Women Answer Questions Men Are Too Afraid To Ask

"What happens in the girls bathroom?"
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[@gabbyrena3746]

I feel like majority of the audience are women trying to relate instead of men trying to understand 😂

[@DiamondsAesthetic]

@dev0n james youre a whole weirdo... maybe thats why people think of you like that.

[@esmediamond]

Yesss

[@shabr1ri]

aaaaand both sided have successfully failed at having a good discussion

[@bad77dragtruck]

Learn what? Manipulation and excuses?

[@DA-js7xz]

@Hillbilly556 your name says it all. And you incels wonder why you can't get laid. Lmfao.

[@gloriaguo229]

Why we go to the bathroom in groups: -to talk sh*t - “Let’s get out of here” - “Girl your makeup is messed up” - “Girl lemme just fix that hair up” - “I’m on my period. You got a tampon on you?” Edit: it has recently been brought to my attention that my comment is extremely sexist towards men. I apologize to all males out there, and say this to you all: i’m well aware not every man is a predator, but from my point of view, i will not generally see a woman as a threat. I realize women can be predators as well, and often times men can’t do anything about it because of the sexist world we live in. I will delete the part where i mention the dangers of male predators for the sake of preventing further misunderstanding. I truly apologize to all males out there, and if you’re in an abusive relationship with a woman, you’re strong, and you can survive this.

[@gorillagripcoochiemama1619]

So true

[@Lily-kk2tu]

Or to pee ...

[@Lily-kk2tu]

Or to get outta class

[@Jaypat74]

Or you're midway through a great conversation and the other person has to pee.

[@jahimuddin2306]

So basically the boys locker room.

[@Ally-mv2in]

“I’m already like a whole lesbian” -Jaz

[@cliorossi5529]

If that's not a mood

[@rubydiamondp2125]

This is a whole fricken mood

[@hotchocbooks]

Same

[@tateguthaus5312]

Same Jazz 😂💕

[@CookingMyWay]

This killed my Channel 😂

[@sushirollyuki2104]

"What about men that scares you the most?" - g e t t i n g p r e g a n a n a n a n t

[@that_dam_baka]

Getting raped and pregnant while being in an environment where women are compelled to marry their rapists and don't even inherit their husband's property so killing him isn't very helpful.

[@BeckyMesser]

I LOVE THAT VIDEO 🤣

[@that_dam_baka]

@LiL Haze HZ still waiting for the list

[@that_dam_baka]

@Rehaan Aamir Your experiences make a lot of difference here. On equal footing, with equal power, (perhaps in one of those sexless countries where they actually don't use gender) I bet women can be scarier. But can I get that list anyway? Sounds interesting.

[@juliettem701]

Being raped, assauted, sexually assauted, murdered, beaten up, finding out my husband is agressive and beat me up and maybe even sexually assaut.

[@alanaterrel9914]

The black black girl cracks me up when she was listing the issues of men lol

[@SabatSch95]

In case you didn't realize, she was clearly just projecting.

[@tanishaverghese9832]

I felt it was kind of insulting and rude because the same thing could and does apply to women too and the people who do have to face such issues have gone through a certain amount of trauma and to make fun of them and trivialize them by joking about them is not very appropriate.

[@chico4631]

alana terrel let a guy say that about females watch everyone freak out double standards

[@tanishaverghese9832]

@Tiye Watkins I see your point and in that case you are right. But everyone will have had problems and taking care of them, helping them overcome it to some extent (I'm not saying we must babysit them, but wouldn't you want them to do the same for you?) is something we should do

[@tanishaverghese9832]

@Tiye Watkins I completely agree with you on that one.

[@michellestella7477]

You look pretty without makeup. B*tch, I know! 😂

[@anastasiashemwell5625]

I was rolling bruh 😂😂😂

[@jessicaw9011]

Can I steal this? This is literally me, every day. I rarely wear makeup

[@elisaalimberti4722]

@@jessicaw9011 me too

[@CookingMyWay]

Hypocrisy 😂

[@devaldyjonathan]

when guys say that they're basically saying they don't like ur makeup or that they would prefer to look at u without makeup.. not necessarily because they tryna compliment (bullsh*t) u

[@_mangostudio_1911]

“You look so pretty without makeup” “B!tch I know” LMAOOOO

[@lishuponastar]

Honestly I would love to sit down with Joyce and have her impart all her wisdom and confidence on me

[@anunayasingh3621]

Which one is Joyce?

[@AislingRosa]

She always came across as the exact opposite to me (no hate). How funny the perceptions differ

[@dabesaroundnstuff920]

She got none

[@CookingMyWay]

@@anunayasingh3621 the one on the left

[@Daniel-nf5bz]

That would be a very quick interaction

[@paturage1748]

the girl in the leopard shirt was spitting straight facts

[@lexthenightwing4214]

Joyce i think And whe is lol

[@alexia.w6159]

joycee always spitting facts

[@arcane1282]

I made your comment 1.9K

[@alexia.w6159]

baguem’s kpop AHAHAH. 4 days ago this comment was at 472 likes 😂😂

[@kelviannaepperson3677]

We love Joyce when she's on pero like it's 🔥

[@khushisrivastava8670]

"What about men scares you the most?" I think people will love a sugar-coated answer for that but like I'm just gonna say it, the fact that they might harass me.

[@kimberlysharkey8164]

Or sexually assault or abuse you, or anyone else.

[@Pain.-]

Exacly

[@lilli-besma8493]

sexual abuse

[@SoleilMagica]

i must be the weird one because there's literally nothing about men that scare me

[@khushisrivastava8670]

@@SoleilMagica good for you ?

[@ravengreene6681]

They must film like 20 videos in one day 😂😂😂 Edit; I completely forgot about this comment but OMG LINDSAY REPLIED 😭😭💖💖💖

[@rachelgomes9373]

Raven Greene I know! I’ve seen the jazz and Lindsey swap outfits and wear these same clothes in like 5+ videos...

[@briancampbell8283]

Raven Greene they think that even the guy at the bottom (feeder) the freeloader. Can sway the chick at the top, when they do foul plays and have no game. Then complain you can’t buy Greenland I’m not a prostitute

[@nafisarahman8397]

I know RIGHT

[@siobhanceili6566]

I was litterly just gonna comment thag

[@pinkgiraffe378]

Yeah ikr

[@nefar17]

The multiple cuts to joyce listing off the issues with dating men 😂😂😂

[@annabanana7946]

You don’t need to be rude by calling Joyce a fat whale. The original commenter was just saying how they thought that the editing was funny.

[@jalenhart7651]

Rehaan Aamir bruh this is why some girls hate on men most guys don’t act like you, but guys like you are why radical feminists exist

[@jalenhart7651]

Rehaan Aamir but also I don’t agree with what she was saying (she was purely hating)

[@janekof]

@@jalenhart7651 Most of the issues she talked about dealt with problems of having a low EQ, which as a whole it's been studied that men have less of on _average_ . It's ok to be upset by it and defensively call out Joyce to mitigate your feelings. That's an unhealthy tactic people with low EQ tend to do when they get overly offended/upset by something. 🍵

[@fatyes891]

@Rehaan Aamir your insecurities are showing

[@elora512]

I wear makeup because I'm insecure and I feel the need to portray a certain image, not just boys. Girls give me anxiety, guys give me anxiety, everyone is equal. The general public scares me. So, self-expression isn't the only reason.

[@kentiastrickland2556]

I feel you on this. People generally just make me anxious.

[@Who-Dunnit]

Damn, that sucks. Hope you find a way to deal with that.

[@selinanewland8715]

I feel this on a painfully real level.

[@mehh9364]

I feel you! I don't wear makeup. But it's about my body :/ I'm not comfortable in any clothes I wear. Except baggy clothes which cover me up completely.. :/

[@maggiez3703]

I feel you on that it's the girls who are really looking at my makeup or clothes, but not necessarily in a bad way. Mostly because guys don't care about the little details but girls can see it.

[@mycatisthecutestcatonearth199]

I remember I once searched for the reason why my boobs were smaller than other girls because I was CURIOUS I just wanted to understand the scientific reason! I didn't find an answer because the whole first page was about whether man preferred small or larger boobs I wasn't even wandering if dudes would like my breasts

[@pedroflores3354]

You probably just don’t know how to phrase the question

[@dianacardy336]

halley amelia *TELL ME THE REASON* !!!!! (cardi b’s voice*)😂👌

[@rp5751]

genetics is the answer to your question, my love:)

[@komikherif5427]

I am a personality guy but boobs are important

[@sophiaangelina8402]

@@pedroflores3354 that might not be it either though. Women's magazines base a lot on what men want to have in a women rather than what women want to read about

[@saralind2032]

"people are getting married for clout." *sips tea....*

[@Aj-qq5zo]

*cough*cough*tana&jake*cough

[@sage8281]

This must be an American problem. I've never heard of this issue before, and all of my married friends are pretty ride or die long-term deals.

[@rseestella2296]

Who else wanted to reply about Jana immediately

[@ruebascu]

@@sage8281 It's definitely an American problem. The marriage laws are terrible..... for men

[@Danielle-to4ke]

Sage Gervais .... it’s not it was joke poking fun at tana and Jake Paul.

[@mariaedg3055]

I don’t know her name but the girl in all pink is so cute and pretty

[@user-zb4yv5rp2y]

Mari a she’s called Lindsay and i know she’s real cute

[@signeunbeck6856]

I think both of them are cute!

[@user-hg9tb8xp1n]

Mari a lindsay webster, she has a channel!!

[@joaj6757]

Mari a her name is Lindsay

[@nwohauptzentrale4815]

Kermit is comfy stfu lesbian

[@justalonelystreetlamp288]

“What scares you about men?” “Everything” “What’s the worst part of dating guys?” “What he might do if things go bad.” “Why do you go to the bathroom together?” “Buddy system. Don’t wanna walk anywhere alone.” This is honestly really sad that women can’t feel safe about anything :/

[@1yanyiel]

Mostly women in the states think this way. These are just ideas that have been continually reinforced in that culture. I am not from the U.S and in my culture there exists no such idea towards men. Idk what is up with U.S that there’s like this ideological movement of hating men, it’s sad and it hurts me as a male myself.

[@noemieo.2501]

Yanyiel77 hating men ? You mean being scared of them ?

[@omgdangcheapkicks5196]

@@noemieo.2501 isn't this the same channel that promotes women being just as strong as men? So why don't they show that power when getting mugged.

[@noemieo.2501]

Omg dang cheap kicks it's a biological fact that, in terms of physical strength, men overpower women. You probably think you're hilarious. Review the different ways the term "strength" can be used and then come back to run your ignorant mouth.

[@poopsmagoo]

@@1yanyiel there is a world of difference between identifying a threat and hating the threat. I don't hate bears, but I don't go investigating caves during the winter. To comment that women's fear of men is ideological in nature indicates a lack of well rounded education regarding violence toward women conducted by men. The statistics speak for themselves. And before a bunch of butthurt overripe avocados start sounding off, I am not saying or implying that only men commit violence toward women. Violence is multifaceted both in its development and manifestation. Anyone has the potential to act as an abuser, be it physically, emotionally, or socially. My point is that statistically speaking the number one threat to women is men and the number one threat to men is other men. It's heartbreaking that instead of acknowledging this and acting to address the root causes of violence (for both women and men, for violence both physical and mental) so many unstable ladders of humans would rather argue about BUT IT'S NOT ALL or WELL BUT WOMEN ALSO 🙄🙄 If you keep getting a flat tire you don't yell at the car for needing an oil change or criticize the quality of rubber on the tires. You get the tire patched, identify the most likely places for tire-damaging debris, and change your driving habits accordingly.

[@tythehealer9559]

Joyce needs a Ted Talk!!! 😂

[@biancaq2922]

Yass. I would love to see that happen

[@ohboilien]

Or at least a podcast. could listen to her all day

[@Carmencms]

Fkeu She is smart. That’s why so many people liked the original comment, because they agreed. 🙄

[@narutosraman]

Fkeu dang that sucks:/ I’m sure you’ll find an alternative!

[@des-ta-knee3348]

aw man looks like you're lacking that quality, better luck next time Fkeu

[@veroni3584]

"Stop looking at our differences and start seeing how we're similar" I love tht too!

[@pizzablackwell5583]

But feminists also look at how we’re different

[@TheDanim1]

@@pizzablackwell5583 y did u have to bring that up? Feminists are retards. So? Let it be look at the good side.

[@pcos2401]

If there is anything feminism has showed us is how utterly and fundamentally different we are. Cause god knows can I not even begin to relate to these catty and sexist feminist in BuzzFeed and the countless women who subscribe to this garbage 😂

[@Lana-pb7ij]

Men: we don’t talk in the bathroom Me as a girl: I have couple best friends that I got to know them in the bathroom

[@keiron.4612]

What happens in the bathroom

[@_x..Jamie..x_]

Same! I met my best friend for the first time while going to the bathroom... Although it wasn't IN a bathroom... High school parties in parks are interesting... In other words I was peeing behind a bush and she was changing clothes behind the same bush. I asked if it was ok that me and my other friend were gonna pee and she said yes to which I (drunkenly) replied something about obviously, since we're all girls and then did our (me and my other friend) business and went on with our nights. The following week she came to talk to me and like 2months later mentioned us meeting in the bushes and I hadn't even remembered there being anyone in the bushes until she mentioned it, especially not it being her. Now she's my closest friend and I love her and we have like no boundaries, which would likely be so anyways due to our personalities being like that but I think meeting for the first time behind a bush in a park of all places, while intoxicated at a party, while she was in her bra changing clothes and I was peeing definitely helps. 😂

[@Lana-pb7ij]

Jamie well my story wasn’t that exciting we just talked about haircuts and just went with it

[@Lana-pb7ij]

David Parkinson nothing we just tell the story of our life and our dippiest secrets to a random stranger. Maybe gossip to but you already know that

[@JAZYMEOW]

I met my current bestfriend in a single person bathroom in a mall that had a club. she was very panicky after she had mixed alcohol and a few hits of a wax pen. I stayed with her and we talked till both of our boyfriends came to pick us up. Walked her to his car and turns out the guys had been friends in highschool. Now we all hang out all the time lol

[@Mari_PL]

Can you please make men answer questions that women are too afraid to ask? I really like your videos!

[@ellasmusic164]

44 33 they won’t. Because women are a monority, and they don’t care to much for straight cis men. I say that as a trans black woman.

[@jennyclarkston6293]

@@ellasmusic164 how are women a minority? They're half the whole world's population? But I think it'd be cool if they did a video like that. And then they could do one for people who identify as something else.

[@davidblancarte4839]

Guys would get attacked for being honest

[@Exemplaris_Perennia]

Women are the minority. When you learn about sociology they explain that ‘minority’ doesn’t necessarily mean there are less of them in the population, but that they are often marginalized or are less socially/economically powerful than the opposing group. Yes, women are about 52% of the population, but in our society they are still the minority.

[@ellasmusic164]

Zuzia Adamowicz oh, I forgot to do the quotation marks. “Minority”

[@rosesraeken]

the quote in the description should've been "I'm already a whole lesbian"

[@bethanychatman9531]

@J. Kingsmith wow. You are gross human being, it's insane that you're so insulted by someone else's physical appearance.

[@Unknown_crusader]

"What about men scare you the most?" Well from my experience they can be really scary, especially when angry and not to mention I lack the physical strength to do much when in danger. That doesn't mean I'm afraid of every men though, just cautious

[@bobbiems3154]

Yes what scares me is I’m a size 0 with zero physical strength so my ultimate fear is to be raped and murdered or something.

[@shiverfan4867]

As a man, I can confirm, my dad got super angry and he scared me

[@karusha2942]

" my friend's hot " - Joyce 😂🤣 I love her! We all need a friend like Joyce

[@satan324]

How many videos did they film on the day Jazz and Lindsay swapped outfits? 😂

[@recoil53]

They may have done a bunch in one day, but just from seeing these clothes so much I feel like there is a certain stank. Like intellectually I'm thinking it was all the same day, but just seeing them so often it feels like they've been wearing the same stuff for a week straight.

[@ViciousVelociraptor]

when guys ask me why I wear my make up my favorite answer is "you know how when you play sims you get to customize your character anyway you want?? It's like that except real life"

[@belle-gj4sp]

Rehaan Aamir usually I don’t respond to 11 year olds on youtube, but what makes you think women only wear makeup when going out or dating? I mostly do makeup for fun when I’m staying home all day. And is it wrong to care about your appearance? Should guys wear stained clothes, never cut their hair, not take care of their skin, because otherwise they’re ‘insecure’?

[@FaintNightmare]

It's like that whether you are good at applying make up or a total slob. At least the game designers have style. Idk

[@mgtow-balance3409]

fake up

[@the_lucid_dreamer_0755]

Yes. 😂

[@Jilly98]

Rehaan Aamir uh we do wear it at home. I do crazy eyeshadow looks at home just for fun. I will do full face of makeup just because I’m bored or want to try something different. It’s a nice outlet to express myself and try different looks.

[@jrc150]

As a woman I NEVER understood the bathroom group thing. I don’t go to the bathroom with other women. I guess I’m the odd ball out 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Alina_Schmidt]

No, certainly not 😊 Reality is more diverse, but often when one thing is deemed normal everything else disappears.

[@rivermoon2985]

One girl breaks their heart and that messes them up emotionally, for the rest of their lives-- Literally my mum's past two exes oml

[@tessa6432]

I hate when guys ask me why do you wear make up and it's just a natural look I'm like bruh why do you do gel in your hair? I mean because it look nicer on you right? Stfu to all those boys some girls just love make up ya know Edit: just don't judge girls on having make up on maybe if a girl wears too much make up and you cant see at all the person when the make up is off ya okay but chill men and woman have both products they use for looking better idc what men say about make up I still will wear it bye yall

[@isabellahu4606]

But theres also a large group who does it out of insecurity, some don't even realise it bc they're trying so hard to convince themselves its bc like 'art'

[@bellla6831]

Makeup is art. Your face is the canvas in which will be transformed into something that enhances your natural features, weather it is a natural look or dramatic look

[@fridamendez286]

Brendons Forehead if that’s really the thing (supposedly, considering that you don’t know) so what?? Let them, if they’re insecure and need to use make up to feel better, it’s ok Don’t shame people like that

[@isabellahu4606]

@@fridamendez286 where did you see me shame anyone?🤔

[@tessa6432]

@@isabellahu4606 well I think everybody has sometimes a bad day and need some make up to hide it but I wouldn't do a full glam look on my face

[@bigboy5155]

i like how it’s women explaining how men feel, even though they know nothing about them

[@asha_vere]

Question: What about men scares you most? Response: Everything? Me: Big mood

[@bbygrlpt2]

They were just right bout bein afraid of them.. After seeing so many news of men killin their wives, kids, gfs and just any women im a bit traumatized 😣

[@Ebthehousesitter]

bbygrlpt2 Especially the silence from other men on the topic. You are right though, that definitely makes me leery of dating men as well. I think setting boundaries is important and watching to see which types of men are overstepping or ignoring your boundaries. Those are the ones that are also violating boundaries in society and who more than likely dont respect you as a person.

[@keniamolina644]

And then women getting killed for rejecting “men” :/

[@bbygrlpt2]

Kenia Molina Yes and that happens all over the world and no one does anything.

[@bbygrlpt2]

Danni Sapp True but theres also married men with kids.. that just randomly kill their wives. I feel like we’re in a position that if they wanna kill us theres nothin we can do😔 and society isn’t concerned with these things happening more often.

[@ellasmusic164]

😂 playing victim I see. The reason things like this happen is because people don’t open their eyes to red flags in the first place. If people could see red flags, and know when there’s a dangerous man or woman or anything. You’re generalising a whole group as dangerous just because a few bad apples in the group did something. There are more good men then bad men. But the media will only show the bad because of their feminist agenda. As a girl, I won’t stand for this. Not yesterday not today not tomorrow and not ever.

[@dakotac180]

Bathroom: gossip, makeup, compliment each other, make best friends, it's like a bar within a bar 😂

[@iftheytestmetheysorry6338]

I don’t think I’ve ever been in a bathroom like that

[@jessicamompoint1849]

Thanks Joyce for the correction...tea where?😒 Joyce is hitting some valid points.

[@lexivk2645]

4:29 -Best quote of 2019

[@emmaclements5991]

Lexi and Aggie 😂😂

[@addiemeier5168]

My biggest issue with guys is that sometimes I end up feeling like a piece of meat. But men are not evil and are not the enemy. Both genders can be equally messed up and mean.

[@Gods-bad-boy]

Being a man is hard. And after a hard day at the office or job site we're tired. Your not a piece of meat you're just what we have to look forward to when we get home.

[@obviouslynotaghost8033]

My favorite part is just when Joyce just mumbles, "my friends hot" 😂

[@amelidiaz1244]

When guys say “you look pretty without makeup” SHE: BI*CH I KNOW!

[@lacortneyfinch]

Ameli ! That was my part lol

[@rheam3920]

Joyce is.freaking awesome 😂😂💜 *So much bonding happens in the bathrooms* sooo true

[@jujubees]

Yasss and at 4:38 girl! Can I have that confidence please!?!!?

[@arcofspira]

Thanks for answering the questions that I, a man, am apparently too afraid to ask.

[@kristyn9977]

Hi

[@cuqui__monster1893]

kristyn O Hi

[@ucykitty7936]

@@cuqui__monster1893 Hi

[@yagirlalyxx]

ʆucy kitty Hi

[@clayfacethelegend1604]

Sorry for breaking the chain, but as a man, I agree. These are definitely all the answers to all the questions that (decided by women I assume) I am too afraid to ask.

[@khushaartanveer874]

The girl in the cheetah top is my spirit animal

[@inzaghiscornsalad7034]

The bucket hat girl, I'm literally whipped for her voice.

[@anjanasaha6253]

Jazzmyne....

[@serenaperez3730]

7:53 people are getting married for clout diss to tana and jake paul lmao

[@MsBellyFlopBounce]

What does clout mean?

[@essykim2981]

@@MsBellyFlopBounce I think it's like popularity or Fame

[@budhivalirakieten4421]

I love jungkookies yup

[@bethannierose1885]

Serena Perez who? no this was meant to diss anyone who got married immediately after high school

[@LiveOutLoud87]

If the shoe fits

[@leaf8616]

Ok- but like- I'm a girl and I've never even understood why other girls go to the bathroom together.. maybe it's just because I don't really like to gossip or really talk at all.. but none of my friends have understood the "girls go to the bathroom together" concept either soo...

[@kylastewart4085]

Lilly H Well in public places it’s more safe to go somewhere in a group setting. I think if you’re on like a friend outing or like a double date it’s a way to kinda take a breath with your friend. Idk if this makes sense but this is how I think about it

[@rabeccahalby1507]

Literally everytime Jazzmyne has to excuse something "I'm a libra" "You know I'm a libra" "Cause I'm a libra"

[@kn0ck_0ut95]

Listening to their answers about the worst part about dating guys actually really pissed me off. They literally grouped every single man together under a blanket idea. They also act like they don't have their own issues and baggage. Idk I understand if you don't click with a person while dating them, but if you're serious about continuing a relationship with someone then both of you need to help each other grow.

[@reiners_ptsd4027]

The girl talking about how she carries her keys to her car just in case, is literally me when I ride my bike down the road and bring a pocket knife 😂

[@incognitochinchillea]

I literally carry a pocket knife in my side boob, bag/backpack and pants pocket (if I have pockets) in case I EVER have to use them.

[@itsgiuliaaaa]

"I'm a libra, i like to be impressed" gurl don't

[@petrikhubacek4058]

Clikkies are everywhere,.. Wow

[@itsgiuliaaaa]

@@petrikhubacek4058 hahaha ikr I am easily recognisable

[@petrikhubacek4058]

@@itsgiuliaaaa haha yeah true :D

[@budhivalirakieten4421]

Why not.

[@clintonleonard5187]

Well you better be worth impressing!

[@theukrainianoctopus7861]

(Remembers BuzzFeed’s video about questions women have for men) Me : War Flashbacks

[@monolith253]

We need a Doc Shaym vid on this

[@lebkuchenmann7663]

I wish i could give you both more likes

[@monolith253]

Der Lebkuchenmann thanks

[@happystanner1280]

*one girl breaks their heart and emotional issues for life* why is this so true,, they can never forget the pain like dude focus on me, you got me now! I'm ur girl imma make u happy calm down

[@sophiagomz]

You know it hurts when your friends pull the “wanna go to the restroom?” Talk but they ask each other and you aren’t a part of it :(

[@bibinthomas5282]

Ur invited in mens 😌😌😌,here we cut hair,play ps4,got MMA fights... 🤣🤣🤣🤣... basically a mini club

[@clintonleonard5187]

"I'm a Libra. I like to be impressed." Every girl watching video: Omg same.

[@sadpotato3386]

As a Leo, I want them to be impressed.

[@howsmartareya3908]

Im a Pisces, I will impress nobody bit myself.

[@Emm_er]

7:23"They don't even look at each other?! ... *WOOOOOOOOOOW* "

[@milliejay1451]

The sisterhood in the bathroom is the best. You go into a bathroom see you’ve started your period you can ask for anything and you’ll have like ten girls pass you things under the cubicle door. If you’re crying in there, you’ll get girls come up to you and make sure you’re ok and give you hugs if you need it, if you need to get out of a situation your bathroom girls are there for you

[@itz_pluto4682]

Them roasting men left and right lmfaoo. we stan

[@joycechin8789]

The asian girl sounds like winona ryder omg

[@meganholt5869]

When guys say to me "you look so different without makeup" I'm just like , well I don't pay all that money to look the same 💅

[@someoldguy5316]

All we do in the bathroom is talk to each other, assuming we know each other of course

[@Ice-df5zf]

For the “what’s the worst part about dating guys” question. Joyce literally said it ALL👏🏿👏🏿like exactly what I would’ve said !!!!

[@alex-fs9yt]

What irritates me about some guys is that they just don't understand female anatomy! Not even just from a sexual standpoint but in a general way.

[@Anthony-op7xz]

Its a lot more complex, and taught no where. Most women learn about from curiosity or first hand (im guessing, im not a girl). As men our anatomy is simple, and most of it is external, so u can basically understand it from a photo.

[@meikaaa9042]

@@Anthony-op7xz That doesn't make much sense but ok.

[@lilY-f1t]

something that totally makes alot of sense to me is that when a man does something bad to woman, its taken seriously. But when its the other way around, its.......not? i dont what kind of pot this world is smoking. but something is not right. i am not defending any predators, i just think its kind of weird when a woman abuses a man and nobody cares. Also, people also encourage men to show their feelings, but when they do it, they get crapped on and mocked. And apparently these feminist want equality. But they should keep in mind that when they insult a man, they are technically roasting themselves. But thats about it.

[@sorayaellis2700]

4:29 is a WHOLE mood 😂😂😂

[@OrangeCatAttack]

Joyce was spot on with "issues with dating men topic"!! Sweat oml

[@jeremynpollack9371]

Hi how are you doing

[@notafangirl2099]

7:15 - 7:18 why is this lowkey *accurate?* Okay. *HIGHKEY ACCURATE.*

[@laurenlikecats]

Getting compliments from random beautiful strangers in public is the best part of women's bathrooms

[@laurenlikecats]

@Bridge Dweller because our society and experiences have trained us to be scared of men and wary of their words. This is about women complimenting women.

[@laurenlikecats]

@Bridge Dweller it is still kind. Also the premise is in a bathroom, which I'm assuming you wouldn't know about.

[@Bridgejonesrox]

I went with my friend to the house of a guy she was seeing, and he had a cat. The litterbox was like a litter closet, and it was obvious he never emptied the box and just kept pouring out clean litter on the pile. Which....I do horrific things, so absolutely no shame but I would never EVER let someone see that if I wanted to sleep with him. Talk about a mood killer

[@RoxyRocket001]

The answer for the makeup question was ON POINT

[@Septic-Hearts]

The night of my first Homecoming I was apart of a large group of friends that went out for dinner before the dance. I stood up to go to the bathroom and the next thing I know majority of the table is there with me. I've become so accustomed to girl groups that of the few times I've gone to an empty bathroom alone I always felt extremely uneasy. Especially if I happen to pass a group of guys on the way there, and/or if there's lock on the bathroom door. I don't think most of the guys I've come across even noticed me half the time, I have no way of knowing they would have done anything, but that fear is always in the back of my mind. We all hear about 'that poor girl that went through X' so most, if not ALL girls try everything in their power not to be the next story.

[@eskarina1000]

It's a product of women being blamed for being attacked - what did you expect, you were: dressed a certain way, you were in a certain area alone at night, you went somewhere private with someone you didn't know very well, you were drinking, etc. It has taught us to be hyper-vigilant about everything we do in order to avoid the inevitable "if you had just done x or not done x you wouldn't have been attacked".

[@May04bwu]

It's true that empty bathrooms can be extremely uncomfortable to be in

[@rayellejohnson9961]

I officially appreciate being 5'10 and medium/lg bone size. I dont feel afraid when I'm near guys. I just lift up my shoulders/correct posture, naturally, and get ready to punch someone in the face vs running away and feeling helpless.

[@beehive7753]

I'm small compared to you but same, When a guy threatens me I learned to fight and defend myself, but if I can't then I better run.

[@antheiheiant]

Well, I used to be the same and then something actually happened to me. Never again. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@TechWeLove]

What about women scares me the most ? Women who are rude and gossip. The same thing applies to men. Being rude and gossiping means you're not a part of my life at all. 😁

[@jenahbatony7711]

im a women but honneslty there's nothing that scare me abt men :/

[@mariamishalal]

Same like, aren’t they human just like us? Also I might not make sense but when I see people saying their afraid of being alone with a man bc they could get r*ped, I’d be afraid of also getting r*ped by a women. Basically if I was afraid of a man I would also be afraid of a women cuz who knows what anyone could do to you. But a lot of ppl assume that oh there’s a man he’s gonna r*pe me. Sorry I ranted to you my point is, be careful of anyone not just men. Have a nice day

[@eskarina1000]

@@mariamishalal It's about relative physical size and strength.

[@mariamishalal]

eskarina1000 you have a great point I should’ve looked into it more

[@kssgpv]

probably you are young an unexperienced. Be careful , please.

[@jenahbatony7711]

kssgpv no i’m not haha, i’ve actually been harassed by men in the streets (and unfortunately it happened very young) but it doesn’t make me more scared i’m not going to live in fear. so there’s nothing that scare me more abt men than women

[@happystanner1280]

question: what about men scares you the most? girl: like everything LMAO

[@jm2307]

Anyone else notice Jazz is wearing a a palm tree necklace and Linds is wearing the matching earrings?

[@mugbugbabe]

The bucket hat is also Lindsay's

[@beyza2000.]

What makes me afraid of man, is that they are for sure bigger and stronger then me. That there are human being who I don't call "man" who actually ever raise their hand toward woman or kids.

[@joshikawale25]

When Joyce starts talking about men and dating them Oh my god 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@haleywharton8038]

The thing that scares me most about men, is that until they take the time to know you or me, we are just things to be had. Like in a video game, the main character runs around and can do whatever they want to the NPC's. To them, I am an NPC. Major respect for the beauty in the leopard print shirt. Her unhostile honesty gives my hope.

[@hunter424]

Source?

[@mariposastay]

What scares me most about men? The reactions from rejection.

[@orang9407]

What? A lot of guys really don’t do anything.

[@shirokimminjungparkjeon3358]

@@orang9407 Here's a bowl of m&m's. 10% of them are poisoned. Take a handful and eat it. What? A lot of m&m's aren't really poisoned.

[@shirokimminjungparkjeon3358]

@Lego I mean yea, it's better to be safe than sorry. Would you eat a handful of those m&m's knowing they might be the poisoned ones?

[@cyagami90]

To all the guys saying we have nothing to fear I want you to admit if you have emotional problems. Have you ever gotten in an argument with your girlfriend and yelled at her and watched her shut down or back away in fear. Exactly. That isn't you getting over your dark and stormy past. Thats literally the definition of domestic abuse. And then you wonder why we don't say what's wrong. Its to avoid an argument that ultimately always pisses off the emotionally disfunctional guy. And you can blame us for dating them sure but I dated plenty of men who seemed nice and normal and all of them but one did that to me. So maybe stop trying to talk over us to say we're wrong.

[@tianatt8602]

Joyce is such a mood

[@khristyh2421]

YOOO WHATEVER THE GIRL IN THE CHEETAH TOP JUST SAID, I FELT IT ON A SPIRITUAL LEVEL!! 🗣💯👏🏼

[@abdolpix4581]

9:31 I agree. Stop looking at our differences. You just dedicated this whole video to making men feel like they are from mars and you women are from venus.

[@dc6758]

This right here!

[@amelianormington]

one time i was wearing purple nail polish, and heres a conversation i had with a guy: him: you painted your nails me: yeah him: why didnt you paint them red? me: uhm.. i liked purple him: but why not? it has to be the weirdest conversation with a guy that ive ever had

[@carolmurray4276]

I just painted mine dark purple lol.

[@redruby9564]

I would be like I'm goth sarcastically

[@jelatinosa]

I'm always taken aback by the sense of entitlement guys feel about what women should and shouldn't do. Like they seriously think everything we do is about them.

[@GuadaTG]

The comments on this videos are always a battlefield. I mean, both parts start fighting and it's obvious that it isn't going to end soon

[@adrianghandtchi1562]

I don’t think the men are afraid of women in general to ask these questions, I think they were afraid to ask these girls these questions.

[@clarash8608]

Next video idea pls “I dress up as Korean girl group bands for a week”

[@tofu6957]

i go to the bathroom with my friend is because i'm scared to go alone

[@theautistic.teacher]

Same

[@jeannielikeinabottle]

Yaaaaaasssss Joyce! How are you so freaking world savvy at your age? You've figured out things that have taken me 31 years to figure out!

[@salmon1290]

Aro/ace here be like: bench idk

[@phoenixviking7398]

Me just fully relating to the women’s bathroom stuff, the women’s bathroom is the most magical place straight up

[@mamartinez2583]

Personally when a man has emotions I find that so hot.

[@cafezo87934]

I don't lol

[@mamartinez2583]

@@cafezo87934 I don't see how people can tell a man that they shouldn't cry because they have to be manly. You see so often that men are so emotionally unavailable and it's boring and feels like they are just detached from the relationship. Obviously I'm not talking about when they cry about every little thing. But its nice when a man can sit down and tell you what's going on and how they feel, it just shows how mature they are.

[@kdrama7115]

It’s cute to a certain extent , but curled up in a fetal position crying uncontrollably...... is not so yeah

[@rickyflyyy9661]

3:47 lol that DEFINITELY goes both ways 🤣

[@xxbannedall3374]

I rob snails for a living

[@elisabethschmidt8430]

Who else just love these girls??💕🤯🤯

[@ishkadon-ell4927]

Saitan

[@pinkgiraffe378]

Seriously how many videos do they film in one day?!

[@ishkadon-ell4927]

Yes

[@lordtsatan]

3:00 joyce started spittin straight facts here

[@thetechdude1]

I felt that when she dissed my shoes 😢

[@zoeklein6902]

i love you guys and the whole buzzfeed team

[@SUMO31364]

zoe klein say sike nah rn

[@Lena2light]

My girlfriends and I talk about our issues we’re having at work in the bathroom. Sometimes we discuss what we’re having for lunch or show our abs in the mirror.

[@jhopeless8300]

Just saying hasn't BuzzFeed released about 5 videos with the exact same questions

[@HinataGotica]

I read "would you be the first person to make a MOVIE in a relationship?" 🤣