EPISODE 77 | ACCEPTING SASSY MEN, MEDIOCRITY & A MERRY CHRISTMAS

[@theaaliyahkylie]

i love that winter doesnt change who she is based on the men she dates. a lot of women need to learn from that, she doesnt lose herself at all and i enjoy that

[@pahokiperez7835]

I swear every episode somehow chy always bringing up Beyoncé 😂😂😂

[@liiihdz7245]

& let’s not forget her defending pedo Jayz for 2 whole episodes. She said a 13 year old minor was pushing it.

[@princessjasmine4723]

People in the beyhive make that their personality

[@Riri-ue1vk]

@@liiihdz7245 yeah i understand she idolizes them but the truth hurts and she has to think about all the victims out there

[@liiihdz7245]

@@Riri-ue1vk she rather support Bee then support SA victims. Sad

[@Oyasavvi]

? I think she was saying that in the regard of whether her first instinct was to instantly believe that allegation that 1, she knows with the times jay z come up in shed be disgusted but not surprised if he was also amongst those dealing w minor’s significantly younger than him but for her 13 would be crazy and an extreme low . She literally followed up by saying if he Beyoncé or anyone did actually do that shit or anything of that nature to lock them up accordingly w no hesitation …. She made it clear that while she acknowledges she a fan of Beyoncé wrong is wrong and appreciating someone’s artistic work doesn’t mean she gonna pardon or absolve them of their wrongdoings

[@senteriasmith]

Yall thanksgiving is always on the 4th Thursday! 😭😭😭😭

[@brendaperez4601]

Lmfao

[@IAmErricaK]

I thought I was the only one who caught that lol

[@_venaaaaaa]

First thing that stuck out to me lol, maybe cuz my birthday but I’m like huh thanksgiving it’s definitely the last Thursday of November

[@EboniFlowers]

They definitely said Thanksgiving was on a WEDNESDAY.......👀

[@Fee-c1n]

Hahah that killed me when she said that lmao

[@princessjasmine4723]

Winter, you will be a good mother and it’s obvious. I didn’t have my first until I was 31. Some of us just have to wait until we are a little older

[@CedesJ-]

Girl yes!! I am pregnant now.. I just turned 33 years old, four days ago on DEC 23rd... and I am 33 weeks and 5 days preggo (Due Feb 10th).. But girl I am so happy I didn't get pregnant in my 20s because I was a complete wreck basically my whole 20s ! lol.. Now, I am way more mentally and emotionally capable of raising a child!

[@isabel3672]

I dont think winter was wrong at all in the argument with her boo, if you don’t wanna be called babygirl then you shouldnt be gossiping as a man in the first place🤣 i think winter shouldve said “thats not very ladylike of you” 💀

[@taragiron2504]

I actually did keep checking to see if y’all posted on Christmas. I even re watched last weeks episodes to make up for it.

[@candimitch916]

No fr me too 😂

[@niinefive]

Hahaha same

[@Richellediamond]

LMFAOOO SAME

[@zhairavega242]

Fr not she called us out 😭😭😭

[@Sunflour.seedshell]

Your convo at 10:00 about raising kids and realizing you have to make sure they’re morally sound, healthy, up on game, etc…. YES. That’s the hardest part. Especially making sure they’re social and won’t get bullied and everything. But you know why having kids REALLY sucks? MEN DONT HAVE THESE THOUGHTS. Allllll of this stress is on the mom. All of it. Dad thinks he just has to provide money and change a diaper every once in a while. All of this as well as cooking, cleaning, medical appts, milestones, friends, holidays, birthdays, etc. it all sounds so fun and romantic, until you’re really in the thick of things and realize that your partner doesn’t give a damn that you’re drowning and struggling. They say “just tell me what to do.” NO! I don’t have all the answers!! I’m trying to figure it out too!! HELP ME!! But men these days don’t see any of these burdens as their responsibility. And that’s why soooooo many families don’t stay together. The resentment that builds when you’re a mom struggling with postpartum, plus all of the things listed above, and NOT having a helpful partner is guaranteed. Like it really sucks. No one warns you about it, but this is the exact thing that is breaking up so many marriages and families.

[@cierrat6943]

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[@baddieandabook]

I’m grateful to have been raised by a dad that did worry about these things.

[@Sunflour.seedshell]

@@baddieandabook I love that for you. That’s why I know there’s still hope out there for us to find good men

[@makeupwithdrea6617]

Whewwww you said THAT FOR ALL OF US! It's so true!

[@nxnaaweena69]

Wow you took the words out my mouth

[@gabbyroldan4858]

Girl if you released Christmas morning , I would’ve watched it while opening 😂 enjoy ur holidays tho!

[@taviaeason7592]

Girl you and I both !!❤😂😂😂

[@lizzyboo3350]

Not chy singing, please by Sabrina Carpenter and thinking it’s espresso lol 🤣 love y’all❤

[@precious8810]

LMAOO y’all give the WORST advice 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 “you’ll figure it out “ GIRRRRRRR

[@h22nn22h]

I was THAT person, I didn’t get a single gift on Christmas. My dad passed this time last year and it was so hard and lonely. So happy to see y’all!!!!

[@brookk9585]

one thing ab winter .. she’s gna let it known she’s friends with celebrities 😂 like omg girl

[@TaylaMarie777]

Girl I'm 28, with an 8 yr old and i truly wouldn't change a thing, he was the best thing to ever happen to me because Lord knows I would've been on drugs, drugged, or in prison. I had my share of acting "grown" when I was younger and having him saved me. And he's like my little best friend and still having a younger mindset it's fun to play with him and teach him things I wish I would've been taught. ❤

[@selenaescobar2485]

Is the background bugging out or is it only me?

[@GFY94]

It's bugginnn

[@angelicatheperfumeprincess]

I hateeee it the pink one is way better

[@vanessaaliciam]

Bugging ! I thought I was trippin girl

[@reneejmiah]

Perhaps it’s the lights in studio

[@CREMECRYLICS]

Your irritating I didn’t notice until you said something 🖕😭😭

[@mariabarragan1604]

As a Capricorn l felt that winter -fighting the urge to just never see/speak to someone again and being done lol

[@dezirekelly]

yess same and i be trying to work on it

[@lyricaljay.x]

real but sometimes silence is necessary as a capricorn

[@mariabarragan1604]

@@lyricaljay.xdef necessary I feel like capricorns don’t speak when they have nothing nice/positive to say lol

[@mariabarragan1604]

@@dezirekelly❤ same same

[@cuteconceited]

Literally!

[@idkfollowme9019]

Don’t ever do that burping thing again

[@rlllatsyrc]

I swear, I think just like Winter when it comes to kids-it makes me anxious as hell, lol. Especially when I’m feeling awful, I’m like, Wait, so if I were a mom right now, you’re telling me I’d have to take care of a whole human in this condition? Nope, couldn’t be me!

[@Rennisha]

“Espresso; please, please, please” “oh yeah” lmaooo y’all funny

[@niinefive]

I think winter is ready to settle down and be a mom and wife ..it’s crazy but it’s fun don’t over think it just over think the person your having kids with 😂❤

[@Seannk425]

It’s the “ Dom got money this year idk what’s going on “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nessasaysnay5355]

I’m 34 with a 3 year old and your right being a mom is hella hard I wasn’t prepared but it’s the most gratifying thing when you teach your kid something or they say they love you and give you a hug. When it’s your own kid it’s a loot different than seeing other people parenting their kids. I still have my days it’s not easy at all. Also if I could go back I would have talked with my husband about how we planned to discipline and teach/raise our daughter because that is an issue now we gotta keep working on, can be a lot of drama

[@ilovekashhh]

Matt Damon Chy not Leonardo DiCaprio LMAOO, these actors gon do you everytime 😭

[@ChyFontenette]

I’m crying lmfao yea him 💀💀

[@esasohappy]

Not gonna lie Winter that was some real real growth you talked about with your boo. I know it’s hard to be accountable sometimes but you did that boo 💯! I love seeing you continue to grow girl.

[@jazminewoods2847]

Thank yall so much for uploading a video this week! A lot of podcasts are taking breaks so im so excited for this video 💕😊 i love you winter!! I love you chy!! 😘😘😘😘

[@ChyFontenette]

🤍🤍🤍

[@TonyellevilleTemple]

I love gifting!!!! the smallest gifts mean a lot too. I got my neighbor/bestie's (we became besties from moving next to each other) son a gift card to wingstop and he jumped into my arms. he's always begging us for wingstop when we are trying to turn up on a Tuesday😆 that's my boo and I love him. Holidays are for lovers. loving ppl

[@zoemagee3821]

Ugh I love chy hair more and more. It gives face card😍

[@Leejenniferx]

Winter on having babies “I might be the one to abandon my baby” and Chy on men calling women b*tches: “you might slap me iono” 😂😂😂😂😂 I am cryingggg. I love ya 💓💓

[@Fatmoneymob]

LMFAOOOOOOO the sprite game was funny af omfg it got me kicking my feet rolling around in my bed

[@janiyahwilliams681]

the way i will stop what im doing to watch yall

[@HawaiiR]

Chy’s not lying about Django having a fire playlist 😂👏🏽

[@PerfectionDofficial]

Winter is so right about the child conversation, i have ONE BABY an i agreee allat

[@kenyatteeeee]

Chy got me weak asf 😭 she got so serious but deadass we gotta stop allowing that sassy shit

[@veronicacota8833]

Thanksgiving is on a Thursday lol

[@tekiahmatthews1264]

Cool thanks for clarifying nobody really cares

[@tooturntesmee4380]

I’ve been sick for the past week and this episode made my entire week better ❤️

[@jessicataylor1556]

I’m going through one of the hardest times in my life and watching your video helped me stop crying for an hour lol. Thank you ❤

[@analisaalferez3982]

When y’all busted out with the lion King jingle I about choked on my hot pocket LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lovelifeforu]

I agree with the hypochondria thing, ever since I got into my late 20s I’m always thinking something is wrong. 😂

[@jocelynjackson9327]

Girl, I be looking forward to it! Literally was checking all day on Christmas 😂

[@angelicatheperfumeprincess]

Me too! Pop the balloon or find love dropped an episode on Christmas. I watched it 😊

[@marieh7405]

People now listen to music to critique and not actually just vibe and enjoy the art. I was sooo bored & this episode saved me 😩♥️

[@jadesimone_]

i’m so happy somebody don’t give a damn about christmas just like me 😭

[@chanellieee]

I HATE Christmas and I’m married with 3 kids! I be so depressed waiting for this stupid ass greedy holiday to pass!

[@CedesJ-]

Girl we were all in the same boat as far as kids goes, until I found out I was pregnant in june this year, at 32 years old, and I've never been pregnant before... No I was so not ready, I wanted to wait at least another year before trying. But here I am, 33 weeks pregnant, due Feb 10th.. And I'm like damn it doesn't matter if I'm ready or not, this baby is coming!! lol

[@Mya-01H-p4c]

God bless you and your little one!!

[@destinyvalle3960]

I swear, you guys are definitely my favorite!!

[@laureleiwolf]

35:09 oh my gosh the way i screamedddd Django Unchained is such a great movie with an amazing soundtrack and cinematography, it’s not spoke about enough!

[@416sherdgaf]

Winter is funny af for answering them questions . About the not buying something for christmas and the back and forth boyfriend. Lol 😂❤

[@TonyellevilleTemple]

from the bottom of my heart motherhood isn't for everyone

[@emyyyyyya]

I love yall ! I be wanting to chime in on the conversation as if I’m in the room😂 yall vibe is dope af!

[@GFY94]

Lol us Canadians be having thanksgiving in October and then waiting for Americans to play catch up😭

[@desireesade1]

Why yall waiting for us? We sure don’t care about yalls thanksgiving lol

[@GFY94]

@ Relaxxx, I'm saying they still talking about it bringing it up when we've already been done for months it's not a bad thing, just an observation.

[@desireesade1]

@@GFY94nobody cares….yall watch Americans lmao we don’t watch y’all

[@GFY94]

@@desireesade1 lmaooo why you so madd? 😂😂😂 childish asf.

[@GFY94]

@@desireesade1 You clearly care alot because you're so pressed.. stay salty😭😂

[@melissalee1561]

I was looking on Xmas too I was like these two may just pop out in the matching Xmas jammies with a pod for us 😂❤

[@NickiNinetySeven]

Yall talking about ash Trevino and shawty bae had me cracking up!! One friend put me onto the ash Trevino side of tiktok and now I can’t escape it LMAO 😭😭🤣🤣

[@kirajones8472]

Why would yall play that game 😂😂😂🤣💀💀💀 i’m dyingggg @ winters long burp

[@fadi0965]

Winter wasnt even wrong in the argument with her man. He shouldve said sorry 🤨 idccccccc

[@Sunflour.seedshell]

Omg the Leena in the young thug story is the same Leena from Tazs Angels 😮 that’s craaaazy

[@jocelynmontano5805]

I’m glad to see you smiling winter ❤️ last time I saw a video from you was about this injured nerve situation Happy Holidays to both you and Chy!

[@ArielleChristine]

I’m here to cuss yall out. We LOVE yall and aunties you def deserve a break, but sis can yall compromise and pre-record when those mid-week holidays fall. We live for these drops. Especially your healthcare baddies who have to work in hospitals on holidays. Y’all are our gift 😂😂😂 Love you queens FR. Go into 2025 bigger and better. Podcast of the year babes 🎉🙏🏾🫶🏾🎁✨😍

[@kianaraymond3012]

Us capricorns hate a add this one gift as both lol 44:13 😂

[@brooksdowns7357]

Chy, me and my boyfriend are trying to buy a house rn. We decided no Christmas gifts because we have a larger goal in mind. We’ve been together 7 years, so gifts for Christmas are cliche at this point when we have big goals and moves ahead. I understood what you were saying!

[@savannahnazario6059]

Okay but him disrespecting women is against your boundaries babeeeeee

[@reamescudi]

Winter that’s the Taurus in you! I am the same way, I will need it one day and that one day will come and when it does, IM READY 😂😌

[@beautymusic9593]

Girl I’m a new mom and it’s hard!!! Going from an only child and only taking care of myself to taking care of a baby is def. Life changing and I feel like u are never ready, regardless of your age. It’s worth it but it’s a lot. Honestly as long as u have help u will be fine. I lost my father and my mom is sick so I don’t have the help. It’s just my husband and I with full time jobs so needless to say we are stressed .

[@trinibarbie259__]

Winter you were not projecting !!! Idgaf u weren’t wrong for feeling that way at all

[@Alejandra-ih8hk]

I expect the podcast on any holiday, I was refreshing! Don’t do this again to me. Lol.

[@Mishyxoj]

New years is Also on a Wednesday! Thanks Giving was on a Thursday though.. Winter said it was on a Wednesday 😝

[@Rafelinaaaa]

I’ve been watch the podcast during my 3am newborn/breastfeeding session! Thanks for helping me stay awake. Yall would both be great mothers 🥰

[@jacqueline4105]

I definitely do remember wintrr lives in 2020/2021 with black box of wine lmao she made me want to try it during COVID lol

[@BarbieDollJanelle]

Winter is my twin man, when I read her book I was literally watching my own movie through her book

[@sierrahaynes9317]

the fact that chy forced herself to burp and did a smirk after pissed me off so bad 😭😭😭😭😭🤣

[@imanguled5488]

I’m sorry but Chy saying it was Leonardo in Good Will Hunting made me LOL boo that’s Matt Damon 😭

[@noemirichardson3413]

Its not hard guys. It’ll come about out of love. Your love for that child or man will be so strong that it’ll bring it out of you. So tender so soft. Is the only way i can explain it. @10:31

[@Lys12v]

I say the same thing at 30. Both the selfishness of giving up my time & being uncertain I could raise them to the best of my ability. But the fact that we are even concerned about that lets me know it’s one of those things that when it happens we’ll adapt. God will lead the way if it’s meant to happen.

[@sasha3817]

Thisss! 👏🏽

[@TonyellevilleTemple]

YOU WERE NOT PROJECTING 🤣🤣🤣!!!! TF!!!! this was something that was personal that you go thru that women go thru and he doesn't understand. How tf would he understand you?? yay are so crazy tail😆

[@jaaaymarie_]

Truth be told…. I was definitely looking for an episode on Christmas morning while I was getting ready lol

[@faabbb_]

Chy said, so she got you Louis sandals and you got her a Stanley? 😭

[@emilymoreno4928]

we def wanted to watch weekly no matter what

[@TonyellevilleTemple]

you just have to know ppl to give gifts

[@yoitslooo]

thank god y'all posted everyone wanna take a break this week lmao

[@selenaescobar2485]

Chy so she gave you Louis Vuitton and you gave her a Stanley 😂

[@thateditorali]

4:37 it's a ded one but another ded one 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ashlynGgrace9797]

I really love chys short hair fr. 🥰💅🏽 Winterrrr you look cute as hell in your hat 🥰💅🏽💯

[@MandeeGorgeous]

If your SO doesn’t get you a gift for Christmasssssssss that’s definitely a 🚩 bc it doesn’t have to be anything expensive or outrageous.. a hand written card and a small gift will not make or break someone tf

[@sheasuave5273]

Wintrrr I went on your page and wrote the nasty message looking for y’all but deleted it….next time I won’t 🌚😂 love y’all, happy holidays!

[@estnineteen91]

How ironic my NOW ex didn’t get me nothing for my bday ORRRRRRRRRRRRR CHRISTMAS ! Broke up with his ass ON CHRISTMAS. My bday was the 21st and still didn’t get me shit for Christmas????? Oh, CUT TF OFF! I got a story to tell lol absolutely insane

[@chanivinton5975]

Yeah I was definitely in my living on Christmas waiting for my weekly podcastsss 😂😂😂

[@estrellazamudio9216]

Honestly I can relate about the kid thing, that’s why I love listening to yall I can relate so much… especially the god son part … LIKE GIRL I ain’t even a good god mother what makes me think… 😂😭

[@pinkviv]

Ash Trevino is HORRIBLE! I saw clips of her defending Chris Watts! She was saying she wanted to write to him!!! HORRIBLE!!!!!

[@missmaryjane3884]

Lol i’m sitting in In N out eating by myself right now playing the pod out loud then there y’all go start burping 😭😭😭 lmao i had to turn the volume down real quick

[@RoseSosa]

You right Winter. I would have made the whole family watch you ladies 😂

[@jazmineHernandez-j9y]

When I tell yall I was dying at the way the burped I cannot 😂😂😂😂

[@Justbookthetrip]

Not yall talking bout ash Trevino 😂😂 she’s all over my fyp too

[@jaylathegurl]

Lmaoooo “yea you’ll figure it out”

[@Getlikeamanda]

Winter said way more than that

[@JM-fs2ih]

I woke up on Christmas and was hoping to see the podcast 😅. I was hoping to have something to watch whilst I was cooking in the kitchen 😂

[@kaybeinked]

loveee me some winter 😭😭😭!!!

[@caramelcookie691]

Wait I’m loving a Friday upload 😍

[@mirikat9088]

I can’t do musicals either- only one I’ve ever been able to finish and watch again was Hairspray. & I def feel shy knowing Cameron Diaz’s Height😂 iykyk

[@Tamara-bz1jz]

At least you’re self aware about having children Winter! It takes a real woman to say I’m not ready to be a mother some parts aren’t easy

[@glowheresthetics3136]

We understand however if it wouldve popped up on Christmas i wouldve watched on my smoke break from the fam😂

[@zacho9772]

Expresso but starts singing please please please lol

[@duretiboranto1816]

I don’t celebrate Christmas so I definitely would’ve! Imma need that video on new years😄

[@brebreberryfully]

@9:34 Abandoning your child at grandmas is crazy Winter 😭😂 and I 100%. My mother will do very well LMAO

[@GN97N]

We do anticipate episodes every week!

[@kluxe2222]

100% agree with Winter about the Leeana stuff. That’s girl is in school to get her masters. I happened to watch their KZbin and she’s super sweet and loving. The judgment on these girls is awful!