Toke Makinwa, Juliet Ibrahim and Shan George speak honestly about their toxic marriages

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Күн бұрын

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@AkinolaOlaEmmanuel
@AkinolaOlaEmmanuel 4 күн бұрын
Reach out to their husbands and get their stories, too, to balance the conversation. It will do society a great service. Well done Chude, there is a thing about your questions that gets people to their core.
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 19 күн бұрын
Idolizing marriage and husbands sets us up for heart break pro max. This blinds your eyes to red flags ,equipping ourselves to be make ourselves happy with or without them, or building skills that can make marriage work! etc. Love is not enough, he having a great job or looks is not enough Men are humans ,not princes in shining armour
@ChidinmajenniferAkunyili
@ChidinmajenniferAkunyili 18 күн бұрын
Love is enough, People don't know what love means..
@Star_quinne
@Star_quinne 19 күн бұрын
I feel Princess. I pray she picks up herself again😢
@Calm_Centre
@Calm_Centre 19 күн бұрын
Princess 🔥 Words on marble. When you are running and fall, you get up and keep running if not others will step on you.
@oyinade7426
@oyinade7426 19 күн бұрын
I know. That makes so much sense!
@bensonLizzy
@bensonLizzy 9 күн бұрын
This one hit me hard
@VeryVicky
@VeryVicky 16 күн бұрын
Our concept of marriage in Africa where a man is a god over his woman and gets away with everything and a woman is treated unfairly or as a property and has to endure everything. Most marriages that lasted is because the woman endured the hurt as culture demands, But now most women are no longer ready to endure the hurt despite the shame and the mockery they will face in the society. Many women are now choosing their lives/ happiness over the overrated marriage. I personally believe that marriage is not that hard if we have the right understanding of it and everyone doing his/her own part well.
@ojvic7297
@ojvic7297 10 күн бұрын
This is pure rubbish tbh🤣
@ojvic7297
@ojvic7297 10 күн бұрын
"Many women are choosing happiness now" How come marriages have become such a mess in this generation compared to before...😂when our parents were happy even with nothing.. Maybe it's not happiness they are choosing.. And maybe you should also listen to the men side of the stories before you start demonizing African men 😂 What a joke of a comment😂
@MrLawrence-y6c
@MrLawrence-y6c 19 күн бұрын
I really wish Princess full recovery, I can tell she's still hurting. She's such a strong and wise woman .
@MrLawrence-y6c
@MrLawrence-y6c 18 күн бұрын
@ucheo-e8o Who are you talking to?
@amakatheglobalforce
@amakatheglobalforce 18 күн бұрын
That’s the thing about narcissists. They always go for the most loving and independent people
@dorisogbeifun9777
@dorisogbeifun9777 16 күн бұрын
You're absolutely right ✅
@ritahall8400
@ritahall8400 17 күн бұрын
If ur heart tells u not to marry that man...pls don't do it,,,u will regret it 4 the rest of ur life 😢😢😢😢....I understand princess bcuz it took a lot from her😢😢😢😢.....omo when u hear ppls stories,u find out u don't even have a problem
@veeeeneerkay6098
@veeeeneerkay6098 17 күн бұрын
…”when you are running, you don’t look back”
@blessobehi4183
@blessobehi4183 17 күн бұрын
Princess interview is encouraging me so much in my current state. God bless her for sharing her story
@EmyIbifik
@EmyIbifik 18 күн бұрын
“When you are running, you don’t looK back”
@Daakie9362
@Daakie9362 10 күн бұрын
May God take the lead concerning our relationship and marriage 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@bensonLizzy
@bensonLizzy 9 күн бұрын
I thank these beautiful women for summoning courage to open up and share their story.
@letitiaaryeetey1343
@letitiaaryeetey1343 17 күн бұрын
These are my favourite Chude episodes….wish I could watch the full versions
@princessprincess382
@princessprincess382 16 күн бұрын
Juilet Ibrahim , such beauty with good character!!
@samuelad1513
@samuelad1513 9 күн бұрын
Jude, you were born for this. I love your show.
@jowieslifestyle
@jowieslifestyle 18 күн бұрын
Princess!!!!! Ah so deep!
@Peacejuvile
@Peacejuvile 17 күн бұрын
Truth is their are good men out there even good women. But hard truth they are hardly noticed or picked because they arent preferred.
@davidjames2571
@davidjames2571 17 күн бұрын
Women especially keep making the same mistakes they could easily avoid. May the single ones learn from the experiences
@olumidesheriffadams7917
@olumidesheriffadams7917 6 күн бұрын
Are you a good woman
@missprimmy1
@missprimmy1 19 күн бұрын
I need to watch every episode
@isaacoguamanam253
@isaacoguamanam253 19 күн бұрын
What a wonderful blessed happy new year 2025 a year of sufficient grace of God almighty upon you and his power that makes us strong in weakness happy new year to you all ❤❤
@agoiobunso
@agoiobunso 14 күн бұрын
Happy new year everyone🎉❤
@JennyKay88
@JennyKay88 19 күн бұрын
Juliet Ibrahim's own is painful
@OlogbosereImweoghomwen
@OlogbosereImweoghomwen 16 күн бұрын
The Good ones(men) may not be your spec or may not have fitting pedigree. Life generally requires sacrifice. NO EASY ROAD. Life is a dance always ONLY when you want to have it all worked out...a mirage, a delusion. Depend on God firmly to play your SACRIFICIAL part!!!. God bless you.
@brendachokote8779
@brendachokote8779 18 күн бұрын
I am not ok too my sister this is my 8th years too
@enyinnaokorafor
@enyinnaokorafor 16 күн бұрын
May God give you all grace
@aeiou0123
@aeiou0123 15 күн бұрын
Why dont u just leave him?
@adebisiaccessories
@adebisiaccessories 13 күн бұрын
Marriage is just a luck!!! Like Damilola Adegbite said… some of us has searched and searched, there are a lot of good women out there!
@olabanji88bj
@olabanji88bj 18 күн бұрын
I want to hear the man side what’s was his rational
@anastasiaanderson9487
@anastasiaanderson9487 15 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@chiefenoch
@chiefenoch 17 күн бұрын
Most beautiful peoples seeing shege promax! Bhet Why???
@olgamohatle9219
@olgamohatle9219 16 күн бұрын
Glorifying marriage is what makes women stay in toxic marriages, it is not necessary man... to have a good person is pure luck
@PaulOdike-m4e
@PaulOdike-m4e 17 күн бұрын
The issue is that this Ladies are big already some of them are employers of labour and then will get married to someone who is also big or even bigger than them and you know what they say two captains cannot be in a ship
@Igbogirltales
@Igbogirltales 16 күн бұрын
What are you saying? These things happened to them when they were not big like they are now
@Ugofaya
@Ugofaya 16 күн бұрын
What is your point?
@PaulOdike-m4e
@PaulOdike-m4e 12 күн бұрын
@Igbogirltales I'm not referring to there experience as a teenager, my comment is on there relationship's
@yomzydee6825
@yomzydee6825 18 күн бұрын
This Juliet Ibrahim does she live in Nigeria or Ghana, she doesn’t even sound Ghanaian
@queeniwearth
@queeniwearth 18 күн бұрын
Well. She was born in Ghana through a Ghanaian woman. She grew up in Lebanon and Ivory Coast. Maybe that’s what you’re hearing 😊
@jessedee8635
@jessedee8635 17 күн бұрын
She's actually a Lebanese but identified more with her mom's country which is Ghana
@th2030
@th2030 16 күн бұрын
She does sound Ghanaian.
@PrisAO1845
@PrisAO1845 16 күн бұрын
She's librarian
@yomzydee6825
@yomzydee6825 14 күн бұрын
@@queeniwearth alright, but I also think she lives more in Nigeria
@davidjames2571
@davidjames2571 17 күн бұрын
Women will leave the good men to go and marry dragons and now come and be asking us where are the good men. Make una dey play o
@evolvewithcoachline2447
@evolvewithcoachline2447 18 күн бұрын
Ordinary gate man....the way you folks speak about those serving you is disgusting 😢
@nolonewolf8631
@nolonewolf8631 18 күн бұрын
I don't think Toke meant it that way though. I think she meant that the fact that the gateman was going to wonder and gossip about her presence in the house after she'd moved out was enough reason for her to stick to her guns and move on.
@apachekafka773
@apachekafka773 18 күн бұрын
I DONT BELIEVE ANYTHING THEY ARE SAYING. WE NEED HEAR BOTH SIDE OF THE STORY. I REFUSE TO EMPATHIZE WITH ONE-SIDED NARRATIVE.
@MarilaAmore
@MarilaAmore 18 күн бұрын
Why are you screaming though?
@MercyLight-d4f
@MercyLight-d4f 18 күн бұрын
@@MarilaAmore 🤣men are becoming big babies this days!
@amakatheglobalforce
@amakatheglobalforce 18 күн бұрын
Go and look for the other side. Who is asking you to believe it?
@Omalouis
@Omalouis 17 күн бұрын
If its a man sitting there and saying same thing, you won't ask for the other side... abeg rest
@vickyadedapo5085
@vickyadedapo5085 16 күн бұрын
Eeyah
@kayholn7522
@kayholn7522 19 күн бұрын
invite their exes to come say what happened as well...we know how these play out
@omalicha7388
@omalicha7388 19 күн бұрын
We are not interested. This isn’t a courtroom. The just spoke their truth.
@The_Cruise_Fam
@The_Cruise_Fam 19 күн бұрын
It’s not in competition. They can go somewhere else and do their own interviews. You lots are nutz. Women generally speak. Nobody is hold any of the men’s neck.😊
@apoloniuskemahs9394
@apoloniuskemahs9394 18 күн бұрын
You just spoke rubbish
@apachekafka773
@apachekafka773 18 күн бұрын
@@omalicha7388 There is only the truth and no such thing as their truth. KEEP LYING TO YOURSELF AND FINDING WAYS TO EVADE ACCOUNTABILITY, INSTEAD OF ACCEPTING REALITY AND MOVE ON.
@apachekafka773
@apachekafka773 18 күн бұрын
Exactly... The only thing they can and i would believe is that today is thursday.
@july0555
@july0555 18 күн бұрын
One side of the story. There is always a root cause of the problem.
@MercyLight-d4f
@MercyLight-d4f 18 күн бұрын
Una men too like to dey ask for two side of the story , the man that married a dj and was assaulting kids did he speak his own side of the story before the world knew the woman was actually right with all she had said, una too like nonsense. If na man come out to talk now una no go ask for the other side before judging the woman!
@july0555
@july0555 18 күн бұрын
@@MercyLight-d4f Men or women we should always listen to both sides. We shouldn't judge by one side. thank you
@Ugofaya
@Ugofaya 16 күн бұрын
Call the other side of the story, we will listen.
@aeiou0123
@aeiou0123 15 күн бұрын
@@july0555no one is stopping the men
@pepperless7218
@pepperless7218 19 күн бұрын
Why does aduni have a funny accent
@Seyi.O
@Seyi.O 19 күн бұрын
How’s it funny? She grew up in the US and sounds like that when speaking English.
@pepperless7218
@pepperless7218 19 күн бұрын
@Seyi.O sounds fake
@ucheiwuajoku1037
@ucheiwuajoku1037 19 күн бұрын
That's not true ooooo , habaa She sounds very real ​@@pepperless7218
@ucheiwuajoku1037
@ucheiwuajoku1037 19 күн бұрын
​@@pepperless7218 I don't agree with you Sir
@Eniola105
@Eniola105 19 күн бұрын
@@pepperless7218you’re the one that sound dumb 😳
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