Woman Says Her Former Nanny ‘Had A Whole Other Life’

A woman says she fired her nanny after discovering she’d faked a pregnancy and pretended to be her son’s mother. The former nanny says she knows she hurts others but doesn’t intend to.
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[@heybeautiful9360]

Wait she’s how old 21? Are you sure about that? She looks well in her fifties.

[@breeg2331]

💀

[@LoveCorielle]

Seriously

[@AllThingsBeautyBy_Nash]

Lol

[@firstname3993]

Wow

[@holayou2241]

She is 21 on each leg and arm... so she about 84 ....

[@milksips3876]

I feel for this women, she’s clearly got a huge obsessive issue and needs help, a lot of serious help or this could escalate. Must have been very upsetting for the parents as well.

[@thetruepatriot7733]

no way she's 21 yrs old.. 41 is more like it! she's lying about her age to...

[@fitnut_coconuts]

There's a hallmark movie on this situation

[@angelawilliamson2068]

This woman needs help!

[@abriannapylant6505]

Why dose dr. Phil make me think about my math teacher like no hate butttt like 😂😂🤚🥲

[@mialobban2417]

Sorry but her chiclets scare me 👀

[@Koontabby]

I think she lied about her age as well....

[@Ak907Queen]

She was 28 in 2018. Her name is Ashley Bemis

[@Ms777lalaland]

I can’t get up🤣🤣🤣

[@revandenburg]

@@Ak907Queen Seriously doubt she's in her 20's. Mid 30's, maybe.

[@holayou2241]

@@revandenburg more like mid century 😜🤣🤣

[@juliesprik9479]

I agree

[@kimidanger1150]

this woman should never be allowed to be around children ever again

[@alliecat2898]

For sure I feel like she will eventually escalate to actual kidnapping

[@ZizYoubizHERE]

or social media

[@heatherlynsey3092]

I hope she doesn’t have any of her own :(

[@Izyplaysforall]

This is why I’ll never hire a nanny. She’s giving “Orphan” vibes.. scary

[@kimbershark]

@Dylaney Exactly! My friends a nanny and would never do this lol

[@Lulu-mj2fi]

That's like saying you'll never send your kids to school

[@amazonqueen5694]

i get where you come from but this woman has done a list of things I will never do to my friends and family. either way I hope these women find peace.

[@dejapiper3326]

coming from a 20 year old nanny, this is nothing near like how it is

[@heatherlynsey3092]

I’m a nanny and all I do is eat snacks out of the pantry tbh and let the kids stay up like 30 min later 🤣🤣 this shits wild

[@theknifaholic]

I don't know how to say this in a polite way, with some people you can just feel/tell they aren't well mentally ,like the "crazy" vibes are just there at first glance

[@foreveryactionthereisacons1683]

Energy don't lie..

[@love2sing20101]

I can get that from just a photo or video. Especially look at their eyes. Have never been wrong once.

[@jazzyg6059]

That was pretty polite

[@theknifaholic]

@@jazzyg6059 thank you, I hate actively using the word “crazy” descriptively, just lack of better. Personally I think a lot of it has to do with them being not zoned in all the way, so you notice the eyes not focusing properly. Like in their head to much or out of it, but I can’t say for sure.

[@anathimotadi361]

That was pretty polite, I'm absolutely getting those same vibes from her. Sometimes u can just tell🤷‍♀️

[@Justlulzzz]

She looks like she’s in her late 50s

[@SaturnBetter]

fr

[@xl6941]

lol she did wrong but she's beautiful and young

[@staceykersting705]

I'd say at least late 40's-early 50's.

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Late 30s or 40s i think

[@Citrusfruits50]

She had so many “kids” she couldn’t remember all the names 😆

[@georgiadyer665]

Right! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@G3.9-6]

She has an interesting face as well

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Lmao

[@SamaQu]

Heck, I was 1 off 11, this is definitely possible 😂🤣

[@Talkwithtina808]

She probably was planning on stealing that baby

[@prettyhandsomegang5227]

Yes probably would hurt the parents

[@anarchist_parable]

Yup. Don't let strangers touch your kids.

[@faithbaby827]

True

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Agreed lol

[@anneworth8901]

She’s 21 and I am the Queen of England!!!

[@praxym9293]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Thats what im sayin!

[@monsemaniaa]

21 when she started

[@harrypothead5897]

@@monsemaniaa I started being the Fuhrer of Antarctica at 11.

[@robertsilva1016]

You're the Queen of England nice to meet you you Royal Highness queen Anne The First I'm the Emperor of the Terran Empire

[@tillyt4054]

I have a sneaky feeling she’s also lying about her age ......21? 😂

[@rosenbaum75]

At least she's owning up to it on national television. Imagine going on a show like Dr. Phil and sharing your most shameful or embarrassing or effed up secrets for all to see. Seems like she wants help to understand why she's doing this and how to fix it.

[@nessakzares2459]

Agreee

[@rosenbaum75]

@@nessakzares2459 hooray! 🤓

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

I agree. But crazy

[@saphire9823]

Agree . One of the few guests nit in denial and wanting help

[@thornepp6286]

I think she’s disturbed, but I don’t think she’s dangerous, I feel sorry for her that she needs to seek that kind of attention to feel valued, I hope she got help and feels whole and is stable now

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Yes sad

[@culturalresponse2447]

She sounds extremely dangerous. Just cuz she’s a woman and is playing victim doesn’t mean she’s not dangerous

[@lucyziegler]

I feel like she wanted to be a mom and felt like she wanted people to see her as “successful” as the viewed the woman she worked for. And I feel like she was depressed and maybe felt like if people saw “how good” she was doing that she’d feel like she was more successful and be happy with herself about it. Maybe she wants kids of her own but she’s not in a place to have her own real children

[@brandonallen3289]

That would make sense. It doesn't excuse her behavior but she wouldn't be the first woman that did this.

[@staceykersting705]

Exactly!

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

She could adopt lol

[@calistyle95]

Agreed!! She wanted it so much she lied about it.

[@jamstahjam]

No, I actually just feel bad for this woman. Really sad she clearly really wants to be a mum but that's not happening for her.

[@mariapalacios2849]

Her actions scare the men away.

[@bethanynorman1829]

Okay....so.....she’s just gonna keep doing it? 😂

[@crownless5369]

LMFAO

[@KYRA_FX]

She had to end her facade by telling people her son died in a car crash 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Lmao!

[@Nonyah123]

Uhhh she cant be 21 here if she's been doing this since 2008. In 08' she would have been 11 years old.

[@wowso4]

At the time of the filming 2018 she was 28 year old. Someone in the comment mention she lied about her age.

[@prettyhandsomegang5227]

@@wowso4 I mean we knew that

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

Lol

[@darkkitty22]

‘21’😭

[@rubberducky19]

she literally looks like she’s 50

[@pinkdesserts1312]

the way everyone is talking makes it sound like someone is getting murdered by the end

[@marshaanis4057]

Thank God she never hurt those children.

[@CMchyy]

Amen!

[@kimberlysergeant1995]

Whole lotta drama

[@smaschmidt00]

Years ago I confronted a girl on Facebook for doing the exact same thing!! I even went as far as finding the woman who's ultrasound she posted and was claiming as her own and notified her that this girl had stolen her picture and used it saying it was hers. Her "boyfriend" (the girl stealing the pics) started harassing me online which I then blocked him. Honestly not sure if he was even real. Pretty sure it was her using pics of guys to claim as her boyfriend. People are crazy

[@wowso4]

Wow that crazy she’s block and move on they aren’t worth the drama

[@dandaadnad529]

Biggest dr phil gift: reopen the comments during quarantine 🤣🤣 our hero!

[@staceykersting705]

LOL...but it's freakin' Dr Phil...he's such a phony.

[@FreeSpirit47]

Having dealt with people who have done similar to this, I would err on the side of compassion. What could have happened to this girl to cause her to do these things. That is all I can do is wonder.

[@XXgenderloveXY]

Yes. Thank you for reminding me of this. It's so easy to judge...

[@susannah8342]

Honestly I don't think she would physically hurt the children, I think she's just lonely.

[@Lulu-mj2fi]

@@susannah8342 not an excuse!! This is scary!! She needs help!

[@dallasfarms1907]

She really needs help

[@tyheclayton473]

I feel sorry for her I myself had a miscarriage my husband and I been married for 7 years no kids

[@LoveAlways1002]

🙏🏽😘💕

[@thatonecreepydoll5527]

Praying for you i hope you will be able to adopt ❤️✝️

[@murtl5595]

Praying and sending love and hope🙏❤️

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Im sorry.. but adoption is always a answer!

[@froggyyyy107]

This is really late but I hope you’re able to fufill your dream of a child in whichever way you’d like

[@renarenald3123]

Just get your own damn baby.

[@irenealvarez1337]

I’m glad that crazy lady doesn’t have kids

[@mckinneymisses78]

PERIOD

[@mississippiqueen2u]

Thank goodness y’all! She never physically hurt any of the children. What she did was wrong on every level.

[@XxheymoonxX]

ik the irony...but she straight up looks like the other mother from coraline. those eyes!

[@melgirl50]

'' that was absolutely not me'' while she's nodding yes unconsciously.

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Lmao!

[@flixtrue6300]

Body language is very difficult to hide

[@anarchist_parable]

"Her stories were a little creative" see people stay dismissing crazy. She knew that woman wasn't right.

[@krishneenaidoo3727]

She should appear on SNL - caption - “All my Fake Children”

[@ahill4642]

ooo that could be really funny, actually… 🤔

[@valeriedorr3913]

THAT GIRL IS CRAZY HOLY-

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

YES

[@2TMarie]

Why do most people that you hire and allow into your life, eventually, lose their marbles?

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

For real

[@hongyangli3407]

She looks sixty....

[@birksolberg8205]

6 million views, 8 comments, somethings wrong

[@sashaburton9042]

The comments were off forever! I’m so glad they’re opening them up

[@jasmineseaman853]

i mean at least she admits to it and actually went on the show

[@kittenmittens4387]

Other posts say to show her compassion, but as both a Nanny & Tutor, what she did was way over the professional line! This wasn't just a casual friend. This was a professional caregiver. I don't even post kids I work with because that is disrespecting the child's privacy

[@MyDuckSaysFucc]

I could see this escalating to munchausen by proxy

[@sarahb7754]

I'm curious on what dr. Phil is gonna diagnose her with! 😂

[@lololala785]

She really could benefit from getting the life like dolls and living her happy, weird life that way.

[@goose7574]

I have to say that I give this girl props for being honest. I'm sure that's not easy to do. And for those who might think that I think what she did was okay, *NO!!!* That's not what I'm saying, nor would I ever say. She obviously had/has some kind of psychological issues that need help.

[@Nelson__K]

they probably lured her in with a promise of cash

[@Africanvillagetee]

I pray she get a baby of her own one day

[@susannah8342]

She doesn't seem that she had any bad intent towards the kids, realty just looks like she's lonely

[@jakeherter]

I agree, she can get on her feet and adopt a needing baby. Obviously she is very lonely.

[@nessakzares2459]

@@susannah8342 she genuinely looks happy in the pics with the kids

[@4dyamondx745]

That is why you have to be extremely careful of who you hire to watch your children, these women keep hiring nannies to raise their children vs doing it themselve.

[@RoyalRoses]

People kinda have to work... and these "women"??? You do realize a child has 2 parents, right? Both equally responsible for their kid? Are we magically in the year 1930 again?🤔

[@rachel4339]

@@RoyalRoses some people choose to work, for the sake of a career, even when they'd be financially stable without it. They prioritize that over the proven benefits of raising your children yourself, so they choose the proven negatives of leaving them with strangers in their homes or daycares.

[@betterbetty3542]

I would be horrified. If she’s capable of doing that, who knows what else she’s capable of doing? Especially when she’s has your infant child in her grasp. I don’t think I’d ever be able to trust anyone ever again if I were these moms. It’s so scary.

[@zicari21]

That’s not that big of a deal. I would have let her use my kids pictures. She probably needs her own child is all.

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

She could adopt tho. And yeah its not a huge huge deal. But still a little weird lol

[@tuesdaypatience]

Man, it’s only $50~$100 for a full background check on someone. That is a very small price to pay when hiring and/or bringing someone into our homes and, more importantly, into our kids’ lives. I’m a registered in home daycare provider, so the state runs a thorough background check on everyone over a certain age in my household (I believe it was over 16yrs).

[@keitumetseolivier5242]

She cannot be 21 🙆🤯

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

[@jamescadzow9545]

How creative Nanny the Narc... It's all about ME.. LOOK AT ME...

[@happycatlady2012]

"Being a mom is what I want the most" Christ that is scary 😨

[@cookingwithiyana7078]

She’s sick af her way of thinking is just beyond earth it self I cannot understand how someone can actually act this out

[@niamhha9014]

She must’ve got her ideas from TV dramas. These shows reveal that characters have entire double-lives and kill characters off after behind the scenes inconveniences😂. In all seriousness, this is scary.

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Just like breaking bad lmao

[@jabarnes77]

Dr. Phil is really hurting for guests. Clearly this woman needs help and love. How much hurt did she really cause?

[@ewjiml]

Well, if you had a crazy nanny who betrayed your trust with your children, that would change how you parent and who they see alone. I’d say it caused a lot of hurt.

[@ghettoprincess_80]

She falsely accused her mom's boyfriend of rape and destroyed his life because she "thought he wasn't good enough for her mom". I'd say that's about as disgusting as it gets.

[@dragonbutler8325]

That whole belly looks fake af

[@ifinallyfoundthebeef]

Ashley looks a little touched.

[@courtneywhitefield9183]

At least she was honest and not in denial like most.

[@cr4rdanglr661]

Yo

[@anoblesteed5685]

Hey

[@4ng31a.]

Hii

[@anniebanannie3492]

Hullo

[@madeleinebrown9973]

hiya

[@slc2222]

heya

[@brandongarcia3478]

Why don't she just get married and have kids

[@dherrod9097]

I'm sorry I have had 6 miscarriages 0 kids as bad as I want to be a mom. I would NEVER go this far. I'll adopt before I get this bad.

[@amajozmaize24]

At least she’s being honest & not denying it

[@moyo6606]

She looks like Dee Reynolds from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I could definitely see Sweet Dee doing exactly this

[@erin8492]

Dee Reynolds is prettier than her, but I definitely agree with you. Lol

[@gailhollinger2398]

She aint no damn 21she at least 35-40

[@pauliina_784]

She wanted a goal and that's called "modeling as a parentée"

[@K3mama]

Wow smh just wow

[@nikkig7982]

Thank goodness that she didn't try to kidnap that baby for her own!!!!!

[@SuperTyrannical1]

They could make this into a Hollywood thriller. You would just amend the end to have the crazy lady attempt to remove the real mother and assume her role as the mother or something. It's like a Hollywood script similar to something like Fatal Attraction in feel. 😐

[@tiffanycameron2856]

She Looks crazy...

[@allys744]

What she did was horrible. But she is owning up to what she did or at least that’s what it looked like. She does have problems but she does seem sorry.

[@lissa1695]

This so sad

[@taylorxsalas]

I don’t even want a fake husband girl you’re trippin

[@ElectricShark]

She needs therapy and real friends to tell her the truth, not enablers

[@linwai4197]

She's 21? 😬

[@Guernsey576]

She was when she did this.

[@JusticeForNicholeAlloway]

Dr. Phil does shows like these and then wonders why people are paranoid in other shows. Honestly, who would do something like this? It's NUTS, who would believe it??

[@youhavesmallpp1048]

Hey lol

[@ahmedalmansoori5631]

0:35 straight out of a horror movie.....

[@trinalee5370]

I mean..at least she’s being honest🤷‍♂️that’s more than I can say for most Dr Phil guests😂

[@lililavine170]

If their r red flags please don’t avoid them

[@auntieshugah9330]

I agree

[@lettucetacoboutit7974]

Ugggh FULL EPISODES PLEASE!!!!

[@bandoja5084]

She look scary

[@84sillyme]

40 yrs old woman

[@Stephknight9317]

This sound like a LMN movie

[@Ronkyort0dox]

I want to do this

[@Eee-ln3uv]

Ashley looks like Fred from Courage the cowardly dog

[@gillianround1958]

Give Hera slap cheeky saying them are her kids lier

[@antoikirs6277]

Cookoo

[@sexyskittles6822]

Coo Kah loo

[@breadman6223]

Forever 21? Nah, looks 42.

[@blondechick9804]

She looks scary..You can tell something is not right with this woman.

[@snowflakeedits05]

You know what, I'll give her this. At least she was honest and told the truth and didn't deny anything, unlike a lot of other people in her place. Edit: Okay well maybe for most of it... I'll still give it to her because she told more of the truth than others have.

[@margaretcollins9382]

Well, she was probably well paid to tell the truth.

[@prim.an.propher1505]

I wouldnt had trusted her to begin with...her eyes too far apart

[@halfdemon4lifeintime]

So those are the pregnancy photo she posted and what she looked like while "pregnant" and no one knew she was faking? Honestly she's insane

[@ratgurl3010]

omg she has the same name that's rare

[@2Ryled]

I wouldn't let my child go off with the nanny. EVER

[@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454]

Right!?!

[@nancyvargas9055]

She needs professional help!!!

[@cindynuchi5488]

She is crazyyy

[@agr8tyme]

Note to self... do not put pictures of my kids on the internet. Any creeper like this one can steal them.

[@teemaro5703]

Reasons why I won't post my kids on the internet.

[@KatieSalib]

I feel bad for her, geeezus