[@aaronhowardjudd]

Will, I'm 53, If only I had the opportunities and freedom to pursue these adventures when I was 27. KZbin is a gift, take full advantage. I admire your honesty and integrity and really enjoy your vlogs man. It's natural to feel apprehensive and you are doing the right thing by airing your fears. It shows you are secure in who you are and what you are thinking. Go with the flow and follow your nose.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks for this appreciate it 👍✊

[@PaulMessner]

Alone again? One thing I’ve found over the last couple of months is we are not on our own Will. I hope you find that balance mate. I’m still trying to find it, but a few changes have stopped the big wobble. You’ll make a top fireman by the way but whatever you do….do what makes you happy. Stay safe….Mez.

[@linbinnash]

Don't be scared bro, we are with you.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Appreciate it Gavin 💪

[@BamBam-gs7eb]

I suffer from depression, anxiety. Even now (in general) it's not really spoken about, I used to try to escape my issues but they came with me. Guys need to talk more, support each other and we can make it. Life is hard enough solo. You're doing a great job.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for this comment and sharing your thoughts and experiences, I totally agree that people in general need to talk more openly about how they are feeling and support each other more

[@jantampos5314]

Rooting for you!! Keep sharing your adventures to give others the courage to do it too!!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks Jan, and thanks for joining me

[@jantampos5314]

I’m also 27 and still figuring out my life here in the UK. So just take your time and enjoy the adventures life brings to you.

[@johnarkell2662]

Cracking video Will, you've probably helped a lot of people just by opening up and being honest

[@WillsWhereabouts]

If it helps just one person then that’s a win!

[@gavinm894]

Hi Will, I found your channel about 2 weeks ago and have been working my way through your van build videos whilst randomly picking others to watch. I've been off work with mental health issues for the last three months. During that time I had to say goodbye to my dog (in my pic) on the 26th July as she had cancer. She was 16 so we knew the end was coming but being told she had cancer and we had 3 months max with her it really knocked me for six. she managed two months. You have given me the drive to get back up on my feet and move forward with my life. I'm now looking at getting a small van and doing a conversion to a micro camper for me and the missus to get away for long weekends. You really inspired me get get going away. I hope I have the opportunity to meet you in person one day as I'd like to say 'thank you' face to face and shake you hand. Keep being you Will, I'm sure you will get everything you deserve on life. If you ever find yourself in Sheffield and in need of a hand hit me up, I owe you one or two. 😉

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you so much for sharing your own experiences with me, I’m so sorry about the loss of your dog, they are not just pets they are family, I wish you every success with the build and hope you find happiness out on the road 🙏🙏

[@ATRestoration]

As KZbinr I met a lot of new people because of what I do now. And I´m a introvert :) It all depends how you organize your work life. You can also do cooperation videos with other channels. There are many options to discover.

[@unclegargas]

Appreciate the honesty! Saw some comments that seemed to disregard the concerns so I figured I’d just chuck this in here, making a life changing move like this is going to be frightening for most people - and I’m sure most viewers would agree. But you got this bud! Best of luck with the new job, hope it helps. Cheers from Norway!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you so much for your comment, yes 💯 agree any change is daunting and somewhat frightening and I am so appreciative for your supportive words!

[@markclayton626]

Good video Will, I’ve followed you since your Nepal days, they were what got me hooked, your whole experience there in a country I’ve visited from the UK a few times, I’ve always enjoyed your openness, your ups I feel good, your downs I find myself sending beams of strength to you through the airways. I know a couple of years ago now I mentioned to you, long before the stealth camping that maybe you should trek across to Nepal from the UK, that would make great viewing, even more so in a van, but that’s me being selfish I guess as it’s you that does the trek and I the viewer just watch and enjoy your journey and adventures, your young enough to do that in the future, look at Gabriel traveller, one of your KZbinrs, he’s still pumping out it out day after day, but again, he’s not you and your not him, but Will, your very young, (27), you’ve got lots of time in front of you, there really is no rush for you, take your time, work hard, relax well, and follow your gut feeling, but not instantly is my advice, if you have a idea, then sleep on it, maybe sleep on it again then take then put into practice the process of what you feel for.. I along with thousands and thousands of subscribers want only the best for you Will on your journey of life, static or on the road, that’s totally down to you. Best, Mark

[@HMarije]

I usually don't comment but on this video I had to. I have deep respect for you Will! I think you're doing an amazing job with sharing your thoughts and difficulties in life. It makes your channel real and inspiring. I also understand your worries about feeling alone. Maybe it helps to see this period in time as 'temporal' but precious and healing for you as a person, before you meet someone and start sharing your life. You're now just preparing for that moment ;) Anyways, please keep going the way you do! Big hug from The Netherlands! :)

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for your inspiring words, definitely something to think about 🙏🙏

[@magnejohansen9640]

Will, you are not alone. I'm sure you have lots of friends around you everywhere. At all times. Use us, talk whit us, and you never be alone. Your so lucky, in so many ways.

[@kailashrai9536]

Will be looking at your journey....all the best man....living life !!! Watched the whole video... I do tell my frens "Do what you like in life and live to the fullest:" but sometimes there is always one thing that stops you from doing...MONEY and as you said its all about the balance.

[@muratmo2558]

Bro I've been watching your videos for a long time now. I've always been jelous to some extent but thank you for being so honest and open about the "real van life" if that makes sense, no one really wants to talk about the struggles. Keep your head up brother, stay strong and follow your heart.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for your comment, I think it’s important to be honest so I appreciate when people understand.

[@RH-xf4vf]

Huge respect to you Will for being so honest about this. Yes, it really is lonely. And, no, it really isn't 'over-thinking it' as someone suggested.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you 🙏

[@amysmileyreid95]

I’m a manc depressive myself so I know how you feel. You’re staying positive which is a good thing and your videos are an inspiration. So sorry to hear about your grandparents as well, and Wallis. Keep your chin up pal, and thank you so much for sharing your life with us

[@emmanuelnd3564]

Broo came to Greece

[@codenamenel]

Being a Manc is depressing on its own though, jheeeeez

[@amysmileyreid95]

@@codenamenel I meant manic

[@codenamenel]

@@amysmileyreid95 it was a joke 😉

[@amysmileyreid95]

@@codenamenel I know it was

[@hammockinparadise]

I’m sorry you lost your grandfather and your grandmother earlier in the year. That alone is a reason for you to be feeling all of these emotions! I’m also sorry to hear that your relationship ended. All of these events close together take time to heal. Give yourself the needed time, and take care of yourself.

[@JJ-fromDK]

My man, Will, for a 27 year old, you have a lot of wisdom, please continue with youtube, in or out of vanlife, your jolly spirit and wise afterthoughts will bring joy and use to other people, thank you for this video :0)

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for the very kind words of support, I appreciate it greatly ✌️🙏

[@scarpy1495]

Brave lad. Find comfort in whatever makes you happy. So many people enjoy your videos. Be proud. X

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for this lovely message I am humbled by your support

[@sixxdb]

Well said man. There's an irony to being anchored to making content, when the subject matter is a life of relative freedom - it's almost a paradox. For me, I have watched loads of your stuff, I think it's class, and I'll continue watch whenever you post. But you don't owe me anything. You don't owe anyone watching anything. You've given loads of your life to a lot of people. You owe yourself the life you want. If we get to see parts of that it's a really good bonus. Nice one again Will - top lad

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you so much for this comment, really appreciate your words and shows you get the thoughts that I was trying to relay. Thank you for joining me and showing such support, you and so many others have shown just how amazing this community can be!

[@paulmorris3022]

Hi Will i have followed you for a couple of years now and you have always been honest and shared your feelings with people like us that you don't know but are going through the same problems. we can relate to what your going through and it shows that not everything is as it will seem. whatever you decide to do to make yourself happy and content and we will follow your journey and take a leaf from your book. all the best buddy

[@thomaskemp7362]

Well said Paul

[@kimorsel8769]

Didn't think you were being ungrateful... You need to do what you need to do.... Wish I had worked this out when I was 27.... You're honesty is real and you will find your balance, it's all good mate....

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Amazing words thank you so much

[@dontaejordan1936]

Will, what you are doing is an inspiration to many people, myself included. I am mid forties and still haven't found my balance. When you think you have it, something happens that shifts your balance, I suppose that's life. Keep doing what your heart tells you and enjoy. Tomorrow is promised to nobody 👊🏾💯

[@WillsWhereabouts]

👍👍

[@nobby1969]

Will, I don’t even know you fella but watching your vlogs over the last few years has been a joy, you don’t give up, you are a funny and honest lad, you say it yourself, you are living most peoples dream, I hope you get to where you want to be but don’t give up mate! Keep up the great work and best of luck with it all. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@stevemac6120]

I must say I was so moved by your openess towards the end of the video i actually shed a tear because i know how you feel, have watched you since the Galaxy days and myself struggle with loneliness and depression. Persevere with your adventures as things will look better at some point, chin up matey love your videos!!!!

[@Dragonfly4489]

Love the honesty Will. I have gone through the loneliness myself in my life. You are doing it right man.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you! The support means so much!

[@terry362]

Just want to hug you right now Will. 🙏🏽💛

[@WillsWhereabouts]

🙏💜

[@LeeKAspinall]

Cheers Will for opening up. I also feel lonely and often question my purpose. So does my dad who is in his mid fifties. And I guess many more people do so. So mate you‘re not alone :)

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for sharing your own feelings on the topic of loneliness, there is a kind of sense of togetherness in knowing we are not going through it alone

[@philiproberts6947]

Please please go to St Ives,its possibly one of the most beautiful places in the UK. Your not alone fella don't ever think that! Thank you for been so open and honest about your struggles and losses. It takes a real guy to open up like this let me tell you. I for one can't do it and often have some very dark thoughts of my own! I think you as a person would take great reward from working with people of struggles of there own,your a naturally likeable bloke who is genuine. No matter where life takes you stay true to yourself and don't change who you are😊

[@WillsWhereabouts]

I genuinely don't have the words to convey my gratitude to this comment, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with me, I appreciate you and the support.

[@ronaldgiles4009]

Thank you for being so honest. Think being full time you’d really have to have a plan of where you’re going and what you’d be seeing. At this time with gas prices it’s a great idea to have a “ regular” jobs and to do more local trips. People always think they have to go long distances but concentrating on UK might be a start for you. Good luck in your journey and May you keep those great memories of your grandparents in your mind.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you so much for the kind words, I will never forget my grandparents as they have been an inspiring light through my life, and I know they will carry on inspiring me.

[@bencairns6581]

I sympathize I suffer with anxiety, depression, what the doctors are putting down to a form of PTSD. Most of what causes these issues are the reasons I ended up in a van in the first place. I found that vanlife has helped me, and has given me a safe space. We’ve met a couple of times at vanlove and Overlander, and found you great to talk to. Although, I am not an extrovert like yourself, I do enjoy contact with others, and at times it’s just what I need. Unlike yourself I work in a structured environment, and have contact with other people most days, which helps my mental health. It’s scary going full time, but it soon passes. You’ll find your comfort zone, and get into a routine of vanlife. Keep it up, enjoy your videos.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Ben for your openness and kindness, I am hoping to be able to find a balance and believe that having some structure will help me gain that! Hope This finds you well!

[@frankintx699]

Hi Will, I am also suffer from depression and loneliness. The one thing that helps me is my 18 year old rat terrier. You are at the prime of your life find and do what makes you feel good. 😉😉

[@NoProGoPronto]

Thumbs UP just because your taste in music is exceptional! You're never alone because you have ALL of us from all over the world riding with you. Safe Travels! 🙂

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks for this, love the people in this community ❤️

[@nickforsythandkids]

Will it takes such a big man to open up like you have. It’s your channel and you decide what you want to do not us. Your core fans like myself will follow along whatever you decide to do.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Nick, your words mean a lot thank you for the support, I am so grateful to the lovely community I have here!

[@djwadsa2387]

dude sooo proud to see you come this far.. you will be okay XD... this is just the beginning. and cooking with will is back yay.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for the kind words I appreciate it as this was a though subject to tackle but I believe in truth and openness, thanks again and yes more cooking to follow 😂

[@djwadsa2387]

dude followed you since the Galexy ( even saw you went down to rochester ). you have come so far. it will get lonely at times but remember you have a hole community here behind you. your followers and other van life content makers. just know this you make great content and you give off a great vibe. you a legend just remember that.

[@matthussey3932]

Very relatable this man. You’re doing the right thing about finding that balance and becoming grounded in your own head. I used to be a band tour driver/guitar tech doing everything at at thousand miles and hour visiting some fantastic places but something was missing something massive. Just that structure and discipline and sharing experiences with someone special. Love the channel mate and best of luck with the fire service application. Stay safe and well my friend. 😊

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you so much for this comment, it’s nice to hear people have lived a life Style though not the same very similar circumstances and can relate to the issues I have raised, thank you again and take care, massive respect ✊

[@matthussey3932]

@@WillsWhereabouts no problem my friend at all. Just be bloody happy and find what you need to make you grounded and at peace. It can be a tough road finding it pardon the pun but well worth it brother. 2012 I was on and off tours etc having “the time of my life” but it just seemed empty. Something missing like chicken in your famous fajitas 😂. But I took myself out of it and had some reflection time. Found an amazing girl did the whole dating thing then we found a flat together in the arse end of the isle of Sheppey of all places. Fast forward 9 years we have two girls a 8year old and a 2 year old. Go on so many adventures together and just have the best time. I always see life as a ladder. Just keep climbing buddy, but also don’t be afraid to jump down a few steps along the way. Be cool man. 😊

[@waylandbarker1179]

I suffer from anxiety and depression , so totally understand how you feel . I struggle every day but won't let it win ..I hope you achieve your ambitions and become a fireman and be able to enjoy life .all the best wayland

[@jenbee2358]

I wouldn't normally comment. BUT this touched me Firstly welcome to full time van life. Myself and my partner gave up our lives in January and we live full time in our small Toyota Hiace Secondly, maybe to help you with the money, we, work all the festivals (reading, Glastonbury, boomtown). Maybe this is something you could think about. You would earn money by working at the festivals, then any videos you make about the festivals would make excellent KZbin viewing. Plus the people you meet are amazing! Thirdly, don't rush. Do things your pace. I suffered massively with mental health last year, and I now take the scars of that with me forever. And it was all for nothing....over a stupid over worked under paid job. Vanlife has allowed my mind to calm and me to find myself. Finally, we've followed your videos for months, they helped us both incredibly during our full time transition. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts. ❤️ Do everything for yourself and noone else. Only you know where true happiness lies.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you 🙏

[@davidkimber1]

Will mate, don’t over complicate things, get a good job, enjoy the banter with work colleagues and make the odd van life video when you want to! All the best, will keep watching even if there are fewer videos.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks David, who knows what will happen but the support means a lot! 🙏

[@mingdenasty6054]

Will you're an bloody inspiration, thanks for being so honest. I'm currently converting a van on my own after the end of my 24 year relationship. I lost my wife, my home and find myself living back at my mums. Coverting a van on my own is both a challenge and a future means of some kind of freedom.I'm both nervous and excited about the whole process. Hope you enjoy your travels and hope to bump into you on the road one day.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Hope your journey goes the way you envision my friend thank you for sharing your experience 💙

[@Boppa1260]

Being alone is a power that very few can handle.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

It is a very powerful thing indeed

[@antonakimou]

Yes Will, you finally done it… well done that man👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 This journey you are taking us on is an absolute honour, in every way. Thank you for sharing it with us, we all love it.

[@zafiracamper]

Tbh your videos have always been super honest around how being a full time KZbinr isn’t as rose tinted as people would think it would be. Others may think it, but I’ve always liked your ability to be honest about things like this (and it’s no doubt helpful for your 🧠) to be able to voice it and have some form of electronic support 🙏

[@WillsWhereabouts]

🙏🙏

[@mrchrista469]

All the best with whatever you decide Will. I’ve really enjoyed all of your videos and can understand how hard it is for you. People will understand and support you regardless of what you decide to do. Take care of yourself.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for taking the time to write this lovely message, I really appreciate it

[@claireweeks7926]

Hey Will, just watched your video and you’re so right to talk about this stuff. I’m self employed and struggle with the exact same issues working by myself. I also need to be around people and also really struggle when i don’t have routine. It’s taken me a long time to realise this and make adjustments so that I have the interaction with people that I need and now understand the importance of routine. Of course I still have off days but then I think we’re all the same there and at the end of the day we’re all just trying to get through life making the money that we need whilst making memories and finding the right balance. Just keep going, you’re doing great and you’ll find your cliche. Xx

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Hi Claire, thank you so much for sharing this with me as I am seeing that more people are dealing with the same issues, it does give a glimmer of hope that it is definitely possible to find the correct balance when hearing from people like yourself who have experienced this, respect to you!

[@jonathanrodger2867]

Thanks for sharing that with is Will mate. It's never easy to open up about your feelings. I honestly think a wee dog will help. They are fantastic companions and the responsibility of looking after one will help give you some routine. Respect on going for the fire service job pal. Hope you get in.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks for the comment, I’ll have to wait and see about a dog when I know more about the fire service, have to take into account the hours that will take up and I would never leave a dog for too long on its own

[@erinwilson2869]

Thanks for opening up Will. I support you 100%, let me know if you ever want to meet up in Scotland!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you!

[@Bodsynffc]

Hi will, you are 1 truly absolute legend. Your honesty to open up to us viewers is incredible. Your grandparents may of been your inspiration, but you are ours. Never forget that. I struggle alot with my work life balance, and my mental health and you have absolutely no idea what an inspiration you are, not just to me but to alot of people. GOOD luck with your fireman application. Good luck with your travels. I hope you find your zone and when you do: DANCE LIKE NOBODYS WATCHING!!

[@rockyroo5800]

Love watching you will I hope you get to live the life you want and find that balance, I really hope you find someone to share your memories with

[@RachelTScott]

Hang in there Will life isn't easy for any of us. Set a schedule for getting videos up and stick to it. Maybe even twice a week. Sorry about your losses Lad. You do you and we will watch.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks Rachel, especially for the condolences

[@victoriabyrne431]

Bless you, Will. Just wondering if having a little dog as a travel companion might help with the loneliness. x

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Maybe in the future, however if I get into the fire service I would have to take that into account

[@garymilnes4851]

@@WillsWhereabouts Honestly, I dont think the fire service is for you, it is a very noble job, but, you have the soul of a wanderer, plus you also have to consider the huge mental strain that the firemen face, The idea of a pet is actually a very good one,

[@garethlewis2680]

Good idea. Dogs are good company 👍👍

[@garethlewis2680]

Good idea. Dogs are good company 👍👍

[@douglasmowat7143]

Thanks Will. I’m a lone traveller at 73, wife died 20 years ago .I deliberately seek out isolated places and more often and not find kindred spirits who also seek out isolated places . The planet has become my closest buddy…….but it’s something that caught me by surprise. The stillness of a beach in the pre dawn light gives me great fellowship. Please what gas struts do you use. I need some. Hugs Douglas

[@kathleenhickey7460]

Thank you Will for your openness and honesty. You are bein brave. Always be true to yourself. You don't owe anything to anybody. We're all alone in reality. Keep on keeping on, you never know what's ahead of you luv. BIG HUGS kiddo. From a much older irish woman. 😉

[@nikthechick5099]

I’m 50 and still trying to figure it all out 😂. The only rules are the ones you make for yourself, live life your way. I work 3 days and travel 4 plus school holidays. I’ve only been a solo full time lifer for 4 months but the balance is working for me so far. My biggest sadness is that I’d much rather not be doing this solo, I’d much rather be sharing it all with someone. It is after all a wonderful life. I chat, I date when I can 🤷‍♀️ what else can I do. Might as well be happy while I’m roaming 😁. You’re gonna love it 🙏

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you m, I love your take on things and I hope this is where I will be with everything soon

[@RollingRoutes]

Welcome to the club! Try not to worry too much about loneliness - the best thing about having a van is that if you don't quite find your people in one place, you can simply pack up and move on to brighter places and people! It's an absolutely beautiful conversion, well done and enjoy! P x

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you and it’s always good to see things from another’s view point to give some perspective, looking forward to finding what works for me!

[@Elkott]

Get a wee dog to join you on your journeys, that'll help with the loneliness

[@y.m.i.n.6538]

Definitely 👍

[@davenjahtisan]

Or a cat 😁

[@WillsWhereabouts]

I have often thought about a dog, but if i do get more structure in the form of a job I would not want to leave a dog in the van alone for long periods of time, especially in this heat that would not be fair.

[@draigygoch]

Please don't give up, you have loads of fans who enjoy your content, stick with it !

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you 🙏

[@terripinan1876]

One of the best and honest rants that I have heard for a long time, no self pity, just honesty and realisation. I think that a lot of people are feeling how you are now. I pray that you get into the Fire Service as I think that they will do well to have you, as will your partner. Good luck Will and keep us informed of what and how you are doing. I have following you for a little time now, and really enjoy your honest postings, along with all the inventive words. Keep at it Will!

[@mandyjane1234]

I've watched your channel from the begining and enjoyed the ups and downs of the challenges you have taken on, you have achieved so much. Having got there though youre now thinking ,what now ! Realising a dream is scary stuff , most people don't experience this and assume it will be sunshine and lollipops from now on !! In my very valuable opinion (ha ha) I think getting a job in the fire service would be wonderful, it would give you the community you want, but also the freedom for vanlife too, You dont have to be up Killmanjaro to make vids we would enjoy. I'm reminded of Max and Occys channel he is a paramedic which gives him the opportunity to work almost anywhere and still do vanlife stuff, remember its you that makes your channel not the content, I think having another job as well as vanlife will add another dimension to your channel and of course your life. Phew, Ill shut up now

[@WillsWhereabouts]

🙏🙏🙏 Thank you for this lovely comment and your kind words, you are right the key is balance and I am hopefully going to find that along my journey!

[@oakleyhaig5072]

This is why your amazing your happy to express your feeling to everyone and show people that it’s not all easy even if it looks it I hope you find someone new and enjoy your adventures with someone even a friend but keep going your amazing will and fire service sounds amazing as you love to help people

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks Oakley, really appreciate the comment and yes the fire service could be just what I need

[@h.bsfaithfulservant4136]

I’m always impressed by your candour Will, and I am sorry to hear about your losses this year, and about your doubts about van life alone, and You Tube as your income. I’m chuffed though that you’re tackling the issues, and working towards solutions. You can help a lot of people with your honesty, and I hope you can ignore the comments of dipshits that just don’t get where you’re coming from. Anyone with any kind of intellect has doubts and questions their life… it’s how you approach this that matters. I hope you get recruited by the fire service, so you have a proper career for focus and income, and so you can enjoy the van without having the pressure of You Tube vids for income. You’re learning life lessons at a young age, so you’re setting yourself up for a better future. 👍✊

[@pfassoli]

I didn't think I'd comment on one of your videos (which I found interesting for the creativity of building the van anyway) but now I really appreciate your honesty and transparency in talking about the problems of always being alone. Very authentic and sincere!

[@patriciasporer3045]

Never apologise for being you. First step is you are aware of your triggers but you will stay on top of them. This is your time to grow so that you are comfortable with yourself and others. I am 60 and soon to car live and travel as I have lots of regrets for not pushing myself to create a life to know myself better. Look forward to every little step forward you take. You have got this. 1 day at a time.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you and amazing that you are pushing yourself to create a better life for yourself, truly inspiring!

[@matthewmiller9575]

As an outsider, a first time watcher and older man it sound to me as though you’re ready to settle down. A settled life that’s about others and forging a life together rather than alone. Freedom is a mental state rather than a physical thing because survival means having to work for what you have. Freedom of thought, feelings, dreams, aspirations and love. That to me is true freedom.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words of wisdom, I appreciate it 🙏

[@andyadam285]

Thanks for being so refreshingly open and honest. Life is complicated and many like to avoid the difficult conversations and pretend it's easy and wonderful on KZbin. Keep up the good work and look after yourself!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks Andy, its nice to see that people understand its not all plain sailing!

[@chrisbernard8985]

Thanks for being so honest Will, try to keep your chin up! I’m 45 and still trying to find a good balance in life. It can definitely be challenging when what u used to do for fun becomes your job, just like anything in life it takes some getting used to. I look forward to watching all your video’s and can’t wait to see where life takes u next!

[@tonytrumble]

I'm also going to add this. I suffer from PTSD and I'm manic depressive with suicidal tendencies. There's nothing wrong with reaching out for someone to just talk to, to get you over that edge of weakness. I don't take medication because I feel strongly about battling this naturally without medication. You're a lot stronger than you think my brother!! We are all your friends and we i.e your subscribers are your family!! God Bless and happy travels!!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Genuinely overwhelmed by the love and support I have been shown through this community, thank you for your kindness and I send you thoughts of strength and happiness

[@tonytrumble]

@@WillsWhereabouts as I said my brother, we are your family! You're doing such a great job on your van!! I couldn't do what you've done and I'm very mechanically knowledgeable. Try not to get down on yourself or discouraged my brother. You have to crack a few eggs to make an omelet. I mean look at your van!! It's simply beautiful!! Look forward to your next vlog!! God Bless and safe travels

[@mialynnrivers]

Your honesty is so refreshing. It’s not all rainbows and sunshine living in a van alone full time. I went from a 70hr work week, 5 roommates and a full social circle, to living alone and working remotely this last year. I do love to travel, but solitude takes some mental adjustment and it was very painful at first. I felt guilty for being sad. After all I had worked toward, I was living “the dream” and had no idea why I was beginning to become depressed. Now I often meet up and travel with others and it helps a lot. I look forward to seeing how you find your inner peace and balance with this journey as well.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for sharing your experience as it shows the reality it of it all

[@fistfulofgamepad]

Your openness and down-to-earth honesty is why you have the following you have😃. I initially wasn’t too interested in camping/ van life, but after finding your channel by accident back in the Galaxy days, it’s something I’m interested in now and you’re now a staple of my Sunday night viewing because you are a genuine guy and that’s what people like about you. At the end of the day; you have to do what’s best for you and do what makes you happy. Congrats on passing the fire service fitness test too! All your fans are rooting for you! 😃👍

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you 🙏

[@DS315LUFC]

Good video. Nice to get insight into someone you regularly watch, positive or negative, we are all human and have struggles. You are making great use of this platform to share for your benefit and the benefit of your fans. Keep smiling.

[@erolhassan5346]

Will, I'm 61 and spent 33 years in the Army. My advice is find some structure, the fire service would be perfect. Youcan still travel in your time off. You are a doer and very honest, which is admirable.

[@JustJoeKing]

Congrats on finishing the build, it looks amazing! As someone who has worked solely on KZbin with multiple channels for 10+ years, I feel everything you've said and know exactly how you feel. If you are able to talk about these things so openly that's 99% of the battle. The best bit of advice I have is to just know that burnout will come, but it really doesn't hurt to take a break, even though it's very easy to become obssessed with numbers and setting targets for yourself. You eventually learn to live with the burnout, it becomes a bit more of a simmer once you get through it a few times. Maybe it goes away for some people? But i've always been an overthinker too, so perhaps not in our case. It helps most to have likeminded people in a similar situations to vent to about what often feel like 'first world, best job ever' problems. Message me on Instagram if you ever need someone to talk to!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you so much for taking the time out to write this, I really appreciate you giving me some advice on the subject and it’s always good to get another perspective from someone who is or has had similar experiences. It’s all about finding a balance I think so that’s what I am actively trying to do, again thank you reaching out it’s amazing how wonderful people in this community are 🤩🤩

[@JustJoeKing]

@@WillsWhereabouts of course! I couldn't agree more, and playing sports or just doing things for yourself that aren't work related help so much. Strangely enough I have toyed with the idea of joining the fire service near me too (and i'm near the New Forest), must be something in the water, what a small world!

[@tugwilsond8907]

Your videos are fab Will. Whatever you do mate, good luck and enjoy your life, that’s the main thing 👍🏻

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Daniel, your kind words mean a lot!

[@michaelthompson1819]

I was going through a break up a few years ago after a very long term relationship and a friend talked me into walking the Hebridean way solo,I wasn’t sure at the time,spend a week walking and camping on my own,but it turned out to be one of the most memorable times I’ve had,met some great likeminded people,saw some wonderful sights and have got memories that will last a life time,I’m sure once you get down to Cornwall you will meet lots of great people and have a great time. Looking forward to the next video Cheers

[@just_alex]

Wish you the best Will, good on you for being honest. Not always easy to talk about that stuff. ❤

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Alex ✌️

[@thevan-isher8317]

Im proud to know you and appreciate you being able to say it as it is. The van build was a test that you have achieved and now being anxious about your future is only natural. Please continue making me smile wherever the road takes you. Ride the waves and keep your tongue out.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks man, kind words are very much appreciated 🤟

[@chrisdavies73]

The panic attacks and depression can be overcome. Learning to live on your own takes time, you will overcome it👍

[@tinvek]

A very honest and open video will appearances can often be deceptive, so much bubbling away under the surface that no one else knows about, it’s good you’re able to be open about it, even if it’s on KZbin, last year I went into a major slump due to being off work for 8 months, eventually I cracked, had a big row that almost cost me a 32year friendship but thanks to my manager and work I got counselling and that plus gaining structure from being back in work pulled me round ( thank you Lisa and co op ) find your way mate, what works for you to make your life good, KZbin and us viewers should never steer you in directions you don’t want to go in, we’d all much prefer to see a happy will stop making content rather than watching you living an unhappy life All the best Kev

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Hi Kev, the you for the amazing words of support and kindness and sharing your own experience, it’s good to see with the right systems in place that you can get back on track

[@robbblair6289]

Why I love your channel Will. You openly honest, you keep things funny, but informative. Sorry to hear of your Grandparents. An you’ll find that special someone to share adventures with, it just takes time. My advice plan your youtube videos out. Spend a day or 2 creating them & editing them. An spend the rest enjoying life. The world is your oyster.

[@robbblair6289]

An remember were all right there on the journey with you.

[@Iamspartacus1]

I love the New Forest area! And well done Will! You will do well!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

The New Forest area is absolutely stunning 🤩 Thank you for the support

[@Iamspartacus1]

@@WillsWhereabouts when you feel that your thoughts are running away, for me, I count backwards from 5-1 and on zero I get up and do something physical or if I can't I make myself do something like sing out a tune or move my legs and tap my feet. So if in the van, change the music, tap out a drum beat on the steering wheel, sing or whistle, but something to change the cognitive behaviour that your mind is going through. The more you do this, the more it will change the pattern because it is a pattern. You being sporty is a great thing also as it makes you concentrate on what you're doing pushing away those other thoughts for a time. But it's finding that balance as you mentioned. Good luck mate.

[@whitevanadventures4116]

I like that this isn’t another vanlife channel or a travel vlog. It’s about you.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Appreciate it thank you 🙏

[@joedoyle5311]

Will, you are the man.... from a person who suffers with mental health issues, at times you have brought me back from going over the edge.. stay cool Will🤙

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thankyou bro, stay safe and stay strong 💪

[@markplenty2631]

The van is so amazing now, you’ve inspired me with your galaxy build and as such have built my galaxy! I’m off to Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 next month to test! Thanks for all the content! And don’t be scared, it’s the absolute best thing to be as free!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Inspiring words thanks Mark

[@pujanrai5536]

You are not alone. We are with you. You inspired to to do something ourselves.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

🙏🙏🙏

[@peterhickman6184]

I’ve bin my self for seven years and battled mental health lost two good mates to Covid life is fair from perfect no one should want to be by them self. Being active in lovely places helps and speaking about it. Thanks for sharing and enjoy to van life.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Peter, so sorry for your losses, thought are with you

[@ADUK.]

You have to do whats right for yourself in life, if that means making career changes and life choices so be it. Im sure there are plenty of people around you who will support you. I wish you all the luck in the world for the fire service and van life. The emergency services are such a big family and in my eyes are the best places to go for structure and routine. From someone who left the self employed life going from being down and depressed to joining the ambulance service to make a difference and being happy, I know what it feels like. Good luck Will all the best.

[@samb5796]

Ur grandparents will always b with u travelling with u and u know they are so so proud of you. When U feel low remember they are the reason U love what u do n if u are struggling remember them n do it for them They will enjoy the ride xx

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for these inspiring words ❤️

[@samb5796]

@@WillsWhereabouts it’s just the fear of the unknown I’m the same with having mental health and anxiety and hate being alone. But once ur on the road n the first couple nights are ok n u meet other van lifers Ull enjoy it xx

[@olivellanarrowboat4319]

Don’t get me wrong, videos on the reg can be an utter pain but better that than bound to a job that gets in the way of you hopes and dreams. Love your videos will, such an inspiration

[@WillsWhereabouts]

I love making content but I still feel that something is lacking and want to find my sense of purpose and until I try I will never know!

[@cooper19673]

Started following Paul Messner a while back cos' I like wild camping. He gave up his job to do youtube full time and it soon overwhelmed him. My advice to him was to treat it like a job and do 8 hours a day and 5 days a week. His love for wild camping became his job and when your job is what you love, then eventually, you stop loving it... I came to your channel a week ago to watch your van build. I've found it enjoyable and informative. You seem a great lad and I hope you work things out. Take care Will, it'll get better.

[@lancashireandyorkshireadve6965]

i think you can pretty much succeed at anything you put your mind to mate. You have a strong and determined character and that counts for a lot. Yeah ok sometimes life sucks, been there and done it myself, but it just makes you who you are. Life is one big test, and this is yours. The very best of luck to you mate.

[@loneoutdoorsman]

Problems shared, albeit with an audience of strangers almost is a problem halved. I think a lot of guys hide their mental health struggles and 12 years ago I went through a rather unexpected break up after almost 8 years with my partner at the time, I struggled massively and being a 'bloke' I tried to fix it myself and sometimes just talking to someone or hearing from another chap that I wasn't alone was a comfort - not in the sense that someone else is struggling, but that we all do at some point. Someone no doubt is watching your video and in the same position whichever mental health struggle applies and to know someone with your platform is openly talking will give them hope that they aren't alone. I've followed your journey from the old car camping days and always found you to be 'real' in the sense that you hid nothing and even showed the mishaps! I wish you nothing but the best chap, and hope you find what you need very soon and good luck with the fire service.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you so much for this comment, I think that there are many people who do struggle to share their thoughts and feelings especially men, so if this helps one person then it’s worth me putting it out there! Thank you for sharing your own experience too ✊

[@KevinNordstrom]

Just found your channel. Man does my stress level go down watching you. Been dealing with PTSD and depression from combat over the years and vids like this help. Keep at it brother.

[@nickreels]

I understand. I built a van here in Oregon and went away on weekends to the ocean with my dog. I have recently sold the van after a few years. What I experienced was an emphasis on that I felt alone a lot of the time traveling in the van. I thought it would free myself from loneliness, but it actually made me think about it more because I didn’t have a partner to go on adventures with. It’s interesting that vanlife photos paint a picture of adventure. All my friends said they was envious of my adventures. But none of the photos really showed my feelings. I felt more isolated and lonely on the road. Thankfully I had my dog.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for being so open and sharing your experience it’s nice to know I am not alone

[@jrobinson5933]

Will, keep sharing your thoughts and feelings. We have just lost our nephew because he didn't feel he could reach out and talk. He was only 25 and I think by you sharing your voice will reach someone who needs it. Congrats on getting through your assessment for the fire service. I always love your videos.....listening to you say you are to open is rubbish. Enjoy Cornwall will be rooting for you.

[@joewhitehead19]

So sorry for your loss 💙

[@WillsWhereabouts]

I am so so sorry for your loss, I ca not imagine what you and your family must be going through and you have my deepest condolences, thank you for sharing your insight with me as i too believe it is important to be able to talk about mental health not matter who you are, take care x