Money Shame: The Silent Killer | Tammy Lally | TEDxOrlando

We're conditioned to not talk about personal finances, but for many people, confronting their own personal money struggles can be a matter of survival. Tammy Lally, a professional money coach, shares her own family's story along with suggestions for how to confront one's own personal "Money Shame." As a Certified Money Coach and Financial Planner, Tammy Lally helps couples and individuals achieve financial health and freedom. Through a distinctive blend of financial knowledge, psychology, spirituality, and her personal experience and healing of money shame, Tammy teaches how to change what keeps people broken and broke - in their relationship with money, by digging in, questioning, and owning their money beliefs and behaviors and the impact they have on their financial, social, emotional and spiritual well-being.
Tammy received her formal coach training and certification from The Money Coaching Institute and has over 16 years of experience in the financial industry. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@thegayphilospher]

I cried so much watching this. Money shame has surrounded me for the last 20 years. It has destroyed me, especially with someone who has ADHD.

[@WhoCares-s3n]

I'm so sorry

[@iamwisecrowtarot8373]

Well this is the video i was hoping to find on shame and money. It fits what I have been dealing with since I was 3 years old. At 58 years of age..it still effects me emotionally and financially. Shame is a silent virus. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story.

[@jamicheshire]

Not a quick fix but a slow wakeup, so powerful!! Thank you for waking me up today 💙

[@NeurodiversityFairy]

This is so powerful. Thank you so much! I am sorry for your loss, but you have made that loss something very healing for us all ❤

[@ElyzaHalpern]

More people need to see this. Thank you for this talk.

[@robinfletcher6718]

"If you have debt, you have not forgiven..." This statement hit me on the side of my head like a brick! Kudos to Tammy Lally to do the work and change the money-shame cycle.

[@FrancescoGranieri]

I agree. That one statement sums up my 20+ years of battling a seemingly endless amount of petty debt. Now I get it...forgiving myself is the key to letting that ghost go.

[@sasasladic3354]

Great talk! To be able to give such a powerful talk with all this pain inside of you... All i can say: thank you!

[@tundeakinrolabu9464]

Hearing that story about your brother broke my heart and brought me to tears. I also have alot of shame around my finances, and I felt myself tense up when you explained that conversation with your brother and his wife around creating a budget. This talk has really brought to light how deep my shame around money is, and how it's time for me to heal it.

[@DeniseSprung]

So sorry for your loss

[@SamuelAlder]

great presentation, thanks for sharing your story even though what you went through was painful and personal... those are often the stories people need to hear to not feel alone.

[@teresaphillips8436]

Excellent talk, Tammy! Very insightful and thought-provoking.

[@elerindesign]

Thank you for this talk as well. Very moving. Love Brene Brown as well.

[@amazjunelee]

Wow this video is absolutely amazing. I can’t believe it didn’t go viral. What is happening here….

[@drakewilliams10dw]

Thank you for sharing your life experience and lessons. Such is what makes humanity so great. 🙏🏾

[@fusionfitness7909]

So interesting that i never looked at it as shame shame. Thank you. Excited for our meeting today Tammy!

[@LOAforBIZ]

Wow...thanks for sharing! This is powerful.

[@BeverleyEllie]

Thank you for sharing. Sending love to all your family ❤

[@FrancescoGranieri]

What a great presentation, spot on and seemingly directed at my decades' old inner money script. Thank you for sharing your story with us; I hope your brother's children are doing ok.

[@shememmanuel9586]

I learned much from this vid...I hope to deal with me money shame, I may not be perfect , but Ill always try to be better. It was an amazing lesson on shame

[@selwynwarren1168]

Excellent talk. Very moving

[@coachestonswaby]

Powerful message thanks for sharing

[@elerindesign]

I'm the one in my family and not just money. It's a tough "job" but a much needed one :)

[@Thecashfarm]

Thank you for sharing. That was so brave

[@samkimani5426]

Powerful testimony

[@6lu5ky86]

Thank you for this story, I've built up a lot of debt from alcoholism. I'm finally on the right track, need to find a job and knock out my 5k of debt. Please pray for me. 🙏

[@smmn722]

Wow! This is intense

[@AWayOfLiving84]

Money shame. Where do you get your money from & how? Was it coming from a person with righteous ways? If it's not righteous do you try to make it?

[@delfinocarlin8624]

AMEN. THE BIBLE HAS MORE THAN 2350 VERSES ABOUT MONEY! THANKS!!

[@AWayOfLiving84]

Don't drill me too hard as I'm a 🐣🦈? I like to think out of the box. Because if things aren't working in a lot of areas. We need to think outside the box. Why the continuous failures

[@AWayOfLiving84]

I will put up a clip to about money shame. I hope you like my point of money shame? It's hard to speak about loved ones. But if it helps you & others to speak about things. Then go ahead.

[@positivity5269]

4:50

[@stuart6478]

ha ha ends with shaming. perfect. always come to ted for comedy. I just want a house so I can take care of things. wtf is greed anyway? what do people do if all the things are being done? what do you do if the things you want to do cost money? tools, art? like, what? what?! this video solves nothing. does this person know people are wealthy beyond belief and could even solve all this. show me an alternative

[@scsc-u9y]

exactly what i came here to say

[@sanvecino]

Capitalism feeds of money shame

[@AWayOfLiving84]

☯️🌏👣

[@mondliedwin4857]

Its easy if you put God above all else.

[@THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG]

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. SADLY, UNTIL PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THE PRINCIPLES YOU'VE DISCUSSED THE CYCLE WILL CONTINUE DOWNWARD. BLESS U & UR FAMILY. MUCH LOVE ❤️