Women React To The Rise Of Lonely, Single & Sexless Men

In this video, I ask a group of women to share their thoughts about the rise of lonely, single & sexless men.
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[@brandon9638]

When we're lonely, It's our fault. When they're lonely, It's also our fault.

[@pebcak]

You just summed up my previous marriage.

[@FilipGiera]

I mean... everything IS our fault. We allowed it. We created the fundamentals for this to happen. Women just took the opportunity, and they took it too far. Because we allowed it...

[@brandon9638]

@@FilipGiera Got rejected? It’s your fault she’s not attracted to you, you should’ve made sure you were born attractive. She cheated? Sorry Bro, that’s your fault too, her happiness is your responsibility…

[@blindmonkey4131]

LOL fk if that ain't true

[@andresfeliperodriguezriano4032]

Well they are the final picker so if anything goes well or bad it's because we did or didn't meet their expectations.

[@joshjacobson932]

Blonde girl: “I deserve to keep my options open” Also blonde girl: “I hate when men are looking around on dates with me, it’s like they’re still keeping their options open” Ladies and gentlemen, modern dating

[@ianlister6554]

Monkeybranching. All women do it.

[@bogumiljanowskiweb]

Almost schizophrenic

[@joesmiley5726]

This video…🤦

[@joesmiley5726]

They should do the reverse of this video with guys…would be hilarious

[@JeremiahKlarman]

Haha

[@veltriv914]

Not a single woman mentioned how this is sad, and that men's mental health is important. But hey guys, the problem is us cause we have trouble opening up. This is why lol

[@abaddon3735]

If you tell women how you really feel they'll either undermine it or leave you lol. Poured my heart out to a girl that I thought cared about my emotional well being and she swiftly leeft

[@davescashflows]

​@@abaddon3735They don't care how you feel, they want the winners not the losers.

[@dominiquez5643]

Beautifully put man!!!!

[@snowfalleon7629]

It's easier to swallow that men are inadquatw for personal reasons rather than systemic reasons like increasing inequality.

[@tomc4226]

28:13 she literally said it’s sad

[@0biwan7]

went to the bridge club and there were dozens of 70 year old ladies so happy that afternoon to play bridge with a "handsome young man" (they meant me lol, i'm completely invisible to any woman under 65). they invited me to participate in their upcoming tournament. they were sad when i told them i wasnt going to be there. when i said it was because i was going out of town to visit my mom, they swooned like i was some sort of saint. never had so much validation, appreciation, admiration and praise from women i wasnt related to and i didnt have to hit the gym or level up or get a side job or start a business. a life of celibacy doesnt sound so bad. gonna miss these ladies in 15-20 years. their hearts are uncorrupted by modern toxicity.

[@peterrychel3640]

That's because you reminded them of the husbands that they were once married to. I'm sure that most of these ladies are widowed, so when you step into the room, you bring them back to that time.

[@chrisandsneaky2453]

@@peterrychel3640 That's the point. They WANTED good men; loved good men; were attracted to good men. Women of my generation (I'm 48 years old) loathe the kind of men those old grandma's loved. Women of my son's generation (he is 26) are even worse.

[@aminjeanbredimus7157]

I grieve with you, brother.

[@0biwan7]

@@chrisandsneaky2453 i was happy to spend the afternoon playing bridge with those old grandmas. i was happy to fold up and put away the difficult tables (some were easy and some were hard, they left the hard ones alone) after we were all done. they responded with such grace and gratitude as if what i had done was some sort of big deal. if the reason i'm invisible to women of my generation is because i'm the type of guy those old grandmas actually loved and wanted, then i dont feel like a piece of trash anymore.

[@Nithinithinith]

@@chrisandsneaky2453 you and your son are not the same men that those women loved. Modern men blame modern women without taking responsibility and accountability. Modern men aren’t the same men who died in war and took care of their families. Start there.

[@steakBurner81]

There are a lot of AVERAGE women out there, who think they are too good for an average man.

[@joeskeptical4762]

*A lot? ALMOST ALL WOMEN*

[@steakBurner81]

I was feeling generous Lol

[@italkgory99]

Exactly, their ego is through the roof and they can’t see an inch past their bs to understand men

[@Saint_Darius]

Correct

[@theworldisimmense]

@@italkgory99 that’s thanks to simps. It’s incredible how every time I check the comments on a picture of a girl on Instagram, there’s always guys of all ages simping like if that’s gonna get you 🐱.

[@tommypitera4817]

The prospect of living my life alone and dying alone, isn't as depressing as being constantly reminded that I'll never be good enough.

[@priscillapie]

Damn… your ex sounds horrible. Choose better!

[@tommypitera4817]

@@priscillapie she wasn't horrible. I developed a borderline personality when I was a kid, so, it was probably my fault.

[@nickolasrobert7340]

I think it's time we really accepted that some will die alone without ever knowing what love is. Sometimes there doesn't even have to be anything wrong with you, sometimes it's just bad luck.

[@nickolasrobert7340]

I am only afraid because we only live once, and it scares me to think that I can leave this life without ever experiencing such a unique part of human existence. And all this because I wasn't "good enough". Yes, this is something that causes strong existential fears.

[@ceoelektronika8604]

Men ain't the ones God created to bear offspring. Whose failure is it if femalekind is too hypertoxic to consider impregnating or marrying?

[@SBsam]

This video can be summed up in a few words: 'It's society's fault and men's fault... but mainly men's fault'

[@crazinaticbigb693]

Oof 😅

[@willythemailboy2]

A better summation: Men are sad and lonely, women most affected.

[@e.l.s.3048]

I tried. I looked. I made it to 40 without marriage and hung it up. Cancelled all my date pages. No hate. No regrets. Like someone who went to a restaurant and didn't receive good service, I moved on, not to "punish" anyone, but to exercise my right of choose.

[@nickcunningham6344]

I've already given up at 22 and have felt a lot happier since. If the right woman enters into my life I'll give her a chance but I'm not gonna hold my breath or wait for her. I've accepted and have come to peace with the idea of dying alone, and I've been a lot better off ever since.

[@neongecko3065]

Marriage isn’t for everyone… if you’re living a great life I agree, no regrets!

[@Wu-gj2py]

Travel often brother. Look overseas, feminism hasn’t destroyed women in Europe and Asia.

[@KStew9010]

My phone is on permanent NO DISTURB mode for them now.

[@chekky47]

Well done Sir. Make sure you travel and go out and see the world!

[@psusac]

That was 30 minutes of women rationalizing why they should get what they want without having to make any sacrifices.

[@Hoffmanpack]

Exactly, the day will come when women have to pay extra taxes beacuse law enforcement collapses and a single woman becomes constantly in danger. These women are victim of the comfort provided by men. Remove that comfort and bam a wild change will happen where women seek men again asap to avoid being the lonely single. I can't wait to laugh at the pierced tatted fatted shaved head argumentative grumpy non smiling non feminine feminists.

[@dragojevdic994]

Lol you nailed it buddy..

[@mr.bidnessman2469]

You cannot expect a woman who isn’t your mother or grandmother to care for you at all. I say that knowing the only woman who has ever loved me unconditionally has been my grandmother’s even when I didn’t deserve it they still loved me. Every man is only loved so far as he can provide something in the moment for majority of women and I mean 90% of women.

[@thepowerofthegodhand7003]

The literally put us all in one box. But get mad when we do the same thing.

[@Ozzie_Mandias]

This is why I advocate for surrogacy and artificial wombs... I feel like when these become mainstream... school shootings will be mostly extinct... men will willingly accept sexlessness and be good single parents whom their kids find very relatable... men will look forward to a new future and new fate instead of going on and on about the "glories" of the past... Progressiveness will be more accepted and church attendance (or most likely neopaganism) may even skyrocket... no one of any gender will be pushovers who get used and abused, but will also be more open minded, easy going and even more sociable... Of course some women and a lotta predatory men will not be happy with this happier world order.

[@luisdetomaso867]

A+ for Courtney once again exposing how women literally have zero clue as to what is actually going on

[@AlexanderSkinnerVids]

Really wish she went harder with the questioning. She’s doing a disservice by not digging into and picking apart the responses more.

[@BillClinton228]

They scared to meet some guy sitting next to them... but they will go to a strangers house at 10pm just because he looked good on Tinder. That happens all the time so the whole "being afraid of strangers" argument doesn't hold water.

[@Rothbardy]

Truly clueless, never looking within. Many are looking for the elusive alpha male that is also a tamable beta, they also need the 6’+ 6 figure income. They end up hooking up with the alphas and “settling” for a beta, which ends with resentment, dissatisfaction and divorce. Funny and sad

[@Diego-Designs]

@@AlexanderSkinnerVids I honestly don't think she goes harder on the questions because they're friends. Someone else should be asking them.

[@tdgchan]

So well spoken... 10/10

[@phalenkell8762]

These girls don’t give a crap about men’s issues. Real good friends.

[@adamscottv]

We don't care about your job or any of that stuff. We want to feel loved, respected, and appreciated.

[@kyleabram9036]

Girl literally said in one clip “I like to keep my options open” then said “when guys turn their head it makes me feel like they’re looking for options” and feels disrespected 😂😂😂😂

[@Boss-ot1iy]

@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger Woah. Stella is bad, but let's not act like Mansi and Monique don't exist. Those 2 are by far the worst.

[@valdonjohnson251]

I thought I was the only one that caught that one. 🤣 I love Courtney's channel. She generally has some really valuable content.

[@NationViolation]

its fucking mindblowing.

[@jeffreyvonstetten5852]

Right? So dumb

[@NittyGritty420]

Caught her in 4k

[@BalboaBaggins]

38 year old average man here. been single almost my entire life. Tried everything and finally gave up. It's impossible. Have a good day everyone.

[@wilkizz]

Courage! One day the sun will rise with women like me to care for men!

[@Huia87]

The West is not the whole world. Trust me, emigrate or travel. It's not you, our societies are just broken beyond repair. I am from New Zealand, been living in Ecuador for over 3 years now, trust me, totally different. Not hard to find a good, loving, smart, attractive woman here

[@leerollins7555]

Sorry man. Good luck out there.

[@comdrive3865]

Yo try doing the opposite of what you normally do. You might find a flank strat

[@matejjjjjjjjjjjjjjj]

Have you been looking for a partner? Scullery maids, cleaners, whim pleasing cookers washhing clothing of their master should not be so easy to find nowadays

[@christopherjohnson4934]

When we are told we are not needed, why in the world would we go out of our way to try and make any woman feel special????

[@TerryProthero]

They're "special". Just not in a good way.

[@troysims2753]

Better to focus on ourselves than to babysit and spend cash on an airhead!

[@supercruise-6814]

WHOA ! NAILED IT DUDE!

[@tyronewalker5764]

Good point.😮

[@american236]

We’re terrified of being called creepy. We’re terrified of getting the cops called on us.

[@ayylmao2190]

cope, just admit you have a fear of rejection.

[@edwinsingha7398]

@@ayylmao2190 So you mean men should risk going to jail and having his whole family and career ruined in order to get a relationship or are you denying the fact that this actually happens

[@ayylmao2190]

if you wanna believe that, thats on you. Millions of guys ask women out with no problems. @@edwinsingha7398

[@R3ktCunnyz69]

@@ayylmao2190 Ok rapist

[@rileyfletch]

getting arrested for asking a girl out? that happens to nearly nobody @@edwinsingha7398

[@Twisted86]

I love the part where they say "women aren't dating douche bags and guys who put in minimal effort"......I work at a college apartment complex, 380+ units and 90% of the women there are dating that exact person lol.

[@bidensbikepedal8799]

90% of women literally everywhere are dating that exact person

[@dc80919]

I was going to comment the exact same thing but you beat me too it😂 so many girls out there dating total tools

[@rehsa-zc6zq]

Exactly, I'd ask her how/ why does she even have so much experience with douche bags?

[@Randy_Butternubs]

Dido!😅

[@huntstyle]

After they rejected 100 good guys. And then they'll say, "all men are douchebags!"

[@coreymay918]

"What dating advise would you give men?" "Improve your looks and get a higher paying job." "What dating advise would you give women?" "Have higher standards and stop dating broke men."

[@robertmoore294]

Women will get mad if you tell them that in this generation

[@billr5842]

Why wouldn't women have higher standards? They have many simps drooling waiting in line lol... The vast majority of men in these comments wouldn't hesitate to sacrifice whatever they are doing if they could get with these women, that's the problem. Stop being a spineless cuck and stop simping

[@coreymay918]

@@billr5842 can't imagine what warranted this comment on my comment

[@Crmpies]

so women have to do nothing . this is why guys walk away and nothing else . A real guys knows his worth. A real guy will not put up with shit or is worried about dating some smelly pussy whore . Real men know women are a liability and if they have nothing to offer we will not bother

[@juggalo9097]

Women are heartless gold digging shallow monsters.

[@jaysharkey765]

I didn't hear them say that men want to be loved and respected.

[@jarrettgorin]

"with social media you can compare what other couples are doing". That is funny on so many levels..... We all know how accurate people's social media presentation is as compared to their real lives :)

[@Benjamin-wc8rj]

When Mansi said women have lower standards I couldn’t help but laugh out loud

[@stinkypinkie9029]

She explained it was because nowadays women don’t expect the man to pay for everything since women are more independent. But those educated women usually look down on men that earn less than them so their standards have only gotten higher. They’ve been brainwashed by social media as well but don’t do enough self-reflection to realize it.

[@bros4654]

The thing is, she's both right and wrong at the same time. Women have lowered the standards for themselves and men in regard to casual partners. But they've inflated the standards in regard to committed partners. It's all goofy and complicated.

[@TheZeusWolf]

I laughed like a super villain, it was hilarious

[@suprovo5117]

And she is the one who was asking for 400k from a partner

[@haaxeu6501]

@@suprovo5117 That's the craiest part. She seems like a very stupid person and lacks a lot of self awareness, there's no way, in the same interview, you would say so casually that you expect 400k a year from your partner, and then go on to claim that women have lowered their standards.

[@Ominous89]

"It's always better to be alone, than to be with people who make you feel alone." -Robin Williams

[@CommanderJaneShepard2154]

Dont take advice from someone who hanged himself

[@Ominous89]

@@CommanderJaneShepard2154 it's not an advice. It's an observation.

[@cassu6]

@@CommanderJaneShepard2154 XD good point honestly. But maybe it's advice he just himself didn't follow.

[@MrBigcuts36]

@@cassu6 "But maybe it's advice he just himself didn't follow." Thats WHY he hanged himself.

[@gatoreptiliano8785]

"No" -Me

[@ricb123]

You know what cuts the hardest. Woman want equality of income but not of expenses...

[@TheTseipii]

My opinion of not being totally incel, but having less than optimal sex life during my youth was that women didn't seem to be interested in relationship. It felt like the women I met wanted only casual sex and nothing more serious. And I always felt like being rated, how do I measure against the other men they are seeing etc. For me the sex always felt like being a dildo for the woman to enjoy a while. If I could give younger me an advice, it would be to stay away from ladies whom don't seem to have genuine interest in me. But I was naive and thought that no real man refuses sex. I hope the younger guys are wiser than me.

[@Haggis1983]

That’s how these women rack up body counts, they just see men as dildos, and treat them as such.

[@Hiraghm]

no, that's the problem... "stay away from ladies" No. Women aren't ladies anymore. Stay away from modern women and try to find actual, real ladies.

[@purestress2597]

I mean how about someone never having interest in sex with the guy? Like not existing at all.

[@charlesrichards1240]

Read my commentat the top of the page-after what you just said,you will see why I made it.

[@vladonutueu]

Exactly what I’m confronting with. At some point I’ll decide if I wanna be the chad and fuck them all and that’s it (no search for relationships anymore) or just renounce dating altogether and deal with myself on my own terms. It’s a sad lonely world out there and you get to a point when you stop caring or hoping for authentic relationships..

[@johnstample3624]

This girl literally said: 9:33 “An independent, hard working woman like myself keeps her options open” 13:28 “A guy turning his head while we’re walking together makes me feel like he’s looking for options” Rule number 1: don’t get girl advice from girls because they have no clue. That’s just one example of a double standard you may run into.

[@eveliinahannele]

Lol that's not double standard. :D You can keep your options open without disrespecting your date and making it obvious with actions. It's called being considerate and polite

[@eveliinahannele]

@@Dino-kr7nd dishonest and fraudulent? About what?

[@kidkaden5139]

@@eveliinahannele Keeping ypur options open shouldn't be a fucking choice if ur dating someone put all your effort into it the fuck why half ass it just because your craving more than 1 dick. Keeping your options open is probably one of the biggest gateways to cheating and being in unhappy relationships because you keep trying to go for the next 💀💀

[@crimsonJerom]

@9:28 same woman (paraphrased) "a woman ... like myself... who keeps her options open" 🤣

[@twiff3rino28]

@@eveliinahannele 🤨

[@UrutoraTatsujin]

I would LOVE to see a version of this where you ask the same questions to women in their early 30s, early 40s, and early 50s. Just to see how perspectives might change.

[@vinaydhiwar8604]

Simps still be there for them

[@dippin1523]

it probably gets worse

[@BtwinUnW]

I am in my mid 30s and single. I can tell you why I'm single. i saw how my parents fight, i know that it's hard to find someone trustworthy, I was my best when i was single, it's too much drama, attachment hurts, too much responsibility and hunting for money with kids, it increases, i value love over sex, im philosophical . It goes on ... i guess..

[@PepeCoinMania]

😂

[@shepberryhill4912]

@@vinaydhiwar8604 You must be looking in the mirror.

[@RickySpanish-]

I’m single but not lonely. I have a great group of friends, social clubs, an amazing family, and my church. I’m 36 years old now, in great shape, successful, and I have no issues attracting women. The truth is, I just don’t want to be in a relationship or have a wife or kids. I’m not even currently dating, no dating apps, no asking women out, nothing. I couldn’t be happier. The Bible even says that being single is a GIFT from God. it’s also the one gift everyone tries to reject. Once you embrace it, being single is amazing. I travelled to 23 countries just last year, I’ve lived abroad, and the money I earn is mine. No one treats me like a human wallet and I don’t have to deal with the problems that come with marriage and kids.

[@Mcgee833]

“Being single” is amazing for you because you don’t want to be in a relationship, and you know you could have one easily if you wanted too.

[@snowfalleon7629]

I feel this, hear other guys saying "what's changed?" I think it's harder to get dates for guys because we're becoming poorer and the whole society is in denial about that. I'm not trying to say women are after money but I'm guessing they're unwilling to adjust their expectations and say to themselves "okay people are becoming poorer so it's alright to have a lot less than my parents did." I make about 55k a year and I can't afford a car realistically, even just going on vacation somewhere to have fun or going to concerts and festivals... when life is becoming a struggle. Expectations are going up right alongside inflation. I make more than most people in this country too. It's common for men to get treated with a lot of prejudice, treated with undue suspicion. Seen it plenty that women say "men are trash." my fiancee's sister said it's normal for men to get together and discuss strategies for [trigger word] women. It's a lot of factors. it's a crappy time to be a man.

[@cassu6]

What the fuck are you spending your money on??? 55k is quite a lot especially to not be able to afford a car. I figure you're from the states where car taxes, gasoline and insurance (maybe not this one) are cheaper than where I live.

[@solarjudgement4575]

After groceries, rent/mortgage, gas, and student loans (if you go to college) we dont hardly have anything. Then you look at how expensive everything is. I make around 50-60k and im struggling ​@cassu6

[@scotttaylor9133]

Yeah, it's not that you can't make it, you just have to be VERY careful and not allow yourself to make mistakes. That's not a super low income, but it's low enough that you need to be very cautious. Lower income means you have less room to overcome mistakes like buying fun stuff instead of investing, having lots of high interest debt, stuff like that. You can recover with a higher income, you have to be MUCH smarter with your money the lower you are on the income ladder. But at most levels you can do well, and at all levels you can get better; at the lower rungs its just PAINFULLY slow and requires not allowing yourself any mistakes.

[@snowfalleon7629]

@@cassu6 well usually I like to spend money on getting out to the woods to avoid losers like you.

[@arkangel7209]

@@cassu6 When was the last time you were in the states? Inflation has become ludicrous. It isn't easy to get a good wage anymore...women's standards are unrealistic in a rapidly changing society. When you get older, even your standards will shift. Mine did. Not married anymore but very happy with my partner, as she is with me. Society changes, and people change with it. I have hope things will get better, but only if standards average out a bit from both sides. Effort helps, but the motivation is hard to come by in this day and age. No one likes to be rejected. If men can manage to live through that hardship, it is a good thing socially. How you adjust to the "nos" will make the "yesses" that much more exciting when they come. Good luck and chin up!

[@samcohen2483]

A lonely woman complains to her friends about how lonely she is. A lonely man talks to his reflection in the mirror and the reflection walks away saying "Sorry bud you're on your own."

[@emanuelmota7217]

Trufe.

[@sachinmistry1]

"You need to man up" -what society says to a lonely man

[@JB-kx9bx]

😂

[@JB-kx9bx]

Thats funny af

[@alphatransguy5474]

Lol, not even men want to deal with men, so why should women?

[@dave87gn]

This is incredible. None of these women have ANY idea what young men are going through today

[@marksmith4892]

Honestly at this point even if they were to fully repent I wouldn't want to marry any of them because what is to be done with the massive volume of their crimes against men across several decades? That doesn't just go away. They made their decisions, they took it all, they bathed themselves in evil and our hands are clean. Well not the Chads who screwed every woman in sight but the rest of us tried our best and did what we could to improve ourselves.

[@piotrhajzral3862]

and thay dont care:)

[@perry6712]

@@marksmith4892 exactly r.i.p norah vincent

[@BudoDave76]

They don’t need to. Like most semi attractive or even average women, getting dates is far easier than the average man. Which leaves them clueless to the 70-80% or more of the invisible men out there.

[@lifted_above]

If there is no purpose, no idealism, no personage higher than one's self to align one's life, then isn't that the very basis of the definition of selfishness? Pride? Ego?

[@Chevelle602]

What I want from a woman: be sweet and don't add chaos to my life. Thats it!!

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

"To dream the impossible dream"

[@TerryProthero]

LOL. You have completely unrealistic expectations. That will never happen in a million years.

[@lutherdean6922]

"a lot of times girls make the first move..." ha ha ha right

[@Mcgee833]

They’re so delusional they think that making eye contact for one second is a first move.

[@justin-credible]

This is EXACTLY why men can’t take relationship advice from wmn. Who they sleep with is entirely different from who they describe. And the advice is ENTIRELY based on emotion

[@deloentertains3370]

💯💯💯

[@asparrow9876]

I feel sorry for all the men who genuinely listen to women.... These poor saps.....

[@mongoose6685]

You really think men just sleep with the women they love???

[@hatientacetlen4246]

If you think that statement is exclusive to women you're out of your mind. Men make just as stupid relationship decisions as women.

[@afcansf5996]

@@mongoose6685 No, but unike women men in general arent hypocrits and/or pretend to be saints.

[@LA-dh1bq]

Women are so out of touch with reality it’s sad bro. Like it’s not even pathetic anymore it’s beyond that and just sad.

[@brianwaller7383]

None of these women even came close to the actual reason why average men are sexless.

[@pimpster125]

Got that right

[@HarryJohnson69]

Exactly how I feel

[@kevinb8881]

Sad, sad, and sad, and it gets worse, worse, and worse, they're all living in candyland, LOL!!!😂😂😂

[@TomFox1]

plays small violin

[@gideonlapidus8996]

Tinder and dating apps are destroying it for everybody . Im old school and still like to phone and talk to women

[@asagk]

Most of the time these women don't even seem to understand the majority of the questions being asked. This opens up the possibility that women's remaining connection to the reality of their own surroundings may be in the process of diminishing even further in the future than it is already the case. I'm really curious to see how this plays out for society in the long run.

[@Allnuts-H]

Thank you Courtney for making me feel grateful again being single.

[@moosevision8113]

yep, feel bad for courtney because she seems pretty switched on but gets some of the flak for the women in these videos who make me lose brain cells. IMO it would be much better to talk to people who are qualified in the subject matter who have studied the data and research instead of asking people who give vauge answers based on anecdotal experience. id much prefer a scientific study to "umm yea but whatever no umm maybe to each their own idk"

[@ForTheDivineWill]

@@moosevision8113The problem is the scientific data for these matters have existed for decades but most people don't research anything at all. The few that do look for the research don't go past the abstract of most papers and the rest of the world like you only ask for the research but when it is presented to you, you don't even look at it at all... The main problem is we need the average person to understand the results of the research. But to get the average person to do the due diligence of going through the research is an impossible task! The only way out of this is to live through it, which is what we are doing right now. However, the hope is that at some point a few generations down the line when the average person finally gets the hint, we are not too fucked to recover from this sort of thing. Groups like Feminism and MGTOW need to criminalized and destroyed for the solution to flourish though!

[@davidk6504]

Right?

[@Machi74005]

@@moosevision8113 Excellent

[@Machi74005]

@@ForTheDivineWill What future generations? The gist of this interview predicts a dwindling human race........think about it.

[@mr.peanutbutter6969]

What women want: Don't be ugly Don't be short Don't be poor

[@mistercool3859]

Also: Don't be boring Don't be too clingy

[@deficator750]

What women offer in return: Being pretty

[@mistercool3859]

@@deficator750 Not even that

[@brandon9638]

A man can check every box and they still consider themselves the prize

[@amrenmiller6053]

​@@brandon9638 I think that mentality comes from men in general groveling to women far too much. You can see it everywhere. Anytime a woman appears even mildly pretty, they slobber all over themselves and over-validate them on social media. If you want women to stop thinking of themselves as the prize, I do believe that it is a society-wide problem that needs to be addressed, unfortunately. You would have to get the behavior of millions of thirsty men to change.

[@virtual240]

NO, A LOT OF MEN AREN'T SINGLE BY CHOICE.

[@benjaminjones4008]

These women have no clue they’re just dying to talk about themselves

[@annatar6453]

A society that puts women on a pedestal is a society that looks down on men.

[@cyber6sapien]

FACTS!!!! I LOVE this comment!!!

[@lifted_above]

Question: why did society go these directions? These directions are not the root, they are symptoms.

[@Saint_Darius]

Correct

[@Saint_Darius]

@@lifted_above cause white women complained for a long time about whatever they complain about and tricked other women into joining in

[@Actualchristianity]

@@lifted_above godlessness.

[@DiamondCreeperNL]

Stella is the kind of person that would decline a physically and emotionally 10/10 guy, based on their Zodiac sign. Monique is the type of person that would say ''If you're homeless, just buy a house''

[@Moesmakendehakker658]

Haahahha so true

[@nahword5604]

"Why are people lonely and sexless?" "Because of incels"

[@BillClinton228]

These factory issued average females are lying to everyone including themselves and its abundantly obvious. Also, none of them look like they have their life together, I'm 36 with a great job but I wouldnt date any of them because they all have "PROBLEMS" written all over their smug faces.

[@heyant7753]

Lmfao 😂 bruuuh

[@Lonewolfalchemist]

She comes off very entitled

[@boones999]

Surprisingly chill interviews. Seems like you gathered a good spread in terms of ethnicity, looks, morals etc. Would be interesting to see different ages as well. A few topics did stand out: 1) I love their pro advice on how to get a girl, like the classics: "I don't know", "change career", "stop going to bars", "I don't know", "don't look for relationships", "have confidence", "I don't know", "embrace being single" and "move on/walk away". Stellar stuff :) 2) On a more serious note: In the second-to-last part they talk about what they want in a man. Several comments here have called out how obviously disingenuous these are but I actually don't think the girls are actively lying here in several cases. I just think that they have a baseline (e.g. 6ft and 6pack) that's so ingrained that they don't even think about mentioning it. 3) The last part about what they think a man wants in a woman is the only truly clueless part - but that is probably to be expected.

[@cassu6]

Yeah those pro advices are like exactly the antithesis of how to get women XD Apart from maybe "have confidence", but that's such a shit tip because it actually doesn't mean much

[@binglebonglebellybarrelbla9071]

Lmao this shit is hilarious

[@bosoxer4eva]

Some great interviews with these ladies. Many were very articulate with great insight. The bottom line with relationships is that they aren't perfect and they require work. You need honesty, respect, compromise, caring, communication and love/intimacy with your partner. Hopefully we get what we give, especially if you are doing all of the aforementioned. You literally need to wake up every day and choose to be with your partner because it's too easy to jump ship but then all you are doing is starting over elsewhere, over and over again. If you have a partner who cherishes you and is a "keeper," I hope you're treating them like a most precious gem and not yesterday's trash. Advice from a man on the backside of life. Do with it what you will.

[@vladonutueu]

Very few of them thinks like this and they usually get hooked up by chads.

[@crimsonscarf]

I just watched this terrifying video. As a male in his 40, I think women have built this image of the male partner to be someone who looks like Aquaman, drives a big truck, and has dollars out his ass. These unrealistic images are what drive men to be single, lonely and sexless. There are too many barriers to simply ask a women out.

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

Aquaman 😄 ....🚤 🐳 🐋

[@ReinoldFZ]

I would like that dollars-out-of-the-ass power.

[@sloppyjonuts9162]

The girl I like posted if he is tall & smells good I want him. Then few days later honestly I don’t care about looks. Few days later. Me refusing to date and just waiting for the love of my life to fall in my arms lol

[@raavila95]

There are women who are willing to be led, just become a christian and God will provide the right women.

[@ImJiom]

drives a big truck isnt part of what they want its part of what you want to overcompensate for not being everything else

[@chaosblade5906]

I think these women are mostly clueless, especially about how women have contributed to this. Not that it's entirely their fault, but there's very little self-reflection going on here. Any suggestions are either so vague as to be meaningless ("be yourself") or contradictory.

[@SquallSZ]

It's mainly their fault now. And partially the 10/10 men that make them think that they can have them. All this creates more simps behaviour (and more channels like courtney that take the opportunity to gain money from men loneliness. She knows they are a majority now. She knows the subject is triggering. Therefore > views > 💰💸💰💸💰💸💰💵💵💵)

[@joeschlotthauer840]

Delusional, putting the blame on men.

[@NoName-kq9kl]

The dudes they are talking about, are completely invisible to these females, so why would they know anything about this?

[@Niek1001]

Women and accountability.. Lol. Also why would they feel sorry for men they aren't attracted to in the first place? Most men don't make the cut. It's just how it is.

[@steakBurner81]

Either Courtney is smart enough to know these girls are clueless and she is having them contradict themselves on purpose... Or she's as clueless and tone-deaf as her friends are.

[@samuel-nolandavey.3625]

"The lack of Christian morals is the root of ALL issues in this age."

[@countdooku6523]

I would love to see these same women interviewed 10 years later. That would be a show!

[@BioShock55Airsoft]

I was walking alone to my hotel room minding my own business and there were two women in front of me who thought I was trying to talk/hit on them, they stopped and not only ridiculed me for not being attractive enough for them but proceeded to follow me and continue harassing me. I didn’t say a single word…

[@jaxonwoods8181]

And water is wet, and the sky is blue.

[@samgod]

I gave up with clubs and bars because I got sick of getting the finger, or a hand in my face, or "nope", or "goodbye" by women that happen to be sitting at a bar as I'm minding my own business trying to get the overworked bar tender's attention. Hello? I didn't even notice you until you flipped me the bird.

[@MikeNEVILLE-xf4bc]

​@@samgod dude ! Ur going to meet only one type of girl in a bar, get a hooker probably cheaper.

[@quincymiller782]

@@samgod they get their validation from turning guys down

[@samgod]

@@quincymiller782 unfortunately, wish I could disagree. I just got sick of so many fucking dirty looks from women at clubs. Ended up emotionally exhausted and drained. Take my word for it, associating beautiful women with stink faces doesn't feel good. Read all the dating tips and coaching you want. Your confidence, humor, playfulness, not putting them on a pedestal are irrelevant as women walk away. Ugh.

[@dkeith520]

The reason it’s hard to get a relationship is that everyone thinks they deserve better and expect to get it.😂

[@MeidoInHebun]

Plain and simple.

[@EldritchPursuit]

Don't forget the tens of millions like me who just said fck it and choose not to deal with this bullshit 😎

[@stephanemorelli1]

you re right, there is too much choice today

[@alvmusic4402]

the reason it's hard to get a relationship is you're low quality, thats all there is to it

[@saintbryan]

Sounds like a good thing. Everyone does deserve better.

[@TheSledgehammer2024]

Most of us men just want a good looking woman that can get along with us. That's it... Its not that complicated like what women want in men...

[@thesquishyboo]

I’m 25 and I’ve accepted that I will probably be alone for the rest of my life

[@therealchad140]

It’s crazy how when women give advice on how men can be better, they basically say what men say to each other already: “Get better, improve yourself…” etc. But when women are talking to themselves on how to get a guy when they’re struggling, they’re like “No, sweetheart, you’re perfect the way you are. Don’t change for him, let him change for you”. Like, what 🫤?

[@cazimim3375]

Typical hypocritical 99% NPCs

[@leerollins7555]

Dude. This. A thousand times. Preach.

[@DhaoistAzazel]

Women tear each other down especially older towards younger women because they are bitter and lonely so they want the younger women to be like them…miserable

[@Whatever_man]

Female social hierarchy is a completely different beast to tackle. They say "you're perfect and beautiful" while being happy the other woman is as fat as a walrus (women are VERY susceptible to social hierachies, which is why gossiping is seen as a classical female thing to do). It's just sad this has become the mindset of their own aswell but without the (self)hate. No need for selfimprovement without some healthy self hate. Instead it's a mental disorder for women and increasingly in men (less rigorous diagnosis boundaries for being depressed, anxiety disorder etc.). So we now have a whole generation of women who keep tearing other down under the veil of female empowerment and every negative emotional feeling is a mental disorder, this means no self-improvement to fit in a larger society and improving negative personal characteristics/traits. Now add in the extreme individualism and consumerism from social media (and remember, women are susceptible to social hierarchy and this is easily measured in social media by followers and likes) and we have a highly dysfunctional generation of individuals who are hyperfocused on personal and mostly materialistic achievement. Of course this is a generalization but we definitely see macro-sociological gender changes in Western societies in the past couple of decades(gender is used binary here: the different experiences between men and women, which is how the concept is used in the vast majority of social research). Now, there is also a lot to say about men in the modern age. However, the female experience has been a lot more instable since the 1960s in the West (sexual revolution and feminism). Source: Just a simple, biased, opinion from someone with a master's degree in interdisciplinary social sciences.

[@scotthearts9634]

Dang! This shit so true 😅😂😂

[@dmike93tilinfinity]

Peace and intimacy. That’s it. That’s all we want. We don’t want a “boss lady” I actually cringe when I hear women call themselves “boss lady”

[@valdonjohnson251]

I don't know why women think men want a "boss lady" either. I too cringe! I think far too many women listen to other women tell them what men want instead of listening to the men. Also, these women are all pretty young, so they may only be exposed to young men who haven't really learned what makes a woman high-value. It is most definitely NOT her money and independence.

[@godnyx117]

@@valdonjohnson251 It's funny how ignorant you both are. They know EXACTLY what we want. They thing is that they don't care about you unless you are a CHAD.

[@hahahaaha7208]

Every 2 weeks in Great Britain a woman gets chocked to death. The men often get sentences of 2-4 years for manslaughter cause they say it was a sex game. And you wonder why women are afraid to get intimate nowadays.

[@australianpatriot]

no man wants a fucking boss lady lmao

[@curlyqween34]

You want to pump and dump

[@GeoffreyChilesTV]

Super liberal feminism may be a culprit. Ashley’s comment made me think of that old quote: “Comparison is the thief of joy.”

[@johnleighton8605]

Just shows how little women understand men. For example, near the end they were asked about what they thought men were looking for in a woman and all of them brought up something along the lines of a woman being successful in their career and having their own money. These are things that men do not care about when looking for a partner, that is a woman's focus of what they want in a partner.

[@funkfarmer7125]

We aren't "afraid" Ashley, we just genuinely have ZERO interest in modern western women. Besides, as the brilliant Stella said, yall "don't need no man". You got this girl! Your strong and independent! We wish you women luck, your gonna need it.

[@pokemonboy4699]

well said

[@Brandwein42]

There is no shame in being actually afraid of many of them, though. They are that dangerous to your mental wellbeing that you should rather avoid them. Notice that men having legitimate fears is bend to being something thats on the men, not on the thing they are afraid of.

[@D_Jilla]

"Modern western woman" Dear Umbasa I hope you're not American cause this sounds very cringe.

[@SystematicMechanic]

@@Brandwein42 they try and shame men by calling into question their / his masculinity. Feminist programing.

[@BillClinton228]

Why must I approach females when I have a 80% chance of getting rejected and a 100% chance of having to take her on a date and pay for something that Chad got for free?

[@joesalonia85]

Courtney really needs to get a group of guys on and have them react to this garbage and then have these same girls react to that 😂

[@eddieruiz6826]

It would be all out war LMAO not a good idea.

[@gizmogearloose3391]

Agreed...but she won't. I like what she's trying to accomplish...dating advice, opinions, grooming, etc., but it's all VERY one-sided. You can't ask a diverse group of women about how men and women interact...unless you also ask men about the same subject...SIMULTANEOUSLY! But she won't do that.

[@arthurmorgan2906]

thats what I thought too

[@550xxx23]

@@eddieruiz6826 all out war... GREAT IDEA

[@eddieruiz6826]

@@550xxx23 naw a waste of energy.

[@dave9944]

I'm a gay man. I'm not even attracted to women or want to date them, but man! This video was so frustrating to watch, because there was, once again, so much "man-blaming". It's exhausting! What a relief I'm attracted to just men. Also for the first time, I actually think it's easier dating men.

[@je862]

I would also add this thought: my grandparents, both born in the early 1900's, saw a lot of changes in their lives, one of them being the advent of air travel, and also the changing of society, in general, in the 1960's. During my lifetime, I've seen a lot of changes also, but one of the biggest and most dramatic changes in society is due to internet, and smart phones. I think, and this is because I've seen society from before and after, that internet, smart phones, social media, these things have had a negative impact. Everything is about instant gratification due to what I've just mentioned. To people that grew up with these things in their daily lives, the ones that were 'born into it' so to speak, you will not understand the impact these things have had. I don't do social media, and I never have. The only thing I really like is the ability to watch music videos from the old days, that I really did not have much access to back then. I watch those right here on utube. I don't particularly like utube, because of their censorship of too many things, but nonetheless.....

[@454slowride]

I love how they say they want a guy to do a hobby, yet it is the first thing she complains about you spending time doing instead of giving all your attention to them.

[@theprettydead1577]

THIS!! everyone i've ever been with, men have hobbies, women have men as their hobby

[@mattirealm]

@@theprettydead1577 Or their hobby is like....reality TV shows or some shit. I can write a novel about how many hobbies I absolutely adore. The double-standard is awful. Showing interest=too clingy. Not showing enough interest=boring. I mean FFS, how can we win? I just don't see it.

[@scotts7907]

These are women talking about what they want in a guy to allow the guy through the door. They probably have no clue what they want 5+ years down the road with the same man. They're young and haven't been drug through the coals yet. Everyone, man and woman, get drug through the coals and values change. It's life.

[@RANDassociatesinc]

The hobby would be the second thing. The guy wanting to hang out with his friends is the first complaint. Once she gets rid of all his friends...THEN his hobbies go under the knife!

[@davidbarr49]

It is also the first thing she will complain about you spending money on.

[@realxflare]

I don’t think most women really understand how difficult it is to form a connection with a woman even if the man is attractive. I won’t blame women entirely for that, there’s plenty of societal reasons, and things men need to improve, but it’s really crazy to see these women are genuinely clueless when it comes to the male experience…

[@davidclayton.1511]

Who's gonna tell them or educate them if the father is absent? I get attacked all the time on reddit for repeating such lines

[@charakism]

true man i find rlly frustrating when women all the time want that the men does all the first steps maybe more women understand if she is the one who must do anything to the beginning

[@austinzizzi1142]

They have clearly never looked at anything outside of their own perspective for even a second nor do they care to

[@Rothbardy]

@@davidclayton.1511 you heard the blonde, they don’t need no man 😂

[@davidclayton.1511]

@@Rothbardy tbh, I didn't even watch the video. Went straight to the comments. These videos are too mind numbing.

[@Someone-ej6ro]

I do love women, but I am selective on who is worth receiving it.

[@dugand7931]

Heard one common theme. It's all men's fault. WHY would a man out themselves out there to be abused, call a creep, have false clams against them. They say I have to be treated like a queen, they just expect and expect.

[@nicholasmitchell2082]

I actually feel bad for men in their twenties and thirties in this modern time. I’m in my mid forties, and I lived through what I call the golden age of dating in my twenties and thirties. Back then you could actually approach a woman and flirt. Women back then didn’t think it was weird. If we wanted to meet women, we went to a bar, approached a woman we liked, bought her a drink, talked to her, made her laugh, enjoyed each other’s company. The internet and social media ruined all that.

[@KoenBlom]

It's definitely still effective if not more effective to approach women now. Because very little man do it these days.

[@gregwilliams4242]

Look at these women’s responses.? Would you wanna approach women like this ?HELL NO most of these answers are lile

[@hoedemakerbart]

Exactly. I grew up in the 90s. Once phones and internet came ... The more technology the worse it got

[@heyant7753]

I work in labor force with a lot of older men, I’m 27 and it gets insanely annoying when all these dudes ever talk about is the 80s. “Back in my day, everybody was smashing left and right!” “Even the ugly fatties were smashing with other ugly fatties” “man I remember being stationed up in Germany, and I met this girl, we ended up smashing in Heidelberg castle.” Non stop stories of the good ol days. Metaphorically speaking , for younger men in 2022, it’s like taking a puppy and you have treats but you constantly tease it and don’t let it take a bite. Then it ends up ignoring the treats or bites the person teasing it. It’s torture 😂 Its literally night and day. Constant rejections and embarrassment and what many 20 year old men experience including myself. Was thinking if I save up enough I can get out of the west.

[@andrek6920]

@@gregwilliams4242 Id approach them. Not for what any of them are talking about though. All these women talking about how men should get into relationships when none of them are worthy of a relationship. Nah, Id approach them for sex. No way theyd get anything more from me though.

[@keithanderson6358]

My son had a girlfriend who would get busy with stuff and not have time for him but would expect him to loiter around and still be interested and attentive to her no matter what. But he got busy for only 2 weeks over the summer and didn’t talk to her as much and she gave him an ultimatum to shape up or she’d break up with him. I was proud that he told her to piss off for having a double standard. She wasn’t that wonderful, either, so I didn’t really see where she got off acting like that. Now my son feels like women are more trouble than they’re worth. Can’t say I blame him. These days a lot of women feel like the world needs to revolve around them when they don’t add a lot to the relationship other than complaining a lot about what they think they deserve. Good luck, ladies. Relationships take two people.

[@ryanlee2091]

I truly feel sorry for this generation…not that I had an easy time in dating but at least it was not this bad…

[@charr007]

This is another one, are using double standards

[@thierryfaquet7405]

Yeah that's 100% social media change. Women can have all the attention by just posting a photo on Instagram. They will have their little thirsty follower army (the hotter they are the bigger the army) validating them every single time. They are truly the center of their world, always. And for quit a lot of girls nowadays it's just hard to grasp that their SO aren't as available as the infinite amount of simps on the internet.

[@mafp22w]

@@ryanlee2091 Me too. I’m 63 and married almost 30 of them. My sons are 26 (CPA) and 23 (Electrical Engineer). They don’t date. And I don’t blame them. Why should they? What do women have to offer? I’m glad I had children and they mean a lot to me, but today, who in their right mind would want children growing up in this environment? If you don’t want to have children and raise a family, what do these women have to offer?

[@leob4543]

Well said, thanks for saying it just as it is.

[@threestars2164]

Dating apps operate on the same predatory mechanism that slot machines do.

[@gaozhi2007]

"What are you looking for in a man." "I have a whole document." 😂🤣😂

[@afranks4384]

I’ve been single/sexless for about 5 years now. I consider myself an old fashioned guy so hooking up and having sex with random people is not my thing. When I got dumped by my gf It had made me feel lonely a lot of the time for sure but it really helps you reevaluate everything in your life and make you work on yourself which I wouldn’t change for anything. Looking back now, it was a blessing in disguise. Nobody wants to be alone but the people that choose to be alone are the strongest willed people because they know what they are worth and what they can give and they just won’t give it to everybody.

[@yomangfoo1]

7 years here also an "old fashioned guy". When my loneliness finally evolved to peace and relaxation, passion and drive took over. Since then I became a co owner of an LLC I helped build, I own investment property in a different country as well property in the states, I own foreign cars and vintage motorcycles. Lately I've impressed myself with the amount of suffering and hard work i can take without cracking. Im hungry for more. All at the prime age of 32. LIFES GOOD! Keep learning, bleeding (metaphorically) and keep grinding kings! itll be all worth it at the end!

[@johnwalsh518]

Well said my friend. Women should always be an afterthought not you main focus. Work on yourself completely ignore women and they will come in the right time or if they don't then you are fine alone.

[@krisowy79]

5 years here - same thing - not interested in quick hook ups, I never was. But I'm also not interested in bending over backwards to reach someone's standards of what they think I suppose to be, or in being with someone for the sake of being with them. And breakups do really suck, both ways - they can take ages to recover from and are not worth it really. It takes times to tune into being alone, but once you've there for a while, it's very comforting a peaceful feeling to know that you don't really need anyone - it's very freeing not to be obsessed with something that most of the society is obsessed with.

[@artofmybody2882]

@@yomangfoo1 smart 👌 👏 when u do this.. and meet a good woman naturally.. y will know.. you'll b successful and won't have to deal with all the bullsh

[@artofmybody2882]

@@johnwalsh518 I agree.. although not quite an afterthought but a compliment to an already good life. I think some guys look to women as a savior of sorts and this is bound to backfire

[@laurentiutopriceanuguildwa8257]

“Men will always want to be a woman's first love while women would want to be men's last romance.” - Oscar Wilde.

[@saptaccrvima3563]

I guess this guy was smart enough to see this sooner and just turn towards men

[@andi8489]

...until they get bored being the last romance

[@miepmiep3017]

Strange, because that's not what men say in most comment sections I've checked. Most men say they can't be monogamous due to biology and will always desire other women. I've been told men want sex more than anything, with as many women as possible. BY MEN. Why starting to love when that's the case?

[@andi8489]

@@miepmiep3017 Of all the other guys i met in life, there were indeed some like that but i think those were about 10% of all, at most. Usually, those were the ones that looked the best and had the lowest morals.

[@noahm6782]

@@miepmiep3017 i think monogamy is the morally correct path, however by a woman's first love, he meant that the woman hasn't been with any other men. Men value purity whereas women don't tend to mind a guys past so long as she is his "final romance."

[@mikeshafer]

We're afraid of approaching women, not entirely out of fear of rejection, but out of fear of having the police called upon us. I remember I said hi to some girl at my college campus a few years back and she literally screamed and said "why are you talking to me?" really loud. A cop car drove by and I said "sir I literally just said hi to her." That was it.Thank you Courtney for pointing out how clueless women are when it comes to dating. I think the dating apps have gaslit every woman who is a 4 or above to think she's a 10 and will only talk to a Chad. Any other man is invisible to them: like me!

[@crymsonenigma]

Take it from an affluent, confident, and self-reliant individual. The level of peace that one experiences when not having to deal with elements that are constantly trying to realign their motivations is priceless. I personally chose to stop having sex because it creates a false sense of closeness that's not genuinely matured through learning who one another is. Only indulging in a person physically takes away from the true satisfaction found in discovering one another. Both sides tend to want the other side to professioanlly remedy each other's shortcomings as well. Society has made both sides far too sensitive to endure the growing pains necessary to develop a healthy relationship. Note: A woman working and being "able" to take care of themselves is only a valid argument for those only wanting to use a man for what they can provide. The example of male and female unions are seen from flowers to humans. IT'S AS NATURAL AS BREATHING.

[@MrAveryWatson]

Courtney, please gather some men from like 23-35 and ask them similar questions. We need women to understand that their perception of the current situation is way off.

[@sevensolaris]

And then play those videos of the men for the women and ask them what they think of the men's answers.

[@TheDefaultClass]

@@sevensolaris yes to both please

[@treyphipps1744]

I love how she asked what they think men want and they just regurgitated what they want. 😂

[@davidbolha]

Solipsism 😎

[@greatpower6063]

Well to be honest what men want is basically sex cause they don't care about women's feelings. You and most men would do better to listen to what women want and actually try to understand another person for reasons other than getting your dick sucked. IF you want a quickie and you have a shit personality as a dude; just go buy a ten minute session with a prostitute or something.

[@BoydSmash]

Hint: many of them think they know what they want but then want something else when they get it. Those people want one thing: More.

[@mrx-od3ji]

@@BoydSmash singel life is the best i dont need a woman to be happy im 43 years old i never dated and i dont want kids.

[@mikehawkins4752]

What men want is irrelevant to them.

[@TheSledgehammer2024]

I'm a guy... What bothers me is when women say a guy has to have a lot of ambition. But what if you live in a beautiful apartment, full of quiet/good neighbors, and you are happy where you live. But, if you move to a big pretty house you have awful neighbors, mold, bugs, and everything is far away and you are miserable? Why can't women be happy with men that just have enough to make a living without having that closet gold digger mentality in mind?

[@wayneborkovich3460]

When I was younger I thought everyone would find their partner but a woman pointed out to me that some people should really be by themselves. That some people are not capable of having a healthy relationship

[@tomsmithie3917]

"I DEMAND a man who has all the money, a bodybuilder physique, is 6'8" or taller, and loves to take me shopping and on expensive vacations." "What do you have to offer this man in return?" "Herpes."

[@privateprivate4378]

If anything at all really?

[@allopez8563]

@@privateprivate4378 well herpes is more like it. A strong, virulent, type 2 herpes virus strain.

[@halfmoon106]

Lol no girl actually says that.

[@liliencalvel6151]

You forgot, he's got to have a two by four

[@keigehiromitsu4722]

" I am the table" women's answer

[@beachbum1927]

Older guy here. Single, alone, and 98% drama free. I’d be really hard pressed to give up my peace for some mediocre woman.

[@Mr-S.C.]

Same here.. just stay strong and single.

[@Puzzoozoo]

Ditto, 6 weeks from retirement on Sunday, and I live a quiet and comfortable single life.

[@peoplethesedaysberetarded]

Yep.

[@mitchellcole832]

Us men are very logical, women are not. Our minds default to- The more I invest in something, the more I’ll get out of it. That is true for 99.9% of things…..except women. The opposite is true for women. Women like guys that don’t give af about them and those that invest little succeed, like Chad texting her at 2 A.M. just to bone. On the other hand, that guy that buys her chocolates and flowers...ain’t getting no play. Which is exactly why, women deserve less.

[@mementomori5374]

Same, protect your peace at all time

[@liamkeane4214]

totally agree with the social media "romanticizing fighting", good point

[@tomdolan9761]

Alone doesn’t correlate to loneliness for most men. As a matter of fact being with the wrong type of woman can be far more lonely than simply being alone.

[@neondystopian]

After watching this video, I have concluded that relationships are just not for me.

[@EJ257IHI]

Nothing wrong with that, I would just suggest trying the dating scene to see if it's for you, unless you already gave it a shot.

[@justcausee]

Don't listen to ^ stick with your initial reaction and never date. You'll be far better off and then someday if enough men leave the dating pool, maybe then women will the the error in their ways.

[@asparrow9876]

@@EJ257IHI ............................................................................😶😐

[@asparrow9876]

@@justcausee Amen. I swore off dating at 21, got red pilled at 19. Now I'm about to turn 30, never been in a relationship and I got tattoos of vows & promises to never: date, marry, cohabitate or get them pregnant. If I want a family in my late forties, I'm hiring all surrogates and buying/employing everything I need at fertility clinics.

[@justcausee]

@@asparrow9876 fk modern western women. We really just need to develop the artificial womb and render them wholly and completely obsolete. Enabling the creation of a female free society and giving men, for the first time, any sort of reproductive rights.

[@NeilTruick]

"Never ask a fish how to catch a fish." This was an interesting examination on what women _believe_ are the causes of this condition. The one area where I believe most of the women were completely unaware is what a man is looking for in a woman. Stella and Mansi, I believe, were the most clueless in this area. Men don't choose "independent, hard-working" women _because_ they have those qualities. Almost every woman identified those qualities as attractive when they were choosing men. The reason men don't value those qualities in women is because we don't directly benefit when our women have those qualities. If we, as men, are independent and hard-working, why would we choose someone who is going to be just as stressed out and tired as we are on a daily basis? If we don't have those qualities, why we choose someone who is going to view us as deficient in an area which determines how attractive they find us? Social media is a huge reason for this rise. Why? Dating has become an economy of scale. There was a time when you dated the people who were close: neighbors, workplace, church, group activities. Even if there was no one local, you had friends keeping their eyes out and facilitating introductions to people outside your immediate circle of contacts. Today, all you have to do is post a picture, fill out a short questionnaire, and you are--literally--on the market. All a woman has to do is swipe right and within 10 minutes, a date can be had. For men, it's not that simple. Even if you survive the swipe test, you still have to pass the gauntlet of mystery requirements she has. Don't forget about the ghosting risk: Men and women are both guilty of this, but women started it. *Bottom line:* A lot of men have realized the juice just isn't worth the squeeze, especially if they've been through a divorce. This video spent over 33 minutes talking about men and what women look for in men, but almost no time discussing what they expect to bring to a relationship or what makes them think they are ready not to be single. All of the things women tell men to do to make themselves more attractive to women are the things men probably should be doing for themselves, anyway. The pandemic and subsequent lockdown provided a practical example to a lot of men how to live their lives without pursuing women. On the whole, there's less drama, it's far cheaper, and more freedom to live their lives the way they want to live them. There is a difference between "lonely" and "alone". Give a man enough time and enough negative experiences with women, and that difference becomes crystal clear very quickly.

[@paulweeldreyer7457]

Correct, men (generally speaking) don't give a shit about a woman's career success. It's fine but not something we're really looking for. It doesn't make women more attractive to us (it might even make them less attractive).

[@robertmunger43]

Fucking well said. Women resist to look inward and admit their wrong and take that accountability. Their list of expectations will in the end keep them miserable and single.

[@faeantiks]

Top comment indeed.

[@gandalf3453]

someone needs to pin this comment... courtney!

[@WoodyPerfect]

well said but bro White Salesman: "accidentally" calls his Black neighbor the N-word *video on my channel*

[@garycunningham3490]

Men are not lonely most are pretty ok with time by themselves, I am happier living by myself and not having to put up with the daily drama women seem to want in their lives, peace and calmness is priceless for my sanity.

[@Anaximander9]

The second blonde, Lina, is the only girl here that has potential. She's thoughtful, considers the question asked and isn't full of herself. She's relationship material. The rest? Stay single guys.

[@hijones9420]

“If height is a total deal breaker then you know you’re not going to be comfortable with someone shorter than you then you shouldn’t go after that.” LMFAOOOOO imagine if I said having a flat ass is a total deal breaker and I’m not going after that how many female friends would I lose 😂😂😂 What y’all trippin about 👀

[@infiniteintent_]

Difference is that flat ass girls won’t be a deal breaker to most guys where as height will be to most girls.

[@jperryhal]

you don't need those flat @ss 304s anyway! 😂

[@EldritchPursuit]

Having female friends is a bad idea.

[@juliusernst]

@@EldritchPursuit why?

[@ilikepancakes2368]

@@infiniteintent_ So? Who cares if you lose female friends for saying you want a woman with a nice booty? You like what you like. We need to stop shaming people for just expressing their genuine desires. It just causes everyone to lie and mislead everyone else.

[@Waggehful]

New title for this video: 33 minutes of women being oblivious to the situation they created.

[@Clementkouroukis]

3rd wave Feminism and corrupt Hollywood created this problem.

[@randomhuman2595]

If you're not attractive it is your fault, that is what Jordan Peterson said

[@benjamintafari7047]

Acting oblivious

[@bad_writer]

“Situation they created” Lol keep blaming your problems on others, see if that fixes your problems

[@commandershepard9601]

@@bad_writer every fall of every great civilization began with giving women too much say in political matters. They destroy countries with their emotions and lack of logic, lack of foresight.

[@nicksoley]

That Monique girl is ridiculous. Imagine chalking up 45% of men between the ages of 18-40 as just “incels”. Amaaaazing

[@vegito8502]

Women “men approach us” also women: “Ewwww. that guy is creepy and scary. He’s not the guy I wanted to approach-sorry, not sorry”

[@cr41189]

If you ever wanted to know why more people are single, this video is why lol.

[@mitchellcole832]

Us men are very logical, women are not. Our minds default to- The more I invest in something, the more I’ll get out of it. That is true for 99.9% of things…..except women. The opposite is true for women. Women like guys that don’t give af about them and those that invest little succeed, like Chad texting her at 2 A.M. just to bone. On the other hand, that guy that buys her chocolates and flowers...ain’t getting no play. Which is exactly why, women deserve less.

[@lukebruce5234]

​@@mitchellcole832 How is it not logical that women want good looking men? If men could choose they too would pick the pretty girl over the less pretty one.

[@mateaukalua4426]

@@lukebruce5234 Luke as a guy whose 29 more things than looks matter. Maybe a 18 year old boy would but at this point in life that's childish. Looks and the whole package is rare. Just find someone who will treat you like a human being is already an 8/10 in itself in today's world. That's how bad things really are. And this is coming from a moderately handsome guy.

[@scottmescudi3423]

Ah ah good one.

[@michaelarojas]

​@@lukebruce5234they don't know what they want

[@DivineFrag]

Stella's 1st answer had me facepalming IRL because it sounds so tone-deaf. I cannot fathom somebody thinking that the reason why 1/3 of dudes aren't getting laid is because "women no longer deal with douchebags". The douchebags are the ones that were hitting your line to smash a couple years ago with no intention of giving you more. That just shows a complete lack of awareness - if I had to guess, a supermajority of that 1/3 would never even approach you. And I've lived that first hand: When I was near 300 pounds, I wasn't approaching you. When I didn't have my shit together financially, I wasn't approaching you. And I sure wasn't approaching you when I ran lobbies on Call of Duty or when I played Runescape with my e-friends. Douchebags can and will still get laid - whether it be through nagging or them exerting some type of "abnormal confidence" or them being actual F-boys.

[@wisetree5322]

Agree

[@meds888ful]

Was definitely a low IQ response by that girl. I don't think she listened to the question.

[@funkfarmer7125]

Modern Women: "We no longer deal w douchebags" Also Modern Women: " My triple digit body count is made up of mostly douchebags"

[@sam.shock924]

this ^^^

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

"Women no longer deal with douchebags" Yeah, and religion has been abolished in the middle east 😂

[@michaelpiwcewicz1412]

MEN AREN'T LONELY OR SEXLESS//AS LONG AS MEN HAVE MONEY THEY CAN RENT LOVE THE REPORT SAID

[@adamcarab]

@CourtneyRyan As an older gentleman, early 50s, looking for a partner, how does the younger outlook on dating and looking for a partner compare to the views of women around my age? Would you be willing to create a video with older women sharing their pov or suggest another channel for me to access?

[@tryksta7247]

Good God. Listening to these girls solves precisely nothing aside from reaffirming wanting to be alone lol.

[@lauraseidel9053]

I am a newly single woman and l've recently been on dating apps because l noticed that people weren't meeting in person as much...and after being on the aps for a while...l noticed something happening with alot of people on the app and even to myself...the longer l was on the app; l would breeze through all the profiles so quickly and yes...try to chat with some people...and even go on a few dates...but l noticed that the longer l did this...the less special the whole thing became...and everyone on the app...as well as I became very distracted...and kinda stuck in "roaming" mode...always looking for the next "best thing" l think thats what social media and these apps are doing to our brains...and l am a product of the 80's...and was never like this before. I think the romance and "specialness" has been taken out of the equation because of our fast- food dating practices...l hope people realize that we need to put down our phones and interact with eachother...simultaneously as l write this comment, ignoring the text messages that a potential soul- mate has just sent me!!!🤣

[@samuelzuleger5134]

I probably wouldn't try dating any of these girls after watching this video. What they need to realize is that a lot of us men are choosing to be alone because we think it is better than the alternative (myself included). A time will come when *they* will have no choice but to be alone because they won't get looks at clubs or swipes on apps. Also...we aren't "lonely." We can still have friends, family, and pets.

[@rutgerhauser2377]

@@lauraseidel9053 Dating apps have no intention of working. As working is antithetical to their business model. If they actually worked then they wouldn't have a market. They don't sell dates they sell hope. It's all about gamifying dating, making it less special, and having you spend as much time on the app as possible so they can shove more ads in your face.

[@thedeifiedjulius2310]

Haha !

[@InvestMyBuck]

yea the majority are really dumb whoa! Not a clue about the opposite sex.

[@OneAndOnlyMe]

I wonder if any of the women are aware that loneliness kills. It is literally one of the highest causes of suicide in men. But it can also kill from purely a physical impact too.

[@punapeter]

"I find it wholesome to be alone the greater part of the time. To be in company, even with the best, is soon wearisome and dissipating. I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude." HDT However when I was young I was a playboy* and it wasn't a problem.

[@charlesrichards1240]

I totally agree with HDT.

[@markt2398]

The dating scene has drastically changed in the last 10-15 years and has short circuited relations between the genders. Add social media nonsense and wide smart phone use into that as well. I'm 45 and remember how different it was in my 20's. The paradox of choice has really killed modern dating.

[@incurableromantic4006]

Absolutely. Dating apps have been an absolute disaster.

[@dedkat7]

It has, women are Chad-only now today. I'm not even saying it's a bad thing necessarily, it's the way it is, it's maybe even more natural

[@TheTseipii]

Could you tell us what was it like in your 20's.

[@pauliesk.7102]

For sure. People approach 'dating' now like they're buying something online from Amazon.

[@AmandaMG6]

@@TheTseipii we only had to choose from maybe a 25-30 person group and all IRL so bonding happened faster I think, more organically

[@anthony_stevens]

I honestly blame dating apps and social media, I think it's set unrealistic expectations for women, they're looking for someone who's a 9/10, but they're only a 6/7 themselves..

[@ryanlynch1567]

FACTS!

[@joeskeptical4762]

*Most women are 3 to 5 but deny it.*

[@boostedmaniac]

Those dating sites are garbage.

[@mamc1986]

so, I'm supposed to cheer for a fat, obese man, who plays video games all day, and expects a woman/his wife to look like a super model all the time? Uh, no. If he ends up with a super model looking wife, for the most part, its cause he has assets she's after.

[@anthony_stevens]

@@boostedmaniac never a truer word spoken, apps like tinder, bumble etc we're the beginning of the downfall, the old way was always better, and I'm 26 and saying this 😂

[@ROCKETS2965]

Hint: It's because the women who are completely undatable ruined it for the women who are.

[@MrSkarpy]

The vast majority of men are not looking for "Boss Ladies." That social expectation has nothing to do with men. If you are sitting at a boardroom table and there is a Woman CEO and a Woman Secretary, guess which one most men would consider as a viable partner.

[@EpicDadventures]

My jaw is on the floor with this one. 😳 I’m even in a committed relationship, and am aghast at how those interviewed talk about cultural trends towards female celibacy, “not needing a man for anything” and “keeping options open” while blaming men for all the problems. Wow. I honestly think we might be doomed. And by the way, I don’t see women as the problem, I see the takeover of social and romantic interactions by for-profit tech companies as spoiling everything.

[@jeffreyvonstetten5852]

Thank you 🙏

[@xcryosonx]

Female celibacy is a bit of a farce. There is a little bit of it going on, but let's not get it twisted women are the ones having far more sex than men on average who are the actual incels.

[@eveliinahannele]

@Dan T what is socially responsible behaviour? Suicide rate is indeed high for men but I see no real efforts from men to solve this problem. All I see is men like you complaining about women and why don't they care about these lonely men's peepees

[@eveliinahannele]

@Dan T so what is the problem here? That narcissist are better ar manipulating other people? What is your point?

[@Misaamanenoir]

@Dan T it's because women were oppressed.. Women literally weren't allowed any control over their own lives and still we struggle with equality today, especially black women. Also most men still see women as objects. Yall talk about us like objects, and compare us to objects, and try and treat us like objects and women just aren't taking it anymore. Why would we want to be with a man who only wants us for our body or who thinks that we need to not speak because yall don't value a woman's mind and soul. That's why it's so easy for men to transition to porn and sex robots in place of living women, because yall already see us as things. And also men are becoming more violent against women and psychologists are linking it to porn and sex dolls and the objectification of women.