What Is Your Ex Thinking During No Contact

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[@salimeda9175]

Wow Alex I like your videos always....but I have one request does it really necessary to post pics on social media?

[@crystalclimenhage7159]

Does no contact work a 2nd time ? He ghosted me sometime ago and I did nothing...he came back. We broke up this time...will no contact still work? Will they still look at ur social media even if they blocked you?

[@cristinapepito2917]

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[@joefilpotestad9715]

No contact is so frustrating, but we have to bear it and change yourself🤧🤧

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

I know how frustrating this can be but you got this!

[@blessedsoul949]

It is frustrating at the begining but with time healing comes and we get to forget about the hurt they did us!

[@arsalangreen593]

If it is their fault that they rejected n broke up with you.. Then leave him for ever... Don't let the weeds grow in your happiness... Don't beg...

[@elijahcruz2141]

If it's met to be you will find a way back to each other

[@mariamnantale4701]

I hate relationship because every time in tears plus lies now my work and my own house is my everything Love from uganda pearl of Africa

[@dayana1588]

I love watching and listening to you for your wisdom, and accent 😁

[@miladbahrami6492]

It was the best video about no contact period. Thanks. Believe it or not my ex came back after 2 years of no contact.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you so much for watching! I'm happy to hear this!

[@LBugrelated]

Wish I could pay for your coaching. Wish I knew if i was really doing the right things to move forward. I really appreciate this channel.💕

[@girishchingangbam9036]

Ah apart from the advices alex voice is so comforting it feels like he's like a very close friend of mine

[@vandanasuresh2135]

In my relation ,i am the who always initiates communication.After watching your video i applied no contact rule.2 weeks ago now.Now i can understand that by chasing him i lost my self respect.So i decided to keep no contact rule

[@tess7798]

Alex knows the importance of wearing clothes that fit him perfectly.

[@omaeme7856]

The guy I was talking to hung up the phone on me out of frustration I asked if I did something he said “nothing” I was confused and irritated. Told him I don’t want to talk to him ever again ( out of anger) it’s been a week since we last spoke. I won’t give him the satisfaction in reaching out to him.

[@tan_apek]

I do feel no contact just give the sign that I am no longer wanting to continue the relationship, and eventually contributing her to forget about me and be with someone else. Just imagine when there's some other guy that is with her when she needs someone.

[@momentswithaindrila4588]

my ex is doing awesome.. He is roaming different places, sharing videos and living his life fully without even thinking about me.. And still I cry while i miss him.. Silly me 😑

[@joefilpotestad9715]

🤧🥺

[@joeliesthe1594]

It's okay. I feel like that sometimes too.

[@I_sha88]

lol

[@sarafatali3512]

He dumped you or you dumped him?

[@arjookarmy2866]

I know how you felt.. Now Iam going through this😞

[@itsme_Ndaahh]

So true That’s what happened to me now Love watching all ur videos about no contact ..thats so real Thank you Coach Alex I am from Indonesia❤️

[@ronald5341]

Can you guys make a video about the difference strategy if there is a rebound or there is no rebound? That would be very helpful. Thanks in advance...love this channel. it really helps these days

[@lhizlee5881]

I must apply all of these to my bf who ignore me 5days ago. It hard to deal someone u love, who have high ego.

[@pamela-mariie]

I'm currently doing 'No contact'.

[@CowboyEkim]

Maaaaaaan 💯. I have a stubborn ex and you are 1,000% correct

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Please watch this video, I believe it will be helpful for you! kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6iQfoemeNGWmaM Coach Alex

[@adrianamejia7548]

I left him but not because I didn’t love him . I felt like I had no choice . He made so many mistakes and then he would try and then mess up. I couldn’t let things go and he would get angry about it . He would be mean to me. So I ended it and I haven’t heard from him it’s been 2 weeks . He’ like always activated his social media and is talking to girls. He will never come back and be good to me . 😰

[@carlauchoaknoll]

Oh this guy (Alex) is just to great.

[@kemirembesophia]

Hi Alex wat if i want to surprise him that i changed without using any of social media platform is it ok i mean by staying no contact until i meet him oneday

[@Spreadinglovee.]

What if you dont like social media and have none?

[@edoliver3044]

thank you for this . i needed to hear this

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You are always welcome!

[@bristyshurtradharpuja3531]

By the way i love your personality sir 😊💞

[@matthewnaidoo2867]

This guy is magic

[@ZeenatKhan-ij6ni]

He left, Alex.

[@chelseaway7409]

I did no contact for about 37 days after the breakup and just sent a short and casual first contact text and got a short but positive response. Should i reply and continue the conversation or send nothing back and wait a bit before contacting again?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thanks Chelsea that is great just continue to be focused and a lot will come together! Coach Alex

[@mantoasephiri4792]

Hi Alex..... Yaah it's being a no contact with my ex... But i did made a mistake of coling her after a year,,,, you know what he said to me, he sad to me he was praying 4me wishing that im changed.

[@hebatalaat3465]

6 months have passed while he did not get in touch, he did not even try !

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Heba. Please watch this video to understand how to do no contact successfully. kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJmUaZ2lg856kLs Coach Alex

[@moketemasoeu136]

Hey guys I need your help, I really cant do no contact. Because I always think who is she with doing what. I really cant eish

[@ellenmorse8559]

I speak for those who do not use social media, what are our alternatives?

[@harilip]

god, i really enjoy his videos because of the accent and of the content, of course

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for the your support Coach Alex

[@jorgerosado7889]

Alex, it's been 90 days + ran into her at Publix and she walked away from me. Do have a chance?

[@laurenrichards212]

I love this dating tips

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thanks for support! Coach Alex

[@Lolamy007]

I dont care what he is thinking or feeling. We are done. P.S. I blocked him. So he can send a pigeon if he want's to conntact me.😂

[@philipsayre9317]

thankyou for this vlig very interesting

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You're welcome, Philip. Coach Alex

[@maxcollins9320]

What if my ex left because she thought she loved someone else more, and she has reached out now months later for an extensive Father’s Day txt and started off with an I know I shouldn’t be messaging you but... and went on to tell me how really great of a father I am, i thanked her and she responded and I haven’t gotten anything back since I asked about how her work is, is this just a nice fathers day txt or not, and what do I do if it’s not?!

[@mallepallysaikumar4865]

No contact period she cals me and texts me but she always says i have no feelings for you and she used to say I'm missing a good friend In you what to doo

[@jaemindsasmr2087]

Hi Coach Alex, what if he said he unfriended me on social media for the time being because he said he wouldn’t want to see me talking crap about him? (Even though I’m not.)

[@thula14]

I have been dumped by my bf as well we did not fight and we were in a long distance, it has been two weeks of no contact now and he blocked me on whatsap, i am also struggling and need advices on how to get over the pain, sometimes i feel like calling him

[@ronald5341]

does that apply even if my ex has a rebound?

[@nayebarerossette3021]

Your words worked for me thx

[@ntombie602]

My ex started to block me after break up.. I waited for 30 days after that I contact him and he started unblocking me ...recently we started charting with him so am worried that am gonna lose him for good . But we absolutely do chart positive good... and he said he is happily single not sure about wining technique to use anymore after 30 days no contact

[@10imbahashimgulzar75]

It doesn't matter what is she thinking, what matters is how the fuck I move on!

[@nevisnavinjohnkennedy5172]

Hi alex ,i need your help , I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years haven't met each other and it's been 3 years we broke up she dumped me, now she is in a wrong mindset says that am a stalker, harassing her, not giving her space can I turn things around if I focus on myself and follow no contact again and again... she is telling me that I made terrible accusations of her cheating now am blocked everywhere I understood what was wrong am ready to change still whenever I use to contact after no contact of 3 month eventhough she is not ready .. what can I do , can I turn things around please help she is telling to leave her alone and am not respecting her wishes but recently she tells to her friend that am a good guy and I have good character but the thing is she got bored with me can I turn things around please help me

[@gratefulheartmom3209]

Hi. Alex i need your thoughts. Can someone pls help me? I think i made my ex upset for asking more time in our relationship. We are in LDR. He is having his masters degree right now making him busy. He then suddenly broke up with me. He always gets upset when i ask for his time. I am really confused what to do. Can i leave a sorry message before the no contact rule?

[@raisnshine5299]

How long should we stay no contact until it’s already allowed to reconnect?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thanks for the post. It really depends on the situation and circumstance. Just make sure it is not short lived and you continue to work towards your goals during the process. Thanks Coach Alex

[@melissacastro6516]

He have a girlfriend now,, he still miss me.. The problem is we were work in the 1 house.. I know how to handle that he didn't im affected and hurt.. Because i always see all ur vedios.. What i can do sir coach god blessed..

[@KingLOFAIC]

What if they are in another relationship already?

[@thesence]

Then she is in a rebound relationship. Hurts but can be a good thing. At least it mostly likely will fail after x to 6 month.

[@JesusChrist-ss4pz]

What if you were the rebound relationship and you didnt know it ?

[@rodotoole2440]

I will be there to get my final answer.i am over teaching out when she not interested....

[@sanchitxop5589]

But I removed my bio highlights and profile pic from insta yesterday..😔

[@GoldLeafPress]

My ex doesn’t do social media…I’m screwed! He’s not gonna see me grow and say “damn she’s awesomeness I want her back” 😑…..I ain’t getting this guy back

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

It’s been 8 days Alex

[@QanishaQ7]

My situations is like we're not officials but we act like couples.. And when i saw him removed me as his followers on Ig and he delete all his post on fb..i texted him and he said he dont want to be bothered...and i said okay i'm sorry and what i did is.. I deactivate all my social media and offline my phone often and didnt even have profiles and about on my whatsapps.. Is it okay to really cut off like that?

[@naluchachimanda66]

Watching alot of u lately n I thought it was just advice but I'm loving you instead😉

[@gizliadam-lc5ht]

Hi Alex. If the name is no contact rule so why we contact our ex like nothing happened? What is the best point for u, to wait our ex for she backs or to write her like nothing happened?

[@alexamarie1814]

What if I deleted my social media ? Should I activate it again and act like I’m doing good or ?

[@nadetopetrova3341]

It’s been 1 month and 15 days no contact he is sad but do nothing to talk to me

[@Trex7124]

What happens if the break up was because he finally admitted that he cant handle some truth about yourself said on the first date. He led you on with these doubts of his, saying he will respect you as a friend while using you. He likes your personality but cant handle other parts of it..? ("Medical issues") What happens when you do what you can to make his life easier for his priorities but says he wants a woman that has his back..? I was intune and suggested to take up the respectful friends option. Then he told me all that and Ive lost all respect. Broken hearted. Ive made it very clear that I dont make friends with (oxy) morons.

[@tinmiranda2611]

Hi coach alex😁

[@rubydiva7805]

Thank you So much!!!!!

[@informationworld853]

5 months broke up ND now Few days ago my bf m not using ex ....he made fake account the name of girl ND he followed me 😁😁😁am totally applying no contact formula now

[@deebaafzal8930]

During no contact period should i make him see my status or not?? Shold i delete his number or not?? As there is no other platform where he xane seen me but in workplace where wher we aee sitting facing each other but in distance. What shoud i do there?

[@prachisingh273]

I broke up with him coz he was a habitual liar. Every time I stopped talking to him,he would start texting some random girl..he would then manipulate me..apologize and I would forgive him. He played me for 7 long years. I just feel bad for myself. I wasted 7 yrs of my life on a person like him..all coz I truly loved him. This time I am following the no contact..but m sure he wud he already started texting some girl. The only problem is.. I will find it very difficult to trust even a genuine person who may come into my life 😔

[@wow2den]

I've had no contact with someone for the last 9 months can u answer me why they are playing ming games and throwing things in my face!!

[@natej5440]

what if i blocked her on my socials but not my number

[@zenaidacariaga4324]

Love watching your videos that's what happens to me !😉👍🙏❤️

[@edouardgeorge3263]

Hello Coach, I'm Edouard ive been doing the no contact for now a week. By doing so I blocked her on fb and unfriend her on insta and made my account private. My question is: Is it too late to put my insta back on public? so she could actually see my posts and changes.. or would it be too obvious? Thank you for the video loving your content it has help me a great deal!

[@c.k01l]

Need your help. What should I do when my beloved one blocked me from everywhere on social sites..suggest me please From-India

[@aneshsar]

Hi Alex. I've deleted my ex number so unable to see my WhatsApp profile pic . I've heard you repeatedly saying change the profile pics on SM. I'm in the NC period and i don't want my ex to see my pic. We're not friends on FB but he would still be able see my profile pic

[@manilyn24]

I relate this kind of situation this happened a lot of women..how can u tell if someone want to get back with u after he or she broke up with u..wht are the things did the ex they do if ur rebound

[@nosoupforyou278]

Yeah and I'm blocked on her phone amd FB so how can she possibly see my FB posts? I don't think she'll ask anyone or unblock me to look at it

[@Mimi-mb1yn]

So after no contact, I should reach out?

[@Xellar1993]

love your akzent

[@user-bd9uo8dw3j]

After two weeks of No Contact he contacted me. He kept my stuff so he could return whenever he wanted. Should I contact him?

[@micheleguido4216]

I did the no contact after the second breakup and I was moving on with my life.. 2 months later he messaged me out of the blue an inside joke of ours.. i started to move on in general becs I thought it was over .. but now we are trying again .. any advice .

[@darceylewelling5246]

Same. Second break up- I hope he comes back to me like your x did. I’m happy for you.

[@pure1239]

Darcey......best advice ever my dear

[@christysmith7020]

Hi Alex, tell me please if i am wrong or his fault. I went to his town to see him, everytime we passed a house he mentioned about his ex, he said oh that’s my ex house and so and so fort... blah blah like i was there he mentioned few times. So Saturday we had a party with his friends and we’re both tipsy we’re laying in bed and he started to open up again about his exes that he have a ex died, and his father death too, so he was talking about death generally... so that night i had enough i told him why u keep mentioning about ur ex, moved on she already died forget about them and he was totally mad of what I responded to him he said i was disrespectful and not being confidant to him, he left me in bed and slept on the floor so he do that to me, I decided to leave him at 2 am and drive back to my city. And he didn’t even stopped me. He just let me go.. after that we haven’t talk with each other, he didn’t even text or call me. Now i feel like I miss him. Is it fault that i leave him that night? Do i need to text him? Please help i need advice please

[@jamesjennings6869]

F*ck them exes and do you.

[@mikevadas9032]

Does no contact work on a sociopath

[@nosoupforyou278]

I'm afraid she will go off and be happy with the guy she had sex with 4 days after the breakup. She won't tell me why she did it and says she doesn't feel bad for it. He's a rebound in my mind and that's all he is. I have to keep telling myself this

[@unclemel8276]

Stay strong brother!

[@cindimunoz9455]

What is I did it in the last 6 months and now it’s been 2 weeks and I’ve done no contact. Is it to late to save my marriage? It has been 2 weeks and all he wants to text is to help him to divorce him.

[@sharan8710]

Can we try no contact after one month of begging and pleading?

[@malcolmwilliams4502]

Yes

[@parbati13]

Its been 2 weeks of no contact and i saw him yesterday should i text him abt seeing him or stay in no contact plz help

[@emmanuellajoseph4289]

What happens If your ex is an ADHD person....will the no contact rule still work on him

[@sandhyap.shrestha4331]

But he said to me donot to talk with me I got blocked on instagram unfriend on facebook he doesn't want me anymore he's so stubborn I plead and begged to him to stay in my life but he said we don't have any chance to get back together so what shall I do?

[@sheikhdanial4308]

Yes but is really very hard to forget him sir, I'm merrid wht him 5years is was happy, after he got everything from me he left me wht another gril, please help me or was up me

[@bebotbenitez4995]

I promised to pursue a man next time and then i will give him a no contact so he will suffer too

[@adenikeamusa6718]

I love u baby try it. They deserve it

[@jackiseaward8948]

My partner and I have been together for 8 years. He has alcohol problems and was abusive at times (not physically) and could not show emotions without getting upset. He has been to counseling several times but bailed out when it got hard. He wrote me a letter last year, most beautiful thing ever about how much he loved me and wish he could show it, but was ridiculed with fear and shame. I broke up with him because of the abuse and lack of healthy emotions. We share a daughter, and he's an AMAZING father. I miss him dearly but cannot 'help' him anymore. It's been three weeks and I haven't hear a word from him (we swap daughter over week about at school). I haven't messaged either (although I would love too). The last time I messaged, I was angry, and told him I was hurt, wounded and sad and because of that Im angry, so leave me alone. My question is, if he said he loved me so much, why was he abusive eg, put down my successes, wouldn't talk to me for days if I expressed something good that happened to me etc. And did he really love me??

[@sarahturner522]

I’m sorry to be harsh here but unless he is willing to change eg ( come off the booze for good), then it will always be toxic. I to went through it for years. In the end I built up the courage to leave with my 2 kids in tow. It will destroy you in the end. Your best to get out and stay out. Honestly wish you luck 🍀. X

[@Mmmmm-ib9fq]

What if they have went back to their ex lover ?

[@sammyarnest2886]

❤️❤️ so beautiful ❤️❤️

[@swiftyaan7748]

What if she found someone else?

[@Ruthtalk]

Thanks

[@pscjr6111]

Ex said that she found someone who understands her heart and soul and that her chapter with me is closed even if I am a changed man. Thoughts?

[@priyankabhartee4698]

But my ex is my office mate and he is in same project with me so i am trying to do no contact but because of office work we are speaking related to office work during office time what should I do Alex

[@karmawillfinditswaytoyou]

Should i do no contact even if I'm the one who broke up with him due to many reasons like treating me as an option, not wanting to fully commit, and still loves following and adding random women but can't add me on his fb? Maybe I should because it's his fault that I left him.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey there, I suggest you check this video out on our channel. kzbin.info/www/bejne/joTLaXSfr56mqas You can do no contact even if you were the person who broke up with them. - Love Advice Team

[@AldinaJ.]

Alex ,i need you help. Im doing the no contact rule day number 3 with my ex . He broke up with me some weeks ago . But we still live together. After begging and pleading him for so long. I was too needy . I finally realize that i need to change . So i agree to the break up. But he didnt believe me. So he just ignored me like always. So today is day number 3 of no contact. And he was looking at me all the time. And then finally ask me if i can give him a foot massage . As im always doing it. This time i said im not feeling good. And he asked me again. I said no. I feel bad. But i think he needs to realize that im not going to do everything anymore how i used to. Do you think it was good that i said no?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey Eko, I'm sorry to hear about your break up, I know how heartbreaking this must be. Don't worry, you did the right thing my friend. There is a video on our channel that talks about doing no contact when you live with your ex, I hope you find the time to check it out. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gXiWl3d-lp5ji5Y - Love Advice Team

[@sanglowabagang95]

What if he/she changed his/her phone number Whatsaap number and all social media ?

[@kumudusasanka]

Thanks very much...

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Most welcome

[@Boystomen007]

20 days of no contact still fucking miss her

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out. I understand you miss her. Please watch this video to understand how to do no contact successfully. kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJmUaZ2lg856kLs Coach Alex

[@brandonhogan1190]

We were together a year and a half I’m 19 she’s 17 we dreamt of a life together. I went off to college and We made it work then all of the sudden back in March she broke up with me. I begged and pleaded and she became cold and short. Now she posts her with her friends all the time having a great time. She deleted all my pics with her but 2. I still love that girl and it still dosnt feel real with this time that’s gone by. Anyone got any words??

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thanks Brandon I know it hurts and it will take some time. Best will be for you to. implement no contact and focus on yourself and your goals. You need to use this time apart to work on your personal development and potentially ignore her. Thanks Coach Alex