This is my problem with the community, we are always worried about how it’s said not what is being said.
@karl_edem2 жыл бұрын
It is just an excuse to reject the message
@aguttathebest2 жыл бұрын
That part 💯
@nairobizebdi30572 жыл бұрын
So does that mean women should talk to men anyhow and men would be OK with that?
@nux2k2 жыл бұрын
@@nairobizebdi3057 Don't they already?
@coopekk2 жыл бұрын
Facts. However, most females do not listen to the words. But they listen to how it was said VERY well instead of what was said and why it was said. We can not live with them and we can not live with them.
@amaliomar2 жыл бұрын
14:20 F what you think is a good approach. Dudes have been trying to sweet word you broads for yrs. That's what created this generation. Young dudes are learning what not to tolerate and how to bypass silly chicks. We want our sons to win.
@AlexMinor2 жыл бұрын
It’s funny how women love to Tone Police men, but the second that a man says anything about how they talk to us, they circle the wagons for the sisterhood
@TheGr8-12 жыл бұрын
Exactly. So disingenuous
@RockyMaiviaMiami2 жыл бұрын
In all honesty, avg BW don’t engage in conversation with avg BM in good faith. It’s almost where there has to be a camera there to get both this version of BW w/ them accepting accountability / responsibility they bare and the value of what a GOOD BM brings to the table.
@PrinceInawRakah2 жыл бұрын
What accountability did you see? She avoided it literally the whole video
@rodmandrake21012 жыл бұрын
men don't have problem communicating, the problem is a lot of women over react so it isn't worth the headache. a lot women take everything personal. men don't need love they need admiration.
@kingtchala68322 жыл бұрын
Like the presenter expressed, I can go a whole day without talking. Whereas women feel they always have to talk. We can get a message across in one sentence, women like to give you a full essay.
@Babyjoker2222 Жыл бұрын
Exactly you can that about women an general n they some how always pull it back around them n their circle's.
@simplymy2cents2 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter how you talk to women, anything that doesn’t support their narratives is toxic and abusive.
@PsycheDolo Жыл бұрын
Bingo
@hatkingempire6286 Жыл бұрын
This right here ⬆️ is spot on
@sammyD622 жыл бұрын
She doesn't want her algorithm to go "that deep", but is okay with getting deep enough to willfully look up instances of BM talking down on BW. If this isn't an example of bad faith, idk what is. Then to answer the question about what she loves about BM with everything superficial and attraction based, also serves to the point made earlier about only wanting BM for how we can serve BW, not just simply for "who we are." Bro, thank you for these conversations and I genuinely hope this beautiful sister takes the time to understand these nuances and take her own advice to "Listen to Understand" not "Listen to Respond." Peace and Blessing to the sister, tho.
@gargoelV32 жыл бұрын
I noticed this before reading your comment. I understand and acknowledge there are bad, self hating, women bashing men, most men do not deny that at all. But the thing that irritates me to no end is that is seems women(at least the vocal ones) act/pretend that there are not equally bad women. And when they do, they try and justify/understand the reason, show sympathy it and still want them treated nice or fairly. Hell I've gotten a headache just trying to get some women to admit that women can and do lie too.
@janetjohnston17022 жыл бұрын
I doubt she will if I go by her body language especially the facial expressions she did or when she spoke about her son taking a while walking/talking. It spoke volumes to me as a mother myself it screamed red flag but maybe I read too much into it 🤔
@natebruce17422 жыл бұрын
Yeah that part…I thought I was the only one who caught that. That’s the point this whole conversation was putting a spot light one. She only cares to hear one side so that it can fuel her same mentality and those hood rat songs she mentioned. SMH.
@Babyjoker2222 Жыл бұрын
@@gargoelV3 Yep they'll just say its just the ones you pick / " Choices " like the lady in the video said / Pick Better. Clown
@clintonwizard2 жыл бұрын
it's hard to take these women seriously. she didn't want her "algorithm to go that deep" but let her algorithm go that deep to look up mens' wrongdoing.
@21nitsua2 жыл бұрын
@Wizard Kelly our sisters really don't see how they come off.
@kingtchala68322 жыл бұрын
@Wizard Kelly facts. I keep on saying, they see what they are doing yet they just don't care
@singingchef232 жыл бұрын
This conversation reminded me of the cycle. "No respectable woman is going to talked to that way". Men took it for decades and was expected to take it. Men watched our women say we are no good for decades and took it. Men get the mic for 5 mins, and we see total meltdown and a lack of accountability and honesty from watching big ma, auntie, mom, big sis lay the foundation of this culture now.
@djvnkc2 жыл бұрын
What is painfully obvious. Like racism is the fabric of america and it seems un-american to speak against it. BMs mic grab comes across the same way with BW.
@KOOLCOMEDY2 жыл бұрын
"Tone & Delivery" is only a factor when it's time for them to listen.
@cadillacblack64882 жыл бұрын
Fresh and Fit do have chick's on their show that are a couple of slow weeks from standing on 79th and Biscayne
@MrQuincy6112 жыл бұрын
@@cadillacblack6488 just because the hardware changes doesn’t mean the software does, once said by a great man!!!
@cadillacblack64882 жыл бұрын
@@MrQuincy611 All I said was the chicks that come on their show are a couple of slow weeks from working the track. And you took that to mean what? A lot of yall don't realize that these women are only half of the problem. I just agreed with one point she made, not defending her entire positron. Women do what you just did, trying to broaden the scope so you can disagree with something I didn't say. I don't have problems with females, because I understand who and what they are, and that stuff between their legs doesn't excite me. The key to defeating your opponent is to neutralize their most powerful weapon. Most will get intimidated, at the very least frustrated, because now they know that have to bring something of real value. If you accept less than what you want, that's all you'll ever receive. Can you dig that, jack?
@t.713.2 жыл бұрын
It's interesting how the disrespectful phrase "n!ggas ain't sh!t" is supposed to be a "joke", but any factual critique men give is perceived as disrespectful/attacking & has to be leveled ever so delicately or it risks not being received at all.
@kennethsmith63672 жыл бұрын
Unless it’s a waitress or secretary, I’ve given up on having conversations with women. Those seem to be the only women that can take direction without being upset by the tone.🤷🏾♂️
@deondricksteen46062 жыл бұрын
What i continue to learn from these videos is that the women try to find every reason to downplay the men's point of view no matter what it is. But yet we need to save the community.
@MrQuincy6112 жыл бұрын
That’s because they lack accountability and expect everyone else to bow to there lies with no pushback. That’s why some people shouldn’t be allowed in the conversation because they help perpetuate the lies bw have told for years!!
@mayankingrevisited81372 жыл бұрын
Hands off in 2023 Focus on yourself gentlemen
@waynegoldmanjr17082 жыл бұрын
Imma start turning these videos into a drinking game. Every time the guest says “I feel like,” Im going to take a shot. Imma be lit 10 minutes into every episode. All these feelings based responses. They get us nowhere! Feelings statements keep them on code because as long as they’re talking about feelings, they can just talk about themselves and not the group in general. Because they know you spittin facts. Keep up the work good brother. Imma keep watching these joints and being pissed off and relieved at the same time. ✊🏿✊🏿
@21nitsua2 жыл бұрын
That's alcohol poisoning in 15 min
@waynegoldmanjr17082 жыл бұрын
@@21nitsua smooooove 15
@dwaynerhodes64232 жыл бұрын
if you wanna get drunk quick watch lip service or just pearly things, feeling everywhere,lol
@21nitsua2 жыл бұрын
@@dwaynerhodes6423 you trying to kill him
@waynegoldmanjr17082 жыл бұрын
@@dwaynerhodes6423 😂😂😂 sounds like I need to go get another bottle lol
@PrinceInawRakah2 жыл бұрын
Bro you let her evade and deflect the whole interview 🤦🏾♂️ you gotta pin them down and make them admit that BW don’t really value BM.. they just like us on a physical level. Most BW are FOS when it comes to this convo
@BREADHED922 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@dr.manhattan62782 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@janetjohnston17022 жыл бұрын
He also didn't check her on the facial expressions which on their own were very telling!
@janetjohnston17022 жыл бұрын
I get you and I also have less female friends because of how most women are in general no wonder they say that women don't like each other 🤦♀️
@PrinceInawRakah2 жыл бұрын
@@janetjohnston1702 fasho. I had to delete my last comments because they had to much anger in them and that’s not me fr.. I’m going through a separation as we speak with my wife of 4 yrs.. luckily we had no kids. Everything about this side of YT robs me of my peace of mind as a BM. Watching hundreds of BW pretend to value BM.. some don’t even pretend.. and they be having blk sons in their possession, which causes me to hold back tears almost every time.. because I know those young kings are being psychologically destroyed before they even understand what’s going on.. I’m just broken hearted out here, sis. I’m definitely taking a break from these videos
@damianbarnes27172 жыл бұрын
As a 41 year old black man our women have spoken to us in any manner they want . They’ll yell, scream,shout,be rude and disrespectful. They can say whatever they want ,whenever they want and how they want. Regardless if the narrative they put out is true or not. An don’t not give a “F**k on how you feel about it.But they want you to speak to them in a certain way.An you have to use a certain tone. All while having an understanding of their emotions and what they maybe going through.Regardless of how you speak to them they don’t listen. An whenever you speak out or say something that goes against their narrative or opinion. Then it’s an attack on black women. Then comes the S.I.G.N language (shame,insults,guilt and the need to be right) . To me personally we’ve done enough talking trying to explain our differences,situations and grievances. What’s needed is actions I’m not give you what you want until I see actual change. That’s how men should approach or deal with these women.
@researchtwins2 жыл бұрын
Arrange marriages…we are too afraid of proven and practical solutions.
@althehunter86232 жыл бұрын
As a people, we aren't ready for that conversation. Our kids cannot pick their own spouses too much trauma going around.
@themarathoncontinues42112 жыл бұрын
Facts.
@mattao313 Жыл бұрын
The black community is so broken the parents are worse than the children.
@Teewayne2 жыл бұрын
And the SisterHood Award goes to this sister. She didn't break code against her sisters, even when given constructive criticism, we have to watch the tone, words, and volume to get them to listen to understand where we're coming from?! Even when he told her about the women who said kill the black boy children all she said was "WOW".
@Babyjoker2222 Жыл бұрын
You dont have to watch anything, its just a excuse to deflect from the message, they never want to address that.
@2011troya Жыл бұрын
This hurt my soul so deeply.
@Teewayne Жыл бұрын
@@2011troya I know, you're not alone
@simplymy2cents2 жыл бұрын
Even in her trying to listen, she is trying to invalidate what he is saying…”What are the ages” why does that matter…the issues are the problems not the ages.
@davidperry43102 жыл бұрын
BW have zero problem telling BM they don't need them, are trash, ain't $hit, small D energy, dusty, etc. Still, they expect us to treat them like snow flakes when we have something to say! That is what they didn't understand about Kevin. He did not make any of that stuff up. BM didn't follow him because he had new ideas. He was good at saying what many BM felt but didn't know how to articulate! Yes, BM have issues too, the difference is we have been told our whole lives without a filter.
@jetpackjack59852 жыл бұрын
Its amazing how oblivious some women are of the actions, behaviors and ideals they themselves and other women embody and perpetuate.
@r.james7774 Жыл бұрын
"Borderline abusive," "Rah Rah stuff?" = "Absolutely no critiquing me whatsoever or I'll shame you."
@KOOLCOMEDY2 жыл бұрын
On 1 hand I'm like whereTF is he finding these Women? On the other hand, I'm glad they're on the internet for everyone to see. These Women confirm much of what Men have been saying for generations!
@metacog72 жыл бұрын
Without default 50-50 joint legal and physical custody, all this talk is feel-good entertainment.
@mayankingrevisited81372 жыл бұрын
2023 Men preserve your energy Let modern women fend for themselves #monklifestyle
@jermaineholmes35312 жыл бұрын
Then you gotta take it into consideration men don't normally go around disrespecting women it's the shock value with fresh and fit but the women on there are usually way more aggressive. Just like you don't wanna be talked to like a man" men don't want to be talked to like you talk to your girls calling each other out of their names.
@Saint_Darius2 жыл бұрын
Nawl that Myron nigga legit hate women💀
@Seancarter20102 жыл бұрын
Stuff like this is hard to listen to because it further proves most women lack the ability to be objective and empathetic or they simply enjoy the imbalance. They how things are and don't want them to change they just want to complain because they can't stand boredom
@researchtwins2 жыл бұрын
Facts…this is why I would tell any young brother to travel and find sisters from other cultures.
@Seancarter20102 жыл бұрын
They don't even have to be sisters just find someone who gets you and respects you. Life is simply too short for all this bs
@clintonwizard2 жыл бұрын
@@Seancarter2010 if enough black men think like this. Black people will literally not exist anymore.
@clintonwizard2 жыл бұрын
@Wizard Kelly not all of them. But it seems some of y'all are hell bent on erasing us as a group. If enough Black men seek women of other races, Black people will no longer exist.
@cedricrobinson374 Жыл бұрын
When a valid point is made "against" women, women quickly disassociate themselves from "those" women...however when there is a benefit for women to gain...they automatically want to be included in that benefit....just because. When there is a valid point made "against" men it automatically includes all men....when there's a benefit to be gained from being a man....each man has to earn that benefit individually....there is never any just because benefits.
@TheloniousP2 жыл бұрын
@4:58 she had checked out... She ain't hear nothing you said 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Professor_BuddyLove2 жыл бұрын
🤦🏿♂️ Literally didn’t hear one word 😂
@thestandardrlc2 жыл бұрын
I hate hearing women say the conversations don't lead to solutions because men have been giving solutions throughout all of this. They don't listen and/or don't like them because many of the solutions involve female self-improvement.
@RokBaller2 жыл бұрын
When she started in with the whole “you should come with a different approach” thing and didn’t immediately realize that’s exactly what he was trying to say to her about how women “communicate” in the beginning of the video, let me know that she is not concerned about what a man is thinking… and that men should just try to understand women. I mean, she let that answer roll out so smoothly when it was about women.
@Majik952 жыл бұрын
in the videos ive seen with this young woman shee has had such dismissive and patronising body language esp when they start talking about things from mens perspective
@navytanutrof18232 жыл бұрын
Wow is she for REAL? All she had to say is yep, you have a point men are different than women and yes women have to understand men cannot communicate like women. We just can't. We are not made like that. Half the time, we don't really understand their ups and down emotions.
@Mike_M.2 жыл бұрын
The humanization of the black male image have these women on tilt.
@specialk53402 жыл бұрын
That response, it’s that response right there that pisses black men off to ungodly proportions, “there’s pointing the fingers but there’s no solutions” black women have been pointing a finger at black men for decades, never have they sat down and gone “we should find some solutions” when sister Shazard Ali came with some solutions black women shut her down, so now when black men are like “fuck it I’m going somewhere else” now all of a sudden we have to be solution based, black men don’t wanna hear it no more.
@Jaslath2 жыл бұрын
15:18 - 15:33 How did women receive the message from Mo'Nique about not wearing bonnets in public? Exactly. Puts an entire lie to her statement. And she's says not to speak to her as a man but how many times have we seen women speak recklessly to men?
@themarathoncontinues42112 жыл бұрын
Then when they dropped bonnet emojis, same women got mad because it was “ soft girl era”,
@Seetiyan2 жыл бұрын
10:20 What are their ages? Sounds like you're looking for a reason to dismiss them. Look at the content of what they said. If it's true, it's true, no matter the source. 26:30 We DO know ourselves. The issue is that women refuse to accept what we are.
@tuxedo381142 жыл бұрын
That utter silence @4:50 spoke volumes!
@chaplen452 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too
@bryantolbert372 жыл бұрын
16 min mark. 'Don't talk to me like a man' or don't be masculine, conduct yourself like a lady if you want to be treated as such.
@jeshurunben-israel53302 жыл бұрын
Ecclesiasticus(Sirach) 32:[8] Let thy speech be short, comprehending much in few words; be as one that knoweth and yet holdeth his tongue.
@hatkingempire6286 Жыл бұрын
Of course she exist because she don’t believe she has anything problems nor flaws.
@kaimobley53242 жыл бұрын
She's talking about the Podcasts that we as Men JUST got recently mind you no longer then like 3 or so years ago but Women been doing the same but for over 50yrs. Feminism 1st - 3rd Wave going on 4th now, Love Novels, Books, Magazines, Commercials, TV Shows, Movies, You can't say that bcus I'm a Woman but I can say it to you, Happy Wife Happy Life, WHITE FEATHER CAMPAIGN DURING WW1 & etc. Now as far as the Black Women divesting look up Loving vs Virginia Case. They made a Movie called Loving in 2016. Black Men had nothing to do with that happening. Black Women wanted Interracial Marriage back in the 1960's so they're the last ones to be mad or complain about who's dating out.
@lorilaforey85932 жыл бұрын
That is a lie. You know it black women know it and the whole world knows it. You have no one to care be loyal to you because it’s obvious not who and what you do as a collective. Stop being jealous because black women are taking whatever opportunity and be consistent in using it to it fullest. Do the same we came from the same. Black women there are some good in everyone. But how does a whole race of men from different parts of the world fail women and children for centuries and try to demand respect. While blaming them for every thing. I pray this is just media men. No respect, no admiration to go with the no provision no protect no respect . Black men you will reap what you do in the world and so will black women as individuals and as a collective. As women we will not be reaping the same as men.
@kaimobley53242 жыл бұрын
@@lorilaforey8593 instead of saying I'm lying how about you do a simple Google search and look up the history to see if I'm actually telling lies. Otherwise your just wasting your time
@themarathoncontinues42112 жыл бұрын
@@lorilaforey8593 idk what you are saying. Nobody has failed for centuries. Why do you types always buy into Whyte supremacist propaganda, it’s actually very strange.
@badguy24192 жыл бұрын
A large percentage of Black Men has a solution. #MGTOW IS THE ONLY WAY #PASSPORTBROS #MGTOW #FREEAGENTLIFESTYLE
@BobEDigital2 жыл бұрын
They told us about Tricknology. We know where it’s from but my people don’t understand how it’s applied. The effects are evident. It’s something to talk about but nobody wants to really listen.
@bothirst2 жыл бұрын
@4:30 is the moment 😮. Silenced
@cedricwynn41532 жыл бұрын
It is not about just being there for us you can be there and be a headache
@mr_willwhite84652 жыл бұрын
*@alan - question: on a 1-10 scale, what would be your motivation level to repair what's left of the blk communitah if you didn't have a blk daughter? I ask bc I have no children & I'm a realist; in my mind the communitah has to burn to the ground b4 repair; trying to "spit" on a house in flames to save it is pointless from my pov. Bc of that, I'm at level 0. Separate the productive from destructive & let the destructive be the self-cleaning oven. Work w/productives only*
@eternaldarkdragon89022 жыл бұрын
Black people don't want to come to the realization of their reality. The reality is, there's no togetherness and only disdain. Disdain mostly from the woman's perspective. Until women take accountability for their part in the mess and make corrections, the only solution is to let everything burn to ash. The bonfire has begun
@centariogrier32552 жыл бұрын
Approaching the conversation with grace is so IMPORTANT. That's why ai rock with this podcast. It's difficult to be objective and respectful in this social media climate. So many radical POVs. Much respect bro. Keep doing the good work.
@bayyinah142 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@sekougetrouw68282 жыл бұрын
She ain't listening at all
@karatekoala42702 жыл бұрын
"you don't have to respect her, but don't go out of your way to be disrespectful" you know, I absolutely agree.
@williamstrand122 жыл бұрын
But she wants to speak to us like she a man!
@bryantoconnor6912 жыл бұрын
This CONVERSATION has been going on way before KEVIN SAMUELS and we're shuffling the wrong information to really break this strangle hold the writers of this mess has on THE masses ! ! 😑😣
@sonnyqsoul2 жыл бұрын
That anger is how it starts off...it's how red pill got started. First the anger and frustration. Then the healing through comradery. Then possible solutions and moving forward. Over the last few years, guys stopped healing and moving forward; they are instead basking in the anger and frustration. And thosw are the guys who dominate the comment sections of red pill and the manosphere as a whole these days. And Fresh & Fit are guys who capitalize on that. I mean, the shows that don't get highlighted are the ones in which they are trying to teach guys simply how to be better dudes, but the anger and frustration highlights and shows are the ones that butter their toast.
@philweeks61962 жыл бұрын
She had all the smoke for brothers talking bad about women but back peddled on the Cynthia Gs of the world. The sisterhood is strong. Great conversation
@Meng7762 жыл бұрын
The approach of fresh and fit isn't to build women up, same way FNF isn't about building up men. MLK doesn't work without Malcolm x. This channel is only considered reasonable because of fresh and fit.
@mafamac40692 жыл бұрын
FNF plays an important role though it didn't reach million subscribers for no reason. and their audience is also growing on Rumble too this SIMPS are waking up, we should be happy for that
@MustafaPriestt2 жыл бұрын
Her skin 😍😍
@chrisjohnson9262 жыл бұрын
I thought this video title was interesting. I’m married and in the Facebook group “The Marriage Club” a wife made an anonymous post about her husband watching Fresh and Fit. I explained to my wife they are toxic but they add value to men from a confidence level and we’ve learned that certain things they say are accurate and relatable. I do see clips but i don’t watch them like that. I’m at 14:17 mark of this video and it sounds like she’s not open to having the discussion about “why” they’re relevant in the manosphere before the judgement which is disappointing to me, particularly after you mentioned women having to be open to letting us vent, communicate and be open to our communication styles and lack of grace when it comes to communication. This is partially why I don’t engage with my wife about this stuff and she mentions being “triggered” at certain things which turns her off from even having the conversations. Edit: You played the clip so I missed the contact. I realized the clip at the beginning was in response to her statement.
@nicolea.75012 жыл бұрын
The marriage club blocked me. The wives on that page seem to hate men. When women would post misandrists things I would point out the misandry. That page is ridiculous, and displays a bunch of Black women running their weak husbands.
@phRAWst2 жыл бұрын
Shouted to the guys in this comment section, frfr. ...smh communication is nothing without comprehension. Ladies have a comprehension issue when it comes to certain conversations on intersexual dynamics. Most men are "action" based. Talking, talking, & more talking then communicating about the talking, & then coming together to converse about what was said about what was talked about... isn't going to put a car together or a skyscraper up. Straight up. Even the F&F podcast or other male podcasters who just "talk" for the most part, implore men to do work & take action in getting their health up, their finances in order, doing hobbies that build up their competence & add to their accomplishments & through both of those avenues, they'll eventually have the confidence to then go & "talk/hold a convo" with the opposite sex. The issue lies with the female comprehension of the male species. They can't get over the contradicting behaviors of them (males) lusting after "no good" women yet simultaneously scouring the globe for a "wholesome" 1. The answer is quite simple & rooted in biology, but they flat out refuse to comprehend it because they are solely consumed with solipsistic mindsets which manifest in b.s. ideas such as: "self-love, self-care, focusing on me, finding myself," as they take selfie, after selfie, after selfie. Self, self, self, my, my, my, me, me, me...being independent & "all to oneself" as queens (with no kings to appoint them as such) & bosses (with no corporation or employees to signify them as such). Rather than being "selfless & serving" like their nature truly intends they should be, they would much rather be self-centered goddess in a reality all about themselves & their self-interest. & look how that mindset has left our community & relationships, in shambles. The avg women believing she's too good for the avg man. & the avg men deciding to leave & find/create a space where they'll truly be appreciated all while being ridiculed online for doing so. Sad state of affairs.
@GoatedJahh2 жыл бұрын
tone police? and you hear homie in the back like yasss! lmao i pray for my people everyday
@onice332 жыл бұрын
So let me get this straight. I did NOT hear anything about intelligence from this woman about what she likes in a black man. Basically, it's making my point. I lead with intelligence, mannerisms, and leadership qualities. And its ok if BW dont want those qualities or really dont care about them. Those who divest and do it quietly get wrapped up in the same critique as the ones who are speaking out!! Why are we bothered for??
@themarathoncontinues42112 жыл бұрын
As black men in the west, being liked for everything but your intellect/thinking is very common.
@jaymill38322 жыл бұрын
Here we go again, this type of women will never except criticism from and man. The tone is only used too say she doesn't want here it.
@PierreWilliams35 Жыл бұрын
Men speak to women like her masculine, because she is behaving masculine. You want a man to speak to you like you are a feminine woman, then behave as such.
@swellscity57922 жыл бұрын
Wait what... freshandfit aren't mad at women 🤔🤔 .... yall need to reevaluate that conversation.... #shout out to Myron
@johnbrown-cl6sj2 жыл бұрын
It is impossible to expect a change if you yourself don't change. People need people to exist. From high school young people need to know that you have to learn to work with another person to go thru ups and downs. Learn how to make yourself happy because it is not your partner's job. If you have trauma, get help and enter a relationship placing effort as your driving force. That is how a relationship will last.
@nicolea.75012 жыл бұрын
She completely ignored his comment about why BM don't feel loved. That was sad but his reasoning was inarguable.
@kennycherry76846 ай бұрын
That's why chris rock said men are loved based on what they can provide Women gotta feel that they got the best deal. -Myron fnf
@joejett50842 жыл бұрын
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@roshownmcleod75932 жыл бұрын
Women think they can dictate conversations with men.
@acmaysnetworker Жыл бұрын
Can someone tell me who is the lady that is being interviewed???
@rah-melrosado47042 жыл бұрын
If she actually watch the whole episode of the F&F podcast, she’ll see that the women get disrespectful first causing Myron to turn up… I don’t agree with everything F&F believe in, I actually believe they’re black pill not red pill, but I agree their content is necessary
@Shenruss Жыл бұрын
"Don't _talk_ to me like that"... 1. This is how men talk to _each other._ She says she wants to listen, but she's not even _trying to grasp_ the basic differences. 2. Men and women internalize and _speak_ differently. She can't have men "speak" like women and hope to "get it". 3. Women can "go off" on men, say _whatever,_ make false accusations, etc.... "don't talk to me like that" has to go *both ways.*
@Dee--Jay2 жыл бұрын
This is the problem. Women don't like to be talked to as if they are a man but they will talk to a man all aggressive like she's a man. Watching Fresh and Fit and Kevin Samuels is proof of that. She wouldn't know because she only watch the clips
@LorLegend44002 жыл бұрын
Yall gotta stop blaming other ppl for your poor choices the white man can't force you to do anything kevin samuels didn't believe in this victim mindset ... better yourself and stop making excuses yea a system exist to keep us down but u have to participate in the system
@kennethsmith63672 жыл бұрын
I’m tired of hearing these excuses as well. Either accept the fact and work within the system or leave. The American passport is accepted almost everywhere around the world. Move to somewhere else and live. You don’t even have to relinquish your citizenship to live somewhere else.🤷🏾♂️
@deondricksteen46062 жыл бұрын
@wnttalk I think you need to see how similar the women's answers and desires from the women on your show and the women on FnF. I think you would be surprised on how close the match up.
@ffshooter99292 жыл бұрын
Like Fresh and Myron say same hardware but different software. Different woman come to that show with same results. People like to pretend it's only uneducated miami bimbos which do the show
@Wrestle_Kingdom2 жыл бұрын
@@ffshooter9929 thank you bring on all variety of woman most of the woman on those shows go to college and even some graduate with phd and master and typically it the same result
@iamwinstonpslack2 жыл бұрын
When she said don't handle me like a man but a sec letter says "pipe down" that's something a man would say to a man 🤷🏿♂️don't be something you don't wanna be handled like
@timboslice99052 жыл бұрын
This thing works a lot like modern politics in that the pendulum swings back and forth right now. The problem is that the farther it swings one way, the further it goes the other way in reaction. We have to balance the reaction or else we’ll keep getting further and further from common ground in the middle.
@MrJayboogie98 Жыл бұрын
She's fine and I like how she's presenting herself. She loses a point because of her child. But she would be the type of woman I'd pursue.
@johnhenry5071 Жыл бұрын
The real tragedy here is that when women talk and reveal their heart and emotions we listen for the most heart we take time to process it. Most of us anyway. Then we tell our side of the story and how we feel in the different things and instead of them listening to understand and processing it is met with well we. Both need to work on each other
@reginaldmagee35862 жыл бұрын
24:28 I Appreciated this…
@isoryte2012 жыл бұрын
ABW are just insufferable. They demand to be accepted however they are, to never be held accountable and no evaluative reaction to them is ever acceptable. And Mr @WeNeedToTalk, why do you hv to critique another podcast? Why can't you run your talk without saying how you view other people's channels. This is how the "enemy" pull communities apart; make you antagonize the others so you think that makes you stand apart and different.
@cbcgoff2 жыл бұрын
#TeamReplay
@diallohumphries94792 жыл бұрын
Black women make it hard sometimes to do anything more than lust after them.
@edisonanthonio1322 жыл бұрын
Good talk💯. Time stamp at 29:56, " Respect, I don't know how that didn't come to my mind" .... That's because low key (subconsciously) you DON'T respect the black man as much as you think you do. Therein lies the general problem as he astutely pointed out. It's ironic because she was particular about men respecting her, minding tone of voice and threat her like a woman
@williamstrand122 жыл бұрын
A lot of the women only start the it’s always a back n forth once the man has pushback. But if you noticed that when it was women and they feelings it’s straight forward how she feel.
@curtiswesley32612 жыл бұрын
#Grace
@daemonroe34852 жыл бұрын
Can we please get out of this victim mindset, PLEASE!. Also when it comes to trauma that individuals have you need to either go to therapy, make peace with it, and let it go. I like fresh and fit they are direct. It doesn't matter how it's being said all that matters is what they're saying is correct
@daemonroe3485 Жыл бұрын
@actionpotential23 that's why i said either go to therapy where they teach you how to deal with it or some people are able to make peace with what happened and move on. I don't think its bad advice to try and have a better future instead of living in the past.
@daemonroe3485 Жыл бұрын
@actionpotential23 And there are people out there who are able to let go of trauma, I'm not one of them but i have seen it in group.
@RationalRealmYT2 жыл бұрын
@18:16 --- "The Profit Model" .... WOW
@kingtchala68322 жыл бұрын
This woman is grown and she still uses Swag as an attribute for black men. This is a huge problem in our community. She was struggle to come up with positive characteristics as to why she loves a black man, yet swag was something she could pull out. This is not a good look. This is a grown woman.
@swinehartachris13 Жыл бұрын
i love her whats her name??
@brianbey3575 Жыл бұрын
7:19-10:15
@seyimax Жыл бұрын
Nothing against her, well-spoken women. But it’s definitely fascinating how some guests can freestyle what’s said about women but are “shocked” at what’s said about men.
@MinjisHusband-o1t2 жыл бұрын
Fresh and fit hold no animosity towards women on the whole. Perhaps some of their following does. But they themselves just host a podcast that they really don't have to. As a service to male improvement. They do way more than just have women on the show. Idk how someone can see that as being actual misogyny. Just like every host they have to maintain some level of respect and decorum. KS did it and so do other podcasters in general. I wish these people would actually watch the content they speak about and do so with an open mind. They truly might learn something
@hatkingempire6286 Жыл бұрын
She said respectable 🤣 girl y’all running around with that Houston and talking about respectable
@PLxT02 жыл бұрын
Absolutely dope episode 👏🏿💯 "keep the main thing the main thing"
@jordanglasper10642 жыл бұрын
Goddess handle the gods interview real good
@ppearson35N2 жыл бұрын
14:17 so she basically used the who hurt you line lol 😂😂😂 Tone is the same thing BW said about Kevin Samuels lol Does she have an issue with the hella podcast of women teaching other women how to use men and manipulate them
@gjbeckfilms Жыл бұрын
The resolution she pretended to be looking for is answered in her responses. The Resolution for our community is for our women to be more like Michelle Obama and not Cardi B. The resolution is for them to trust and respect us more than their bosses at work. The resolution is quiet and peace. This woman is literally acting so masculine she doesn't realize that men ALLOW her to act the way she does. The society allows it and tends to that masculine part of her brain for the sake of capitalism and depopulation. She is so quick to tell a grown man to "watch your tone". LMAO. Lord help us. Why us black men gotta fight all day outside only to come home and have a woman like this tell you how to speak, in what tone, and damn near threaten you with violence. We dont have peace ANYWHERE! HELP US BLACK WOMEN! WE NEED YOU TO BE BETTER FOR US!!!
@JCballin232 жыл бұрын
I’ll say it, black women are angry. PERIOD! For me a lot of women just don’t have a lot of respect for black men. My father has been married to my mom for 48 years and was the breadwinner. Mama still had to deal with a lot. His Father wasn’t in his life and at times he seemed like he was grudgingly providing. Both of my parents were broken and I expected more out of my father 🤷🏽♀️. I learned so much my mother experienced and she was always there. I never saw my mother disrespect my father but somehow things were still dumped on her. Women took a lot and was not protected for from black men and the image of the trauma that black men have caused. I also saw my mom wearing a lot of hats and compensating for that trauma. This was a lot of women in my community. Some men still found a way to not appreciate their wives contributions and sacrifice. As a woman I expect more out of leaders. I am retired military and a Nurse so accountability and leadership is a big deal. Men and women both need to go to therapy. However women will go but our men are still struggling. There is a deep rooted resentment towards the black man because from a historical place they did not protect us. They played a huge role in their cooperation with Europeans in the slave trade. So our foundation is jacked. Women were left to carry the load as men were separated from families and were still beat, cheated on and not appreciated for compensating for where the black man dropped the ball. Women have responded to being forced to not trust black men due to years of a lack of accountability in the leadership in our community. Women have taken on this mindset of I can’t trust him to protect me because he’s shown me down through the years and he’s proven that he doesn’t value me. This has been for 100s of years if they know history. However women have proven through sweat blood and tears while broken, their commitment to black men and even to a fault. Women are angry. Everything we have tried to do to support black men is met with a attack from our own men. I have so much more but I’ll shut it down here. I blame black men as the head of our community. It’s always on the leadership. Black women are just now starting to respond to decades of being spit on by black men. I have personally made a conscious effort to communicate thoroughly with my sons by being honest with them about black Womens brokenness. I believe in holding women accountable however I feel it’s moreso expected that the women continue doing more compensating for upholding the black community which has already been done. It was never designed that women do that and we don’t have the capacity to do it. We see the results of women leadership. Men have to take their place. From a realistic point when the deficit has been from the men, that means that’s where most of the rehabilitation is needed. I personally have put more of charge of accountability on my sons who are leaders. So that means he has to first not be super sensitive and offended when he’s met with disrespect. I recognized early their need for therapy as well as mines. So the standard was for us to invest into our own healing first. I tell them to be a beacon of what it is to be respectful and play a part in healing the black woman by their level of protection, provision, selflessness or sacrifice with family and within their community. I encourage them to be what so many has not been from a realistic view. Me and their Father divorced after 4 years because i could not respect his leadership at a certain point. Demons from past trauma in his upbringing resurfaced after his Mother who was abused by his Father had unrealistic expectations of her son. The stress management wasn’t there and even in trying to support him emotionally it just wasn’t enough. This led to substance abuse issues over time. What men go through in court, I have experienced as a black woman. I saw the court go to many lengths to help my ex husband. It was so bad that I had to come out of thousands of dollars from him scheming the system, to illegal tax usage and trying to accuse me of several things like child abuse out of desperation of him gaining custody so he could obtain finances. Of course this was delusional but unfortunately I still had to go through the process. Sometimes I wonder how I was able to remain balanced. Due to my love and respect for my children and As an example to my children, I do my part by still honoring heir father and not running him down. It took lots of work and humility but with the help of God somehow I was able to get through it. I promote love and share how great of a man he was before his sickness. I stress often some of his strongest qualities and work ethic before his illness. Again I keep saying that women are now angry and maybe even bitter and just may need a tad bit more Grace at this point. I still make sure I impact ALL women old and young that I encounter with doing their part and being accountable. Just FYI a lot of the black men in my family are encouraging their daughters to consider other races because they have lost hope in black men and they are not enough good ones available. This is the narrative that black men with daughters are pushing. I really appreciate what you are doing and I share your videos with my 18 year old twin sons often. Especially when you had your brother on here. Thanks so much.
@fromninetothrive2 жыл бұрын
I’m so over these conversations, if these BM no longer want BW then so be it 🤷🏽♀️ ... it’s just so much disrespect & hatred & I don’t understand why do you focus so much in BW if you dislike them so, just move on with who you want & leave us alone. There are so many men in the world that you don’t have to try to force someone to love you
@themarathoncontinues42112 жыл бұрын
Can you please listen? The video/channel is clearly geared towards BM wanting BW, and how to achieve a functional black family. Y’all just hear what u want to hear.
@fromninetothrive2 жыл бұрын
@@themarathoncontinues4211 I understand & commend that but even just judging by the responses of most of the men in the comment section it’s not going to happen, at least not in this generation maybe a couple generations down the line when Black people are almost extinct will they understand the value of loving each other ... but thank you for what you do
@themarathoncontinues42112 жыл бұрын
@@fromninetothrive one thing we must remember is that happy people in relationships don’t tend to make these videos, or comment under them. MOST of the people drawn to this type of content are the unhappy ones: so we can always expect most of the comments/content surrounding these topics to be negative. That doesn’t it’s how we as BM feel about BW overall. If I go to certain channels on YT I’d also feel talking to a BW is a done-deal, but that channel doesn’t rep most of you. Just the very angry ones
@dextersdad69202 жыл бұрын
No you don‘t, they got their own women they don‘t want yall nor should they THEY HAVE THEIR OWN WOMEN. And their women deff not letting yall cross them. Yall keep on shitting in and disrespecting bm if you want to ys gon find out the hard way when as a collective they throw yall outta the community, i promise that ain‘t what ya want, but its gonna be what its gonna be. Niggas getting REAL TIRED of being overlook for thug trash, unproductive men when they are the ones that should be married with families.
@fromninetothrive2 жыл бұрын
@@themarathoncontinues4211 that is true, I kept getting red pill vids pop up in my feed & went down a rabbit hole, it’s a little disturbing.
@TheGr8-12 жыл бұрын
‘Tone’ the same nonsensical deflection they used with KS. It’s BS. Y’all claim to be ‘equals’ yet now you want kid gloves on when critical dialogue takes place? Pleeeeease. Imagine how arrogant one has to be to tell a man how he ‘should’ communicate. This is ridiculous.
@kennethsmith63672 жыл бұрын
This is why men are leaving the dating market and even the country in droves. These women aren’t really trying to improve the obvious problems and men are getting tired of trying.
@broaddusmarines Жыл бұрын
I always start itching when the “black women are more educated” narrative is passed around. Maybe “more enrolled in college” or “more in student loan debt”. I’m sorry, but how “educated” are you when most of these “degrees” are in communications or criminal justice or business administration and not biochemistry or nuclear physics? Also how is this “more educated” narrative be believed when the average black woman still makes about $30,000.00 a year? This is still a good conversation between these two.