Women Find Mens Boundaries Very Attractive

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@ModernDatingMastery Ай бұрын

*When you set clear expectations and respect your own needs, women see you as someone who values himself, which naturally draws them in.*

@alexis-hunter Ай бұрын

Yeah, just lets not skip the part where socials are flooded with shorts about men setting boundaries are called out as controlling. Good advice for a parallel universe, just not ours.

@1000bottles Ай бұрын

You can tell Sadia is genuinely fascinated by men

@brookvalley907 Ай бұрын

Boundaries can be placed and maintained through humor and laughter. The other day a woman said that she was mad at me. I replied that I was glad that she was mad at me, because she is so cute and sexy when she is mad. I just set a boundary. Her being mad at me has no effect on my behavior. I've told women in the past that I'll try and make them mad at me, because they are so sexy when they're mad. Using anger to set boundaries shows weakness. We only get mad when we feel threatened. Getting mad at a woman tells her that you are afraid of her. Just treat her like your annoying little sister.

@thelifeofahousewife4506 Ай бұрын

Or maybe try treating her as an equal. So say something like: “I don’t intend to change my behavior because you’re mad at me. I love you. You can share your thoughts and feelings with me openly, all I ask is that it’s shared with respect and kindness. Anger tears that apart. What’s on your mind?” *let her dump* When she’s done, explain your side. “I didn’t realize you wanted me to take the trash out. You didn’t say anything yesterday and since I was watching the game, I didn’t really notice. In the future, would you please let me know if you would like the trash taken out by simply asking.” *she gets mad and makes generalizations like: you are ALWAYS watching the game and you NEVER pay attention to me or ask me what I need “You just generalized my behavior by saying I “always” or I “never”. I don’t appreciate that because neither is true. Please avoid making generalizations about my behavior. Are you saying that I’m not noticing you when you’re in need? The truth is you never told me, and I can’t read your mind. I just need you to tell me what you need - I’m happy to do it. I love you and you matter to me. Next time please just let me know you need the trash taken out.” It’s really not that hard to treat others with respect, love, and kindness and hold a boundary. Telling her she’s just cute when she’s mad is just another way of avoiding the actual conversation and continuing to be manipulative 👍🏻

@IkeFromFrontStreet Ай бұрын

Too long not reading.

@BilboBoris Ай бұрын

The fact that you wrote all that and thought it works with women is so funny. I once talked to my ex with a deadpan voice completely devoid of emotion and she started crying. She couldn't handle that she couldn't read my emotional state. Don't bs us into thinking you can logic your way into a woman's compliance.

@pez6905 Ай бұрын

Rule 1: dont get with a women who uses social media. Especially insta and tiktok

@dwaynefade Ай бұрын

that’s tough these days 😂

@vannoyre 27 күн бұрын

Any man that has to say “these are my boundaries” has already lost

@primalcoach1914 26 күн бұрын

As a 44 year old man, who's had quite a few relationships, and now married, I'm thinking more and more that there are certain life skills young boys are not being taught in schools. Especially as their parents relationships are probably dysfunctional.

@heartofthelion6169 Ай бұрын

I get what she means in the beginning of the video about not setting boy series earlier but you leave a relationship anytime you want to and for whatever reason you want to. I don’t encourage us all to do that but if you get into something and later on you think you made a mistake it’s okay to walk away. Just don’t make the other person feel like they were the problem

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

My biggest boundary is that I never show up to do anything but validate myself around women. That way, if one gets upset and walks away, how can I care when I was just wanting to be propped up the whole time and I can do it on my own just fine?

@civildiscourse7626 Ай бұрын

It’s also important to know that maybe he didn’t set such boundaries because in the beginning he didn’t see it as a serious relationship but once he did his standards changed

@adventureinlife7700 29 күн бұрын

100% true 5:08 …and so very unfortunate it is. For I now know and understand …way too late… in my life the nuclear fallout for a man who was once was the boy, the teenager that struggle with self esteem and now has to learn how to have good self esteem as a man, while he constantly needs to fight back against years of past frustrations, rejection, and social failures. It is so… very draining to juggle this while also trying to work all my other goals and aspirations. Which apparently must be achieved in order to offset my 5’9” short stature.

@KitLizzLondon Ай бұрын

I had to go back and read on what happened with Jonah Hill and his ex-girlfriend. I get it now as Jonah wanted to settle down and be more traditional; however, his ex-girlfriend did not want to meet his demands to make any future marriage opportunity work. I can see she did not want to change for him, so she was not the right marriage partner for him. I do not agree with her posting their text messages just because she was mad that: (1) he moved on without her; (2) he had a family without her; (3) he had a baby without her. That hits women a certain way and I bet to this day his ex-girlfriend is still mad at him. Shame.

@beedebawng2556 Ай бұрын

She did it to herself. Wanted to be a wife, while refusing to be wife material.

@sauvikray1401 Ай бұрын

Thanks for helping and wishing us men well.

@dend1 Ай бұрын

Need a video on how to get better at establishing boundaries early

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

Are you this unable to figure it out on your own? Implement some techniques to figure out what garners good responses

@dend1 Ай бұрын

@marcusmcgraw3519 i'll be honest, I'd like her to provide actionable solutions. Trying figure it out on my own is what got me in to trouble in the first place

@sMASHsound Ай бұрын

U have to decide what u like and what u don't like. U figure out what u can tolerate , what u can compromise on and what are deal breakers . And as soon as u see things coming to light, u bring it up. Either u decide u live it with for the rest of ur life, u compromise , or it's a deal beaker and u break it off.

@dend1 Ай бұрын

@sMASHsound thanks for the advice

@jasongold708 Ай бұрын

This is dated. Everything was all good until he moved on and started a family with another woman. His ex came out WAY AFTER THE FACT with this bullsh*t. He established his boundaries from the get go which she agreed with and became a problem once he found someone else.

@johnpetkos5686 Ай бұрын

It's like she's describing my last relationship!

@Yezebnesh_Maharat Ай бұрын

Thanks, Sadia.

@lycanx900 Ай бұрын

My A.I girlfriend loves me

@Kitofthearts Ай бұрын

Haha, mine too bro, mine too...

@ssam1820 Ай бұрын

Sadia please open the comments with the video of you vs Pearl, pearl needs to get so relaity check 😮

@theliquor1 Ай бұрын

Love conquers all

@adebukola____ Ай бұрын

Truer words ..

@selkerva3026 Ай бұрын

❤

@dend1 Ай бұрын

Jonah set his terms. If she doesn't agree she is free to leave. How is this a controversy? Also he is free to change his mind and impose new boundaries as the relationship matures. Again, if she doesn’t like it she can break up with him

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

Because it shows he has low self esteem if he’s this needy. No, it’s not low self esteem to have a boundary or not wanting to be cheated on. But forcing a girl to cut off her Instagram to be with you shows that you are desperate to control her. And that is a turn off for anyone

@dend1 Ай бұрын

@marcusmcgraw3519 Thank you for informing me I think its judgemental to call him needy. He has his reasons for not wanting his girlfriend on Instagram. If he decides to place Boundaries against it, she is free to find someone who doesn't feel the same way, and he is free to find a girl who doesn't use instagram. The point of contention is whether or not instagram is a dealbreaker. That's up for the couple to decide. Some people feel it is, others don't, and others may evolve on the issue.

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

@ first off, stop liking your own comments. Nobody else is available to like it 2 mins after it’s posted other than myself, and I didn’t do it, so I know you’re trying to pretend you’re better than you are Second of all, his reasons are not good reasons. That’s like saying “I have my reasons for wanting a girl with one eye”. His reasons are laughable. It’s far from judgmental (which you couldn’t even spell correctly) to call a spade a spade. Would you say it’s judgmental to call Jared from Subway a creep? Of course not. Your rebuttal was weak and you should feel bad about yourself

@dend1 Ай бұрын

@marcusmcgraw3519 well, disqualified yourself from me reading the second half of your post because you decided to lead with something so trivial

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

@ @ that is FAR from trivial. It shows you are needy, because you need an advantage to find success. I do not need that given to me. That makes me stronger than you This is manipulation on your part. You are pretending you are too good for my argument because you don’t like what you were called out for. This is why you just lost

@civildiscourse7626 Ай бұрын

Calling it Abuse is hyperbole, but describing it as him lashing out 7:26 is also a reach.

@marcin3136 Ай бұрын

"A dam collapses from a small crack"~ philosophy Base values! Or... GO! "I execute my will according to my plan. And you, Doctor... are not part of my plan. Dr. Harleen Quinzell"~ Joker (...but... :D But... base values). Thats all... :))) That's how it works.

@JosephArmbrister Ай бұрын

Interested

@SailorJerritheDogTrainer Ай бұрын

The comments under any of Sadia’s videos are hilarious. Anything she’s on. The comments are just ☠️☠️☠️

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

To me, the funniest ones are the ones hating on her and saying she has no clue what men are like. Yet, she paints them with the perfect stroke. Men will throw any of their friends under the bus to get a chance with a woman, but they pretend they are virtuous

@BackyardEngineer334 Ай бұрын

Rule #1 never get excited about women. Women are disposable like paper plates. You will never enjoy a woman when she becomes an inconvenience so enjoy them only when she’s convenient & let someone else deal with the headache of trying to keep her happy forever.

@sMASHsound Ай бұрын

Women arent disposable , but if it's not working out for either, they are replaceable .

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

@@sMASHsound I agree, but if they’re going to treat men in that manner, why shouldn’t we respond with the same energy?

@ellemm8238 Ай бұрын

@@marcusmcgraw3519 always remember men are the lead and head of the family. You have to model the behavior in which you would want the women to be like. Notice women saying they are acting like men… what has been shown to them that they think this is ok?

@petergriffin278 21 күн бұрын

Why do you have to describe women in a misogynist way? Like I know what kind of person you are based on your pfp buddy (assuming its actually you)

@playwithyobih-x2x 14 күн бұрын

😂😂 all of this because she didnt swipe right

@KawooyaSimonPeter Ай бұрын

Wow!

@Haideeerrrrrrrrr Ай бұрын

Oh Sadia, the women you are

@dhruvluhar Ай бұрын

Saida: you Can't buy her through complement, attention and MONEY. Sadia: you can go far with women with MONEY and humour Sadia: if you think ill throw bunch on MONEY and she'll start behave, you're garutnee for devorce Sadia: Masculine involves provide (MONEY) and protect Sadia: MONEY ❌ Sadia: MONEY ✅

@watherby29 Ай бұрын

get the money then, to be sure

@dend1 Ай бұрын

The real question is how to change our core beliefs if we didnt have success in our formative years. I think the answer is awareness and new experiences. Also how to set boundaries

@Zen-sl7de Ай бұрын

Pick a partner that isn’t co dependant cmon guy.

@Zen-sl7de Ай бұрын

Well, as much as I like your advice I kind of have no hope. Unless I find a woman that isn’t co dependant and has acne scars.

@CuriousP Ай бұрын

Acne scars is crazy

@labandonaldhock80 Ай бұрын

Dearest, men get married to have a family. No man wants the mother of his children to have a body count comparable to todays numbers. So we bail on all of it. We dont care how attractive they are, the body count is just higher. Paying an escort is a cheaper simple solution, keeps your finances intact. You keep trying to match people up. That is 30 years ago. Start helping escorts to do better what they do.!

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

@@labandonaldhock80 why would they be able to have a body count when they have no worth to attract anyone to run up a body count with?

@labandonaldhock80 Ай бұрын

@ young women start the body count early, college adds another 200 minimum, for four hundred. Then they get serious about it.

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

@ you didn’t answer my question. How can they attract anyone to run up a count with when they have no worth?

@priyashahi3656 Ай бұрын

6:47 int insecuriy controlling beh

@Maltese7Boi Ай бұрын

She said weak ppl give ultimatums then said strong ppl leave……. Doesn’t make sense🤣

@marcusmcgraw3519 Ай бұрын

It makes complete sense. If you’re giving an ultimatum, you’re probably not in position where you deserve your outcome. And the strong person leaves because they see there is no use in giving an ultimatum

@sMASHsound Ай бұрын

If u find out ur girl is taking BBC, the weak person will give an ultimatum to stop taking bbc or u will leave, the strong person will leave ...

@nightowl6811 Ай бұрын

It makes sense 100% correct. Weak people want to control others to feel superior, strong minds don't give a F! We move on to better things.

@jackdeniston6150 Ай бұрын

Blah blah boundaries. Demonstrate setting a boundary with a woman that allows the relationship to continue. Plus,until something makes you uncomfortable we do not know a boundary needs setting. UTTER BS more excuses for women.