Women And Money (REAL TALK)

I want to get really specific about the insidious forces that hold women back financially, based on my real, lived experiences. I think that many of you will be able to relate, so I'm putting myself out there in the hopes that it will make you feel heard and less alone. If you've ever felt marginalized because of your gender, race, religion, sexual orientation, or whatever, I feel you. So grab a cup of tea and let's have some real talk!
P.S. Sorry my upload was a day late! This video took me a long time. Hope you enjoy it :)
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I Will Teach You to Be Rich (hilarious how-to book on personal finance for millennials)
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The Little Book of Common Sense Investing (Jack Bogle's classic advice on index funds)
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InvestED (step-by-step, millennial-friendly advice on how to pick stocks like Warren Buffett)
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Unshakeable (this book = courage. blast ALL the fears & misconceptions you have about investing)
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Rich Dad Poor Dad (#1 selling personal finance book of all time... need I say more?)
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Think and Grow Rich (the ultimate book on money mindset and wealth consciousness)
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**MY FAVORITE MONEY TOOLS 🖤**
YNAB (I literally can't live without this budgeting app, so obsessed)
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Wise (like Venmo but for international currencies - I use this app a LOT for my life in Mexico)
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Ledger Nano S (crypto storage hardware wallet, because "Not Your Keys, Not Your Crypto"!):
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[@andrewhiggins9027]

Hi Rose. I’m a 54 year old dad. I’m currently trying to educate my son (17) and daughter (14) about money. Your videos are a great resource to help me with that. On top of that I’m opening my daughter’s eyes to what true independence means. That is, never be reliant on a man. I will be sure to get her to watch this. I’m always looking for strong, smart female role models. You are firmly on that list. Thank you.

[@susanwjoh0re735]

you are teaching your daughter to be a piece of sh1t? how nice. i wonder what you are teaching your son.

[@funkiet0es]

rose, you are a role model. so many young girls/women and men alike needed to hear this. we all perpetuate these microaggressions because of comfort and with an unwoke perspective. it's about damn time we challenged it

[@sherylbeckett9957]

This was a very personal and real video. Thanks Rose!

[@alinak1581]

Rose, it makes me so sad to hear that people are being unkind, especially about something as trivial as your hair! You look badass and I love your hair! Keep doing what your doing, we’re all rooting for you. From another marginalized, female, business owner 💕

[@itsrosehan]

Thank you 🥰🥰 Rooting for you too lady!!

[@jadelightsword]

@@ronallan8680 Dude....have you heard the complaints male KZbinrs have made about their trolls/critics? They can be quite sensitive about it too. Rose wasn't even complaining, she was merely pointing out that a stranger using her hair color, instead of her content and financial background, to judge whether or not he could trust her, is rooted in cultural biases about what traits are more valuable in a woman (looks, instead of substance). That belief is sexist, and unjustly holds many women back professionally. Just like how your comment generalizing KZbinr sensitivity along gender lines, is rooted in preconceived notions about women and emotions. Check your own implicit bias Ron.

[@jesustyronechrist2330]

@@ronallan8680 Ummm perhaps this vague study you mention was real... But is harassment men on the internet get sexist? Is it any form sexual? Mostly no. If women on the internet would only get messages like "You suck and you're gay", they wouldn't talk about it. Men get that all the time and it doesn't affect them (unless they're as sensitive as these women you speak of...)

[@jeanpierrerideout7560]

The first female self-made millionaire in America is an African American woman named Madam C. J. Walker born in 1867. She was orphaned at 7. You can do whatever you want despite what the presenter says. Blaming external circumstances for your situation is for the mentally weak.

[@venket9246]

@@jadelightsword is it just me or is Rose deleting comments. Where's the comment you were replying to? What were you replying to?

[@anusingh2640]

You're an inspiration :) I have worked in tech and am learning how to invest so I know what it's like to be a woman in traditionally "male" fields. The microaggressions , the negative assumptions of my competency, the dismissals of my opinions, the interruptions - it's been a lot, over so many years. So many men I've talked to about this get defensive and say "well, _I_ don't treat women badly, why do I have to feel guilty" and are content with doing nothing, not realizing that doing nothing is a tacit approval of the current system. You are so brave for speaking out, knowing that you're going to get hate for it. I hope that one day I have the ability to further progress women's issues the way you do!

[@itsrosehan]

It sure felt uncomfortable making polarizing content like this, but I felt it was necessary. And now that’s it out there, it feels so refreshing. It’s funny how when you’re just standing in your truth, hate comments don’t sting. You are braver than you know!

[@Marikasword]

omg I paused your video at 4:55 to read those comments.. I am enraged! Who do these people think they are?! Girl, your willpower must be level 1000, I would have gone off. Love your channel, keep doing you!

[@itsrosehan]

Thank you!! Indeed... one needs thick skin on KZbin. All good though, 99% of people who watch my videos are wonderful and supportive, like you 💕🥰

[@BalancedFinance]

I did the same. Disgusting. As a white guy who has benefited in this world only because of my sex and skin color, I totally get what Rose is saying. So many people are messed up in this world and Rose is not one of them. Super smart with helpful videos. Keep doing your thing Rose!

[@Trump-jv8xf]

Investing, Personal Finance as a white guy myself, I say your privilege is only in your mind. My success is from hard work and never quitting, same as everyone one. Some are born with more and that’s life; however, it does not determine whether or not they are successful. You sir are a self loather, keep it to yourself and not to your race or gender.

[@BalancedFinance]

@@Trump-jv8xf Awe. So uneducated but you think you are smart. That is cute. No one is saying you don't work hard and/or never quit. That shows everyone on KZbin that you kind of miss the whole point. Yikes.

[@jessicagrube2766]

@@Trump-jv8xf I disagree. Being a white cis male is a privilege on its own. You may believe you reached all of your success because of hard work and I'm not here to tell you otherwise, but it's not *just* because you worked hard. Tell me, how many women of colour do you have around your workspace? How many women of colour do you see in higher positions? and then think about all the women of colour you see in your free time. Do you think all of these women aren't working hard enough? That they're too lazy, too stupid and/or self loathing? You may be a hard working person, but privilege isn't a 'you' problem. It's a society problem and you and I Sir, we are the society.

[@keepthefaith9805]

I like how they sweetly hustle out men out of their money😆😆😆😆

[@investingwithrose.3542]

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[@nickdoesdgi1095]

As a soon-to-be first-time parent to a beautiful daughter, wife and I are always talking about this topic. And especially as asian-americans, we are disheartened with what is going on in this world. Thank you for cover this.

[@Innatefulness]

Honestly one of my favorite vids of yours, Rose! Really glad to see you unapologetically talking about these important topics and bravely sharing your lived experiences. It’s these types of videos that inspire and empower others.

[@itsrosehan]

💕💕💕

[@wealthforwomenofcolor]

Everything about this 💯🔥 i just got an "unapologetic" tattoo which is my daily reminder to take up space

[@itsrosehan]

LOVE that!!! #unapologetic

[@coldfeet0816]

omg. GOAL

[@neethi3jois]

This was NECESSARY! I’m so glad that Rose, a badass woman of colour in finance, is talking about this! I relate 100% and so does every single woman in the comments. I’m so grateful - hope she knows she is SEEN rn.

[@itsrosehan]

Thank you!!! I feel very seen 👀🥰❤️

[@MoneywithPennies]

Definitely, first thing now let's take control of our own financial futures.

[@RickLoek]

Rose, my daughter, like you, teaches me some life lessons I have somehow missed. Bless you!

[@karlosarmiento7844]

For the record, I do like the pink hair. 👍🏾 Definitely one of the very few financial KZbin channels I've recommended to friends and family. Good job Rose. 🤙🏾👍🏾

[@jackprick9797]

Rose, I am really glad I found your channel. You come across as very knowledgeable, genuine, honest and you communicate so well. You are helping me as well as my family. Thank you!

[@yootoobur101]

I’ve learned that people’s insecurities will try to sap one’s happiness. So, I’ve learned not to take things personally from those who I’m not personal with.

[@michinnunapaen]

this comment clearly indicates you don't get her points about microaggressions. you can't just "shake off" or ignore a bad feeling when you get comments of the same nature and dismissiveness because of your sex that do NOT only occur online but also in person. sure, microagressors and haters are insecure, but it is PERSONAL because she gets judged simply based on her existence as a WOMAN and not by her character or the content of her work.

[@yootoobur101]

@@michinnunapaen you’re absolutely right, you can’t just “shake off” feelings. Feelings are 100% real and inevitable and you’re entitled to them. But, do you HAVE to take it personally, or could you perhaps learn to deal with it differently so it doesn’t take control over your happiness, and learn to accept the inherent ruthlessness of humans in this world, while doing your best to elicit change?

[@alfredmalloy5124]

Growing up as a mixed minority was definitely hard when your made to fill unwelcomed. Even as an adult when you're told financial investing should be left to better people. Well these better people failed me for years. After learning the basics and finding a great mentor. She was able to direct me in the right direction and with in 5 years I have built an amazing nest egg I didn't think possible. Thank you to people like Investing with Rose, and Val my mentor we all can build our dreams bigger then we can imagine.

[@jesustyronechrist2330]

Yeah, it's weird, segregation might be in the past by law, but families and communities still do it low key.

[@Nicloves]

I always look forward to your videos. Don't listen to the haters and creeps. You do an amazing job and I love how real you are. We need more women out here like you helping educate. You're like the older sister I never had but wish I did. Also, appreciate you even more since I'm half korean! Love ya sis❤️

[@itsrosehan]

So cool you view me as an older sis ☺️ Love you too! 🇰🇷💕

[@Nicloves]

@@itsrosehan ❤️❤️❤️

[@orangefield2308]

@@itsrosehan "tendency for men to look at women as se-x objects" look at your nice instagram pole page, where you are dancing with cheeky butt thongs, notice men don't have sports like that, and we don't talk about seen as s-x objects, etc

[@kwok-keungchow800]

@@orangefield2308 It's only natural that opposite (sex) attracts. Rose is attractive, period. Men need to learn how to express compliments in a genuine and respectful manner, in a plutonic way. Look can be deceiving, after all.

[@orangefield2308]

@@kwok-keungchow800 yeahh, didnt address last comment above !

[@luminusnite]

So a guy telling you you're hot is an issue? Unbelievable. There's going to come a day where you're going to wish someone would look your way. There's going to come a day where you wish someone would just say you're beautiful. Sounds like a not problem to me.

[@elsikpych]

My generation loves being a victim, even the ones wort over 6figurez

[@Universe.444]

Being raised by my grandmother and seeing what she went through made me the person I am today. She wasn’t allowed to have a say in anything, even decisions that directly affected her. My grandmother would cry to me sometimes, feeling helpless. I vowed to never be like her. She would always tell me to go to school, do well and be independent. ( her mother had 3 girls and could only afford to send 1 to school, my grandmother wasn’t the one chosen and her sister was a failure) I listened to my grandmother and currently make 6 figures in healthcare. I cannot imagine not being the author of my own life. I’ve learned so much from you Rose, you are a blessing.

[@itsrosehan]

Thank you for sharing your story! Your grandmother was a strong woman, born in the wrong times. But times are changing 💪🏼💫💫

[@caleblatreille8224]

Really happy to see the supportive comment section here, and I hope it keeps these conversations happening! I recently watched Laura Shin's roundtable on women in crypto and the reactions were absolutely disgusting. Appreciate the community this channel is fostering and hope it allows more connections to be drawn between wealth and identity. Also, way to shoot your shot, Rose! lolol

[@itsrosehan]

🤣🤣 This type of content is polarizing, but I’m happy to do it so that the community I attract is truly MY people, people like you ❤️ And thanks for letting me know about Laura Shin’s round table, will have to check it out!

[@tanettacaleb7767]

Thank you for posting this Rose. Glad to support another WOC especially in the world of finance.

[@matthewhannan3958]

I'm a dude, and this was yet another fantastic video. I appreciate you getting a little more personal and really giving real life examples. Fantastic advice.

[@omygeebuz]

Thank you for being so open and sharing your experience rose. I know this was hard and I thank you for this. You are a leader!

[@edl6398]

Rose, you are transforming my life. I only listen to women teach me about money because I was born in 1960 and men sure didn’t bother. Like so many of us back then, we were kept away from money and men controlled all the finances. Women were not trusted with money or considered not intelligent enough to handle it. Wives were given “pin money” and children given allowances. We were never encouraged in math or science because it was understood we would never need it, except basic measures for cooking and sewing. I’m finally a small business owner and I’ve got lots of savings and investments and a lot of that is the education I got from you. I feel cheated by patriarchy in my life and I never saw women even begin working in business outside of secretarial roles until the 1980’s - but it used to be worse. My grandmother couldn’t even vote until she was in her late 20’s. Not enough women talk about this and it has to stop.Women must be financially strong or they must depend on men in situations that can be abusive or otherwise miserable. We must stop this cycle of learned helplessness with women and money. You are a trailblazer and a very important example for all women. Thank you for helping me turn my financial life around and giving me the education and confidence to take control!!

[@akaneiluj]

This video obviously comes with the best intentions. But I hear so many bad programs/believes that you have in your mind related to money and success. For example “you can’t be what you can’t see”. Yes you can! And also, you don’t need to see someone that is exactly like you to replicate their success. Hope you can erase all that baggage that you have, so you can stop focusing in what other people think and how to react to that, and focus more in your and your journey. Good luck 🍀

[@katietesta4076]

Thank you for making this video. Every now and then I find myself accepting these microaggressions simply because they are accepted by so many others. It takes someone (many someones) to voice opposition to society's general acceptance of these patterns to create change. I was never taught about money other than save save save. Your videos have helped me discover new ways to make my money work for me! Instead of being afraid to invest I now have an M1 pie, a HYSA, and a Roth IRA. Before, everything was in my Wells Fargo savings account which made me somthing like 15 cents a year. Thank you for all of your book recommendations and for sharing your knowledge.

[@Rick-sh2mi]

Well said Rose. We all need to be able to recognize a person's knowledge and abilities and not be biased by gender or race.

[@Ijustwantoseethisvid]

"you can't be what you can't see." THAT'S RIGHT ROSE! So proud of you girl hell yes. Thank you for you and all this wisdom, we love to see it.

[@CertifiedGenius007]

1. Wage gap has been debunked a bazillion times. 2. Equality of opportunity is what we should strive for than equality of outcome. You won't see a 50-50 in literally every field, there will be fields that are dominated by men, and some by women. It has everything to do with male and females being physiologically different (different, doesn't mean unequal). 3. Glass ceiling, mansplaining etc. are quite often used as cop outs to avoid fair arguments on a case by case basis. This video, rather than promoting equality, reeks of self-validation and promotes justification for failures. A man is not selected for a CEO position, 'because' he is male. He is selected because he is qualified. If a female is qualified for it, but still isn't selected, then yes, I agree, that is a problem of inequality. Tagging everything that men say, that doesn't reflect your own opinion, as mansplaining is backward and ridiculous. 4. Money is not the only source of validation. The whole reason the family system is crumbling in the western world, is because of the mentality that every work is to be validated by money and somehow being dependent is demonic and dangerous. You put two individuals who are independent and you expect the marriages to succeed? You want a business partner instead of a life partner? Being in the house, cooking and cleaning for YOUR OWN husband, to enable him to being the breadwinner, a successful go-getter and fulfilling all your and family's needs IS a healthy relationship, as well. It shouldn't be criminalized. The best you can say, is that, it didn't work for you, instead of propagandizing it. Dependency is what makes a successful marriage because both partners need each other - physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually. It's not just goods and services. 5. The only thing I agree in this video, is that the fashion industry is incredibly demanding and fooling both men and women, by setting and evolving beauty standards constantly to make both feel plugged in and insecure. That is their way of advertising and selling products. If you feel beautiful inherently, why would you ever obsessively buy products? However, both men and women are suckers for social validation and hence perpetuates this as a vicious cycle.

[@thatdamnhoney]

Ugh the fact that you had to defend your hair. The audacity of people. In any case, thank you for sharing what you’ve been through! I can relate to many of your examples.

[@LightFootViolet]

Thank you for making this video and putting this point of view into perspective. Love your content, Rose! I definitely struggled with these feelings in the workplace/society and its nice to hear that I’m not alone.

[@itsrosehan]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@lontarian2228]

Mansplaining .... a former manager used to do that to me, just to pretend he was smarter. At the beginning it was driving me mad, but at some point, I started feeling sorry for him, for being so useless.

[@michelperez7160]

Rose, thank you so much for making this video. What you’ve said here is so true! Our little girls need to be taught they have something to contribute, they bring something to the table - they need to sit at the table! Thank you for this.

[@ChosenMJ]

Yeah, ladies really have it rough, period. I subscribed to your channel because I wanted to gain the knowledge you mentioned. Never had it crossed my mind to move on to another resource or channel because you're a woman. As a man raised by a divorced mother, older sister and a grandmother I have seen the strength, courage and intelligence of women in general. I tend to look in people not at people. Sure, I can see you're a woman but there's much more there than that so I await the knowledge you have to share and appreciate you pouring your heart out.

[@investingwithrose.3542]

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[@adamcrowe2353]

Fantastic video, Rose. Thank you for sharing and thank you for all the work you do providing high-quality educational content.

[@twinlocust]

I'm a 57 years old Vietnamese man, I enjoyed your financial shows. And oh my God, my personal finance has improved so much. I want to say thank you for posting your videos. I'm a huge fan. I wanted to know your opinions about Velocity Banking. My wife and I used this technique and got our house paid off. We are thinking using the Velocity Banking to buy a rental property for our retirement. I appreciate your advice and insight. Thanks again.

[@twinlocust]

@📌 Pinned by Investing with Røsé Heck Yeah!🤩

[@leoavila915]

Thank you! For this! First one born in United States. Parents are from Mexico Sometimes I feel like am too American to be Mexican and am to Mexican to be American. I know how you feel

[@thegardencity92]

Just own it you got a lot going for you

[@j.p.9189]

I remember as a kid thinking it was unfair that men were addressed as Mr. ,regardless of their marital status, yet women were either Miss or Mrs. which let everyone know if they were married or not. Who's business is that anyway; some stranger you just met? As soon as Ms was introduced into everyday language I started using it. I use it to this day despite being married for 4 decades! Another way I have tried to level the playing field is when I am voting. I do keep up on the national level but when it comes to voting in judges, local political appointments, etc.,I do not know much about them. In those cases, I ALWAYS vote for the woman candidate. I have shared this with many of my friends and they have decided to follow suit to give women a fighting chance.

[@flashmodeify]

Hi JP - thanks for sharing your perspective and experience; I did not realize the implications of using Miss/Mrs.

[@fernandatak]

Thanks for bringing these topics for us, Rose. You really inspire me about the woman I want to be in future :)

[@carmenalabat8425]

Rose you are simply amazing in every way. Thank you for all the knowledge and VALUE you contribute to this community. Thank you for putting a voice to what we as women go through. Much respect 💜💜

[@JaniceSawyer]

Yes, yes, yes! This is exactly why I subscribed to your KZbin channel; why I signed up for your Automatic Millionaire course. You are absolutely one of my role models. Thank you for this video.

[@rajalaximibimal2413]

Rose, That was Powerful! Thank You so much for throwing light on this topic.

[@Evil-Rod-Farva]

Here’s some macro aggressions for men backed by stats: Women go to college at a 60/40 rate Women file divorce 70% of the time Women receive custody 80% of the time Women receive alimony 90% of the time Men commit suicide at an 80/20 rate Men die at war and at work at a 98% rate I would argue that for the last 50 years America has not had a patriarchal society and it’s part of the reason we are in societal free fall. Being a strong and independent woman is fine so long as you have a government (taxpayers) behind you later in life. That’s not going to happen for many in the us the way birth rates are trending. The real reasons why many women can’t get ahead financially boils down to three things: 1.) Impulsivity. Women are more prone to this because you have governments or families willing to help you when you falter. Men don’t typically get this and learn the hard way. 2.) Poor mate selection. Having kids with a bum is a guaranteed way to poverty. Not having a strong father in the home has accelerated this. 3.) Debt. Women own 67% of college debt and most consumer debt. You can’t build wealth when you keep giving it away to others because of poor planning or impulse control. Good luck with your channel. I won’t support nonsensical SJW ideologies that advance societal decay and increase division between the sexes. Mansplaining over.

[@ShaferHart]

**Reads about social justice once**

[@Xeqcme]

I've gifted a cookbook and lotion/spa-day items to the bride and a Leatherman to the groom... Anyway, I don't know about all the stats that you mentioned, but I definitely understand some of the struggles you brought up. It's so weird for people to push back against something they've clearly never experienced before. Just because they haven't noticed it or haven't been around it, they think it doesn't exist. And for the people who have experienced it, it's hard to notice it sometimes because it's "just the norm." It's going to take generations to see real change but I'm happy you're part of the progress.

[@MoMo-00]

Being offended for receiving a cookbook if not an issue with the one gifting, it's a problem for the recipient.

[@nathanielmills4678]

Interestingly when I got married I got an apron and cookbook from guys. Still appreciate it actually.

[@jesustyronechrist2330]

@@MoMo-00 I kinda agree, TBH. Sure, it technically is an micro-aggression, but... That's like getting offended if you're a woman and they'd hand you something pink over something blue. I mean who cares, just take the thing and don't think too much about it because the other person didn't either.

[@jv-kb9dr]

@@jesustyronechrist2330 and here we go with the mansplaining. this is the perfect example. if you're not a woman you don't need to comment on our experiences since your opinion is unwarranted and unwanted.

[@jesustyronechrist2330]

@@jv-kb9dr Bruh you just assume my gender?!?!. So empathy is not allowed either...? You don't want any man to even try to empathize because you don't "want their opinion"? Oh man, you're gonna have a miserable existence being that entitled.

[@erickamitchell396]

OMG thank you so much for making this video. I know that this was uncomfortable to hear, however it was necessary. I worked at one of the Big 4 accounting firms after graduating from college. Often times I was the only person of color on client engagements and found the experience to be very uncomfortable. I remember going out to lunch with the partners and feeling like I was performing instead of relaxing and being my authentic self, just to fit in with them. Everything you said about manexplanations, being interrupted, undervalued is so true. I have been in settings where my expertise was questioned, while the suggestions of my white colleagues were taken at face value. Keep up the good work Rose and dust the haters off. People who disagree with this video are just in denial.

[@itsrosehan]

Thank you for sharing your story!!! I can totally relate. Even just being the only person in the room that looks like you already makes it an uncomfortable experience. I assure you many who watched have similar stories, and while stories like these are not always pleasant to hear, sharing and listening is the only way things will ever change.

[@LoveCoachForWomen]

Really powerful video to bring awareness to women. I love all the statistics you’ve included as well. Thank you for the energy you out into making this 🤗

[@itsrosehan]

I love you ☺️💕

[@yayeethayer9570]

You’re articulating many of the same thoughts and sentiments that I’ve experienced! Thank you for doing it so beautifully and flawlessly! You’re the best Rose!

[@EvosBasics]

Strangely enough Being around so many women as a child (grandma, mom, 2 sisters) I’ve grown to love being at home and took a big interest in cooking lolssss I’m so grateful for having such strong women in my life as teachers and role models. Love your channel with all the financial info you share but also with a diff twist. You really help make things easier to absorb and give fresh energy to old ideas. Keep it up!

[@RiverBottomWarrior]

Thanks for posting this Rose. I did not know about micro aggressions, but like the way you explained it and realize it happens a lot around me and even at work. Keep being you! Edit: I believe you are ahead of the curve on these topics! This video needs to be shared. I will be showing my wife when she wakes up. Way to go Rose!

[@all.who.w4nder]

I'm a woman of color too, I have learned a lot from your videos. Never really paid attention in school during financial classes. So this has been a great journey to financial independence. I may disagree with some of the concepts you brought up but the message is definitely good. Thank you for your videos!

[@amy-zk3fo]

Until you are in someone’s shoes. You really have no idea. Thank you Rose

[@tinahung6208]

Thank you thank you for this video. I’ve only recently learn the term “micro aggression.” I can relate to much of your experiences. I’ve also went through a period of time where I learned a lot of things weren’t my fault, and that there’s so much prejudice around women, and none are ok! So thank you again for this video!!!

[@traybow]

“You are more than welcome to quietly unsubscribe.” Love it and you, Rose. It’s disheartening to know how long the sexism and misogyny has been going on AND will continue. However, when we have to bring the fight, we have to. P.S. Was trying to think if I could rock the pink hair but you said $700. So no, going to pay down some debt instead! 😁

[@susanwjoh0re735]

sexism and misogyny when it's not to your benefit. keep that attitude up sweetie i hope you dont need a man never again.

[@eaglecaphe4055]

Hi Rose, I follow up with your videos but it triggered me when you talk about your relationship issues. In a relationship, guys try to forget all the negative things that happen but women always remember every bad things that happen to them even if it happen many years ago. Can’t ladies just forget, forgive and move on regardless if they choose to stay in the relationship or not? Both men and women say and do wrong things in the relationship. We learn as we move on, there’s no point being so bitter about things that happen. Sometime the man/woman doesn’t know what they did wrong until after the fact, sometime things happen outside of people’s control, and sometime people are inexperience when dealing with issues.

[@joshuasanchez2778]

Rose, just keep ignoring the haters! You're doing a great job, your hair is fire, and you've honestly helped me some much in the past two/three years 😭 Seriously, you have no idea. Thank you, and keep it up! I look forward to learning more from you 🙏🏽

[@cathysmith1460]

Great video! I will show it to my high school students next week. I teach personal finance, which is now a graduation requirement. Education is the key! Keep the content coming.

[@itsrosehan]

Love that personal finance is a graduation requirement! And I’m honored that you are going to show them my video 🙏🏻

[@kfsharperthan2138]

You have great information and I will share this with my daughter...Ty.

[@MoMo-00]

I agree with a lot of what you said. The fact that women are paid less for doing the same thing and that women have to overcome more barriers to do what's easier for men, and the objectification of women. One thing that I strongly disagree with is the whole culture around microaggressions. To me that's a really sad thing. It's people being hypersensitive and being hurt by "implied" insults. It's like the adult version of "she looked at me" or "he stuck his tongue at me". The idea of people taking everything as a microaggression is dangerous. It leads to cancel culture, where people get fired for a tweet they made years back, and the culture of "if you don't agree with our opinion and agenda, then you're wrong". Turning radically left quickly. And this is coming from someone who is a minority, religious and have different sexual orientation.

[@Mxm9966]

Really appreciate that you talked about this topic. We need voices like that. I can't count how many times my male coworkers/bosses being sexist. It is like they live under that skin and feel it is the way things should be. They didn't even know how rude and hurtful their comments/actions were.

[@nookm4057]

Your new hair looks amazing on you. ❤️❤️

[@owl-onewiselady7471]

Thank you for your insights, so true!! I have encountered much of what you discuss. I love your channel and just by listening to you, I feel more empowered with money.

[@copyright3668]

The Everything Money video about your content gave me all of this mensplanning vibes " she is hot", what does that have to do with the content of your channel? Their video was out of scope on so many levels, I don't even know where to start.

[@awesomeglenn4017]

I loved your message. I asked my high school teacher, ' when do we learn about making money and investments?' he told me to go to college.... Education is the key, like you said, ' money is not taught in schools' and neither is equality. Cheer leaders and jocks is the only thing important to most in high schoolers, (and being popular) when it should be money (long term income) and a healthy life (stress free) for you and your partner. My family NEVER talks about money, sex or religion. Our parents are only doing what there parents showed them, cycles take a long time to change. P. S. I love your pink hair, worth every penny.

[@madscientist9]

Thank you for helping me being a better man 💖 And coming across your channel (including few others) has opened up my idea about investing. Glad to meet you via KZbin 😇🙏 Keep up the great work Rose🤘

[@elenakalliste]

Love this video!!! I think one of the most important things you mentioned is being careful where you work. I definitely am realizing how important that is now, working at a company that does not have my values.

[@tlazohtla]

Well said, Rose!!! Thank you for sharing this video. I agree with your thoughts and perspectives.

[@unfilteredcommonsense4531]

100% with you Rose. We should not relate any personal capability to gender/race.

[@Seoulsearch616]

P.S. The pink hair is badass. 🤓💖💰

[@janaynmelis5250]

I love your channel, Rose. Thanks so much for having this real talk video! I also have dealt with micro aggressions at work and when it comes to personal finance. Also, I love your pink hair. ❤️

[@emilymicelli]

I feel you. I cried listening to your story. I have been through all of that. I try not to internalize things. I like to do gardening. I enjoy flowers and plants. They find a calm niche, no prejudice. I admire your intelligence. Thanks for sharing 💖

[@itsrosehan]

Sending you a hug! ❤️

[@urmihossain]

Being a woman myself, I totally relate to everything you said. Thank you for making this video Rose :)

[@user-pd9ju5dk5s]

Are you related to Saddam?

[@petera5097]

Thank you Rose! Well said....We all need to watch and listen to this and make amends where necessary.

[@KeithJones31]

It’s awesome that you overcome your obstacles to build a great relationship with money

[@Tafuny]

Amazing and powerful message. I loved how you offered up your solutions at the end because it's important to focus on how we can make an impact moving forward. People that find some sort of "issue" with you (hair color) for no reason tend to use any means to try to knock you down because they experiencing some level of discomfort or inferiority. You have the data to show you are credible not that you even need to prove it. You are a badass and never forget that!

[@heliena3172]

Thank you for this video ! It will be great if you do a video about "how to react to microaggression". Love your video, all you said was so true!

[@heliena3172]

@Ínvestíng with Rosé are you a fake account ?

[@dreamchaser5758]

Thought provoking and action oriented content. It probably took a lot of courage to make this video, thank you. I find when people discuss alternative perspectives they feel compelled to offer conciliatory apologies, "not blaming anyone". No need public discourse should be candid and diverse. "Children just being children" is normally proffered as an excuse for cruel and abusive behavior. Children emulate their parents. Racists indoctrinate their offspring early and often. The taunting of the children was racially charged and their behavior should not have been tolerated. I was not reared in a home where mocking people for their differences was considered normal. I do think forging your own path to success irrespective of what people say or do is the best approach. Enjoy your channel immensely.

[@NormSpecial]

I’m a white guy learning financial literacy, saving, investing, and financial independence from BIPOC women. I’m learning so much. I’m so grateful. It’s wonderful. ❤️

[@itsrosehan]

💕

[@wealthforwomenofcolor]

👏👏🔥🔥

[@johnl9135]

Kudos to you Rose! This why this man love watching your videos, direct and straight tell it like it is.

[@kiskadee321]

One big thing about micro aggressions especially when you don’t yet have the words for what’s happening is how it gaslights you. Someone says the small thing and the aggressor perhaps didn’t even intend to be offensive and so you start to wonder whether maybe you’re just crazy, oversensitive, or defensive. The energy spent just sorting through taking yourself seriously when you’re on the receiving end of these comments is half the battle. Learning to recognize it for what it is can really be a psychological game changer.

[@lyrasumuverta5955]

This was so nice. Thank you 💜

[@RKmndo]

This may be a slight rant, but try to gain some insight. Patriarchal society? Compared to places like North Korea, Afghanistan, or Mexico? Have you ever sat in a western divorce/family court for a day? People talk trash to you because they're narcissists, bullies, sociopaths, etc. Not because you're an Asian female. I'm a straight, white male. I'm also 5'8" and not musclebound. I work a dirty blue-collar job that I enjoy, even though I don't really need to. Do you think I trained martial arts for several years because people were so nice to me? I was assaulted with an aluminum bat sophomore year of high school. I'm 49 now, and I still have people trying to talk over me, disrespect me, manipulate me, or even bully/intimidate me. I've been an EMT, Marine, and bouncer. Many people don't care. Do you think that people automatically treat you like royalty if you're a white male? That might be how life is for tall, WEALTHY, powerful, white males. That's not the average middle-class guy. Keep doing your thing. Nevermind the haters. They try to take down EVERYBODY that doesn't scare them too much to do so. You may not have to get rough with some people, but it can sure help to be tough.

[@investingwithrose.3542]

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[@soniadhaliwal6196]

I can relate to you. Canadian citizen moved wayy to much. 15 times 5 countries. 12 years in the US- US no one is Indian pretty much. Some states not so much racism, accepted. But I grew up later very much feeling like a misfit. My parents later moved to India. I felt far more like a misfit there.

[@drfastlion]

Great video Rose! As a Korean adoptee growing up in the Netherlands I can totally relate to 'not fitting in' as an Asian child in a white world. Then living in South Korea for ten years as an adult, it was hard trying to be Korean as a Dutchy. Now I know I'm just me and that it is perfectly fine to be different ^_^ Thanks for the super interesting videos, I love your channel!

[@itsrosehan]

❤️🇰🇷❤️

[@LatteCat]

thanks for having this conversation with us. i really appreciate it!

[@healthyinretirement]

Love that you not only found your voice, but that you are sharing what you learned with other women so they too can find their voice! Thank you for sharing!

[@FannyGodMother]

Gosh…this video is no holds barred! You get to the point each time so clearly and without leaving any room for excuses. I love it!

[@charleschen7764]

There's always going to be bad actors on the internet behind anomanimity... ignore them. Keep positive, and do you! 👍 people are overly hard on themselves in this uber competitive world, we're only human. 😉

[@celestecantees6697]

GREAT video. Thank you. I just had my first child, a daughter, and am pursuing financial freedom not only for my own quality of life but to teach her better than I was taught and to expose her to an environment within which women and girls are not less than. Also, she will see her primary male model figure, her father, in a main domestic role because I am the breadwinner and he isn't afraid to scrub the floor and clean the dishes. He also cooks. They are out there, keep looking ;)

[@dianagraves4674]

Firstly, I’ve always loved your pink hair! Thank you for providing financial info meshed with a personal development/ introspective twists- two of my favorite topics. I’ve grown up so conditioned to this sexism and micro aggressions, it’s hard for me to even see them, “that’s the way it is”. Tho I know that’s not true- thanks for bringing this to the forefront ❤️

[@aracelimenchaca4364]

I found you through the Everything Money reaction video......loved your style and knowledge but most of all that you had "that something different" those guys don't even know it exist.....thank you! I subscribed immediately

[@brwnskinn]

Great video! Love "You can't be what you can't see."

[@itsrosehan]

❤️❤️❤️ I believe I first that phrase from the documentary Miss Representation, which I highly recommend btw.

[@brwnskinn]

Investing With Rose i will check it out. Thanks!

[@PhilDVG]

You gave the best explaination for microagressions I've ever heard. I never knew what the word meant and though most people used it as another bs big word to attack a person who isn't being disrespectful, but your example was very informative in correcting my thought of the word. As a black man, I definitely see that a lot not just towards me but towards other. I just joked with my wife the other day while watching a show called "Chopped" that they chose to play a hiphop instrumental when introduce the one black contestant in that episode. A lot of educating is needed to solve this issue.

[@riks009]

That's a really important message Rose - and powerfully delivered. I'm definitely going to share it with my nieces. You've made me reflect on my own behaviour ... especially around micro-agression. Thank you.

[@ML-py4rt]

Hi Rose. I don't comment much on your videos, but I feel compelled to now. Ignore the haters! Your videos are very informative and invaluable! You're giving thousands of dollars of wisdom away...FREE!

[@MaxDangerPower]

I watch a lot of finance videos on KZbin. I think it is pretty kool you worked on Wall Street and honestly makes me value your insight on investing more. I'm male, but as someone who has been thoroughly crapped on by many throughout life, I definitely have at least some degree of understanding when it comes to that feeling of not belonging or not quite fitting in anywhere. I feel like most people just don't get me. I'm going to "mansplain" this part, because I am a man and explaining my opinions here I guess: 1. Gender roles are a choice, and the fun thing about America is that you can choose a traditional gender role, or you can choose to go have a successful career and be a baller and split gender roles or pretty much do whatever you want with or without whoever you want. 2. Yeah, it would be pretty nice if they covered basic finance in schools, I agree. 3. Compassion...yes! Sadly, this is something people sorely lack. 4. I totally feel you with the maternity leave in the private sector. My sister's been telling me about the shenanigans her employer is putting her through and how most of the leave pay is unpaid. It's just total garbage how private companies treat maternity leave. She needed to take a couple weeks off for childcare for her baby due to COVID, and they threatened to fire her. I was like wow, wtf. 5. As a man, I can say the weakness thing is completely true, but only when it comes to dating. When it comes to general friendships and other stuff, some jerks will bounce, but most seem okay enough with a man showing weakness. On the bright side, whenever I wanted to make sure a date was NOT going to work out without feeling like a total asshole, I'd simply express vulnerabilities...worked 100% of the time. (Fortunately now I'm married to someone who is a genuinely sweet person and hopefully will never have to deal with that dating crap again.) 6. Every single adult human is an asshole to at least some degree. Most just aren't humble enough to admit it. You have nearly half a million subscribers + dudes can get weird + you're clearly good looking (and also announcing that you're single) = getting creeped on. It lame you have to deal with that, but it's pretty inevitable, unfortunately. I suppose it's better than being ugly I guess (shrugs shoulders). I watch your channel purely for the content though. If someone's watching this channel because of your hair or other physical traits, they're clearly watching for the wrong reasons. 7. I like your channel, I and I think you're going to be huge, even bigger than you already are. I also like George Gammon's channel, though I think he spreads a bit too much doom at times. His whiteboard videos are just great though! That Minority Mindset channel is fairly solid, but he does speak in a persistent monotone, which makes it hard to follow. You speak with a lot of passion and inflection when you speak, which makes you easy to follow. I really like that Jimmy guy's channel (Learn to Invest). He explains things a lot like you do in your channel to the average Joes and Janes, and makes economics easier to understand for us who don't have formal education in that subject. Plus, he really slams ya with knowledge sometimes with charts every now and then. I think it is pretty kool that you actually read the comments. Most of these KZbinrs act like they are too big of a big deal to acknowledge the existence of any individual follower.

[@RinaHwang]

I am Korean and grew up exactly how you described feeling! I also was married to someone who was very sexist and misogynistic and his immediate family was like that as well. I’ve been subscribed to you for a good while...wish there was more female financial you tubers such as yourself. You are very inspiring 😊

[@juliotrujillo2683]

You are correct all the way. Great topic. You have all my support. I admire your energy, talent, intelligence and your education. I want to congratulate you for what you do on you tube, Rose you are a diamond. Keep doing what you do and you will fly much higher!

[@kevbang510]

I just learned how to make decent scrambled eggs so i hope that qualifies for “knows how to cook”

[@beatpirate8]

i actually embrace cookbooks now. i like cooking good meals for myself.

[@Michelle-ry7gc]

Thank you so much for talking about this! It's so important and I really appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. It's validating for anyone who's experienced sexist/racist microaggressions and also really important for people to hear who may not have experienced this personally.