10 SIGNS That Show YOU are a CLASSY LADY

Hello my Elegant ladies!
My penultimate video discussed 10 indicators of classless behaviour. In this video, I talk about 10 signs that show you are a classy woman of elegance.
Please stay with me as I point out some very important issues that will spear you in the trajectory of elegance.

[@ObeyDaqSwaqq]

I found your channel in 2021 and completely reformed myself. My Nana sent me one of your videos about three months ago, completely unaware that I found your channel, and now we have a commonality 😂 She really adores you and your brand. She was so pleased with me the last time she saw me and saw my new found femininity and elegance through my new wardrobe and mannerisms. I took a lot of inspiration from you and went and bought cashmere‘s, wool, and silks. Now, every time I leave my house I’m dressed to perfection and I get so many compliments and respect. I don’t even wear trousers anymore, only skirts and dresses, and I even started wearing modest head coverings. The attention I get is overwhelmingly positive from women as well as men (yes they do still give compliments and open doors for women of elegance) and I feel so confident now dressing in a manner that is appropriate for business, casual, church, or brunch at all times. I now have a positive self image by looking presentable and elegant and feel even prettier 💁🏽‍♀️💜 Thank you 🙏🏽

[@WomanOfElegance]

Beautiful! Thank you for sharing my Elegant lady! I wish you the very best life has to offer❤

[@Espresskonbansu900]

Well done !

[@misschalwessels8765]

Thank you really appreciate your video

[@MrX-zz2vk]

"The rains in Spain are mainly in the plains..." Audrey Hepburn as Eliza Doolittle in My Fair Lady

[@babycakes1402]

It is true that if you dress & behave in the way you want to be treated, it will make a noticeable difference.

[@NasiruddinSk-r3m]

The fact that nobody talks about the book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance.

[@faithhope4703]

1. Dress well 2. Speak articulately, kindly and gracefully to others. No room for negativity 3. She is independent( Does not financially rely on your man, you deliberately have to take care of your bills) 4. You know when to talk and when to stay silent 5. You are kind and considerate of others' feeling 6.Don't idle away from your time(Make productive use of your time and follow through your goals) 7. High self-esteem ( You know your worth, you don't let your past, other people's view or opinion change you). Stay humble while being confident. Strive to be better each day. 8. She possess a self control 9. Your knowledge of current affairs (She follows global and local affairs around her) 10. You avoid emotional outbursts both online and offline

[@nichellenunya]

Thanks

[@MissBrendaLeeGertman]

Does not class have to be within oneself?

[@SarahEvansCunningham23]

Tx you for taking time to post this. Greatly appreciated

[@bonitabonita3431]

Thannk YoUu & May God Richly Bless YoUu & your entire family! I post lists from these posts as well!!! I appreciate this so very much!.. cutting to-the-chase♥️♥️♥️💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@faithhope4703]

@@bonitabonita3431 🙏🙏 Amen, I receive it. May God abundant blessings be on you as well as your family too🙏

[@visutor]

I am 76 years old. in a correct way, I wish I was 19 years old now. Your videos are eminently educational not just for the woman who wishes to have class and elegance but also for any real gentleman who wishes to be in the company of her grace. Thank you for the time and attention you share with so many who care about and respect your service.

[@lucindamoran8686]

Beautiful! Thank you lovely lady! I agree with everything you say! I have tried to live my life in a lady like manner as my dear mother instructed me. I am sorry to say that some women are not as fortunate, or didn't have anyone to show them or don't care nowadays. However you my dear are beautiful and refreshing and a joy to listen to. Many Thanks!

[@kyaligonzagladshanteljojo2293]

V True

[@siphiwetsoari6456]

Thanks for sharing this information .I would share this with my daughter too.

[@princesshind1059]

I am 19 years old,and your comment made me appreciate my passion to learn and be educated at a young age.

[@rshdaanpu6942]

Thank you for creating such an interesting channel. Ever since I was in grade school I remember checking out almost every book dealing with etiquette. These books explained in great detail everything from the proper way to walk downstairs to how to set a dining table. Finding your channel was like finding a dear friend with whom I lost contact. I'm looking forward to enjoying future videos and I've already subscribed and hit the like and notification bell. With warm regards.

[@shellycove9140]

I came from a poor family, yet my mother love to sew and made me the most beautiful clothes as a child and teenager, with very little money she took me to the ballet, to learn to ballroom dance, to go to art galleries and so on. My favourite thing she said to me is “first impressions count you can dress with style without much money and look well put together, have manners and kindness” everyone used to think we lived in a beautiful home, little did they know we were poor. I have continued to care about my grooming and presentation all my life, I also learned about etiquette which helped me refine myself. My mum had wise words. It’s easy to look good on a budget, so there are no excuses. Being a kind person with manners is free too Thank you for such a great video, it reminded me of my wonderful wise mother.

[@erikathomas5801]

Yes all you said is true. I remember I was homeless at one point, couch to couch; some nights in my car and people thought I was just living my best life because the way I presented myself but nope majority of those days I was sad and hungry lol.

[@shellycove9140]

@@erikathomas5801 that is amazing resilience to be able to be able to hold your head high and be your true elegant self whilst going through these times. We need to have that inner self respect to stay positive when deep down we are doing the best to thrive during tough times. I can relate to what you have been through. Thanks for sharing.

[@professordumbledore369]

Your mother is a wonderful woman

[@shellycove9140]

@@professordumbledore369 thank you to all the wonderful mothers out there xxxxx

[@Pompolo_pom]

Your mom was a wonderful mother. My mom passed when I was seven. I had to teach myself everything I know. As you said the impressions matter a lot. I learned to look good with little money or nothing that I have. I taught myself to dress very well using cheap clothes. My classmates in boarding school used to think I was a selfish girl who didn’t want to share with them. They used to think I come from a rich family based on my appearance.

[@beautyofsensuality]

"You are addressed the way you dress." - definitely a quote to remember ❤️

[@alungakabuasa]

Yes. however, we should not address someone poorly just because they are not properly dressed. Elegant ladies respect everyone no matter the attire. Let’s just remember people who don’t dress properly for an occasion is lacking knowledge. We should address that with empathy or as an opportunity to educate with purest intentions and not as if the person is less deserving of human respect.

[@ketega]

That quote stood out to me as well

[@ngatiramona]

@@alungakabuasa Beautifully said!!

[@pheliwemashiyi8835]

So true

[@ennythingelegance]

@@alungakabuasa you’re right

[@JJ-jo3rl]

I love this! I wish that etiquette and manners could be taught in schools as a requirement (not for a one day or week) along with real life skills such as personal hygiene, financial skills, gardening, taking care of small animals, volunteering in the community, simple cooking skills, and safety in various situations. Yes people may say these are things the parents or caregivers should instill in children, yeah but many don’t. I believe these are the most important skills to build strength and character in becoming a young adult and will carry a young person farther than what is currently taught in schools curriculum.

[@antheawilliams-dodds4941]

So true, and sometimes parents do not instill because they do not have such knowledge to impart.

[@anarcho-communist11]

YES. School curriculums need to be updated for the dealing with the real, modern world. A lot of parents aren't teaching their kids how to.

[@amarrookie1097]

Still ready to learn but from where ?

[@lubanya7841]

I agree with you 100%. So many important and needed knowledge that can be prioritised in teaching little children at school than teaching them about sex and other vulgarities.

[@susanb5058]

I agree with you 100%!! These things seem to be currently lacking in society for whatever reason. They are essential skills and character attributes that would greatly improve people’s lives and society as a whole if they were taught in school, as unfortunately they are not always taught at home.

[@joannaferrara5884]

I think also another one is to be discreet, not tell everyone your personal business or about your life. Just my thoughts. Thank you for your videos!!!

[@joannaferrara5884]

@@reneeparsons Good idea!! Journal!

[@marysbeachcondo7081]

Great advice, only wish I'd heard it growing up!

[@yaldaafg6823]

This video is almost 17 min but better than hours of the most lectures. Thank you ❤

[@mariannefidel]

Agree!! I enjoy watching it too.

[@luizamoura9193]

Absolutely!

[@rebeccastewart8367]

Hello, I am 72 years old but still want to improve myself. And you are just what I need to hear and see!

[@yvaalexis8675]

So Am I

[@beautifulheart7]

This is just so inspiring! I feel like practicing my Christian values is what an elegant woman is! Thank you 😊 💓 ☺️

[@arlenecollier2011]

I feel the same. It’s stunning how God’s way of suggested living shows up in women as elegance. We win on both sides.

[@iamnicolewebster]

I agree 😊

[@prophetesstheresaatkins6111]

This is so true

[@ennythingelegance]

Yes, it is. God’s standards should always be the first level of standards. However, some aspects of elegance don’t necessarily come as mandatory requirements for being a Christian, for example, table manners. So, see elegance as an extra level of standard.

[@sharinekb]

I agree. I've seen elegant women in church. Some have their own careers, some are retired, and some are home taking care of their household. All of these women have wisdom and elegance. They're also humble.

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

I love being feminine. I keep things together...for myself as well as for my husband. Thank you for your helpful videos.

[@prophetchrist1994]

This is emotional intelligence at its finest. Gentlemen, we must secure and protect such ladies at all costs. When she speaks, we cannot tell the color of her skin from the majestic vowels within her wit. She is a phenomenal woman. The priceless kind I predict

[@youtubesweaty3492]

Well done thats class for you.

[@samanthaemm3854]

You sir are an absolute king❤

[@prophetchrist1994]

@@samanthaemm3854 It takes royalty to perceive royalty, princess.

[@lennysabi4173]

Mmmmmm I know many elegant women who are provided for by men.elegant is a personality translated into physical appearance.

[@wisdomwayne]

Vivian! Persevere in this work! Actually - publish these notes! As a black man I cannot contain my delight in hearing such refreshing teaching and example. Every blessing!!! Shine on!!!😊

[@NDCCwithTC]

I just came across your channel. As a man I am so blessed and impressed with your very excellent teaching on a subject that is almost completely lost in this generation. So very, very blessed to hear!!! If I may say this you reflect perfectly the subject and it is obvious you practice what you preach!!! TC

[@dianewarde6074]

You are truly a woman of elegance and class. I just found this video today at the age of 70! As a retired educator, I can only imagine what a beautiful world we would have if your videos were a full on course that could be taught to girls in schools all over the word. Kids today need to feel their self worth, and to enforce it with good manners and concern form others. Thank you for providing these lessons. You exude poise and grace.

[@katyarnold-ji8sv]

Thank you! Woman Of Elegance. I agree with " You Have No Room For Negativity". " You Don't Entertain Negativity". I appreciate this video. I love how you explain how a woman of Elegance should act accordingly and how she treats herself and others. I am learning so much from this video. I consider myself a work in progress. Everything you are saying in this video is 100% correct. I will subscribe to this your channel so I can learn more to become a woman of Elegance and a woman of God also. Thank you. Blessings sis!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊

[@jennasy2010]

INSPIRED! I had a successful 20+ years in tech sales & management. My grandson was born unhealthy, and his mother passed away. I’ve spent over 4 years @ home caring for children. In the next twelve months I will return to career mode. I am 50 feeling as though I’ve lost many social skills as an adult. Thank you for your inspiration and reminders in being a lady. I’m gearing up!

[@anitafordham6433]

😅😅😅

[@Necky.N]

Hey darling! Much love.Being Elegant is not only by dressing but by manners also.

[@KarLaLoVe]

Good morning This was stated in the video 3:15 she was specific. Happy vibes 💕💕💕🌴🇺🇸

[@kellywilson3488]

But she include everything

[@stephaniecampbell6155]

She said it over and over how to speak and all that listen again

[@metube0309]

Manners - exactly what she's promoting

[@carmenhall7958]

I love this message and I truly Agreed to everything you said! I am a 62 year old woman and I have always value my self as a Classy Lady!

[@dianemcintyre4931]

But let's not be rude happy father's day ❤

[@marybethmckenzie1888]

SOOOO refreshing to see a woman of the WORLD who is able to connect with the world. Such important, global advice. Thank you!!!!! You highlight it is not about a brand label, cultural background etc., it is about presentation, speaking language correctly (whatever language!) - wherever and whenever you are. Dignity. Truly international, and from my experience intercultural - wherever you are or where you came from.

[@felistersmumo8682]

I am becoming more elegant, mysterious, and learning every day.

[@ernucialuce2713]

I love your videos Viviane. I love your powerful words and quotations. I am glad I found your channel

[@lynneplis4793]

The concept of inner and outer elegance dovetails beautifully with the path to mindful and minimal living. You articulate so well how elegance does not have to equate to vanity. It’s a teaching tool, a reflection of higher values. Thank you for your message 💕

[@juliethoward5402]

Very informative .THANKS.

[@redeemed5906]

First and foremost, LOVE the hair. Thanks again for such a powerful message!!!

[@joeria]

Control yourself and obviously your appetite 💯

[@normasmith9516]

I'm certainly uplifted, motivated and rebooted to update some areas in my life. Eligence is how I live; however, there is room for improvements. You have helped me to do that. Thank you

[@cinder8290]

All good points. I strive daily to be a woman of elegance. I am financially dependent on my husband though, it brings him great joy to make the living. I keep our home spotless and do many little things for him that he enjoys. It's old fashioned and we love it.

[@lisahileman6727]

Oh well, no elegance for you then! 😂😂😂😂

[@cherkhawa]

I m exactly the same. A house wife and a full time mom😂

[@monica1047]

I'm a teacher and my husband is a physician. I am proud to be a kept wife! My husband loves it as do I.

[@cinder8290]

@@monica1047 that’s wonderful.

[@cinder8290]

@@cherkhawa I love it. I live in a small town in Manitoba and there are lots of stay at home moms here.

[@mlowe7245]

Your hair style looks very nice. Thank you for all your videos

[@lindabollea9175]

not talking on your phone while you are checking g out , or with ppl that actually came to see how you are doing .

[@lifewithcynthiara7951]

Watching you on a daily basis is so soul edifying.It is becoming a special kind of therapy for me enjoying my level up journey.Thankz Vivi💐💐💐

[@angieatvegas]

Personal Hygiene is #1 You can look elegant and refined and smell like hell. ! ! ! Discussing

[@aditiroy4693]

Polite & sincere manner of talking is the best dress. Every adult can see thru genuineness of every dressed person. Be s/he a beggar or queen/king.Its plain truth.

[@briaismariehelene7957]

A lot of narcissist love to be élégant but inside they are just horrible, that's why I prefer someone simply dressed and not elegant but kind and true, I repeat, a lot of people taking too much care of themself are so self centered and just show only huge pride and don't care at all about the others, don't respect others. Their priorities are only themself.

[@lisacranmer8005]

Agree and they have low self-esteem and causes other's to avoid getting into conflicts to keep peace.

[@carolinew6095]

I am also from the uk and am listening and nodding. I was blessed to be raised to use good manners and am saddened by how these manners seem to be disappearing in general. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and wisdom.

[@ennythingelegance]

I agree. It seems people don’t care much about good manners and that’s why it’s important we are bold enough to keep talking about it.

[@cherie4945]

My mother taught me "Good manners and etiquette never go out of style." It would be nice if you could do an episode for the gentlemen. Chivalry and etiquette on part of the well mannered male are also appreciated. I.e opening doors for the lady, and standing up when a lady enters a room. May be old fashioned, but just my preference.

[@Chahlie]

The way people act around 'free' food is amazing. I work as a catering server and we often do promotional type events where there are free nibbles. The behaviour can be unbelievable.

[@rebelwithacause2229]

You should see my coworker when there is leftover food from a catered lunch or extra donuts from a breakfast meeting. She’s gross.

[@ginaantoine9696]

UNLESS YOU ARE LYING, BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT CRAZY TO WRITE SOMETHING LIKE THAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA. IF I WERE YOU, I WOULD THINK TWICE BEFORE I MADE SUCH DECISION. (JUST AN ADVICE)

[@mlisasweeney4308]

I had to start this again. Love what you said so much! Pointe number two. Especially vulgarity. Love cherish people and stay clear of those toxic , negative people that bring you down. This is my second time seeing you and you have great words of wisdom.

[@praisemagalasi439]

Me too number 2 I like

[@snookk2862]

I guess the fake nails and makeup kicks me out. I love my natural.

[@glamgalnorth6320]

I am glad I found you because I am an elegant woman with class and very independent.

[@lubanya7841]

I'm with you sis❤. Thumbs up. Can't be stated otherwise. Our sisters need to know a woman does not need to go almost naked next to a well dressed up male to be elegant. Stop selling yourself cheap to gain attention.

[@ashleykindheartministries]

I love your advice on kindness, responsibility and discipline!! I’m in the process of making a lot of changes in becoming more disciplined myself.😊❤️

[@itstuff4744]

Bravo dear Lady. I entirely agree with you. I am 76 years old and I simply love you and what you say. Thank you with all my heart.

[@crystabellight2414]

Yes! This is an evidence that I am indeed a classy woman. I am proud to say a 10/10 classy lady! Wow! I am an amazing classy woman

[@poppy6488]

Modest also?

[@mariannefidel]

Thanks for teaching us to be kind and more loving toward ourselves!! Let's be all a classy lady

[@lovelylauz02]

Love love love your content! It's not easy being different and a classy lady when classlessness gets praise and attention. I have always had a problem with watching trash TV and shows that are completely mindless. We can all be entertained, but once we start talking about people on TV like we know them and want to analyze their silly behavior, it goes too far. These should be the basics for all women, but sadly not all of us were taught these things (I was, by my mother and grandfather). I need to find classy ladies in my area to spend time with. We are a rare breed indeed!

[@ennythingelegance]

This is so true. The important thing is to always stay try to yourself and the standards you live by. It’s a blessing to be able to identify that there’s a problem with being on the other side.

[@ShineShayanEvangelistar3777]

Vivian so very beautiful lady .blessed with wisdom

[@AuntieKimB]

I needed to hear these points of a classy Lady again because sometimes we forget who we are...Thank you ☺️

[@janethnjnbv.plsstrato9350]

Hello Vivian! Thank you so much for the wonderful and powerful Tips, keep up the good work! love your hairstyle.

[@elizabethhamilton1166]

I appreciate that you encourage women to treat others with respect! Thank you!

[@OnlyOne_Her]

Vivian I smile whenever I see your face. I love your presence

[@caretomatter9388]

What a wonderful video! I greatly appreciate your 10 points and I am sharing your video with my network. The world would be a much better place with the principles taught here. With a tear of happiness, I thank you so very much.

[@Francia868]

You are beautiful and brilliant. This is a 21st Century version of being the markers of a CLASSY LADY. You communication style is clear, succinct and authentic! You are simply wonderful!

[@rikkiharcourt3868]

This is one of the things I regret is no longer a basic requirement for ourselves and from other people beginning with our politicians and people on our TV and media. The shouting and arguing is mighty near a brawl sometimes and cuts out respect for our decision makers and influencers. Those were the good old days when reasoned behaviour was pretty much the norm. Thank you for so charmingly advising us to remember these golden points to help us present ourselves and deal with others. Maybe it will be catching and become fashionable again.

[@thabitakgobe7726]

Sad truth there

[@ennythingelegance]

I love how we are able to speak on the different aspects of elegance and our thoughts still align. Whenever I listen to you, I get reassured that I’m thinking in the right direction and putting out the right information🙂. I also come here to remind myself of the truth.❤

[@vikkismith7497]

Every adults who are in their right minds have class. But there are different classes. There is top class, low class and no class. Those are the three classes I remember now. Sorry I'm not only talking about women. Principles of good characters is what makes people who they're and not their attire and appearances

[@mdsisay1626]

I love your channel! You have definitely increased my path to elegance to a different level!

[@celinenguyen9461]

I totally agree with you on point number 10. Rather focusing improving ourselves than focus on online dramas. Your video is really an inspiration. Thank you 😊

[@deesticco1719]

Eloquently articulated ! Very much needed to impart on women! Thank you for your efforts to help women! Peace within you is world ☮️ is in progress.- 🌸Dee Sticco

[@louannratliff8489]

What a wonderful video! You are truly providing much needed sets of values and skills. Good on you! Keep strong and carry on!

[@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64]

Praise the Lord! You are absolutely right about not using profanity and vulgarity. Sometimes I walk into the the ladies locker room at my gym and I'm astonished at the language that comes out of the mostly young women's mouths. I rarely hear this language from women that appear to be about 35 years old or older. This makes me think this younger generation has just not learned how to act as elegant women. This is unfortunate.

[@davisholman8149]

So sad…makes what is a cute girl turn ugly…😞

[@user-pc5rf2xn1l]

Because being crude is considered cool in this younger generation

[@nansubugachristine5575]

Wooow thx dear pretty ♥️♥️ for teaching us n' encouraging ♥️♥️

[@ladylovesherlord]

We all could benefit from being taught proper etiquette, but I believe that true elegance is an innate quality, and not everyone has it, and that is okay. Some people are more relaxed and casual in their approach to life than poised and polished. We are all born with our natural characteristics. What is most important is that we stay true to who we really are. Otherwise, a more casual person comes off as putting on airs and a poised person comes off as condescending. True elegance is more than adopting a wardrobe, a proper dialect, and keeping your composure. It is a gracefulness that emanates from within, is an integral part of who you are, and it shows in every facet of your life. It's more than a lifestyle. It is who you truly are.

[@nancymbogo8916]

Very true We need to balance it wholly

[@rbellishere88]

This is all that needs to be said. True elegance is embedded in ones DNA and reflected in their behavior for the World to see. You can acquire and learn all the eliminates of elegance...but if it's not innate...you will be forever faking it. Thank you, Lady Loves Her Lord. Love forever---The Rose 🌹

[@SuperMeg1978]

Thank you so much for all your advice and reminders. I recommend your channel since I've gotten such wisdom and knowledge. Keep up the good work!

[@marlotree6909]

"You cannot buy style...." true, best expression I heard from someone

[@snowyskylar8821]

Nice to see your natural curls. Looking good

[@marimoteatime5144]

You look beautiful! Thank you for the video and encouragement.

[@proudmganda1159]

I am glad to have you back Lady Vivian ❤

[@D.Dee_]

Thank you for sharing your knowledge. The video is really helpful.

[@princessirulancorrino4695]

Dear Miss Vivienne: You are glowing in today’s video. You are my favorite elegant and classy lady. Thank you so much for your advice and wisdom.

[@rachellakhi7752]

I don't know about this, it's just so White, and te models white.I also think you talking about a perfect world where there is no racism, and where women are treated fairly....You actually saying women must be seen and not heard, hmmmm

[@kmc1994]

Agreed

[@ma.theresapiedad2949]

I'm glad I've found your channel. Such a good reminders for us ladies/woman to act rightfully towards our mannerism and daily catch up in life. You embodied a positive manner which is supposed to be a standard of a woman for being confident in a pros and cons situation in this cruel world. I definitely agreed with all the classy talks on this topic. I will follow it and keep it reminded as 6 of the qualities I believe are already on my system. So furthermore to expand and generate the other 4 remaining so that i can consider myself a classy woman of my own. Thanks to you and God bless❤

[@damayanthierajaramaweerako2731]

Great guidance. Being disciplined and mindful of what you deliver from the mind, words and actions will always take you to great heights. ❤💐❤

[@valeriekelly315]

In other words you must be perfect ! Only the Lord will bring that about ! Sorry, but what you are advocating is impossible to achieve on your own x

[@cherylmahalak8251]

Being elegant requires being a lady...not being rich or poor...having a humble attitude about your speech and dressing modestly.

[@valeriekelly315]

@@cherylmahalak8251 What I was trying to emphasise was that being elegant is only a very small part in being a true woman .It takes a lifetime. You wont be very elegant up to your knees in mud supporting your grandson in his football match, or scrubbing the floorboards with sugar soap to keep them going ! Lighten up, at 84, I know what I'm talking about. God Bless you all😘

[@caroldanson5476]

People do judge a book by it's cover and I have always dressed well and people did notice. Even during COVID I dressed first thing in the morning and put my makeup on whether I am going out or not. My speaking does need to be improved.

[@kindell1]

You're so beautiful. I feel like you and I would make good friends. I try to carry myself as a lady at all times, and alot of women these days don't. So that leaves me with a small selection of women to befriend. Honestly, I feel that some obnoxious loud women see feminine classy women as a threat. They don't want to admit it, but they have a false sense of pride in who they are. Men love classy women though

[@angwistephanietv]

It's been a while so good to see you again , welcome back with great tips as always

[@demetriasmason2001]

I love this video! Everything she said exudes my personality and characteristics. So inspirational for women who are classy such as myself.

[@mariadykeman7008]

I was about 40 years old when a dear friend said to me" never forget you are a lady her words were more precious to me than gold".

[@BeenasFamilyKitchen]

Very beautifully explained. Your new subscriber. Thanks for sharing

[@knowledgeispowerfful]

To be honest, I never knew what being elegant was until I listened to this video and OMG! I kid you not, I fit into all 10 points you've mentioned. New sub here, I want to learn more about my elegant self 🌹😇✌️🙏 Thanks for sharing

[@lulu5122]

Two of us

[@nsamaai]

Thank you 🙏🏼 💟✝️🛐You are the embodiment of Christian Femininity and a wonderful and true representation of elegance and leadership. This truth is necessary for women of this world need to aspire to!!!!✅🙏🏼👍🏽😎😘

[@sulusu4812]

I would like to add to this wonderful video the power of kindness. I haven't been well & honestly am not looking sharp ect, but went to the store for groceries & was kind to everyone I met, genuinely complimented the cashier on her very cool earrings & could tell that these incredibly small & seemingly insignificant things really uplifted people & they were often able to spread that positivity & brightness to the next person. I think above all have confidence in our presence & what that brings to the world is the classiest thing yet. Take care everyone. 💛

[@mime3763]

THAT'S WHAT I WAS ABOUT TO SAY, " SOMETIMES I FEEL CLASSY AND SOMETIMES I FEEL TRASHY....EITHER WAY, @ THE END OF THE DAY, ... I'M NOT ALWAYS THE CLASSY LADY, BUT ALL WOMAN. I GET THE LOVING JOB, DONE. FIRST TO MYSELF, THEN OUT TO ALL OTHERS WHO NEED IT MOST, FROM OUT OF MY OVERFLOW!!!"❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌷❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃❤️❤️🌹🌷🌷💋💋💋🌷🌷🌹❤️💃💃❤️🌹🌹🌷👠👠💄💄💄💅💅💅👛💄💄👠👠💄💅💅👛💄💄👠👠

[@shellycove9140]

Kindness to others is very Nobel and classy

[@irene4770]

Well done 👏🏿

[@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314]

Having a good heart is all that matters. Yeah a shower and good dressing is a plus, too but we all have our days. May God bless you abundantly in all areas of your life. Amen.

[@karyannfontaine8757]

I think you are wonderful! Little threads of kindness make a huge difference.

[@elizdonovan5650]

Elegant lady sharing her wisdom. Thank you. ☘️🌝🌲

[@mambojambo1255]

You are absolutely right. A very sophisticated lady , thank you so much .

[@tiffanyb6420]

Your presence and eloquence are a testament to your elegance. I enjoy your content. It’s both self-elevating and altruistic.

[@janifambera5087]

Hey V Thanks for the information its worth it

[@cynthiacarter770]

Also you speak with humility and confidence

[@titiola6363]

I'm so grateful I found your channel ☺️. I have gotten immense value from the content in your videos. Your videos have been very helpful in making me become a better and more elegant person🥰. Thank you very much and well done😊.

[@snowbear1877]

What do they mean by negativity? Isn't much of life negative? Just look at the news or history, family life or the fact that 50 percent of marriages break up.

[@flavia5410]

Thank you so much Viviane for this!!!💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

[@selamselam6517]

I would love to hear this every morning after I woke up as a reminder

[@fideliaudoh9686]

I am guilty of one of this... Hence, I have to work on it.. #Great video! 😍😍🙌🙌🙌

[@mohittiwarii20]

I love her videos. She's so elegant and sweet. I love it!

[@Nalani-1]

Excellent video Vivienne. Thank You. ❤

[@lakmaliwickremanayake6661]

She knows, what it means to be elegence.

[@ulmasoyturaeva]

I am so glad to see you again, Vivian!

[@alcudiababe1]

I work with customers all the time and my colleague said to me whilst we were talking that she had a customer who's over all appearance looked like a decent woman she was probably in her late 60s, dressed well and gave off that air of superiority (I'm not going to lie, people who know they are better off tend to show they have class in a snotty way) anyway there was a problem with her coupons and we either didn't accept them or something was wrong entering it into the till and my colleague said "oh and the language off this lady!" She couldn't believe it because this lady looked respectful and to be fair you don't really expect a refined person to behave like this. You can equally have someone of lower class who has all the respect and manners and kindness toward other people. If these are things that show you're classy perhaps we really shouldn't judge lower status. There are these short videos on Facebook all the time that just because someone is rich doesn't mean they are nice and some one who gets judged harshly by the way they present themselves are very honest, decent people!

[@deborahtruthseeker112]

You are correct, and I, personally, would rather associate with down to earth, decent people, than rich snobs, however I must say that many desperate folks, who do not have money, look lovely, and elegant, while I have seen folks whom are very well off, and look horrible. Some of them do not smell pleasant either. Different strokes for different folks. For myself, looking, and feeling clean, and attractive is very important, and I dress very well, but tend to wear beautiful fashionable pants alot. I also like wearing dresses, but it is quite cold here, at this time. I dislike snobs, and there are many of those types. I consider it a type of mental illness, but also, those who are lacking in personal hygiene, and are poorly dressed, often suffer from mental illness as well. I know of someone like that, whom actually wants to look horrible, and unsheltered, yet has money. I like him as a person because he is a Christian man, but I dislike his physical appearance, and body 'fragrance'. He does have medical issues, but so do I, and I look well off, and quite attractive. Appearances can be quite deceiving. People will always judge, if they are inclined that way, but a person of wisdom will see beyond the physical aspects, and will appreciate what is in the ❤.

[@alcudiababe1]

@@deborahtruthseeker112 well actually, speaking of hygiene I know someone who was in my family and she pleaded poverty all the time, she went about with holes in her shoes and my Nan felt the need to dress her and help her look presentable but what she was doing was counting the pennies and she was actually very well off - we only realised this when she died and to me that's stupid, why have all this money if she can't buy herself a pair of decent shoes? But then, if she dressed well, and took the time with her appearance then she couldn't plead poverty all the time and people wouldn't feel sorry enough to help her. If she went out for a meal to a restaurant she'd immediately look for the fish and chips because they were the cheapest thing on the menu it was a standing joke that we'd have the chicken, or the gammon and someone else would have the mixed grill and she'd end up having the fish and chips. She'd tell us stories about how hard she was hard up in the war and how she had to share one ice-cream between her and her son but she dropped herself in it the once saying she had to cash in all her war cheques to buy her son Bob some shoes but she'd plead poverty to others. Even after the war she had some very disgusting habits and one of them was (perhaps to her) the price of incontinence pads and her solution was dry them on the radiator and reuse them thinking she's saving money but what she was doing was stinking her house out and that was going to go in her pants the next day so that would be making her smell and unhygienic for her bits. I think she'd probably clean herself in a morning but to put that back on - it's disgusting. She and her husband had options to move out of that house more than once and apparently she really wanted to move to a bungalow (well, that's what she said) and she never moved because they'd a sweet deal with the money coming in and the sad thing is all that money she never willed to her kids it went straight back to the state. The only time I ever heard she spent any of that money on herself was to go for four days to this particular hotel Nan told me about which was between 100 to 200 per night and that was the only thing she ever treated herself to because at Christmas time my Nan would put them up for 4 days and pay for any food but they were coming every year because they were getting a sweet deal out of it and the only reason that started it was because she made out she was hard up to my Nan and her immediate family was leaving her out so Nan included her!

[@deborahtruthseeker112]

@@alcudiababe1 OMG!!! Sounds like mental illness. There was a horrible looking man at a church I attended several years ago, with kind of long, greasy hair, and a worn out suit. He appeared to be poor, and people felt sorry for him. He was a real cheapskate. Then, he died, and the church found out he had well over one million dollars in the bank. I do not know who received that money, and he may have owned a house. Maybe the State of California, or something. Anyway, then there was someone known as 'cheap Bob', who was another one of those nuts, with a whole lot of money, and eating low quality food at a lousy Dennys eatery with his wife, but only on their wedding anniversary, I think. Then, there was a homeless man who died, and when he was taken to the County Coroner, the employees, or Coroner was wondering why his overcoat was so darned heavy. It turned out that the homeless man had one hundred dollar bills sewn into the lining of his coat, also totalling over one million dollars. I knew of a local former grocery store owner who was wealthy, and shoplifted. He told me that he did, and he is lucky I never turned him in, because he was well off, and did not even need to do that. Anyway, he was caught, and told NOT to set foot inside that market again, but when a new manager worked there, Ray went back to that store. Elderly people all tend to look alike, sometimes, so he may not even have been recognized by other employees. Who knows? This is all pure mental illness, and the relative you have described was an extremely sick woman. I take it she is dead now? I wonder who received all her loot? There are few excuses for having poor personal hygiene, and wearing terrible, raggedy clothing. Some people are without any class, nor shame at all. Totally disgusting!!!

[@cherylmahalak8251]

Yes you can be elegant in mannerisms and not be wealthy....requires modesty in appearance and speech.

[@monicascopel262]

Thankyou dear Vivian! God Bless you!

[@Good_life112]

Love you. I'm not in competition with any one. Rather, I'm in competition with my yesterday.

[@Doris86pl]

Integrity! That's powerful!

[@aretibartakova2887]

Thank you Viviane, your natural hair is beautiful