Talking about black women in Philly

[@9cyph]

There were SO many Gems in this small conversation.

[@iantCPA]

Welcome to the City of Brotherly Love!

[@joejett5084]

“Are men coming to America to find a wife?”

[@OthelloBlaq]

Brother Man, always good to see living life. 🍻Cheers mate.

[@wnttalk]

Cheers brother !

[@amareu3133]

I contend with the point on Kevin's delivery. Many women have to get the truth that direct and harsh to actually hear it. Softening it up doesn't work for a lot of women because it allows them to ignore the root critique. The only reason it's less effective on women today is because we're in a moment where they are both "empowered" and babied. But in the long run, the direct truth reaps the best outcomes as long as it's consistent.

[@mrt094]

Kendra G was a perfect experiment on whether changing the delivery would be effective. Not only did she soften her approach in the beginning but the message is coming from a woman.

[@evos469]

The approach doesn't matter if the majority of the dysfunctional doesn't listen to men in general as part of their operating system. So the only thing that will work for those people is to let it be known you make certain life choices you're done.

[@amareu3133]

@@evos469 We're only talking about the women worth talking to and are engaging with us. KS talked to women who called his show. This brother here is talking to women willing to talk to him. The dysfunctional women who don't listen to men we aren't concerned with at all.

[@MrHammer2088]

It's the empowered and babied part for me...

[@MrHammer2088]

Who the cap fit wears it

[@FalanaRX]

😮‍💨 these are some real issues that ya’ll tackle and though some are so hard and scary to hear as a black woman raised in survival mode, you all are so respectful about us all, black men and black women, needing to hold ourselves accountable, and recognizing the toxicity that we are all perpetuating, that we created to protect ourselves. And really be thinking it’s protection. But is really hurting us. 😮‍💨 I appreciate the care you take to recognize we all have our faults in this but also all have the responsibility to fix it. Praying for us. ❤️ and thank you for this.

[@ian_ford]

The “Alpha Woman” conversation is hilarious, considering it’s a derivative of the “Alpha Male” moniker from decades ago; when it was believed there were “Alpha” wolves in Wolf packs. That has been long since been debunked by credible researchers. But it’s funny some women are still using it as if it’s still in fashion and applicable.

[@BlackNerdist]

Couldn't we say the same about alpha males? If we use the term in it's exact form, only a small group of WHITE men would be considered alpha

[@ian_ford]

@@BlackNerdist Absolutely this applies to males. I would argue that it has only gained popularity, among modern males, the past 20 years in the realm of sports debate. But in recent years, outside of the sports lexicon, I personally don’t hear/see men using “Alpha Male” nearly as much as I hear “Alpha Female” mentioned among groups of women in society and social media.

[@gregorylagrange]

@@BlackNerdist alpha is a mindset, not a concrete set of complimenting definitions. Even if an alpha male of a wolf pack came from a misunderstanding, it's still confirmed that a wolf pack is led by a breeding pair.

[@KingIsa7]

Dope conversation. Keep up the amazing work

[@IkeVictor]

love the content. you need an audio engineer?

[@wnttalk]

ABSOLUTELY!!! Please shoot me an email or DM on IG🙏🏿

[@deeerv4905]

Id love to hear your objective criticisms of KS. I truly appreciate your well thought out conversations regarding black love or the lack thereof

[@strugglenetworknews1215]

Love this episode. I’m on of the Russells that are leaving to Colombia. Trip changed my whole perspective of what type of life is possible. The level of peace and appreciation is I experienced was just crazy.

[@marsjohnston7117]

The way Alan describes the pink pill is accurate, it's focused on divestment from duty. 💯

[@stephenfoster1257]

What's surreal is that all that duty they divest from with BM they do for WM and pay him alimony because they usually make more than him.

[@goodlife1500]

Man if i saw you that meal would have been on me brother. Blessings

[@wnttalk]

I’ll be back bro✊🏿

[@whitenos]

Wait wait wait, this is a mashup I did NOT expect to happen😭😭🔥🔥

[@whoaskedyou9273]

Good to see you moving around! Love it. If you’re ever in Detroit let us know! Peace and blessings

[@christophermayfield6]

Detroit we here

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

I would like a conversation going down this way between either Aba & Preach or any other popular black Canadian KZbinr, to check up how far these social topics and phenomenons evolves in Black Canada comparatively to Black America.

[@gregorylagrange]

Aba is too convinced in his thoughts that everything and everybody that mentions red pill or gives a hint that agree with red pill equates to all the worst examples of the people who have used it for the sake of trying to make money off of youtube videos.

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

@@gregorylagrange Hence why this conversation is needed.

[@gregorylagrange]

@@ptolemeeselenion1542 but might be disappointingly unfruitful than you think it would be

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

@@gregorylagrange Mayhaps.

[@malcolms3220]

6:20 The song he’s referencing from Fabulous is called “Frenemies”

[@ItsGoingDao]

Philly has a lot of great food options, hope you got to explore!

[@wnttalk]

This is only my second time. I’ll be back 😎

[@OfficeOnSunset]

Respect to this Brotha Allen Obi 👏🏿. This Brotha has great deep perspectives dealing with relationships. My peoples this is a real one.#Fasho

[@blackthanos914]

Kevin Samuels was necessary. Still is. Hard women don't respond to soft words. I've seen it my entire life. They don't even date men who talk soft to them, but they're going to listen to complete strangers talking soft to them?! Good luck with that. Kevin had no obligation to be perfect. Effective would do and he damn sure was that. So much so that the women who criticized him most are regurgitating his arguments on a daily basis. BW collectively have a hostile relationship with facts 💯 data, statistics and observable reality and they don't care about bm anymore than they care about those things. So Kevin treated them like hostile witnesses because that's exactly what they were. He did it the way it needed to be done and his results speak for themselves.

[@christophermayfield6]

This is really great work im loving the conversations

[@gregorylagrange]

Good dudes aren't scarce. They just aren't wanted.

[@BrotherKnowledge.]

Good coversation, man. Real good shit.

[@WeekendAtRennies]

Learning how to rebound❗🎯

[@noahcrockett9641]

I don't know why but I could see this as a men in black dining scene conversation 😂😂😂

[@justchyll2009]

critique is not critical, critique is finding a fundamental. flaw. which most arguments have

[@blacknerdtalks7921]

Beautiful conversation with some intelligent brothas, I'm gonna be sending it to my young guys. Not sure if some of them are old enough to receive the information in this, but we need to have more conversations. Would love to see Mr. Cornrows in more upcoming conversations✊🏿

[@smokinAce245]

11:15 "Men gather resources, women gather men."

[@joejett5084]

Man you’re playing chess. I see you. 🔥🔥🎯🎯🎯🔥🔥

[@wnttalk]

🫡🫡

[@christophermayfield6]

I love this my brotha

[@jqualls7901]

27:20 - 28:20 The word that you're lookin for is #Euphoria & I've always been that type of guy you described‼️💯💯

[@Go-Getter]

Stop bringing up your "critiques of Kevin Samuels". None of us are going to agree with everyone all the time. We all have our own ideas and perspectives and sometimes that differs from the next man but it gets old when you're constantly trying to subtly outshine the brother who made it easier for you to have the channel that you have. Pay homage, and the things that you differ from, do it your way. But, you don't have to continuously say "this is where i differ from KS". I have my critiques of him, as well as you, but all in all I think the intentions are pure and there's been more good done than harm.

[@Ra-vi7eu]

Thank you. That is exactly what I was thinking. Obi your while KSSTC series was based on his work.

[@Arts4Change]

Did you just tell another grown man to “stop” something just cuz you disagree? 😂😂😂 Ok gurl

[@MylezNevison]

​@@Arts4Changebut the same can be said about you: did you just refer to a grown man as "gurl" because you don't resonate with his sentiments?🤷🏾‍♂️ Him telling a grown man to "stop" and you referring to a grown man as "gurl" are merely different degrees of the same thing; emasculating & disrespecting a grown man... How do you scoff & laugh at someone's comment whilst your own comment is doing the same thing theirs is doing ma'am?

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

Kevin served his purpose. He was trying to get the ball rolling and ultimately he was successful. Why does everyone have to keep his name in their mouth after, I don't know

[@PrettyLifeQueensKing]

Why can we do best is bicker with each other and nttn is getting better.

[@jameskent8165]

I’m from Philly I’m happy to see the cameo

[@kilamoblack7532]

Some Examples: Shahrazad Ali, Monique, Iyanla Vanzant, Ebony K Williams, Kendra G. It is not the tone, it's the message.

[@Fly-rp9fj]

You ready to go to the league and not even on the HS b ball team yet 🔥🔥🔥

[@rahzikashiharris9539]

ALLEN DONT BE TALKING ABOUT MY PHILLY NIGGAS🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 ❤️🖤💚 MUCH LOVE

[@DJBeauBlanco]

Is that Ishkabibble's on South Street?

[@wnttalk]

Yessir lol

[@DJBeauBlanco]

@@wnttalk Nice!

[@showcase0525]

The problem is not leaving the redpill rage. It is creating avenues to move past the redpill rage successfully into the next stages of red pill awareness.

[@theblackintellectual05]

Bro you came to Philly and didn’t say nothing? Im hurt lol

[@wnttalk]

Lol I did bro! Check the community tab

[@JevonMyles]

Aggie Pride! ... That sweatshirt is super fresh.

[@MrHammer2088]

Are we talking about the black women in philly or are we in philly talking about black women🤔 This caption got me - i almost didn't click on it to watch🤭 Glad I did tho!😁

[@switzjon8405]

14:55 I get it. But I'm not going over seas to have a woman with kids. It defeats the purpose

[@chakradjuzeus9275]

0:06 wait for it…. Geez brother went straight to whyt supremisah!

[@Ra-vi7eu]

Don't blame white supremacy for plain out ignorance. We have to take responsibility for a lot of this division. This is plain out stupidity in men's part and rebellion on women's part. We have to be smarter and they have to submit/follow and the two build the plan for the family.

[@takinganewapproachpodcast2994]

Naw you don't know how the system works buddy. Do some more homework!

[@bluewave3417]

It's both. We have to take responsibility for where we are now. But lets not act like things like crack cocaine and the prison industrial complex were not real things. And yes, they targeted Black communities. The CIA has admitted that much. Again we still have to take responsibility. But the dysfunction didn't come out of nowhere.

[@mrt094]

​@@takinganewapproachpodcast2994If the system worked so well why does every other group of Non-white people Hispanic, Asian all get married at higher rates than us? Asians get married at a higher rate than white people. Simply pointing to white supremacy absconds responsibility.

[@mrt094]

​@@bluewave3417If we have to take responsibility for it now then it doesn't matter where it came from as long as it's being addressed. So the question you got to ask yourself is why target us. If your conclusion is simply white supremacy then you aren't taking responsibility .

[@keptbygrace6221]

​@@bluewave3417 💯 We need changes in public policies AND personal responsibility.

[@the13rook]

Ayyee in the city huh

[@watchthescreen777]

You still in the tri state ? Lets link and have a convo

[@wnttalk]

Left Thursday brother

[@watchthescreen777]

@@wnttalk next time chinese food in china town o. Me we do same type of set up!

[@mattm4341]

Welcome to my city good brotha

[@Lance_p84]

ricky of the hood

[@ghost_illmatic]

@2:02 manosphere n^ggas went at KS all the time. Angryman, even Oshay and KS got into with each other behind the scenes. Is the manosphere supposed be "one bad, one sound" and no beef/arguing or are they supposed critical of one another? Smh

[@truth884]

0:17 really quick. In Africa Europeans didn’t separate people into tribes. Those people groups already existed. Not only that but so did kingdoms. Those kingdoms suffered from what all kingdoms suffered from. Hometeam History breaks all that down.

[@WeekendAtRennies]

😂 You Dont want A Model Bro😂

[@acebutterfly2725]

15:52-16:10 Passport Bros are not going overseas to get wmn with Masters degrees 😂

[@jameskent8165]

For my Loki Fans To me- Kevin Samuels is he who remains Allen is Loki In terms of approach and the grappling with sailing a boat with holes in the bottom.

[@shaun.almostOriOrtho]

Bro came to Philly and I missed it??? 😧🤦🏽‍♂️

[@wnttalk]

I’ll be back bro

[@switzjon8405]

Only in our community were shaming of men is also the norm and that's both sides. Not hood shame. No swag? Shame. Get no women? Shame

[@keolancer2074]

Haha south street i know where this is, why interview here? I know a couple places you could of went

[@wnttalk]

Mannn it was just spontaneous. Hit me on IG

[@keolancer2074]

@@wnttalk lmao glad you visited my city brotha haha, love your content!

[@SSS-wo2hn]

NEVER trust ANYONE who wears SUNGLASSES inside.

[@wnttalk]

I actually agree with this🤣😂 however, the shades are part of the brother’s brand.

[@SSS-wo2hn]

@@wnttalk ok, but I’m glad you know what I’m saying✊🏾

[@switzjon8405]

17:57 our community is also anti-marriage and family but pro-kids though

[@lioness2094]

Background is too noisy for an interview.

[@louville314]

24:47 I love your channel but your critique of KS is wrong, false, and misinformed. "woman don't/wont receive it that way. " I think we can all agree that to a certain degree KS was harsh but he was harsh when he needed to be and to match negative energy that was directed at him. He has numerous shows and conversations that were pleasant, thought provoking, and even transformative in nature. If u truly watched his long-form content. I literally sat there and watched this man mentally collect and reset himself to prepare for the next caller. after getting off the phone w women who insisted on offering the bare minimum, disrespect blue collar working men dishonor their parents, especially their fathers, presented themselves being rude, crass, unpleasant, and refusing to see how their problematic and erratic behavior is impacting them. These same women who complained about his delivery and his tone are the same women who told iyanla vanzant, Monique, Rebecca pope, Lynn toler, and evn Maya angelou to fuck off after the gentlest and kindest urge to reform their behavior. Some of these women were evn cast out of the sisterhood and now good women are terrified to speak out. KS wasn't domination porn it was a reminder that we are men and we don't have to communicate to women, like women. And we're not always going to say things perfectly, and with the right tone, and with the feel good affect at the end. We can be assertive and in control and not to be ashamed of that in a society that grows increasingly hateful of men solely for EXISTING. THE LOUDEST OF WOMEN OPERATING IN THIS MANNER ARE LIKE UNCHECKED WILDFIRES! And society en masse will move against you most of the time for speaking on it. Had it not been for KS we would've bore witness to the extinction of the black nuclear family unfold in real time. Hell, that might still happen but he at least pushed it back several years. And furthermore, in els are redpill rage exist within 2 dif spaces and u combined them as one as if it were the same and it's not. I don't kno of a single redpill channel that advocates for the hatred and murder of women. Many of those men actually are saved FROM doing something stupid by the redpill. Look, all I'm saying is that KS was the greatest advocate for women they ever had and they pissed on his grave before it evn got in the ground. Going forward there has to be some kind of reform otherwise we are going to see a generation of blk women die out alone when it all could've been prevented. But BM are not going to tolerate the disrespect, the arrogance, the looking down upon, the rudeness, the general unpleasantness, the lack of cooperation, theyre not gonna take that shit anymore. Which is why ur channel is going to be important in the future bc u engage in a very positive and hopeful way... Sadly tho we can't all b peaceful activist. That's not how revolution/evolution works. There was a martin Luther, Malcolm x wasn't far behind. Blessings to u brother with love and respect. ✊🏽

[@truthsyrum4859]

10 sec's in white supremacy 🤣🤣

[@ThatDudeSamurai]

🔥🔥🔥

[@franch1se2308]

Legacy isn't everything... It's the ONLY thing

[@raymondowes4516]

I vehemently disagree. The average only fans model only makes $150 - $180 a month, so men aren't tricking off. The 25th highest earning creator on Onlyfans only made 100k in 2023. Sooo... Somebody lying in these streets.

[@klid4444]

Our bullshit helps the enemy. Periodt.

[@sbrooks904]

look like y’all on south street.

[@wnttalk]

Yessir!

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

That Nigerian swagger.

[@chakradjuzeus9275]

0:04

[@RST94]

Great content as always! However, I slightly disagree about the passport bros angle. I'm of the opinion that most of the men are going abroad simply to seek the validation of these women that they can't get here in the states. After traveling abroad myself, I can tell you that there is no difference between women abroad and in the states. All have the same intentions good or bad. It's just packaged and advertised differently. Asian women have the stereotype of being soft and docile, and sometimes they play right into it to get that green card. Black American women let you know upfront what their intentions are good or bad. So the question now becomes, who's worse? Of course she's going to think the world of you when your average salary in the states could buy a mansion in her country lol

[@mrt094]

I disagree. Yes women are women no matter where you go. But you are you are going to encounter more of certain types of women depending where you go. And a lot of these countries are downstream to Western/American culture so yes you can go all over the world and find women who act just like American women. But there are countries that you can do to where that isn't the case. Go to a majority Muslim country and tell me those women act like American women. There are hundreds of countries and billions of people in this world, don't care how well travelled you are you don't have the perspective to say that. Also I think your last sentence is a bit condescending of women abroad as if American/Black women view wealthy men any different in the States. The only difference is you can get that perspective from women abroad in a lower tax bracket. "Black American women let you know upfront what their intentions are good or bad." I also think this is a stereotype that isn't true at all. I've dated plenty of BW who were not upfront with their intentions or they didn't actually want the things they said they wanted so it didn't even matter if they were upfront since it wasn't a reflection of there reality. I've dated BW who claimed they were ready to date to marry and have kids to only back out from it mid relationship. I've dated a BW who was intentional vague in the beginning for the relationship to hide the fact she didn't want to have sex until months until the relationship.

[@RST94]

@@mrt094Until marriage statistics reflect this alternative reality that Black American Men are marrying foreign women at high rates, I still believe that this passport bros movement is smoke and mirrors. I only have one question. If these women abroad are so feminine and beautiful, how in the world are they still single in their own countries? As far as the stereotypes of Black American women being more upfront, nothing is 100% absolute. But comparatively speaking, it’s not even a contest. Are there critiques to be made about women in the states? Absolutely. But foreign women oftentimes come with their own set of problems, whether that be cultural incompatibility, religion, life outlook, and their own set of personal demons.

[@MAGACOPP]

Save Yourselves Black Men. The community is dead!

[@marcelmarshall4240]

Why do people eat and talk on camera? disgusting.

[@PrettyLifeQueensKing]

The food is part of the problem

[@McFrappin]

Not in this particular instance.

[@maddcapper4548]

Self hatred talking about self hatred...

[@hatkingempire6286]

Lol bunch of grown ass people crying about their daddies yet it was your daddies that made sure you was provided for.The nerve of a lot of kids today that are 30 and up are childish people.